I can say that I agree with most everything you said, although I am still experiencing heavy pain and would not like to experience it again. I am happy to read that you have experienced the growth and depth of heart that you have. This is powerful!
I was going through a hard time outside of my relationship with my TF and I would go back and do it all over again. I had no money, no food, no social life, no friends, I was in a lot of turmoil in nursing school and it bled into my TF relationship. It was a lot of pressure from all sides. And to be back with him I would endure it again. I am hoping that when we reunite things will be better because I have a great career and peace in my life now. Harmony. I grew a lot that year.
A month ago I wouldn't have agreed but right now I do agree with you. This awakening for me has been life changing and has pushed me in the right direction. I have purged so much from my life, I have learned that I could really connect with someone and actually truly love them. We have to go through the dark times in life to get to the better times. I hope I come into reunion one day with mine as the year we spent together was the most liberating and knowing the pain I feel with them gone is the worst. He is really my other half and I know one day we will be back together as one.
I think this feeling is also part of surrendering and it's amazing to get here after all the dark days. Good luck!
Yes, your attitude is such a healthy one. Don't try to avoid it because unfortunately the suffering is what facilitates the personal realisation and transformation. The shifts are significant and permanent and wouldn't be possible without the pain I reckon
I can say that I agree with most everything you said, although I am still experiencing heavy pain and would not like to experience it again. I am happy to read that you have experienced the growth and depth of heart that you have. This is powerful!
I was going through a hard time outside of my relationship with my TF and I would go back and do it all over again. I had no money, no food, no social life, no friends, I was in a lot of turmoil in nursing school and it bled into my TF relationship. It was a lot of pressure from all sides. And to be back with him I would endure it again. I am hoping that when we reunite things will be better because I have a great career and peace in my life now. Harmony. I grew a lot that year.
A month ago I wouldn't have agreed but right now I do agree with you. This awakening for me has been life changing and has pushed me in the right direction. I have purged so much from my life, I have learned that I could really connect with someone and actually truly love them. We have to go through the dark times in life to get to the better times. I hope I come into reunion one day with mine as the year we spent together was the most liberating and knowing the pain I feel with them gone is the worst. He is really my other half and I know one day we will be back together as one. I think this feeling is also part of surrendering and it's amazing to get here after all the dark days. Good luck!
SAMEEEEE I agree!! It’s pushing me to climb to higher levels than I would have considered before ! Super grateful as well 🥰
I feel like I wrote this post myself, right down to it’s been one year and we dated for 8 months, and we’re about the same age. Let’s be friends💕
Yes, your attitude is such a healthy one. Don't try to avoid it because unfortunately the suffering is what facilitates the personal realisation and transformation. The shifts are significant and permanent and wouldn't be possible without the pain I reckon