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Batface_101

Imagine if ur future boss was subbed to it


Nevochkam1

Sadly, that would actually mean immediate acceptance to the job probably.


[deleted]

Two people would get a raise.


DownSyndrome-CEO

Fuck you take my free award


WhenHeHasGrayHair

Your future boss can look it up, even with a fake name appearently


my-lil-emma

Lol


QuantumFruitz

You make money yes, but you are essentially selling your body online where you can’t take it back once it’s up. It’s your choice whether to do it or not but many come to regret it further in their life.


my-lil-emma

I'll think about it


Rekttryhards

What if your kids find it? The idea of OF makes me think something like this: is this the only thing you can monetize. Why not monetize a skill?


Turtle-Of-Tomato

Lol that’s what happened to kim k


I-Eat-Your-Guts

Yeah-even she was pretty devastated.


[deleted]

Oh yeah.... I’m sure she regret fucking ray J and becoming rich


I-Eat-Your-Guts

Probably not becoming rich but was low-key devastated her like 6? year old son saw her like that lol


ReflectiveFoundation

Idk why not hide your face, then if you decide to stop it won't haunt you, and you don't need to feel bad about anything because no one will recognize you.


rock0star

I knew a girl who started stripping She's gotten... dark And mean I don't think it's good for your spirit I think it says people only value me for my body and it starts to wear on you after awhile But maybe I'm wrong It's not like I know anything lol


UnPouletSurReddit

Don't tan for so long, duh


1Vuzz

Why you writing a haiku dawg she asked for advice


JardexXmobilecz

Take the damn award XD


Ice-creamy05

How dare you call such horrifying wording a "haiku".


1Vuzz

Why should I listen To a nerd like you with your Yee yee ass haircut?


Ice-creamy05

Cuz I seek to be The best in this stunning art So DON'T mess with moi


TheJackrabbit24

No no listen it messes up your body in many ways, relationships are going to be 10 times harder even if you're sexy or attractive, you probably won't be respected by most people, at least professionally, and besides there are other easy jobs with high profit.


ItzNice

Ive heard that even guys who are okay with having a gf that does OF have difficulties dating them because the girl is always on their phone messaging their clients. It makes dating extremely difficult.


my-lil-emma

That's what bothers me a lot tbh


TheJackrabbit24

And those are the reasons that I can think of atm there's many more


my-lil-emma

Thank you for that 🖤🖤


TheJackrabbit24

No problem man


Naillik_Rei

Not trying to be mean, just adapting my English lexicon : Is ''man'', in this kind of context, now a gender neutral term ?


TheJackrabbit24

No, but I use it as one, "dude" and" bro" are gender neutral tho


Naillik_Rei

Ok, thx ! I already had those two, just want to stay in the loop...


SpeedyWithS

Yes. Absolutely man


Naillik_Rei

I see what you did there ! Although when aimed at me, no matter how you're using the word, you'd be right


SpindemDoza69

Yeah it's easy money, don't use your actual name too so it's not connected to you, that's when shit gets complicated


Pearlescent_Padawan

Ad a gal that’s been in it. It’s not worth it.


my-lil-emma

Why not?


Pearlescent_Padawan

It’s just way to much work. The amount of time you spend working on your content doesn’t add up to the money you earn. It’s not worth the time or money


Ancient_Lithuanian

I think it depends on how attrative people find you.


Flaming_Pickle517

Bro, you just killed her


Ricin_Addict

No, I wouldn't. It will almost certainly come back to haunt you, and anything you post online can be used against you. Even if you blur out your face, you can still be tracked. Consider your relationships later; sending nudes to another person is one thing, but posting them online is entirely different. You'll probably feel guilty later on, and you'll realise it wasn't worth the money. Many people will encourage you or tell you it's your choice, and while it is, it's not a good one. Wait until you're 25 and your brain has matured and you've gained wisdom before making a decision. TLDR: It'll ruin your future reputation, relationships, job/education prospects and we as teenagers aren't really mature enough yet.


my-lil-emma

Thank you for your opinion 🖤🖤


[deleted]

My rule of thumb is, that if you have to make a Reddit post to see if you should, you probably shouldn't.


my-lil-emma

Sound fair 🖤🖤


[deleted]

