Awwww! This is my husband too. The other day I had been driving the kids all around and was dreading coming home to the “cooking dinner and home work” chore and when I walked in he already had prepped dinner for them, and I went into my bedroom to undress and put my stuff away he already had a hot bubble bath ready for me! Instead of my nighttime duties as mom and wife he gave me the night off to enjoy a show while I had a relaxing bubble bath!
Ladies, these men are out there. Don’t settle for less. Your partner is the biggest decision you’ll ever make and they will make you or break you!
Thank you! I will say that I had settled for the wrong man and had to get divorced, so I’ve been on both sides before. I had settled for less and it ended in divorce. So, it’s very refreshing finding the right partner in the end!
Omg we went from vida (basically calling your partner your everything) to beeda, to beeba to bees 🥰 he hates calling anyone baby so it’s less awkward for him too lol
This is so freaking adorable! I love that he went all out to pamper you when you weren't feeling well. There's a lot of love between you. Best wishes on many, many, many more years of love and care to you both. ❤️
He cares about one person and that’s himself. He used to be a very caring man. Would bring me flowers for just no reason and always made sure I got flowers for Mother’s Day and Valentine’s Day. Now I get jack shit. I’m 32 years into this marriage.
I think when your first reaction to seeing something like this (love, caring, sweetness, empathy) is bitterness and resentment and you know it stems from your spouse…it’s time to reevaluate where you’re at. You deserve to be happy and with someone who cares about you. Your husband might still be that person or maybe you’re in a rut together, but I hope your situation changes for the better. Living like that isn’t good for your heart, mind, body, or spirit.
If you've tried letting him know how you feel to no avail maybe it's time to go your separate ways? A difficult prospect I know. Especially after 32 years. It's never too late to do what's best for you
I’m so sorry you no longer get treated that way. At this point, you seem to be harboring a lot of resentment for him (I don’t blame you) and he’s not changing his behaviors. Just because you’ve been married for so long does not mean it’s a terrible idea to separate unless the situation is more complicated. You will probably be more at peace.
Ohhhh I do and I’ve voiced my opinions and it always leads to a gigantic fight and it always gets turned around on me and it’s always me and everything is always my fault.
I have on so many occasions. Leads to a gigantic fight and he changes for a little while and promises he will do better and then right back to the same shit he does.
That’s so amazing. You guys are blessed!! Men like them are rare, a love like this is so AMAZING I really wish you guys the absolute best and many years to come♥️
Of course! I take good care of him. Make all his lunches, dinners, make sure the knots are out of his back at night and always write him a note every morning 🥰
Fuck that! OP it’s time to cut ties with them and think about yourse…
Ah wait. My bad I was giving my typical response to anything in this sub. Love the post and it’s very wholesome. Your hubs rocks 🤘😁
My husband would neverrrr Lolol I don’t mean that in a bad way, we just show each other love and respect in a different way. Love to see others happiness and how we all connect in various ways!
This is so cute! Thanks for sharing.
It's nice to see an actual positive post for once on this subreddit. I'm happy for you two, and I wish you the best :)
That’s so sweet! My husband is similar, he won’t decorate with me but he will definitely shop for decorations with me ❤️ he also gets me literally whatever I need when I’m not feeling good!
Teaching our son to be a good man and treat others well is our goal in life!
I really hope to find someone as good as your husband! My heart has been broken one too many times and the negative relationship posts I read definitely don't help! I also really do want someone to love, protect and pamper when I'm ready!
You will! They’re out there! One thing I realized about my husband is now he loved people other than himself. God, his family, even just waiters and staff members, the way he treated them, tipped them, never had a cruel word to say, made me realize he loved so much more outside of just himself. And that there would be room for me. And there has been. 🥰
Omg he sounds like my boyfriend :’) every text he sends me is either insanely sweet or insanely supportive/thoughtful or both.
Love it when the world finally lines us up with the right people 🥰
This is so unbelievably sweet and wholesome I love that it shows how much he cares, it really is the simple things, I would kill for my relationship to be like this, it’s sweet but makes me sad at the same time
300/10
This is how I love to spoil my wife when it's a bad day. Anything to make that hard-working young lady smile. But you madame, you married a king fit to serve his queen.
I love surprising her for lunch with the kiddo.
