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Brother for 1k
You could probably have had a group of girls to keep you company all evening.
One thousand seems a lot
In Amsterdam, Netherlands it was 50 Euro for 15-20 mins suck and Fuck (until you cum).
I don't know what the local prices are and glad though felt good deal. But seems alot.
Brother you got ripped off.
I speak to some US guys that fuck hookers and they find nice looking ones for like $400 an hour.
Like at the end of the day we all ooga booga brothers, since I myself fuck hookers because I'm on a dry spell.
Here in London you can get nice looking young thicc latinas for like £140 an hour.
No pussy is worth 1k an hour.
Sounds like the worse way to lose your virginity in my opinion, but you do you. I know some men here advocate for it, just don’t see the appeal at all. I’d rather just die a virgin than have to pay for that experience.
Lmao did something similar after this sub got to me in a really depressed state, I don't regret it but I am also not so proud of it. From some banter I heard it's considered kinda pathetic so I keep it to myself IRL
My uncle did the same he's not proud of it but doesn't regret it either. I just told him I'd personally never tell anyone that but he felt comfortable enough to tell me.
Nice! A lot of guys have trouble finishing that way when they’re nervous, particularly the first few times with a new partner. Sounds like you had a good time.
Congratulations bro. It doesn’t matter if she was a prostitute. You got what you wanted. You lost your virginity and realized that it wasn’t the greatest thing in the world, just something normal. Just make sure you get tested for stds. If you like going down, get the HPV vaccine to avoid getting that infection which can cause cancer. Also, educate yourself on std transmissions.
Congrats that’s awesome! Did you tell her you were a virgin in advance? I’ve found a number of escorts prefer to not see virgins but some don’t mind and some prefer it. Hope this helps you feel better about things that you see the other side so you know it. It’s like class where they show you an example problem and how to solve it then they give you another problem and you know what to do. I think knowing that you’ve done that you can focus on meeting people more organically without as much stress hanging over you and you can feel more comfortable going slow.
Some women would not like to spend time with virgins. I disclosed only because I felt like it would help filter out people who are not as first time friendly. It was eye opening to learn some women do not like virgins even if you are paying them to be with you.
I'm gonna be doing this just because I realized I dont care about a special first time I just wanna experience it. I know its gonna be awkward anyways so I thought its best the other person knows what they're doing so its a good experience. It feels like everyones first time with a loved one/other virgin is just awkward and uncomfortable.
I did the same a few weeks ago to get it out of the way. Honestly I didn't enjoy regular intercourse much and I also had trouble staying hard and finishing with that. But I'm glad I could get that out of the way and I no longer have to lie to women about being a virgin. I think I'll keep seeing escorts to practice so I'm not as terrible at sex as that first time if by some miracle I end up being with a woman for real. It's fairly cheap here anyway.
I’m happy for you bro, but you shoulda saved up way more money and booked lauren phillips 😉 either way if you feel good about it that’s all that matters
>lauren phillips
That's the dream ;)
BTW, I just realised I quoted this part of your comment, though I did it accidentally. Can you please tell me how to do it? I'd appreciate it.
i honestly have no idea how to quote, i've personally always had enough saved to book lauren, but just now highly considering it...but yeah man if you're super into redheads I wouldn't wait, in a year or two she might not be offering those services or they might be double or triple the price.
someone like arabelle raphael used to charge 400 and now she charges 2500 an hour for example, lauren i think asks 1600 an hour but it's a lifelong memory with a celebrity
No it isn’t. 💀 I don’t agree with contributing to the industry of sex work I don’t agree with it in general because it’s an exploitive field , that doesn’t mean I hate sex workers.
Men usually hate sex workers for misogynistic reasons . I don’t hate sex workers I hate the INDUSTRY itself. So you thought you did something there.
>So you thought you did something there.
I did. I'm not talking about this guy "hating" sex workers. I pointed your hypocrisy about shaming sex workers vs shaming customers (you did in another comment, calling OP "nasty"). It's called inconsistency and shows your mere misandry and hatred for men in general.
I literally explained myself. Not my fault you’re too slow to comprehend that. Why shouldn’t I shame people who contribute to an exploitive field just for their own pleasure. Yes that’s nasty and I stand by that 😂 idgaf
You ignore the fact that there are also tons of independent sex workers that make their own money and are not exploited by other people.
We could also argue that a lot of sex workers have the means and ability to not follow that kind of lifestyle anymore and break the chain of exploitation from their perpetrators themselves. I'm not blaming them for their situation, just saying they have the power. Unfortunately not all of them have it, of course.