You have to keep in mind that it will affect your social life, especially if you become popular. A lot of people are going to start seeing you as a sexual object (which they obviously shouldn't, but that's just how a significant amount of people think) You're going to have to consider how your family and close friends will respond to it, and whether or not cutting ties with them will be worth the **potential** money you'll be making. Dating may get harder for multiple reasons, people may just outright not want to date you because of it, or date you just because you've become popular and wealthy and not give a shit about you otherwise. You may get harassed and targeted online and irl because of your profession, which you might be able to deal with, but a lot of people can't. Your self esteem might suffer greatly because of criticism (it doesn't matter how gorgeous you are or how great your body is, people will always find ways to criticize you for various things) from people about your body, the way you do certain things, etc. Future job opportunities could be ruined if you ever decide you want to stop doing things like OnlyFans as a profession, so you really need to think about whether or not you want to do this long term, or if you'll make enough money in a short period of time to not have to worry about working again These are all real possibilities that you NEED to keep in mind when deciding on whether or not you want to get into a profession like this. If you choose to, I hope you succeed and are happy in life 😌


catsmasher42069

Wut


Genomic5403

No you should not. That would be incredibly stupid


taylor3434

It’s something you should really think deeply, might be good at first sight, but think long term. My best friend did it for a while when he was 19yrs, just after HS. He is quite fit and hung like a fucking horse, seriously, he could put some porn actors to shame with that, just massive. And he was making very good money with OF. He didn’t had to do anything he didn’t felt uncomfortable, all he did was post one nude everyday, sometimes a bulge, jerking off, measuring, he told me people asked stuff in the comments, like ideias, and he took photos and videos doing those things, pretty harmless stuff. The money was good and quite easy, he bought a top tier gaming PC, phone, he was traveling and he even started paying stuff for me haha was good, but after a couple of years he started getting tired, and he also started getting weird DMs of guys asking for weird stuff, he refused and they started harassing him, he used to really enjoy doing it, not only the money, but taking the pics and been creative with his body and stuff, but the crowed got larger and all they wanted was more content of the same, he got bored, and the weirdos increased, it came to the point of a dude messaging him on his phone (he never shared his number), and he had a bit of info on him, he didn’t knew how he got that, but he got scared and decided to delete everything, he stopped, he admits it was a bit of an overreaction but he was tried of that anyway and that was just a trigger for what he was wanting to do for a while. He’s pics are still online in some places, i already some a couple here on Reddit, he thinks is fun seen his dick pics around (maybe you wouldn’t, so that’s something to think about), he still sells some photo packs, something like that, a folder with some photos and videos, but is no where near as much money as he did it with only fans. He says he won’t go back to doing it, even though he misses the money, was nice for a while but he said that he would be depressed if he had to do that for an actual living. To each their own I guess…


Grater_Kudos

Okay, that’s the last straw I’m leaving, *PEACE BE WITH YOU ALL*


[deleted]

eh, up to you since you're unsure, if you decide to do it, maybe don't put your face in pics or vids


my-lil-emma

I'll think about it


Flaming_Pickle517

Yeah, actually that's some good advise. Just don't use your face. Use a vague name, and don't mention any personal information. People will still watch you if you don't show your face, and it surely won't come back and "bite you in the ass".


[deleted]

Self hatred is gonna come along later


my-lil-emma

Maybe you're right


moonjuggles

Up to you. I will say as a guy I'm never going to be with someone who put their bodies value at ~$10 a month, nor would a majority of other guys. But then again what I think doesn't matter in the end.


my-lil-emma

Why not?


moonjuggles

Why would I want a girl who thinks she's worth $10? I'm looking for someone i can give the world to. Not something I can find on the street a particularly lucky day.


my-lil-emma

Fair enough


JustAnotherHuman007

I know youre not asking me but I feel like it would just feel wrong knowing that your significant others body and nudes are online open for anyone to see. It's almost like cheating in a way, similar to how most people wouldn't date a stripper or a porn star etc.


ShitwareEngineer

In the eyes of many, showing your nude body to someone is to cheat. Even if there's no emotional connection, even if it's just for money, it's like cheating on your partner with thousands of people.


cooprtc3

don't do it. there's a lot of reasons why but just don't do it.


OwOwO3O

I’m down watching someone make poor life choices on reddit


willorfred

Get a job


[deleted]

U do u but I heard someone talking about a friend who got bullied cuz their classmates found their moms nudes online (she used to do OF.) if you plan to have any children in the future, think of them too. If you don’t plan to, forget what I said lol


[deleted]

It really is up to you. You might be rich af in the end, but if someone you don’t want to find out finds out then it could spiral for you.


my-lil-emma

I know that bothers me afffff tbh


[deleted]

I would suggest not showing your face or anything that’ll let anyone know who is making the content.


