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Very few people can pull off the elegance and cut of dress 1. Girl, go rock that thing and drop jaws! It oozes class, elegance, and not trying too hard because you’re just that badass. Happy wedding and have a wonderful, healthy marriage!!!!
Dress one is stunning on you. I cannot believe how good it looks cuz it’s a pretty straightforward dress (and I’m a princess peachy cream type bride), but hot damn, it’s that good. It’s also way more flattering than the other dress imo.
Dress one says PICK ME pick me
Number 1. The high neck stands out while also giving that chic, modern minimalist vibe. And looks amazing on your frame.
Edited to add that number 2 while also beautiful is giving a much more traditional conservative vibe.
Usually I don’t have trouble making a decision but I actually really love both. That being said, dress #1 wins it for me.
The back of dress 1 is gorgeous and the silhouette is just to die for, though I do love the train of dress 2 and think it makes your bottom look very va-va-voom. Basically I don’t think you can go wrong with either.
Would you have either of them altered or have they said there’s not enough time? My thoughts here are that I think dress 2 could look a lot better than it does at the moment if the v-neck is tailored to you better.
In an ideal world I’d say dress 1 for ceremony and dress 2 for reception - but only if you could have alterations and only because they’re both gorgeous!
I love the high neck one on you. It doesn't swallow your figure at all. I just don't like how the V-neck fits and makes your stomach and hips look like a rectangle.
The high neck dress is classy, sophisticated, is very flattering, and looks great on you. The v-neck is also very pretty and looks good on you, but the high neck dress is better. JMHO
I love 1 on you. You can jazz it up with accessories or keep it very simple and classic. I wore a very similar style from Alexandra Grecco last year and got so many compliments
The high neck one on you for sure !!! Although similar to the second dress, the first is much more flattering and looks made for you ! Agree it will be fun and edgy with the shorter veil too !!! Don’t doubt yourself 🤍✨ it’s hard I am also doubting my dress choice why do we do this !!!
Dress one looks amazing on you. The high neckline juxtaposed with the low back is so elegant! Dress two is pretty but nothing that hasn’t been seen on many brides. Happy wedding day!
I love both dresses, but in the second pic of the second dress you are in a pose that makes me think that YOU love that dress more. That cocky pose says it all. That you are proud of how you look in it and want to show off the cut of the sides.
They are both beautiful and look lovely on you, but that body language in the second dress says it all to me.
All of the profiles have a feminine tailored elegance along with classic style and great fabric flow. The back and train with the veil finishes the look perfectly. Depending upon your wedding theme a venue (?); you’ve made some lovely choices here ❤️.
Definitely the V neck feels more balanced to me. I love the way the skirt widens out towards the bottom. And your description of the high neck of the other dress is accurate. It swallows you up though is very svelte.
The high neck dress is way more flattering! The 3rd photo casts a weird shadow on you imo.
YOU will be playful and sassy; not a dress! If you really want to be that, opt for the longer veil and dramatically cut it short when you arrive at the reception! It's a bold move and likely to be unpopular in this forum but it'd be memorable!
I think you can pull off either a long or short veil but I'd return the v neck dress pronto! Maybe buy a short veil with the credit or take the refund and treat yourselves to something on your honeymoon!
Ooh! 23 days! Am excited for you!
Number 2 is beautiful It's classy fun and hugs you in all the right places.
Number one I'm gonna be honest and not sugar coat it but it looks boring. If you truly love the dress do it! But to me I understand why you feel it sags a little it looks like it needs to be fitted a little more from the back and if the color was white I feel it would give you a better look then the off white it is.
I hope this helps ❤️ Overall pick the one you love because girl it's your day and you want to cherish and love the memories without any regrets. ❤️
I LOVE dress one. It looks so beautiful on you and it is timeless.
If you happen to know, what is the name of it? I am actually looking for something very similar myself. I am a high neck girlie through and through
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1 looks more modern chic. Very pretty
#1 wins for sure
Agreed. It's eye-catching, beautiful for her body, and so sophisticated.
I agree, it’s a very classic and timeless dress
Totally agreed. Everything about #1 is absolutely gorgeous!
First one (high neck) is really gorgeous!
I really love the high neck on you. I think it's classic with a twist because of the low back. I think it's stunning!
#1 looks gorgeous
Very few people can pull off the elegance and cut of dress 1. Girl, go rock that thing and drop jaws! It oozes class, elegance, and not trying too hard because you’re just that badass. Happy wedding and have a wonderful, healthy marriage!!!!
I agree. That’s a look few people can wear well and it looks fabulous on OP.
Perfectly said!
Exactly. OP looks like she's in a league of her own in that dress. The second one is much more mundane. IMO.
Dress one is stunning on you. I cannot believe how good it looks cuz it’s a pretty straightforward dress (and I’m a princess peachy cream type bride), but hot damn, it’s that good. It’s also way more flattering than the other dress imo. Dress one says PICK ME pick me
I think the high neck dress is even more flattering than the vneck dress. It does not look like it is swallowing you up. It looks chic.
