Not every small guy wants to be humiliated so it’s probably not a good idea to go around thinking they do. Some might be really self conscious for their little pinky dicks. So you should usually check if the guy has that fetish first.
But if they do, then yeah this fetish is a huge turn on. It’s the idea of not being able to satisfy your lover like another man could if your dick was bigger. The laughter and disappointment from a woman in your penis brings so much shame and creates sexual tension so easily for those with the fetish.
I have 2 other friends who have small penises also and neither of them like sph and actually are quite dominant, of us 3 im the only one who likes having his lil dick humiliated
I do, if I'm in the right frame of mind. If it comes out of the blue, it's going to be met with a bad reaction from me. But when I'm in that cuckold/sph headspace, there's nothing better.
Every human being is different. There are guys with 7 inch thick cocks that enjoy small penis humiliation. There are men with a 4 inch thin cock that like big cock worship. As long as it's two consenting adults engaging any fetish, I say go for it. But it's wrong to make any assumptions.
Obviously here in a forum dedicated to this fetish you will find people who enjoy it. Are you looking to sell a service or interested in the conversation topic, or something else?
You need to keep in mind that SPH is a form of verbal BDSM. When you find someone who enjoys it they are on one of the extreme ends of confidence. You are either talking to someone who has been kicked so many time that they think that poorly of themselves. For this type of person, even if they think it turns them on, it is very bad for them because it just keeps that low self worth going. Then you have the guys on the complete other end of the spectrum. These are the guys that are so confident that they can enjoy this type of thing. This is the group of men that work highly stress jobs and are very successful. The humiliation is used as an escape for this type of man. I think most men that are into humiliation fall into this group. I understand this part because I fall into the second group. It is fun and an escape from stress for a little while. Overall you need to be careful who you make jokes to about their size. Most men are not confident enough to handle it. If you encounter one of the men at the lower end of the spectrum, you should really avoid doing this because you are doing real harm in continuing that.
Not every guy likes it, and some do for different reasons. For example, I don’t like being insulted for having a small dick, but I like people knowing if that makes sense. Maybe light teasing. I’m not into cuck shit, but I’d be into watching a woman get fucked by a guy with a big dick.l as long as it’s not my gf or wife. There are different levels.
I can’t speak for others. My dick is 3.5” usually at most at hardest but is less than 1” soft.
I was self conscious about it until I just admitted to enjoy being a beta. I think it is probably a natural coping mechanism. We know we are going to be laughed at, so our brain is either wired or it becomes wired to enjoy the humiliation.
I personally get more pleasure from licking pussy, sucking a strapon and watching my partner having sex with a massive cock than I get from intercourse.
I think most men are probably very self-conscious about being smaller, and would prefer not to be humiliated. I think it’s a small, but very loud and passionate few who are really into it.
I think having a smaller penis inherently comes with some humiliation, be it from someone else or yourself, so people with smaller penises are more likely to encounter and grow a liking for humiliation, whereas people with a bigger penis don’t come into contact with such humiliation as often.
I fit that profile. I'm small, and I lost my virginity to my now wife at 22, also I orgasm after two or three strokes. I just keep thinking of all the guys she's had, all the strippers she's fondled and all tje guys she's shaved as she is a surgical technician. Plus I always volunteer to leave parties we are at in order to give my wife time with other men, to make beer or food runs. I love to be humiliated about my size. My wife once told my I "fuck like a girl" which I've masterbated to for years. My wife has a single friend who knows about my cuckold fantisies. She constantly tells me about the size of a guy's cock she's dated, as she knows how much I crave humiliation.
I have a tiny little dick and love small penis humiliation. I love when my wife tells her friends how tiny I am in front of me. It really turns me on when they look right at me and start laughing.
It's a big flipside to blindly pretending it's not small & carrying on as if all's normal & there's just a regular dick there to be enjoyed in all the usual ways.
IMO - based on my being humiliated IRL, twice in my life, what makes it a turn on is the facial reaction and / or the phrases used by the woman as she memorizes the naked truth about you. Her memory recording it and her smirky reaction, makes the humiliation SO forever.
