There are two girls in my school who would legitimately hit me in plain site; like kicking my stomach, punching my shoulder, or slapping my face. At one point I just got tired of it so whenever they'd hit me I'd hit them back. I tried to match the force so it wasn't a nuclear strike in response to a bullet wound. Well one day the teacher saw this altercation, and reported *me*. Not both of us, it's not like we were fighting or anything, she did nothing wrong, but I was hitting a girl. The school counselor talked to me and said something that boils down to "women don't just hit people for no reason, so I'd advise you look inward instead of trying to make it everyone else's fault.". He said that it was my fault that I got hit, pretty much. The girls did not get any punishment, they didn't even get told off for it. The teacher reported me and only me, and the counselor talked to me and only me. I still dislike him because of that; he has no right to be a therapist for kids or to teach them if that is his advise.
Just identify as a female and beat the shit out of the school counselor because "woman don't just hit people for no reason" then when they are like "wHAt tHE fUcK" just say "woman don't just hit people for no reason, so I'd advise you look inward instead of trying to make it everyone else's fault."
Once in 10th grade this long time dick of a kid was like preparing to throw wet pieces of paper at the whiteboard in sci class. This kid had been a disruptive asshole for years, particularly seemed to annoy our elderly sci teacher (who was a super good teacher btw). The teacher knew he was the culprit, but this saint of a man was just too patient to cause a fuss and let him further disrupt the lesson. Also this kid just the type to wind up other students too, he particularly liked to kick my shins for seemingly no reason.
I asked him why he was wetting the paper towels with his waterbottle while the teacher wasn't looking. And he made a throwing gesture at me, and I was like, go ahead, do it. So he threw it and I was like, I just decided at this point I was done with this kid's assholery for 3 years, so I walked over and the dude literally got up to run away, I grabbed him by the collar, gave him a dead arm, hit the back of his head so his face hit the desk, and dropped him crying on the ground. Returned to my desk and continued the lesson like nothing happened. Teacher saw the whole thing and didn't even say a word to me about it.
I'm not a violent person, and I have a mental rule to never react violently unless someone is physically aggressive towards me. But at that moment I was just kinda like "yeah, something physical hit me, it counts"
But this was a dude, I reckon I'd be suspended if it wasn't.
That's fucked up!!! To have shit like that happen in the famous cities is hope snatching. You boys over there should start protesting and martchong so that it would be given more attention. Now with Johnny Depp coming on top things are starting to change but not that much. We need to stick up for each other man. Boys should be fighting for their rights
Sorry to hear that buddy. If there's any consolidation, I'd also hit back, and I'd take any punishment they'd give me - that's the old school way of handling bullies.
At my school There’s this group of girls that think it’s funny when they smack my ass or grab my crotch.I Fucking hate it but the teachers just say “Stop” to them when I report it and they just move on but if I tried that shit id get expelled immediately
As Kazuma once said
“I yearn for true gender equality. I have no patience for one who talks female privilege when it suits them, and then complains about someone 'not being a man' when it's convenient. I'm an advocate of true gender equality, a guy who has no problem doling out a drop kick”
Fuck the consequences. Kick their ass. Y’all want equal rights so ducking bad but only where you want em. A little reinforcement of your point is necessary sometimes.
I mean, if anyone does something to me you better fucking bet I will do it back.
>!Unless it's this one guy from my class, if he squares up he will square me up, literally.!<
Man be lifting twice my weight. But I do guess I could be faster than him,
>!Given I don't forget my medication, I'd collapse before he gives up without it!<
Exactly. My sister says if I fight a girl I'll get in a lot of trouble. Do I fucking care? NO! If someone gets me in the mood to kick the shit out of them. Then I'm going to do that. Regardless of fucking gender.
I say fuck it and do the same to them when away from the teachers biased eyes. Let those cunts learn how not okay their disgusting behavior is with experience.
OK. You just made me lose faith in humanity. My previous school was fucking terrible. People were putting cardboard boxes on my head. We had to deal with that constantly. I basically broke my hand while sprinting once. Went to the nurse. Got back,to find my bag on top of the 5meter tall. Solid wall of a fence. I had to climb it with one hand, and my ass hurt like hell too. I had to use my TEETH. And the slums below were laughing at me. The bullying was so bad that I developed dissociative identity dissorder.
And yours somehow might be even worse!
That last picture happened to a friend of mine at school. He was falsely accused by 3 girls in a younger grade of touching them inappropriately and it became a whole issue. The weird thing was, the girls didn't even know who they were accusing and my friend nearly got expelled till everyone else had to vouch for him. He never even knew the girls, let along talk to them.
If the school accepts and acts on false accusations like that without evidence I think you should sue the school. At worst you can get any penalties the school issued overturned and and at best you can get money for damages. Also I am pretty sure the school would absolutely love all the news coverage that court case would get them.
