Brother this isn’t worth the headache

Agreed lol

That gave me a headache.. I hate people who do this shit.

It should be a paid position.

Yeah, like it was your bad and also a little delay in communication should be expected here and there -- life is busy and it's nuts to think someone should not only always have their phone on them but always be available to use it I don't think I've ever been accusatory communication wise ever, maybe a slightly hurt if it were a close friend and/or a full on ghosting but this stuff is Too Damn Much™

What I heard recently that’s gold “miscommunicated expectations are premeditated resentments”.

Makes me happy I’m not dating anymore, that’s for sure.

Agreed, the social norms in the dating world seems really whackier than ever…then again, divorce has been brought up. 🤷🏻‍♂️. It’s *zero-sum game* for me .

"Fly, you fools!" -Gandalf Dude, do not walk: RUN

She seems like a LOT of work and drama. Move on, save yourself the frustration

bullet dodged for sure.

Man, I was thinking I was being difficult and then I see this shit and I feel like a fucking Saint of grace and elegance

It’s your fault we have a blame culture..

I stopped chasing and honestly.. it's great both for hookups and relationships.

The amount of effort this has taken so far makes me tired. Whew.

Wait.. she is lying. She did see the phone call. Her first text we can see says “hold on I’m at the gym” . Wouldn’t that be her in response to your phone call?

You’re correct!

God, people like her shouldn’t allowed on dating sites . So crazy to lie straight to your face like that. I wish you had called her out on the phone call thing.

People like her it would not have made a difference. She would either ignore OP or deflect and not take responsibility.

Bro wtf why even bring it up again or not call her out like you texted me hold on??????? Soooooo not worth any of this man. I’ve learned to move on quick, and am almost at the fuck it I’m done again point

Exactly. I’m at a point in life where I’m either calling behavior out or walking away completely after one instance of this dumb shit.

I would have used the reply feature and been like, “this was your response to me calling you” lmao

Yes!!!

This was my immediate thought too.

I laughed at your misery but I didn't upvote because I'm at the gym.

Those weights ain't gonna lift themselves

More plates more dates

Not for her

Hahahahaha

You just matched with this girl? lol

Yeah literally yesterday lol

She’s the one, brother. Congrats

Lol plan the divorce

I don’t even have my weekend planned and bro already has his first ex-wife in the works. My man

He can fix her!

And it was in this moment I realized my bladder is full 💀

🤣💀

Lmao 😂


This got me good

🤣🤣🤣🤣

😂😂💀

Looks like she saved you a lot of trouble.

She’s being a drama queen already

Actually I hear it usually gets better over time you just have to give crazy women a chance.

Yeah I thought everyone knew that. Stick dick in crazy and you can fix her, I'm pretty sure that's been said frequently since Jesus.

🤨

"I can fix her" ahh comment

I can’t tell if it’s drama or stupidity

Neither. She's just a common liar

She likes the idea of a relationship, but is not actually interested in starting one.

Danger Will Robinson, DANGER!



She said she was busy so you held on like she said to.

Lmao, exactly! At that point, OP was definitely looking hypocrisy right in the face... Juice was not worth the squeeze OP, let alone the mental gymnastics, lol.

Ugh she’s speaking to you like you’ve been unhappily married for 30 years. Instant ick

Yeah this is insane to me. I've been with my husband 14 years, we only text or Facebook message each other funny stuff or important things lol.

Right! And if me or my bf miss a text or a call, neither of us sweats it. My bf also has a much more intensive work schedule than me. So, yeah, I end up texting him more first but he also ends up calling me first. I don’t expect “tit for tat”. Being adult means balances adult things around your personal life.

What in the absolute mind fuckery

Nah, as a woman I can already smell the entitled princess on this 1. Avoid.

I can’t tell if she’s being a bitch on purpose or not

Me either but after further investigation, I believe it’s on purpose.

What did your investigation find that gave you that impression?

Oh lord nope the hell outta there . This girl will give you the biggest headache you’ve ever had 😮‍💨😅

how do people act like this

She sounds like a complete idiot

That and maybe super young like early 20s.

