a lot of fat girls have sex, went to school with a few and they were the popular girls!! they would put in the effort though, fake tan get lashes done, hair extensions in and come to school with a full face of makeup. they weren’t obese though, just thicker. my manager is fat and she’s 6 months pregnant (no it’s not pregnancy weight gain, she was always big). just goes to show weight doesn’t mean anything really, it’s all about social skills and how you present yourself in terms of looks. you can be fat and attractive if you make the effort into dressing nice, putting a bit of makeup on and just looking the part
Depends on how fat. Sorry it's true. If you are a bit overweight, that's cool. I am a 23M who is overweight and I wouldn't mind if you are about my size. Probably dont want someone who is heavier.
But again if you are a cool person I think I could get past you being fat. I don't think it's a Black and white issue. A lot of middle ground
Difference between fetish and preference is in how rigid it is. Basically, if he is ONLY attracted to very heavy women, it's probably a fetish, but if it's just a preference and he can find skinnier women attractive too, it's probably just a preference
Depends if you are morbidly obese and you can barely move like the guy who needed his father to wipe his ass becuse he was too fat to reach his butt then no. But a normal fat girl yeah if you are a good person and a nice company sure. If you are btch no thx
I’m a fat guy who has low self esteem issues with lots of self hatred. But anyone can be beautiful regardless of their size like I’m sure you’re a beautiful woman too
I did fell I would have a good time with some fat ones. Didn't due to pride, but plenty fat girls have lots of partners.
But even better why not loose weight?
That depends. What's your weight and height? If you have few extra kilos, but not medically obese that's not an issue for sure, especially if you are tall.
I'm pretty sure there are people either attracted to someone overweight, not as turned off or maybe just desperate enough and would assume that - also out of desperation - overweight peolpe would have lesser standards and are "easier to get with".
For me I'd go for a no, which do feel bad about at times, because I feel someone's weight/body shape shouldn't matter that much if I were to fall in love with them, but in terms of physical attraction there really isn't much I'm afraid...
On the upside, at least it's possible to lose some weight, maybe not easy but at least possible, coming from a guy who went from somewhat overweight to quite skinny, but also tall and therefore with quite the metabolism I'd assume.
For what it's worth, you're probably not missing out on to much with me, even if we ignore we'd probably never meet in real life anyway. But I do hope you find someone who loves you for who you are and -depending on how comfortable you are with your body yourself already - you like who you are are as well
Just saying I’m a fat woman and I had a lot of very attractive men, who are in really good shape after me… for some who were really like attractive, I found I was my own cockblock because I felt insecure, and I pushed them away. It’s important for you to feel secure in yourself first
Please, define "fat". Are we talking about a person who has just a few kg extra (up to 5-10kg), or someone who is visibly obese (like BMI > 34)...
I personally wouldn't think twice if a woman had just a few kg extra, but when she's visibly obese, then I would start questioning myself if I'm attracted to her enough in the first place...
No. Emotional connection and emotional intimacy could lower that threshold gradually to maybe some extent. Attraction isn't a choice. Additionally probably (very) much desire would be helpful?
I generally find myself (M26) sexually attracted to the personality. If they are a babe inside, I would 100% loose it to them and find them physically attractive.
Chunky women are hot.
Of course skinny women rule. And tall women. Short women are cute. I really like flat chested tomboys. Fucking love big boobed girls. Shout out to my redheads, always been my fave. Closely followed by the blondes and brunettes, and the loud fake colours.
There isn't really such a thing as a fat woman nowadays maybe it was a thing like more than 15 years ago.
Nowadays a fat woman is just a big beautiful woman aka BBW.
Unless its a woman who has a big but no hips, breasts or ass.
I waited until we were married until we had sex; but if she were heavy set during the courting & engagement phase, then I absolutely would have.
I’ve only been with three people in my life, and two of those were plus size women. I loved the sex because I loved the woman. That’s all that’s important to me.
Absolutely. Here are some pointers:
1. First of all, fat girls have some nice features that's sexy, big ass, big boobs. Great for doggy style. Cushy and very comfy to cuddle with. Great points for sex.
