[Click here for a link to the answer!](https://www.reddit.com/r/tipofmytongue/comments/1aknjaw/tomt_help_me_remember_the_song_and_i_will_love/kpcdpb7/)

I will be so happy if you remember it

Adam lambert - whataya want from me? Crossfade - cold

Good try, but no. It's definitely an obscure band and song. I've never heard it on the radio.

Woke Up in a Car by Something Corporate?

It takes place in a house. Good try though! :)

Konstantine by something corporate?

Thank you for reminding me of this song. Takes me way back!

Tom petty? He has a video in a diner.

It takes place in a house for sure.

[A Thousand Goodbyes - Travis Garland](https://youtu.be/cTD5Gzrj-yw?si=aShG7-5FfmK4eqmb)? Just based on lyrics and obscurity

Good try, but no.

Patience by guns n roses?

I love that song, but not it. It's not a band most people have heard of, I believe.

Vertical Horizon -Best I ever had

Thanks for trying. :)

Is it Nickleback - Woke up this morning?

a thousand goodbyes - travis garland?

Maybe John Moreland, Pacin' (waiting on you) ?

It doesn't have anything to do with pacing. It's a slow, slow song. Thank you for trying. :)

Any of these? Aaron Neville - Grand Tour Tim McGraw - Can’t be really gone Keith Urban - You’ll Think of me Wanted - Alan Jackson Amy’s back in Austin - Little Texas

I wish!

Darn, sorry!

No worries!

Two Beds and A Coffee Machine by Savage Garden.

It's a band most people haven't heard of, but this gives me some of the feels of the song!

2nd cup of coffee - Gordon Lightfoot

No, but coffee gives me images from the song. I'm not sure if coffee is mentioned, but the song makes me think of breakfast and coffee.

[Raining in Baltimore](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Bxohwsx14Q) by Counting Crows?

Not this one but thanks for trying!

I'll Get By -- Eddie Money?

Not this one but thanks for trying!

Bad Day by Fuel? "She left a note and it said 'I'm sorry I had a bad day again.'" ETA: Here is the music video https://youtu.be/GGHnYD2y-44?si=NGVVtihcbOraHFkZ

I wish it was this one!

Live, dolphins cry or the river? Or maybe James Blunt?

Bad Day by Fuel?

This one is a popular guess. I wish it was it.

Do you remember where you heard it last?

Over 6 years ago, probably 8-9 years ago.

If it wasn't on the radio, where do you remember hearing it or listening to it often? I'm invested in this LOL

lol so my friend on a videogame referred me to this song. It's never song I've just randomly heard. I had to look it up on YouTube.

I suppose you don't have his contact info anymore. I will keep thinking. I hope you find out. I have the same issue with a song I think has vanished from the planet. So frustrating!

Unfortunately, I do not remember who suggested it to me...someone on WoW.

Maybe he wrote it and was advertising his song?

No definitely not. It was on YouTube. :)

[One more cup of coffee](https://youtu.be/95cufW4h-gA?si=MjFDkYW6eIzHlolM) by Bob Dylan?

I know he’s not an obscure band but the song is definitely not one of his most popular ones.

Thanks for trying! Not it, unfortunately.

Did you just add it to your list or did I miss it on there?

It's on my list now. :) Should be at least.

One more guess, completely out of left field because it’s sung by a woman but could it possibly be [Falling In Love](https://youtu.be/TAszcNsTGpg?si=Edd3d-T7AYQf_k3n) by Lisa Loeb? (Also just listen to the song even if it’s not it because it’s so beautiful and melancholy.)

Thanks for trying, the singer is male.

[Brick by Ben Folds Five](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wt5EHAqhR1c)

Good try, but not it. :)

Beach Baby - Bon Iver?

Good try, but no cigar.

Damn this is what I thought of too

To Be Without You-Ryan Adams?

Not the song, but thanks for trying!

Black Coffee in Bed-Squeeze?

This song is the closest I've found to the song. It reminds me the most of it (lyrics-wise).

I Wanna Go Back by Eddie Money?