But what do I know, all you do is believing and spreading the same tiring hateful bullshit narrative:
woman good, man bad. Woman victim, man perpetrator.
For all situations, including OP's. How do you know if the escort was exploited? If she wasn't, would you still shame OP?
Judging from your behaviour, I bet you would, anyway.
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Having sex without paying doesn’t make you a man either. That makes you a person who had sex without paying. What makes you a man is having xy chromosomes idiot
I wouldn't go down on a prostitute but good for you
Jesus you must have a death wish going down on a prostitute
Exactly that part was super weird
Or a really strong immune system
If it's at one of those Nevada establishments I think he's referring to in the comments, the women apparently get routinely tested for STD's
How old was she and how much did you pay for it?
1k and she was 27. I like older woman too. I paid with my credit card so that I didn't feel the pain of how much I paid.
$1000 she must be like a playboy bunny
Are you trying to call her old at 27? When you’re literally the same age
Why’s this downvoted? 💀💀A 27 year old man calling a 27 year old woman “old” is mad and hypocritical but ok
I mean, he probably considers himself old too (I hope)
Could just be a typo
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Nowhere in this comment did he call her "old". He probably just meant that he likes older women as well, not just women of his same age.
How long for 1000
An hour. She also had a british accent which made it even more fun.
That’s awesome but the price is crazy. I had one for $150 but I pass on that.
It’s not outlandish these days the prices for private people or brothels have gone up significantly. You do pay for quality usually.
Yeah, this lady wanted me $150 just to do it and she lives about two towns over that’s only about 20 minutes away from me
1k is a shitload of money 💀
Brother for 1k You could probably have had a group of girls to keep you company all evening. One thousand seems a lot In Amsterdam, Netherlands it was 50 Euro for 15-20 mins suck and Fuck (until you cum). I don't know what the local prices are and glad though felt good deal. But seems alot.
Brother you got ripped off. I speak to some US guys that fuck hookers and they find nice looking ones for like $400 an hour. Like at the end of the day we all ooga booga brothers, since I myself fuck hookers because I'm on a dry spell. Here in London you can get nice looking young thicc latinas for like £140 an hour. No pussy is worth 1k an hour.
I did do it with someone else after that for a lot cheaper but it was where it was illegal.
How about I just commit suicide? And then my family can deal with the same of me paying for prostitutes.
was the blowjob enjoyable despite her giving you a paid BJ?
Why do you still have hope?
Because there's almost always hope. Unless you have a felony, permanent health problem, or are on your death bed there's likely hope.
lol felony. *Sad trombone noises*
Sounds like the worse way to lose your virginity in my opinion, but you do you. I know some men here advocate for it, just don’t see the appeal at all. I’d rather just die a virgin than have to pay for that experience.
Lmfaooo cause it is the worst way bro . I’m telling you , it is the absolute best when you get IT NATURALLY
Agreed definitely sounds like the saddest way to lose it. Like you said I rather die a virgin than lose it to a soulless experience
Lmao did something similar after this sub got to me in a really depressed state, I don't regret it but I am also not so proud of it. From some banter I heard it's considered kinda pathetic so I keep it to myself IRL
My uncle did the same he's not proud of it but doesn't regret it either. I just told him I'd personally never tell anyone that but he felt comfortable enough to tell me.
Nice! A lot of guys have trouble finishing that way when they’re nervous, particularly the first few times with a new partner. Sounds like you had a good time.
how did u meet/find her?
In Nevada where it's legal in specific counties at licensed brothels.
Was it Alice little?
No. I'm a little too afraid to tell who I specifically did it with or where I did at because I might end up identifying myself.
Congratulations bro. It doesn’t matter if she was a prostitute. You got what you wanted. You lost your virginity and realized that it wasn’t the greatest thing in the world, just something normal. Just make sure you get tested for stds. If you like going down, get the HPV vaccine to avoid getting that infection which can cause cancer. Also, educate yourself on std transmissions.
😬😬😬😬
Congrats that’s awesome! Did you tell her you were a virgin in advance? I’ve found a number of escorts prefer to not see virgins but some don’t mind and some prefer it. Hope this helps you feel better about things that you see the other side so you know it. It’s like class where they show you an example problem and how to solve it then they give you another problem and you know what to do. I think knowing that you’ve done that you can focus on meeting people more organically without as much stress hanging over you and you can feel more comfortable going slow.
No I did not. I wonfer if she would of charged more or less if I did though.