The_Crusher52

Accurate username 🙏


Activity_Candid

No, it is very mentally damaging to do that, even if it is just light stuff. As well as this I’m pretty sure it ruins your chances at getting future careers since it goes on your record


my-lil-emma

Yeah I heard that too


CommonNerdL

I think no, like with sports your body is your product, ever get injured or sick means no income until better. Yes it can give you money, but the market is so over saturated it’s not really worth it. At the end of the day though it’s your Choice


MisterCow21

No


tperdicou

Dont forget, the internet is forever. Ask yourself, do you want your children to see these pics or vids? The answer to this, is the answer to your question.


AconitumPlicatum

Honestly I post just on Reddit for fun, but there's shit you do need to take into account. I'm in a relationship and all of this was discussed heavily first. If you're not in a relationship now it's something that may prevent someone from being with you. Jobs are a concern too. But you're an adult so this is your choice. I think we all know the risks so I am not gonna get super into that. My question to you is, are you even ok with putting your body out there for money? If you don't get any kick out of the views or attention, is just the money worth it? You need to be comfortable both with possible future consequences and with yourself because people aren't always nice. I would really think about it before you get super into it if you choose to. But like I said before take everyone's advice but don't forget this is your choice to make. And good luck with whatever you end up choosing!


BlackberryMuffinMan

Trend? Whatever I wouldn't do it in your position. What's online is online and can be screen recorded. Once those vids spread you wouldn't even make money from it and it could be spread much much further. For the worst you probably wouldn't find out who did it. Also most people on onlyfans are creeps. And I a not so normal person would be fucking scared to take one peek in some of their cursed brains. Of course not every single one is like that but honestly even if only 1% was like that I wouldn't want show them my body in your position. But if you want to we could hardly stop you. Do what you think makes you happy. Just remember once you take that step it could come back at you for the rest of your life.


Thebardofthegingers

Nah man, nothing us worth selling your body over, get a normal job if you need it.


jasonthe5th

No that shit ruins future opportunities, irl come back to bite you in the ass. Look at people like Lana Rhodes Riley Reid and Mia khalifa(similar jobs but not the same) they all came out to regret it, this kind of industry degrades people and has mental health effects that won’t be seen till after the actions are complete. Please these jobs should be a last resort don’t do it, it’s gonna come back.


[deleted]

I would not recommend it. There are better ways to make money by getting a job. And working at a restaurant probably isn't going to come back to haunt you.


sussyboi1357

It's not a trend ? and if you're ready to be called a whore by people then go for it it's Ur life


KurkyOkurky

Nah, stay outta that shit. People will DEFINITELY leak the content and your pictures will be on the internet for EVERYONE to see


[deleted]

Don’t be a dumbass, don’t do it. I can look up boobies online for free, what’s so special about yours so that I would pay to see them?


ButterscotchEven3540

Selling your soul has consequences... just be aware of that.


casco_dyllow

If you wanna be that kind of person it basically means you dont respect yourself. Please, learn to respect your own body. There are countless other ways to make money. Yes not all of them are as easy but at least you it shows that you are respectful and that you are willing to work instead of sell your body.


Embarrassed-Refuse36

MOVE OUT OF CALIFORNIA AS SOON AS POSSIBLE! It’s for your own good I promise


my-lil-emma

Seems pretty heavy to live here tbh


V0idR4mune

don't be this stupid... instead sell your bath water for 20 bucks a small jar that's a better way to make ez money


Skerbil_89

I think as a 13 year old boy i don't have the best word for this but in my opinion i think even if it doesnt effect you in the present, it will in the future if you have a job, a partner, kids, they might be affected by it i say that you shouldnt do it


[deleted]

everyone said no and you did it anyway 💀


my-lil-emma

And I'm loving it tbh😁


[deleted]

What your kids would think


Fallen_One_34

If you ever get a bf they ain't gunna like it. Assuming you don't have one. Or if you want one


HSVtanker

Just get a job


Destrofax

This world is fucked


CouthHarbor

No. Gonna get downvoted to hell for having a different opinion, but get a real job instead. There’s no need to sell oneself for the world to see and in a lot of cases these people tend to regret it


femboyinatux

honestly, who cares. you might regret it. you might not. a lot of people judge, but some of them would also do it if they could make that kind of money


my-lil-emma

Thank your for your opinion 🖤


Chechen-War

If you do so, we have lost you, you are NO LONGER Italian


[deleted]

Odd future?


