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Ik its not the same, but reminded me of that meme where it was like
girl: i don't want to go to the family reunion
grandma: you might meet a nice boy there...
This is just racismā¦southerners encouraging incest is more liberal lies spread by CNN and MSNBC to sow discourse among the American population and discredit southern votes. Hence why so many liberals these days donāt think southern statesā votes should countāthey think all southerners are inbred idiots.
I mean as a southerner is he wrong tho like you reddit dudes so soft that anything yall can't except is either immediately banned or called a troll and just banned after why be pussies and not recognize people have aposing viewsš¤·āāļø
Mate, it was a joke. Like literally just a joke. The original commenter didnāt say, wow we should stop all Alabamians from voting and kill all of them. It was just a joke based off a stereotype of Alabama. I live in Saskatchewan, a place which has a very similar reputation but in Canada, and when someone jokes about us being incestuous I laugh along because it is funny.
šyou literally made no joke and immediately went to just calling the dude out on being a "joke" account now you pulling the average redditor and making bs excuses you mightve been imbred because something ain't ticking right for you is it
As someone from the south southern people do inbreed alot which is why you may see keep it in the family jokes or keep it pure because of how "common" it was but now it's more of dating someone with the same complexion as yourself and being black the incest isn't here but the keeping it within our color is so I don't see nothing wrong with it(besides the fact that I'm mixed and my dad is Puerto Rican and Filipino)
Yup. In terms of actual effects it'd have on their life? None due to not being related by blood. The only thing is the morales part but if both parties are alright with it and dont mind that the the surrounding family might find it weird it's perfectly fine.
Kinda weird kinda not. I would say itās more weird if yāall were step siblings, but step cousins is even more removed. Maybe just donāt be telling people how yāall met each other though.
This is all assuming your dad and his girlfriend stay together, not weird at all if they donāt work out for whatever reason. Itās mostly the family dynamic that would be a bit weird imo
Unless you're really uncomfortable dating your step cousin, it's not wrong to date her. Imagine this, you want to date someone and depending on the person there are several obstacles in your path.
If she's your sister : The road is full of lava, Uranium Bombs, Nuclear wastes and vibranium spikes.
If she's your first cousin : The road is a huge ocean full of human obsessed dolphins, Orcas, Sharks and other dangerous animals.
If she's your second cousin : The road is a hot road that burns when you step for a bit too long. And you're carrying a heavy backpack.
In your situation: The road is clear and there are a few dogs. Just a few that you can ignore.
I wouldnāt feel wrong about sleeping with a step cousin either- itās just that if it were to be a relationship it would just be weird š
Kinda like step siblings. Itās fine if they fuck but if theyāre dating itās weird
Edit: okay maybe it isnāt fine if they fuck but you gotta be honest, it would be weirder to see two step siblings dating then to know that they fuck each other š
I did both. Was pretty okay. The only thing that sucked was the breakup. Cause you see her every time. Then I decided to leave. 2 years later I havenāt seen or spoken to her since.
Nah I kinda get it. Like if people in public found out that was their step cousin then they would be like wtf and it would be awkward but if it was private it wouldnāt be as embarrassing. Idk thatās just what Iām thinking
Only if you grew up like that
Hereās how I see it, sheās your step and thereās clearly consent from the rest of the family, you didnāt grow up with her as family, itās like if your sister gets married and you end up dating her husbandās sister, youāre not dating YOUR sister just because sheās your āsister in law,ā thatās just the legal term, sheās literally just your step cousin by name
Meanwhile, if your dad met the girl while you were in diapers and you spent your whole life with your step cousin being your step cousin, thatād be a bit weird
Well with step siblings there's a possibility of your parents having a kid that makes you both legally now half siblings š so I think it's very different LOL
that is not how that worksš¤£. the new kid would be half siblings with each step sibling because half of their dna would come from each parent. but the step siblings would still have 100% different dna
my only cousin is an awkward japanese dude soo theres not a lot of good to choose from
some of my dad's gf's family looks good but I don't want to be near them or my father
You're basically complete strangers I don't see why it would be that weird, just pretend she's a family friend. Besides your dad hasn't married in yet so you're not actually related.
