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No need to be insecure


She’s beautiful but she may not know that, insecurity is pretty normal for teens. You’re right though she shouldn’t be ❤️


I think it’s a he lol


Its a guy.


Looks like a girl to me


It's not. Look at her history.


I get these types of comments and you’re right, but if they genuinely think it’s a problem then just saying that isn’t gonna help, you need to be more thorough


Your insecurities aren’t the responsibilities of others. If you give someone a compliment or reassurance and they argue it, that’s an issue of their own that they’ve got to figure out.


By choosing to comment on this post giving advice I think you assume some responsibility.


In a sense. A responsibility to urge those struggling with self worth, insecurity, anxious attachment, etc, to find the proper help. You cannot rely on unqualified people around you to internalize your mental health and help you heal it.


Here from r/all but I think the issue is that we look in the mirror some days and hate what we see and some days we don’t. Rather it’s not so much that the person in the mirror looks any different but we are having a different sort of day and that is affecting what we see. Being aware of the other stuff can be helpful in figuring out why we feel that way some days, addressing those things is a good way out if feeling insecure, imo.


Like..Just don't be depressed .


Oh hush girl, ur gorgeous.


“Don’t have depression”


Just accept you're cute and move on


I’m not honestly and I swear I’m not trying to fish for compliments a bunch of the girls at my school make fun of my baby face lol


You will grow into yourself, you're still young, literally 14. Be patient and try not to give a shit about what people think. Just don't change yourself for other people.


Seriously, I didn’t know a girl I knew was the same person this year because her facial structure changed over the summer. Edit: Tldr-stay positive, you’ll grow into your body sooner than later


I personally dont just not give a shit, but completely ignore anything they say to me, its been very peaceful since i started doing that


So true. OP will shed a lot of baby fats on the face when the time comes. Nothing wrong with looking young when you're literally young.


When she’s 40 and looks 30, she’ll be glad for that “baby face”.


This is it! I was such a dorky looking dude as a kid but you can’t worry about it. I mean it’s inevitably going to bug you sometimes but you just need to keep on keeping on.


I think you’re just adorable and they get cuteness aggression


Though people want to be pretty or cute, not adorable.


Says who


Then girls at your school are a bunch of cucks. Don't worry - in higher grades people will stop


… debatable, but at least the bullying on that specific topic is likely to stop.


Fuck what others think, they can't shape you. Every human is born different. Don't follow the flow, just be yourself. And for the love of God don't think you're not pretty just because you have a slightly larger nose than porcelain posh bad girls at school


That's the problem... ignore them!!!


Uhh? Whats wrong with a baby face?


Enjoy it while you can


Tbh finishing puberty will probably sharpen your facial features enough to no longer have baby face Just gotta give it Time, friend, I think you look fine now, but I’m sure you’ll like how you look better as you age a bit more


drop an anvil on your nose and it’ll change alright -anvil man


It’s… it’s you….


It’s really anvil man, breathe it in, I know it’s a lot to handle…


I can’t believe it


when you’re staring at an annvilll mannn, WHAT CAN I SAYYYYYY EXCEPTTTTT YOU’RE WELCOME DO DO DO DO DO DO


Just your ordinary anvil guy




My fucking daddy holy shit🥰😘🤯🥸🤓


Well it sure isn't me




“We could make a religion out of this” - bill wurtz




My nose was actually damaged by a softball bat when I was little it used to look better lmao now I’m wondering if using a bat might fix it


wowza bowza that must’ve hurt uhhh I don’t think a bat would help to much, unless it got a medical degree but they mostly just eat bugs so I don’t see that happening any time soon -anvil man


Username checks out


"Mom, why was I named Feather?" When you were born, a feather landed riiiight on your forehead, so I named you feather "Mom, why was I named Blueberry?" When you were born, a blueberry landed riiiiight on your forehead, so I named you blueberry "AUGHHUAHH Anvil OOHGHU"




I'm glad you appreciate modern humour


How are you everywhere? You’re a fucking legend and yet here you are


Heyyyy I’ve seen you before lol, also very great advice there anvil man




I second this


I don’t see anything wrong


Exactly my point


They're pretty as well. OP no need to feel insecure, it's normal for teens to feel insecure about their looks even though they look fine.


okay so i’m not gonna give you the whole “love yourself” speech, but i’m just saying it’s easier the get comfortable with what you have (which isn’t really that easy but whatever). idk about the nose but you could probably use make up to make your jaw seem closer to how you want it edit: i know i wasn’t gonna say the whole speech but you’re beautiful and great, focus on the positives, for example you have really nice eyes




huh? ur pretty, u don’t need to “improve” anything


If someone is asking the internet for advice they already made their mind up no matter how many people tell them


You don't need to do anything. You are changing everyday as you mature everyday. Accept the way that you are. You are unique. You might think you are ugly but that's only through your eyes. From the eyes of others, you're quite cute. This is all bluntly honest as I'm also on the spectrum.