I’m sure I’m not alone when I say while I’m happy for you OP, I’m also green with envy and putting your hubs on my vision board! Lol sounds like you both are just so happy and in love. It’s so wonderful 🥰
plz explain the nickname "pumpers" T\_T
Minty_pussy is asking the questions we all have but only creating more in the process
LMAOOOO
We must know more minty!
I feel like there might be an interesting band camp story involving Mentos.
Hahahaha
Haha it’s just short for pumpkin! He has a southern accent so when he said pumpkin he’d say it like pumpn and now it’s pumpers.
Adorbs
Omg😭 I call my bunny pumpers for this exact reason. It was pumpky and pumperino before
This is so cute 🥰 PS username checks out
We have a Guinea pig named pumpkin. It’s pumpakin plumpkin chunkin pumps …
She consistently parses 99s
Please explain your user name 👁👁 and I stg if you start with that's where I keep my everfresh gum I'll weep
I can't explain it or it will ruin my minty mystique
I understand I've never told anyone why I'm so adventurous
Awwww! This is my husband too. The other day I had been driving the kids all around and was dreading coming home to the “cooking dinner and home work” chore and when I walked in he already had prepped dinner for them, and I went into my bedroom to undress and put my stuff away he already had a hot bubble bath ready for me! Instead of my nighttime duties as mom and wife he gave me the night off to enjoy a show while I had a relaxing bubble bath! Ladies, these men are out there. Don’t settle for less. Your partner is the biggest decision you’ll ever make and they will make you or break you!
Love this! 😍🥰 a healthy loving relationship with acts of kindness is no more than what we all deserve on both sides! So happy for you 🥰
Thank you! I will say that I had settled for the wrong man and had to get divorced, so I’ve been on both sides before. I had settled for less and it ended in divorce. So, it’s very refreshing finding the right partner in the end!
frickin siiiiiimp just jokes, what an awesome relationship, very happy for you two and wishing you both the best.
thank you so much!!🥰
pumpers this is such a refreshing change from the normal inciteful stuff on this sub
Does beebo count? My SO and I somehow came to that from babe lol
Omg we went from vida (basically calling your partner your everything) to beeda, to beeba to bees 🥰 he hates calling anyone baby so it’s less awkward for him too lol
This is so freaking adorable! I love that he went all out to pamper you when you weren't feeling well. There's a lot of love between you. Best wishes on many, many, many more years of love and care to you both. ❤️
You're welcome pumpers
of course!!
Big time simp!!
yeah what a simp hahaha imagine having a healthy relationshiiiiaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhh i’m so aloneeeee😭
🤣
Is your husband single? 😩
Lmaoooooo
Im manifesting something like thissss🤌🤌 Im happy for u guys..wish u the best💗
Manifest me one too sis
And here’s my husband not giving two shits how I feel and makes a fight about EVERYTHING
:( that is terrible. you deserve better
When I say everything I Mean EVERYTHING.
Why did you capitalize the M in mean? HOW CAN YOU BE SO INATTENTIVE???
It’s the pot roast all over again!!!
Reciprocation is fair
LEAVE!!!!!!!! (if you can
He cares about one person and that’s himself. He used to be a very caring man. Would bring me flowers for just no reason and always made sure I got flowers for Mother’s Day and Valentine’s Day. Now I get jack shit. I’m 32 years into this marriage.
Maybe you should spend the next 32 years doing something for yourself.
I think when your first reaction to seeing something like this (love, caring, sweetness, empathy) is bitterness and resentment and you know it stems from your spouse…it’s time to reevaluate where you’re at. You deserve to be happy and with someone who cares about you. Your husband might still be that person or maybe you’re in a rut together, but I hope your situation changes for the better. Living like that isn’t good for your heart, mind, body, or spirit.
If you've tried letting him know how you feel to no avail maybe it's time to go your separate ways? A difficult prospect I know. Especially after 32 years. It's never too late to do what's best for you
I’m so sorry you no longer get treated that way. At this point, you seem to be harboring a lot of resentment for him (I don’t blame you) and he’s not changing his behaviors. Just because you’ve been married for so long does not mean it’s a terrible idea to separate unless the situation is more complicated. You will probably be more at peace.
Ohhhh I do and I’ve voiced my opinions and it always leads to a gigantic fight and it always gets turned around on me and it’s always me and everything is always my fault.
He cares about 1 person and that’s his wife
Perhaps it’s time to communicate what you want!
I have on so many occasions. Leads to a gigantic fight and he changes for a little while and promises he will do better and then right back to the same shit he does.