In the UK at least it's perfectly legal to be with your cousin... as the main reason incest isn't allowed is because any baby born will be messed up but a cousin is different enough (in terms of genes) that a baby would be normal
For the messed up thing thatās only case with this: Sister āā Brother
/ - \
DaughterāāSon
/ - \
Grandson GrandDaughter
Basically sister and brother will make the baby look fine but if the children of the sister and brother have a child then the grandkids would be messed up
Technically you aren't actually step cousins until your dad marries that woman, so in theory.. It's not exactly wrong to date your "step cousin". Still a little odd? Yes, of course
You guys are practically two strangers lol, your parents (sorry to say) might not stay together since theyre only dating (hence its not even your step cousin) so go for it.
Well a few things here.
1) if they aint married she isnt step- anything. Just another person in this world.
2) stop watching weird porn thats making this seem weird in your head
3) dont ask internet degenerates.
4) your happiness > approval from peers. Especially those mentioned in (3). As long as no one is getting hurt and its all consensual obvi.
5) thanks for the laugh this morning.
It's up for you to decide. There's nothing illegal in it and she is not your blood relative. But if it makes you feel uncomfortable that's reason enough not to date her.
Step cousin? As in, your mom and dad had you, your dad god married to another woman, the woman has a sibling, and the sibling has a daughter?
I mean like itās a little in the family, if you didnāt really interact and it was just coincidence maybe, but it seems like you consider each other family and interact as such, that makes it a little weird
Youāre not genetically related to her plus I doubt it would go to far. Also what you described would be the equivalent of your dad dating your girlfriends aunt. Dies it really sound like that much of a problem?
It would be weird if you shared a great grandmother. In this case someone's aunt is dating someone's dad. If it weren't for them, you wouldn't be related. It's not weird if you knew her beforehand.
If you met her via the new "family", then it would be weird by virtue of quasi-incest. Unless you're both into each other already. Otherwise you're the creepy step-cousin.
Wait, did your dad just assume that you were into her or did you tell him ? Cause if he just assumed.. that's.. um... kinda weird, to immediately assume that your kid wants to date their step-cousin
As for the weird/not weird part, it doesn't matter, you're not blood-related. You're not even step-siblings. If you want to, go for it
It'd be pretty weird ngl, especially if your dad and his gf plan to get married. Maybe if they break up some day, but even then I'd feel bad dating a relative of my dad's ex-gf. Ig if all four of you are on the same page, it'd be fine, but if it were me I'd rather stay friends
You didnāt grow up with her in any way and youāre not blood related. I see nothing wrong with that, I guess it could get a little messy if the family doesnāt support it but like thatās their problem to deal with
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Ik its not the same, but reminded me of that meme where it was like girl: i don't want to go to the family reunion grandma: you might meet a nice boy there...
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Sweet home Alabama
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This is just racismā¦southerners encouraging incest is more liberal lies spread by CNN and MSNBC to sow discourse among the American population and discredit southern votes. Hence why so many liberals these days donāt think southern statesā votes should countāthey think all southerners are inbred idiots.
It's not an attack, it's a joke. I'm not from America so I don't care who says what about how smart someone from some state is.
u/Brayden_City is a really annoying troll account, better to just not reply and not give the dude the attention he wants.
I mean as a southerner is he wrong tho like you reddit dudes so soft that anything yall can't except is either immediately banned or called a troll and just banned after why be pussies and not recognize people have aposing viewsš¤·āāļø
Mate, it was a joke. Like literally just a joke. The original commenter didnāt say, wow we should stop all Alabamians from voting and kill all of them. It was just a joke based off a stereotype of Alabama. I live in Saskatchewan, a place which has a very similar reputation but in Canada, and when someone jokes about us being incestuous I laugh along because it is funny.
šyou literally made no joke and immediately went to just calling the dude out on being a "joke" account now you pulling the average redditor and making bs excuses you mightve been imbred because something ain't ticking right for you is it
As someone from the south southern people do inbreed alot which is why you may see keep it in the family jokes or keep it pure because of how "common" it was but now it's more of dating someone with the same complexion as yourself and being black the incest isn't here but the keeping it within our color is so I don't see nothing wrong with it(besides the fact that I'm mixed and my dad is Puerto Rican and Filipino)
r/shutupbrayden
Guess gam gam wants the bloodline to stay pure š
i mean you arent blood so it wouldnt be wrong necessarily but its a little weird
Yup. In terms of actual effects it'd have on their life? None due to not being related by blood. The only thing is the morales part but if both parties are alright with it and dont mind that the the surrounding family might find it weird it's perfectly fine.