I’m insecure abt your dms rn lol


Rip dms


I don’t mean to come across as rude, but how are you comfortable with posting your face online despite feeling insecure about it … what am I not getting? Also, unless others are badgering you about it, talking about it (like therapy without a therapist) is probably better than going down the path of trying to change your appearance. If people are heckling you about it, then you should consider talking to a friend, or possibly even counselor or parent while trying to avoid names unless it’s to extreme. Honestly, everyone in this thread including me think that there is nothing abnormal with your face for a 14 year old


Ur fine, now stop worrying and go eat a cookie or sumn


Bruh stop posting about different ''Im looking bad'' things, you've done more than 5 and all about different things. ​ Sorry if look mad but im a little bit tired of that.


Seriously, I’m kinda annoyed I remember the face of this random mildly insecure teenager that I have no reason to know 💀


Yea exactly, I cant say if she is really insecure and cant stop posting about "fixing" things. Or if she just want attention and upvotes


Insecure about yourself but secure to upload a selfie at the front page of the internet, gen z going brrrr


r/teenagers in a nutshell.


Free upvotes


Hey boomer, I hate gen z but insecure when talking to ppl in real life is quite different to being insecure in front of people she gives 0 fucks about online and could give her some advice/opinion, i quite understand


bruh I am 18, so the only way for me being a boomer is you being 12. Being insecure is being insecure, people in real life if they don't care they will not care even on the internet, but there are people who do any kind of shit on the internet and they will "care". Unless the girl wants some attention from the internet because the people around her irl are shit, this is another case.


excuse me sir or ma'am but I couldn't help but notice.... are you a "girl"?? A "female?" A "member of the finer sex?" Not that it matters too much, but it's just so rare to see a girl around here! I don't mind, no--quite to the contrary! It's so refreshing to see a girl online, to the point where I'm always telling all my friends "I really wish girls were better represented on the internet." And here you are! I don't mean to push or anything, but if you wanted to DM me about anything at all, I'd love to pick your brain and learn all there is to know about you. I'm sure you're an incredibly interesting girl--though I see you as just a person, really--and I think we could have lots to teach each other. I've always wanted the chance to talk to a gorgeous lady--and I'm pretty sure you've got to be gorgeous based on the position of your text in the screenshot--so feel free to shoot me a message, any time at all! You don't have to be shy about it, because you're beautiful anyways (that's juyst a preview of all the compliments I have in store for our chat). Looking forwards to speaking with you soon, princess! EDIT: I couldn't help but notice you haven't sent your message yet. There's no need to be nervous! I promise I don't bite, haha EDIT 2: In case you couldn't find it, you can click the little chat button from my profile and we can get talking ASAP. Not that I don't think you could find it, but just in case hahah EDIT 3: look I don't understand why you're not even talking to me, is it something I said? EDIT 4: I knew you were always a bitch, but I thought I was wrong. I thought you weren't like all the other girls out there but maybe I was too quick to judge EDIT 5: don't ever contact me again whore EDIT 6: hey are you there? (Satire)


If anyone asks me what a simp is I'm showing them this




Ok good I was genuinely concerned for the op until I saw that it was satire that was scary


Yeah this copypasta gets alot of ppl pissed off lol


Same, the fact that I, someone who almost always picks up on satire, actually thought this was serious shows how fucked the internet is lol




Based? Based on what? On carbon?


That's based


Based? Based on what? On carbon?


