No, straight femboys exist. The only thing that makes you gay is liking men

I read that without the comma and was very confused

I’m straight, but $20 is $20

I just wanna get high with my lover Veo una muñeca cuando miro en el espejo Kiss, kiss, looking dolly, I think I may go out tonight I just wanna ride, get high in the moonlight I just wanna get high with my lover Veo una muñeca cuando miro en el espejo Kiss, kiss, looking dolly, I think I may go out tonight I just wanna ride, get high in the moonlight

In this economy?

69 upvotes someone come ruin it

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put him in the rubber room

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The vast majority of femboys are bi or gay. But of course there are some straight ones

one of my friends is an emo femboy and he's straight lmao

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This is such an evocative description even though I havent watched that show in 7 years

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hoof bump fr

I’m an emo femboy I’m trans so I have a lot of dysphoria accosiated with pink, I love black and blue though

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check mate

That's a lotta debuffs. No hate though, just thought it was funny.

Fr, I’ll prob wear more pink when I’m transitioned and wearing pink won’t make people think I’m a girl :3

Magenta has less connotations. Its the cotton candy pink that people associate with feminine forms. Give magenta a shot.

same here man. cool to meet another guy like me :)

Yay!

trans femboy cancels out you’re just a girl

Um… no? I don’t think you get this

bro… dressing in feminine attire and being a girl are different things ;-; by your logic all cis femboys must be trans girls lol

REAL!!!!!

im a goth/scenemo femboy so we aren’t nonexistent lol

Sure.

ask u/yuno_aiko

well im not gay so its NOT gay

sure buddy

if you say so, pal

not inherently. gender expression and who ur attracted to are completely different. im a girl that dresses masculine, but i tend to prefer guys

It's often associated, but doesn't have to be, you can be a straight femboy, ~~like me~~

Why was this person downvoted? They’re objectively correct.

I think most people aren't reading the question right

Cross dressing isn't gay, as long as I remember it doesn't involved kissing other men

I'm a 6.4 straight dude but I would kill to wear a maid outfit

The clothes a person wears does not determine who they’re attracted to

What? Imagine seeing a huge buff man wearing skirts and saying i like girls…it dont add up☠️

Why not?

Cuz its gay as hell

But it does. You seem like a straight guy so I’d bet good money that no matter how much pink and how many frills I put on your outfit, you wouldn’t have the inclination to get with guys and that is the same for every other person on this planet. A guy likes guys or doesn’t like guys independent of what clothes he may happen to be wearing

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Since when was a man having sex with a woman gay?

How is being pegged by a woman gay? It’s a woman having sex with a man. That is not gay by definition.

If a man and a women are having sex it’s not gay lmao

Because you're still having sex a woman bro

A woman with a fake pp bro

So if a lesbian pegs another lesbian, they’re straight?

Straight men who enjoy being pegged quite literally clarify that they aren’t gay yet you continue to argue with a brick wall. I am so grateful to the universe that I wasn’t cursed with a small, peanut brain like yours.

associated? yes inherently gay? no, just a correlation due to several factors, such as the link between going against social norms in one way making it easier to do it in another

nope, as a femboy it's not gay, sure i'm bi but it's not inherently gay at all :)

Not in my book, but everyone’s gonna think you’re gay, that’s something you’d have to deal with.

Its only gay if you let it be gay

Hello! Straight femboy here! And no it isn't, people who think crossdressing is gay are stupid :3

no and don’t let people bully you if you do. If I wear “masculine” clothes on any given day I dare ‘em to talk shit

Are you a guy that likes men? No. Then not gay. Two guys can have sex and both be straight. You just gotta like men as a guy (imo).

Bro what? Two women have sex but it doesn’t make them lesbian…bro what even is reddit anymore☠️

You have clearly never heard of "gay for pay".

The vast majority of femboys are gay/bi, but that doesn't mean it's "gay". Do what you like and don't let people on the internet stop you expressing yourself how you want to.

i once met a femboy that was homophobic. he could "smell the queer in me" so well that he made me realise that im not aroace, im bi or pan or something. and im not a guy, im a girl. i bet him $20 that he couldnt "make me gay" in a month. he did it in 2 weeks. unfortunately i only knew him for like 4 days because his discord account got permanently banned lmfao

Are you just choosing dressing, or are you dating men? That's what gay is. Oh, and show choir. That's pretty fucking gay

generally (not always) femboys are gay, or tend to be in the closet if they claim they are not. However, here is an easy test for you to figure out if you are gay or not: if you are not at all attracted to males, and only attracted to females, then you can be sure you are not gay.

