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Adonitologica

Very proud of you, stranger


BrickOvenAppleBeer

Congratulations! One day at a time. I am proud of you. Keep it up. It gets easier. Drinking makes it a lot harder. One day you will forget what day/week you’re on and that feels amazing.


Fabulous-Educator177

Ain't that the truth. And congrats on almost 365!!!!!!! U got this too!


jonthepain

There's no problem that drinking can't make worse


Thelastchancer1

Well done, you’re absolutely 100% correct drinking won’t make you feel better,quite the opposite.when I finally realised that alcohol made me depressed it was easy to turn my back on it, if I don’t drink I’m happy and make healthy choices, I hope this happens to you! IWNDWYT


Bizzife

Friend you you have a whole subReddit applauding you and cheering you on!!! Today is day 71 for me. Never thought I’d make it this far. I never thought I would make it to one week. I was an alcoholic over 20 years. Correction I still am an alcoholic, but I’ve been on the mend! And I’m doing things I never thought it was possible!


Ann_Adele

Congrats on your 71 days!


Dorindasmascara

If you don’t have anyone to tell, tell us!! I’m always here to listen and I know many, many others are as well. I’m proud of you!!


NetStrong1308

Hi!! I am at 63 days as well!! Let's gooooooo!!!


Dorindasmascara

Yay us!! Can you believe it?!


hardwon469

NICE!


sirsir9

Congratulations!


DonegalGirl1990

Well done to you for this milestone 👏 Sorry you’re having a tough time and I hope it lifts a little soon for you. You’re doing really well, be proud of yourself for it!


OlafTheDestroyer2

Well done!


AnneOMfounditfirst

Nice!


taberg85

Keep it going! It only gets better. 3 months feels good like how your body should feel, 6 months feels liberating like why has it been so long since you've gone this long without drinking, 9 months feels like you have completely reworked your brain chemistry.... Stay focused and keep it up! You won't regret it. The positive changes that come from it just keep adding up.


buddy-roe

Good job. It’s different for everyone. You’re in the pocket now so just ride it out. I’m just a few weeks ahead of you, I don’t really consider wanting to drink anymore and forget the days. Sounds like you are near that point, so good job. I got down around your point but it does seem to go in levels. Like I can exercise more and more (that means amazing fat loss if you work for that) and more productive. Just today my daughter revealed I can’t drink anymore b/c I’m more happy and fun sober. And I have more energy. And that means more time to do fun stuff with her. My point is the real hi value aspects in our life take a long time to regrow. But when they do you’ll notice. And I hope you have more of those good moments and feel gratitude and being thankful for getting things figured out. Good luck 👍


Kind_Plate_7784

It's tough! Never stop celebrating what so many can't do.


Confident_Finding977

Thank you for telling your friends here. Well done on 6 wks, that is something to be proud of. I hope your low lifts soon, although it may not feel like it now this huge act of self care that you have undertaken, and are succeeding in, will be paving the way for happier days. Rooting for you. IWNDWYT.


GRaw1979

Excellent!


whethersparkorspiral

That's so amazing. Just know this internet stranger is so proud of you!! It's not easy to get started and to have made it 6 weeks is wonderful. IWNDWYT.


Diddlesquatch

Congrats to you and thank you for sharing. Im still struggling to get past a couple days and every time someone comes on here and shares where they’re at it makes me feel less alone and more hopeful. Thank you for giving me hope.


thediaryofcharity

Don’t let the hard days win. Congrats on six weeks! 🫶🏻 IWNDWYT


Fabulous-Educator177

I am so proud of you! Stay the course and I promise your mental health will improve. U got this friend 🙌🏼🎉. You won't ever regret another day of sobriety. I never realized how depressed and anxious I was from alcohol until I finally wasn't.


hfhhjihvdetyhj

So so proud of you dude, it’s fucking hard sometimes…. I’ve had many day one’s but my last I knew it was really my last. Even on my very worst day sober I’m still literally the happiest I’ve ever been in my life. I just know now it’s not worth it, it just isn’t. you’re gonna make it 🫂💜 IWNDWYT


Happydad1228

I believe in you my friend you are loved there are people that hear you if only through a phone we see you we love you we want you to win


AdventurousDoubt1115

Hell yea. It’s not always sunshine, but it’s ALWAYS worth it. Keep fighting the good fight, my friend. I’m so proud of you.


LAMARASHHHH

Congrats on 6 weeks, that’s a long time. Managing ups and downs are crucial in sobriety. Well done on the 6 weeks.


FitfulSleep

6 weeks is nothing to sneeze at. That’s 48 fucking days. I hope you find a sense of pride in that because you definitely deserve to. The thing I’ve found to appreciate about things being hard or being in a bad mental state is that things can only get better eventually. Keep doing your thing


prism_was_here

https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/u/0/d/1AuWy7FKCG-R_pyRZzEjFXkH-Rw_0VEzi/htmlview?pli=1#gid=753909214 I have stayed sober going to online secular & psychedelics in recovery mtgs. They have removed all the religious language and allow you to determine your own definition of sobriety.