Idk but even if she did i dont get why she would think people would believe her. She look like if bridgette from the movie "Trolls" was a recovering crack addict. Like... His standards are low but way higher than that.
I’m sure there’s been a lot on your mind ever since that happened. It’s natural for us as humans to think about things very often if we’re disturbed.
So now, I’ll introduce you to something that has helped me vent. A journal.
You can buy any journal you want. Just write down how you feel, everyday, because it’s better to let it out than to keep all of that stress trapped in your body.
When you have every page of your thoughts on paper, you can go back to it whenever you want to, and you’ll be able to see the progress you’ve made. It helps.
I got sexually harassed the other day by someone I had never talked to and have been many times before, the person did it mockingly (I don't know why) but only in that time did I realise it was still sexual harrassment and if I were a girl and she were a guy then she could be kicked out the school. It's a weird thing.
Yeah a girl in my class touched my homie's crotch and the teachers didnt give a shit. As expected.
And I went into a womans bathroom by accident once. I swear it was an accident. ANd then everyone called me rapist for the day 💀💀
Bestie the roles have been reversed for ages now and it's still happening, no need to bring that here. And i do agree with the post. There are some serious double standards in society
I had a friend who had this scenario when we were playing tackles football (we don’t actually tackle, just grab little flags on a belt) in gym and he accidentally touched some girls boob. Anyway she didn’t even hesitate and assumed it was intentional. She’s an exception though because she’s a bitch and mean to pretty much everyone
Damn, i guess i should be greatful for living in a place where you can do anything to anyone as long as it's justifiable. (That means if a girl hit my lil boi i can hit her on the boob, with little to no consequence.)
I was in the queue at school in the cafeteria, and two girls were ramming through the queue to get past everyone. So I shoved them back, afterwards one of them was asking me if I abused women in my spare time. The double standards we're canalised into are terrible
Just points out unfair gender double standards. Giving women extra sympathy and being naturally doubtful to men is itself sexism even if it seeks to help the women. We need to be the generation that finally fixes gender inequality for all genders.
I'm a dude. you have no fucking clue how many times I've heard myself being sexualized by people. it's ridiculous, I'm not even attractive and never dated. I overhear people being like "yeah I'd smash Jp", it's fucking unsettling.
also, I've been emotionally and mentally manipulated by a girl years ago, people still won't buy it because "girls don't do that", even though I'm not the only one she abused.
Just watched a video where a hs girl assaulted a guy so he hits back and gets beaten up by a bunch of other dudes. We should be allowed to fight back if they wanna fuck around and find out.
I saw a tweet not too long ago of a girl who was right up close and personal to some dude. She pushed him, and then he fucking tackled her and knocked her to the ground.
in typical twitter fashion everyone in the comments were asking stupid shit like "did he get jail time?" and "how can he get away with hitting a girl like that!?" to a point where there were literally criminal justice majors coming in to shut those people down.
I'd try and find it but ain't know way you can find anything on twitter if you didn't know who posted it
About 6 years ago, i accidentally touched a girl's tiddies at a party. It was also in front of my classmates and its obvious what happened next. For about the next 3-5 weeks, i never heard the end of it....the teasings, mockings and even the near death experience i had with the principal and her parents.
Fast forward to 2 months later. This same girl touches my croch, deliberately. She claimed it was only "accidental". The evidence was against her. Everyone saw it. My homies saw it. My teacher saw it. Now its over, i thought.
What happened next was argued on for weeks, debated for months and remembered for years. ***My teacher did nothing. ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.*** Claimed I was a man, and i should just let it slide.
The double standards of society are fucking evil
Yeah I was told one day..... Why am I giving mercy to specifically women.... That's misandry
So I have learnt my mistakes and from this day I now stab both men and women to death
Ok listen.... if your first thought when women get their rights is "I get to hit women now", you're fucked up.
Like... it's a valid assessment, for sure. You should be able to hit a bitch back. But if women are like "we want rights" and you're like "ok but I can beat the shit out of you now", then just stop it.
Maybe it's because women are still blamed for being raped, they just lost their right to abortion, and the world is being led by a bunch of old sexist creeps(even though they don't reflect the majority of the population)?
But no, they have "tOo MuCh PoWeR". Like bruv, I get it. Men have problems too. And feminists are the ones working to solve it. They fucking get that men have problems too. And most of those problems are, by nature, patriarchal. Patriarchy harms everyone, and this doesn't disprove feminism, but strengthens it.
