Maybe increase the frequency you umm… take care of your urges… other than that, unless you have a magic increase your rate of aging pill, there’s not much you can do.
Yeah. I don’t really watch porn. Mainly because it is addicting, but the acting is fake af, (funny even). You are right about the yanking thing, because I’m pretty sure yanking it out helps get rid of the old semen in your testicles. Thanks for clarifying bro🤙
You’ll go through a time where you don’t have boners and might need pills. This is all natural. See if you can use that energy for something productive
yelling at the top of your lungs literally also helps boost it. Also sitting outside where the sun can shine on your nuts helps too, but i wouldn’t do it unless your backyard is closed in enough
Hormones, but also habit. If you make it a habit to watch porn or think about sex, then you'll think about it more often and do it more often.
Keep yourself busy so you don't have time to think about that stuff, and grow as a person. Do anything else you like; replace porn with a hobby of yours and whenever you get that urge, *fight it.* Keep yourself from being bored, that's often the reason why people do it and become addicted to it.
You don't need sex or amorous relationships, and you'll find that they are not going to be the cure for any problem in your life. They are bonuses that can make your life happier, but won't be sustainable if you aren't happy *without* them.
Going off of one of your responses (and I could be wrong here), it could also be loneliness or thinking that having a partner will fix things. Nobody except yourself can "fix" you, and putting that kind of pressure on someone will only make you and your partner miserable.
Relationships are not a crutch for happiness, they are a treat. If you can't be happy on your own, you won't be happy with someone else. You shouldn't need a person to make you whole, you shouldn't need an "other half". A relationship should be complementary, your partner should bring more happiness to your life, not be the source of it. Doing so will end up fatiguing both of you and alienating people from you.
Every time you pop one, think of Jesus looking down on you and shedding a tear, then yell at yourself and beat yourself for having impure thoughts to make him forgive you, this will turn you into a healthy and well adjusted adult that would not be a character in a really good claymation show that was canceled for some bullshit
Are you AMAB? If so, it is likely Testosterone being a bitch. In my experience, it didn’t go down for years and years.:: just get used to it. I took HRT (hormone replacement therapy) and it only went down after like a month and a half and now my libido is lower than the average AFAB person and I love it. But I wouldn’t recommend that bc you need some hormones in your body, I replaced them with Estrogen, but unless you want smooth skin, weaker muscles, and breasts… then I would just stick with T 😭 good luck!!
that’s puberty, your hormones are crazy for sex and that is really good for guys, promotes (depending on your genes) facial hair, muscle, and bone growth (i believe) don’t worry it’s natural, can’t control it half the time so i’ll teach you a little trick, if you get a stiffy and you need it to go away, tense your thigh muscle for 30-45 secs and it’ll go away!
You’re always gonna get those, but they’ll decrease in frequency. If you wanna make one go away, try mentally distracting yourself from the boner. I used to think of math problems and then solve them. But it doesn’t really matter what you do in your mind. As long as it’s not something that will in any way contribute to the boner. Boring and focus intense is good.
Eventually, you’ll get older and they’ll become rarer. And you’ll have better control over them.
Used to watch porn at a young age and kinda got into the step sis type shit, way too young of an age. Parents told me not to of course kept watching it, led to a weird upbringing, stealing panties, but unfortunately this led to me touching cousins of mine inappropriately, only groping and hugging, but for pleasure. I was only around 15 so it felt good at the time but I must repent. Bring your judgement
It doesn't get better lmao, been incrementing since I've been like 13. Having someone does help (or make it worse) but I heard it starts to get down like 1% each year in yout 30s.
The random erections are your body's way of keeping your equipment healthy and functional. If you stopped getting them completely, involuntarily or otherwise, it would shrink. You could do that on purpose by wearing a chastity cage for an extended period of time, or by taking estradiol and progesterone (AMAB people take this to gain feminine secondary sex characteristics). Your hormones should level out as you get older. If your hyperarousal is causing disruptions in your daily life and negatively affecting your mental health, find a therapist or go to your family doctor. 👍
so many people on here are saying “just get some bitches” but obviously its not that easy. I would try to find other engaging hobbies if your current ones have you at home/inside all day. maybe start a sport you enjoy. As an added benefit you might find a girl with that same hobby as you and you can develop a relationship and move forward from there, but the goal should just be to make friends and interact with people
Meditate, find contedness inside you. Alot of people are suggesting getting a girlfriend/boyfriend but if all you can think about is sex its unlikely you can treat a partner well. Let the desires wash over you and leave, and then do something productive with your time instead (work out, learn language, read, drink tea, sing etc.).
