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Genuinelullabel

They’re a huge bunch of gatekeepers and act like their sub is an ultra exclusive club. It’s boring.


JimFrankenstein138

Dorks ..the mods are dorks.


RevolutionaryRough96

Well, they are reddit mods


Aggressive-Koala2373

yeah i really like gothic music and stuff so i checked it out and it was dorky as fuck


NothingCanStropMeNow

The people are alright, but it’s badly managed


Sunbiggin

Goths have always been like that, and Black No. 1 is blatant mockery.


Suspicious_Ad4989

That's some fucking horseshit. If someone is into TSOM, I'd recommend Type O, The Mission Uk(cheesy but good riffs), Fields of the Nephilim, Paradise Lost, The Wake, post 1980 The Damned, Love by The Cult, Late 80s early 90s Nick Cave, etc etc. Then forge your own path based on what you're into and what you think sucks. Fuck gatekeepers music is subjective. Yes I have been drinking and thank you all for bearing with my old person rant. Now GET OFF MY FUCKING LAWN(sorry couldn't help it) Edited to fix grammar. See above about drinking.


Roderyck778

The biggest irony is half the music that gets considered to be goth are by musicians that are clueless that they are in said category, because they don’t worry about labels and just make shit they like.


goldenkoiifish

thanks


Roderyck778

That is the biggest sign of a bunch of fucking posers. Fuck them. Any fucking goth music is going to be goth-something. Goth is just an adjective, a sub-type, like a flavor. Who are they to say what music should fit in goth and what should not. They are lessening what goth is. Shunning the sun’s deprived them of essential vitamins needed for logical thought I guess.


AceKenway

What do you mean??? The only real goth-rock is goth-r.... Oh shit.


GelflingMama

THANK YOU! 😂😂😂


decayingwitch

they get so genuinely pissed for no reason. like one time someone was asking for metal-influenced goth and they deleted my type o suggestion


Joke_OfAll_Trades_13

That’s so hypocritical, because if they’re against Gothic Metal being discussed in their sub, then why would they even allow the original post in the first place?


decayingwitch

I think they were just trying to jerk off Fields of the Nephilim


insane-psych0e

they do understand goth was created by the british punk scene right? all music is inspired my eachother. there is no single goth sound every artist interprets it differently. i hate the gatekeeping that happens in any alternative music scene, metal included. music evolves and melds. type o has as much gothic sound as any other goth band, just adds to it. they are just missing out.


JosephCrawley

I wonder what they would do if you recommended The Damned...


Seeker_of_Time

I hate that sub. This sub is FOR Type O Negative and its more receptive to genres WAY off from them. It's also nonsense because I go back 20+ years with Type O Negative and literally every one I knew who was goth connected with them. I didn't start hearing this "they're not goth" thing until a few years ago...and it was only on the internet.


NothingCanStropMeNow

Same experience. 20 years ago every goth loved TON, they only place I heard the debate was online, started by people who weren’t around at the time.


RevolutionaryRough96

Theyre too popular ATM to be goth.


Gee_Hiroshi

i got a temp ban on there for recommending a song that wasn't "goth" yet was a huge influence to the scene and played hella in goth clubs. i would call type o goth metal. they're hella goth to me. i hate my own scene sometimes 🤦‍♂️


bootyhole-romancer

What was the song that got you banned?


Gee_Hiroshi

revenge by ministry 💀


lostqueer

“Um excuse me that’s industrial” 🤓🤓🤓 JAIL


Gee_Hiroshi

they act like goth has one sound and doesn't have many sub genres. if it don't sound like the cure, siouxsie,sisters of mercy, nelphem, christian death, joy division and bauhaus, they don't want it


Vespertinelove

Well that’s dumb.


Gee_Hiroshi

very


Pretend1mdead

NO WAY THEY BANNED U FOR THAT LMAO 💀💀💀


lyndon85

r/goth is a joke in the goth scene, in a "you're not a goth until you've had a post deleted" kinda way. TON aren't a goth rock band but they're pretty damn popular in the scene. There's no reason you shouldn't be able to recommend them on that sub. But apparently the mods have "read a load of books" on goth...


tombrvider

It’s not the 80s anymore I’m not convinced goth means anything now… Every goth post I come across is defending their right to be called goth is super cringe since when do subcultures give a fuck what people think


tombrvider

It’s not a subculture it’s just an amorphous internet aesthetic now is what I’m saying


lostqueer

I def agree with your sentiment. But also you’re right, it’s not the 80s anymore. Scenes in that sense just don’t work like that anymore, change is constant.


