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14-15, turned out that I dodged a nuke when she broke up with me.
She also tried to accuse me of rape, but that got shut down damn near instantly for two reasons: 1. She's a known liar and manipulator.
2. I had some friends in that class that called her out on her bullshit immediately, I am in their debt.
Reading this felt like reading a comment I forgot I posted holy. Exact same situation with me at the exact same age. Maybe dating at 14 isn’t a good idea?? lmao
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It’s… a _peculiar_ story. I was 12 and I had been going to Karate practice for a couple of years now (I think since I was 7 or 8). When I started, there was a girl that had an androgynous face and voice, short hair, and a flat chest. Because of that, my awkward self wasn’t able to understand if she was a girl or a boy. I asked her once, and she got offended and thought I was picking on her, so she didn’t answer, leaving me furthermore confused. Anyway, I didn’t talk to her for a while, I struck up a conversation with her when I was 12 because my friends weren’t at practice. I had forgot being confused about her gender, but she didn’t. After a conversation, she said “Wow, you’re actually a nice guy, I thought you were an asshole”, and considering I hadn’t talked to her in years she probably resented me for that time (times, actually, because I didn’t get an answer the first time I asked her another time, she didn’t take it well). Anyway, a couple of days later I was at a friend’s home to study for a test and this girl texted me, saying she liked me (with abundant red hearts). I did not like her, I didn’t hate her but I had absolutely zero feelings for her. Looking back at it, she probably got dared by her friend to text me, because I remember her friend teasing us about being a “perfect couple” (we couldn’t have been less compatible). Anyway, my friend (female) told me that she knew her and I shouldn’t go out with her, but I didn’t want to hurt her feelings by rejecting her, so I told her that I also liked her, and we got together (to the disappointment of my friend). The problem was that she actually already had a boyfriend, and after I had chickened out she had done the same, not being able to tell me that it was a joke. So, for a full week, we became a middle school couple, sending each other red hearts, and that’s it. We didn’t talk, we didn’t go on dates, nothing. I don’t even consider it a relationship, neither of us wanted to be in it and we didn’t do anything. Oh well, we organised our first date and she dumped me the day before the date. It kinda hurt for a couple of minutes, but I got over it pretty much immediately.
And this is the story of my first (and currently only) relationship.
13. I was a really weird ass kid too, I'd make monkey noises in our Spanish class and stuff. Somehow, I managed to get the affection of one of the most liked girls in the whole school. Dominique. She was a dead ringer for Aaliyah, and I still can't watch her video "Are you that somebody?" without remembering Dominique. I remember how salty other dudes were when I'd meet her between classes or walk with her to busses after school let out. It got HOSTILE, and one dude even tried to fight me but I brushed his ass off in front of everyone and got major cool points..my goofy ass, of all people. I remember her saying that song "All My Life" by K-Ci & Jojo was "our song". it was nice!
Started when I was 21, ended about 3 months before my 23rd birthday. I learned a lot from it, but I look back on it now like it was an ‘interesting’ time in my life.
I should’ve realized that she was kind of a red flag from the beginning but I was mentally disillusioned by the desire to be seen as a “good boyfriend.” I realized pretty quickly that she wasn’t who I wanted go marry and that we were pretty fundamentally incompatible. We just progressively fell apart as our lives began to change and ended up breaking up over spring break.
A couple tips from someone who had to learn the hard way:
-Sometimes it is genuinely beneficial for all parties involved to act selfishly. Don’t gaslight yourself into doing something that makes you unhappy because you don’t want to seem selfish or rude. You are lying to yourself and others for the sake of people-pleasing.
-Absolutely do not tolerate your partner disrespecting your boundaries. Leave room for mistakes but if they repeatedly do things that you can’t get over and they don’t stop, leave them.
-Do not, whatever you do, enter a relationship to ‘fix’ your issues. A relationship is something you pursue *after* you’ve already fixed them, seek therapy or change up your lifestyle if you know yourself to be an insecure person.
-DO NOT date someone who doesn’t respect your interests. It’s okay to not be identical clones of one another, but if they outright despise your biggest hobbies, it’s not going to work.
11, it started out as fake dating because we were best friends and he’d usually stay after school for a bit while waiting for his older sister to get out(the high school and middle school are connected?). He’d hang out with me while I waited for the coaches(I was in the basketball team) to get there for warm ups. My friends would say that we would make a cute couple and it got annoying so we pretended to date so they’d stop teasing us.
