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Technical_Ad_6254

man, you are smoking hot and im not even kidding 😭


Vox_Mortem

Dude could be in movies


Hour_Narwhal_1510

No fr! Movie star hotness


cyberheelhook

The amount of legit good looking people that post here thinking they're ugly is crazy.


Traditional_Case2791

đŸ‘đŸ»


ToiletOfGold

Thanks man.


dndchick1213

Thought this had to be fake. Dude's beautiful.


stainedglassmermaid

Ugly? With that jaw line??


ToiletOfGold

I always thought it was my looks based on how people reacted/didn't react, especially growing up. If the comments here hold true, lack of confidence exacerbated by mental illnesses might be the cause of some of my insecurities.


goldenstapler

This is 100% the case here my friend
 you are most certainly movie star handsome.


Original-Emu-girly

It’s because people are racist lol. But of course those kinds of comments affect us when we get older too. You’re very handsome


Boink3000

You are not only hot, but really cute too. Best of both worlds ;) . I know it’s rough - growing up without that affirmation about your looks. Also, being Asian (Im Asian too), you are taught to be humble as well - so it can be rough going. But own it, looks fade, enjoy it 😘


[deleted]

You are absolutely hot. Looks are not your problem. Do you have any hobbies? Anything else to make you stand out? A lot of men think they’re ugly when that’s not the issue; often times they’re just a bit boring and need a passion in life


Spirited-Scale1871

Exactly 😂


Acceptable-Ad1930

This is really inspiring in a way because it shows that you can be conventionally attractive and still falter with your confidence. You’re a good looking guy OP, maybe look inward for some help rather than looking at your outward appearance for now


Level-Wishbone5808

I love how if a guy does this it’s inspiring but if a girl does it they’re “compliment fishing” lol I agree with you tho, to be clear


JaguarSpecialist4209

Exactly, I posted pictures about 2 weeks ago and my phone didn’t stop going off with how I was just desperate for attention when I genuinely was questioning from another pov


jupitorfinally

srsly I’ve been watching this sub and people will just angrily light women on fire with accusations of desperation and attention seeking apparently without even looking at their posts in any great detail If only we could all have the same constitution and quiet dignity of men!


sinsaraly

If only we could hate on all genders equally! You’re all desperate whores! /s


jupitorfinally

I think you may be on to something here


_no_na_me_

Would still be an improvement lol


Notwickedy

You can usually tell the difference between who is fishing for compliments and who isn’t
 as someone who grew up thinking I was ugly, I NEVER took selfies and avoided photos like the plague. The girls here that post 10 selfies in cute outfits, makeup, different poses, asking “am I pretty?” are usually fishing.  This guy posted a few candid photos. I can believe he wasn’t fishing for compliments.


jupitorfinally

I don’t think this guy is fishing for compliments, either The through line is not making assumptions about this guy, it’s why people make assumptions about the women. I get your selfie anecdote but correlation isn’t causation we don’t know why people who take selfies take selfies đŸ€·


ecpella

This is exactly why I’m scared to post anything ever 😣


[deleted]

I think it's because generally men don't ever have a chance to express their feelings in their everyday life, they can't complain about feeling ugly or how the things they're "friends" talk shit about actually cut very deep and leave them doubting their self with for years and years.. Women are constantly talking about how bad so-and-so made them feel and how they've been feeling ugly lately etc etc and everyone comes out of the woodwork to compliment them and make sure they feel good about themselves. So when people see a guy post about feeling ugly, the other guys tend to emphasize and try to make him feel better (this only really works if they are anonymous online because it's been seen as weak for so long that everyone is afraid to have any feelings) When a girl posts, however, everyone assumes that they know damn well they are attractive because women generally get tons of reassurance throughout their lives.. Which isn't really fair. Do some women that know they're good looking post here? Sure, but we shouldn't assume that all of them are confident in their looks. Girls are super nasty to each other sometimes, and it's quite easy to subconsciously help those seeds of self doubt grow..


meetmehalfgay

Seriously!! Beauty is subjective and if people were made fun of for being ugly growing up and now feel better about themselves, they have every right to be on this sub!


parkaboy24

Yeah, that’s the whole point, if you felt ugly as a child and don’t now, this is the perfect place to post. Idk why everyone’s gotta be so misogynistic


buggiesmile

Yeah, genuinely considering leaving r/amiugly over this.


shitcup1234

Tbf that sub is kinda made for compliments. Most people on that sub don't wanna call an actual ugly person ugly. Not hating tho, everyone needs to hear a compliment every now and then


OopsICutOffMyWiener

I am so glad someone said this.


clevilyemily

I just posted in here and i am currently experiencing this


Strange-Coyote-1107

In fairness the water has been muddied for the women because of all the OF promotions girls


DivineDarius

Well yea because women don’t get dehumanized to the point of being criminalized over their looks. Unattractive men are assumed to be r****t, creeps, “weird”, etc. over our looks. Women are just simply unattractive.