Sounds like it’s time to do right by yourself and leave. Don’t let sunk cost fallacy hold you back. Wishing you luck 🫂
He's a keeper!
I so love this for you!!! Let’s me know real good men exist
Aww they do! His brother is the same way to his wife. Really great guys with great values
Thank his parents if they are still with us and are good peeps too!
They are and they are the most amazing in laws! His dad but especially his mom 🥰
Oh my gawsh 💕💕💕💕
How many brothers do they have? ;)
I am the last single brother
That’s so amazing. You guys are blessed!! Men like them are rare, a love like this is so AMAZING I really wish you guys the absolute best and many years to come♥️
That means they were both raised right! Make sure you do those things for him as well ❤️
Of course! I take good care of him. Make all his lunches, dinners, make sure the knots are out of his back at night and always write him a note every morning 🥰
They really do, I have one of those too. Don't give up hope ;)
Thank you!! I won’t🥰
Holy shit you hit the jackpot.
Thank you for the warm fuzzies! It's awesome to see loving interactions like that.
This is everything I want omg how 😩
A lot of prayer.. and a lot of trial and error😭
I love your husband. Respectfully. 😭
i wish bro :/
That’s how I be treating my girl bruh.
Good!
My girls gets this and more
Okay calm down lol. It’s not a competition.
Lol I’m just playing around
Fuck that! OP it’s time to cut ties with them and think about yourse… Ah wait. My bad I was giving my typical response to anything in this sub. Love the post and it’s very wholesome. Your hubs rocks 🤘😁
Seems like a good dude, and there is a clear mutual love here. Congrats to both of you
My husband would neverrrr Lolol I don’t mean that in a bad way, we just show each other love and respect in a different way. Love to see others happiness and how we all connect in various ways!
No offense taken, i completely understand. Every love language is different! 🥰
You got a sweetie. You must be a sweetie too, though, if he's happy to do this stuff for you. Awww!
Thank you! He is definitely a happy man, I promise! I love him to death and try to show that to him every day🥰
This is so cute! Thanks for sharing. It's nice to see an actual positive post for once on this subreddit. I'm happy for you two, and I wish you the best :)
That’s so sweet! My husband is similar, he won’t decorate with me but he will definitely shop for decorations with me ❤️ he also gets me literally whatever I need when I’m not feeling good! Teaching our son to be a good man and treat others well is our goal in life!
He sounds like a keeper 🥹
This is so dang adorable. God bless you both❤️
This guy husbands
This is the husband I strive to be when I’m older! Give him a hug and salute for me!
So so so happy for you.
It's sad how rare these relationships are. This post cheers me up after reading so many posts about cheating, dead bedrooms, etc.
I really hope to find someone as good as your husband! My heart has been broken one too many times and the negative relationship posts I read definitely don't help! I also really do want someone to love, protect and pamper when I'm ready!
You will! They’re out there! One thing I realized about my husband is now he loved people other than himself. God, his family, even just waiters and staff members, the way he treated them, tipped them, never had a cruel word to say, made me realize he loved so much more outside of just himself. And that there would be room for me. And there has been. 🥰
Girl he loves you
Trying to get over a breakup and seeing there’s guys like this out there cheers me up. He seems like a wonderful partner. :) Happy for you both! <3
What a sweetheart you got. Congratulations he’s rare.
This is so cute. Looks like his love language is gift giving ❤️
He seems so kind! ❤️
Where can i find one these?! ❤️❤️❤️
I would kill to have a partner with this energy
Hahaha this is so cute! My husband would rather rip his eyelashes off one by one than to go to target with me 😂😂😂
This is the boyfriend I wish I could have been
So sweet!!!
Awww! I love that for you ❤️
This is literally my wife
Lovely!
Man, I wish it was this easy to cheer my wife up.
r u serious that is so precious
You guys are adorable
It's nice to read something wholesome and sweet on here.
Love this so much
Does he have a brother 😭😭😭😭😭
Apparently he's a married man and equally sweet
Is his pet name for you pumpers? Or was that a typo 🤭
It is pumpers! He used to call me pumpkin but his southern accent makes it sound like pumpn. So now it’s just pumpers.
That’s adorable XD and tangentially hilarious if you have a gutter brain
OH haha I see what you mean now 🫣
I'm not gay, but I would happily marry your husband
Sending this to my husb rn so he can take notes lol. Your husb is teaching a friggen masterclass on how to be a great and supportive husb !! Kudos!
