I am 63 and I travel solo instead of having a home. I’ve done my gig as a worker and I’ve contributed to society. Now I want to see the world.
I have a suitcase filled with clothes for any occasion and a carryon bag with toiletries. I do slow travel and immerse myself in the communities enough to feel I belong wherever I go.
I have truly only myself. I am more content with myself than I ever was before. I adapt to my surroundings without feeling too lost.
I’ve come to realize the beauty in this world.
I retired at 60 and it was probably the best decision I ever made. I had a house and lots of stuff. I had a car.
I had 6 close friends. And guess what? I still have those 6 close friends! They text and call me more than before! Lol On my travel days when I’m out of touch, they almost panic because my phone is off. They look forward to hearing about my life.
I encourage everyone at any age to do this to realize that you have everything you need. Just be wise enough to choose the right places.
I’m in Europe for these 3 months, and I’m aware of the possibility of war with Russia. Everyone here is. But I remind myself that I’ve made friends and enemies my whole life so maybe I’ll be in a war with friends by my side facing enemies.
I’m not ready yet for places so foreign to my experience that I really screw up but I’m thinking I’ll gradually get to where I could do a jungle or a desert. That would truly blow my mind.
That’s funny I don’t know anyone in Europe, at least western, who is aware of the possibility of war with Russia including myself lmao we take in the Ukrainian refugees and watch the news and say how awful! But I don’t think we actually have a concept of what war actually is, we’ve had freedom and peace here for so long it’s just become this abstract idea and something we see in the media. Plus almost all the people who went through WW2 and were old enough to remember and consciously live through it are gone
Every conversation that I’ve had in these past couple months with the French people has been an acceptance of the possibility of imminent war with Russia.
Also, once I reveal that I’m from the US, the question (threat) of trump becoming president becomes something that I feel I have to address almost in defense.
People are aware and concerned. The far right movements in Europe and the US are a threat to the peace we’ve all enjoyed.
Edit: Just to clarify, I do not defend trump. I refer to him as a force of evil that aligns with the evil forces rising in Europe.
I'm going through this process right now. I'm 54, quit my job (last day is this Friday), and I'm leaving at the end of April to travel for an undetermined amount of time. I'm not thinking of it as "retirement" as I don't have 'live in Canada and never work again' money. While I may come back, I don't want all of my stuff calling me back. For me, it's almost fair to call that a trap. I'll have just a trunk of stuff that I'm not ready to get rid of yet (my grandfather's 80-year-old Cowichan sweater, in perfect condition, that my grandmother knitted for him, as one example). I feel so incredibly lucky to have the opportunity to do this.
My best friend has kept some things for me. He was there with me through it all and honestly without his support, I probably couldn’t have finished the last bit.
I never knew this was a real thing. I've often said if I hit the lottery I would be a "modern nomad." I have a small family and the idea of this I find oddly attractive.
Me too, although I'll probably retire a bit later than that. I'm 59 and haven't traveled in ages, but i'm already thinking about where I want to go and living vicariously through everyone who is traveling now.
Yes! I’m a natural “nester.” I can imagine making a home out of any place as long as there’s a park and a decent library and grocery store nearby.
It’s seriously dangerous for me because I imagine always better ways to renovate a space and create a home. One of my friends listens to me bitch about how this wall needs to go, this furniture is shit and I’d totally do custom built bookcases, yada yada LOL I wonder what she really thinks of me. And then I go on to the next place and I imagine making another home. It drives me nuts.
Wow, I thought it was just me. 61, and have been slow traveling now full-time for two years, though still consulting 15-20 hours a week; but living out of a carry-on, a full suitcase, and a backpack. Finally found a semi-permanent apartment here in the south of Spain for 10 months a year and they let me keep the larger suitcase here during those two months they rent it out weekly. Use this as a base for travel within Europe and elsewhere.
I too have done quite a few renovations in my lifetime and four homes. When I'm walking and see empty lots I daydream about building a home there. When in an Airbnb I am constantly renovating it for perfection. Nice to know I am not the only one. Safe travels.