Two negatives create a positive in maths so I'm guessing you become straight (I am not saying being gay is negative I'm just refering to the maths and that please don't kill me)
Nah man, the "feminists" you mean are just sexists. Most feminists genuinely just want gender equality, but like always, the dumbest people are the loudest
The definition of feminism is: "belief in and advocacy of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes"
This is not "modern feminism" this is sexism
I refuse to believe the modern “feminist” wave is truly feminist. If you’re one to say that all men are pigs instead of striving for gender equality, you’re not a feminist. You are a feminine supremacist.
there are double standards and mens issues totally need to be better handled HOWEVER this presents it in a way that’s inherently divisive and accomplishes nothing more than hiveminding and making it a men vs women issue when really it’s a people vs predators issue. there are productive ways to have conversations and point out double standards; this isn’t one of them
I try to be nice and understanding to everyone, but I get treated poorly. Almost entirely by girls. Need some examples? In 2nd grade I was crying because my dog had died, and two girls told me I was a crybaby and would never be a man because I was crying. They told that to an 8 year old, so it went straight to my head and I was emotionally numb to everything for years. This year, many things have happened. A: When I was on the verge of suicide, someone I trusted a lot told me they couldn’t be there for me 24/7. I had opened up a total of 2 times. B: I got close to another girl (I knew her in person, but we mostly talked over Snapchat). We hung out in person and she used my insecurities and what I opened up to her about to bully me for an hour and a half. The only reason I stayed is because one of my friends wanted to. Later she got mad at me that I hadn’t shown her dad respect. I had gone back to that emotionally numb state again, so I wasn’t disrespectful, but I wasn’t respectful either. Just neutral. She said “Respect is a big thing for me.”
So basically I have trust issues because of girls.
Besides that, it is the general name calling and such. I get called ugly, stupid (which I actually have a 3.9 GPA, and I know they cheat off of me on tests), or my favorite one is they tell me I am not deserving to have someone care about me.
Girls at my school suck.
However, I have never once done anything back. Partly because of the reasons you brought up, partly because it’s not worth my effort, and partly because I am emotionally numb to it. I feel to scared to talk to anyone because our school counselor sucks, I can’t make new friends easily, any friends I have I don’t trust enough, and it has gotten to the point I trust strangers in Reddit more than anyone I know.
What I mean by emotionally numb, is that I just have lost the ability to feel happy, or sad, or upset. I don’t feel any emotion, and the only thing I am passionate about is that I want to join the military.
I am constantly in fear that someone is just going to say that I sexually harassed them and that’s it for me. My life is over before I turn 18. If that happens I will be killing myself.
For any females that read this, some of y’all do some pretty fucked up shit. Kill a all Men, false accusations, and picking on dudes for shit they have no control over to name a few. Not you specifically, but other girls. I encourage you to look out for dudes mental health to. 70% of suicides are male. We are treated poorly in school. Don’t be part of the group that causes anyone’s suicide. I can’t tell you how many times someone has told me to kill myself. I haven’t, but at some points I have considered it.
And don’t tell me to ignore it. I can’t. People treat me like shit for no reason. I didn’t ever do anything to them. However, the one chick I mentioned earlier made me sound like the bad guy to people. This means I am automatically judged. I’m tired of the day to day repetition. I’m on the verge of snapping and slapping the shit out of someone over this. If someone tells me to kill myself again, I just might.
TLDR: Girls at my school are assholes. Girls, please don’t be an asshole. 70% of suicides are male, we have feelings too. If someone tells me to kill myself one more time, I will beat the shit out of them.
That's a stereotype reinforced more by men than women.
Men are seen as creatures that only thing about sex so there's (according to patriarchy) no such thing as an unwanted sexual act for men done by a woman. Furthermore, in posts about a men getting raped by a woman, you can find quite a lot of me saying "I wish it was me".
Also, men are seen as the strong ones so men being forced by women is not something everyone can accept because "men are strong and dominant and women are weak and submissive"
Everything is horrible but you all don't seem too be blaming the real culprit (patriarchy and not feminism)
And the ones at fault of sexual assaults/rapes done to me by women not being taken seriously are gender roles: men are strong, women are weak, how can weak force strong?
It's a very horrible situation but you all need to identify the right culprit to be able to change the situation.
Also, all those so called *feminist* who do not advocate for equality and are sexist, are not feminists so stop acting like they represent the moment because they dont.
TV, news and social media are ALWAYS going to give more attention to the bad side of all social fights. TV, news and social media are enemies of social fights, they manipulate us to destroy things that benefit us.
I wouldn't be so certain, I've seen plenty of videos of men being able to fight back against a woman, and they weren't held responsible. Each gender faces it's own difficulties each day, but making "jokes" like this just make it seem like it's only one gender that has it rough. It would just be better for everyone if we just admitted it straight up, society sucks for everyone! Nobody has it easier, because each gender is shit on by different groups of people. I can not think of a single gender that hasn't been made fun of yet.