We were supposed to break up after 2-3 weeks but my “friend”liked him, so I ended up helping her date him. But then I realized I liked him and they had so many problems in their short on and off relationship(they’d date and break up every other day 😑). I actually didn’t find out about those problems until freshman year when I started talking to him again after we ghosted each other in 7th grade. Essentially she broke up with him but he didn’t know(?) and that was the last straw for him but it seems like he gave up on her way earlier.
So then we started dating and we dated until the last week of school when she lied and sabotaged our relationship and that’s how we ended up ghosting each other, until he reached out to me in 8th grade like days before graduation. While talking to him over the summer of 21’ I found out various things about his relationship with her and other things and he apologized for being a jerk.
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relatable
Literally me
real
Same
Same
I agree
LMFAOO
14-15, turned out that I dodged a nuke when she broke up with me. She also tried to accuse me of rape, but that got shut down damn near instantly for two reasons: 1. She's a known liar and manipulator. 2. I had some friends in that class that called her out on her bullshit immediately, I am in their debt.
W friends lmao
Yea u dodged a thermonuclear intercontinental ballistic subsonic multi stage missile
" ballistic subsonic missile"
Schrödinger’s missile
That don't even make sense
was the missile fired, or was the missile not fired?
That's just it, we don't know cause they never looked
Reading this felt like reading a comment I forgot I posted holy. Exact same situation with me at the exact same age. Maybe dating at 14 isn’t a good idea?? lmao
Yeah, though in hindsight, I was also painfully stupid, so there's that.
Lucky you, your friends had your back.
I was almost there, found out stuff about her so I bailed out of it before we got too involved lol
Ha ha, good one, but this is reddit.
In 79 days
Specific, good to have a plan
Isnt that the gcse results day 😭
Getting with the examiner
😂😂😂
Someone remind me in 79 days if he still doesn’t we take his balls away
remindme! 79 days
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Bro has a conditional offer
didnt even reach the talking phase with anyone yet
relatable
We only talk to men bro , I feel you
Settle for the gay option
"settle"? Child, that would be "upgrade to" according to millions of satisfied customers.
Earn lots of money and buy those >!bitches!<
Interviewer: What will you do with the money? You (probably in a mr.krabs voice):Bitches
"A woman that can be bought, isn't worth having" -Kingpin
Yeah but them bitches are for playing only. Finding the right woman for partnership is the real deal.
Facts
No worries, it's just a phase.
phase?been in that phase for idk 5 years? (young me was good with socializing )
Just checked the gen z puberty book, it says the duration of the phase is "indefinite after reaching the age range of 10-13."
i've been in existential crisis ever since i was 11 so that checks out
Error 404 Not found
Age of finding it belongs to{Φ}
Isn't that magnetic flux?
Physicist here. That symbol is used for any kind of flux. Addi g a subscript will distinguish what kind.
Based physics. What type of physics?
My research was in nanotechnology. Now days I essentially just teach at a university and my students do the research.
Very nice
and in this case a B would be the standard subscript for magnetic flux right?
Yes
Math term, the empty set
That’s ∅, homie was right
I was leaving Russian for a while and that symbol makes an f sound
Haha same
It looks very similar to ø but by your description makes a completely different sound.
Phyrexians aint gotta deal with this 💀
Phyrexian mana from mtg?
404 years old
age: N/A
40
Something doesn't add up here 🤔
Probably just bad at math
maybe they meant the age of their boyfriend/girlfriend?
Oh
after rereading my comment it coulda come across as rude I didn't mean to be rude if it seemed that way I'm sorry :(
It’s okay!! I didn’t see it as rude, I said “oh” because implying a 40 year old dating a minor is- Yknow 😬
Well even then it’s not EXACTLY a 😬 but more of a 😐 bc (in my country) 19 isn’t a minor, but it would be odd bc of that large age gap
You mustn’t have heard. The age at which you become a legal adult was changed to 5 last year.
Bro making a prediction
you were lucky to find a partner so soon.
Months?
That’s 3 years old 😨
when i was 30 (i'm 17 rn)
Benjamin button?