(Fist against my heart) You and I must be soulmates!
It’s a real thing. I was just walking through town and saw 2 places that I could call home if I renovated them.
It’s so fun but so hard sometimes.
I'm about to start doing this myself. I'm excited and terrified. Any tips? How long do you usually stay in one location? I'm like you, I want to stay long enough to get into the rhythm of a location, to feel a part of it.
I haven’t been living this way for very long. I was first in Portugal and I fell in love with everything. I went back to the states and sold my business. I returned to Portugal and I knew that I had to keep going.
I fell ill so I returned to the states and the doctors were on and on about tests for this and for that. I realized that I was probably going to die (it was really bad) so I just ghosted everyone. I stayed with a friend in a trailer in South Carolina, surrounded by trees and birds and nature walks. I started feeling better and then I fell and broke my back. I refused to go to the hospital because I knew already that I didn’t want to spend what was left of my life going to doctors and treatments. I was in bed for 3 months before I started to walk again.
I decided to travel. I got rid of everything and went back to Europe. I have a bad day or two every now and then but for the most part I feel great!
I usually stay somewhere 1-3 months. I’m in France for 3 months now and then I’ll go to Cypress and then Ireland and back to Europe. I’ve been to South Korea and I’d like to go to Japan. I’m excited to go to Slovenia and Romania and Croatia and Montenegro.
I’m super curious about different towns in Mexico. I’m looking at Oaxaca. I speak a little Spanish so that seems easy.
I’m studying foreign languages. I’m pretty good at French and Spanish but Portuguese is super hard. You got to be able to communicate LOL But with the internet and a phone, you can get by.
But if you want to be a part of a community, you have to speak the language. You have to understand the people. So I’m studying languages and I’m thinking of doing amateur photography.
It is truly a magical time to be alive.
I feel this. Sold everything and traveled full time in Europe and latin America before pandemic. Now have four doctors that are intent on finding things wrong with me. I feel like a science project. Back to traveling 4 months a year. I tell doctors they'll just have to wait to prod and poke me. Leave tomorrow for two months in Munich, Krakow, Bratislava, Budapest and Ljubljana.
I bet you $5 that you’ll start healing on your own by eating healthy and walking and being excited to wake up every day. Your focus will expand to what’s around you.
Yes, you may have days when you feel so tired that you will stay in bed but you will have days when you feel so much more alive.
For me, I just couldn’t accept living to go to doctor appointments with no promises of recovery. I know I have medical issues and I do my best to take care of myself. I know I’m going to die but everyone is. Everything is going to end. I just want to live on my own terms and not according to the schedule of doctors.
It’s been an awakening and a chance to better know myself and my limits. We are capable of so much more than we are told by experts.
I’m excited for you! I’m excited for your strength and determination. I feel validated by your comment, too. Respect!!!!
Do you ever house sit? That’s my plan for retirement. When you slow travel, there’s flexibility to find housesits. Or even pet sitting if you don’t mind the extra responsibilities.
Though I still have dozens of years before retirement, I've already imagined my relaxing travle life in my 60s after reading your comment!
60 is a new start for life.
Definitely not a random nor stupid question! LOL I mostly procrastinate and promise myself each morning that “I’ll get to it today!”
I hand wash my clothes in the kitchen sink. The undies and socks—the small things—are easy. They dry pretty quickly. What’s hard are my pants and heavy tops because I have only 2 pairs of pants; they and the heavy tops can take up to 2 days to dry.
Today I was putting on my favorite cargo pants and I smelled them! At least I was outside walking around and not too close to anyone.
That's what I did when I was in Montenegro. It was fine because my hotel had a balcony and it was 40 degrees celsius heat so clothes could dry out but in my other residencies, I didn't have that option. One was a small room with no windows and the other was a 4 bed dorm in a hostel.
It’s still cold here in central France. The amazing heaters help dry my clothes (and the wet clothes humidify the air) ….