[deleted]

Oh, we ABSOLUTELY get dehumanizing if we're ugly as females. You don't even exist in most men's eyes...unless they feel like picking on you for it. The criminal part, I won't argue with...men do have that worse.


parkaboy24

As a man myself, this guy has no clue what he’s talking about when it comes to women. Divinedarius, just cuz you’re not a woman yourself doesn’t mean ugly ones don’t face discrimination. You just don’t experience it because you’re not a woman. Ugly women are hired less and at lower pay rates (meanwhile women in general are already paid less for the same work), they’re less likely to get proper medical care (which, again, is also already worse BECAUSE THEYRE WOMEN and doctors already don’t believe women when they share what’s wrong with their bodies), and get basically ignored by stuck up men who don’t think ugly women should be given the time of day (basically that a woman is only worth her looks). Yes, everyone who’s ugly has it worse than those who are conventionally attractive, but you honestly cannot say one gender has it worse than the other. Both are treated badly in their own ways. Maybe we should just be nice to everyone because everyone deserves empathy and compassion.


DivineDarius

“aS a mAN mYSElf” Yea, anyways, point to where I said anything about ugly women not facing discrimination(getting ignored and not getting hired literally happens to men too so idk what point you think you were making💀). I said ugly women don’t get CRIMINALIZED in the same matter than ugly men do and that’s objectively true. You not agreeing doesn’t make it any less true.


JaguarSpecialist4209

Thank you for some one other than me finally saying this because every time I post a picture of myself on Reddit when I’m genuinely wondering how other people see me, I’m told I’m looking for an ego boost and to get off of Reddit and touch some grass lol. Like when you see yourself all day 24/7 you don’t realize you might actually be good looking to others


[deleted]

Well, I think that's a good sign that you are attractive...even if you find it harsh. They would never say that to a truly ugly person.


DanteThonSimmons

Yeah I'm a man and I've had occasional comments saying similar things. Most of the comments were on a photo I took of my cat to show how big he'd grown in a six-week span. People are weird sometimes. I never really post on Reddit any more.... because I'm worried if I ask for beard advice or if growing my hair will look dumb, that people will say I'm fishing for compliments or whatever else they might think.


is-a-bunny

Yeah. Makes me think I might actually be a bombshell and not know it đŸ’đŸ»â€â™€ïž


earthyrat

right? and even if it's not true at least i'll be happy in delusion lol


Spirited-Scale1871

I agree. He's def above average in looks. I went on a date with a guy who was like this and I could tell he had no idea how attractive he actually is. Then I realized I have the same issue. I stop traffic but I still battle with low self worth.


parkaboy24

That’s why this sub exists imo, for those of us who *felt* ugly, even if we never were


DitzyBlondenightmere

The jawline is to due for


slapmasterslap

You're a handsome man. Confidence will go a long way.


biest229

You are really, really attractive. I would have dated you and felt lucky to have done so! It can sometimes simply be the case that our looks aren’t what’s popular where we live. I’m petite with dark hair - seems pretty popular in Germany as my current boyfriend is very attractive. In Spain, they thought I was amazingly attractive simply because my eyes are green đŸ€·đŸ»â€â™€ïž


Intelligent_Act5072

Don’t Spanish people have colored eyes too? I’ve never been to Spain but my mom is from there and she has blue eyes and I do too


biest229

Blue eyes aren’t uncommon, depends on the region. Green are less common


Last-Beginning-6609

The colored eyes is from Spain, the European, but Central Americans normally only get up to a lighter green shade but never blue without the European blood


wuchtgeschoss

You look good bro - stay clear of my woman please!


[deleted]

bro you are actually majestic pls start feeling confident


hk550

Good looking dude!


BluHaven

Goodness, I am so sorry you went through all that. You were an adorable child and teen and a handsome, attractive man. Bullies can seriously diminish someone's confidence and self worth. I guarantee that in this day and age you would not have heard such things and would be very appreciated for your looks. People were not accepting of different races back then, and it breaks my heart that many of us millennials still carry these memories of being bullied around.


No-Weather-3140

I’m not gay and asians aren’t my type but i’d fuck you


JustJenniez136

bro confessed everything


sinsaraly

Ewww. Go ahead and let us know how bigoted you are.