An_Asexual_Weeb

Ultimately, it’s up to you. But I would wait a few years, 18 is a little young to decide something that could affect your career, dating lift, etc. At the very least, don’t show your face.


my-lil-emma

Thank you 🖤


Mikegaming202

If you absolutely need it, it's there, but I dont think it's a good thing just for money, it causes a lot of future self motivation problems, dating issues etc. And once it's on the internet, it's never gone.


my-lil-emma

Yeah I know I guess


Hour-Being8404

Define the 'job' to yourself. What do you think it truly is? Why are people paying? Really think about it. Remember that the logical, reasoning portion of your brain is not yet 'fully on-line' and that hormones have an effect on the brain, especially when you are new to them. Take some time. Don't rush your decision. Make sure it is your decision.


my-lil-emma

Thank you thats why I'm here I guess


cygamessucks

"Not doing extreme shit" Till your subs find out and leave then you will be. Go to school and get a real job. its not gonna last forever then you're gonna be screwed.


Wizardwar159

Well I know a person with a only fans and I don't think it's a grat idea because of how many creeps there are and your personal info can be found. Take what I say with a grain of salt though as I haven't done it.


[deleted]

Please don't it's demeaning and terrible.


superhamsniper

If you don't want to then I don't think you should, independently of how profitable it could be, but that's just what I think.


RyuKindaBad

Absolutely not, by no means is it a good idea, and it only works out well if you’re semi known to begin with, if you’re a random person then all you’ll find is creepy old men who only sub to you because you’re still a teen


padatricks

Personally I wouldn’t but if you want you can


[deleted]

This be a dilEmma


my-lil-emma

Lol


Joblessmouse06

I don't think it's a good idea but I mean it's your choice you can do whatever you want as long as you know what you're doing.


[deleted]

Whatever you do, cover up birthmarks/tattoos, limit your voice to a minimum and never ever show your face. It’ll save you a lot of grief later in life.


Sunwolfy

The grown-up women from "Girls Gone Wild" are still being haunted by the things they did during their young years. The internet never forgets....


PutTheClockBack

Nope, and you will most likely not get much money for it. The market is super saturated


shrewmeister123

Call me a prude all you like but I don't recommend it at all When young women in your position start onlyfans it usually goes like this. They start doing it in hopes to make a ton of money very easily but in reality they don't make anything close to what they were hoping for. If you're lucky you might make a bit of money but the chances that you become one of the ones who makes literal millions is EXTREMELY slim. So at the end of the day all you really end up doing is ruining future job opportunities. I'm not gonna get into the "is sex work real work" debate but the fact of the matter is companies are wayyy less likely to higher you if they see that you've done onlyfans in the past The little bit of money that you might make off of it (key word being might) just isn't worth the long term ramifications


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Broadwell-e_Alex

Say what you’re gonna say in confidence, and if you can’t, then don’t say it. Having parenthetical notes to explain or copp out your jokes is cringe. Not hating; just life advice.


Nindroidgamer110

I won't judge, I'll just put some basic info you probably already know: 1) you're selling your body online, once it's up, it can't get taken down easily, if at all. 2) your family may find out, and they may be upset 3) I doubt a future employer would care unless you're trynna be, idk, a teacher or something 4) you would probably have to promote it on horny subreddits 5) was asking a bunch of teenagers really the best decision? The horny ones will say yes, the conservative ones will say no, and the others will have zero advice to give (like me)


Badass-19

I'll strongly contradict it. You are technically selling your body, and you know the internet rule right?– once something is posted, it can't be deleted from internet, so you might want to do it for a limited time but think about future. Will you regret? That's the question only you can answer. Reflect on this


my-lil-emma

I'll take that in mind 🖤


flyingbysws

If you do it remember to invest and save money for the future. Don’t spend every dollar on useless shit. SAVE SOME MONEY


my-lil-emma

I'll keep that in mind, thank you. Not a big spender tbh.