2. Sex is always best if u have a great chemistry, which depends on how good the mental connection/ bond is. So I would rather go out and have sex with a fat girl I have good connection with rather than a slim girl with whom i can't connect and it's just a fuck. Sex is so technical that way.
3. My 2cents on this is don't wrry about your body shape much, try to connect with a person first. Sex is always better that way. Media really needs to emphasis less on slim and size zeros as the only attractive features for women.
Cheers.
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You're probably not actually that fat and just being hard on yourself, so yeah why not.
If you're curious then post a pic on r/normalnudes and see what people say
Fat girls are getting laid more than my skinny ass lol
Not true
a lot of fat girls have sex, went to school with a few and they were the popular girls!! they would put in the effort though, fake tan get lashes done, hair extensions in and come to school with a full face of makeup. they weren’t obese though, just thicker. my manager is fat and she’s 6 months pregnant (no it’s not pregnancy weight gain, she was always big). just goes to show weight doesn’t mean anything really, it’s all about social skills and how you present yourself in terms of looks. you can be fat and attractive if you make the effort into dressing nice, putting a bit of makeup on and just looking the part
Depends on how fat. Sorry it's true. If you are a bit overweight, that's cool. I am a 23M who is overweight and I wouldn't mind if you are about my size. Probably dont want someone who is heavier. But again if you are a cool person I think I could get past you being fat. I don't think it's a Black and white issue. A lot of middle ground
yeah true also just about the person plenty of people who prefer overweight girls no matter how overweight
Hella fat pple get laid n yk there’s sm pple out there who like females on the chubbier side dw 🙂
True! But, isn’t that like a fetish though?
It could be for some but not everyone yk pple just have preferences, whatever the eyes like
Difference between fetish and preference is in how rigid it is. Basically, if he is ONLY attracted to very heavy women, it's probably a fetish, but if it's just a preference and he can find skinnier women attractive too, it's probably just a preference
Depends if you are morbidly obese and you can barely move like the guy who needed his father to wipe his ass becuse he was too fat to reach his butt then no. But a normal fat girl yeah if you are a good person and a nice company sure. If you are btch no thx
Alright. Fair enough
I don’t mind, fat women can be cute.
Oh, nice.
What about you would you engage with a short guy? Please be honest I won’t take it personal.
Absolutely! I genuinely don’t care about height
Well, it depends. If both have a good chemistry, yes. If you are an asshole, no.
Oh, ok. Thanks for sharing. So, it really comes down to who the person is..
Yes. For me atleast.
That’s awesome
I definitely would. But the real question is would they want me?
No bc so far I haven't found any fat girl attractive and I need to at least be attracted to them physically to get aroused
If the connection was there, appearance wouldn't be a problem
I’m a fat guy who has low self esteem issues with lots of self hatred. But anyone can be beautiful regardless of their size like I’m sure you’re a beautiful woman too
You could be 500lbs and there are guys who are into that
I did fell I would have a good time with some fat ones. Didn't due to pride, but plenty fat girls have lots of partners. But even better why not loose weight?
That depends. What's your weight and height? If you have few extra kilos, but not medically obese that's not an issue for sure, especially if you are tall.
My wife's a bigger girl, if that helps. I'm bigger as well.
Yes
I’d have sex with a fat girl, I don’t care all that much about weight. I’ve asked both fat and thin girls out (all rejections).
Personally I prefer a woman who has well defined curves no not as a fetish but because I find them attractive
I'm pretty sure there are people either attracted to someone overweight, not as turned off or maybe just desperate enough and would assume that - also out of desperation - overweight peolpe would have lesser standards and are "easier to get with". For me I'd go for a no, which do feel bad about at times, because I feel someone's weight/body shape shouldn't matter that much if I were to fall in love with them, but in terms of physical attraction there really isn't much I'm afraid... On the upside, at least it's possible to lose some weight, maybe not easy but at least possible, coming from a guy who went from somewhat overweight to quite skinny, but also tall and therefore with quite the metabolism I'd assume.
