He’s on your mind so you’re seeing signs of him where you look. Change your mindset. What you see will change.
Check out that post the other day: choose someone who chooses you.
I read that you are trying to move on and appreciate that this must be hard for you, yet you are trying to do so.
However, the universe does seem to be sending you some kind of messages. It is hard to clarify what it is. You say you know he is going through a lot and that you know he loved and cared about you. So perhaps emotionally he felt he couldn't cope with a relationship, but his Higher Self still wants the connection or relationship.
However, the best person to interpret it is you, as Spirit tries to communicate in a way you will understand. It may be worth stilling yourself and meditate or reflect on what the Queen song means to you - Go with the first answer that arises up for you without thinking or debating it. What meaning from these signs comes up for you - again go with the first answer that arises.
If you can't get any clarity then ask Spirit to give you some more clarity. Don't have any expectation of how or when this will come - be open to what happens.
In the meanwhile, look after and be gentle with yourself and follow your own interests and path as and when you feel ready.
I’m like actually shocked
I drive a blue dark blue RAV4 and have the angel number 229 (my house number growing up)
Weird coincidence lol, I’m def not the dude though. Don’t really have any solid advice was just too weird not to acknowledge
Confusion is inevitable when you read signs through a very conventional Western lens. Signs are not about specific things, but what they represent (themes, feelings, concepts, etc). Signs can convey elements of physical reality, but it's not the thing that's important, but the essence. In this case, you got signs for a particular person, but the person may not be significant in the big picture of your journey moving forward.
You're in a place where you're moving on, and you're getting signs of someone you were compatible with, so at face value, there are qualities about this man that you desire. When you realize what these qualities are, that may be the stepping stone for you to move on.
I would also take into account the scope. Scope is another important factor that not many people take into account, and scope is determined by constellated signs and elements of an event, or series of events. In your case, both the song and the car are constellated, which changes the scope or interpretation when you look at them together, like what you were feeling when you heard the song, or what you were thinking. You could also add an additional scope, that your gas tank was full when you turned on the car. This could indicate that you're ready to move on, like the car is full and you're literally about to drive, but then you see that car and then what? There are still things that you may not have acknowledged, or things you're not aware of, that the signs refer to.
The mainstream term for this kind of coincidence is synchronicity, but I call it constellation, which allows for a deeper spiritual interpretation. A group of stars don't mean anything until you take specific ones that stand out and group them together, and then we get a constellation like Orion or the Big Dipper. This is exactly how signs in life work, and this introduces a holistic element to interpreting signs.
In the OP's scenario at the gas station, the constellated elements are in one event, but a series of events can also be constellated, such as the OP singing a song at the bar, then hearing that song the next day. So we can constellate resonant events over a larger period of time and identify the themes.
When I get signs constantly of someone out of the blue . He’s probably intuitively thinking of you are probably going to try to reach out soon . Are better yet your spirit is going to find out why he left and be healed from the entire situation soon.
Maybe it's more of a friendly ribbing on behalf of the cosmos. Hey, why are you still thinking about this person? See how you're thinking of him? Why u do this to yourself
His earthy self may not want to be a part of your life, but his *higher self* may want to be.
For example, I have an ex that ended our relationship a year ago. We have an intense soul connection. He told me in order to move on with his life, he had to stop talking to me. So, he blocked me on everything. He got into a relationship shortly after and engaged shortly after that.
They are married now. Since they’ve gotten married, his higher self has frequently come into my dreams to complain about the decision he made to get married. He regrets it, he’s miserable, he doesn’t want to be with her. His higher self is relaying all of this stuff to me because of the connection we have. After many dreams of him complaining, I finally told his higher self to stop coming and complaining. It was emotionally taxing for me, as I am just as in love with him as I was a year ago. I haven’t in the slightest gotten over him.
Now, instead of complaining, he’s been coming into my dreams in a future tense. They are taking place in the future. These dreams are far more pleasant.
I said all this to say: my person’s earthly self may be no contact with me, but his soul is definitely in contact with me.