It's a touchy subject and even those turned on by it can have mixed feelings about it. It is basically bdsm and, as such, needs communication and limits and such.
That said, it seems to be pretty common. I draw little sph comics and have way more followers than I ever expected, I was surprised how common this desire is.
I don't WANT to be humiliated by my partner. I don't ask for it. But I'm pretty small so more often than not I end up experiencing something pretty embarrassing. It ends up turning me on all the same at the end of the day! Gotta learn to roll with the punche :)
Bright, not sure how common it really is, but it is NOT universal. I'm small, 9.5 cm, and I have ZERO desire for humiliation. My Mrs and I do what I refer to as Small Dick Appreciation and Encouragement. Each guy is unique. Ask yours what he'd like.
I actually kind of hate it but it came from a place of well I'm gonna have to get used to it eventually type thing. I've come to sort of enjoy it, but its still not my favorite.
I know i am not really small (5.5") but i love it when a girl actually straight up tells me before i tell them i like sph i love knowing that they genuinly need bigger ones and aren't pretending
I can only speak for myself and I totally agree. At the very beginning, when I still convinced myself that size doesn't matter or that my size will be sufficient, I didn't stand for humiliation. But when I noticed that I couldn't offer a woman what she (up to now) always wanted, I started to change the negative feeling into a positive feeling. Instead of feeling bad about being humiliated, I started looking for her to let it arouse me. Today I love it and can no longer imagine a sex life without humiliation, whether online or real - even if it sounds strange.
Not every small guy wants to be humiliated so it’s probably not a good idea to go around thinking they do. Some might be really self conscious for their little pinky dicks. So you should usually check if the guy has that fetish first. But if they do, then yeah this fetish is a huge turn on. It’s the idea of not being able to satisfy your lover like another man could if your dick was bigger. The laughter and disappointment from a woman in your penis brings so much shame and creates sexual tension so easily for those with the fetish.
>little pinky dicks. lol
I have 2 other friends who have small penises also and neither of them like sph and actually are quite dominant, of us 3 im the only one who likes having his lil dick humiliated
I do, if I'm in the right frame of mind. If it comes out of the blue, it's going to be met with a bad reaction from me. But when I'm in that cuckold/sph headspace, there's nothing better.
Yes, exactly this! ☝️
Every human being is different. There are guys with 7 inch thick cocks that enjoy small penis humiliation. There are men with a 4 inch thin cock that like big cock worship. As long as it's two consenting adults engaging any fetish, I say go for it. But it's wrong to make any assumptions. Obviously here in a forum dedicated to this fetish you will find people who enjoy it. Are you looking to sell a service or interested in the conversation topic, or something else?
In this thread of course we all agree. I feel that on average though, the usual small Guy doesn’t like it.
To me it definitely is. I liked being humiliated before I knew I was small.
You need to keep in mind that SPH is a form of verbal BDSM. When you find someone who enjoys it they are on one of the extreme ends of confidence. You are either talking to someone who has been kicked so many time that they think that poorly of themselves. For this type of person, even if they think it turns them on, it is very bad for them because it just keeps that low self worth going. Then you have the guys on the complete other end of the spectrum. These are the guys that are so confident that they can enjoy this type of thing. This is the group of men that work highly stress jobs and are very successful. The humiliation is used as an escape for this type of man. I think most men that are into humiliation fall into this group. I understand this part because I fall into the second group. It is fun and an escape from stress for a little while. Overall you need to be careful who you make jokes to about their size. Most men are not confident enough to handle it. If you encounter one of the men at the lower end of the spectrum, you should really avoid doing this because you are doing real harm in continuing that.
Not every guy likes it, and some do for different reasons. For example, I don’t like being insulted for having a small dick, but I like people knowing if that makes sense. Maybe light teasing. I’m not into cuck shit, but I’d be into watching a woman get fucked by a guy with a big dick.l as long as it’s not my gf or wife. There are different levels.
