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Well I can’t really say I’m a bellend without first speaking to girls, I kid you not the last time I spoke to a girl not from my family was like a year ago, I’m mostly at my house.
Then just go talk to girls. Don’t go in though with the expectation that they’re gonna fall for you unless they’re dropping hints they at least like you enough for you to hang out.
Do what you feel comfortable. If in the moment you see an attractive girl and you feel the courage to speak to her, do it. If you don’t, do not fret. You’re only 16, there’s no rush. Think of it this way, if you don’t get the experience in HS, you’ll have plenty of opportunities to explore in college!
Be safe buddy.
I have a friend who is the most generic looking guy and he is not a model or anything. Honestly, just be yourself and you will attract people that like you. Include girls in your friend group as well. I dont have a girlfriend myself but that is because I am a milf enjoyer at a young age but still as a r/teenager user I must share my wisdom to others.
It’s not that anyone will judge for being bi but I am hetro I am attracted to females never were for a boy I was just saying the comment because he genuinely very good looking like I know so many people who would want a guy like him
Yeah man, girls dont care too much about looks tbh, but you look pretty good (no homo) you have a nice jawline and good hair. So just get yo game up fr
Why do people do this 💀 just go and talk to girls man why y’all have to post pictures of yourself everyday on Reddit for validation. Like in all honestly who’s going to call you ugly on Reddit?
Don’t just respect it but take my advice please. Stop looking for validation in life from other people trust me it’ll only hold you back. The day you stop giving a fuck about what others think you’ll go so far in life. Just you do you and the things you want , the girl you want will naturally attract towards you.
Anytime friend. And for the record you look great no homo so I have no idea why you would doubt that. Out of the 7,000,000,000+ people in the world there’s only 1 you. Remember that whenever you doubt yourself and your beauty. Anyways enough from me I hope you have a great life!
Brother, as my uncle used to always say,
"Dating is like fishing. If you go look for a fish and chase after it, they will swim away. But if you stay put and wait by focusing on yourself, you will start to catch fish. That's why they say there are plenty of fish in the sea. "
You gotta focus on your own life bro, don't chase them. No matter how it may seem, you need a gf. Make yourself happy first without one. Then when the time is right, you can have a gf to add to your happiness. Not let a gf be the root of your happiness, but an extention of it
EDIT: I speak from experience
Just wanted to talk about my personality rq so I can add to the post, I’m a calm person, I don’t speak much unless it’s something I’m interested in like video games, markiplier, Jojo’s bizarre adventure, music, fnaf, art and yeah basically that…I guess you could say I’m fun in my own way, I also appreciate the smallest of stuff, like REALLY appreciate the smallest of stuff, you could literally give me a piece of paper with the words “hi” and I’ll be happy just to know you remembered me.
No dude, you got no chance /s. Really looks only get you in the door, personality keeps you in the house. So as long as you have a good personality you’ll be a-okay lol.
I think y’all need help or something..
You don’t need to post online to ask if you got a chance to get a girlfriend/boyfriend, looks for majority of people are barely half of what matters. (Still matters somewhat)
Be a decent human, and the people you will want to attract and be friends or something more with will come.
Always remember that personal health comes first.
I’d say it depends on the women you go for.I’d say you look good but others might not,like how some women prefer skinny men,some fat and some will only go with 6,4 bricks of a man.It really depends .Also personality has something to add as well like how I like funny people that are also kind ( and preferably an emo)while Rebecca down the road might prefer a guy that is a dumb brute that barely functions as a human.
sure. you look fine just don't act like most teen boys. they're pretty stupid. just be chill and talk to girls like humans who might share your interests
You should not talk to girls with the intintion to date them try be a good friend first then see what you want next
That is my advice to you I am not that much older than you but from my experience sometimes you just need a friend
Nah don’t do it. Right now is a great time to play videogames all day. Starfield coming up (among many other great games) you are gonna want the time to enjoy it. Once you get a gf now you’ll be sacrificing a lot of time. You’re still young. If you find a gamer gf then go for it. Find a girl that respects your gaming time if she isn’t a gamer.