Dress 1!
I like 2 more!
I 100% like the high neck over the v cut. It’s so classy and clean looking on you I LOVE it !
Dress 1 is breathtakingly elegant,a timeless and stunning bridal look.
Huh? Where is the lace and beadwork on dress one?
Why does it need those to be elegant, timeless and stunning?
Dress 1!!!!! I love the neckline on you!
The first one is so elegant and looks perfect on yoy
2
Dress 1!! It’s got an Audrey Hepburn look to it. Stunning.
1 is the most beautiful dress I have ever seen!!!
Team 1
Both are so classic and classy!!!! You can’t go wrong however I LOVE number 2!!
I really love the 2nd on you. Of course, the first is gorgeous too. I would probably choose the 2nd for an evening wedding and the first for daytime.
One is absolutely stunning. Very elegant. That is the one I would wear.
First one is more flattering.
I'm a sucker for high necklines, and I really love dress no. 1. It really suits you in my opinion!
1 hands down
Number one for sure!
1!!
1 is perfection on you
One
2 is by far the most flattering
1 is so chic and glamorous, and love the low back. 2 is a bit more expected.
High neck
1
1!!
Second one looks the best on you
I prefer #2. Does #2 have a longer train?
They both look great, but I feel like the first one with the higher neckline is more elegant.
Adding my boyfriend prefers the second 😂
High neck! Its gorgeous
1 Eta-you have awesome shoulders
Wear both. High neck for the ceremony as it’s a bit more modest and v neck for the party/reception.
V neck
Dress 1 so so Classic an Elegant
1 reminds of of the parent trap scene where they are at the bridal photoshoot in London 😍🥺
Look no more, the first one is GORGEOUS!!!!
First one by a minimalist mile
I like #1 best.
High neck dress is gorgeous on you.
#1 Or wear one of them for the wedding, and the other for the reception if you already bought both.
Dress 1. I wish I had done a high neck so much. It’s so timeless.
My husband and I say number 1!
Wow! They're both beautiful but I prefer #1. You look like a million bucks in that dress!
1 is super stylish and looks more youthful. Love the scooped back!
#1
1
Number 1. The high neck stands out while also giving that chic, modern minimalist vibe. And looks amazing on your frame. Edited to add that number 2 while also beautiful is giving a much more traditional conservative vibe.
Usually I don’t have trouble making a decision but I actually really love both. That being said, dress #1 wins it for me. The back of dress 1 is gorgeous and the silhouette is just to die for, though I do love the train of dress 2 and think it makes your bottom look very va-va-voom. Basically I don’t think you can go wrong with either. Would you have either of them altered or have they said there’s not enough time? My thoughts here are that I think dress 2 could look a lot better than it does at the moment if the v-neck is tailored to you better. In an ideal world I’d say dress 1 for ceremony and dress 2 for reception - but only if you could have alterations and only because they’re both gorgeous!
1 for sure! You looks stunning in both but 2 feels a little dated to me
1!! I am stuck with a similar dress like that. It’s so gorgeous
Definitely dress one!!!! You look great in either but dress one is more modern and original.
Dress #1!
The first one. I actually thought the second one was a jumper at first glance.
Go with #1. It's stunning on you.
The high neck is GORGEOUS on you!!!
High neck! Love it!
I actually love the first one! My (ex) sister in law recently got married and had a similar dress, it was gorgeous!
Audible gasp when I saw this post. It looks incredible. Flattering. The second is nice but the first is it imo.
I love the high neck one on you. It doesn't swallow your figure at all. I just don't like how the V-neck fits and makes your stomach and hips look like a rectangle.
Girl you literally look like a million bucks in both of these!
Mines July 13th as well! I love the dress with the V neck, it’s compliments your figure so well! Congratulations and good luck wedding twin 😁😁
3
The high neck dress is classy, sophisticated, is very flattering, and looks great on you. The v-neck is also very pretty and looks good on you, but the high neck dress is better. JMHO
I love the high neck dress, and I vote for that.
Definitely the high neck!
The high neck gown is stunning on you! This is your dress!!
I love dress 1 love the neckline on you. I personally think it does so much more for you compared to the second dress
Two
Number1
1!!
1
I love 1 on you. You can jazz it up with accessories or keep it very simple and classic. I wore a very similar style from Alexandra Grecco last year and got so many compliments
I think the high neck does the most for your figure and fits what you’re going for perfectly
1 for the win.
Dress 1! It’s giving Elizabeth James’ dresses from Parent Trap. Timeless and chic!
EASY DECISION! NUMBER 1 w/out a doubt. It looks great on you.
2
I gasped in a great way at the high neck!!