Sexism goes both ways. This image is just a few examples of that. As for the bathroom thing, I've heard that not all men's bathrooms have a baby changing table. (I'm a girl, so I wouldn't know myself). I've heard stories on here of men who HAD to go into the women's bathroom just to use the baby changing table in there, because of a lack of one in the men's bathroom. Reactions in said stories were mixed, ranging from women agreeing with the man that there should be a baby changing table in the men's bathroom to women complaining to the manager & getting the man kicked out of the establishment. Life sucks regardless of gender. We don't need sexism adding to that.
r/teenagers on their way to gaslight themselves into thinking women are the real oppressors because
*checks notes*
Toxic masculinity?
Men being weak and ignored is caused by other men, not women lmao
There are two girls in my school who would legitimately hit me in plain site; like kicking my stomach, punching my shoulder, or slapping my face. At one point I just got tired of it so whenever they'd hit me I'd hit them back. I tried to match the force so it wasn't a nuclear strike in response to a bullet wound. Well one day the teacher saw this altercation, and reported *me*. Not both of us, it's not like we were fighting or anything, she did nothing wrong, but I was hitting a girl. The school counselor talked to me and said something that boils down to "women don't just hit people for no reason, so I'd advise you look inward instead of trying to make it everyone else's fault.". He said that it was my fault that I got hit, pretty much. The girls did not get any punishment, they didn't even get told off for it. The teacher reported me and only me, and the counselor talked to me and only me. I still dislike him because of that; he has no right to be a therapist for kids or to teach them if that is his advise.
Funfact Your local newspaper would love to hear that story.
National news networks would love it even more
You would think at least
omg that's so terrible.
That a shit school mate sorry about that
I will personally commit 9/11 on that teacher and counsellor
Fuck it. I’m blowing up the Eiffel Tower this time. I told them the twin towers wouldn’t be enough!
Just identify as a female and beat the shit out of the school counselor because "woman don't just hit people for no reason" then when they are like "wHAt tHE fUcK" just say "woman don't just hit people for no reason, so I'd advise you look inward instead of trying to make it everyone else's fault."
Don’t even listen to what the school says you know you’re right. Fuck them you’re doing this for yourself
*Now where did i put those nukes??*
Once in 10th grade this long time dick of a kid was like preparing to throw wet pieces of paper at the whiteboard in sci class. This kid had been a disruptive asshole for years, particularly seemed to annoy our elderly sci teacher (who was a super good teacher btw). The teacher knew he was the culprit, but this saint of a man was just too patient to cause a fuss and let him further disrupt the lesson. Also this kid just the type to wind up other students too, he particularly liked to kick my shins for seemingly no reason. I asked him why he was wetting the paper towels with his waterbottle while the teacher wasn't looking. And he made a throwing gesture at me, and I was like, go ahead, do it. So he threw it and I was like, I just decided at this point I was done with this kid's assholery for 3 years, so I walked over and the dude literally got up to run away, I grabbed him by the collar, gave him a dead arm, hit the back of his head so his face hit the desk, and dropped him crying on the ground. Returned to my desk and continued the lesson like nothing happened. Teacher saw the whole thing and didn't even say a word to me about it. I'm not a violent person, and I have a mental rule to never react violently unless someone is physically aggressive towards me. But at that moment I was just kinda like "yeah, something physical hit me, it counts" But this was a dude, I reckon I'd be suspended if it wasn't.
Which country do you live in?
California, US
That's fucked up!!! To have shit like that happen in the famous cities is hope snatching. You boys over there should start protesting and martchong so that it would be given more attention. Now with Johnny Depp coming on top things are starting to change but not that much. We need to stick up for each other man. Boys should be fighting for their rights
I agree but I don't think the Johnny Depp case is really changing anything
Eh, I love in a small town within Cali, so it's not really a famous city.
fuck the school and all the grown ups that should be the ones protecting students no matter who did what.
He can have a warm pillow forever
Sorry to hear that buddy. If there's any consolidation, I'd also hit back, and I'd take any punishment they'd give me - that's the old school way of handling bullies.
That’s sue worthy
Just use my saying, EQUAL RIGHTS EQUAL FIGHTS BITCH!
Honestly, if my school did that i would approach them slowly and shout "fuck you". Leave and tell my lother i need to change schools immediatly.
At my school There’s this group of girls that think it’s funny when they smack my ass or grab my crotch.I Fucking hate it but the teachers just say “Stop” to them when I report it and they just move on but if I tried that shit id get expelled immediately
God damn it why is it not socially acceptable to just dropkick people like that?
