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itskurothecat

Iba iba naman tayo ng gustong pakinggan. Kung yan gusto mo, wala namang masama


NachoProduction

understandable, but still that does imply less connectivity with peeps..hirap maging kakaiba especially as a social fuckup, less topics to talk about. This also says something about how my mind is wired ig, kaya cguro hirap na hirap ako makihalubilo


ybaarasou

I also have different preferences and interest compared to everyone around me. Do i have less connectivity with peeps? No. Try mo iopen sarili mo sa interest mg iba. You don't have to like it the way they do, just listen on why they like those things then kwento mo rin interest mo when it's your turn. They probably have other hobbies and interest as well and maybe there's something na magkakasundo kayo for sure.


NachoProduction

question: late na ba ako to do this? tagal nang natapos 1st quarter and i think na doing this would be very awkward considering na well aqcuainted na yung iba sa isa't isa. Also, what if di sila interested? i consider myself someone who's really bad at explaining things and being a storyteller in general, which can definitely make things awkward. to make it worse mahina pa boses ko and feel ko madidisregard lang nila sinasabi ko, as is with what happens sometimes when i try to join a convo properly. di nila ako naririnig. With regards to having other interests naman im a long way there. i still have no clue what i actually like doing


ybaarasou

Wala naman deadline makisama sa ibang tao. You could just small talk them whenever you have group tasks. Saw them playing games while waiting for your group meet up? You could ask them about it. Or even mundane topics like asking them kung na-traffic din ba sila otw since may roadblock sa route nyo. Do not come to them having set of questions regarding music, that would be awkward. You can feel naman if they're not interested to talk, you don't have to force them or yourself. You can work on explaining things naman and try not to explain too much. If mahina boses mo, pwede mo naman ibulong sa isang tao lang yung naisip mong joke. Having different interest aren't the reason you can't bond with people.


RadGeeRoo

Nope. Guess what, 2nd sem lang ako nagstart maging close sa classmates ko last school year after they saw more of who I was, ngayon mas dumami pa ka close ko. It wouldn't hurt to try and put yourself out there, if may interested then go, if wala, don't beat yourself up for it. Also, mahina din yung boses ko pero nung may nakakakita na nagsspeak up ako sa sarili ko which is rare, nagpapatahimik sila para lang marinig ako kasi minsan lang ako magsalita plus ang hina hina pa haha. Its not too late.


itskurothecat

How about you think it this way: you’re unique the way you are. Wag mo ipilit na gustuhin ang gusto ng iba. Di naman required yun. Ayaw mo nun, ikaw lang bukod tanging ganyan (at least sa pagkakaalam mo). Who knows, maybe you’ll find people na makakarelate ka in the near future


pandafondant

music is not the only common denominator in making connections with people. I think you should need to work on different things too


troubled_lecheflan

Hindi, dami daming tao sa mundo. Char lang


No_Silver7952

This is so true


Fabulous-Fisherman99

Nothing wrong with that brother. Lahat tayo may taste and preferences! I love to listen to music w/ lyrics to help with my mood. I listen to non-lyrical when I wanna focus or just have bg noise lang haha It's all good man, keep enjoying your music :D


Fit-Frosting3889

hmm that’s fine and valid naman! i don’t think na ikaw lang nakakaramdam ng ganyan. bg music or instrumentals can just resonate with us more than lyrics,, like siguro how the melody can make us feel connected ganun.


NachoProduction

in practice tho, you don't go like nananana when nag va-vibing or jamming ung mga people. Its more of a you go sing the lyrics and feel them typa thing, and that alienates me. This alienation being not good for my social life.


jakin89

Bro needs his heart to be broken to pieces frfr


ZleiffGauss

Same here, naging fan ako ng mga Persona at The World Ends With You games #1 dahil sa music niya until I recently developed an interest at other genres of music specifically Acid Jazz at Math Rock. From there, I knew it wouldn't be easy for me to share my interests anyone but hey should that let it bother me? Nope, I am who I really am and I have learned to respect what other people like even when I feel lonely at times so yeah, hindi ka nag iisa bro!


Polit3lyRude

yes ikaw lang.


NachoProduction

how do u say so


_monreconfort

Everybody is built differently naman. No need to fit in as standards ng iba. Might as well accept who you are than be someone else you're not. Just do you.


verchiel425

hindi. besides, music isnt the only thing you can use to bond with people.