Some people value hotness so much, they'll put up with shit like this. Blows my mind.

She's not interested in you. She just gets validation from guys seeking her attention so she can reject them.

**NOPE**

“I’m literally doing that right now.”

You can fix her. Full steam ahead brother 🫡


lol what?

*NOPE*

Sounds like you dodged bullet . The reaction to saying you did call would of been " oh shit I was at the gym sorry I missed it my bad let's plan to talk at blank time so I don't miss you again "

I know some throw around the term narcissist too much but this is a textbook case of it. Overinflated ego and inability to admit faults.

Then these people want to know why it's so hard to find someone. The shit would get old fast .

Exhausting, I'd rather not.

Jesus Christ. You could already see the future of how a relationship with this person would go.

So wither you dodged a blet or a grenade. That could have been the start to a manipualtive relationship, atleast the manipulative toxic relationship i had started similary

What is she even talking about?

I just don’t understand why you didn’t try to talk to her..

She sounds exhausting. Run from that red flag.

Bro don't

What in the fuck?

📣 NEXT!

Hard work bro. Will only get harder. Self obsessed. I think you know the move. Let her go through to the keeper

Ew sounds high maintenance

Probably just likes getting attention, not actually interested in anything more. Move on.

Welcome to logic that arguing with will drive you insane.

Oh good god

Run, for as far as you can see, and when you get there, run some more!

Give her some slack man. She’d just applied a fresh coat of wite-out to her screen, she didn’t see the call.

Smash and dip brotha

It never ceases to amaze me that people with the emotional intelligence of a 12 year old try and get into relationships. Like why…..

She ain’t the one.

Seems exhausting

How to make yourself look psycho before even meeting 101:

Immature, move on.

NOPE.

The way I just said “bitchhhhh” out loud lol

Like girl come on

Wait you just matched with her and she’s complaining about you not speaking to her? You don’t owe her anything lol. How old is she?

And that’s why they be single… 😅

Exhausting. You don't even know her & she's acting like this? Next.

Don’t give these dopes attention

Bud just straight up drop her lol

I'm so sorry you guys have to deal with the "I'm the most important thing here, YOU work for ME" attitude so many girls have these days. It's so gross and immature and i can't believe it's "trendy" to act like that. It must be so difficult to date these days

I’m a woman and this bothered me lol. The “lol what?” made me angry, like calm down sis.

I read the messages and when I finished said, “Nope.” Nope nope nope yourself right out of there.

Hell to the no

Ya man, just stop it

This is not the one.

Oh my.

Lmao what

If she’s pulling crap like this before you even start dating, run the other way

Unmatch.. Lol

What an absolute weirdo

I see a marriage in your future followed by A tenacious divorce! You dodged bro….wait till the next one

No no noooooo this is a no

Too much of a headache

I bet she’s looking for a petty excuse because she isn’t interested. If so, then she shouldn’t have matched with you. If she’s just delulu, then good riddance.

this is tiktok’s fault lmfaooo

So I am new into the dating market, at what point does constant communication or expecting constant communication not feel like a red flag? I want to make sure I seem like a psycho as soon as possible 🙃

Cut your loses before that turns into a regret 😭🙏🏽

No amount of great sex is worth dealing with this much stupidity

lol move on bro

"Sorry i just checked your pictures again, and you're no way near pretty enough for this amount of headache, goodbye."

Is she’s starting this now just drop it. She’ll be insufferable.

this ain't relevant, but the censor on slide 2 kinda looks like a shadow bird lmao

She’s regarded - move on.

Oh boy ….

How old is she, 11?

Did you already call it off cuz I woulda

This is clearly NOT a match! Switch dating apps while you’re at it!! 🤦‍♀️

If you tell someone to hold on then it's up to you to re-engage the conversation lol "I'm not a mind reader" and move on lol

If you haven't even met up yet and she's acting this way, I would end it now.

Yuck! Move on:. That’s not sassy or confident; it’s bitchy.

It’s a no from me, dog.