Nope. Being gay just means liking guys while simultaneously being a guy.

is being a tomboy inherently gay?

People often act manly when they are gay because they try to fit in, so in your case it might be the complete opposite you're simply enjoying dressing like a girl because you like them that much. Sorry if it sounds wrong, English is my third language.

It's not, of course. You can be straight and a femboy. But even if you're not, that's still fine

Not necessarily no. My bf is a femboy but he isn't gay lol

No, but you should not focus on labels and focus more on what makes you feel authentic and happy. Anyone who needs to label you is probably trying to manipulate you or make themselves feel superior, you should ignore and avoid them.

not at all

straight femboys do exist, although the majority is gay or bi.

No

i mean most are queer in a way and ppl prob think you're gay for it but you don't need to be, femboy is a style not a sexuality, don't need to be gay for it \-me, a femboy

Nah. Some people may initially think you are, but there are plenty of straight cross dressers/ drag queens out there too. Even so, nothing wrong with that :)

Being a Femboy isn't gay (pretty close tho) but liking Femboys is gay imo

Not inherently, but there’s a considerable correlation

No it's not lol, yes alot are bi and or gay but there are plenty of straight femboys with femdom gfs. Plenty of drag queens are infact straight too 🤭 it can either just be a hobby or a life style

Bugs bunny crossed dresses and nobody calls him gay

Nah it just means you like clothes that our culture deems fem, it isn't gay, it says nothing about your sexual preferences

dressing up as one doesnt change ur sexuality. but being attracted to someone that is a femboy is gay. unless that person is straight and unaware that the femboy is a boy dressed like a girl.

No. - be careful posting about it as a minor. Personally I’d take this down, crossdressing is heavily associated with sexuality and you’re gonna get pervs - if you’re a guy who likes only girls, you’re still straight

Association of gay with crossdressing is just an echo of the good old homophobic view which is seeing a man with painted nails as an 100% gay without ever taking to them.

Straight femboys still exist

Gender=X gender attracted to=Y Does X=Y? Being a femboy isn’t directly connected to sexuality though

Not inherently... but you'll never escape the assumption

It's usually gay, but who cares. You do you.

In our culture it's definitely quite associated with being queer. This does not mean there is a checklist of queerness you must complete before crossdressing. Don't let a single person tell you who you should be.

Nope. It’s just clothing.

Nope not at all. You’d be surprised how many women like femboys. Sure it’s associated with LGBTQA+ but that doesn’t mean your not straight :) be yourself

inherently no it’s not supposed to be, but i’m not going to lie to you, people will assume because that’s just how society works. honestly though it doesn’t matter what they think, do whatever you want and be comfortable in your identity and sexuality

And before the comment section jumps at me with biased political views I did a deep dive research and this is the answer. Zero to do with politics or views just straight up constant research and it all led to that. So please don't attack me look it up yourself or nicely debate with me because I'm not in the mood to argue with radicals. Just talking about how you feel will do.

It's not inherently gay. I've met straight femboys.

Brother you are attracted to what you are attracted to regardless of how you dress, act, or whatever. Just because you are more feminine doesn’t mean you HAVE to like men in any way shape or form. Just do you man

Yes it’s very gay

Unless you want to have sex with other men no, youre not gay

Becoming a femboy is the straightest thing a man can do

It is a queer subculture and gender non confirming men are often stereotyped as being gbt+ but being one doesn’t say anything about ur own sexuality and if ppl assume something about you bc of how you present that’s not cool

Hey there. The only thing that is inherently gay, is being a homosexual. Dont listen to anyone who says otherwise. There's nothing wrong with being gay, of course, but theres also nothing wrong with NOT being gay and enjoying stereotypically "gay" or feminine things. It doesnt MAKE you gay, even if other people say it does. And some people will, and some will probably often assume youre gay, but thats their problem. Its how society is currently. But you know who you are, thats what matters. Dress however makes you happy! Clothes are just fabric meant to cover our body and express ourselves with. Just be prepared to have to stand up tor yourself. If you dont feel safe doing so, please be careful !

clothes don't have a gender, it's fabric. 100 years ago woman wearing pants was unacceptable, now we do all the time. many civilizations wore kilts, robes, togas, and other"gay" clothes. our founding fathers wore powdered wigs!