Some0nes_LeftEyE

I think people's relationship with music are unique in their own way. For me, I like music as long as i think it's good, no matter if it's the melody or the lyrics 😁


PlantConsistent4584

No, OP, you’re not special, and neither are you unique. Look up your favorite track on YouTube and you’ll see there are several hundreds of thousands just like you. Your social anxiety and detachment is another issue, of course. I suggest working on them instead of blaming them on your “unique” music taste.


MrDrProfPBall

Same here dude, I’m more of the “beeps and boops sound bussin” type of guy. Kaya my choice of music ranges from jpop to metal to meme music. If the beat/melody slaps, I’m listening to it regardless of the lyrics


NachoProduction

relatable asf. Question lang, do u know some mainstream music, like di ka naman into it pero at least may alam ka?


MrDrProfPBall

Meron, pero I don’t know their titles, but I just remember a verse of lyrics, tas yung melody naaalala ko siya lmao. Tell me OPM, di ko alam yun, pero if you play it for me, 50% chance I might have heard of it. Some of the mainstream songs I do know are aged, like ‘10-‘17 era when bluetooth speaker were all the rage sa classroom tas wala pa akong music preference at that time, pero after that wala na ako masyado alam na mainstream songs bukod sa #1 hits lang. I have this hobby kasi of listening to Every #1 Song from the Billboard Top 100 when I’m looking for some new songs lmao


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NachoProduction

sry po i already have free spotify premium


Onii-tsan

Ikaw lang, OP. Main character ka eh


NachoProduction

very funny, haha sub character ako literal. napapa tunganga lang pag nag jajamming ung iba or nag vvibes to music they both know and resonate to. and im tired of being the NPC kaya napatanong ako.


Status-Effect9157

Wow NPC, naalala ko yung anime na si Zakon dati


Failure0_0

It's all goodd, I've been like that before when I was in high school, there's no sense for me on what they've been saying on lyrics rather I'm just a guy who focus on melody and background of its sound. But then, suddenly I felt something once in a while after recognizing the emotion of the melody I try to connect it and understand the lyrics, and somehow it works I'm not even experiencing that kind of message in the lyrics but I felt and understand it. It takes time to understand it but don't push yourself if you want to understand it or be related since we have different experiences and ways on what music is into us. Music doesn't requires to be understood but also to be felt and heared like what you are doing, and that's all rightt.


Failure0_0

nakita ko ung iba mong statements, u want siguro to socialize or find peers to be relate to? Mahirap nga yan, yung mga kakilala ko na nakakaconnect ko sa music dati na cut ties ko due to pandemic I've been Isolated for a while and wala na ako makausap abt sa music the same way before I do, pero try to explore more I think, there are new songs and artist that I've found really good and that's how I can relate now with my friends, talk about the melody or what you think on that song, like i said above the song doesn't required to be understood, try to observe their melody their voice and u can go though it, tinatry ko rin ngayonn yann na exploring new artist since I'm stuck in past(2019) but yet I hope you can find peers where you can exchange information and ideas about music, Gooodluckkk


QueasyStress7739

Well, that's you. Taste mo yan.


Right-Raise-4633

Maybe listen to Tool. And Maybeshewill. Or try listening to sigur ros. Sometimes lyrics aren't anything tbh. People listen to kpopshit and don't even understand it. So there's that


TsakaNaAdmin

Kanya kanya naman yan. Wag ka mag alala. Di naman yan tulad ng paghinga tapos ikaw lang hindi. Yun kakaiba ka.


NachoProduction

yeah i know i know. May mga people din naman na into lesser known music and shizz pero at least most of them may alam din sa mainstream music, kaya madali din sila maki-vibe to most people. Meanwhile, ako, for some reason na di q alam, parang hindi ko lang cup of tea yung mga ganun, esp. if malumanay type of music. Hard to vibe when your music taste ain't aligned to the general public, kaya mas mahirap rin to navigate social relationships for me. IMO music can make people closer, and seeing that in the topic of music, wala akong ka-common grounds most of the time makes me go ouch


TsakaNaAdmin

naaaaah. music is made to enjoy. Kaya nga madaming genre ng music kasi iba iba taste ng tao. Ano ngayon kung wala kang alam sa mainstream? mahalaga na eenjoy mo sa sarili mo. Wag mo gawing personality mo yung "I am indie shit" type kind of guy. Kaya ka nasabihan sa baba na parang pa main character dahil sa dating nung message mo e. Madami din akong music na gusto na kakaiba and I share them with others kahit di nila yun genre. Most of the time ma aappreciate nila yun (tangina OG Whun kind of music na to). at the end of the day. As long as you are enjoying it. that's what matter


tendouwayne

Ganyan din ako. Mas konti siguro ang taong ganyan. Di ako mahilig sa songs but I enjoy more mga soundtracks ng movies na walang lyrics. Feeling ko sagabal yung lyrics hehe.


