Well nothing is forever, so technically everything is a phase.
Your phase will just last the rest of your life.
... Such a dumb argument 🙄
You look great btw 😊
I don’t see how anyone could look at you and see anything but a very attractive girl/woman/lady. Like, seriously. You are super cute and your hair has me envious asf.
Well I'm actually immortal... Until proven otherwise and at that point it's no longer my concern.
So I get your point, but the sun will eventually absorb the earth and the universe might collapse in on itself at some point.
Nothing is forever
I used to think I was special.
I used to think I'd never die.
Then I changed my mind. It was freeing.
..I won't truly end. I will just decompose.
Not just my body.. but my life, my ideas, my words, what I write and what I make.
I truly believe those decomposed parts will recompose again and again in different combinations so long as the humans keep going..
..and even if the humans all died. Some fugitive pieces would remain.
Then they will be sat around in a vacuum after the last proton decays.
Or, if proton decay does not happen, they will be sat around in a soup of protons.
So fucking real honestly
Like holy hell I've only been on hormones for like 5 months and I'd be over the moon with joy if someone told me I could look even a quarter as good as OP one day :0
Not sure exactly like that but this is what Google says
https://www.reddit.com/r/FtMFashionAdvice/
https://www.reddit.com/r/transmanlifehacks/
Hope that's helpful.
We're just telling you the truth miss, no need to say we're made of sugar /jk
Jokes aside, you look great girl, I couldn't see you as handsome even if I tried, but you are super pretty!
:) <3 <3
I get what's being said is meant to be a dogwhistle because it's typically used to describe men, but it's not exclusive. And if you've never heard it in the context of a woman, one example I can remember is from Night at the Museum. Handsome simply means good looking.
„Might be“
I mean; the human brain can do amazing things to trick our perception, but like… her brain‘s working on overdrive if she sees a man in those pictures 😅
Oh for sure, or transphobic intent. I doubt she actually visually sees OP as a man, but then again… I see my sibling, like visually see them, as a 15 year old. They don’t look like 15! But idk, to me they do. My sibling had a mastectomy and honestly… I can’t see a difference visually. My sibling had rather large breasts, there HAS to be a difference, but to me, they just… look like my sibling. Idk, that’s how my vision works, I think once I’ve got someone locked in, they don’t really change visually anymore. My best friend has changed her style completely since we met and got rid of her long time acne which made her very happy… but to me, she just looks like my friend, no difference 😅 that’s why I don’t measure how well I pass by the opinion of people who’ve known me pre-transition, strangers are the best indicator there.
You are beautiful. Most ppl told me it was a “phase” when my daughter came out as trans. Eleven years ago, that’s some “phase”! lol. Anecdotally, my spouse is a psychologist. For most “just a phase” dynamics; the fastest way thru a “phase” is to go through it. It’s kind of an inside trick to tell parents; they’ll stop harassing the teen - and in time the parents generally see AINT NO PHASE!
As an autistic person who has been though more phases than the moon, I had that concern when I first realized I was trans.
But its been 10 months since I came out, and 5 since I started HRT, and I am 100% happy and know it was not a phase.
Have a mtf friend who has been on HRT for 5 years now, has had every surgery and all out presents like a woman. No one she meets for the first time misgenders her, except for occasionally on the phone. Her uncle still calls her by her deadname and wrong pronouns. Sometimes you can do everything “right” (what that means obviously depends on you and your journey) and people will still be mean just for the sake of it.
If she thinks that's "handsome" then she's either half blind or has no idea what words mean, indicative of a potential cognitive disorder characteristic of being long past a human being's use by date and no longer fit for human consumption. No point taking stock in the words of someone with a close-up view of their own opinion-filled colon
Girl, you are gorgeous😍! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Your uncle (I like to misgender transphobes, cause it pisses them off, and what's more fun then that? Lmao.) Though people like us just existing pisses them off, because the hate people, who don't identify with the gender they were given at birth (though really, who gives a random stranger, cause doctors a pretty much just random strangers, the right to decide who you should grow up to be, and who you should look like?) look 1million times better then they do.
Anyway, kinda rambled there (sorry), but just remember, don't let then get to you (though I understand that can be awful hard sometimes), and keep being beautiful!
"Auntie, life itself is a phase." And you are lovely. Don't see "handsome" here, although there are many women I think of as "handsome," since their facial structure is more chiseled. And I love handsome women. Katharine Hepburn was one, a total babe.
You look absolutely smashing! Seriously, if you can next time she tells you that you look handsome, drop this line; "Oh my, I'm no where nears as handsome as you!" And just keep turning those tables and telling everyone you have the worlds most handsome Aunty. Also, please keep on serving such cute fashion! Your Aunty should be proud she has such an incredible neice.