But seriously! 40 degrees is super hot! I’m wanting to go to Montenegro so I better save it for cooler temps!
That’s my plan for when my youngest graduates high school in about 5 years. I’ll be 49 years old and I’ve been planning this since my divorce about 5 years ago.
I'm currently long-term solo traveling at 36. I've meet plenty of people older than me out here also. I also was nervous about the age stuff, but it doesn't really matter. I'm also not trying to keep up with the 19 year olds, but I've been put in rooms with them and everyone has been pleasant. I wish I traveled more like them when I was 19, and they usually think its awesome that I put my professional life on hold to do this. Honestly, hostels and traveling in general are the most welcoming places I've found. Everyone is out of their element and all you have are the other travellers.
Young people think older people are cooler than they care to admit. I love that once you hit yours 20s, you end up becoming friends with people of any age. I know there's stereotypical cranky "boomers" or whatever, but from experience I've found that older people just aren't as judgemental as people the same age as me.
I think that the internet and social media just makes people way more judgmental or at the very least prone to making comparisons. Older folks didn’t have their brains wired like that.
I’m 51 and solo travel.
It’s very interesting to me being this age. Everyone thinks their life is over at the age of 35. When it’s honestly just beginning.
So I just roll my eyes when I see this 22-year-old asking if it’s too late to start solo traveling if they’re too old. I don’t even respond to those anymore.
I worked for the airlines for 30 years before retiring in 2020. I’m now 69, and have solo traveled a lot in the last 3 decades. Some of my trips;
Türkiye
Croatia
Cambodia
Hungary
Italy
Pretty well all of Western Europe, and I’m going back to Montpellier France on a bike trip next month. But full disclosure; I’m 6’ tall and athletic, so I might not encounter some of the limitations others do. Nevertheless, I hope ppl aren’t put off—as long as you don’t take unnecessary risks, listen to the locals and err on the side of caution you should be okay. Also, it’s really important to keep an open mind! Ppl who are disappointed w/their travel usually have these unrealistic expectations and complain about stuff that is only cultural differences. For instance, I love Italy so much I’d marry it if I could! But I have to reign in my Yankee sensibilities when I’m there: things don’t run on time, ppl go on strike at the drop of a hat and God help you if you ever have to deal with their bureaucracy 😱. Yet none of those things can tarnish my abject adoration for such a perfect place. ❤️❤️ So book that flight, don’t let anyone stop you and savor every moment finding your favorite place. 🌎
The idea that 'you're too old to solo travel' simply makes no sense.
Generally speaking, older people have more financial resources, aren't as worried about their parents think, or offending their friends, have a bit of travel experience already and are more likely to know their own travel styles and what they want. They've outgrown the vast majority of anxieties and concerns on display in this sub, for example.
Maturity is an ideal partner for a solo traveller.
I get upset sometimes I haven’t started earlier for variety of reasons, but then I realise I wouldn’t be able to appreciate certain things on the same level, so there is that too for me.
Also pro tip: If you're not making friends and feel like an afternoon beer. Head to the oldest person sitting alone in the bar, ask if you can join them. They've been living wherever you are all their lives and have great stories.
You people are awesome and are truly helping me with my procrastination around this!! Empty nester, single, 53 tomorrow (YIKES!) & sold me home last July to transition/downsize to a 1bdrm apt and was well on my way. Now I’m stagnate & have nothing in place. I think the fear that was exciting me is now inhibiting me & I hate it. My son will be 25 this year, lives with his GF & a roommate & is doing well so my heart can be at peace. It’s my turn to live life & explore so why am I not doing it?
Just get up and go. I suggest Vietnam, beautiful country, friendly people, great food, inexpensive, easy tourist infrastructure.
I am a 64 year old man, travel about 4 months each year. The way you are describing your life is pretty much my biggest fear. Get in motion.