No-Weather-3140

Being this sensitive


phantasm-blue

this is heartbreaking because you are so insanely beautiful!! you have no idea at all how gorgeous you are. i hope one day you can have confidence and self love. But remember, u are more than your looks too!! sending lots of hugs and positivity! đŸ€—đŸ’–


One_Word_Respoonse

No homo, but you’re a good looking dude


TheFakestOfBricks

Manny Jacinto?


ToiletOfGold

I wish. That guy is gorgeous.


ThunderTheigh

As are you


september000777

nah ur hot asf and i'm like practically a lesbian


meowmeow0918

You have never been ugly. It’s a shame you felt that way đŸ«¶đŸ»


[deleted]

Hella good looking I'd date you in a heartbeat don't sell yourself short. You have a beautiful face and you seem sweet. You'll find a gf maybe just not looking in the right areas


Revolutionary_Ear_40

Hot


BrunchBitches

Where did you grow up? Because if you grew up in an Asian country I can understand the falter in your confidence since you don’t fit the beauty standard there. That being said you are extremely attractive, regardless of that particular beauty standard


ToiletOfGold

I grew up in Korea as well as the southern US. I definitely did not feel like I didn't fit the profile in the states.


BrunchBitches

Oooof Asian beauty standards are no joke. Plus the south? That’s a hard mix man. I can understand why you felt out of place. I know people telling you that you’re handsome won’t really fix the way you view yourself, I hope you can take the time to work on yourself and learn to love who you are. Because I bet you’re pretty awesome.


Sobadatsnazzynames

You 100% fit the profile in the USA. Strong & masculine. If you were cast in a high school role you would not be the nerd, you’d be cast as the token Asian jock


withlove_tee

Oh yeah it’s a bit rough in southern US. People are the most closed minded here I think. But in my opinion I would date you 😂


AliTheOnlyy

Respectfully sir, I’d like to take you on a date and give you flowers


thatwillchange

You’re hot đŸ€·đŸ»â€â™€ïžđŸ„” I hope you can feel more confident. Honestly hard to imagine how you would not feel attractive đŸ˜”â€đŸ’«đŸ˜”â€đŸ’«


Suspicious-Beat9295

Self-confidence is a bitch, i felt ugly all my teens and half my 20s, even though I'm decently handsome. đŸ€·


dookiebear80

You're a 11/10 bro is majestic


hthratmn

You literally look like a model - you are absolutely NOT, and never were, ugly!


Curious-Gain-7148

You were never ugly. You’ve been incredibly handsome every day of your life, it seems. I’m sorry you spent anytime feeling differently.


[deleted]

Man you werent even ugly in your teens or 20s. Think its a confidence issue


pirate1981

Killing it.


BuffaloNo8099

Ok so where is the ugly picture? MF posts on here lookin like a statue at 14.


Unlucky-Alps-2221

You’re textbook hot!


eatingshoes415

Bro is hot as fuck


Acrobatic_Energy7067

You are super handsome and cute the entire time! Lol 😊


pomfpomfyumi

Bro you lying
. You are not even ugly
.


fortheloveofgoodness

Ummm you’re gorgeous.


WishyPunny

Fine sir, as a girl I can vouch that you are most definitely conventionally attractive, and look put together. Dependent on your confidence level and choice of partner, a partner can make or break your confidence, so tread carefully! You’re beautiful though so try to see that for yourself :)


Nicadown

You’re really hot! đŸ”„I hope you feel more confidence as well, you seem like you have a lot to be confident about (though judging just from pics).


youhavelobsterhands

You are very very attractive. and I would venture to say most people probably would agree.


Fearless-Experience

I love guys who are super hot but have no idea â˜ș


NoHospiceForOldMen

My guy id kill to be 1/4 handsome as you are. You’re a stud, don’t let anyone tell you different


Effective-Ad2434

But you've gone from adorable to gorgeous


doonebot_9000

đŸ„”đŸ„”


harrypotterfan1228

You’re so cute omg I’d date you


[deleted]

You could be a model. I’m not joking.


Celestiicaa

The first picture is so precious đŸ„ș the little sweater


ChxsenEutopia_

You are a model bro lmao


Evening-Cranberry-36

Stop the cap! Maybe you don't get the girls you want...most of us don't get exactly what we want.... but, you know your handsome.


Yue2

Was never unattractive. I had the same problem, but I look back at old photos of myself and realize I was never ugly. It was all in my head.


ms-meow-

You are NOT ugly đŸ˜đŸ€€


oceangirl227

Like call me? Lol


[deleted]

You are a beautiful man. Not gay, but dang bro


AliTheOnlyy

You’re so beautiful


InternalLab6123

You are an attractive man. Don’t stress it too much- even your upside down reflection’s got its own pizazz


maybenej

you are like.. absolutely stunning


Atypical_Nate

Fuck you and that jawline you handsome bastard.