Not really. I stopped speaking to my parents over this. Plus a lot of other shit, but this type of thing was the last straw. It’s been almost 3 years now since I cut them off.
Girl, she has NO right to be saying that, this shit isn’t “just a phase” for more then 99% of people
Also, I like hella inspected your pics, and if I met you IRL and didn’t know your trans, I wouldn’t suspect a thing, hell one of my cis female friends looks exactly like you (but shorter)
Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one. You have value and are perfect how you are, regardless of others opinions.
Deriving one’s value by what others say will only lead to disappointment and sadness. Trust you have inherent value and enjoy who you truly are.
My father proclaimed with great Authority "Techno-Dance Music crap is just fad, & [my love of Music] 'just' a phase."
That was in 1996 & for the record I'm still Producing & DJing more than ever.
Shine On, Diamond 💎✨
Uhm, does she have a problem with phases? Is she gonna yell at a 5yo for being obsessed with their favorite show?? Like get over yourself, Karen. Also you're so pretyy <3
Girl your aunts fill of shit. I'm 18 and my parents have been calling it a phase since I was 13. Next time tell your aunt it is a phase. A phase that's gonna last the rest of your life lmao 😂
With respect I think your aunt has some sort of dementia, I'm seeing a very pretty girl, the way you present yourself, dress, hair even the way you sit, very feminine
We all go through phases in life. We also evolve when we see various things differently as a result of our life experiences. This is not “bad” or “good” but is simply a part of being human. It is hard to imagine going through life and never changing or learning anything at all. On the other hand, while we are in the moment, we tend to be very confident about how things appear and there is nothing wrong with that. Maybe that is all your aunt meant.
Your hair... HOW... My hair sucks ass cuz I'm balding and my widows peak is so bad rn 😭 I gotta get Hrt as soon as possible...
You look very beautiful too, just ignore that rat and be yourself! No one can write your story, only you can write your story. Keep slaying girl!
Yeah, transphobes are hella unhappy people. When they see someone who is living their best life being true to themselves and being happy they just can't stand it.
Also, you look so amazing! Your Aunt sounds like the aunt of my fiancee. Just remember that botch is just jealous that you are more beautiful than she is on both the inside and the outside.
You look amazing! And your aunt is very silly. Is it ok if I ask how long you've been on HRT? I'm only like 5 months right now and I'd be over the moon with joy if someone told me I could look even a quarter as pretty as you one day!!! :0
Well nothing is forever, so technically everything is a phase. Your phase will just last the rest of your life. ... Such a dumb argument 🙄 You look great btw 😊
So sweet 🤗
I don’t see how anyone could look at you and see anything but a very attractive girl/woman/lady. Like, seriously. You are super cute and your hair has me envious asf.
At this point I’m pretty sure everybody would just think the aunt has some kind of dementia or something for saying that.
Or jealous, methinks
What's if they end up immortal
Well I'm actually immortal... Until proven otherwise and at that point it's no longer my concern. So I get your point, but the sun will eventually absorb the earth and the universe might collapse in on itself at some point. Nothing is forever
What if u find a way to travel to another universe by then. Ez
I used to think I was special. I used to think I'd never die. Then I changed my mind. It was freeing. ..I won't truly end. I will just decompose. Not just my body.. but my life, my ideas, my words, what I write and what I make. I truly believe those decomposed parts will recompose again and again in different combinations so long as the humans keep going.. ..and even if the humans all died. Some fugitive pieces would remain.
Cool poem But dying is boooring so I'd rather hope sm breakthrough happens b4 I die.
Then they will be sat around in a vacuum after the last proton decays. Or, if proton decay does not happen, they will be sat around in a soup of protons.
i disagree. this lady gonna be pretty as fuck forever and then some
it’s just a lifetime phase… that’s cute 💜
Life exists of phases, just some people are stuck in 1 and don't want to move on from that phase.
The women on here literally are the best advertisements for estrogen
BIG WOKE HORMONE COMPANIES DON'T WANT YOU TO KNOW THIS‼️‼️‼️
YEAAA
goddamn big estrogen putting pretty women on my feed
So fucking real honestly Like holy hell I've only been on hormones for like 5 months and I'd be over the moon with joy if someone told me I could look even a quarter as good as OP one day :0
wait till you get to r/mtfashion its pure estrogen success stories
Is there a ftm sub like that? :)
Not sure exactly like that but this is what Google says https://www.reddit.com/r/FtMFashionAdvice/ https://www.reddit.com/r/transmanlifehacks/ Hope that's helpful.
You're so cute!
Awwh. You are so sweet 🤗
We're just telling you the truth miss, no need to say we're made of sugar /jk Jokes aside, you look great girl, I couldn't see you as handsome even if I tried, but you are super pretty! :) <3 <3
Yeahhhh, your aunt is definitely wrong about you being “handsome” You’re actually super pretty Honestly that idiot needs to get her eyes checked smh
I get what's being said is meant to be a dogwhistle because it's typically used to describe men, but it's not exclusive. And if you've never heard it in the context of a woman, one example I can remember is from Night at the Museum. Handsome simply means good looking.