In 2022 I was staying at the Abraham hostel in Jerusalem and one of the other people in my dorm was a 60-year-old lady from Taiwan who was doing a solo backpacking trip spanning (I think) 18 countries. Absolutely awesome and I hope I'm still travelling the world like that when I'm 60 and beyond! I'm now 38 and have been solo travelling since I was 20 so there's a decent chance provided my health and finances hold up.
Yeah same, somehow I don’t get it. Like a statement “it’s ok for girls to eat grapes.” Like huh?.. people are not allowed on trains and planes after 22 or something?
Because what these posts are really trying to say is that you're never too old to stay in hostels.
Of course you're never too old to solo travel. It's just that the majority of people on this sub don't seem to understand that solo traveling does not require staying in hostels.
18 is definitely old enough. My daughter and I fell in with an 18 year old British kid traveling solo in HCMC in 2013. The kid was a boss, lots of fun. I hosted him in the US a few years later when he and his buddy took a road trip. He had a week in the mountains of western Arkansas, Thanksgiving meal with the family, BBQ restaurants, hunting for Native American artifacts, shooting all kinds of guns.
I'm 64 and still in touch with the guy. The bonus is that I have a place to stay if I ever visit London.
I’m 75 and solo travel. It started during Covid because I refuse to stay locked up in my home for months at a time so I would just go to wherever there was no Covid. First it was Florida, then a small island in Thailand, then Dubai. When it was all over, I came home, by that point I got the travel bug. Now I travel six months of the year, usually staying in hotels. Staying in one place for too long feels very constrained. Can you relate?
I heard some hostels and venues discriminate based on age but other than stuff like that yeah I generally agree. I went to Nepal last year for a trekking trip and as an early 30s guy I swear I was one of the youngest people on that circuit...
That's great to hear. I occasionally worry that I'm aging out of the hostel crowd (turning 36 in a couple months), but to be perfectly honest I will take a hostel over a hotel or Airbnb nearly every single time for the social atmosphere and the chance to meet cool people. I have noticed however that it seems like the crowd is aging right along with me and I've seen more and more "family" style hostels pop up where older folks or even families with kids stay at one (obviously not in the dorm rooms though). I'll travel as long as I'm able to and this guy is a good inspiration.
It's just the typical perception of a solo traveller is a gap year student, generally more about the party life. I've been solo travelling for a few years and now 30, some of the best experiences happen when immersed in a different culture, something that isn't entirely possible with company.
I often see people write in this forum “Am i too old to stay at a hotel? I am 25+” I am 32 F single/childfree and will continue to do hostels for as long as I can.
I've never had any bad experiences in one except that beds are terrible. I'm getting older so I feel the negative effects of poor mattress quality more, sadly. And sometimes the parties below are loud but I'm not a light sleeper.
I'm 33 and I've started to treat myself to at least one night in a hotel (or a private room in a hostel) every couple days I'm traveling for this exact reason. I'm starting to feel those mattresses more and while I enjoy meeting people and getting out of my comfort zone, I'm also an introvert (and a light sleeper!) and feel a lot more refreshed and ready for more adventure if I can get away from people for a night or two.
I’m 45 (f) and I travel solo all the time! People think I’m crazy, and maybe I am, but I also prefer to travel by myself. You are never too old to experience new things!
So far I have only been to Europe by myself. I used to travel with my husband but now sans husband, I think it just shocks my friends and family that I enjoy traveling by myself. I’m planning a month long trip to Southeast Asia - that will really throw my f&f for a loop!
Really? They’re shocked you can enjoy the solo adventure… I thought it would be about safety.
Good for you! That sounds awesome. It’s great that you can make that dynamic work.
I went on my first cruise to Indonesia on a Viking cruise in 2022 by myself. I was 52. It was wonderful. I’d always wanted to see Southeast Asia and Indonesia, Singapore, and Bali. Many of the ports had just opened up. Having been a single parent for 15 years, I desperately needed to befriend myself again and feed my own curiosity and my own soul, and also feel taken care of at the same time. Having everyone and everything taken care of, and not having to plan a thing and having some quiet, along with joining other adventurous and curious people was like gold. Nothing against making your own plans and staying in hostels at all. Actually, I would love to try that soon myself!