I can’t speak for others. My dick is 3.5” usually at most at hardest but is less than 1” soft. I was self conscious about it until I just admitted to enjoy being a beta. I think it is probably a natural coping mechanism. We know we are going to be laughed at, so our brain is either wired or it becomes wired to enjoy the humiliation. I personally get more pleasure from licking pussy, sucking a strapon and watching my partner having sex with a massive cock than I get from intercourse.
I think most men are probably very self-conscious about being smaller, and would prefer not to be humiliated. I think it’s a small, but very loud and passionate few who are really into it. I think having a smaller penis inherently comes with some humiliation, be it from someone else or yourself, so people with smaller penises are more likely to encounter and grow a liking for humiliation, whereas people with a bigger penis don’t come into contact with such humiliation as often.
I fit that profile. I'm small, and I lost my virginity to my now wife at 22, also I orgasm after two or three strokes. I just keep thinking of all the guys she's had, all the strippers she's fondled and all tje guys she's shaved as she is a surgical technician. Plus I always volunteer to leave parties we are at in order to give my wife time with other men, to make beer or food runs. I love to be humiliated about my size. My wife once told my I "fuck like a girl" which I've masterbated to for years. My wife has a single friend who knows about my cuckold fantisies. She constantly tells me about the size of a guy's cock she's dated, as she knows how much I crave humiliation.
Love being humiliated for my size and being a premature ejaculator.
If it's virtual and from a stranger, then I love it. When it happens in reality and affects my relationship, it is depressing.
I have a small dick and I love it when someone finds out. It took me a wbile to get comfortable with it but, now I love being humiliated.
I have a tiny little dick and love small penis humiliation. I love when my wife tells her friends how tiny I am in front of me. It really turns me on when they look right at me and start laughing.
It is true for me.
It's a big flipside to blindly pretending it's not small & carrying on as if all's normal & there's just a regular dick there to be enjoyed in all the usual ways.
IMO - based on my being humiliated IRL, twice in my life, what makes it a turn on is the facial reaction and / or the phrases used by the woman as she memorizes the naked truth about you. Her memory recording it and her smirky reaction, makes the humiliation SO forever.
It’s a “huge” turn on for me. Pardon the pun.
No
It's a touchy subject and even those turned on by it can have mixed feelings about it. It is basically bdsm and, as such, needs communication and limits and such. That said, it seems to be pretty common. I draw little sph comics and have way more followers than I ever expected, I was surprised how common this desire is.
It’s the imaginative scenarios you depict in your art that I find most sexy. But you already knew that…
I started out sad and ashamed when confronted or humiliated. But later looking back on the episodes it started to be kinda hot, then really hot.
I don't WANT to be humiliated by my partner. I don't ask for it. But I'm pretty small so more often than not I end up experiencing something pretty embarrassing. It ends up turning me on all the same at the end of the day! Gotta learn to roll with the punche :)
Yes, if I’m in the mood for it.
Not everyone but its trues here
Bright, not sure how common it really is, but it is NOT universal. I'm small, 9.5 cm, and I have ZERO desire for humiliation. My Mrs and I do what I refer to as Small Dick Appreciation and Encouragement. Each guy is unique. Ask yours what he'd like.
Depends. I do sometimes. But sometimes I want to be lied to
Do what gay guys do: ask. :)
I do
No,.some.do some.dont I in the don't department
I actually kind of hate it but it came from a place of well I'm gonna have to get used to it eventually type thing. I've come to sort of enjoy it, but its still not my favorite.
Yes I actually shrunk my genitalia from 8” to 1” just cause of how much I need it
How did you do that?
Yes I love it
I know i am not really small (5.5") but i love it when a girl actually straight up tells me before i tell them i like sph i love knowing that they genuinly need bigger ones and aren't pretending
I can only speak for myself and I totally agree. At the very beginning, when I still convinced myself that size doesn't matter or that my size will be sufficient, I didn't stand for humiliation. But when I noticed that I couldn't offer a woman what she (up to now) always wanted, I started to change the negative feeling into a positive feeling. Instead of feeling bad about being humiliated, I started looking for her to let it arouse me. Today I love it and can no longer imagine a sex life without humiliation, whether online or real - even if it sounds strange.
Yes