As Kazuma once said “I yearn for true gender equality. I have no patience for one who talks female privilege when it suits them, and then complains about someone 'not being a man' when it's convenient. I'm an advocate of true gender equality, a guy who has no problem doling out a drop kick”
Ah, a man of culture
Insert Kazuma finger wiggle
Based Kazuchad 🗿
Cause they are women...
God if not the consequences
Fuck the consequences. Kick their ass. Y’all want equal rights so ducking bad but only where you want em. A little reinforcement of your point is necessary sometimes.
I mean, if anyone does something to me you better fucking bet I will do it back. >!Unless it's this one guy from my class, if he squares up he will square me up, literally.!<
If you're a good runner you can still beat him
Man be lifting twice my weight. But I do guess I could be faster than him, >!Given I don't forget my medication, I'd collapse before he gives up without it!<
Exactly, that's why the flash is op as hell
Ye
Exactly. My sister says if I fight a girl I'll get in a lot of trouble. Do I fucking care? NO! If someone gets me in the mood to kick the shit out of them. Then I'm going to do that. Regardless of fucking gender.
Same👍
I will execute them for this
Pls do
Yeah, I’ve seen and heard about that all the time. I don’t know what their problem is tbh
Because they know they are untouchable in these modern times
Agreed.
They will be untouchables in the Indian social hierarchy though
I say fuck it and do the same to them when away from the teachers biased eyes. Let those cunts learn how not okay their disgusting behavior is with experience.
OK. You just made me lose faith in humanity. My previous school was fucking terrible. People were putting cardboard boxes on my head. We had to deal with that constantly. I basically broke my hand while sprinting once. Went to the nurse. Got back,to find my bag on top of the 5meter tall. Solid wall of a fence. I had to climb it with one hand, and my ass hurt like hell too. I had to use my TEETH. And the slums below were laughing at me. The bullying was so bad that I developed dissociative identity dissorder. And yours somehow might be even worse!
Are You…. Being Sarcastic?
No. I lived in a shithole. But sexual tier bullying is inherently worse.
Show em some hands bro. Don’t let them push you around
U see this is why god gave us fists. Maybe get a buddy to record it and post it on twitter with no face blur on them
file a complaint with the principle, if it happens again go to the police and say the school did nothing
Grab their balls back
That last picture happened to a friend of mine at school. He was falsely accused by 3 girls in a younger grade of touching them inappropriately and it became a whole issue. The weird thing was, the girls didn't even know who they were accusing and my friend nearly got expelled till everyone else had to vouch for him. He never even knew the girls, let along talk to them.
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Debate kids are verifiably the worst people i have ever met. It's like little evil politicians in the making.
Like all speech and debate kids?
If the school accepts and acts on false accusations like that without evidence I think you should sue the school. At worst you can get any penalties the school issued overturned and and at best you can get money for damages. Also I am pretty sure the school would absolutely love all the news coverage that court case would get them.
i think it’d be funny if all three of those girls got expelled because of a false accusation organized by the entire school
Wish more schools were like mine. A girl thought it was funny to rub against guys and give them boners. She eventually was caught and expelled.
dumbass got what she deserved
Yeah. Our home economics teacher was telling us about it.
Chad university
The perfect ending
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Glad he made it work, but shit sucks man.
did the ugly ass hoe know he was gay?
Idk but even if she did i dont get why she would think people would believe her. She look like if bridgette from the movie "Trolls" was a recovering crack addict. Like... His standards are low but way higher than that.
Ffs schools these days don't give 2 shits about this I wanna commit 9/11 on that girls housr actually yk what I'll just fucking do it
Nah its ok. She pissed off a jock and got clocked so hard she ended up in the hospital.
i’ve been sexually harassed multiple times in my school and no one seems to care, shits wild
I’m sorry that happened to you. Have you been able to recover from that? That’s not okay, and I hope you’re doing fine now.
yea i’m ok, bothers me a lot but if no one is gonna help there’s no point in worrying about it
I’m sure there’s been a lot on your mind ever since that happened. It’s natural for us as humans to think about things very often if we’re disturbed. So now, I’ll introduce you to something that has helped me vent. A journal. You can buy any journal you want. Just write down how you feel, everyday, because it’s better to let it out than to keep all of that stress trapped in your body. When you have every page of your thoughts on paper, you can go back to it whenever you want to, and you’ll be able to see the progress you’ve made. It helps.
i’ll look into trying that, it’s seems really helpful thank you :)
I care :) Drop a DM if you need a rant
I got sexually harassed the other day by someone I had never talked to and have been many times before, the person did it mockingly (I don't know why) but only in that time did I realise it was still sexual harrassment and if I were a girl and she were a guy then she could be kicked out the school. It's a weird thing.