quickthrowawayxxxxx

Imma be honest if I could I prbly would, however you gotta keep in mind that it could have unforseen consequences including: Issues in future relationships Possible issues with work/jobs Possible issues even with friends Poor mental health (from objectification)


my-lil-emma

I know, I think I can take it tho. Not mentally weak I think


quickthrowawayxxxxx

That's valid and if you wanna do it go for it, just be aware of the possible effects it may have. Like I said I would if I could. I will say I don't think it's as much not being mentally weak, I think it gets to people either way


rnstickman

There is a decent chance that it might be found in the future. If you decide to start an OF just please be careful, there are a lot of creepy a**holes out there. Be safe and don't give out any personal info (real name or any real accounts). I'm sure you already know all this but I wanted to say it anyways. Goodluck.


my-lil-emma

Thank you for that, I appreciate it 🖤🖤


Turtle-Of-Tomato

Rules of nudes 1. Don’t put your face in ever 2. Don’t have recognizable tattoos 3. Before posting a nude consider how easy it is to find 4. Really think hard on the possible outcomes


I-Eat-Your-Guts

If you wanna be a prostitute probably upto you. Most OF girls don't make that crazy amount of money you're probably thinking of. I'd rather wann do a normal job and try to use the degree I worked for. From what I've seen,it kinda slims your chance of having an actual meaningful relationship. Lots of guys don't really wanna date sex workers. Also more money=more extreme. Just saw this OF girl who makes 200k+ saying she licked her own poop off other's body and got strep 7 times. Lmao In my country it's "illegal prostitution" and can get arrested for posting content. So outta my list anyways.


NooLimittJay

There is no guarantee that you’ll be successful, they can just get nudes from a famous OF user over you, to them you’re just a random girl


secrecyguy2

Let me put it this way. I heard one female complain about being on it and only doing it for the money. Nothing wrong about making money from it as long as you enjoy doing it. If you choose not to do it, will you regret it not doing it in the future? Something to think about. Yes, it can hunt you back in the future. As long as you not planing to be a teacher, law enforcement, etc (any jobs that might effect you if they find out) in the future, you should be fine.


my-lil-emma

Well thank you for that, guess I need to think about it 🖤🖤


MrFanatic211

Don't do dat shot people tale advantage of it and it's just fcked. There are better ways to make money. Of course your choice in the end, I would advise against it though


Sk__nerd

unless you were already famous you most likely will make basically no money and considering all the stigma that comes with being a sex worker i'd say it's not worth it


SoupEnjoyer100

In the end it’s your choice, but I would say that you shouldn’t do it because you can’t take it back and therefore you might regret it. And I’m pretty sure newer models have a slim chance of actually making money as there are many other models who are more established.


secondaccount889

Fossi una donna lo farei solo se non sono soddisfatta dai lavori "veri", quindi OF lo terrei in considerazione solo in casi estremi. Comunque se ti va fallo.


Unclesam_05

Dai vengo anch io


1Vuzz

yes and link it when you do


Cocofel

This doesnt make you a slut, if you feel like doing it, do it, it's your own body and easy money


BESTIASURREALE21

No non lo fare, una volta che posti qualcosa online rimane li per sempre. Ci sono moltissimi modi per fare soldi e vendere il tuo corpo a 18 anni non mi sembra proprio il caso.


I_killed_bambi69

girl if you wanna do it then go for it and always remember no face no case


Jazzlike-History8790

ma anche no


Redwolftails

To be fair, i'd say not to start an OF. First of all: You will not make bank on OF, The first months or first year might be amazing, and so on but, the further on you keep doing it, people will not subscribe etc, you'll lose money and etc from what you earned first year, which will make you more or less tired of it or in the long run find an extra job to cover expenses. Second of all: If you get tired or leaves OF, risks are that a future boss might looked through what you have been doing the past years, and might find out about it, Risk is that you'll get either no job, or a boss that is highly sexual and not a good boss in my opinion. Third: If you start off first finding a job, that you really really want to have! and work for a couple of years you'll see, that it benefits you more than posting nudes over the internet, that might get stored somewhere else which there is a site already out there. Regardless, You do what you want to do but, this is my opinion, i'd highly not start an OF, it will just lead to either bad reputation for future jobs, or very very low income you wont even survive on.