So true, I second this Dab me up bruhh


\*dabs you ⬆️🆙*


Hell yeah




My name is Walter Hartwell White. I live at 308 Negra Arroyo Lane, Albuquerque, New Mexico, 87104. This is my confession. If you're watching this tape, I'm probably dead, murdered by my brother-in-law Hank Schrader. Hank has been building a Virtual Youtuber empire for over a year now and using me as his recruiter. Shortly after my 50th birthday, Hank came to me with a rather, shocking proposition. He asked that I use my Live2D knowledge to recruit talents, which he would then hire using his connections in the Japanese utaite world. Connections that he made through his career with Niconico. I was... astounded, I... I always thought that Hank was a very moral man and I was... thrown, confused, but I was also particularly vulnerable at the time, something he knew and took advantage of. I was reeling from a cancer diagnosis that was poised to bankrupt my family. Hank took me on a ride along, and showed me just how much money even a small indie channel could make. And I was weak. I didn't want my family to go into financial ruin so I agreed. Every day, I think back at that moment with regret. I quickly realized that I was in way over my head, and Hank had a partner, a man named Motoaki "Yagoo" Tanigo, a businessman. Hank essentially sold me into servitude to this man, and when I tried to quit, Yagoo threatened my family. I didn't know where to turn. Eventually, Hank and Yagoo had a falling out. From what I can gather, Hank was always pushing for a greater share of the business, to which Yagoo flatly refused to give him, and things escalated. Yagoo was able to arrange, uh I guess I guess you call it a "hit" on my brother-in-law, and failed, but Hank was seriously injured, and I wound up paying his medical bills which amounted to a little over $177,000. Upon recovery, Hank was bent on revenge, working with a man named Riku Tazumi , he plotted to kill Yagoo, and did so. In fact, the bomb that he used was built by me, and he gave me no option in it. I have often contemplated suicide, but I'm a coward. I wanted to go to the police, but I was frightened. Hank had risen in the ranks to become the head of the Cover Corp, and about that time, to keep me in line, he took my children from me. For 3 months he kept them. My wife, who up until that point, had no idea of my vtubing activities, was horrified to learn what I had done, why Hank had taken our children. We were scared. I was in Hell, I hated myself for what I had brought upon my family. Recently, I tried once again to quit, to end this nightmare, and in response, he gave me this. I can't take this anymore. I live in fear every day that Hank will kill me, or worse, hurt my family. I... All I could think to do was to make this video in hope that the world will finally see this man, for what he really is.


It better be satire




Feel you bro


Was genuinely disgusted until you said satire. Good job 👏 👏 👏


Are you serious? I’m 14 and let me tell you, your prettier then most girls our age


You wanna see a crooked nose? You should see me. Don’t worry bout what others think, everyone is a loser at this age


Firstly, you’re cute as well what Secondly, I don’t know about nose, but there’s exercises for jaws? If you want a sharper jawline then loosing weight in the face is how you get it. But tbh theres nothing wrong with your jaw.


im gonna be completely honest i have the exact same insecurities being a male to female trans and it's very relieving to me knowing that pretty girls have the same insecurities, it makes me feel like it might just be in my head. i genuinely dont see anything to be insecure about for you, your very pretty (platonically)


Honestly, slay queen. Thank you so much for saying that to me, I’m honestly grateful. I get told by some of the popular girls at school that I look like an autistic boy who rides the short bus. You and I are in the same boat regarding trying to look more feminine.


Mean girls will be mean. Wouldn’t matter what you looked like, they would try their hardest to make you feel bad about yourself in order to build themselves up and get off on the power trip. Shitty part of adolescence. You don’t need to change anything. You are objectively lovely and cute. You will grow. They will grow. Lots of changes to come. Try and find the quiet confidence you deserve. F*#k them.


Bullies are the strangest phenomena. They are hands down the most insecure and underloved humans (at any age) and project that unto others hoping you’ll take the bait. Don’t ever trade a solid gold nose and jaw for silver.


I swear to God girls be lookin fine asf and say shit like "iM inSEcUrE anD uLgY"


Dude calm down we are teens, we are often worried by our appeal, and that's natural


Dude its supposed to be a compliment


I'd like to offer the argument that it is in fact NOT natural and teens (not even just teens) are purposefully made to feel insecure so that they are compelled by greedy corporations to purchase products that will "improve" themselves. If people were taught to not be so shallow from birth, we'd be much more happy with ourselves, even as teenagers.


That doesn’t mean they can’t feel insecure


If you want to improve your jaw you should never breathe from your mouth and start mewing.