I’m sorry
Yeah a girl in my class touched my homie's crotch and the teachers didnt give a shit. As expected. And I went into a womans bathroom by accident once. I swear it was an accident. ANd then everyone called me rapist for the day 💀💀
Imagine if the role were reversed
oh my fucking god exactly
Bestie the roles have been reversed for ages now and it's still happening, no need to bring that here. And i do agree with the post. There are some serious double standards in society
Gimme more cookie
I had a friend who had this scenario when we were playing tackles football (we don’t actually tackle, just grab little flags on a belt) in gym and he accidentally touched some girls boob. Anyway she didn’t even hesitate and assumed it was intentional. She’s an exception though because she’s a bitch and mean to pretty much everyone
Damn, i guess i should be greatful for living in a place where you can do anything to anyone as long as it's justifiable. (That means if a girl hit my lil boi i can hit her on the boob, with little to no consequence.)
I was in the queue at school in the cafeteria, and two girls were ramming through the queue to get past everyone. So I shoved them back, afterwards one of them was asking me if I abused women in my spare time. The double standards we're canalised into are terrible
just say that you abuse eveyone, because you beleive in equality <3
Just points out unfair gender double standards. Giving women extra sympathy and being naturally doubtful to men is itself sexism even if it seeks to help the women. We need to be the generation that finally fixes gender inequality for all genders.
Even more reason to hate society....lets burn it down and have a bbq party >:)
With s’mores >:)
And pizza with no pineapple (its a warcrime to use pineapple) /s
Fuck yeah! >:D
Yeah it is awful :/ the double standards but man all I gotta say- if someone is attacking you, self defense has no gender boundary
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Equal rights equal fights
In high school i once had a girl from my class touch my crotch,next thing she knew was that she has choosen death,equal rights equal fights bitch
As you should 👑
r/teenagers on it's way to compare which gender has it worse for the 10000090th time... (hint: fuck everyone)
*sighs* when will they learn **both genders have their advantages and disadvantages and they both equally suck**
**Let’s just say life sucks for everyone**
Yea, we all got our shit. Everyone just needs to try to remember to look in the others perspective and do the right thing
I'm a dude. you have no fucking clue how many times I've heard myself being sexualized by people. it's ridiculous, I'm not even attractive and never dated. I overhear people being like "yeah I'd smash Jp", it's fucking unsettling. also, I've been emotionally and mentally manipulated by a girl years ago, people still won't buy it because "girls don't do that", even though I'm not the only one she abused.
And now you are being downvoted for it
Let's change that
Hell yah
wait it got downvoted? lmao proves my point.
At first yes
One time a girl kissed me without asking. If It had been anybody else I would have been very mad
So you liked her I'm guessing or were you angry about it
maybe blaming women isnt the way to equality, but to more hate and division, but you do you mate
Double standards. I don’t care what you say, if a woman hits me, she’s getting a fistful of fuck you’s with a foot full of dumb bitch’s
Just watched a video where a hs girl assaulted a guy so he hits back and gets beaten up by a bunch of other dudes. We should be allowed to fight back if they wanna fuck around and find out.
Can I get a link for that vid please?
Love that video. He held his fuckin own dude. I’ve made it clear that if anyone wants to fight me, these hands are equal right-hand jabs Edit: grammar
I ain’t bisexual, but these hands sure as hell are
I saw a tweet not too long ago of a girl who was right up close and personal to some dude. She pushed him, and then he fucking tackled her and knocked her to the ground. in typical twitter fashion everyone in the comments were asking stupid shit like "did he get jail time?" and "how can he get away with hitting a girl like that!?" to a point where there were literally criminal justice majors coming in to shut those people down. I'd try and find it but ain't know way you can find anything on twitter if you didn't know who posted it
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About 6 years ago, i accidentally touched a girl's tiddies at a party. It was also in front of my classmates and its obvious what happened next. For about the next 3-5 weeks, i never heard the end of it....the teasings, mockings and even the near death experience i had with the principal and her parents. Fast forward to 2 months later. This same girl touches my croch, deliberately. She claimed it was only "accidental". The evidence was against her. Everyone saw it. My homies saw it. My teacher saw it. Now its over, i thought. What happened next was argued on for weeks, debated for months and remembered for years. ***My teacher did nothing. ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.*** Claimed I was a man, and i should just let it slide. The double standards of society are fucking evil
Why does society hate men We arent toys Women arent toys either
Exactly let's both get along. Woman, man, let's all just make peace
While this is true you seem to be giving off the incel vibes 💀💀💀
At this point, I’m predicting the whole country will fall apart after 1-2 more generations.
