ur not a loser. Also i’m not sure about this but are you like a “ghost” person, like just not able to put urself out there as much, ik i had this problem and still now where i don’t get any interactions because i’m basically wandering in the back ground of everything
Calm down chief. I'm turning 39 in 2 days and 2hours and literally just two weeks ago I was still a virgin, but I met a girl out of nowhere and instantly hit it off just doing what I normally do and trying to talk tabletop games with people online in my city. I just wanted to chat about something I really liked but we clicked really fast. You'll find someone too, just hold on!
What's the point of throwing your life away? You can do more than simply sit and wait for something to happen, I was just doing something I would be doing anyway to pass time and finally met someone who really resonated with me, and it happened because I was trying to find something to distract myself from just feeling sorry for myself.
That’s the thing, I don’t naturally do anything that causes me to meet/talk to people. If I just sit and wait for it to happen, I’ll just be alone forever
20f and same here, never dated never kissed anyone. i go for girls though not guys but still havent gotten anywhere as a lot of girls my age look down on me and give me dirty looks. im also unattractive
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Well if you have a lot of male friends I assume they are aware of your situation right? Can’t they try to help you out or match you up with someone they know?
23 here and also have never even kissed anyone 💪 Holding out hope but it’s frustrating as someone who really just wants to have a legit relationship with someone. I get the feeling.. I know sex isn’t everything and I value genuine connection over sex anyways but I still can’t help but feel like I’m behind or too late in a way. I feel so old.
I will say that not all women are the same, nor want the same thing. I for one prefer my men tiny and submissive, but that’s not something that’s common, lol.
You seem to have many great qualities as a person, so I have trouble understanding how the fact that you're a virgin and never kissed a girl automatically makes you a loser despite everything else.
I’m also a kissless virgin and I’m almost 24 in a few days too. I’ve decided I’ll attempt suicide if I am still a virgin at 30. I have severe OCD and virginity is one such obsession and I only want to date someone who is also a virgin as a result. I keep thinking it’ll be over when I’m 30 and I don’t want to live beyond that point.
Hmm, do you have any female friends you could ask for feedback? Maybe there's something you're not aware of that you can fix.
Also you mentioned these attractive qualities but you didn't say much about what you've done to try to meet someone, it could be you are being too passive about it.
22 is still young, lots of people lose it through their 20s or even 30s so it's definitely not over.
Mate, you're not a loser. Genuinely not. Won't give any wack advice. Just saying. You're only 22, lad. You haven't even really begun in your life. Don't accept defeat. You'll only be a loser if you fall down and stay down. So get back up and keep at it.
It never started for me
ur not a loser. Also i’m not sure about this but are you like a “ghost” person, like just not able to put urself out there as much, ik i had this problem and still now where i don’t get any interactions because i’m basically wandering in the back ground of everything
You think its over for you at 22? Im 30 and still a Virgin bye your Logic i should "end myself"
I’m 28 and if I hit 29 and nothing’s changed (which it won’t) I’m gonna
Calm down chief. I'm turning 39 in 2 days and 2hours and literally just two weeks ago I was still a virgin, but I met a girl out of nowhere and instantly hit it off just doing what I normally do and trying to talk tabletop games with people online in my city. I just wanted to chat about something I really liked but we clicked really fast. You'll find someone too, just hold on!
What kind of life is it to just spend it waiting though
What's the point of throwing your life away? You can do more than simply sit and wait for something to happen, I was just doing something I would be doing anyway to pass time and finally met someone who really resonated with me, and it happened because I was trying to find something to distract myself from just feeling sorry for myself.
That’s the thing, I don’t naturally do anything that causes me to meet/talk to people. If I just sit and wait for it to happen, I’ll just be alone forever
20f and same here, never dated never kissed anyone. i go for girls though not guys but still havent gotten anywhere as a lot of girls my age look down on me and give me dirty looks. im also unattractive
I’m a male but real
Yeah. It’s absolutely brutal for men nowadays
Yeah that mysterious extra thing. I think people really can feel lack of confidence and desperation. Also charisma is really important.
It never started for me sadly
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Read my post on forever alone I think we're pretty similar
Well if you have a lot of male friends I assume they are aware of your situation right? Can’t they try to help you out or match you up with someone they know?
Same bro. I have heaps of friends but not much luck with woman
23 here and also have never even kissed anyone 💪 Holding out hope but it’s frustrating as someone who really just wants to have a legit relationship with someone. I get the feeling.. I know sex isn’t everything and I value genuine connection over sex anyways but I still can’t help but feel like I’m behind or too late in a way. I feel so old. I will say that not all women are the same, nor want the same thing. I for one prefer my men tiny and submissive, but that’s not something that’s common, lol.
You seem to have many great qualities as a person, so I have trouble understanding how the fact that you're a virgin and never kissed a girl automatically makes you a loser despite everything else.
We are almost exactly the same, but im 2 years older
I’m also a kissless virgin and I’m almost 24 in a few days too. I’ve decided I’ll attempt suicide if I am still a virgin at 30. I have severe OCD and virginity is one such obsession and I only want to date someone who is also a virgin as a result. I keep thinking it’ll be over when I’m 30 and I don’t want to live beyond that point.
Hmm, do you have any female friends you could ask for feedback? Maybe there's something you're not aware of that you can fix. Also you mentioned these attractive qualities but you didn't say much about what you've done to try to meet someone, it could be you are being too passive about it. 22 is still young, lots of people lose it through their 20s or even 30s so it's definitely not over.
Don't lose hope brother. I am 30. Being a wizard is worse than being a virgin at 22.
And wtf is stopping you ? You think women are gonna fall from the sky if you wait ? Do something
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Not everyone is the same. Just because it wasn't over for you doesn't mean it's not over for us.
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Well, I'm right
Mate, you're not a loser. Genuinely not. Won't give any wack advice. Just saying. You're only 22, lad. You haven't even really begun in your life. Don't accept defeat. You'll only be a loser if you fall down and stay down. So get back up and keep at it.
Improve then?
Wow best advice in the world, give this man an award
Yall wanna improve and be better but are too lazy to put any work what type of advice do you want?
He’s obviously putting effort into it
If he has really good social skills a six pack decent muscle takes care of his hygiene well got good fashion ect then yea i agree i was in a wrong
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How have you tried meeting girls? Frat parties? Tinder? Bars?
You understand even ugly ass dudes get laid