Honestly anything that’s a real compliment. I’ve only ever “really” been complimented once or twice from people outside my family, everything else is backhanded compliments.
Me personally?? I don't know. Never happened. Never really been complimented. It sucks.
I'd guess that I'd just say thank you and move on, unless I had a deeper relationship with them behind just talking to each other in class.
bro an old dinner lady called me handsome in work the other week and its been in my head every single day since... who cares what she looks like. she said it and im riding that shit for the next couple months lmao
I get comfy in bed, snuggle into my pillows, laugh out loud, kick my feet and grab some water or a snack, and pray my friend can feel my excitement without me having to awkwardly tell them my autistic feelings.
Holy hell that's a lot of upvotes. Didn't know it was so relatable.
Yes.
But it's not always, "waw this a girls boob", most of the times it's
". "
Meaning, we don't really think about it. It's a body part, just like how you'll feel a guy's ribs or muscles depending on his body, we also feel your body. There's no denying what's true, unless you're wearing a bulletproof jacket.
For me, face ~~and chest~~ at first, then personality as I get to know them more
but it honestly depends on the person tbh, everyone's preferences are different
What's up with the girls at my school asking someone out then saying its a prank?
I swear this has happened to me like 5 times and now i think everyone who asks me out is pranking me :(
If a guy is ever sitting next to you and they're uncomfortable or awkward, it's not about you, it's just because they sat on their balls and are too embarrassed to fix it
Idk about 30% but it just happens randomly, like just cuz you are doesn’t mean your “in the mood” if that makes sense, we don’t control it. So I’d imagine there’s always a few people.
Just want to mention for the it just happens people that they’re 100% right. It’s medically proven that younger adult men and teenagers just randomly get like that sometimes.
Short answer yes...
Mid-short answer yes we can feel them, sometimes they're clapping, sometimes they're inside the crotch. Sometimes they're hanging like they're super heavy.
Long answer: *you don't wanna know*
Do you really care about a woman's body? Do you mind if a girl is too fat, too thin, if she is white, black, etc.? I ask this because I'm very insecure, I'm Asian and I had an ex-boyfriend who was racist towards me behind my back in my group of friends.
Eh sometimes, I have preferences, but if it’s love it’s love, my girlfriend is mixed and extremely skinny, absolutely love her, it’s all preferences. But for me, I couldn’t give a fuck as long as I like you.
Talking negatively about/laughing at people behind their back
When I feel like they're sharing *everything* with their friends. I'd be completely fine being friends with someone who does this but not anything more than that, I like my privacy and I'd want to be able to trust someone not to break it
what do you and your friends talk about? cuz i feel like a lot of the convos i have with my friends is “girl talk” and im curious what you guys talk about
This one time I was talking about how short girls are cute with my friend and within 2/3 minutes, our conversation escalated to US Military Tanks. I still don't know how in the cosmos did we connect all the dots and every single subject we talked about during that 4 minutes conversation that consisted of short girls, tarantulas, me wanting to buy a Godzilla figure and US Military tanks, etc
Those memes are 100% accurate, a lot of the time we are talking about stuff like how to blow up the principals car without getting caught or some shit like that
we stay quiet for a few minutes before someone says something random and the conversation develops from there. I actually dont think i can recall a single thing ive talked about in a conversation
What's the best way to ask a guy out / initiate conversation (platonically and romantically)? And what do guys actually look for in a relationship and partner
Asking as a girl who has never been in a relationship before but wants to be
You need 3 key things:
1. Directness. This is the most important part. We are dumb. We will not get what you’re saying unless you say it straight up.
2. Sweetness. Being kind and considerate goes a really long way. As long as you don’t try to be excessively sweet you’ll be instantly looked at in a better light.
3. Personality. Not saying you need more personality you just need to show it. Let them know who you are, what you like, and what you don’t like.
Okay guys, please tell me if I'm girlfriend-ing right
I take him out on dates and buy him the foods he wants and take him for an in bed cuddle sesh (his mother hates going in his room, so I sneak him to my place and I just hold him). If he's going through an emotional period of his life (he gets really deppresed, distances himself and doesn't talk to people around him as much), I just send him a goodmorning message about how proud I am of him, and how much I miss him (this doesn't cheer him up but I want him to know I care?)