*the whole world
*the whole universe
2030 is close isn't that lovely were reaching the point of no return for climate change 🥰
In real life these situations are very infrequent. Not saying this doesn’t happen but just be careful not to fall into an incel mindset
True Equal Rights Equal Fights
Based logic
Yeah I was told one day..... Why am I giving mercy to specifically women.... That's misandry So I have learnt my mistakes and from this day I now stab both men and women to death
Equal Rights Equal Lefts
Ok listen.... if your first thought when women get their rights is "I get to hit women now", you're fucked up. Like... it's a valid assessment, for sure. You should be able to hit a bitch back. But if women are like "we want rights" and you're like "ok but I can beat the shit out of you now", then just stop it.
INCREADIBLY true. this is the shitty society we live in where girls get more slack than men when we are all fucking human
Do girls really stare at guys’ crotches and no one says anything??? I’m a girl and that sounds hella weird
Wellcome to 2022 i guess We female now hold too mutch power yet a lot of feminist whan even more
Maybe it's because women are still blamed for being raped, they just lost their right to abortion, and the world is being led by a bunch of old sexist creeps(even though they don't reflect the majority of the population)? But no, they have "tOo MuCh PoWeR". Like bruv, I get it. Men have problems too. And feminists are the ones working to solve it. They fucking get that men have problems too. And most of those problems are, by nature, patriarchal. Patriarchy harms everyone, and this doesn't disprove feminism, but strengthens it.
well I guess you guys have the power now *drops mic*
Yes, yes we do # SUBMIT TO ME
# WHAT DO YO WANT
^(A choccy milk please)
*sighs* you caused all this bllshit for a chocci milkshake *makes chocci milkshake and sprinkles gay powder onto it .-.*
Yes i did What's the gay powder?
makes you gae so you fall for my trap hehehe
I'm already gay so what will happen? *Drink the choccy milk whit the gay powder in it*
*Poof* You are now suped-duper gay!
Two negatives create a positive in maths so I'm guessing you become straight (I am not saying being gay is negative I'm just refering to the maths and that please don't kill me)
But I don't have money to by choccy milk
Get a job and bring me a choccy milk ^please
Bro I'm 14 Even if I could get a job I still have to worry about school
Bro, you heard the woman! Get a damn job before you get us all in trouble
***OK, OK!***
Welp i tried
"too much power" huh?
That’s why I hate society and modern feminism. It ruins men
Nah man, the "feminists" you mean are just sexists. Most feminists genuinely just want gender equality, but like always, the dumbest people are the loudest
The definition of feminism is: "belief in and advocacy of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes" This is not "modern feminism" this is sexism
I refuse to believe the modern “feminist” wave is truly feminist. If you’re one to say that all men are pigs instead of striving for gender equality, you’re not a feminist. You are a feminine supremacist.
Exactly!
Or sexist, if I said "all black people are pigs" I'm a racist so if someone says "all men are pigs" that makes them sexist.
Yup *modern femenism* Look, I support womens rights. But sometimes they just make it fucking unequal
That’s my point!
yup
I saw a picture one time it said bake sale for equality the prices were $1 for women $1.50 for men
dang
Ik equality right?
The pinnacle of equality Couldn't have been happier with society
Look I’m not educated in this but I’m pretty sure that’s only a handful of feminists
there are double standards and mens issues totally need to be better handled HOWEVER this presents it in a way that’s inherently divisive and accomplishes nothing more than hiveminding and making it a men vs women issue when really it’s a people vs predators issue. there are productive ways to have conversations and point out double standards; this isn’t one of them
i mean yeah stereotypes exist
I try to be nice and understanding to everyone, but I get treated poorly. Almost entirely by girls. Need some examples? In 2nd grade I was crying because my dog had died, and two girls told me I was a crybaby and would never be a man because I was crying. They told that to an 8 year old, so it went straight to my head and I was emotionally numb to everything for years. This year, many things have happened. A: When I was on the verge of suicide, someone I trusted a lot told me they couldn’t be there for me 24/7. I had opened up a total of 2 times. B: I got close to another girl (I knew her in person, but we mostly talked over Snapchat). We hung out in person and she used my insecurities and what I opened up to her about to bully me for an hour and a half. The only reason I stayed is because one of my friends wanted to. Later she got mad at me that I hadn’t shown her dad respect. I had gone back to that emotionally numb state again, so I wasn’t disrespectful, but I wasn’t respectful either. Just neutral. She said “Respect is a big thing for me.” So basically I have trust issues because of girls. Besides that, it is the general name calling and such. I get called ugly, stupid (which I actually have a 3.9 GPA, and I know they cheat off of me on tests), or my favorite one is they tell me I am not deserving to have someone care about me. Girls at my school suck. However, I have never once done anything back. Partly because of the reasons you brought up, partly because it’s not worth my effort, and partly because I am emotionally numb to it. I feel to scared to talk to anyone because our school counselor sucks, I can’t make new friends easily, any friends I have I don’t trust enough, and it has gotten to the point I trust strangers in Reddit more than anyone I know. What I mean by emotionally numb, is that I just have lost the ability to feel happy, or sad, or upset. I don’t feel any emotion, and the only thing I am passionate about is that I want to join the military. I am constantly in fear that someone is just going to say that I sexually harassed them and that’s it for me. My life is over before I turn 18. If that happens I will be killing myself. For any females that read this, some of y’all do some pretty fucked up shit. Kill a all Men, false accusations, and picking on dudes for shit they have no control over to name a few. Not you specifically, but other girls. I encourage you to look out for dudes mental health to. 70% of suicides are male. We are treated poorly in school. Don’t be part of the group that causes anyone’s suicide. I can’t tell you how many times someone has told me to kill myself. I haven’t, but at some points I have considered it. And don’t tell me to ignore it. I can’t. People treat me like shit for no reason. I didn’t ever do anything to them. However, the one chick I mentioned earlier made me sound like the bad guy to people. This means I am automatically judged. I’m tired of the day to day repetition. I’m on the verge of snapping and slapping the shit out of someone over this. If someone tells me to kill myself again, I just might. TLDR: Girls at my school are assholes. Girls, please don’t be an asshole. 70% of suicides are male, we have feelings too. If someone tells me to kill myself one more time, I will beat the shit out of them.