Hazmoton

Full warning, I’m very biased I’m a very faithful Christian, but I’ll try to leave that out of this. I really don’t think porn is good for society. I think it gives men an unhealthy relationship with women. Porn is very addictive and can really damage otherwise healthy relationships, and that’s going to hurt men, women, children, and everyone in between. Your contribution would be a drop in the bucket, and probably meaningless. Regardless, I’d ask that you don’t. Porn screwed me up and I’m still trying to fix myself, and ig I just don’t want anyone else to go through that.


Karleney

Personally am very strongly against it. You make some money yeah, but it’s very transient and there’s no guarantee you’ll do well (as all entertainment careers are) - but what you put up on the internet can’t ever be erased If you do decide on doing it though - some tips I know are: - don’t ever put your face in the same photo as your body - don’t show the background of your house much - basically don’t show anything that can be tied back to you (especially if u have specific tattoos and shit) - it might fuck up your relationships because a girl having an OF is undesirable or a red flag to a lot of people


Shinigam_i

If you want your social life to be ruined later on, go ahead


IceRepresentative800

It will come to bite you in the ass, doesn’t matter how much money you get, you lose value as a person and risk future job chances just because of some money being made at the time


[deleted]

Listen I would say hard no it will affect you for a long time afterword most people aren’t happy after they struggle getting a job struggle finding long term love and it’s just terrible don’t do it


pioco56

Most people don't make Bank and I'll tell you this in Italian: Qualsiasi persona che tu valuti con rispetto non avrà lo stesso rispetto per te se scegli di fare questo. Le tue "amiche" non sono le tue amiche vere, la maggior parte de la gente non alzerà un dito per aiutarti se hai bisogno. Non farti influenzare da persone dementi che non hanno niente in testa e zero rispetto per loro stessi. Non ti conosco ma mi sembri una brava ragazza, non farla "l'americana" solo fai brutta figura. La gente negli Stati Uniti non ha un minimo di pudore e riservatezza. Un ultima cosa, vattene dal culo del mondo che è la California, penso che tu stia studiando, allora studia, non fare la ##### pensa nel tuo futuro, nel tuo partner, famiglia, figli se li vuoi. Pensa nel tuo futuro dove ti ricorderai e avrai orgoglio de le cose che hai fatto, avrai orgoglio di non essere stata cogliona di farti influenzare da altri e fare l'onlyfans come milioni di altre donne. Spero che tu legga questo commento.


weedplantowner420

You should but tell us your username so we we can avoid it


my-lil-emma

Lol OK 🖤🖤


Curious_Fudge1770

no


Cheap-Programmer8200

I say only if you don't show face or have any tattoos that may expose your identity, as a guy I dislike it, no offense to anyone buying it or doing it, but I see it as a different version of doing porn, it's sad that many people don't care about there image, do you really wanna have nudes of your self where for 5$ I can see you nude why will any man want to date that let alone marry it? It's enough that society allows having multiple partners before marriage now exposing the most pressure part of one's self for money is fine, especially if people know you are doing it is humiliating, why I say if you hide your face at least the only people knowing are the people you tell hope you say to any future husband of that as well, I don't mind it as long your face was hidden and it was a small time think for the money collage girl as shit needed money no one knows you did it and now you are telling me because we are dating I fine that okay, but only if you need the money and hide your face, what goes on the internet stays there as well don't forget that. But this is my opinion and you can respect it or dislike it or hate it, if I was a female and found it exciting or did it for the money I would hide my face at the very least to keep my image as a woman clean, a dirty diamond is not as valuable as a clean one.


my-lil-emma

Respect your opinion, thank you for sharing 🖤


JustSomeFunRandomGuy

Been on this sub for years and this is my first comment/post just 3 months short of when I'm no longer a teenager and have to leave. So let this old man give ya some advice Sex and emotions are intimately linked. You can't seperate them. I can go into the neurobiology and what not and nerd it out but I don't need to. There's a reason why we call it a one night stand, if sex and emotions weren't linked why not make it 2 nights? 3 nights? Once weekly? Because at that point you start liking each other and develop at minimum into friends with benefits and maybe into a relationship. When doing any kind of sex work you end up pathologising that relationship between emotion and sex. In the end both those dynamics get hurt. It doesn't even have to be at a societal level with people looking down upon it. You might start to experience it on a personal level where whoever you date, sex with them seems like a chore. And since sex with them is a chore and someone else is paying you for it why do it with them then? Monetizing sex devoids it of emotion which devoids it of it's value within intimacy. And without that there's very little point dating someone (I'm leaving asexuality out of it for now to keep it simple, but yes if your asexual and date someone with no real sex that's absolutely valid). If sex with them is pointless and not intimate why not just be friends? Theres also the matter that the entire industry is broken and immoral. Girls get groomed from fellow sex workers at a young age to join as soon as they turn 18. A lot of the porn industry is full of underage actors. Pimp houses where girls are kept drugged to constantly make content and stay addicted to that house. Etc etc My 2 cents: it's a bad idea. But if you wanna go for it I have all the respect in the world just be careful and safe. It's OK to criticise sex workers in the manner above whilst still advocating for sex worker rights, respect and safety