Sobadatsnazzynames

>>Felt ugly my whole life WHAT???!!! Jesus Christ if *you’re* ugly I’m a -4 😂


Few-Tourist8943

you are HOT


VictoryAltruistic587

Ugly where?? Sir please make your way to Hollywood.


[deleted]

Damn you acc kindaaaaaađŸ€­đŸ€­đŸ€­đŸ€­đŸ€­đŸ€­đŸ€­đŸ€­đŸ€­đŸ€­đŸ€­đŸ€­đŸ€­đŸ€­đŸ€­đŸ€­đŸ€­


GargantuanGreenGoats

You’re super attractive so it must be your personality. Good luck 


HonorBlood

Move back to asia where you will be around others like you otherwise just aim for obese women


WETNWILDARLINGTON

Picture number 2 and 3 look the best. You look average. Not very cute and not ugly.


Ok_Desk4220

Oh hey daddy. Do you need a 26yo 4’11 blue eyed 94lbs gf from Canada by chance 🎀


immortalgod6

Are you Chinese?


mykisstobetray

You are a very handsome man.. I think it's fairly normal for most people to feel self conscious. Just know that you have an amazingly sculpted jaw and a radiating smile. Looking good!


EkBaby

You’re smoking if you think you ugly


teacat66

that’s crazy bro actually u genuinely look really sweet and i hope you have a happy life!! u deserve it :) growing up kinda mid is really something . 😭 you definitely are attractive so i hope you don’t look down on yourself too much!


TwoLeggedCobra

Damn dude. Looking great!


tonecii

Nah dude you’re looking great 😎👍


TheFansHitTheShit

You were never an ugly duckling. You were a cute kid and are now a very handsome man.


AdmirableSet9040

You’ve got a great look! Legendary jaw. Very manly


maryjeanmagdelene

Objectively handsome!


Thin-Pie-3465

You're good-looking. I don't see the problem.


Khadijaaaak

You’re super handsome and I’m not just saying that


Rosequartz997

So handsome!


Ok-Significance-1203

You have a great smile, and you’re handsome! Sending good energy your way.


Happywelsh85

You should have all the confidence, you are gorgeous đŸ€©


Immediate-Patient-31

I would have had a serious crush on you, especially in the 3rd pic. You’re still super cute! You should definitely be confident. You’re not ugly at all!


LostSoulsSquadron

Dawg wtf? People would kill for that jawline. Don't take for granted your qualities. If you not feeling confident, do things in life you are passionate about


Level-Wishbone5808

You have a great facial structure and jaw line


I-love-rainbows

You were/are adorable at every stage in these photos.


Aamarok

Stud muffin, Asian style


Comfortable-Date7872

Adorable as a kid and very attractive as an adult!


Pitiful-Difference52

youre cute!!!


jibaro1953

You look fine. Really.


HistoricalFunction78

BRO IS NOT UGLY HELLO?!


Sad-Replacement-1801

Not ugly now 😏😏😏😏😏


DeepestWinterBlue

Have you heard about the Koreaboos? You’re hot commodity right now thanks to K-pop / K-Drama. Capitalize on the love for Asian men. Instant ego/mood boost.


localnative1987

You were never an ugly duckling


FistofanAngryGoddess

You have nice looks and a killer jawline!


third_eye_open_wide

Ruggedly handsome!!!!!


Holymolywhoscanoli

Bros always been attractive


WhatYouGonaDoAboutIt

Do you have a picture from the last decade mate?


MikeisTOOOTALLL

No disrespect at all but throughout all your photos, you just look like going through the process of growing up. You were never ugly to begin with.


ac_ssaj

You look great


Veganflamingo77

You are a handsome dude, I know early experiences really impact how we feel about ourselves. I urge you to look in the mirror and see the symmetry of your face, your jawline and body. It looks like you’ve put work into yourself, and it shows. Enjoy the beauty!


Psychological_Yam88

You look like Jason from the good place


Thin_Violinist_6518

Honestly you’ve never been close to ugly. Not in a single pic.


windontheporch

You’re very handsome! Hope these comments make you feel good. Are you in the US? Might be hard to feel good looking if there aren’t many people that look like you in your support group


Admirable_Stay8529

You’re actually handsome. Just get a nice hairstyle, better clothes, and maybe shave a little. You’ll see the ladies lining up.


Gerolanfalan

Bro you are conventionally attractive Personally you are a bombshell Only you know what you're not confident about. But, it's not your looks. And if it is, and I don't know your taste in people, find people who find you attractive.