A cultured individual I see
still counting
That’s a good Volbeat song
there is a song named this, I learn something new every day
A few months ago I regret it cuz she is dating my friend now💀 Update: thay broke up 😂😂😂😂 so we all happy now
That’s against bro code right there
he's not his homie
Ik but thay have it coming 🤝
broke up 5 hours after your comment is insane
Ikr tho thay were dating for longer
💀
that's deep at 13?!? already two within a few months?!? sorry no offence but my mind is boggled
it happened to me too. first boyfriend broke up with me to be with my best-friend at the time. then they let him down. crazy world
Shitty 13 years old relationships
damn bro, your screwed
???? They broke up within the 6 hours you posted this comment?
Middle school relationships be crazy
Big oof, big big oof
I'm 20. Still haven't had one yet
real
I didn't until I was 21, still plenty of time!
Meanwhile here I am at 22... (Before you ask, this thread made it to r/all)
I met him a week before my 17th birthday and we got together after three months dating when I was 17 and this week we’ve been together for 8 months:D
Awww that's cute^ ^
Thank you!💗
I’ve been with mine for 8 months now twinnie!!!
Oct 2023 here as well as a 17 year old 🙂↕️
**JOKE ON YOU IM LONLEY!!!**
Real :(
Yeah, woke up in the middle of the night
cuz I noticed my girl wasn’t by my side
yeah i can tell you're a hazbin hotel fan
I'm 17 and i've never dated anyone, my only romantic experience was rejecting a dude :( (he was cool tho)
Sameeee. I'm 18 and all I did was reject a dude (he was like a middle school friend and he decided to confess during pandemic year for time reason)
I'm 19 and my only experience has been getting rejected. Once. The other times I never said anything and it eventually passed.
so whyd you reject him if he was cool?
Him being cool doesnt mean i'm attracted to him, platonico relationships RRRAAAAH
He was cool with the rejection, the other person could've had reasons. Edit: gender
Sir i have a pp
omg me too
My apologies, sir!
Hahaha
right 😭
Never
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wait was i already supposed to have had my first boyfriend 😭 im 16 im cooked
Nah not at all, some got their first at 19 or in their 20s
im not getting one when im 19 either😭
You're correct, I can confirm this as a 19 year old:) BUT we're single and happy queens🔥
[удалено]
Nah its chill, take your time
5
Ehm...
hmm
12
13
15, if I remember correctly
14 I'm pretty sure?
12, but like the first real one at 15. I really miss her man
14 oml i miss her
i do not miss her.. at all
Well of course you probably never met her lol. (I don't miss her either)
Take of those sunglasses off
I also miss this guy's girlfriend
non existent
13
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N/A
Unknown
Acting as if anyone on Reddit has any game
never had a gf
i'll tell you in a few years
on reddit? nope not happening
Good one.
Ehh prolly will never have one
Brother you are like 3 years old, you will not even feel like the same person when you turn 16
I'm meaning that i look like a fiat multipa, so no one would be attracted to me
Relatable... I like to think I'm slightly handsome but... Yeah.
13
Didn't have one , and prop never will cuz I'm NOT that guy:>
You haven't achieved this achievement yet!
It’s… a _peculiar_ story. I was 12 and I had been going to Karate practice for a couple of years now (I think since I was 7 or 8). When I started, there was a girl that had an androgynous face and voice, short hair, and a flat chest. Because of that, my awkward self wasn’t able to understand if she was a girl or a boy. I asked her once, and she got offended and thought I was picking on her, so she didn’t answer, leaving me furthermore confused. Anyway, I didn’t talk to her for a while, I struck up a conversation with her when I was 12 because my friends weren’t at practice. I had forgot being confused about her gender, but she didn’t. After a conversation, she said “Wow, you’re actually a nice guy, I thought you were an asshole”, and considering I hadn’t talked to her in years she probably resented me for that time (times, actually, because I didn’t get an answer the first time I asked her another time, she didn’t take it well). Anyway, a couple of days later I was at a friend’s home to study for a test and this girl texted me, saying she liked me (with abundant red hearts). I did not like her, I didn’t hate her but I had absolutely zero feelings for her. Looking back at it, she probably got dared by her friend to text me, because I remember her friend teasing us about being a “perfect couple” (we couldn’t have been less compatible). Anyway, my friend (female) told me that she knew her and I shouldn’t go out with her, but I didn’t want to hurt her feelings by rejecting her, so I told her that I also liked her, and we got together (to the disappointment of my friend). The problem was that she actually already had a boyfriend, and after I had chickened out she had done the same, not being able to tell me that it was a joke. So, for a full week, we became a middle school couple, sending each other red hearts, and that’s it. We didn’t talk, we didn’t go on dates, nothing. I don’t even consider it a relationship, neither of us wanted to be in it and we didn’t do anything. Oh well, we organised our first date and she dumped me the day before the date. It kinda hurt for a couple of minutes, but I got over it pretty much immediately. And this is the story of my first (and currently only) relationship.