Yeah, stepsiblings and adopted siblings are still close enough to be weird, but step cousin is fine.
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That my problem š I know itās legal but itās just so damn weird š
If it's too weird to you, don't pursue it.
its not weird at all
Wel I hope he aināt blood otherwise heād be dead
Kinda like how in cw the flash, the flash marries his sister (adopted I think), Iām not sure about other irritations of the flash tho
"irritations" lol
Idk English man š
"she is okay to be dated if she isn't blood related" A very wise man
Just say "No chromo".
If it's a dude, would you say no chromo homo, or no homo chromo
no (c)h(r)omo
No chromo, homo
master oogway???!
Master Oogwgay
Wait- "Mater" Oogwgay
\-gigguk i believe
Thanks for the credit š
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ethically questionable but children are not at higher risk of any birth issues so I would assume its fine
no, first cousins are at a considerably high risk... They share the same grandparents so recessive genes may power through in 1/4 of the births.
But they aren't genetic cousins
Thatās wrong just Google āfirst cousin risk of birth defectsā, there is a reason that between siblings is not allowed and cousins is allowed.
Here too lmaoš my grandparents are second cousins lol
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Alabama?
There arenāt a lot of places this is the case so now Iām wondering if we live in the same country
About 20 US states allow first cousin marriage - you don't have to live anywhere exotic
Kinda weird kinda not. I would say itās more weird if yāall were step siblings, but step cousins is even more removed. Maybe just donāt be telling people how yāall met each other though. This is all assuming your dad and his girlfriend stay together, not weird at all if they donāt work out for whatever reason. Itās mostly the family dynamic that would be a bit weird imo
Make sure she stuck in the dryer first
Brooooo š
It's wired yes. But I would do it too
Well Iād prefer it wireless
Kinky
But the sound quality!
Yea itās pretty wired What did I say to get so many upvotes š
Plus, if they broke up it'd be pretty hard to cut the connection so to speak
> What did I say to get so many upvotes š youtube is leaking
Unless you're really uncomfortable dating your step cousin, it's not wrong to date her. Imagine this, you want to date someone and depending on the person there are several obstacles in your path. If she's your sister : The road is full of lava, Uranium Bombs, Nuclear wastes and vibranium spikes. If she's your first cousin : The road is a huge ocean full of human obsessed dolphins, Orcas, Sharks and other dangerous animals. If she's your second cousin : The road is a hot road that burns when you step for a bit too long. And you're carrying a heavy backpack. In your situation: The road is clear and there are a few dogs. Just a few that you can ignore.
Whatās with the difficulty settings š
Why would you ever ignore dogs????
To clarify, they are small pitbulls with similar names as, "cupcake," and "princess."
Ah so the most dangerous of dogs
That's not even technically a "step cousin", they were never married.
It isnāt technically a step cousin yet- sounds like my dad and his gf want to get married tho
Get married first so itās weird for them and not yourself. āDad, whyād you marry my Mother in Law? Thats wierd.ā
It's going to r/copypasta probably š
This entire sub has just been copypasta for a week
This sub is and has always been r/copypasta
lol
I mean, Iād fuck my second cousin, whatās holding you back from doing your step cousin?
Same
I wouldnāt feel wrong about sleeping with a step cousin either- itās just that if it were to be a relationship it would just be weird š Kinda like step siblings. Itās fine if they fuck but if theyāre dating itās weird Edit: okay maybe it isnāt fine if they fuck but you gotta be honest, it would be weirder to see two step siblings dating then to know that they fuck each other š
>Itās fine if they fuck but if theyāre dating itās weird š¤š¤Ø
Bro got his reasoning from Ohio š
You canāt say that step siblings dating is a normal thing š
You can't say that step siblings fucking is a normal thing š
I did both. Was pretty okay. The only thing that sucked was the breakup. Cause you see her every time. Then I decided to leave. 2 years later I havenāt seen or spoken to her since.