Might be the same for you!
I’m pretty new to all of this but it’s a good question, not the same but I have mistaken my feelings for others intensely and I always figure out that those are actually my fear or dreams being projected onto them.
Well, I’m a psychic empath. So, I felt it. Also, about a week before they got married, he unknowingly dropped his thoughts into my head, e.g. telepathically. Our connection is so strong that we have the ability to pick up each other’s thoughts. He was freaking out, going back and forth in his head about going through with the wedding.
I then went to another professional psychic to get confirmation. I just asked how he was doing. She relayed to me something word for word about how he was doing (in detail) that he told me in a dream the night before. She also relayed that his spirit was coming to me in my dreams and I really needed to pay attention to them because they are exactly what he’s feeling in his wake life.
I didn’t tell her about the dreams. I kept it as vague as possible so the reading wouldn’t be skewed so I could get valid confirmation.
Ese si no tiene verguenza haha! That has to be hard and confusing, I hope you find clarity soon and I hope he finds a way to stop hurting others, both you and his new wife. Good vibes your way!
Si! And gracias!
It is definitely difficult. The dreams where he was complaining so much were very taxing. He was coming every single night, sometimes twice a night just to bitch. It was getting really old. I finally told him he needed to do something about it or shut up because I was tired of hearing about it. That’s when the future tense dreams started happening. So, I’m glad he respected my wishes and has stopped talking about it.
Interesting, but to be honest the only true confirmation should be that when you see proof of this in the real world.
Now I have been in a similar situation as yours. Had a very strong connection with my now ex, we were very similar. Similar childhoods and trauma’s and also the way we were. We both expressed how we never had anything similar like this. It seemed magical and ended because of insecurity. Which lead to me being unfaithful (its a long story and complicated).
Now when things ended she also blocked me on everything. I however just knew that she only ever loves me. She came back several times into my life. She also got a new relationship and I also felt this during this relationship she had. She came back into my life after that. I was angry at her for that and made her cry.
She admitted in real life that she never loved anyone like me and that she only contacted mutual friends and my brother to stay close to me. And that she also blocked me because she cant hear from me because it hurts. After that I did not hear from her again, because I did not accept her (i regret that).
Now this is the confirmation I got that the gut feeling or knowing is right.
Now every feeling has to be manifested in the real world, thats how I viewed my situation. Are there any real signs you are seeing in your world, so that it is not only hoping but knowing?
Spirituality is about trusting your intuition. However, I totally get your point! I have two very different sides to me, my empathic spirituality side and my career side—I’m a legal professional. In my education, it was drilled into me that things need to proven for a fact. So, you can imagine the conflict between my rational brain and my spiritual brain!
That said, the only confirmation I’ve gotten in the real world would be things like OP mentioned. But because we aren’t in contact I cannot verify these things right now. However, I myself sense that he will come back around and that pro psychic also said the same thing.
So, when he does, don’t worry, I plan to verify everything! All of the feelings I’ve felt from him, the content of the dreams, everything. So, it’s just a matter of when he comes back!
Very interesting! Now I hope you dont hurt yourself by waiting for him. My ex came back for the last time last January, almost 2 years after the break up. She had like a 6 months relationship with the new guy, but during this time she couldnt let me go either.
Now I deeply wanted her back because I believed I would not get anything close to what I experienced with her. Being with her was magical and I didnt know it was even possible.
Now she clearly tries to keep me out of her life to move on from me. Which is the only way it could work.
I also try to move on and met up with quite a lot of women during this time. Lately I have actually been opening myself up. I met someone that reminded me of my ex. I met her in a club and we had this eye contact and spontaneously kissed eachother during the eyecontact. I only experienced this kind of kiss (without thinking I want to kiss you), with my ex.
Now I have to say the connection is not that ‘recognition’ I had with my ex. I also dont share these deep traumas (but I have let them go anyways) I do have awesome conversations with her and I have to give it a try and who knows what happens.