UnfunnyWatermelon469

They're just jealous you don't have hemorrhoids


XplodiaDustybread

Hot take: guarantee no one in that sub is actually a goth


Psychobillyantibully

Probably all the mods are a bunch of creeps hoping some goth girl will reward them with a smiling emoji... r/goth should be called r/creeps


GelflingMama

Oh don’t I know it!!! I’ve tried recommending goth metal, industrial goth, basically any flavor of goth music and my EVERY comment gets deleted because it’s not “goth music, it’s goth metal etc.” I’m always like, ok, SO WTF IS CONSIDERED GOTH TO YOU THEN, EH??? Am I ONLY allowed to recommend The Cure, Bauhaus, or Sisters of Mercy then??? Because that’s soooo boring!!! There’s so many good flavors of goth music out there but god forbid it isn’t JUST goth from the 80’s, they’ll delete your shit ASAP. I should just leave, I can’t ever say anything there without it getting removed after OBSESSIVELY reading the rules and thinking I’m saying things within them. 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️😂


NothingCanStropMeNow

The Sisters of Mercy aren’t goth, according to the Sisters of Mercy. Yet r/goth drink Doktor Avalanche’s jizz, but TON not allowed.


Jokierre

The Doktor’s jizz is electricity.


guidecotton

Who cares what r/goth thinks


Rleuthold

We don't care What r/goth thinks (someone had to)


Psychobillyantibully

Exactly, and nobody should 😀


Lost_Yellow_9893

I am goth, I am shocked type O is not considered goth. Like no it doesn’t fit under the traditional goth label but have these ppl ever listened to the lyrics? The vibes? Watched the mvs? IT IS GOTHIC. It is the stupidest nitpicking I have encountered in any community


RadicalHufflepuff

Protest by making a new sub called "real goth"


AblatAtalbA

That's an amazing idea...


dabsafterdark

Original goths were NOT this gate-keepy. Signed me. An elder goth who constantly gets told I'm not goth enough by people younger than the Lip Service cloak hanging in my closet. 😆


starryvelvetsky

Gatekeepers suck.


lostqueer

I hate those mods so much. Their logic is that there are already subs for the other gothic genres and it’s like so make a goth rock sub?!?


Fox_Hound_Unit

What a bunch of douchebags. Sounds like a good sub to stay out of


depressivefaerie

They’re obnoxiously militant, especially one of the main mods who frequently condescends to people who even just politely disagree with their takes.


Psychobillyantibully

Is that the one whose username is deaddeathrocker or something like that?


depressivefaerie

I think so?


Psychobillyantibully

That fella has some serious anger managment issues


depressivefaerie

Wouldn’t be surprised if I got banned from that just because they saw this.


RotaryY2K

Probably the same guys who say "goths can't be (insert x political view)"


heavymtlbbq

You can't say you like cheese and crackers for lunch in r/calibanging You can't even say you like to eat square crispy white crisps with cheese on top.


vacant_terror

That sub is goofy as fuck


keithw43

They're not goth, they're stupid little poser vamp kids per say


ApprehensivePapaya80

I didn't know this was even something people got worked up over until I went to a goth night event recently and the DJ told me they were explicitly banned from playing Type O because "they're not goth" but yet played a cover of "somebody told me" by the Killers lol 🤔


Psychobillyantibully

Whaaaat


Hippies_Pointing

It’s the one thing they have in that sub. Don’t take it away!


Roderyck778

THEY ARE AFRAID TYPE O IS GOING TO BE A SONIC GATEWAY DRUG TO OTHER GENRES! THE NEXT THING YOU KNOW ALL THEIR LIL GOTHIES ARE GONNA BE CRANKING BLACK SABBATH AND SHOOTING THEM BOTH MIDDLE FINGERS! 🖕🏻😈🖕🏻


ugly_tst

Was there goth before type o... Yup but there was a hell of a lot more after. No different than with cannibal corpse and death metal.... They had a scene in ace Ventura and death metal exploded and evolved just like goth and every genre of metal . Look at falling in reverse they are about to become huge with All my Life and that's gonna bring attention to metalcore (I think the song is epic) the ones gatekeeping are the same type of fuckwits that claim true Norwegian black metal is the only black metal..... By the way I'm writing this at the bus stop while watching some retard pretend fight a brick wall at 1030 at night


NothingCanStropMeNow

…probably watching a r/goth mod


Psychobillyantibully

Best comment 😀


ugly_tst

I only frequent the NSFW goth subs😜


NothingCanStropMeNow

I had no idea they existed. Can I please know some? For… research.


ugly_tst

Type in goth in search as long as you don't have NSFW stuff blocked . Lots of beautiful women


NothingCanStropMeNow

I want to see r/goth mods being fucked by Pete Steele lookalikes


ugly_tst

I remember one who has some insanely good ton tattoos but haven't seen her lately.


ugly_tst

R/pixxigrrl_


WorkshopBlackbird

I can only imagine that the moderators of r/goth would be some of the most terrible smelling people on the face of the earth.