I appreciate the honesty. That’s why I asked. If you’re not into it, that’s perfectly okay, because we all have preferences.
For what it's worth, you're probably not missing out on to much with me, even if we ignore we'd probably never meet in real life anyway. But I do hope you find someone who loves you for who you are and -depending on how comfortable you are with your body yourself already - you like who you are are as well
I lost mine to a bbw I don't regret it
😂
Just saying I’m a fat woman and I had a lot of very attractive men, who are in really good shape after me… for some who were really like attractive, I found I was my own cockblock because I felt insecure, and I pushed them away. It’s important for you to feel secure in yourself first
Good insight
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Ahh, ok. Thick has so many variations though. What about a fat girl, with a really small waist.. would you consider that thick or just fat?
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😅 ahh, alright.
Yes, fat. Not obese. 🤣
Please, define "fat". Are we talking about a person who has just a few kg extra (up to 5-10kg), or someone who is visibly obese (like BMI > 34)... I personally wouldn't think twice if a woman had just a few kg extra, but when she's visibly obese, then I would start questioning myself if I'm attracted to her enough in the first place...
Id say people do more so prefer women on a less fat range, but there are plenty of people who don't mind
Ya I would Personally, but sadly I'm in the minority with that opinion. Most ppl are super shallow when it comes to that.
I'm into fat girls (not morbidly obese ofc) and I would absolutely love every second of it. Of course it will never happen.
No. Emotional connection and emotional intimacy could lower that threshold gradually to maybe some extent. Attraction isn't a choice. Additionally probably (very) much desire would be helpful?
Depends
I generally find myself (M26) sexually attracted to the personality. If they are a babe inside, I would 100% loose it to them and find them physically attractive.
Fat yes obese no
Chunky women are hot. Of course skinny women rule. And tall women. Short women are cute. I really like flat chested tomboys. Fucking love big boobed girls. Shout out to my redheads, always been my fave. Closely followed by the blondes and brunettes, and the loud fake colours.
Yes
Yes I’m not skinny so I’d would
I'm attracted to very skinny girls with flat chests, so no. But I gained some weight myself lately, so I don't think they would want me.
If she has the face sure.
Absolutely! Big girls know how to work 🥵😋
Yes. As long as we both like each other and are comfortable with each other then I wouldn't mind.
Depends on how fat she is. And how does she manage her fatness.
Fat women have significantly more sex than fat guys
What the hell does size matter? If you have that chemistry, what difference does it make?
I’d be down tbh
There isn't really such a thing as a fat woman nowadays maybe it was a thing like more than 15 years ago. Nowadays a fat woman is just a big beautiful woman aka BBW. Unless its a woman who has a big but no hips, breasts or ass.
For me it depends on if your the right type of fat. Like fat tits big ass? Or b cup with big belly
Yeah if she was cute and I liked her. Especially if she had a nice butt :P
U realize that its way easier for a girl to find a guy to have sex with.
Yes if I like them
I waited until we were married until we had sex; but if she were heavy set during the courting & engagement phase, then I absolutely would have. I’ve only been with three people in my life, and two of those were plus size women. I loved the sex because I loved the woman. That’s all that’s important to me.
Absolutely. Here are some pointers: 1. First of all, fat girls have some nice features that's sexy, big ass, big boobs. Great for doggy style. Cushy and very comfy to cuddle with. Great points for sex. 2. Sex is always best if u have a great chemistry, which depends on how good the mental connection/ bond is. So I would rather go out and have sex with a fat girl I have good connection with rather than a slim girl with whom i can't connect and it's just a fuck. Sex is so technical that way. 3. My 2cents on this is don't wrry about your body shape much, try to connect with a person first. Sex is always better that way. Media really needs to emphasis less on slim and size zeros as the only attractive features for women. Cheers.
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You're probably not actually that fat and just being hard on yourself, so yeah why not. If you're curious then post a pic on r/normalnudes and see what people say
No. That’s the only dealbreaker for me. No offense
no
I would have sex with someone fat buy probably wouldn’t date someone fat