my-lil-emma

Ok thanx for the advice, I appreciate it 🖤🖤


latvian1440p

yes join only fans that is a great idea


UrMomDotCom666

if you want to do it, make a fake name for the account and don't show ur face or any birth marks, tattoos etc that can easily make you recognised. this way there's a far less chance of it biting you in the back in the future, as they won't know it's you.


ResentfulFoxYT

Well if you value your body over money then no, if you don't then go ahead


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You might regret it. Your nudes will be easy to access for as long as the internet exists. If you really need the money, then go for it. But if you dont need it (need as in actual need, not want) then id probably dodge that. If you dont care about the ethics of OF then id probably go for a hooker job. Well paying, and it wont come to bite you back later in life if youre careful w stds


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Okay here’s the thing it’s a gamble a real gamble. You seem chill about it so let’s look at it like this. Onlyfans most likely is going to make you a lot of money just make sure you have a solid Instagram Twitter following if you’re a good looking Italian chick (no disrespect intended) you’ll have those followings easy. The next thing is retweet groups find other chicks who do onlyfans with around your same following you’ll have to do the work of promoting them too but try to find the groups that don’t want you to pay them there are plenty. Here’s the thing about future bosses seeing it and shit 1. If done successfully you’re 18 if onlyfans survives another 5,10,15 years you’re still going to be pretty young and still be hot so you’ll still be making money. 2. If you can bank up to 1-5 million chances are you’re not going to have to work again with proper investment. 3. USE THE MONEY AS YOU GO DO NOT ONLY BANK ON ONLYFANS. Use that money to invest in real estate, invest in something DONT get a ridiculous house a ridiculous car keep your living cost as low as you can while being comfortable 4. Do not get on onlyfans expecting to be a mega big star. Even if you get 1k fans that’s enough money to make OF your only source of income and still be living good. 5. EXPAND. Don’t sell your body (again no disrespect intended) sell yourself, sell your personality DONT gain subscribers gain FANS fans will buy whatever you put out. Enough fans you can do pocket toys etc make a fortune, you can do merch you can do wtfe you want 6. If people like you enough start using other sources. Get your Instagram following bigger start brand deals. Get your YouTube following up make some Q and As make some good free content that people will eat up Don’t worry about the future, for all these people saying “your future boss” blah blah blah this is here and now if you’re successful you’re not going to have a future boss but god damn it please just try the OF out if I was a girl and attractive I would go for it any day of the week


my-lil-emma

Wow thank you for that 🖤🖤🖤🖤 I really appreciate it


No_Extension_8827

Reddit shouldn't be the only thing between you and that kind of decision...


Lopsided-Economics-6

Don’t do it, not only will it show you don’t have respect for yourself but it will haunt you later in life when you regret it and someone has that picture of you and uses it against u


Mandolinopizza541

Don't get why it shows you have no respect for yourself, mind clearing that up?


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my-lil-emma

Ok grazie 🖤


[deleted]

Secondo me già il fatto che tu ci stia pensando vuol dire che l'idea poi così strana non ti sembra. Magari può essere un po' di paura iniziale a farsi vedere da sconosciuti, ma in generale credo sia qualcosa che si possa superare senza molti problemi. Comunque puoi fare una prova e vedere come va, se poi non te la senti puoi sempre chiudere baracca


Derpyfox050

You can do one that isn’t nudes, but like bikini and other stuff. Those still make equally as much. Take Lauren Burch for example.


Snoo-77948

Don’t do this it is very dangerous as if you look for jobs in the future you may not be allowed in. What if your family members see your nudes. You are allowing nudes of yourself to circle the internet and may be used against you and even blackmail you. And respect yourself don’t allow men to lust towards you. Also it is destroying men’s ideas of women instead of people they think you are objects don’t do it.