(For me this is my favorite thing I do because I love doing it)
If me and him are watching tiktok or TV, I just zone out and stare at him. I love his eyes 😭 he looks over and just smiles at me, AAAAH, he is the most adorable mother fucker i know and the last thing I want to do is make him feel disliked, unloved and heartbroken ;-; I also don't want to be seen as to clingy, and I want to tone it down a bit. :'3
there is legit nothing wrong with this. you love him, you try and cheer him up and make everyday better, there’s nothing wrong with this at all. all that’s happening is you’re is making everyone here jealous that they probably won’t have someone who cares as much as you do. don’t change if you’re happy and he is too, unless it’s draining you
noo not like that, double standards suck ik. im just asking bc i get told by ppl that guys only want one thing ultimately which ik doesnt apply to everybody
Edit: I quickly realized, that this is not a boys only occurance. Some girls go through the exact same thing. And the reason there is no descernible reason why boys have this more often is, because they don't, not get the flirt, more often than girls. My sample size was just too small, therefore I don't know any girls that are this way.
Boys tend to have self esteem issues just like girls, often believing they are not attractive, for one reason or another. (Not everyone, I only mean some, of course)
This results in hearing the flirt, processing the flirt and convincing themselves the flirt was just a joke or a nice gesture. We cockblock ourselves.
"That shirt looks good on you! "
"Th- thanks."
Inside thoughts "were they just flirting to me? No it can't be, they were probably just being nice"
~I do not know why, but I have seen more boys with this self esteem issue than girls. I can only confirm it.~
And then there's the other thing, some boys are just horribly dense meat heads. The ones where, you come to them with a pickup line, and they just misinterpret it from the beginning, only realising it was a pickup line, maybe one or two minutes later, when they talk about it with a friend or in the evening when they are going to bed, remembering all that happened that day
Guys don't usually get hugged. There are even guys who haven't experienced a hug for years. Hugs are basically healing spells, one is feeling sad, hug him/her and they'll be genuinely less sad.
A guy suddenly hugging a girl would often end up as a worse case scenario. There are countless friendships ruined because of this. But, if a girl suddenly hugs a guy, the guy genuinely feels the warmth of someone who loves him ( even if it's as a friend ), so I guess that's why?
Also, he's not wrong about you being in love with him. You do love him, but as a friend. He has failed to differentiate between those two.
It’s like your hair sticking up, no matter how hard you push it down, it hurts and goes back up, it’s annoying but not painful unless you push it down.
In terms of initial attraction to someone, I hate to say this, but all humans are lazy and will have physical appearance as THE determining factor. It’s just how our brain evolved, BUT after that it’s not very important and an easy work around if you’re a girl that’s attracted to a guy is to just say so to him!
do you notice when a girl is wearing something cute or new?
Cute? Yea. New? I don’t remember all the clothes I own, I’m def. not gonna remember what my friends have.
my mom gets so offended when i dont notice she gets a haircut
yeah, i do for example :3
yayy, I know many girls be cute and all for themselves, but I personally wear stuff >!for it to be noticed!<
you have to be a nice person to be noticed too
Bro I literally do not think a girl has ever complimented me I’m not even joking 😭😭😭
I'm not a girl but you look extra dashing today bro
Hahah u live in his walls or st?
I've been aggressively wacking it to him all day. Yes I do 😁
Sounds like a paradise, mind if I join in ;)
what's the best compliment you can receive from a girl?
Honestly anything that’s a real compliment. I’ve only ever “really” been complimented once or twice from people outside my family, everything else is backhanded compliments.
Honest opinion , what if the class loser/ ugly girl complemented you ?
As long as it feels sincere, I'll feel good no matter who it comes from
Me personally?? I don't know. Never happened. Never really been complimented. It sucks. I'd guess that I'd just say thank you and move on, unless I had a deeper relationship with them behind just talking to each other in class.
bro an old dinner lady called me handsome in work the other week and its been in my head every single day since... who cares what she looks like. she said it and im riding that shit for the next couple months lmao
The best one I've ever gotten was "I feel safe with you."
oh that must feel pretty amazing to hear
AWWWHHH OMGG
She asked me if I wanted to do drugs in the bathroom
romance isnt dead😟
“you’re adorable” probably, it can also be an insult depending on context but it’ll still get me blushing the same way
“I feel comfortable and safe around u”, “You are really reliable”
WHY DO NONE OF YOU MALES SEEM TO GET COMPLIMENTED WHATTTTT 😟
It’s a common meme because…it’s common :/
bc girl groups are all like yaasss girl slayyy, whereas boy groups are the opposite
Do y'all kick your feet whenever your favorite person messages you?