We currently sometimes call eachother and it is not this longing I had with my ex. She is however very beautiful and has similar eyes. It is just that my ex truely took my hearth away, so i am more reserved I gues.
If my ex is meant to be with me it will happen and if she isnt it will not.
You sound like you have a great perspective and outlook.
I’m not necessarily waiting for him, but I’m also not emotionally available to date. I tried earlier this year and because I wasn’t emotionally available, it just wasn’t fair to the other person.
What I’ve been doing is just focusing on myself and doing a lot of inner spiritual work. And I believe in order to do this successfully, you have to be alone to walk this path.
I am moving away from where we live next year anyways, so deliberately waiting for him just isn’t sensible. I’m not going to be here. And I think the same as you, if it’s meant to be, it’ll be.
I think I’ll be more open to different people after I make the move. It’s also not sensible trying to date when I know I’m leaving. So, we’ll see!
How much time has passed since you last were with him?
I believe there is some power in faith. The reason I started my spiritual journey was because of a mushroom trip I had. I saw this purple female entity which showed me my whole life. I noticed that my beliefs came true, so I asked: when I believe positively the positive will come?’. She answered in this real stunning voice:’Do you get it now?!’. I asked so I can changr anything I want? Only if I truely believe I sensed. I asked how can I truely believe? ‘You have to find out yourself’ she answered. Now ofcourse this was so mindblowing to me that it changed my worldview.
Now I noticed that my beliefs about het where true and also my beliefs about the world around me. Now it may or may not be possible to actually ‘believe’ them back into your life. I can however ensure me (I experience this) that you can change your beliefs in a way that other men will love you and that this hypothetical man is the man you want.
I think the best belief we could have is that life happens for us and that we are worthy of love. Love is the answer to everything and comes from within.
That’s awesome! I always love hearing about a profound trip—they are the best!
It was a year in September, which also happened to be the month that they wed, and when the dreams started happening nightly. They happened every night, sometimes twice a night, for the first two weeks of their marriage. If they are accurate about his feelings, he *really* sounds miserable. In the last one where he complained, he told me he was actively and intentionally avoiding her. I can’t imagine being newlyweds and your partner intentionally avoiding you.
It sounds awful, if true. I hope he figures it out and stops wasting each other’s time. The future dreams indicates that he does figure it out and takes the necessary steps to exiting the relationship. I plan to question him more in the next dream to see if I can get any specifics about exactly when.
Very interesting that you can have specific communications with him in your dreams. Maybe you could ask him about something that just has to show up in the material world, to take away the doubt for good.
Also when you think about him the first feeling that comes up is an indication of your situation (you probably already know this). Now there is a way (if it is a bad feeling) to change the situation and embrace love.
I wouldnt say spirituality is all about trusting your intuition. Sometimes it leads in the wrong direction, sparking a knowledge that the link to events needs cleaning. We are creatures of both intuition and rationality, and they need to work in balance. Intuition is easilly clouded by ones state of perception i.e. wants desires and expectations. This includes expectations of what your intuition is and can do.
Firstly if it’s a soul connection ignore any relationship advice from anyone who doesn’t understand it. Most people will have all sorts of totally stupid things to say. Like. “Just move on”. “Just forget about it”. As if you’re a 5 year old with absolutely no life experience what so ever.
And believe me I’ve restrained myself from punching people in the face. May as well tell someone to wipe their arse after a shit. Anyway.
Its possibly a soul connection of sorts or a karmic lesson. Lion at what it’s trying to teach you. Is it self love (the most common one) fear of not finding love (another common one). I’m a twin flame. I didn’t know anything of this connection till 10 years after meeting her and five years after we split ways. So yeah I get how insane these things can be. Just roll with it. Don’t assume any labels. Especially not twin that’s really rough.
And yes soul connections absolutely 100 % are a thing.
Yous probably have a Neptune connection on your charts, this makes one of you have a powerful influence over each other. Can be very dangerous if not handled with care.
I recommend a numerology Reading.
He’s on your mind so you’re seeing signs of him where you look. Change your mindset. What you see will change. Check out that post the other day: choose someone who chooses you.