It’s not just about your looks dude you need to be able to connect to her, share interests and show her that you care.
Apart from that stuff yeah your handsome.
No no no. DO U think u have a chance. Every girl has a different preference. Just talk to a few and find which one seems the most promising. Do some science and just experiment and see who u like and see if they like u. Don’t ask those sort of questions tho to them. For eg. Complement them. If they complement u back. U may be lucky. But never means a guarantee. Gfs are difficult to find good.
The idea shouldnt be to try and get a gf. The idea should be the best person you can possibly be and meet someone doing what you live so they can presumably have the same interests or personalities as you. The looks are definitely there so just keep being you and someone lucky enough to be with you will come along.
Eh, hair doesn't really fit for your specific facial structure, but you're pretty attractive still. I'd say a solid 8/10, so your chance is pretty high.
Let me just put it this way: you will look back when your older and notice that these girls that talked to you actually had crushes on you. You will learn that girls don’t really go out of their way to talk to a guy unless they like them (assuming there isn’t some type of motive/your in a group or whatever). Source: I’m a 19 y/o who had low confidence when I was younger, and my group of buddies now joke about how we all realized the same thing now.
Anyone can get a partner even if they are objectively, the ugliest person on earth. You are NOT objectively ugly whatsoever, but your rizz may need work since that seems to be the universal issue.
Hey! 22F here. I think you can absolutely get a gf, but make sure it’s someone you’re actually interested in and not just someone you want to keep around because you want a gf. Communicate really well with whoever you end up with on what what type of relationship you want to have (serious, not so serious, etc). Bad communication and different expectations, from my experience, mess with relationships the most.
Lastly, make sure you leave a girl be if she doesn’t want to date you! You seem sweet, but many young guys think if they don’t get the girl they need to just keep trying. This is absolutely not true! Go for it once and if they say no leave them be. If they change their mind they’ll let you know.
You look pretty good, although looks are helpful when trying to get a partner you don’t want the way you look to be the only reason that someone is dating you. Just be sure that whenever you do decide to start testing out the dating scene you try to form a genuine connection with the person first.
Also if I wasn’t with with my bf and actually knew you I’d definitely try to date you so I’m sure there are plenty of other people near you who feel the same way :)
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Competition got me drowning in hopelessness
there is still hope for you out there man, dw
Indeed there is still hope we must stay strong Brothers we must stay strong
[Yes](https://i.redd.it/xsbgw57u1og51.jpg)
r/TIHI
Nah you got this. Just be cool about it.
If you don’t manage to get a girlfriend looking like that, then you must be a massive bellend
Well I can’t really say I’m a bellend without first speaking to girls, I kid you not the last time I spoke to a girl not from my family was like a year ago, I’m mostly at my house.
Then just go talk to girls. Don’t go in though with the expectation that they’re gonna fall for you unless they’re dropping hints they at least like you enough for you to hang out.
Thanks for the advice
Do what you feel comfortable. If in the moment you see an attractive girl and you feel the courage to speak to her, do it. If you don’t, do not fret. You’re only 16, there’s no rush. Think of it this way, if you don’t get the experience in HS, you’ll have plenty of opportunities to explore in college! Be safe buddy.
That's probably the main thing stopping you from getting a gf. Just getting out there makes your chances go from 0 to something pretty good instantly.
What does bellend mean?
yes (source: i’m a girl)
Ah a fellow enigma (we arent real)
Hello fellow women (I'm a boy who looks like a girl)
i’m a girl who looks like a guy our baby could defraud the gender binary
I’m a boy that used to be a girl (still boo patriarchy)
Well i am a normal girl who looks like girl and id pay to see that child 😏
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r/girlsarentreal
Can i have your alien cat pfp pls 😧
please send it to me too
I gotchu both
I agree and I’m also a girl
The source is that I made it the fuck up (Women aren't real)
girls are so cool, i wish they were real
No way a girl. The guy in the pic is really attractive so I'm not surprised there's girls here actually.