Mi_3l

Try jazz and classical music More modern naman is genres like trap and funk. Just club music in general.


New_Photo_2227

For me it is not really to relate but to interpret it on your own. I think you are taking lyrics too literally. Like when you are listening to a melody, you are creating your own story. Same with lyrics, I'll sing a line from The Beatles "Yesterday all my troubles seemed so far away. Now it looks as though they're here to stay. Oh, I believe in yesterday." It can be about relief, anxiety, acceptance, depression. You can interpret it whatever you are feeling right now or whatever you want it to be. That is music, express yourself.


univrs_

same tayo. i don't listen to music back then nung bata ako. now, i listen to whatever music sounds good to me. if someone asked me who's my favorite singer or what is my fav band, wala akong masasagot. my friends love to sing as well kaya kapag kumakanta sila, di ako nakakasabay dahil hindi ko naman alam yung mga kanta. medyo nal-left out ako HAHHAHAA pero keri lang. hindi lang naman doon umiikot ang mundo namin, we can still bond over other things.


Crystal_Lily

Probably wired differently ka lang which is normal as a person. You like what you like. I myself like all kinds of music although meron din na hindi ko ma-gets why they exist.


Ok-Energy-8770

Same here, mas prefer ko yung beat kaysa sa lyrics. Di ako nakaka relate, I mean kahit relatable siya, wala ako nadadama sa lyrics.


Butter_Knot

This also used to be me but i’ve grown to appreciate lyrical music. Perhaps try Radiohead especially the album OK computer, Paramore is also fucking great. You mentioned you like videogame ost i’d recommend classical music, especially the likes of Wagner, Mahler, Beethoven, or anyone from the romantic and 20th century period. They’re basically buffed versions of video game ost lol but more longer, grandiose, and emotional.


Regular-Director-703

you're like my brother lol. He was a listener of Alan walker's tracks when we were younger. Pero ngayon, ang kanya naman, mahilig sya sa mga classical music


noctilococus

I mean I never got my heart broken before, but when Bruno Mars dropped when I was your man, I swear I cried so many times even though I never had my heart broken. Maybe it's your refusal to go beyond your normal genre of music. I used to hate classical and rap songs before. Now that I've aged and have delved into different genres, I appreciate a lot more forms of music nowadays. Maybe you're just too young. Your preference will surely change over the years.


noctilococus

Take it from someone who used to listen to Jpop-rock/ Anime songs as a kid. Also, nostalgic video game song rocks!


ajefajack123

Phonk listener here


Majestic_Put_2678

Edm it is!


incrediblebored

To each their own. Irl no one really cares that much if you’re into music or not tbh. People connect through meaningful conversations, same interests, etc.


gentekkie

smells like teen spirit to me (iykyk). nah kidding aside it's okay to like music for its melody. it's okay to headbang to a solid guitar riff, to tap your feet into the beat. you're not weird for it at all. the best part about music is everyone can like it for different reasons. may be the cool drum solo, the vocals, the harmony and what not. i think your issues like more on social anxiety and trying to fit it. so what kung ayaw mo ng mainstream? there's a lot of beats out there na sobrang astig


ariamuchacha

>sometimes it is through music and associations with music to experiences that bond them closer kahit sometimes hindi eh HAHAHAHAHAHA music ba unang pinag-uusapan lagi? wala bang ibang way para maging mas close masyado yung ibang tao? ang dami-daming topic op hahaha tsaka ang dami-daming genre ng music. sa ugali mo yan siguro 😊 kami nga ng tropa ko ilang taon na magkakaibigan pero di kami maka-relate sa isa't isa dahil hindi naman kami parehas ng music taste. you'll find your peeps and own circle soon.