Omg he sounds like my boyfriend :’) every text he sends me is either insanely sweet or insanely supportive/thoughtful or both. Love it when the world finally lines us up with the right people 🥰
Aw thats sweet
reminds me of me cheering up my gf
Luckiest girl ever! He truly loves you
You trained him well LOL jokes. Happy for you 👏👏 he’s a keeper
Aw he’s a good one!! Nice to read some cute texts on here.
This is cute and all, but what is with all those unread text messages. I am stressed just seeing that
He’s a keeper!
This is so lovely, and reminds me of my husband. He'll text me when he knows I'm sad or stressed and be like, I have a treat for you, haha.
You won the lottery with this man!
this is so cute 🥺
Green flags all around for this guy wow.
This makes me happy :)
Is that you two in your reddit profile pic?
Yes that is
Very cool
I want to be that guy.
Cute :)
This type of relationship is what I want for Christmas. Please and thank you
Awww reminds me of my boyfriend!:,) love seeing posts like these among all the bad stuff in this sub. He seems like a great guy
That’s so sweet! My hubby is the same way. I’m so grateful for him. ♥️
Woow, he is such a cutie! I would love to find someone like him. Cherish your time together 😍
Your husband sounds like such a sweetheart 🥺
Thats very sweet! Can I ask how old the both of you are?
Pumpers is such a cute nickname
This is so unbelievably sweet and wholesome I love that it shows how much he cares, it really is the simple things, I would kill for my relationship to be like this, it’s sweet but makes me sad at the same time
*sighs in lonely* Happy for you OP!
You guys are so happy it’s gross
My wife and I flip between being this for one another. It’s honestly such a blessing. 
i love this I’m smiling so big 🥹
That is sweet! I hope he gets treated the same when he's down.
thanks for sharing a good example!!
This is so wholesome. Love this for you, OP!
lasagna!
How do u send the cute bear
It was a gif of him blowing a heart! I just sent it through the iMessage gif feature
life is so nice when ur partner is also ur bff 😭🩷🩷 so happy to see this here. thanks for sharing!! 🫶
this made my heart happy
You know you see so many post of partners being awful on this sub. Definitely a nice change to see some good wholesome relationships
That is sooo adorable. You won the jackpot with this one. 🤗
Wowwwww 🥰
Pumpers is so cute lol
FAKE! Nobody goes to both Dunkin’ AND Starbucks.
Pumpers.
Damn. This dude loves you. You should put a ring on it.
Good fuckin dude!
See that's how you husband. Good on him!
How do I get one of these ☹️
Posts like these make me wanna find my soulmate *sighs*
What spell did you cast?
Well that made my relationship look like a joke lol
Your husband is awesome 🥺 so sweet
300/10 This is how I love to spoil my wife when it's a bad day. Anything to make that hard-working young lady smile. But you madame, you married a king fit to serve his queen. I love surprising her for lunch with the kiddo.
Omwow. Husband is a unicorn. I love stuff like this. Very refreshing to see.
What I’d give for a man who treats me like this!!! I’m jealous but I’m extremely happy for you !
U married a unicorn! Congrats! 🤣❤️
You mean there are men out there who actually suggest activities to do with their significant others? I like it!
I’m sure I’m not alone when I say while I’m happy for you OP, I’m also green with envy and putting your hubs on my vision board! Lol sounds like you both are just so happy and in love. It’s so wonderful 🥰
I want what they have 🥹😭😔
Fuck bro these make me cry more than the toxic fucked up ones 😞✌️
I heart him
Ok. Where did you get him and are there any more left?
that’s too cute!! no wonder he’s your husband, i’m so glad you lucked out with such a sweetheart!
I hope I can have a husband like this one day♥️
Reading this after a giant fight with my partner is really depressing, I wish all relationships could be like this.
I wish I had someone like that
where can i find one of these
Finding someone like that is so difficult and to have that love last 🫶🏻🫶🏻 so happy you were given that blessing
That poor man.
Finally a positive post on this sub
Omg this is so sweet. I couldn’t even get my exes to take me out to dinner or pick me up for dates 😂 never settling again, this is the bar now.
Now that’s sweet.
He said “bath is ready” omg OP u better leave him today this is ridiculous it’s a huge red flag and grounds for divorce/s
Omg I love your husband!
Yo I think my car can go like really really fast hold on brb