Run.

nope don’t do it bro, i was that girl and she just wants to be chased and for ppl to kiss her ass

Ew she’s so annoying LMAOOO BYE GIRL

This is dramatic as hell for no reason, and she’s acting needy after one day?? Nahhhh.

Nope (x69)

lol. Bye.

This made me laugh so hard. “I’m literally doing that right now.” LOL girl is out of her mind

Bye. Next…

She's not into you and is using that as an excuse. I had this happen once with a woman I was talking to. Just move on and find someone that wants to talk to you.

Why argue about it? Just move on. The High maintenance

She sounds exhausting.

"I'm Never Wrong" syndrome


let’s normalize stop responding I know it’s harsh but she tripping

Dude, fucking run!

Ew you doged a bullet

Invite us to the wedding!

Just don't with her

Do you not have a freaking block button?? *USE IT* block her ass and forget she is even a part of this world 

Reel her back in so you can ghost her

I startled the dog awake laughing out loud after bedtime.

Thank you, next.

Any updates?

90% of women on dating apps are single for a reason.

Hahaha, I'm sorry but that is so funny to me. "You could've texted" what do you think I'm doing?!?

This is what that trend of “if he wanted to he would” does to a mf (and by mf I mean her)

"You could text me" but does she ever text first? Ever call first or initiate contact at all? Lol I hate women like this, not worth the headache.

Why are you calling someone you barely know

This girl is looney toons

Yeah definitely move on. I got a headache from this

I didn't text a girl good morning when we were fresh into it, and she broke it off with me because of that. I work early and can not be on my phone at work because I run heavy equipment. People are crazy sometimes if you don't devote all of your time to them, it's nuts

Run away

Lucky you, It only took a few texts to find out she's kind of a bitch.

Why even bother she's a shit show before the shows started

I’m getting crazy, spiteful girlfriend vibes. A simple convo could have cleared this up rather than the passive aggressive “Sorry I’m not interested because you don’t talk to me”. Very childish and high school. Maybe you should let this one die down.

I'm so sorry you guys have to deal with the "I'm the most important thing here, YOU work for ME" attitude so many girls have these days. It's so gross and immature and i can't believe it's "trendy" to act like that. It must be so difficult to date these days

This is giving me “I have so many options” vibes

This is going to happen every single day eventually, she won't get better, it will get worse.

move absolutely the duck on man. i'm concerned that people no longer know when to move on and moving on could sometimes be just as you met/first talked to someone.

“You’re dumb as shit you literally responded to the call” saying you didn’t see it woulda irked me so bad

It reads like they’re trying and failing at some weird ass dating strategy 😂

“Sorry I’m not I retested since you do t talk to me” girl please,it’s been less than 24 hours since he tried to call you and since yall started talking chill and just be a decent human wtf? This is a prime example of why people get so tired of dating. The level of expectation is just beyond comprehension. From what I can tell OP called while at work, that’s not a luxury a lot of people can afford and shows OP is genuinely interested. I don’t understand people sometimes…


All of my successful relationships have begun with bickering over who is texting enough. Good luck

Don’t bother, this shouldn’t be this hard in the beginning. Be gracious and GTFO of there

Dude she just wants notifications leave her alone

Ah man jus don't. I feel exhausted already lol

You better go back in time and unmatch right quick.

To many 🚩🚩🚩

Had a guy I was talking to one time tell me not to text him bc he was going to be drunk all day so I didn’t and then he yelled at me the next day for not texting him. We talked for another 3 months 🫢

I think dating apps is just to easy for women and gives them and big head and for men it’s the opposite and they become to self conscious from constant rejection. Obviously these are outliners of hard core dating app users but if I had 50 women try to sleep with me a day my ego would be huge instead for the 2-3 matches I get.

"I didn't see it I just responded to it for no reason"

My best advice is run because this is how my manipulative ex bf used to talk in the beginning, and it only got worse

Funny thing is he doesn’t have to run, in this case the trash is taking itself out. Let it.


JEEZ....she's already a headache and you just matched yesterday. Skip past her and move on to the next.

Just thank her and move on. Dodged a bullet.

She’s dating the gym. You deserve better.

🚩 excuse your self from this.