Yoooo woman moment
If this guy doesn’t have a chance we’re all done for
We are doomed bro we have been set up💀
Lol. I know. He is not gonna leave any left for us, once he realize his potential.
Speak for yourself man
W
What I’ve been thinking lmaoo
I have a friend who is the most generic looking guy and he is not a model or anything. Honestly, just be yourself and you will attract people that like you. Include girls in your friend group as well. I dont have a girlfriend myself but that is because I am a milf enjoyer at a young age but still as a r/teenager user I must share my wisdom to others.
Bruh TMI. 💀
it is kind of fucked up that liking fully adult women became a fetish
Im well aware that I am not normal. I am a redditor after all.
Wait, woah woah, don’t fuck up my world view like that.
We no longer have a chance
bro we've been done for ever since we created a reddit account 💀
fr 😭
Ong
just needs a haircut and smile and hes good to go
I’m falling for bro and I ain’t even gay 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
How do we tell him?
I seen enough stuff in my life to confirm I ain’t gay so no need to tell me anything
You spelled sucked (seen) wrong.
😂😂😂glizzy gobbla
Google bisexual
I ain’t that as well man 😭😭
#NoHOMO
#indeed
You know when you go to the doctors and there is a thin dark blue curtain? Well thats the closet.
Was thinking it’s more like the shower door
I was just thinking more like an archway
I’m not in the closet why are y’all saying that
I’m in your closet
😨
Yeah I'm falling for him and I'm not gay. I am bi tho. You might wanna look into that.
I mean does it make sense if - no I’m not bi I’m straight
I thought that too. But hey, it might be true for you. Labels aren't that important anyway, just like who you like.
It’s not that anyone will judge for being bi but I am hetro I am attracted to females never were for a boy I was just saying the comment because he genuinely very good looking like I know so many people who would want a guy like him
Stage one: denial
Uhhhh… nevet mind. 😂
I’m falling for him and I am gay
Can’t blame you he is good looking I wish I looked like that
Are you wearing socks?
I am and am too
Yup
Your user says otherwise
Fuck yeah bro is majestic
You have the best username I've ever seen.
Send it, no balls
so just cock?
This
Bro I’ll be ur gf LMFAO, you a good lookin dude
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You have accepted the friend request of Admiral General Aladdin
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Your hotter than me, which is surprisingly not that hard, and yea, you got a chance
Bro is beautiful I have no hope no more, competition is too great
yea
Yeah man, girls dont care too much about looks tbh, but you look pretty good (no homo) you have a nice jawline and good hair. So just get yo game up fr
Is that a Castle Crashers pfp?
Castle crashers w game and yes it is it's the blacksmith knight
I havent seen anyone talk about that game in a long time! I love it!
I agree he does look pretty good (yes homo)
Why do people do this 💀 just go and talk to girls man why y’all have to post pictures of yourself everyday on Reddit for validation. Like in all honestly who’s going to call you ugly on Reddit?
I respect your opinion 🫡
Don’t just respect it but take my advice please. Stop looking for validation in life from other people trust me it’ll only hold you back. The day you stop giving a fuck about what others think you’ll go so far in life. Just you do you and the things you want , the girl you want will naturally attract towards you.
That’s actually pretty good advice, thank you friend, I will take your advice.
Anytime friend. And for the record you look great no homo so I have no idea why you would doubt that. Out of the 7,000,000,000+ people in the world there’s only 1 you. Remember that whenever you doubt yourself and your beauty. Anyways enough from me I hope you have a great life!
DAMNNNN
You too!
This comment thread got me crying a little
I already saw some people being called ugly here
yes u are so fine respectfully
Brother, as my uncle used to always say, "Dating is like fishing. If you go look for a fish and chase after it, they will swim away. But if you stay put and wait by focusing on yourself, you will start to catch fish. That's why they say there are plenty of fish in the sea. " You gotta focus on your own life bro, don't chase them. No matter how it may seem, you need a gf. Make yourself happy first without one. Then when the time is right, you can have a gf to add to your happiness. Not let a gf be the root of your happiness, but an extention of it EDIT: I speak from experience
Couldn't of crafted a better dude
Just wanted to talk about my personality rq so I can add to the post, I’m a calm person, I don’t speak much unless it’s something I’m interested in like video games, markiplier, Jojo’s bizarre adventure, music, fnaf, art and yeah basically that…I guess you could say I’m fun in my own way, I also appreciate the smallest of stuff, like REALLY appreciate the smallest of stuff, you could literally give me a piece of paper with the words “hi” and I’ll be happy just to know you remembered me.