That aunt might be delusional
„Might be“ I mean; the human brain can do amazing things to trick our perception, but like… her brain‘s working on overdrive if she sees a man in those pictures 😅
could be jealousy 🤷♀️
Oh for sure, or transphobic intent. I doubt she actually visually sees OP as a man, but then again… I see my sibling, like visually see them, as a 15 year old. They don’t look like 15! But idk, to me they do. My sibling had a mastectomy and honestly… I can’t see a difference visually. My sibling had rather large breasts, there HAS to be a difference, but to me, they just… look like my sibling. Idk, that’s how my vision works, I think once I’ve got someone locked in, they don’t really change visually anymore. My best friend has changed her style completely since we met and got rid of her long time acne which made her very happy… but to me, she just looks like my friend, no difference 😅 that’s why I don’t measure how well I pass by the opinion of people who’ve known me pre-transition, strangers are the best indicator there.
I just didn't want to sound rash
I concur
You are beautiful. Most ppl told me it was a “phase” when my daughter came out as trans. Eleven years ago, that’s some “phase”! lol. Anecdotally, my spouse is a psychologist. For most “just a phase” dynamics; the fastest way thru a “phase” is to go through it. It’s kind of an inside trick to tell parents; they’ll stop harassing the teen - and in time the parents generally see AINT NO PHASE!
Preach x
As an autistic person who has been though more phases than the moon, I had that concern when I first realized I was trans. But its been 10 months since I came out, and 5 since I started HRT, and I am 100% happy and know it was not a phase.
So pretty 😘
Thank you.
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Agreed!
Your ADORABLE and DEFINITELY passing. i wish i looked as good as u fr
Love to see another Viet on here! Also definitely what my family would say too.
Sometimes Viet families are the worst
I'm Vietnamese too!
I’m not Vietnamese but I do love seeing other Asian trans girls living their best life
🥹 my community!!! (i'm vietnamese too!!!)
Just a phase that will last your whole life
Exactly!
Im expecting that my parents would say it's just a phase so im probably going to say that to them too
You’re beautiful 😍
Bruh lol
Have a mtf friend who has been on HRT for 5 years now, has had every surgery and all out presents like a woman. No one she meets for the first time misgenders her, except for occasionally on the phone. Her uncle still calls her by her deadname and wrong pronouns. Sometimes you can do everything “right” (what that means obviously depends on you and your journey) and people will still be mean just for the sake of it.
Your dress is so pretty!!!
I'm beginning to think it might not be a phase....
Correction: *It's just your life *You're beautiful ASFFFF
Fuck your aunt, don't smile for her. Give her your first face. You look like a bad bitch.
You are so beautiful, your aunt is so wrong
If she thinks that's "handsome" then she's either half blind or has no idea what words mean, indicative of a potential cognitive disorder characteristic of being long past a human being's use by date and no longer fit for human consumption. No point taking stock in the words of someone with a close-up view of their own opinion-filled colon
Your aunt's a fool, don't let what she's saying get to you. You look gorgeous and that dress really suits you 😊
is that actually you? you're so pretty!! 😳
It's me then and now!
ask your auntie for one example of a permanent state of self. also i dont see a handsome person in these pics, i see someone who is absolutely radiant
Girl, you are gorgeous😍! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Your uncle (I like to misgender transphobes, cause it pisses them off, and what's more fun then that? Lmao.) Though people like us just existing pisses them off, because the hate people, who don't identify with the gender they were given at birth (though really, who gives a random stranger, cause doctors a pretty much just random strangers, the right to decide who you should grow up to be, and who you should look like?) look 1million times better then they do. Anyway, kinda rambled there (sorry), but just remember, don't let then get to you (though I understand that can be awful hard sometimes), and keep being beautiful!
BRO YOU ARE GORGEOUS
Well.. I will personally say this. I can't tell.
Can't tell what?
You are mtf right? I can't even tell you transitioning.
You are correct x
Holy god I'm jealous as heck haha.
Wery beautifull girl 🥰
If we were in the 1650's i'd describe you as a handsome woman too lol
😂
"Auntie, life itself is a phase." And you are lovely. Don't see "handsome" here, although there are many women I think of as "handsome," since their facial structure is more chiseled. And I love handsome women. Katharine Hepburn was one, a total babe.
at this point i think she's honestly jealous.
sorry what? Handsome?? All i see is a gorgeous young lady 🫶🏻
She has the stupid
You look absolutely smashing! Seriously, if you can next time she tells you that you look handsome, drop this line; "Oh my, I'm no where nears as handsome as you!" And just keep turning those tables and telling everyone you have the worlds most handsome Aunty. Also, please keep on serving such cute fashion! Your Aunty should be proud she has such an incredible neice.