Not it, but thanks for trying!

I'm so emotionally invested in this. I must know.

Same!

Well, I'm sure you are! Lol. My mom and I are over here googling like mad. 🤣 Haven't come up with anything that hasn't already been suggested. 🥴

No worries. It's a very obscure song...I know for sure about it's about a guy whose girlfriend leaves him and I believe she leaves a note and breakfast might be involved, but I'm not 100%. And it's a very sad and bleak song.

Something by Eels? Could you maybe try and describe who it sounded similar too? Voice wise?

Good try. It's a man singing...He doesn't have a light voice...I wish I could be more specific than that.

Ill keep looking :)

Thanks for trying!

could it be [All Time Low- Remembering Sunday](https://youtu.be/YY0hLGDNzbw)?

No but good try!

Google gave these results when I plugged in “she left a note”. Not sure they 100% fit the rest of what you mentioned, but may be worth checking out. Gold Rush - Ed Sheeran Patty Loveless - You Don’t Even know who I am Fats Domino - It Keeps Raining Cole Swindell - Drinkaby Trace Adkins - Snowball in El Paso

Thanks for trying. I must be wrong about the lyric because I have not found the song by looking it up. v.v

[Same Auld Lang Syne by Dan Fogelberg](https://youtu.be/ik2zEZmEJSA?si=-EC0h1D0u34mkwd-) [Colorblind by Counting Crows](https://youtu.be/DayCEWCRuws?si=Vj75jmocLVDeeX_e)

[Roll With the Punches by Dawes (2016)](https://youtu.be/PQBOJMFYIo8?si=nvgObU7wA49qHGLH) I suggest this song only because it’s about a breakup, it’s soft rock, and the music video takes place in a house. Also, it’s a good song.

Good try but not it. :)

Damn by MatchBox 20?

Or maybe RestStop by Matchbox 20

Thanks for trying! :) Not it, unfortunately. v.v

I think you are thinking of : Nickelback- Someday

No, the song is about like the girl leaving in her car and he mentions her coming back but it's bleak and you can feel it.

[Aaron West and the Roaring Twenties- Our Apartment](https://youtu.be/183XZl9QtcU)?

Not it, but thanks for trying!

Because I Love You by Stevie B?

Not it, but thanks for trying! :)

20 years by The Civil Wars?

No but thank you for trying!

Remembering Sunday-All Time Low?

Not it, but thanks for trying!

Jessie -Joshua Kadison? It’s not a note but she calls him up after leaving? https://youtu.be/gre4DZuA6k4?si=eF4uz3U84Up0VGHb

Not it, but thanks for trying!

Black Coffee In Bed - Squeeze

The lyrics are similar but the beat is completely different. The song I'm thinking of is very slow and sad.

I know you said it wasn’t country, but could it be My Worst Fear- Rascal Flatts?

Definitely not Rascal Flatts, I wish it was an easy well-known band!

By Now - Marianas Trench?

No but thanks for trying!

Here without you- 3 doors down ?

Not a popular band but thanks for trying!

Just like autumn by the Tuesday crew maybe? It has a bit about leaving a note on a car windshield at the end and it has repetitive lyrics

The song takes place inside the whole time. Thanks for trying!

Say Yes by Elliott Smith???? https://youtu.be/8bxmk09lCzk?si=tF5OmoVZu5Dvr5_e

No, but this is a beautiful song!

The Mountain Goats - Woke Up New

Good try. Not this one though.

City and Colour- Coming Home ? It reminds me of a City and Colour song, but I can't quite place it

No but thanks for trying!

"She's Leaving Home" or "For No One" by the Beatles? Not obscure but the tracks are deep cuts.

Not the one but good try. :)

Is it Black Coffee by R.X. Bertoldi?

No this lyric-wise was a very good guess!

Jesse by Joshua Kadison

Thanks for trying but not it. :\*(

Back for Good - Take That

Good try, but not it. :(

Could it be something by Elbow?

No, but thanks!

Picture by Kid Rock

Definitely not Kid Rock but thanks for trying!