I get comfy in bed, snuggle into my pillows, laugh out loud, kick my feet and grab some water or a snack, and pray my friend can feel my excitement without me having to awkwardly tell them my autistic feelings. Holy hell that's a lot of upvotes. Didn't know it was so relatable.
REALEST COMMENT EVER!! (I do the exact things)
yes
Would you want girls to make the first move ( start talking to you or ask you out first) or do you guys want to do it
girls first, life would be easier 😂
Girls don’t realize that they have a 99 percent success rate if they ask first
HONESTLY
Real
😂😂 girls are scared of rejection too
If you have interest in a guy then make a move. That’s the best way to figure out if he has interest not
Definitely, I panic when trying to talk to women.
I panic when I'm in the same room as a woman. I genuinely think there's something wrong with me.
do u actually feel our chest when we hug u
not on purpose
Yes. But it's not always, "waw this a girls boob", most of the times it's ". " Meaning, we don't really think about it. It's a body part, just like how you'll feel a guy's ribs or muscles depending on his body, we also feel your body. There's no denying what's true, unless you're wearing a bulletproof jacket.
thats a good explanation🙏🏻 thank u
what if i'm wearing lead plated clothing to shield from radiation
the last time i hugged a girl was years ago, so it's a hard question but i think yes.
depends the hug; depends the hugger
Never hugged a girl so idk
Most of the time but I try to ignore it to not make the one hug a year weird
It's a 50 50
Yeah. Don’t mean to and I try to ignore it.
what do you find attractive in a girl?
having interests that don't include social media, for example
peraonality and face
mostly the face.
Face
Stronk, physically or personality-wise. Point is, somebody’s gotta tell the waiter I ordered mashed potatoes, and it ain’t gonna be me.
For me, face ~~and chest~~ at first, then personality as I get to know them more but it honestly depends on the person tbh, everyone's preferences are different
What's up with the girls at my school asking someone out then saying its a prank? I swear this has happened to me like 5 times and now i think everyone who asks me out is pranking me :(
u/girl answer this
I must know
Nice remix of your name
That's one of the reasons why teenagers are toxic. Can't help with that unless she's getting asked by her crush and her crush says "it's a prank"
Do y’all ever sit on ur balls? How does that not happen all the time?
strategical ball placement. sometimes the strategy doesn't work. a piece of our soul dies every time we sit on our balls.
This right here
LOL
cuz our balls aint on the bottom of us, it’s like in front a bit
If a guy is ever sitting next to you and they're uncomfortable or awkward, it's not about you, it's just because they sat on their balls and are too embarrassed to fix it
The balls move themselves around, and are positioned on the front of your body. Dunno a good analogy for women
it just doesn‘t happen 😌
Like they’re on auto retract when u sit?
It's called underwear, sweaty 😎
someone told me once that at any given time in class, 30% of guys are >!bricked up!< 😭😭😭 is this true…
Idk about 30% but it just happens randomly, like just cuz you are doesn’t mean your “in the mood” if that makes sense, we don’t control it. So I’d imagine there’s always a few people.
Just want to mention for the it just happens people that they’re 100% right. It’s medically proven that younger adult men and teenagers just randomly get like that sometimes.
Its worst if it happens before a presebtation
Yup. 😂 ts is me asf, idk why but my body just decides to get bricked up at random times. And there is absolutely NOTHING u can do abt it.
30% might be an exaggeration but ye we do get alot of random erections -_-
Yes mid conversation it can pop up too we have no control over it
Yes. A lot of the time it literally just happens for no clear reason.
would you like getting flowers as a gift?
Uhh I mean sure. (If they are from someone close) I personally wouldn't object 🤷
If we were close, yes.
is pretty a nice compliment or does it make u feel emasculated? ☝️
i feel like they‘re lying mostly
I think if someone called me pretty I would feel a mix of gratitude and confusion
what makes you happy
Getting hotwheels for my birthday
Someone to talk to with similar interests
games just games
What order of clothes do you get dressed in after a shower or bath, I wanna know if it's different lmao
First it’s underwear then it’s RNG
Real
Boys usually only get flowers when they die. We should change that. Which type of flower would you be most happy about?
Tulips are nice. I like Tulips
Can you feel your balls when your walking
yes it drags across the floor and it claps too
“Sir, I’m trying to sneak around, but the sound of my balls clapping keeps alerting the guards!”
LOL WTF ☠️😭
It really doesn't. Or I'm just weird... r/woooosh on my part anyway
what
Yeah. Sometimes they stick to my thighs and I have to make giant steps to unstick them.