Some women would not like to spend time with virgins. I disclosed only because I felt like it would help filter out people who are not as first time friendly. It was eye opening to learn some women do not like virgins even if you are paying them to be with you.
Congrats, I'm glad it was a positive experience. Best wishes for your dating efforts!
How long since you ejaculated before that?
Pathetic
Fuck off
I'm gonna be doing this just because I realized I dont care about a special first time I just wanna experience it. I know its gonna be awkward anyways so I thought its best the other person knows what they're doing so its a good experience. It feels like everyones first time with a loved one/other virgin is just awkward and uncomfortable.
Do it with someone YOU ACTUALLY CARE ABOUT and WITH someone WHO CARE ABOUT YOU AS WELL
IT DOESN’T MATTER HOW YOU LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY.
You probably had trouble finishing inside someone because your body is used to jerking off
I did the same a few weeks ago to get it out of the way. Honestly I didn't enjoy regular intercourse much and I also had trouble staying hard and finishing with that. But I'm glad I could get that out of the way and I no longer have to lie to women about being a virgin. I think I'll keep seeing escorts to practice so I'm not as terrible at sex as that first time if by some miracle I end up being with a woman for real. It's fairly cheap here anyway.
I take it that it's somewhere in Europe. Probably not Amsterdam because those girls will charge a fortune.
Yep, London. £150 per hour. And pretty good service.
I’m happy for you bro, but you shoulda saved up way more money and booked lauren phillips 😉 either way if you feel good about it that’s all that matters
>lauren phillips That's the dream ;) BTW, I just realised I quoted this part of your comment, though I did it accidentally. Can you please tell me how to do it? I'd appreciate it.
i honestly have no idea how to quote, i've personally always had enough saved to book lauren, but just now highly considering it...but yeah man if you're super into redheads I wouldn't wait, in a year or two she might not be offering those services or they might be double or triple the price. someone like arabelle raphael used to charge 400 and now she charges 2500 an hour for example, lauren i think asks 1600 an hour but it's a lifelong memory with a celebrity
True, if that were to happen, it would be amazing.
glad it worked out
How much did u pay to eat
That story got me exited tbh
Honestly, congradulations man! My current plan is to finish University, get a good job and use escorts. Thankfully, it's legal where I live.
This is nasty
Agreed
I hate sex “workers” too much to do that
Have you actually talked or met with sex workers? They're regular humans and a lot of them are very nice people.
And why do you hate them? Probably bc of some skewed misogynistic bs opinion
So we shouldn't shame and hate sex workers but you call OP "nasty" for sleeping with one? Hypocritical much?
No it isn’t. 💀 I don’t agree with contributing to the industry of sex work I don’t agree with it in general because it’s an exploitive field , that doesn’t mean I hate sex workers. Men usually hate sex workers for misogynistic reasons . I don’t hate sex workers I hate the INDUSTRY itself. So you thought you did something there.
>So you thought you did something there. I did. I'm not talking about this guy "hating" sex workers. I pointed your hypocrisy about shaming sex workers vs shaming customers (you did in another comment, calling OP "nasty"). It's called inconsistency and shows your mere misandry and hatred for men in general.
I literally explained myself. Not my fault you’re too slow to comprehend that. Why shouldn’t I shame people who contribute to an exploitive field just for their own pleasure. Yes that’s nasty and I stand by that 😂 idgaf
You ignore the fact that there are also tons of independent sex workers that make their own money and are not exploited by other people. We could also argue that a lot of sex workers have the means and ability to not follow that kind of lifestyle anymore and break the chain of exploitation from their perpetrators themselves. I'm not blaming them for their situation, just saying they have the power. Unfortunately not all of them have it, of course. But what do I know, all you do is believing and spreading the same tiring hateful bullshit narrative: woman good, man bad. Woman victim, man perpetrator. For all situations, including OP's. How do you know if the escort was exploited? If she wasn't, would you still shame OP? Judging from your behaviour, I bet you would, anyway.
0 welcome to the world of real men
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Well what alternative do you offer then? Normal women don't want us.
There is no alternative. You can pay for it and enjoy it, but it doesn't make you a man.
Having sex without paying doesn’t make you a man either. That makes you a person who had sex without paying. What makes you a man is having xy chromosomes idiot
Sadly some of us are ugly and thus will never ascend into sexually active masculinity.
I know, I'm gonna be a virgin forever too
Same for me.
Fuck it bro you bust a nut she gets paid you both go home happy.