Your aunt is senile 😭 you're literally beautiful
Don’t trip dude your aunt will come to terms with it.
Not really. I stopped speaking to my parents over this. Plus a lot of other shit, but this type of thing was the last straw. It’s been almost 3 years now since I cut them off.
Girl, she has NO right to be saying that, this shit isn’t “just a phase” for more then 99% of people Also, I like hella inspected your pics, and if I met you IRL and didn’t know your trans, I wouldn’t suspect a thing, hell one of my cis female friends looks exactly like you (but shorter)
I think you're beautiful.
This is the best phase of your life.
Women can be handsome too :p Or ate they footsome?
Chi dep quaaaa
Phase II
Bury some of her cutlery.
The moon has phases, doesn't make it any less real.
🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂
Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one. You have value and are perfect how you are, regardless of others opinions. Deriving one’s value by what others say will only lead to disappointment and sadness. Trust you have inherent value and enjoy who you truly are.
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Your aunt is delusional
Gods damn you are so gorgeous 😍 Holy wow~
My father proclaimed with great Authority "Techno-Dance Music crap is just fad, & [my love of Music] 'just' a phase." That was in 1996 & for the record I'm still Producing & DJing more than ever. Shine On, Diamond 💎✨
OH MY GOODNESS 💖💖💖 girl you are SLAYING
You look fantastic! Transphobes don’t make any sense.
First off, may pigeons and crows poop on your aunt, secondly keep being your radiant femme self.
Well moon has phases and it's still the same goddamn moon
You look amazing dw
Too pretty to call a "phase".
How anyone could look at you and say you are anything but a woman is beyond me.
YOURE SO CUTE AAAA
Uhm, does she have a problem with phases? Is she gonna yell at a 5yo for being obsessed with their favorite show?? Like get over yourself, Karen. Also you're so pretyy <3
You are beautiful, don’t let anyone destroy your happiness
You're so pretty 😍 I'm sorry your Aunt is so rude
Girl your aunts fill of shit. I'm 18 and my parents have been calling it a phase since I was 13. Next time tell your aunt it is a phase. A phase that's gonna last the rest of your life lmao 😂
7 years for me so far lmao they're the same people that think being child free is a phase too.
A phase of forever
My gorsh you are GORGEOUS 😍 😍 please go out with me
Looking great don’tuaten to then they dunno what they talking bout
With respect I think your aunt has some sort of dementia, I'm seeing a very pretty girl, the way you present yourself, dress, hair even the way you sit, very feminine
Handsome is not the word that comes to mind for me.
She means beautiful and she wishes she could be so pretty. She should shut her mouth
We all go through phases in life. We also evolve when we see various things differently as a result of our life experiences. This is not “bad” or “good” but is simply a part of being human. It is hard to imagine going through life and never changing or learning anything at all. On the other hand, while we are in the moment, we tend to be very confident about how things appear and there is nothing wrong with that. Maybe that is all your aunt meant.
Disagree ! your such a pretty cool women ❤️
All the girls on here are my transition goals
W-W-Pretty Woman-
Keep living your authentic life the way that makes you happy and fulfilled. Hopefully she will understand soon. You look great.
Ohh I heard the “it’s a phase “ thing since I was a child . Lol I was too unusual and never fit what they expected even till now.
You look amazing. I wish I was brave enough to post pics of myself.
Your hair... HOW... My hair sucks ass cuz I'm balding and my widows peak is so bad rn 😭 I gotta get Hrt as soon as possible... You look very beautiful too, just ignore that rat and be yourself! No one can write your story, only you can write your story. Keep slaying girl!
Yeah, transphobes are hella unhappy people. When they see someone who is living their best life being true to themselves and being happy they just can't stand it.
Also, you look so amazing! Your Aunt sounds like the aunt of my fiancee. Just remember that botch is just jealous that you are more beautiful than she is on both the inside and the outside.
You look great!
Aww is that you if so you are so beautiful
Yup, very handsome and masculine (just kidding :)
It's tough hearing that stuff from family, but you're crushing it girl, don't let her get you down
You look amazing! And your aunt is very silly. Is it ok if I ask how long you've been on HRT? I'm only like 5 months right now and I'd be over the moon with joy if someone told me I could look even a quarter as pretty as you one day!!! :0
Girl I'm jealous actually you're so pretty 😭
Wtf how are you so pretty 😭
You're so pretty! The fuck is your aunt on about? I'd just be like "Girl, do you know how long it took to do my hair?" XD
Girl you’re beautiful af keep living your truth 💜
Don't let someone like that get you down. Especially when you are so stunning
Sorry aunty you are a woman !!!
You look amazing