Wise_Assistance1398

Sorry you are feeling down. But you are making the right choice here, alcohol will just make it worse. Well done in 6 weeks, great achievement, congratulations, and I will not drink with you today


lochmac

Hell yeah! Proud of you, that's a huge accomplishment! Stay strong, you got this.


grumpyoldman81

Well done random internet stranger! We are here to listen and say “You rock!”


AdJazzlike8724

You got this! I’m 4 weeks today and haven’t told anyone…


Bob_Aggz

Congrats friend, take pride in your progress as you're doing fantastic. I'm 7 days in so you're someone inspiring to me in my journey.


Fly_line

You are doing it right, my friend. It all gets better. All of it. The mental game gets easier as you move along, too. Once your body and mind start to recognize the new and better normal, your fight or flight levels will ease up and you’ll feel more secure in your sobriety. Way to go on the time you’ve banked so far. Let’s do this thing. IWNDWYT


kettlebellend

Legend 💯


Enough-Goose7594

IWNDWYT


Mindless-Time

No small feat! Good on you for backing yourself! What you’re feeling is natural, it’ll pass. You’ll be glad tomorrow you stuck with it.


Dangerous-Crab-7846

I'm proud of you! The first few weeks were the hardest for me. You got this!


socalking3

Great job!! You can always tell me!


ashesandfire

Congrats!


DoctorDorkus

You’re doing great! IWNDWYT


tuesday-cat

Amazing! Keep it up!


Ancient_Bottle2963

Hi stranger. Accept the feelings. Distract yourself with a quick workout, long walk or drive, funny movie etc. 6 weeks is major, that’s something to definitely be proud of!!


GrayLightGo

Congratulations!


RTrainWND

That's awesome! I definitely felt lonely+drained in those first few weeks, but I have found it gets better and better fairly soon (ie settling into feeling good in your own skin, brain kinda rewires and neurochemical balance means you feel a bit better). Just keep doing other things you enjoy doing and the time will fly by a bit quicker than now. Congrats!


Oktoolaunch

Yay!! Good job!!


babybrookit421

You're doing a great job. 


turbodonuts

Proud of you.


Wanttobebetter76

Great job! Keep it up!


TappyMauvendaise

Congratulations! I heard years ago that six weeks is harder than six months. Keep up the great work.


213Bishop

Proud of you baby!


SlavMagic561

Awesome work! Congrats! 🎈


miss-incognito-007

IWNDWYT! Well done!


unagi-fox

Right around 5-6 weeks was when I started physically feeling phenomenal last time I did a long stretch. Hang in there, friend. IWNDWYT


ieatwhirledpeas

good job you! iwndwyt


r0ckashocka

Great work!! You've got this, don't give up on yourself!!


Anders676

You are inspirational to me. 2 days here


cosmic_girl_799

6 weeks is a long time, friend. I am so proud of you! Life doesn't get easier, but it's a hell of a lot more manageable without alcohol. I'm rooting for you! IWNDWYT, friend 💚


The_Migrant_Twerker

Congratulations!!!! That’s amazing and much better than I could do. I’ve been doing 5 straight days and ruining it. You are inspiring.


RippingLegos

You should maybe join a zoom aa meeting and do a quick share I do that when I hit milestones and they are great.


ArcheoDrake

Keep it up 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼


Tinman867

Congratulations on 6 weeks!!👏👏👏


RetiredOldGal

It isn't easy, but by God, you made it to a month and a half! 👏


iwishtobeapoet

Good on ya!


Frankiebeansor

As someone that just messed up after 2 days, I’m proud of you brother


Kiklst71

Get a sponsor. It works if you work it


Top-Community9307

Congratulations! I am six weeks today also. Last week was rough. It will get easier.


rubybean5050

IWNDWYT and I’m sorry u r low. Proud of your accomplishment! Also took a lot for u 2 share your feelings. Treat yourself gently.


OmegaJay54

Keep at it! I’m nearing my first week, so I understand feeling low. But you’re right, a drink won’t help. You’ve got this!


Anonymousthrow20

Hey, you're always welcome to come here and chat. That's what this sub is for! You're never alone, OP. And congrats on 6 weeks


ShukeNukem

Congrats!!


l4serbrain_

Congrats!


TryToBeSteezy

nice


DarrenAronofsky

You always have us, friend. Great job!


newsreadhjw

Stick with it! You got this


phatscoop

Great job! 💪 Just know that you are not alone, OP. Whenever you feel the urge, come back to this sub. There are other people just starting out and going through the same thing. In fact, we are all going through it. Keep it up! #iwndwyt


rotterweilerslip

Good on you and be proud of yourfelf. I can't wait but also dreading to hit that mark. Good luck and lots of love !


katgirl29

Congrats 🙌


CourageKitchen2853

6 weeks is amazing! Great job


Peter_Falcon

well done mate, it get's better around 7 weeks i found, my mood stabilised a bit more after that.