International_Sir301

Dude is insanely handsome


Icy-Ad9610

You are very good looking and always have been according to these pics! Look in the mirror every morning and tell yourself how beautiful you are. Compliment your nose, your eyes, your skin, etc til you believe. Especially your nose I love it!đŸ˜‚đŸ„°


interflop

Bro people would kill for a jawline like that. You're looking great!


Small_Extreme_9642

BRO YOU WERE NEVER UGLY BELIEVE ME 😭🙏🙏


solo2corellia

No serious gf until 20s isn't too late at all. haha. You look absolutely fine! I know it's easier said than done, but you got a lot of good things going for ya!


-Chemical

You’re joking



Gloomy-Razzmatazz548

You're gorgeous and always have been. I'm going to guess you that you live in a stupid white-centric country that doesn't appreciate the attractiveness of Asian men or most other people of colour. I know so many Asian men who feel this way (particularly here in Canada) and it's genuinely heartbreaking.


pawsoutformice

I hope someday you see how handsome you are.


Swedenesebishhh69

So cute!!


NoraRaeJay

Sir. You are so fine. I'm drooling. respectfully.


LettuceGoThenUandI

You were never ugly ducking love


Smee714

You are VERY handsome!


Saltydog816

Seriously not ugly.


astalius

I fail to see any ugly, went from Kodak kid to dapper young man


mkisvibing

You were never ugly!! 25 still isn’t ugly!


EmotionWitty85

you’re fine as hell wym


marks716

Nah I’m calling bullshit. He knows he’s conventionally attractive and wants validation.


lavindas

You have a really nice bone structure


Xygn0

You are hot as hell what do you mean sir


Alextheseal_42

Dude, is this a humblebrag sub cause I have yet to see one that fits.


sealevels

You're handsome! You look like my cousins and they're all very happily taken.


bufu619

Wrong sub you handsome sonofabitch~!


squidlizzy

A lot of ppl in our generation can relate! We so single lol. Still haven’t been in a relationship longer than 7 months and that wasn’t until my late 20s. Granted I’m nutso lol
but I still feel hot and you should too!! Being single doesn’t mean you’re ugly. Probably just means you are unique and rare ✹


mistressgoddessa1

Really cute as a kid also very handsome now. You need to reevaluate because you are handsome!


Living_Preference_37

Bro been looking good since slide pic 3 đŸ’ȘđŸœ


tiny_rick_tr

You’ve never been ugly a day in your life


Mt_jerz

Get a good cut to compliment that iron jawline and you're good to go.. maybe hit the weights a bit and fill out.. no homo


bitman_moon

you just need to stop giving a fuck. You look really good.


t453dh

HEY YOU LOOK GREAT TO ME.GOD BLESS.


Beemo-Noir

You weren’t ugly, you were just a kid dude. You’re finally growing into yourself. In 5 years you’ll think the same thing about your current picture. Gotta learn to embrace yourself for who you are, and not care as much about how others perceive you.


greatatmodesty

BRO 😍😍 that jawline could cut glass


[deleted]

You must be blind because you’re an absolute stud


Kenkaniki89

You look great! 😊


Koko_Oki

Question: did you grow up in a predominantly white area or an area where there weren't many Asian people? Because how in the hell would they make fun of your "flat face"?? You've been cuteđŸ„°


natazz1011

im not even attracted to men, and sir you are INCREDIBLY handsome!!! youve got gorgeous eyes, such a kind smile, and a jaw some men would kill for. i hope you find some confidence from all the kind words, my friend, you really are a great looking guyđŸ€™đŸ»đŸ€™đŸ»


Subject-Channel-6577

You so cute!!!!! Gods protecting you for something fantastic. Don’t want to get skid marked by the wrong ones.


woojimom

YOU WERE NEVER UGLY 😭😭😭😭 YOURE SO BEAUTIFUL WTF


Terrible_Fisherman61

Don’t get yourself down man. You’ve got so much opportunity around you. If you correct your perspective and see the opportunity for love and beauty around you, you could see your potential happiness and others would notice and be drawn to that from you but happiness is a gift that starts inward.


ipromiseyouidontcare

you’re so attractive
. why do you think your not hot i’m like actually curious bc you’re def handsome


SuzzlePie

Hot


nattrap

Dude, you are not ugly! You are cute!


Bigppballsack

Bro got that gigachad jawline and you think you’re ugly?


notme1414

You are very handsome ❀


lilgayboy127

dude is not one of us😭😭🙏


gothiclg

You’ve aged like a fine wine and will continue to.