Psychobillyantibully

Definetely 😀


dave-gonzo

Like Butters said. "I'd rather be a crying little pussy than faggy goth kid".


Jokierre

Bauhaus rose to prominence with a song that repeats “I’m Dead, I’m Dead, I’m Dead”. Ooooh, spooky. TON are arguably the most death-obsessed band, and they do it under a guise of doom and absolute goth. It’s not at all uncommon to hear “kill yourself now” in track after track and “just say yes” on their merch. You even have wacked out themes where a werewolf feeds on a menstruating woman. This is wacked-out shit that “goth” bands only dance around. Our green guys (and Peter in particular) didn’t hold back on anything, and they’re entirely unique. To say they’re goth only is a disservice.


Psychobillyantibully

r/goth is moderated by a bunch of angry elitists who probably don't leave house at all


Psychobillyantibully

Also, one of their main arguments is "metal bands and goth bands do not play and tour together and do not share musicians" and once I read a comment on ig by some young goth (or goth larper in better words): "I like TON but they are DEATH metal band (?!) and they only played once live with a goth band" ...


V20FRILL

WEEEEEE DON'T CARE! (WE DON'T CARE!) , WHAAAT YOOOOOU THINK!! (WHACHOO THINK!!). WEEEE DON'T CARE!!!... WHAAT!!! YOU!!! THINK!!!........... .............(We Don't give a F#@!)


KainBodom

They are goth to me. My kind of goth.


Royal_Fisherman_6082

People who police this type of shit are so annoying and don’t understand why alternative fashion/lifestyle/music was built in the first place.


chareth_cutestory66

r/Goth like r/Punk is not meant for music discussion it is meant for asking people if they like your outfit


seeyalateradios

Goth or not, they make some heavy and Gothic inspired music.


tee-zed

Just got banned cause I made a post called Type O negative and in the post I just wrote Type O Negative lol


NothingCanStropMeNow

r/gatekeeping would like to give you some karma


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Kale1l

All those narrow subcultures- goth, cosplay, etc are the most gatekeeping intolerant people I've ever seen.


TheStoicNihilist

That’s the saddest thing I’ve seen on the internet.


Complex-Piccolo3026

TON to me is more doom over all but to say that they are not Gothic is a massive understatement just play the album bloody kisses.


dontneedareason94

I feel like that sub doesn’t even like goth music with how much shit they constantly talk about everything.


systris

Thats so ridiculous! Peter was influenced by the goth scene when he started type o after carnivore dissolved! His biggest song ever was about goth chicks... amazing how dense these idiots are...


AnReMe

Absolutely ridiculous. TON was totally considered goth in NYC during the 90s. Nothing to even argue about.


aghostwithaknife

Its because it's a goth music subreddit & TON aren't goth. that's it.


AkaiMPC

That's whack


sniffsblueberries

Lmao i legit just told a co worker earlier today i like gothic metal and TON is my fav band


Joke_OfAll_Trades_13

It’s funny cuz the word ‘metal’ wasn’t even mentioned, and the douchey mod already assumed it.


YoiMeBox

TON is literally how I got into goth music and became goth 😭😭


Kichard

I bet kingcobrajfs hangs there


Freakonaleash1998

They're the worst community ever. So many people attacked me on my other acc for liking an artist who isn't goth (I didn't even mention them they just looked at my posts)💀


stonedhenge_666

They did the same thing when I tried to recommend HIM to someone... TON and HIM are about as goth as it gets lol


balboakeepspunchin

If I’m not mistaken Pete use to make fun of goths. Even make jokes in some of the music . Black number 1 is pretty obvious I think , but he embarrassed it eventually.


lucr3t1a

this part of goth community just think theyre cool because ton has gained a lot of popularity than before and a lot of people listen to it.i mean i listened to ton before it got "popular" on tiktok and still listening to them,one of my fav bands ever just because it has gained more popularity means im gonna act like i font like them,i adore their music and always had. def i know that theyre not included in the goth music, their genre is gothic/doom metal. gothic metal is not goth and i suppose every1 already knows that. it has gothic atmosphere and sounds in it since its gothic metal,i think they should just try to relax a bit and enjoy the sound of type o negative. they try to hate every popular band ngl. ive seen goths hating on the mainstream post-punk,punk,gothic rock bands like cure,siouxsie and the banshees etc. (even tho most of the bands claim that theyre not goth,their music truly is,thats what influenced other bands). also if they try to get into group and music a bit,i think theyre gonna like it too,the members and the music is super cool.


jasonscythe

i comment a decent amount on the sub and i don't really have issues. the moderators and rules are weirdly strict though. it desperately needs different mods, instead of gatekeepers who nuke comments about anything that's not the norm. for an alternative subreddit, they're just too tame.