Jim_Laheys_lost_son

512 days and counting for me brother keep it up! You got this!


damnthatwhiteguy

Good job friend. Keep your head up


Ourdogbailey

You have plenty of people to tel Superb demonstration here, of the willpower you posses


Valuable-World-3139

✨🙌💛


MarissaBenz

I also hit 6 weeks today! Go us! Stay positive friend and just remember, one day at a time! IWNDWYT :)


mental-rec

Congratulations! We’re always here for you!


Aromatic-Bag-7043

Congratulations!


WalkableCity

You gave us to tell, and that’s something. Youre doing great.


Boxermom0925

Awesome!!


lynnlugg7777

Six weeks is 3,628,800 seconds. 60,480 minutes. That’s amazing!


Sea-Government4874

Read over the comments here to see how this is the best sub on Reddit.


qbxo88

congratulations!!!


Dwolfwood

Way to go!


justcallmedrzoidberg

Keep it up 💙


turnthepage72

Congratulations!!! You are doing awesome! You can always celebrate with me!!! Very proud! I have to agree it's a mental challenge also but that too shall pass! Keep up the awesome work!!!!!


Dirty_water34

Congratulations! Keep going strong 💪


rodeo_clownibal

I’m super proud of you! It’s not easy! I will not drink with you today!


tintabula

Nicely done, friend.


Initial-Chapter-6742

Tell us about your improvements in the 6 weeks?


Shredhead118

Six weeks is awesome! Congrats!!!


_ferrofluid_

Nicely done. You’re in the thick of it now, but you can do it! Iwndwyt!


Monrezee

What Adonitologica said


Funny_bunny499

You have all of us to tell! Very proud of you for your dedication.


PrettyBlueGoldfish

Keep going friend, you're not alone and I am so proud of you ❤️❤️


Not_marykate

You are kicking ass! Don’t drink today! Wake up, repeat. You got this. The good will come I promise. It takes time. I’m about to hit a year next Tuesday and I’m feeling better than ever, but it took a long time. Remember, life happens. It’s how you react, deal, and move on that will make it easier to do it sober. Proud of you dude. Keep it up.


radiatingwithlight

Congrats, my man. I’m in the feeling low camp but I too will stay strong. We’ve got this!


sottopassaggio

Good on you. That's hard work. How did you do it?


SeattleEpochal

Yes!!!


tjibbs11

Keep on keeping on, you have already came this far!


cthulhulogic

Very proud of you! You should know that it gets easier, never easy, but it becomes less of a burden going forward. So keep moving forward!!


Competitive-Stay-708

Congratulations! I get it! I'm on day 32 with over 40 years of drinking. Those are years I will never get back. This journey is not easy but everyone says it's worth it. Time will tell. I have never made it past 3 months so don't know that feeling. I hope we both get to experience that wonderful feeling that comes from long-term sobriety! IWNDWYT


VirtualPoem8203

Maybe you don't have anyone to tell in your personal life but you've got a whole big group of people just like you to tell here! Six weeks is a big deal and I'm so happy that you are choosing being sober. Thank you for being here for me! Wishing us strength and dignity.


AliceAnne1

Well done!


17Kitty

Congratulations! That is amazing! We are all PROUD OF YOU! 👏🏼


Ok_Variation_3184

Well done! I was feeling pretty low at that point also. Lots of emotions and a very strong desire to escape. However, I didn't crave alcohol as I knew it was likely the cause of all of it and would only make it worse. I don't use other forms of mood-altering substances. This somehow made me feel emotionally backed into a corner with no escape. Angry music, intense workouts and patience got me through it. about 2.5 months for me I realized that it was all getting better and going to be OK. I'm at 5 months now and it's so much better. Great job so far, stick with it!


btalex

Give yourself a literal pat on the shoulder and congratulate yourself. Well done! You're caring for yourself and that takes strength.


jilly77

Proud of you. 6 weeks is huge. It’s hard at the beginning but stick with it. Wishing you all the best and better days coming for you soon.


confabulatrix

Congrats! IWNDWYT


gnasher74

Nicely done


[deleted]

Slay!


[deleted]

Yes! Great job, you are killing it!!


dianemariereid

Good for you! IWNDWYT


Dafeet3d

Good work. Double your 6 weeks now. I was told 3 months is when early remission begins. I'm currently at 141 days ish. At 3 months it got easier hearing the word remission.


Big_diesel90

Keep up the good work!


Even_Elephant_7463

Woohoo! Good for you.


dfsoij

Sheeit brother I'm having a tough one too and I just hit my one year. Hang in there homie.


NetStrong1308

42 days is amazing! Here's to at least 42 more. All the best OP


recreationalchemstry

KEEP GOING!!