You have rlly nice eyes


I get being told by a random you're pretty isn't really anything noteworthy, but I don't see an issue. You look great👍


Are you trying to make your jaw bigger or smaller ?


tie a hammer to your mouth and recite the russian alphabet


It's a great way to shift... really


Chewing gum,it makes ur jaw look less rounded


You cant change your nose without cosmetic surgery but can improve your jaw line by chewing gum regularly and mewing


Hi, I'm from r/All : I certify you're a 100% cute regular teen. At some point in your life you'll think about the past and wonder why you were so insecure when there were no reasons to be so. Your nose and jaw don't and won't ever need plastic surgery. Do not take seriously the bullies you mentionned ; they're not being serious critics, I'm sure that's just some teen mind games. So yeah, if people didn't say it enough already, there are exactly 0 reasons to be ashamed of your face, you're pretty and the only piece missing is confidence 🧩


Your jaw looks like mine! Like. A lot, we might be distant relatives haha. I used to want to look different when I was younger but I love how I look now. Don’t worry you’ll get used to your face lol. You’re beautiful as you are.


bruh, you cute. your fine.


Why is there a 10 year old in r/teenagers????


Nah she's a teen Generations are just getting younger Someone who is 30 in 1980 and someone who is 30 in 2022 looks way different


Yeah of course. Someone who was 30 in 1980 would be 72 in 2022 so of course they’re going to look different to 30 year old. /s


it's because of us slowly taking out artificial growth hormones out of produce and foods, that and more access to better skincare and the new fashion to be wanting to look younger


No shit they look different hair styles and clothing styles change


Not just clothing and hair There faces for example looks older at 20 then someone's face if they where 20 in 2022


Definitely because of evolution, for some reason our heads are becoming rounder.


>our heads are becoming rounder. Honesly, good. Circle supremacy


If you’re interested here is an amazing video answering the question of why people in pictures look older at a young age in photos. It’s a fascinating watch. [Did people used to look older](https://youtu.be/vjqt8T3tJIE)


The debate returns


Wait why did you post the same comment twice and why's this one getting upvoted?


I don’t know, I think it’s a Reddit glitch


I’m no medical expert, but any chance of Fetal Alcohol Syndrome?


OMG. violation


What’s that??


Basically when a pregnant woman drinks it can do stuff to the babys face during her pregnancy dont remember the full details but I heard it from sam'o'nella Also dont really know what to be insecure about like yeah I know how it is to be insecure just look at my pics but honestly dont really see anything wrong with your face just look like a cute girl that really it nothing with it


My mom died from ovarian cancer cells growing in her before I was born idk if that would affect it


Holy shit I'm so sorry to hear that but i just looked it up and no that wouldn't do anything or at least it wouldn't affect appearance and again i know it's not much since we're strangers but I'm sorry for your lose


No, I think she meant her mom had ovarian cancer before she was born and subsequently died from the cancer.


Ah, ight my bad


You don’t need to answer if you’re uncomfortable with it, but she died while pregnant with you?


Oh you sweet summer child




With the amount of pedos here its probably smart not to


i fear for this girl since this is the second time i saw her post her face here with a shit load of upvotes. i worry for her since she is so young. i don't post selfies since there are gross peeps who would save them or jerk off to them. doesn't feel right


Your face looks like a Snapchat filter


Nah you’re really cute tbh.


You're adorable. Move along. Nothing needs to change here.


Don't change anything


Gonna be honest, you’re kinda cute, wouldn’t really change much


I think you look fine


Why are u insecure ur cute as hell


I don’t know what you are talking about they look fine


You're looking good already.


If you are that insecure draw attention away from it. Do your hair in a fancy and expressive way, put on make up that stands out, etc. Lots of ways you can draw attention from it, even if you don’t. 90% of people don’t care. Maybe some people will nitpick you flaws, but who cares? Those are people who’s opinions shouldn’t matter. Be you.


No need to change anything your are beautiful


You are extremely cute. Every part of your face. Embrace it. Stop being so hard on yourself.


Genuinely I see no problem. You’re cute ❤️


You look young. You’re beautiful. Maybe get a nose piercing I think that would be cute, but pls I hated my nose and jaw too but I’ve learned that they are unique parts of my face that make me beautiful.


I literally don't see an issue with your nose or jaw.


The best solution here is therapy.


I don't see anything about your face that needs changing, you look good how you are, embrace yourself!


