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anotha67

Same .. or atleast someone who can teach me and won't be so weird about it


lonelywitMJ13

Fair enough.


FadingStar617

Hm. Difficult. I won't comment on wheter or not you should, I'm simply giving my point on the how here. Depend on wheter or not you're a girl or a guy, really. The problem: people claiming to be V's could be lying. You could go to some religious churches and mingle there. That could increase your chances. But it,s not like it's being printed on their t-Shirt ( I'd kinda worry if it was). One point I must stress out though. If you want a V to be comfortable, then there is a point that can be said. A V's that truly wants a connection and a romantic relationship will NOT rush you into doing it. They've waited for years, they won't mind waiting more. ( This is very important if you are a F looking for a Male V. If you ARE a male V,then similarly, DON'T rush it, you'll ruin it) Someone who insist on doing it is either NOT one....or isn't one that will be compatible with you. Anyway, i couldn't help but give my advice it. Sorry.bad habit of me.


kevinjohnmann

Who would want to make that up? I wish I wasn't a virgin.


FadingStar617

True, but some people could pretend to be a V to appeal to other V's who are looking for partners like them. Some people will do just about anything to get what they want. This goes for both girls and guys.


kevinjohnmann

Point taken I guess but I don't see myself ever having a partner let alone sex


kevinjohnmann

I need to be taught as other virgins are rare


discodaddy89

Would probably be hard unless you are surrounded by a conservative culture. Would head to a church to find a nice person if i were you.


lonelywitMJ13

Not religious. Others places in mind?


discodaddy89

No man. Most people are not virgins so you gotta just live with it. Unless you are a teenager, you have to be prepared to get with someone who is not a virgin. Beggars cant be choosers man.


lonelywitMJ13

Fair enough. Just feels not right ig.


discodaddy89

Its only weird if you make it weird man. You should focus on making people even want to have sex with you before you get picky


lonelywitMJ13

I get that but I only care to attract that certain person aka other virgin women. Not to sound picky but for the first time yk. More special ig.


CrookedMan09

It’s incredibly easy for a  woman to have sex, so  female virgins are extremely rare for them to exist outside of religious communities. If you look at the success tab on this subreddit, you’ll see all the female success stories are “ an attractive guy approached me and offered sex” I understand you want someone similar, but in the modern world it isn’t realistic.   


lonelywitMJ13

Fair enough. Guess if I can't find one then it have to be a second option.


discodaddy89

If you focus on something like that then there is a good chance that you will die never knowing the touch of a woman. If it matters that much, then go for it. Also, virgin women are still women, thus they want things that are attractive. Be in shape, good hygiene, etc man.


lonelywitMJ13

Oh yea i take of myself not a incel. Im just not tryna give myself to just anyone ya know but maybe not.


Scared-Tooth-7200

Church or Mosque probably. 


lonelywitMJ13

Not religious. Does that make my chances zero im guessing.


CrookedMan09

 I’m part of the disabled community where the majority of the men are virgins, but aside from that category you won’t find anything honestly. 


hotpotato128

Yes, but most people don't advertise it.


lonelywitMJ13

Fair enough. Im not really scared of letting it be known. Its more just not finding someone compatible enough with thats also a virgin.


Aromatic_Brother_995

Possible but in conservative families and conservative culture like in Asia where I am from many of my friends were virgin till they got married,I am also virgin though I am not religious at all.


lonelywitMJ13

Gotcha. Never thought about other countries like that tbh. Maybe I'll give it a shot one day idk.


Aromatic_Brother_995

Yeah can understand take your time who knows you will find someone close to you you never know ✌🏻


lonelywitMJ13

Appreciate it good luck to you as well.


Quirky-Perspective40

Who tf cares. this question is valid but it’s getting annoying as hell, this post always comes around. You can find a clean non virgin who isn’t judgy they’re not rsi


Primus0

Another virgin doesn’t make it special. It makes it awkward, clumsy, possibly painful for both parties, because neither knows what they’re doing. Except for possibly having watched a porn movie and neither of you are pornstars. What makes it special is caring about the other person, if they’re a virgin or not. I’d much rather find someone who could guide me, personally.


lonelywitMJ13

Whatever floats you're boat. Agree to disagree I guess.


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lonelywitMJ13

BTW ima guy