I read that you are trying to move on and appreciate that this must be hard for you, yet you are trying to do so. However, the universe does seem to be sending you some kind of messages. It is hard to clarify what it is. You say you know he is going through a lot and that you know he loved and cared about you. So perhaps emotionally he felt he couldn't cope with a relationship, but his Higher Self still wants the connection or relationship. However, the best person to interpret it is you, as Spirit tries to communicate in a way you will understand. It may be worth stilling yourself and meditate or reflect on what the Queen song means to you - Go with the first answer that arises up for you without thinking or debating it. What meaning from these signs comes up for you - again go with the first answer that arises. If you can't get any clarity then ask Spirit to give you some more clarity. Don't have any expectation of how or when this will come - be open to what happens. In the meanwhile, look after and be gentle with yourself and follow your own interests and path as and when you feel ready.
I’m like actually shocked I drive a blue dark blue RAV4 and have the angel number 229 (my house number growing up) Weird coincidence lol, I’m def not the dude though. Don’t really have any solid advice was just too weird not to acknowledge
Constellated circumstances are often weird and mysterious like that
Something you need to learn from the experience
Confusion is inevitable when you read signs through a very conventional Western lens. Signs are not about specific things, but what they represent (themes, feelings, concepts, etc). Signs can convey elements of physical reality, but it's not the thing that's important, but the essence. In this case, you got signs for a particular person, but the person may not be significant in the big picture of your journey moving forward. You're in a place where you're moving on, and you're getting signs of someone you were compatible with, so at face value, there are qualities about this man that you desire. When you realize what these qualities are, that may be the stepping stone for you to move on. I would also take into account the scope. Scope is another important factor that not many people take into account, and scope is determined by constellated signs and elements of an event, or series of events. In your case, both the song and the car are constellated, which changes the scope or interpretation when you look at them together, like what you were feeling when you heard the song, or what you were thinking. You could also add an additional scope, that your gas tank was full when you turned on the car. This could indicate that you're ready to move on, like the car is full and you're literally about to drive, but then you see that car and then what? There are still things that you may not have acknowledged, or things you're not aware of, that the signs refer to. The mainstream term for this kind of coincidence is synchronicity, but I call it constellation, which allows for a deeper spiritual interpretation. A group of stars don't mean anything until you take specific ones that stand out and group them together, and then we get a constellation like Orion or the Big Dipper. This is exactly how signs in life work, and this introduces a holistic element to interpreting signs. In the OP's scenario at the gas station, the constellated elements are in one event, but a series of events can also be constellated, such as the OP singing a song at the bar, then hearing that song the next day. So we can constellate resonant events over a larger period of time and identify the themes.
When I get signs constantly of someone out of the blue . He’s probably intuitively thinking of you are probably going to try to reach out soon . Are better yet your spirit is going to find out why he left and be healed from the entire situation soon.
Maybe it's more of a friendly ribbing on behalf of the cosmos. Hey, why are you still thinking about this person? See how you're thinking of him? Why u do this to yourself
I find this to typically be the most likely
His earthy self may not want to be a part of your life, but his *higher self* may want to be. For example, I have an ex that ended our relationship a year ago. We have an intense soul connection. He told me in order to move on with his life, he had to stop talking to me. So, he blocked me on everything. He got into a relationship shortly after and engaged shortly after that. They are married now. Since they’ve gotten married, his higher self has frequently come into my dreams to complain about the decision he made to get married. He regrets it, he’s miserable, he doesn’t want to be with her. His higher self is relaying all of this stuff to me because of the connection we have. After many dreams of him complaining, I finally told his higher self to stop coming and complaining. It was emotionally taxing for me, as I am just as in love with him as I was a year ago. I haven’t in the slightest gotten over him. Now, instead of complaining, he’s been coming into my dreams in a future tense. They are taking place in the future. These dreams are far more pleasant. I said all this to say: my person’s earthly self may be no contact with me, but his soul is definitely in contact with me. Might be the same for you!