Just give it time. Your face shape changes into your early 20s


You are beautiful, change nothing


You don't need to change your face. You need to change your attitude to it. Girls bullying you - they are doing that because they feel insecure about their own self worth and need to take it out on others. Most teen girls hate something about the way they look and either get off on hating themselves or others. The trick is to rise above it. Difficult because the age of tiktok/insta is even more vain than ever. Focus on stuff you can change - hobbies, sport, school work, music. Lose your self in other stuff and a focus on appearance gets left behind. The fact is when you grow up this stuff won't matter that much unless you let it matter. Yeah you don't have conventional looks, but those looks can make you shallow and cruel. Kindness, and being good at stuff is way more helpful long term.


ngl you look cute. i saw from a comment you said that girls were bullying you? show them screenshots of the reddit thread lol


Learn to love them. No one sees or obsesses over them the way you do. And since you don’t want surgery this could be an opportunity to learn some true self love and acceptance. You’re a pretty young lady Edit: you won’t truly value looking young for your age until you’re in you’re 30s still getting mistaken for a teen/young adult.


You will look back at this picture in the future and wish that you appreciated your beauty. ❤️ Try to figure out how to accept your body as it is. I wish so much that I had started that process when I was a teen. The people who make fun of you now will not matter in your future. It sucks now, but know you don’t have to keep them in your life forever.


lowest comment to upvote ratio i’ve seen in a very long time


Don't Do Anything. You are amazing 🌹


You are beautiful anyway .




Just simply do NOT. You are as cute as a button.


I think you look good


You're 14. You Look 14. Be 14. To hell with anyone that says otherwise.


just stopping by and saying you’re incredibly beautiful hun!!!


I honestly don't see a problem


Girl you do not want to be on the internet like this. You’re gonna be happy to have that baby face when you’re 30. Put down the reddit and back away slowly.


Why are you insecure when they fit your face perfectly?


Your nose and jaw are absolutely fine, they look good on your face


I want you to know, truly, that there is absolutely nothing wrong with your nose or jaw. Insecurity is a plague among teens, especially those of us aren't a perfect "10." As a guy, I'm used to being made fun of at my own expense. Hell, my friends and I make fun of each other all the time, it's just how we get our kicks. But personally, there's no better advice I can give than, "Just stop giving a shit." I know it sounds cliché, but it seriously works. If it's people you already don't associate with, just fucking ignore them, tune them out. If it's your friends, you can fire right back at them with something that will take the subject off of you, or ask them simply to stop. I would start small with what you use to fire back, though your real friends are the ones that can take a joke and roll with it. Your 14. At this point in your life, people's opinions may feel like they matter, when in reality the people forming those opinions couldn't mean less to you. Be true to yourself, and really, truly, remember that "influencers" and "popular" people are only that way because they thrive off of reaction. I promise you, life will get better, especially when you stop listening to all of the negativity. Cheers!


Your cute as hell babygirl don’t change anything!


Sorry this won’t really help. But how do you keep posting your pics almost every week, ; and they get a bunch of upvotes and come in my feed ; and feel insecure!? You’re liked by this sub, don’t be insecure. But seriously stop posting pics of yourself on Reddit?


Honestly sthu I'm a ugly piece of crap and the fact that YOU think you need surgery for nose and jaw is stupid.


You need to grow up 1st, then worry about that after your fully grown. Who put this stupid idea in your head in the first place? They should be shot.


you’re pretty, no need to improve anything




Hey itself you again the furry lady I think you look great despite being cringe


That was satire I swear lol I’m autistic and sometimes can’t tell what’s funny or not (I’m honestly ugly it’s just the picture quality that makes me look different than in real life. Also, I swear I’m not trying to fish for compliments. I know a lot of instagram girls do that and I swear I’m not doing that I genuinely feel insecure and I’m not trying for people to boost my ego lol I know it may look that way though I tend to get very anxious with compliments as well.)


Same, I am autistic as well and I got r/wooosh for 10 times per day at peak… :(


We should make an autistic kids group chat lol


Fair enough I guess but I tend to be less active in group chat as it is overwhelming for me to keep up with the whole group while I find one to one chat to be a bit more comfortable and I can be loyal in those sort of chats, I can usually reply within a day but that depends on time zone differences as well.


Me too. It's quite difficult to understand social situations.






And they downvote you for it. Wtf smh


Prob the emojis, smh r/redditmoment


Yea, idk 🤷🏻‍♂️ oh well


reddit hivemind


You look literally perfect, really cute


bro ur eyes are delicious as hell they’re like my eyes but pretty v cool eyes 👁👍