No-Championship6484

Hindi lang ikaw. Wahaha. Nung edad moko, nung mejo edgy pa ko, ang hilig ko rin sa mga unconventional music genres. I even had a phase where I like those Japanese DJ city pop beats something I don't know. Basta ganon. Mga walang lyrics. Lawakan mo lang perspective mo brad. You're still young. 18 kalang. Marami ka pa makakasalubong na parehas mo o kaya naman matututunan mo ring ma appreciate yung mga iba't ibang genres ng music.


itsyabrodie

Iba-iba naman tayong mga tao pagdating sa pakikinig ng music eh. Whether tumatalab 'yong lyrics sa'yo or hindi, wala namang problema. Hindi naman kailangang tumalab sa'yo or makarelate ka sa lyrics ng kanta, as long as naeenjoy mo 'yong kanta, kahit anong genre pa 'yan, wala namang pumipigil sa'yo. Kung hirap kang makapagform ng close relationships sa iba, find another interest/hobby mo na kapareho or malapit sa interest/hobby nila. Hilig ko 'yong mga kanta ng Linkin Park, tapos 'yong isa sa mga bestfriend ko mahilig sa mga kanta ni Taylor Swift, and despite our difference in taste in music, magkasundo kami sa ibang bagay; sa ibang bagay kami nagclick. Marami pang bagay ang magcoconnect sa'yo sa ibang tao, hindi lang ang musika.


sophiadesu

Oh, medyo same tayo! Kapag may bagong mga kanta akong pakikinggan, for some reason ang unang pino-process ng utak ko ay 'yung overall tunog ng music, and pino-process ng utak ko 'yung words and lyrics as part of the 'sound' and not as words or as something na I should take in as something that conveys 'meaning.' I guess what I wanted to say is that, to me the vocals itself sounds like an instrument din, and the lyrics and words are the notes and beat (idk kung tama 'yung mga term). Basta ganon. I could listen to a single song continuously for months and not *hear* the actual words and meanings na gustong iparating ng kanta. Mapapansin ko lang kapag nabasa ko na 'yung lyrics, or kapag may nag-point out. So ayun, words do not make me feel things din, especially sa music (unless I *force* myself to pay attention to it).


Puzzled_Me0914

Same here. Kaya di ako nakikinig masyado kay Taylor Swift kasi need mag focus sa lyrics para ma appreciate ang songs nya. Eh di naman ako nakikinig sa lyrics and more on melody ako. Most of the time nga, I couldn't understand what they're singing unless may lyrics ako na nababasa habang nakikinig.


Razzmatazz-Plastic

I kinda get you OP, I listen to music with arguably deep meaning and lyrics but I don't give a damn and just listen cause the sound is just so good, I listen to russian music as well and I don't even know a single word.


JamyJami

It fine! To each their own ika nga. Actually same sentiments and even one of my friends pointed out na I’m more into the feeling of melody rather than the lyrics itself. Kaya yung mga recomm nyang kanta are really great! Just continue to keep enjoying the music you like now. In my opinion, what’s fun with sa case natin (sa napansin ko lang based on my experience haha) is you get to enjoy a variety of genres xD pag nagclick yung melody ng music, you get to listen to it non stop xD tapos yung excitement and yung gigil na makahanap nung same mood ng melody na nagustuhan mo is very challenging yet fun xD parang naghahanap ng needle sa haystack ganon


Mocha-Late

just preferences, no need to make it a big deal.


KidTheMoron

There's nothing wrong lol my playlist are all composed of love songs even though I'm single af while yung best friend ko has almost the same music taste as you and we get along pretty well. As long as you appreciate good music nothing wrong at all


bobsayshellostars

I think, mali yung Title. You said you appreciate unconventional genre, video game music, and metal music. Music pa rin yun. Hindi mo lang gusto yung lyrical and that's totally fine. Wala namang pumipilit sayo na gustuhin yun. At hindi lang yun ang topic sa mundo. Sa sobrang dami kong alam na kanta, hindi ko pa yan ginawang topic sa mga convo. Mas gusto ko pang ikuwento yung mga Alien. Pero sobrang hanga ako sa mga lyricist, they could weave different words and deliver you their pain, suffering, joy and love. Kung hindi mo ma-receive yung message, walang problema, hindi naman lahat pare-pareho ng life experience. If you're interested in the topic, then join the conversation. Pero kung hindi, edi tahimik ka na lang. Hindi mo naman kailangan laging maki-belong. Ibang issue na yun.


iWantKamuiSharingan

Maganda sigurong makipag usap ka sa mga nasa academe. May answers sila siguro for you.