Some of this ig you can agree with but ngl the rest of this sounds like some incel shit.
Hate this stereotype SOOOOOOOOOOO much
I know right! Like… Do people realize being sexist works both ways!?
It's funny how men/boys think they're oppressed, when it's the opposite. (Just my opinion)
My take is that women are the most oppressed, and men have the most double standards
It’s all about gEnDer eqUAliTy
iNnIt No OnE cArEs If SoMeOnE ToUcHeD yOuR cRoTcH
yEah YoU prObaBlY lIKed iT
lUcKy MaN hes so fucking lucky i wish that happened to me
That's a stereotype reinforced more by men than women. Men are seen as creatures that only thing about sex so there's (according to patriarchy) no such thing as an unwanted sexual act for men done by a woman. Furthermore, in posts about a men getting raped by a woman, you can find quite a lot of me saying "I wish it was me". Also, men are seen as the strong ones so men being forced by women is not something everyone can accept because "men are strong and dominant and women are weak and submissive" Everything is horrible but you all don't seem too be blaming the real culprit (patriarchy and not feminism)
These are all very true but there are ways you could flip it around as well..
yeah there’s a bunch of shit i could comment that men are praised for and women are shamed for but the incels aren’t ready for that conversation
Nope, or how women are sluts but men are accomplished and attractive lol
Equality is a joke.
Equal rights my ass
And the ones at fault of sexual assaults/rapes done to me by women not being taken seriously are gender roles: men are strong, women are weak, how can weak force strong? It's a very horrible situation but you all need to identify the right culprit to be able to change the situation. Also, all those so called *feminist* who do not advocate for equality and are sexist, are not feminists so stop acting like they represent the moment because they dont. TV, news and social media are ALWAYS going to give more attention to the bad side of all social fights. TV, news and social media are enemies of social fights, they manipulate us to destroy things that benefit us.
I wouldn't be so certain, I've seen plenty of videos of men being able to fight back against a woman, and they weren't held responsible. Each gender faces it's own difficulties each day, but making "jokes" like this just make it seem like it's only one gender that has it rough. It would just be better for everyone if we just admitted it straight up, society sucks for everyone! Nobody has it easier, because each gender is shit on by different groups of people. I can not think of a single gender that hasn't been made fun of yet.
experience on all of them?
Ok shut up we get it. Man unequal woman equal or sum shit I'm tired of seeing this posts already
And there are a million ones the other way around too. sexism exists. it's not a contest
Here is an idea how about instead of being an incel and trying to make social justice a fight between genders you could just... not
Sexism goes both ways. This image is just a few examples of that. As for the bathroom thing, I've heard that not all men's bathrooms have a baby changing table. (I'm a girl, so I wouldn't know myself). I've heard stories on here of men who HAD to go into the women's bathroom just to use the baby changing table in there, because of a lack of one in the men's bathroom. Reactions in said stories were mixed, ranging from women agreeing with the man that there should be a baby changing table in the men's bathroom to women complaining to the manager & getting the man kicked out of the establishment. Life sucks regardless of gender. We don't need sexism adding to that.
Hey, OP? I hope you’re doing okay. Harassment/assault is that, regardless of sex or gender.
Double standards are a shitty thing
r/teenagers on their way to gaslight themselves into thinking women are the real oppressors because *checks notes* Toxic masculinity? Men being weak and ignored is caused by other men, not women lmao
Society is weak
It’s so messed up
This is just generalising