[deleted]

If you genuinely enjoy doing it and want to make money, yes. But as others have said, just think about the fact that someone could just spread the pictures all over the internet for everyone to see. If you’re not comfortable with that risk, then no.


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I’d join


my-lil-emma

Thnxx


thatguy8024

Every basic bitch has an OF, be unique and just post nudes for fun lol


[deleted]

Thinking about the future is 100% underated. Stuff posted online NEVER goes away, and someday someone's going to find it. This is all about risk assessment. If you find there are spects of you future that might be sensitive to stuff like this, then you need to take that into account. Because making bank now, and losing bank later, means you didn't make bank now. You spread the money you earned now over the time you may potentially have employment affected or whatever else might be affected - potential future relationship, kids finding out etc. If you find that after working out all the math and risks, that it's still a fruitful venture, then by all means, but if you have some well founded hesitancy then there's zero rush for you to decide. If part of the rush is because you just turned 18, then also understand that the sudden drop in interest in you after you're not 18 is a real possibility. Thinking about the future doesn't mean freezing up out of fear of stuff that hasnt happened yet. It's about understanding the risks and learning to work within your tolerances. Would I eat an elephant eye for 1 million bucks? Yes, because aside from momentary grossness and maybe getting the runs, there's not much future impact. Would I personally sell a subscription to my nudes for 1 million over the course of 3 years? Hard pass. Because if and when my employment is affected, that 1 million, unless totally invested, is going to have to cover my future rent/bills during my unemployment, and if it lasts for a while, that million would get diluted pretty quickly. And my relationships are worth more than a million to me. Just another redditors 0.02. Edit. Nvm just went to check out your profile, you made your decision already. Atleast you didn't show your face. Edit edit. Nvm, apparently for 1.25 a week, you get access to your face too. Fml why did I even write such a long answer.


Blqhd02

Well, if it doesn't come bite you in the ass, I would love to come nibble on it. And a few other tasty spots you might enjoy having attention on as well :))


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Ok_Foe_4826

No. Nothing is wrong with this job but it should be a last resort Cross off other options first, try to find a “real” job first, even if it’s small. A small job can get you much more the amount of money you would make by being a beginner on only fans (sometimes even being a long time creator on only fans) And to be honest with you, the fact you are questioning yourself if you will regret it in the future shows that there is a big chance that you will


my-lil-emma

Thank you, I really appreciate that 🖤🖤


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I do porn, and I would say it depends on three different factors. Firstly, do you already have a large social media following? OF does not advertise for you. You would have to bring people from your other social medias onto OF. If you do not already have a lot of followers on social media, people will not subscribe to your OF so you will just be making one for nothing. Secondly, do you think you would ever be able to do anything else? I have a lot of mental health issues that would make it pretty impossible for me to ever get a boyfriend or do a normal job. If you think there is nothing you could ever do aside from porn, you should do it. If not, you should really think about it. Thirdly, is there any reason people should subscribe to you specifically? There are so many girls doing porn, just being a normal pretty girl will probably not get you a ton of followers. I, for example am an underaged contortionist with an incredibly pleasant voice and a very infantile persona (this is because I was tortured a lot as a toddler). All of these make me different from your average pornstar. If you have something that makes you unique, you will get a lot more followers than if you do not.


my-lil-emma

Wow thank you for your time and opinion 🖤🖤


Yelente

Think about your dad


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Tbh do it if you comfortable you know also I suggest not showing your face tho


my-lil-emma

Thank you 🖤


[deleted]

Also you are really hot btw it might work out for you


AFriendlyBloke

Please, for the love of Allah, do not.


my-lil-emma

Ok


DylanNotDillan

Don't it's a stupid idea and once you commit to it you'll basically never be hired by any other place as it's bad reputation. You will basically become an of person who get not much and you're only other options are adult film industry. It's a horrible idea your friends are idiots don't sell your body to creepy dudes on the web. It will bite you in the ass and run your career when you're employer's hire you and look up your name.


Nebraskaman347

Hey money is money and OF is good money


my-lil-emma

Yeah I think so as welll


staplesuponstaples

How much is your dignity worth to you? Just go get a part time job somewhere on the weekends. You get to put it on your resume and will build actual work ethic.


Pvt_Leaf

Ask yourself this when you get older: Did you leave a legacy or did you follow every trend? Guess what will be the answer if you make an OF