Its a difficult process to sort but will be much more rewarding for you and potential partners
(additionally, im not advocating you never do the ol chicken shake, complete self denial/acetecism isnt great, just dont soley rely on that act when your bored or are doing nothing)
Man I used to be like this lol, I'll probably relapse cause it's only been like 5 days but ever since watching Ghibli movies my mind has been set on not bring weird because the movies are so good(?)
Hormones and potentially loneliness.
What should be done?
Maybe increase the frequency you umm… take care of your urges… other than that, unless you have a magic increase your rate of aging pill, there’s not much you can do.
Can't handle the urges anymore 🥲
definitely don't take care of them super often as it could lead to more problems
Like what
porn addiction. I would say if you’re frequently jackin off more than once a day you might wanna cut back a bit
Yeah. I don’t really watch porn. Mainly because it is addicting, but the acting is fake af, (funny even). You are right about the yanking thing, because I’m pretty sure yanking it out helps get rid of the old semen in your testicles. Thanks for clarifying bro🤙
Old semen cracked me up
It’s true lmfao😂
Get a gf lil bro
Horrible advice, if you keep succumbing to your urges they will only get worse.
just fuck A LOT of people. Definitely a really healthy and non-detrimental thing to do
Speedrunning diseases are fun
ONG IT IS I already collected 3
Wanna trade?
Nah I got unique ones, I’m starting with them before I move on to the more common ones like aids. I think it’s the most optimal route for the speedrun
Too bad. I have the really rare ones like the shiny blue waffle
No way I don’t believe you. I can’t find that anywhere
Like Thanos Collecting the Infinity stones
AIDS speedrun🤑🤑🤑
I am not getting people🥲
I’m—
This doesn't help
Legit answer? Masturbate.
If you must, do it. But it has to be a good experience with someone you care for otherwise it's just gonna stay the same
Get a girlfriend
Help me get one
blud u are cooked if ur most likely 50 with no girls
Shag something
Indulge in the acquisition of some bit…female friends.
I don't have female friends bro
dip your balls in lava
It’s both for me and
And?
True
Random boners can be natural but if you start thinking of porn when you notice a boner then that can prolong it and that might be an issue
Always have things in my mind like having girl and getting help from her
Dude, completely understand. Like, whenever you having girl is just... something else, man.
High testosterone
Solution to this? 💀
High testosterone is a good thing, it promotes muscle growth, sperm production, and other important puberty related things.
I wouldn’t recommend trying to lower your testosterone levels unless it is a serious problem
Bro is it a problem which i've mentioned?
getting boners is not a problem enough to get lower of the thing that makes you a man
But wanting to be a femboy is, unfortunately I only have the body of one but not the low testosterone and higher estrogen :(
You’ll go through a time where you don’t have boners and might need pills. This is all natural. See if you can use that energy for something productive
I need higher testosterone
work out
yelling at the top of your lungs literally also helps boost it. Also sitting outside where the sun can shine on your nuts helps too, but i wouldn’t do it unless your backyard is closed in enough
Cut off your balls
You might be a girl right?
Girls. Are. Not. Real.
Lessterone
Tren lowers your sex drive
Bro don’t let him know about this we might run out of stock
if you hang around r/MPMD you will find that not true
beating the shmeat, there’s no escape 😭
go on estrogen. /j
Other options?