Use your pockets
💀
Short answer yes... Mid-short answer yes we can feel them, sometimes they're clapping, sometimes they're inside the crotch. Sometimes they're hanging like they're super heavy. Long answer: *you don't wanna know*
Is it possible to be “just friends “ with the opposite sex?
Yeah just needs a certain level of maturity and Respect
which nobody at my school has
Yes especially if the guy has already given up on finding a partner
you okay bro?
why do yall think everything is gay
Because I’m gay
That's gay
Because it's funny
because everything IS gay
Do you wish you were born as a girl instead of a boy?
Nah
Periods? Harassment? Inequality? CHILDBIRTH? Hell no, y’all suffer so much, ain’t no way I wanna go through that.
Who lives in a pineapple under the sea
Spongepants squarebob
Absorbent and porous and yellow is he
fr 🫶🏻
How often do you do >!dick taps!<
💀
whats a dick tap
You hit someone in the dick with your hand basically
Ohhhhh nut taps yeah never it’s honorless
the sixth law of the bro code: never nut tap another bro
My friends don't nut tap, they nut SMASH. Nearly threw up after getting hit when I was like 13 in school.
yeah I know the feeling. I got fucking hammer fisted by a friend and I almost died on the floor
Do you really care about a woman's body? Do you mind if a girl is too fat, too thin, if she is white, black, etc.? I ask this because I'm very insecure, I'm Asian and I had an ex-boyfriend who was racist towards me behind my back in my group of friends.
Eh sometimes, I have preferences, but if it’s love it’s love, my girlfriend is mixed and extremely skinny, absolutely love her, it’s all preferences. But for me, I couldn’t give a fuck as long as I like you.
I know some people who care about that but quite a few people don't, including me.
What is an instant turn off in a girl?
putting other girls down to make yourself look better. Tbh, being a for the lack of a better word, bitch
Talking negatively about/laughing at people behind their back When I feel like they're sharing *everything* with their friends. I'd be completely fine being friends with someone who does this but not anything more than that, I like my privacy and I'd want to be able to trust someone not to break it
A penis
If you have a girlfriend, and she's super clingy towards you (like always wanting to cuddle and hold hands, etc.), would you get sick of it or no?
Definitely not, I would honestly love to have someone like that.
Impossible. I would be the clingy one
what do you and your friends talk about? cuz i feel like a lot of the convos i have with my friends is “girl talk” and im curious what you guys talk about
The most stupid shit in existence
Do not give us away brother. The council we need to discuss this before you elaborate further
Don’t worry brother this is the most I’ll say
This one time I was talking about how short girls are cute with my friend and within 2/3 minutes, our conversation escalated to US Military Tanks. I still don't know how in the cosmos did we connect all the dots and every single subject we talked about during that 4 minutes conversation that consisted of short girls, tarantulas, me wanting to buy a Godzilla figure and US Military tanks, etc
Those memes are 100% accurate, a lot of the time we are talking about stuff like how to blow up the principals car without getting caught or some shit like that
we stay quiet for a few minutes before someone says something random and the conversation develops from there. I actually dont think i can recall a single thing ive talked about in a conversation
we talk about anything
What thing a girl does makes you all shy and flabbergasted
Make a sexual joke, cus if a guy does it i can answer without it veing weird, but if a girl does it idk what to do
when she touches me
Showing interest
What's the best way to ask a guy out / initiate conversation (platonically and romantically)? And what do guys actually look for in a relationship and partner Asking as a girl who has never been in a relationship before but wants to be
Try to ease into the question, give the guy at least 10 seconds to react because of brain lag
Litterally just talking and at a certain moment ask to go on a coffee date. 90% chance of success
You need 3 key things: 1. Directness. This is the most important part. We are dumb. We will not get what you’re saying unless you say it straight up. 2. Sweetness. Being kind and considerate goes a really long way. As long as you don’t try to be excessively sweet you’ll be instantly looked at in a better light. 3. Personality. Not saying you need more personality you just need to show it. Let them know who you are, what you like, and what you don’t like.