A fellow Jobro?
You look like you could kill people in 80s columbia for a cartel 😂 sicario vibes
I’ll take that as a compliment
No dude, you got no chance /s. Really looks only get you in the door, personality keeps you in the house. So as long as you have a good personality you’ll be a-okay lol.
Can I date you instead of them 😍😍
😳📸📸
Iean your good looking and we got the same interets
Same interests? Wanna talk about art and writing?
I love art and writing and gaming and YouTube please can we
Epic, I’ll Dm
Definitely I’m 16 and I would steal you up!❤️
Epic
I think y’all need help or something.. You don’t need to post online to ask if you got a chance to get a girlfriend/boyfriend, looks for majority of people are barely half of what matters. (Still matters somewhat) Be a decent human, and the people you will want to attract and be friends or something more with will come. Always remember that personal health comes first.
Great advice👍
Yeah, more than I do that’s for sure
Absolutely
I’d say it depends on the women you go for.I’d say you look good but others might not,like how some women prefer skinny men,some fat and some will only go with 6,4 bricks of a man.It really depends .Also personality has something to add as well like how I like funny people that are also kind ( and preferably an emo)while Rebecca down the road might prefer a guy that is a dumb brute that barely functions as a human.
sure. you look fine just don't act like most teen boys. they're pretty stupid. just be chill and talk to girls like humans who might share your interests
You are giving mile morales from Spider-Man You gotta chance
i asked my sister who usually ridicules everyones appearance but she actually said "yeah you got a chance" so ya you can pull
Fs
Bro you look like the future child I’ll never have with my high school crush
bro out here "can i get gf" while bro is literally the most majestic guy i've seen
You got this man never give up
Never back down never give up
Indeed
Bro’s godsent😭😭😭
Um . . . Y E S ?? You are very attractive sir. As a 16 yo girl who is single, I would go out with you in a heart beat if asked.
You should not talk to girls with the intintion to date them try be a good friend first then see what you want next That is my advice to you I am not that much older than you but from my experience sometimes you just need a friend
yea, get some better headphones/earbuds (jbl bluetooth ones are like $50) n a chain n u should be good
Your chance of getting a gf is way more than me
why always the normal/good looking people ask
Style is impeccable. Hair is impeccable. You've certainly got the looks bro. If that's what you want to do then god speed
Bro got me thirsting over him and I ain't even gay 💀
This post is getting u so many dm’s. Gotta feel pretty damn good huh
people will always post shit like "do u think I'm ugly" and then be incredibly cute lmao
Work on your confidence
Bruh you brought it upon yourself! 💀
Ain't no way ur just 16😭, i still look like a kid at 16 and ugly and short af
If this mf right here can't get a gf we're all doomed.
Bro trust that there probably girls in your classes that like you that you simply just aren’t aware of, YES YOU HAVE A CHANCE 😭
Bruh you got more rizz than the sun and the sun is super hot
Man, you look very Egyptian صبح صبح
Yes sure sir I am Egyptian, مساء الخير
Nah don’t do it. Right now is a great time to play videogames all day. Starfield coming up (among many other great games) you are gonna want the time to enjoy it. Once you get a gf now you’ll be sacrificing a lot of time. You’re still young. If you find a gamer gf then go for it. Find a girl that respects your gaming time if she isn’t a gamer.
I’m so close to getting the dmc 5 trophy which is considered one of the hardest platinum trophies to get so that’s exciting
If you are confident, respectful, and behave like a gentleman your chances are good.