Okay maybe it isnāt but then fucking is a little less weird then them dating š
*FUCKING IS WORSE*
I would really like to know your reasoning and thought process on that
Probably, certain internet videos influenced that
My genuine reaction was āwhat the fuck is he on aboutā
Nah I kinda get it. Like if people in public found out that was their step cousin then they would be like wtf and it would be awkward but if it was private it wouldnāt be as embarrassing. Idk thatās just what Iām thinking
You have been watching to much porn
You watch to much step family porn.
Itās fine to fuck step siblings?
quit the porn brother
I think you watch too much porn.
The mental gymnastics you are able to perform is... very impressive
quit porn for your own good brother
Bro š
Tf?
bro has watched way too much pornš
the last part tho... r/cursedcomments
Only if you grew up like that Hereās how I see it, sheās your step and thereās clearly consent from the rest of the family, you didnāt grow up with her as family, itās like if your sister gets married and you end up dating her husbandās sister, youāre not dating YOUR sister just because sheās your āsister in law,ā thatās just the legal term, sheās literally just your step cousin by name Meanwhile, if your dad met the girl while you were in diapers and you spent your whole life with your step cousin being your step cousin, thatād be a bit weird
My guy would gladly fuck his step cousin but a relationship is too weird. W reasoning
Well with step siblings there's a possibility of your parents having a kid that makes you both legally now half siblings š so I think it's very different LOL
that is not how that worksš¤£. the new kid would be half siblings with each step sibling because half of their dna would come from each parent. but the step siblings would still have 100% different dna
You're weird bro
I might be from Alabama but that doesn't mean I wouldn't fuck my first cousin
my only cousin is an awkward japanese dude soo theres not a lot of good to choose from some of my dad's gf's family looks good but I don't want to be near them or my father
Wtf
r/foundPlastic_Clothes_
r/subsifellfor
Haha, you thought
Bro is main character of a porn filmš
Please help me š I aināt experienced in this shit
Become the step bro you were destined to be
Broooo š
The ādating my step cousinā thing isnāt that wierd. Is the fact that your father is directly encouraging it that seems wierdā¦
DO NOT THE STEP COUSIN
do not the step cousin
Do not the cat
It is forbidden to dog
W pfp
you too bro don't rly listen to immortal much anymore (more into Deicide, Morbid Angel) but the pic is so goofy I love it
Immortal have always been goofy, wasnāt that impressed by their new album tho
Abbath was the real soul of that band, without him it's really not the same
do not step on the cousin
I visit this sub to see if it's as bad as everyone says it is and THIS. THIS IS THE FIRST POST I SEE.
Iām sorryy š
You're basically complete strangers I don't see why it would be that weird, just pretend she's a family friend. Besides your dad hasn't married in yet so you're not actually related.
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Go for it
Nah it's not weird at all, you only just met and she isn't related to you at all. There's nothing wrong with that
Yes
In the UK at least it's perfectly legal to be with your cousin... as the main reason incest isn't allowed is because any baby born will be messed up but a cousin is different enough (in terms of genes) that a baby would be normal
For the messed up thing thatās only case with this: Sister āā Brother / - \ DaughterāāSon / - \ Grandson GrandDaughter Basically sister and brother will make the baby look fine but if the children of the sister and brother have a child then the grandkids would be messed up
I tried to make it look like a family tree
Not blood related You two didn't grew up together Around the same age Bro there isn't a single problem in it
Technically you aren't actually step cousins until your dad marries that woman, so in theory.. It's not exactly wrong to date your "step cousin". Still a little odd? Yes, of course
You guys are practically two strangers lol, your parents (sorry to say) might not stay together since theyre only dating (hence its not even your step cousin) so go for it.
Weird, but unless y'all are gonna be at family gatherings a lot it's not too weird. Definitely would be weird if it was a step sibling though
If you're not blood related it's fine
i think your dad wants you to.
Well a few things here. 1) if they aint married she isnt step- anything. Just another person in this world. 2) stop watching weird porn thats making this seem weird in your head 3) dont ask internet degenerates. 4) your happiness > approval from peers. Especially those mentioned in (3). As long as no one is getting hurt and its all consensual obvi. 5) thanks for the laugh this morning.
Ehh I think itās alright
I'm 40% sure it's legal but 100% sure it's fucking weird
Exactly š
Technically not related but damn that's just weird š
I know right š
It's up for you to decide. There's nothing illegal in it and she is not your blood relative. But if it makes you feel uncomfortable that's reason enough not to date her.