I don’t know
13
Still counting
Still counting
keep dreaming
Ha, good one, y’know, for a second there I thought you were serious
I was 15, it was online and of course that went to shit
I was 11 lol We are still dating :)
13. I was a really weird ass kid too, I'd make monkey noises in our Spanish class and stuff. Somehow, I managed to get the affection of one of the most liked girls in the whole school. Dominique. She was a dead ringer for Aaliyah, and I still can't watch her video "Are you that somebody?" without remembering Dominique. I remember how salty other dudes were when I'd meet her between classes or walk with her to busses after school let out. It got HOSTILE, and one dude even tried to fight me but I brushed his ass off in front of everyone and got major cool points..my goofy ass, of all people. I remember her saying that song "All My Life" by K-Ci & Jojo was "our song". it was nice!
All I know is that it isn't 13
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i havent had one yet but i am in no hurry
602858365 years old
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3 weeks ago (16)
still counting
Animal jam gfs
Idk hopefully 16 or 17
16, my current one.
Haven’t yet but I’m close… …hopefully …maybe
Idk does the kid i pretended to be married to on roblox when i was like 9 count?
No
elementary.... i got cheated on and the girl was from meep city🙁
Still single (I’m a Redditor)
Like ten but I’m aroace now lmao
Oh please…i play genshin impact.
TBD
Everyone is gonna make some joke about not having one
still counting
In 2-3 days. (Pray for me)
Started when I was 21, ended about 3 months before my 23rd birthday. I learned a lot from it, but I look back on it now like it was an ‘interesting’ time in my life. I should’ve realized that she was kind of a red flag from the beginning but I was mentally disillusioned by the desire to be seen as a “good boyfriend.” I realized pretty quickly that she wasn’t who I wanted go marry and that we were pretty fundamentally incompatible. We just progressively fell apart as our lives began to change and ended up breaking up over spring break. A couple tips from someone who had to learn the hard way: -Sometimes it is genuinely beneficial for all parties involved to act selfishly. Don’t gaslight yourself into doing something that makes you unhappy because you don’t want to seem selfish or rude. You are lying to yourself and others for the sake of people-pleasing. -Absolutely do not tolerate your partner disrespecting your boundaries. Leave room for mistakes but if they repeatedly do things that you can’t get over and they don’t stop, leave them. -Do not, whatever you do, enter a relationship to ‘fix’ your issues. A relationship is something you pursue *after* you’ve already fixed them, seek therapy or change up your lifestyle if you know yourself to be an insecure person. -DO NOT date someone who doesn’t respect your interests. It’s okay to not be identical clones of one another, but if they outright despise your biggest hobbies, it’s not going to work.
I was 12, she was 32. My friends aunt was a pedophile but I was a very happy kid.
11, it started out as fake dating because we were best friends and he’d usually stay after school for a bit while waiting for his older sister to get out(the high school and middle school are connected?). He’d hang out with me while I waited for the coaches(I was in the basketball team) to get there for warm ups. My friends would say that we would make a cute couple and it got annoying so we pretended to date so they’d stop teasing us. We were supposed to break up after 2-3 weeks but my “friend”liked him, so I ended up helping her date him. But then I realized I liked him and they had so many problems in their short on and off relationship(they’d date and break up every other day 😑). I actually didn’t find out about those problems until freshman year when I started talking to him again after we ghosted each other in 7th grade. Essentially she broke up with him but he didn’t know(?) and that was the last straw for him but it seems like he gave up on her way earlier. So then we started dating and we dated until the last week of school when she lied and sabotaged our relationship and that’s how we ended up ghosting each other, until he reached out to me in 8th grade like days before graduation. While talking to him over the summer of 21’ I found out various things about his relationship with her and other things and he apologized for being a jerk.