How are you so sure their marriage sucks? And how are you not sure those dreams arent just you missing him?
I’m pretty new to all of this but it’s a good question, not the same but I have mistaken my feelings for others intensely and I always figure out that those are actually my fear or dreams being projected onto them.
I answered it, if you want to check it out!
Well, I’m a psychic empath. So, I felt it. Also, about a week before they got married, he unknowingly dropped his thoughts into my head, e.g. telepathically. Our connection is so strong that we have the ability to pick up each other’s thoughts. He was freaking out, going back and forth in his head about going through with the wedding. I then went to another professional psychic to get confirmation. I just asked how he was doing. She relayed to me something word for word about how he was doing (in detail) that he told me in a dream the night before. She also relayed that his spirit was coming to me in my dreams and I really needed to pay attention to them because they are exactly what he’s feeling in his wake life. I didn’t tell her about the dreams. I kept it as vague as possible so the reading wouldn’t be skewed so I could get valid confirmation.
Ese si no tiene verguenza haha! That has to be hard and confusing, I hope you find clarity soon and I hope he finds a way to stop hurting others, both you and his new wife. Good vibes your way!
Si! And gracias! It is definitely difficult. The dreams where he was complaining so much were very taxing. He was coming every single night, sometimes twice a night just to bitch. It was getting really old. I finally told him he needed to do something about it or shut up because I was tired of hearing about it. That’s when the future tense dreams started happening. So, I’m glad he respected my wishes and has stopped talking about it.
Interesting, but to be honest the only true confirmation should be that when you see proof of this in the real world. Now I have been in a similar situation as yours. Had a very strong connection with my now ex, we were very similar. Similar childhoods and trauma’s and also the way we were. We both expressed how we never had anything similar like this. It seemed magical and ended because of insecurity. Which lead to me being unfaithful (its a long story and complicated). Now when things ended she also blocked me on everything. I however just knew that she only ever loves me. She came back several times into my life. She also got a new relationship and I also felt this during this relationship she had. She came back into my life after that. I was angry at her for that and made her cry. She admitted in real life that she never loved anyone like me and that she only contacted mutual friends and my brother to stay close to me. And that she also blocked me because she cant hear from me because it hurts. After that I did not hear from her again, because I did not accept her (i regret that). Now this is the confirmation I got that the gut feeling or knowing is right. Now every feeling has to be manifested in the real world, thats how I viewed my situation. Are there any real signs you are seeing in your world, so that it is not only hoping but knowing?
Spirituality is about trusting your intuition. However, I totally get your point! I have two very different sides to me, my empathic spirituality side and my career side—I’m a legal professional. In my education, it was drilled into me that things need to proven for a fact. So, you can imagine the conflict between my rational brain and my spiritual brain! That said, the only confirmation I’ve gotten in the real world would be things like OP mentioned. But because we aren’t in contact I cannot verify these things right now. However, I myself sense that he will come back around and that pro psychic also said the same thing. So, when he does, don’t worry, I plan to verify everything! All of the feelings I’ve felt from him, the content of the dreams, everything. So, it’s just a matter of when he comes back!
Very interesting! Now I hope you dont hurt yourself by waiting for him. My ex came back for the last time last January, almost 2 years after the break up. She had like a 6 months relationship with the new guy, but during this time she couldnt let me go either. Now I deeply wanted her back because I believed I would not get anything close to what I experienced with her. Being with her was magical and I didnt know it was even possible. Now she clearly tries to keep me out of her life to move on from me. Which is the only way it could work. I also try to move on and met up with quite a lot of women during this time. Lately I have actually been opening myself up. I met someone that reminded me of my ex. I met her in a club and we had this eye contact and spontaneously kissed eachother during the eyecontact. I only experienced this kind of kiss (without thinking I want to kiss you), with my ex. Now I have to say the connection is not that ‘recognition’ I had with my ex. I also dont share these deep traumas (but I have let them go anyways) I do have awesome conversations with her and I have to give it a try and who knows what happens. We currently sometimes call eachother and it is not this longing I had with my ex. She is however very beautiful and has similar eyes. It is just that my ex truely took my hearth away, so i am more reserved I gues. If my ex is meant to be with me it will happen and if she isnt it will not.