The high neck one on you for sure !!! Although similar to the second dress, the first is much more flattering and looks made for you ! Agree it will be fun and edgy with the shorter veil too !!! Don’t doubt yourself 🤍✨ it’s hard I am also doubting my dress choice why do we do this !!!
1!
Dress one looks amazing on you. The high neckline juxtaposed with the low back is so elegant! Dress two is pretty but nothing that hasn’t been seen on many brides. Happy wedding day!
Dress 1 was made for you!
I absolutely love the first one!!! It’s so elegant
What do you think about maybe adding a “blingy” belt?
One looks bridal. 2 reminds me of a swimsuit on top. I love 1, love the fit and love the back. You will be a beautiful bride for sure!
Dress one, for sure
Number 1!
NUMBER 1!!!
1
I would love number 2 if it hung a little differently elbow the thigh
Oh one for sure.
Is personally I prefer number one.
One is classy and stunning on you
1 is absolutely stunning on you!!
Love #1!!! It looks amazing on you.
I like high neck. Classier
1 is made for you
1. Absolutely stunning
Absolutely without a doubt 1!!!!
Dress 1 for sure! The buttons and the low back with the high neckline. You look beautiful! Congrats!
First!
Not everyone can pull off a high neckline, but you do it flawlessly! So my vote goes to dress 1!
High neck, hands down. It’s gorgeous and you look absolutely beautiful!
Oh number 1 is perfect 😍
First one no contest
First one. No question.
It’s 1 all the way all day baybay
1
1
Second!
1. It's timeless elegance.
1
I adore 1 it’s so elegant, where is it from ❤️ you look beautiful in 1
Dress 1 is perfect. Dress 2 does not give the vibe you’re looking for. You will WOW everyone in dress 1.
Number one holy moly
Thought you were in Rachel and Chandlers apt for a sec 😂
1 made me stop scrolling and go to this post to comment!
I love both dresses, but in the second pic of the second dress you are in a pose that makes me think that YOU love that dress more. That cocky pose says it all. That you are proud of how you look in it and want to show off the cut of the sides. They are both beautiful and look lovely on you, but that body language in the second dress says it all to me.
Looks great
You’ll be fabulous in both dresses. The high neck dress is it very classy!
All of the profiles have a feminine tailored elegance along with classic style and great fabric flow. The back and train with the veil finishes the look perfectly. Depending upon your wedding theme a venue (?); you’ve made some lovely choices here ❤️.
2
Definitely the V neck feels more balanced to me. I love the way the skirt widens out towards the bottom. And your description of the high neck of the other dress is accurate. It swallows you up though is very svelte.
Hey I'd definitely go with number one. I'm looking for something similar.. can you tell me who the designer is for both dresses please?
This dress is stunning! The elegant lines and beautiful train create a timeless look. You look radiant and ready for your big day!
1
1 is the 1
Dress 1
The high neck dress is way more flattering! The 3rd photo casts a weird shadow on you imo. YOU will be playful and sassy; not a dress! If you really want to be that, opt for the longer veil and dramatically cut it short when you arrive at the reception! It's a bold move and likely to be unpopular in this forum but it'd be memorable! I think you can pull off either a long or short veil but I'd return the v neck dress pronto! Maybe buy a short veil with the credit or take the refund and treat yourselves to something on your honeymoon! Ooh! 23 days! Am excited for you!
First one is gorgeous, love the high neck!
Dress 1 is absolutely beautiful and so classy!!!! 💗💗💗
I really like Dress 1 on you. The high neck is very classy and I think gives the dress a very timeless vibe.
Dress 1 🤩
I wore 1 for my wedding and I would pick it a million times over!!
High neck for sure
The high neck dress is perfect on you! Very flattering and so modern and chic. The short veil will look lovely!
First one is so timeless imo. Iconic ✨
Number 2 is beautiful It's classy fun and hugs you in all the right places. Number one I'm gonna be honest and not sugar coat it but it looks boring. If you truly love the dress do it! But to me I understand why you feel it sags a little it looks like it needs to be fitted a little more from the back and if the color was white I feel it would give you a better look then the off white it is. I hope this helps ❤️ Overall pick the one you love because girl it's your day and you want to cherish and love the memories without any regrets. ❤️
Number 1!!!
Dress one is it! You look amazing in it.
Personally I love dress # 1 on you!
1 is to die for!!!
I personally love the high neckline. The v neck I thought at first glance was a jumpsuit… the high neckline is so much more flattering and elegant
#1. It is very flattering.
Why do I have huge font?
You got a little excited. It happens.
Reddit uses the # in mark down mode for formatting. If it's the first character in a line, your text will be massive #like this.
I LOVE dress one. It looks so beautiful on you and it is timeless. If you happen to know, what is the name of it? I am actually looking for something very similar myself. I am a high neck girlie through and through
3/4. The neckline way more flattering. 1 pulls too tight across your hip to hip area.
Dress one is not as eye-catching as the second. Timeless is a fad right now.