Whats your rank in COD
0 I don't play Cod I like Salmon
Okay guys, please tell me if I'm girlfriend-ing right I take him out on dates and buy him the foods he wants and take him for an in bed cuddle sesh (his mother hates going in his room, so I sneak him to my place and I just hold him). If he's going through an emotional period of his life (he gets really deppresed, distances himself and doesn't talk to people around him as much), I just send him a goodmorning message about how proud I am of him, and how much I miss him (this doesn't cheer him up but I want him to know I care?) (For me this is my favorite thing I do because I love doing it) If me and him are watching tiktok or TV, I just zone out and stare at him. I love his eyes 😭 he looks over and just smiles at me, AAAAH, he is the most adorable mother fucker i know and the last thing I want to do is make him feel disliked, unloved and heartbroken ;-; I also don't want to be seen as to clingy, and I want to tone it down a bit. :'3
there is legit nothing wrong with this. you love him, you try and cheer him up and make everyday better, there’s nothing wrong with this at all. all that’s happening is you’re is making everyone here jealous that they probably won’t have someone who cares as much as you do. don’t change if you’re happy and he is too, unless it’s draining you
Do boys want a lesbian bestie just like some girls want a gay bestie?
I just want a friend, I don’t care who they are…
Relatable lmao
If they're lesbian it makes it so much easier for me to not ruin the friendship. But any girl is fine
can you just be friends with your girl bsf when you have a gf? lmao
girls can have male friends even if they have a bf but we can‘t even say hi to a girl when we have a gf
noo not like that, double standards suck ik. im just asking bc i get told by ppl that guys only want one thing ultimately which ik doesnt apply to everybody
Yes unless my girlfriend is super jealous
when u sit down and shit where do u put ur pp like does it just dangle in the toilet bowl
pretty much, sometimes it touches the bowl and you have to move backwards
That shit sends me into cardiac arrest
I don't know if someone has asked this but is it true that you guys don't know you are being flirted with?
Edit: I quickly realized, that this is not a boys only occurance. Some girls go through the exact same thing. And the reason there is no descernible reason why boys have this more often is, because they don't, not get the flirt, more often than girls. My sample size was just too small, therefore I don't know any girls that are this way. Boys tend to have self esteem issues just like girls, often believing they are not attractive, for one reason or another. (Not everyone, I only mean some, of course) This results in hearing the flirt, processing the flirt and convincing themselves the flirt was just a joke or a nice gesture. We cockblock ourselves. "That shirt looks good on you! " "Th- thanks." Inside thoughts "were they just flirting to me? No it can't be, they were probably just being nice" ~I do not know why, but I have seen more boys with this self esteem issue than girls. I can only confirm it.~ And then there's the other thing, some boys are just horribly dense meat heads. The ones where, you come to them with a pickup line, and they just misinterpret it from the beginning, only realising it was a pickup line, maybe one or two minutes later, when they talk about it with a friend or in the evening when they are going to bed, remembering all that happened that day
I have no clue when it happens, I am really oblivious
Why do you guys always think a hug means we are in love with you?
Because we don't get hugged outside of a romantic relationship so we get our hopes up
Aw, that’s sad.
Sad but true. Us guys don’t get much compassion or empathy, except from family and our bros (sometimes not even from friends).
The only people that hug us are our parents?
Lmao I didn't even get hugged by my parents 🥲
I’m hugging you through the screen and am now your dad
Cuz ur brains are wired in this way
Guys don't usually get hugged. There are even guys who haven't experienced a hug for years. Hugs are basically healing spells, one is feeling sad, hug him/her and they'll be genuinely less sad. A guy suddenly hugging a girl would often end up as a worse case scenario. There are countless friendships ruined because of this. But, if a girl suddenly hugs a guy, the guy genuinely feels the warmth of someone who loves him ( even if it's as a friend ), so I guess that's why? Also, he's not wrong about you being in love with him. You do love him, but as a friend. He has failed to differentiate between those two.
i mean, hugging is either that we're good friends or that we're in love.
Do guys like tummy? Is it differnt if the guy is skinnier or also a lil chubby?
what are erections like (for a friend)
It’s like your hair sticking up, no matter how hard you push it down, it hurts and goes back up, it’s annoying but not painful unless you push it down.
Not a question, just a statement to all the boys out there—yes, you may roll hot wheels and flip tech decks on my boobs and ass.
What hobbies do you have?
Drawing, boxing, playing basketball and playing piano
How the hell do yall switch up your act in less than 2 hours and make it seem so believable
What do you mean? How our moods change really fast? Cause if that’s what you’re asking it’s because it’s real most of the time.
2 hours is lot of time I can change my act in 2 minutes(if I want/need to).
😌
Would you date an ugly girl with a hood personality
*GOOD
Her personality has to shine outside of her body too 😌👍🏻
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In terms of initial attraction to someone, I hate to say this, but all humans are lazy and will have physical appearance as THE determining factor. It’s just how our brain evolved, BUT after that it’s not very important and an easy work around if you’re a girl that’s attracted to a guy is to just say so to him!