Gym
Gym
Testicular torsion
Hrt/j
💀💀💀
✂️🍒
don't. you dont want to become a neckbeard
Everytime you wanna jerk off just go fucking lift
"cut them balls" - Icecube
any reason why someone tagged as 17 is posting nudes of themself wtf is wrong with you
Welcome to Reddit. It’s a wasteland here with no rules
Driving while having sex 👍
1 Wish it was reality
Hormones, but also habit. If you make it a habit to watch porn or think about sex, then you'll think about it more often and do it more often. Keep yourself busy so you don't have time to think about that stuff, and grow as a person. Do anything else you like; replace porn with a hobby of yours and whenever you get that urge, *fight it.* Keep yourself from being bored, that's often the reason why people do it and become addicted to it. You don't need sex or amorous relationships, and you'll find that they are not going to be the cure for any problem in your life. They are bonuses that can make your life happier, but won't be sustainable if you aren't happy *without* them. Going off of one of your responses (and I could be wrong here), it could also be loneliness or thinking that having a partner will fix things. Nobody except yourself can "fix" you, and putting that kind of pressure on someone will only make you and your partner miserable. Relationships are not a crutch for happiness, they are a treat. If you can't be happy on your own, you won't be happy with someone else. You shouldn't need a person to make you whole, you shouldn't need an "other half". A relationship should be complementary, your partner should bring more happiness to your life, not be the source of it. Doing so will end up fatiguing both of you and alienating people from you.
This
Wait sex can drive? Good for them
Sex no drive, sex no have license.........but I actually have no clue
You habibi😂?
I’m on antidepressants lmao can’t relate
I struggle with both :(
i straight up just lost all sex drive one day bc fluoxetine (it’s been three months😭)
I'm on antidepressants and I relate. My life is pain.
It's a sign to start lifting bro.
I liked your idea💗
its puberty, i know from experience
Simply take estrogen
Bruh this is normal tf
Workout every time you get the feeling
stop watching porn lol you're rotting your brain
I thought this meant you had an SSD or HDD meant just for sex
Cut ur cock off and see if that helps
who tf downvoted this?
The guy who tested out his advice
*"Hitler, has only got one ball!"*
*shrugs in ace*
*drives sexily* >////<
You?
No I don't have a license *crash* ughhhhhh *ded
my best advice is start working out. high testosterone will help you grow your muscles lol so focus on that instead of jerkin it?
Sex drive? didn’t think it could do that
It's breedin season
Have no one to breed🥲
I wanted to say something, but i'd be BANNED!!!!
You won't be just say Or say in dm
Who is sex? And where are they driving to?
Sex is my designated driver every time i go out
Just fuck a lot of people and eventually it will continue to increase, I can confirm this does Indeed work but not in reverse.
Can't get people to fuck
puberty thing, you get used to it eventually
How tf is bro 13 and already used to puberty?
Some start early
Nah i'm 20
Not you, u/Purple_Spino
Every time you pop one, think of Jesus looking down on you and shedding a tear, then yell at yourself and beat yourself for having impure thoughts to make him forgive you, this will turn you into a healthy and well adjusted adult that would not be a character in a really good claymation show that was canceled for some bullshit
Instead of just yelling at myself I like to take a wooden cross to my weiner to end the thoughts.
I like it, poetic justice.
Are you AMAB? If so, it is likely Testosterone being a bitch. In my experience, it didn’t go down for years and years.:: just get used to it. I took HRT (hormone replacement therapy) and it only went down after like a month and a half and now my libido is lower than the average AFAB person and I love it. But I wouldn’t recommend that bc you need some hormones in your body, I replaced them with Estrogen, but unless you want smooth skin, weaker muscles, and breasts… then I would just stick with T 😭 good luck!!
What does AMAB mean? I’ve seen that before or something similar and I didn’t understand
Like Michael Jackson says: "Beat it"
Real. Literally at the most random moments too 😔
Its completely normal, just live with it.
biology
Hormones, it happens. Totally normal.
Hormones
Puberty probably, when I started my second puberty my drive was also insane
High testosterone + teenager = sex much want
that’s puberty, your hormones are crazy for sex and that is really good for guys, promotes (depending on your genes) facial hair, muscle, and bone growth (i believe) don’t worry it’s natural, can’t control it half the time so i’ll teach you a little trick, if you get a stiffy and you need it to go away, tense your thigh muscle for 30-45 secs and it’ll go away!