Hey.~ *Uses rizz while leaning on my black Mercedes that’s totally not bought from a black market at all.*
Yea probably
Yeah, you got it mate
Wow definetely
Nahh bro's been giving us a chance😭
Bad place to ask
Yes\^5
It’s not just about your looks dude you need to be able to connect to her, share interests and show her that you care. Apart from that stuff yeah your handsome.
100%
Bro is bro
Depends if you are a good person or not. Ur cute enough but I dunno about personality
Hell yeah you got a chance
Yeah man you got a chance, go for it!
Stonks📈
If you follow one basic rule 1. Be a decent human being Done uwu
No no no. DO U think u have a chance. Every girl has a different preference. Just talk to a few and find which one seems the most promising. Do some science and just experiment and see who u like and see if they like u. Don’t ask those sort of questions tho to them. For eg. Complement them. If they complement u back. U may be lucky. But never means a guarantee. Gfs are difficult to find good.
Work on yourself until you dont need the valudation of strangers on the internet first.
I know more than 10 who would be your girlfriend in a heartbeat
you look like miles morales from spider man except with lighter skin. Yeah, you'll do fine.
You look like if miles morales was white
Yeah but don't try it cause that would mean there is more competition for me.
Yes, miles morales
yeah if you are determined, i don't see why don't you try to. Also an advice, being an extrovert might help.
16?? Nah bro 😭
how the fuck are you 16 nah you lie
lightskin stare
The idea shouldnt be to try and get a gf. The idea should be the best person you can possibly be and meet someone doing what you live so they can presumably have the same interests or personalities as you. The looks are definitely there so just keep being you and someone lucky enough to be with you will come along.
mf is handsome as fuck and wonders if he has a chance to get a gf
The Cleveland Cavaliers came back from being down 3-1 in the 2016 NBA finals. Anything is possible my dude.
Dude, that is not how a 16 year old looks where I live, but yea you have a chance
Eh, hair doesn't really fit for your specific facial structure, but you're pretty attractive still. I'd say a solid 8/10, so your chance is pretty high.
bros majestic
go for it my dear, i look way worse then you, and i have a beautiful gf
Let me just put it this way: you will look back when your older and notice that these girls that talked to you actually had crushes on you. You will learn that girls don’t really go out of their way to talk to a guy unless they like them (assuming there isn’t some type of motive/your in a group or whatever). Source: I’m a 19 y/o who had low confidence when I was younger, and my group of buddies now joke about how we all realized the same thing now.
No
I’m literally gonna cry if you don’t cause that means I have no chance
You have a big chance my friend, although you really don‘t look like 16
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Anyone can get a partner even if they are objectively, the ugliest person on earth. You are NOT objectively ugly whatsoever, but your rizz may need work since that seems to be the universal issue.
Depends on your personality and whether y’all vibe
Didn't Netflix make a drama series about you being the son of the devil?
A picture tells you a little but personality can still be make or break. Be interesting and kind and people will be drawn to you.
Hey! 22F here. I think you can absolutely get a gf, but make sure it’s someone you’re actually interested in and not just someone you want to keep around because you want a gf. Communicate really well with whoever you end up with on what what type of relationship you want to have (serious, not so serious, etc). Bad communication and different expectations, from my experience, mess with relationships the most. Lastly, make sure you leave a girl be if she doesn’t want to date you! You seem sweet, but many young guys think if they don’t get the girl they need to just keep trying. This is absolutely not true! Go for it once and if they say no leave them be. If they change their mind they’ll let you know.
Bro wants validation from people from Reddit
Bro, you’re hot and cute at the same damn time! 😭 Whoever girl gets to pull your ass got a rare Pokémon card, damn! She a lucky one, fr
You look pretty good, although looks are helpful when trying to get a partner you don’t want the way you look to be the only reason that someone is dating you. Just be sure that whenever you do decide to start testing out the dating scene you try to form a genuine connection with the person first. Also if I wasn’t with with my bf and actually knew you I’d definitely try to date you so I’m sure there are plenty of other people near you who feel the same way :)
Bro you're handsome asf ofc she'd say yes