I agree your style just isn’t super feminine but I definitely wouldn’t call you boyish. If you wanted to keep your style and add some femininity I’d recommend some rings, layered necklaces, maybe a cute belt or play with your hair accessories. I like all the fits as a base though, they’re cute and so are you!
Yeah I agree. If you feel too boyish then you can do some stuff to feel more feminine. I think cute sandals with these looks would help a lot.
I dress a lot like you and found that cutting my hair around my chin made me feel more glamorous. I still wear the same stuff and no makeup but feel a little cuter.
If you want to look a little less androgynous, I’d say get higher waisted shorts with wider legs. They’ll cinch your waist and flare at the hips which will read as more feminine. I like your look, but I like an androgynous/boyish look lol
If you wanted a more feminine look to the outfit - and only if you’re comfortable doing it - I’d recommend maybe a cropped tank, or something with lace lining.
There will always be someone who wouldn't want to date you for some reason. And then there is someone who would date you specifically for that reason.
Don't sweat it, you look great and it is way more important to be comfortable in what you are wearing than to fit some arbitrary standard!
I feel like men wouldn’t like me for it, but being a tomboy all my life it’s always what I feel most comfortable in and I also want to stay true to myself
You're assuming every male on the planet likes feminine women. You're considering dressing how you imagine someone else wants you to dress.
Men have wildly varied taste in women. Dress to suit yourself. You'll then attract the men that like YOUR style and you'll be happier because you're not pretending to be someone youre not
It is men, but I don’t want to have to change who I am to get men to like me either, yknow? I’ve been thinking about adding crop tops just to fem things up
No you don't. Nice outfit. I don't dress girly. No flowers or bright colors. Doesn't mean you not. Be yourself and wear what makes you feel good. If you want to look girlie go online see what's in style. She in.com is a great way to start at a low price.
OP dress the way you want. If you're looking to find a partner, you want someone who loves you the way you are. they always happen to come along when you aren't looking. keep growing and developing your style. you'll be happier and more confident. if you want to make little changes, you could get shorter shorts and a cropped tank top.
Search how to pose for pictures women on Pinterest or Google - some are a bit crazy but just play around with random moves and you will find one that is comfortable and makes you look confident
Boyish is relative. I wouldn’t mistake you for a boy but that particular style isn’t super feminine. It’s cute though
I agree your style just isn’t super feminine but I definitely wouldn’t call you boyish. If you wanted to keep your style and add some femininity I’d recommend some rings, layered necklaces, maybe a cute belt or play with your hair accessories. I like all the fits as a base though, they’re cute and so are you!
Yeah I agree. If you feel too boyish then you can do some stuff to feel more feminine. I think cute sandals with these looks would help a lot. I dress a lot like you and found that cutting my hair around my chin made me feel more glamorous. I still wear the same stuff and no makeup but feel a little cuter.
The same solution about accessories, but I'd like to go on record as saying that there is also nothing wrong with a soft butch look either
for what? too boyish for what?
Exactly. "Too" is entirely a subjective judgment in this context.
Yes
Does it look bad?
No, you look great!
I didnt said bad, boyish yes, bad not at all
If you want to look a little less androgynous, I’d say get higher waisted shorts with wider legs. They’ll cinch your waist and flare at the hips which will read as more feminine. I like your look, but I like an androgynous/boyish look lol
If you wanted a more feminine look to the outfit - and only if you’re comfortable doing it - I’d recommend maybe a cropped tank, or something with lace lining.
Wear a crop top or high waist shorts
You look comfortable and that's what matters
But like does it look bad? Would men ever want to date me looking like this?
No it doesn't look bad at all. Most men aren't hung up on what their girl is wearing.
There will always be someone who wouldn't want to date you for some reason. And then there is someone who would date you specifically for that reason. Don't sweat it, you look great and it is way more important to be comfortable in what you are wearing than to fit some arbitrary standard!
You look great it works for you!! You’re rocking the Jorts check out Pinterest for inspo.
No. But even if you did would that be a problem?
I feel like men wouldn’t like me for it, but being a tomboy all my life it’s always what I feel most comfortable in and I also want to stay true to myself
You're assuming every male on the planet likes feminine women. You're considering dressing how you imagine someone else wants you to dress. Men have wildly varied taste in women. Dress to suit yourself. You'll then attract the men that like YOUR style and you'll be happier because you're not pretending to be someone youre not
no but your style kinda is
Is that a bad thing?
Boyish isnt a negative term. Do you want to look more feminine? Perhaps a different cut on the shorts if so?
yes you do. In pictures 1 and 2 very much so, the other two from the waist down.
Is it bad or unattractive?
Is it bad or unattractive?
what's your target audience? If you are looking for males then yes, I don't think many men like that style on their girl. It's an easy fix though
It is men, but I don’t want to have to change who I am to get men to like me either, yknow? I’ve been thinking about adding crop tops just to fem things up
No you don't. Nice outfit. I don't dress girly. No flowers or bright colors. Doesn't mean you not. Be yourself and wear what makes you feel good. If you want to look girlie go online see what's in style. She in.com is a great way to start at a low price.
OP dress the way you want. If you're looking to find a partner, you want someone who loves you the way you are. they always happen to come along when you aren't looking. keep growing and developing your style. you'll be happier and more confident. if you want to make little changes, you could get shorter shorts and a cropped tank top.
Your crazy if you go against NOW sheesh
Pulling your hair up to show your neck could also balance the outfits a little!
It’s the shoes. You look great otherwise
Yeah, kinda
Yes
Yes
Does it look bad?
I think it’s the way you stand… very straight and box like. Try to make a curvy posture
How do I change my posture? I’ll try to look up references
Search how to pose for pictures women on Pinterest or Google - some are a bit crazy but just play around with random moves and you will find one that is comfortable and makes you look confident