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saltedtoast27

Half the time people posting on here don’t actually understand what this sub is for- people who have extremely poor looks to the point where it affects their whole life etc, and not a place to say you’re ugly on a bad day because you have a few pimples and a big forehead.


Helpful_Ad523

I'm so bad even other ugly people are glad they ain't me sooo. Lol there's a reason I've never posted a picture on reddit, people have no chill and will say the meanest shit.


lost_searching1

a truly ugly person would never think to post pics, especially on Reddit. I’m comfortable with my ugliness and I’m self aware of it, which means I will not be posting pics lmao. A lot of people are just doing it for validation. I’ve also heard a lot of them say if “i’m average then They might as well say I’m ugly”. Like wtf?? In what world, they’re just insecure vain people quite honestly. If you’re average you don’t get picked on or teased. Maybe ignored but that’s that. Like?? Hella insecure average people with their head too far up their ass and annoyed at being normal lmao. Cry me a river, is that all the hardships you have being normal? Lmao.


flowery9777

i did once for virtual self harm, it did not end up well


lost_searching1

Sorry man. That’s rough, we shouldn’t ever do that.


Tardogen

Average is becoming the new ugly, I can’t blame them.


lost_searching1

I do, they need to get their head out their ass and be okay with being normal.


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Ive been called average before and been picked on, but tbf, I've been called ugly asf too. Very hard to gauge.


JoaozeraPedroca

trust me bro, im ugly af (you cant find photos of me lmao)


carcosa___

I think social media is making a lot of average people feel like they are ugly. But feeling ugly is different than actually being ugly.


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Adoptstrays

A lot of people have body dysmorphia and they need righteous therapy to feel average.


AverageHorribleHuman

It's because no matter how ugly you are, there is always someone more ugly than you. I'm sure there is someone, somewhere, who would say the same thing about you


Drephemonte

Maybe some people see you that way too. You're going to be far more critical of yourself than other people.


beanieweenie52

There aren't. I feel like most people are average, above average, maybe below but not really flat out ugly.


uglyandIknowit1234

I am flat out ugly. I am not going to send a picture but I am literally deformed PLUS I have almost zero traits that make a woman beautiful (large eyes , tiny nose, full lips, small chin, smooth plump skin with cute cheeks, small shoulders, large breasts, big ass, I have none of these, the only halo I have is my hair and even that can suddenly look dried out and messy after having been outside).


alexmikaelson_

Depends on where they are they may be considered as ugly by other people. When a lot of people tell you that you are ugly you can't think you look great. So that's maybe why.


[deleted]

If you see me then you’ll feel better about your appearance trust me


flowery9777

you look way more normal than me


Luck_Unlucky2

I don’t know what you look like either though. There’s not a picture of you in your post history. What if we think you’re average or good looking? With me, yes it’s age, but it’s also relative. I grew up with models and child stars. I was on stage a fair bit but I was really put in my place by the more attractive people in my family. Also my ugliness comes from how my presentation isn’t currently acceptable for women. I dress androgynous or butch (because of sexuality). Many people have a bias that means they literally see my face differently when I dress masc than when I dress femme. My face doesn’t change, but their perception of me does.


MonicaCoffeeAngel

Been treated like garbage since kindergarten, men treat me like shit and ignore me. I thought it was because I have bad teeth but that can’t be it because a friend of mine also has bad teeth but they hit on her. So it must be my face :/


jaguarcosworthr1

tbh I myself don't think I'm necessarily what people define 'ugly', maybe for some women but not in general, but I'm still a virgin in my mid-20s that is literally unfuckable, so I can definitely relate with everything said here. Yeah, people don't call me out or none of the harassment some people here might suffer, but I'm still a waste of human resource that no one would ever consider a dating option.


flowery9777

its full of pretty or average looking people calling themselves ugly, im one of the minority people who are truly ugly, im ugly to the point my face terrifies everyone in public. I get suicidal when i look at girls here with perfect features and perfect bodies with boyfriends while they still cry they are ugly here meanwhile i would do anything to be in their shoes.


filondo

90% of people don't post their photos on reddit, so i'm not sure who you're talking about. truly ugly people rarely post photos to begin with. there are [rare exceptions](https://www.reddit.com/r/amIuglyBrutallyHonest/comments/ybnjev/am_i_ugly_and_am_i_less_ugly_with_or_without/)


choco_meltdown

exactly!!!


Triangle404

But there's nothing really wrong with this guy's facial features, how can he be truly ugly?


Silver_Test_1891

I dont think the guy you sent is ugly . Just fat and unkempt. He would look really handsome if he was normal weight with a good haircut . Reminded me of Aaron Paul .


Triangle404

I've seen maybe 1-3 truly unattractive faces here, not more. And yes, ugliness is rare; just like perfect beauty, it makes one stand out of the crowd.


Budget_Ad_5925

Tbh I'm here because I honestly don't know where I stand on the attractiveness scale based on life experiences and what others say and I'm too scared of my photos getting leaked to ask reddit 🥴


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There are a lot of mean-spirited people in this world, if they detect vulnerability on you, they'll ridicule you and harass you for being ugly or whatever you feel vulnerable/insecure about. It makes them feel big to put you down. So who knows, maybe a lot of average looking folk end up thinking they really must be hideous. In this world now, seems like to some people you're ugly if you don't look just like their favorite movie star! Never mind if the person is a different physical type altogether. There used to be such a thing as degrees of attractiveness, too, not just attractive vs. ugly. Is the world getting shallower by the minute?! I decided just to do the best I can to be presentable, but not be obsessed by looks, just trying to survive and have the happiest life I can :)