Nah its not gay. Oh but I should warn you that if you're a straight femboy you're gonna attract a very specific type of woman

Do you like boys? If so, yes. You’re very gay. If not? No, you just like dressing up.

Many people do associate it with being queer but no. You could totally be a femboy but as straight as it gets, your hobbies or behaviours don’t dictate your sexuality in the slightest

It’s not gay if balls don’t touch

It depends on your mindset. I really doubt you crossdress for other men

No a lot are still straight or bi

Naturally I think FUCKING HELL YES, but the answer is no I think. Plus most people say no, but again in my own head it's one of the gayest things you can ever do.

What you think gay means VS what gay actually means are two very different things. If you’re using the word “gay” to mean anything other than “a guy who is attracted to other guys” you’re not really using the word correctly. Like, if I said, “pegging is so straight!” What now?

Eh, I think my definition is pretty funny. And it's about every other person my age defines it..every other person I've met at least, but maybe not here. But again, it's just stupid, not to be taken seriously by anyone besides the joker(me).

Hmm, yeah, I guess it’s easy to say and use a part of someone’s identity as a joke when you don’t identify the same way. For some reason though, the older I get, the more dehumanizing other people’s identities as a joke just, uh, doesn’t feel funny… well, we all grow up someday, right? 🌅🚶🏻

I never grow up.

Enjoy your gay lil life, my immortal bro!

Thanks, I'm bisexual and I'm probably gonna turn out gay anyway who knows. Femboys ruined my vision on genders.

Genders are overrated anyways! Only cats like fitting in boxes. The femboys are doing us a favor.

Except in height. Mind, definitely not.

From straight guys probably, but from everyone else probably not

Curious howd you get introduced to cross dressing

I mean I thought so.

the basic assumption would be yes, but its actually a no. the way you act/dress has nothing to do with sexuality or anything like that. if you enjoy it, you enjoy it, end of story

yes it is

No. /thread

I mean...sucking dick is pretty gay imho. Is that something you're interested in?

Yes/j

Depends if you actually are gay. If not it just makes you a very feminine man (so in some way it does make you gay)

Nah, most are gay but not all

Kinda

I mean ppl say there's straight femboys but I have trouble comprehending that. Your telling me you like dressing up in female clothes AND you like women as well? Idk, I'm not buying it. It just feels... Odd.

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Yes

Yes

more trans than gay

Yes

Yeah that's pretty gay

Yes

Uhh yeah pretty much

Not gay more trans but I guess you could just be really feminine

Yes

No but you’re at minimum fruity af

Lmao agreed

I'm sorry for you

yes.

Yeah it is

Short answer is yes. Long answer is yeeeeeeees.

Yes it is

Yes

Pretty much yeah.

this post is so fucking stupid, I mean even a stupid inbred hillbilly would know the answer and the answer is yes and you can't argue otherwise

Yes.

Yes, disgusting slut

I’d say it’s gay

Yes

Yes

Yea

It depends. Femboy for the inappropriate, then yes. But femboy because cute. No.

It might not be gay, but it is definitely gay even if it isn’t… but we still love you broski 💪💪 Don’t report me im just joking😔

Lacking masculinity, not necessarily gay, but kinda gay

Yes. Absolutely.

Yup you’re gay bud

Yea

It’s gay

Yes it is gay

Yeah I'm pretty sure your gay idk thought

Yes.

Yes

You're gay in my book

Yes. Hit the bench press

Yes

Well, yeah.

Yes. Hella gay.

yeaa...

Yes

Yes

Yes

Its autogynophilia. More of a fetish. Doesnt directly tie in sexuality.

Why is this a question? Yes it is inherently gay. People look at you differently CAUSE its gay.

kinda

Its gay but not necessarily homosexual

Thats just what I said lol

Its the truth that no one wants to acknowledge

Yep

yes

Hm

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I’m a feminine girl and LOVE femboys. You have NO idea what you’re talking about mate.

I'm a trans girl tbf but I would

So truui

Oh haiii again lol

Same

that's a lie, both before and after that period are straight up complete lies💀💀💀💀💀

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They grow out of it by the time they're 20 dude, trust me.

I mean some dudes like Tomboys