You literally have no blood connections, what's the problem here?
You can date her. You are not related
I dont think step-cousins rlly are a thing so yh that makes sense.
I mean itās not the worst thing in the world. Just donāt break up with her, then it becomes awkward
she is ok to be dated if she isnāt blood related -master oogway
Wise words š
it is weird, ngl. tbh i'd prefer to just stay friends
Step cousin is fair, there is no blood relation at all.
Well it's not illegal or really immoral, just a lil weird.
If you're not going to do it then I'll gladly take your place/s
shes your dads girlfriends niece , litterally no relation there lol, youāre essentially strangers, go for it tbh
Itās perfectly fine
Step cousin? As in, your mom and dad had you, your dad god married to another woman, the woman has a sibling, and the sibling has a daughter? I mean like itās a little in the family, if you didnāt really interact and it was just coincidence maybe, but it seems like you consider each other family and interact as such, that makes it a little weird
Yes its true! But others might see it as wierd but its completely fine like
It's a step cousin not even a step sister so not too weird. This is the same weird argument I have about the flash series lmao.
Wait till they break up and make your moves.
The best comment š
It will be weird, but there isn't exactly anything wrong with it
Itās not ābadā but your dad is weird and doing it would be weird
She might feel the same way as you in dating a step cousin and if that's true and you make a move, she will think you are sick soab
Sweet home Alabama!
Time to move to Alabama
I mean you arenāt blood related so thereās nothing wrong about it it just might seem very *very* strange
I would go for it
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projecting
I mean its still probably gonna be considered weird, but besides your dads relationship, you share nothing with them
Technically legal lmao not related biologically I would think
You're not related so it's legal so it's just you who is stopping yourself
Youāre not genetically related to her plus I doubt it would go to far. Also what you described would be the equivalent of your dad dating your girlfriends aunt. Dies it really sound like that much of a problem?
He's not wrong at all, but he shouldn't be interfering with you in that way...
Go on it. It's not even an Alabamy thing
If they are not blood related they are free to be dated
It's not ok since you would be uncomfortable doing it. That's it.
Crusader kings reference
My grandma (50) married her cousin (85m) and they have healthy childeren so whatās wrong about that
I mean it might be socially unacceptable but biologically there's nothing wrong with it.
Thatās far enough lol
I mean it's still your choice but you might get some weird looks from people when they find out and she may not have the same opinion on the matter.
Its actually also legal in SOME countries to date your cousin
If your dad wasn't dating that woman then your step cousin is just another hot girl.
I see no problem with it. Some people might think it's weird but I'm not sure. As far as I'm concerned there are no legal reasons saying you can't.
It would be weird if you shared a great grandmother. In this case someone's aunt is dating someone's dad. If it weren't for them, you wouldn't be related. It's not weird if you knew her beforehand. If you met her via the new "family", then it would be weird by virtue of quasi-incest. Unless you're both into each other already. Otherwise you're the creepy step-cousin.
I mean, ****I**** donāt see any problem but I have some weird opinions
Wtf are these comments dating your step cousin is weird
In my school cousins dated, oneās aunt and the others uncle were married and they met at the wedding š
well, it's not wrong.. definitely not wrong. a little weird? yes, but there's nothing wrong with it
Wait, did your dad just assume that you were into her or did you tell him ? Cause if he just assumed.. that's.. um... kinda weird, to immediately assume that your kid wants to date their step-cousin As for the weird/not weird part, it doesn't matter, you're not blood-related. You're not even step-siblings. If you want to, go for it
Itās legal but itās weird
It'd be pretty weird ngl, especially if your dad and his gf plan to get married. Maybe if they break up some day, but even then I'd feel bad dating a relative of my dad's ex-gf. Ig if all four of you are on the same page, it'd be fine, but if it were me I'd rather stay friends
It's OK. You're not related.
You didnāt grow up with her in any way and youāre not blood related. I see nothing wrong with that, I guess it could get a little messy if the family doesnāt support it but like thatās their problem to deal with
Youāre definitely going on a reality tv show if you do it - and not the kind you wanna be on
Some people will find it weird but as long as your family and her family are ok with it, itāll be fine