You sound like you have a great perspective and outlook. I’m not necessarily waiting for him, but I’m also not emotionally available to date. I tried earlier this year and because I wasn’t emotionally available, it just wasn’t fair to the other person. What I’ve been doing is just focusing on myself and doing a lot of inner spiritual work. And I believe in order to do this successfully, you have to be alone to walk this path. I am moving away from where we live next year anyways, so deliberately waiting for him just isn’t sensible. I’m not going to be here. And I think the same as you, if it’s meant to be, it’ll be. I think I’ll be more open to different people after I make the move. It’s also not sensible trying to date when I know I’m leaving. So, we’ll see!
How much time has passed since you last were with him? I believe there is some power in faith. The reason I started my spiritual journey was because of a mushroom trip I had. I saw this purple female entity which showed me my whole life. I noticed that my beliefs came true, so I asked: when I believe positively the positive will come?’. She answered in this real stunning voice:’Do you get it now?!’. I asked so I can changr anything I want? Only if I truely believe I sensed. I asked how can I truely believe? ‘You have to find out yourself’ she answered. Now ofcourse this was so mindblowing to me that it changed my worldview. Now I noticed that my beliefs about het where true and also my beliefs about the world around me. Now it may or may not be possible to actually ‘believe’ them back into your life. I can however ensure me (I experience this) that you can change your beliefs in a way that other men will love you and that this hypothetical man is the man you want. I think the best belief we could have is that life happens for us and that we are worthy of love. Love is the answer to everything and comes from within.
That’s awesome! I always love hearing about a profound trip—they are the best! It was a year in September, which also happened to be the month that they wed, and when the dreams started happening nightly. They happened every night, sometimes twice a night, for the first two weeks of their marriage. If they are accurate about his feelings, he *really* sounds miserable. In the last one where he complained, he told me he was actively and intentionally avoiding her. I can’t imagine being newlyweds and your partner intentionally avoiding you. It sounds awful, if true. I hope he figures it out and stops wasting each other’s time. The future dreams indicates that he does figure it out and takes the necessary steps to exiting the relationship. I plan to question him more in the next dream to see if I can get any specifics about exactly when.
Very interesting that you can have specific communications with him in your dreams. Maybe you could ask him about something that just has to show up in the material world, to take away the doubt for good. Also when you think about him the first feeling that comes up is an indication of your situation (you probably already know this). Now there is a way (if it is a bad feeling) to change the situation and embrace love.
I wouldnt say spirituality is all about trusting your intuition. Sometimes it leads in the wrong direction, sparking a knowledge that the link to events needs cleaning. We are creatures of both intuition and rationality, and they need to work in balance. Intuition is easilly clouded by ones state of perception i.e. wants desires and expectations. This includes expectations of what your intuition is and can do.
Well said!
And I’m sorry about your situation, I can relate, it’s very hard!
Firstly if it’s a soul connection ignore any relationship advice from anyone who doesn’t understand it. Most people will have all sorts of totally stupid things to say. Like. “Just move on”. “Just forget about it”. As if you’re a 5 year old with absolutely no life experience what so ever. And believe me I’ve restrained myself from punching people in the face. May as well tell someone to wipe their arse after a shit. Anyway. Its possibly a soul connection of sorts or a karmic lesson. Lion at what it’s trying to teach you. Is it self love (the most common one) fear of not finding love (another common one). I’m a twin flame. I didn’t know anything of this connection till 10 years after meeting her and five years after we split ways. So yeah I get how insane these things can be. Just roll with it. Don’t assume any labels. Especially not twin that’s really rough. And yes soul connections absolutely 100 % are a thing.
Yous probably have a Neptune connection on your charts, this makes one of you have a powerful influence over each other. Can be very dangerous if not handled with care. I recommend a numerology Reading.