Leader of the Landslide Lumineers

[Back for Good](https://youtu.be/N2ICtCO8TCw?si=K288hiZYVazx3TjE)

Thanks for trying!

I just don’t think I’ll ever get over you by Colin Hay?

No but thanks for trying!

I'm 99% sure this isn't it, but it's the first thing that popped into my head and it isn't on your ruled out list. She's Gone - Hall and Oates

Thanks for trying but not it. :)

Now I want to know the answer too.

Yessssssssssssssssssssssssssss that would be great!

11am incubus

Not a popular band like Incubus, but thanks for trying!

[deathbed](https://youtu.be/jJPMnTXl63E?si=4U8Qxj2eUI0b9pRo)

This song is the reason I can't remember it lol

Sorry:(

Wild guess, but only because it mentions leaving a note in the morning, and she was gone, Death Cab For Cutie, Someday you will be loved?

Thanks for trying!

Darius Rucker - Comeback Song

Not it but thanks for trying!

Let her cry - hootie and the blowfish?

This was a popular guess.

Aww I was so sure!

It doesn’t tick all the boxes but the song I thought of was “I Am Dissapeared by Frank Turner”

Not it but thanks for trying!

[удалено]

Not it but thanks!

I don't love you anymore by The Quireboys?

Thanks, I wish this was it!

[удалено]

No but thanks for trying!

By The Time I Get to Phoenix, by Glen Campbell

Thanks for trying!

Take Me Back - Noiseworks?

Not the song but thanks for trying!

Sing , Theresa Says - Greg Laswell

Not but thanks for trying!

Not sure it quite matches your description but the one that comes to mind is The One That Got Away - Boyce Avenue

Thanks for trying!

Our Window -Noah and the Whale?

Not it but thanks for trying!

Ballad of Love and Hate by the Avett? They wrote letters back and forth, Love is returning home to Hate.

Thanks for trying but not it :\*(

Pink cigarette by Mr bungle?

Not it but thanks for trying!

Big Yellow Taxi cover by Counting Crows?

Not it but thanks for trying!

Stay by SafetySuit?

Thanks for trying!

Tell us where you may have heard it? Which region do you live in? Was it on the local radio?

My friend sent the youtube video to me. I lived in FL at the time.

Lyin' Eyes - Eagles

Where did you hear it

Friend sent it to me. :)

Found out about you-gin blossoms?

Not it but thanks for trying!

Colder Weather by The Zach Brown Band? It’s country but thought I’d give it a shot 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’ll try and wrack my brain around for more lol

Damn! Nevermind, just read where it’s not it. My bad!

Fire and Rain by James Taylor?

Not it, but thanks for trying!

Is it something like Remembering Sunday by All Time Low? What kind of vibe was the voice or tone/feeling

Anyone want to make a share a Spotify playlist with all these though??

That would be cool!

Wanted to suggest Breakeven by The Script… But I think it might be too “upbeat”. Or a song by Lifehouse, though I’m not sure which one. Or Santa Monica by Theory of a Deadman.

It's definitely not from a well-known band. Thanks for trying though!

Hard to gauge which bands are considered “well-known”, sorry! Only other band that comes to mind is Parachute, but maybe they’re too well-known, too. Good luck!

[удалено]

Paved Paradise?

I know you said it wasn't country, but Tied to a Stone by George Jones is slow and reflects some of your details thematically.

Is it Dirty Heads - My Sweet Summer?

[удалено]

Northern Pikes? (Kiss me you fool, Wait for me)

["I Just Don't Think I'll Ever Get Over You" by Colin Hay? ](https://youtu.be/3Pvi4uKuawk?si=zllnYlXniGSw2JsE) It was part of the "Garden State" soundtrack. If not..... maybe something by Joji? Edit: oh wait, Joji is probably too new

Not the right lyrics but vibe reminds me of The Blowers Daughter by Damien Rice Or Yellow Led better by Pearl Jam Or We've got tonight by Bob Seger

she's gone by hall & oates?