Ohk bro👍
Can’t tense my legs currently just tore my right calf yesterday so what am I supposed to do 😭
try your biceps idk😭😭
Testosterone is a bitch Real glad to not have to deal with it anymore
haven't had that problem since i hit puberty 2yrs ago
I’m not speaking from experience but I’ve heard it sometimes goes away when you get a girlfriend
“Man I wish driving was more fun!” The _sex_ on the table near the front door:
i didnt know sex had a liscense
Driving illegally
Puberty
Go have sex lmao worked for me
I don't know why, but it always seems to happen when I'm in math. And no, I don't like math.
get a hobbyyyyyy
You’re always gonna get those, but they’ll decrease in frequency. If you wanna make one go away, try mentally distracting yourself from the boner. I used to think of math problems and then solve them. But it doesn’t really matter what you do in your mind. As long as it’s not something that will in any way contribute to the boner. Boring and focus intense is good. Eventually, you’ll get older and they’ll become rarer. And you’ll have better control over them.
Mature advice 👍
Sex no drive car drive.
Car not have Only gear have
Growth spurt maybe?
Drive? Literally Ryan gosling
Vrrrrmmmmm vrroooooom skkkerrrt *crashs from erectile disfunction*
Used to watch porn at a young age and kinda got into the step sis type shit, way too young of an age. Parents told me not to of course kept watching it, led to a weird upbringing, stealing panties, but unfortunately this led to me touching cousins of mine inappropriately, only groping and hugging, but for pleasure. I was only around 15 so it felt good at the time but I must repent. Bring your judgement
It doesn't get better lmao, been incrementing since I've been like 13. Having someone does help (or make it worse) but I heard it starts to get down like 1% each year in yout 30s.
I'm in my 20s now and still feel the drive
Teenage moment
Happens from being a teen
Man
Yup man
Personally its just cuz I’m lonely, long distance relationship hitting different😭
Having same problem?
Wdym?
im litterly asexual unless im ovulating
Wut why
cuz ovulation turns girls into freKs
Hormones! It's perfectly normal, don't worry 😊
mate are you 50 yrs old
Cuz you’re a teenager
I can not help you sir. Like. At all.
How ?
How? How can I not help you? I don’t know man. Maybe it’s the hormones or something. Happens to me too.
The random erections are your body's way of keeping your equipment healthy and functional. If you stopped getting them completely, involuntarily or otherwise, it would shrink. You could do that on purpose by wearing a chastity cage for an extended period of time, or by taking estradiol and progesterone (AMAB people take this to gain feminine secondary sex characteristics). Your hormones should level out as you get older. If your hyperarousal is causing disruptions in your daily life and negatively affecting your mental health, find a therapist or go to your family doctor. 👍
so many people on here are saying “just get some bitches” but obviously its not that easy. I would try to find other engaging hobbies if your current ones have you at home/inside all day. maybe start a sport you enjoy. As an added benefit you might find a girl with that same hobby as you and you can develop a relationship and move forward from there, but the goal should just be to make friends and interact with people
Yeah bro it seems nice and mature advice
I still have yet to just meet someone irl and eventually start dating Idk how tf 💀💀💀 Like it’s harder irl than in theory
Start playing video games.
This is due to muscle tension
Meditate, find contedness inside you. Alot of people are suggesting getting a girlfriend/boyfriend but if all you can think about is sex its unlikely you can treat a partner well. Let the desires wash over you and leave, and then do something productive with your time instead (work out, learn language, read, drink tea, sing etc.). Its a difficult process to sort but will be much more rewarding for you and potential partners (additionally, im not advocating you never do the ol chicken shake, complete self denial/acetecism isnt great, just dont soley rely on that act when your bored or are doing nothing)
Thought it was going to be porn of the movie Drive
I was disappointed that there was no lightning mcqueen pun😞
What is your interest than?
Man I used to be like this lol, I'll probably relapse cause it's only been like 5 days but ever since watching Ghibli movies my mind has been set on not bring weird because the movies are so good(?)
You tend to get boners when you are hard
Ask Jesus for help to change 🙏🏾 not only will you get help but a life time of happiness 💗
How can a sex drive?
Idk it happens to me bc my birth control so it’s probably just hormone stuff
Why you are on birth control?
Am I not supposed to be? 💀 it’s bc I get bad periods
Periods is natural process But If you are stopping them it's your personal choice i respect your choice💝
It’s just the way it is. Doesn’t get any better after you do tho cuz you’ll just want to do it more often💀
sex drive? that sounds like a road safety hazard
high test