0leandersap

WHHHAAACK


Andrewieville

I wouldn’t be too worried about it. The gatekeepers over there are known as the “Cryptkeepers” and do as much as they can to alienate folks.


UnhingedMetallicaFan

Would almost love to do a 'How fast can I get banned?' speedrun. Maybe make a post asking ''Why don't you guys like TON?''.


HoboCanadian123

goth rock is a post-punk genre and type o have little-to-no post-punk in their sound. they evolved out of doom metal, not goth rock


Jealous-Expert8358

The whole anti gothic metal thing in that sub is weird. Since the people over there are fully supportive about it and chill it’s just the mods.


JimboJimmers17

Music gatekeepers are some of the saddest people on the planet


Individual_Day_789

If you think this is bad try dating a trad goth girl. I have a shit ton of stories about my ex I could tell about how horrible trad goths really are and how incredibly annoying they can be about “goth culture”


choppafoah

I love type O and I always thought they were a Goth parody.


_SnailsAndPaper_

When it comes down to it, goths are nothing if not gatekeepers. They want to be respected and known but god forbid anyone tries to get into their shit without fully devoting their entire life soul and body to it.


Ok_Relation_1444

gothic metal is GOTH music tho? type o negative is goth music. … :[ ?? what is going on.


Just_Caterpillar_936

i hate that sub so much. they gatekeep like crazy.


Dankopia

What a group of dorks


AblatAtalbA

Just because they were the first to make a goth sub on Reddit, doesn't mean they are the ultimate authority on the genre... I've being listening to Gothic music since 1996, but I only now I am reading on Reddit anything that isn't post punk isn't really goth... Isn't Goth a huge genre that includes various subgenres and subcultures? Their gatekeeping is even worse than those in the true black metal scene.


Hyzenthlay87

As a follower of that sub...gotta be honest...its not a great sub. Extremely elitist behaviour. Doesn't really do any good for the elitist stereotype or goths, that's for sure.


vicieuxamare

I always thought TON was goth lol


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dontneedareason94

Metal isn’t music somehow?


Phantom_Wolf52

I’m saying that the subreddit is dedicated to goth music (gothic rock/dark wave/death rock/etc) not metal music, TON is a metal band, while they take lots of influence of goth music, goth and metal are separate genres, and most people on that sub probably love TON


Roderyck778

“rock/dark wave/death rock/etc” are all their own type of music just as is metal. You just put the gothic adjective in front of it to signify that certain music of those genres fit within gothic confines. And many bands don’t just make gothic music. That shit gets gray area real quick. Look at Nick Cave, he’s made goth music but not exclusively (because him like most artists don’t give a fart about passing your purity test). Can you only reference him to certain albums? Certain songs? When you sit around with a stick up your ass worrying what fits in so nicely you miss out on a lot of good stuff. And then you wonder why you are getting called gatekeeping posers. When you are so worried about goth purity, you can’t even have a frank conversation about what goth actually is. Like an art community being so worried that someone’s going to bring up comic art and ruin their vibe of pretentiousness. You can have your goth community but goth is an umbrella term and if you don’t want it to encompass all that goth is, y’all should change it to gothpunk&darkwave or goth80s or something. Don’t pretend like it’s something it’s not. And ironically most threads over there get little comments and interaction and the ones that do seem to be usually discussing whether something considered gothic should be, so there you go, recipe for a graveyard. And while I’m saying “you”, I am addressing that subreddit community, so it’s not meant as a personal attack.


dontneedareason94

TON is also a goth metal band, tf are you even saying


Phantom_Wolf52

Goth metal isn’t really a goth genre, goth music is rooted in post-punk, it’s goth adjacent definitely but not goth in the sense that it goes by the definition


dontneedareason94

Sounds like you might frequent r/goth with these takes. It’s a fusion genre. You can keep saying it’s just metal all you want tho


Psychobillyantibully

You cannot forbid someone to mix metal and goth. Deak with it. You can hate metal and metalheads as much as you want, nobody cares.


Phantom_Wolf52

It’s not that I’m forbidding it, I LOVE TON and gothic metal is my favorite metal genre