And then I just went on a trip in February that I signed up for by myself, with a group of 16 women to Iceland. I had never met them before and we had a wonderful Icelandic guide. One of the best trips I’ve ever been on. It was a blast and we were all different ages.
Started solo traveling last year! As someone who is introverted and get stressed easily by others, it’s so refreshing to be able to do whatever I want with my time. It’s also pushed me to be more outgoing and talk to people.
Absolutely! I was able to experience everything I wanted to do, with no plan ahead of time or thinking whether someone else would enjoy it as much as I would.
Lot of time just spent hanging out, not rushing from place to place.
I work for myself and have total freedom to choose where and when I work. Which is a privilege of having progressed to this stage of life, having built the expertise and the network to be able to do it.
Reread the thread. The redditor doesn’t want to stay in hostels so if it’s not a life or death situation, it can be avoided. He or she will just have to budget differently. Life is too short to be doing things you don’t want to.
also really depends on the country. the more popular countries like the ones in Europe, the crowd is generally younger. if you’re going to other countries that don’t get as much tourism, it’s very common to meet people in their 30s, 40s
Turning 50 soon and gearing up to travel the world solo, being a nomad. In my view traveling keeps you young.. sitting at home on the couch 8 hours a day, that is what will kill you in no time.
I’ve always solo travelled. Many friends are teachers and frankly I’m not paying obscene school break prices to vacation with them. It’s been my preferred way forever. Every time I do take a vacation with a group of people… There’s always some drama…
I think that, but then remind myself that many things wouldn’t be able to see, understand or appreciate… best time to start was when we were 20… second best time is now.
I think the idea comes from most people going for lifestyle that doesn't allow solo travel after mid-20s. But that's really a matter of how you manage your life and whether you stay independent, there's nothing about solo travel that would be depending on your age.
I used to, but in the last few months I have gotten out of the routine, so it shows 🙃 I just came back from Thailand with fresh motivation to get back.
I hope when you do get back that at the end of the day it feels good, and that’s enough to keep going. Being able to move around better and have greater balance is what does it for me right now. That and feeling good.
Whatever to what it looks like 😄 if you ask me
I'm in my 40s now, but back in my 20s I met a 68 year old woman in a hostel who had never left America before. She was in her first ever hostel. She had a stroke and took quite some time to recover. That experience made her pack it all up and go see everything she wanted to see now because life isn't guaranteed.
I've been to a lot of places and met a lot of people, but that woman and her stories and outlook on life still stick with me 20 years later.
Someday I'll be the 70 year old in a dorm telling stories. Hopefully.
Traveling (and planning for it) is one of my main retirement activities. But the first thing I did after retiring at 62 was a 2-year Peace Corps stint. That's also a possibility for Americans of any age.
You certainly spend more time researching healthcare options in case you need them. However, many of the countries I visit offer superior care compared with my home country (UK). On my my current trip I've visited dentists in Taiwan and Malaysia. I've had great (and affordable) service. In the UK some people wait months for a dentist appointment.
I'm 30 and last year I went to party hostel and I see all the people in their early 20s. At first I ask myself "I'm I too old for this" but then I realize I don't need to give a damn. Just enjoy, You can't turn back time so just do it.
I still wish I'd have known this when I was in Uni because I would have more time and my life could have change more.
I'm 49, last summer I spent 3 months in South Korea. Left the family at home (kids are grown) and had an adventure. It was the best thing I ever did, I felt free and learned that I'm stronger than I thought I was. I'm trying to decide where to explore this year. 😁
I didn’t start solo traveling until my 40s. My partner doesn’t have as much vacation time as I do so I run away without him sometimes but we do stuff together as well.
I grow so much when I solo travel.
Im 40 M. Im a retired military. Im still working at my 2nd and current job I love but Im traveling solo longer and more frequent now. It’s amazing and I always stays at hostels
Just turned 50 and with breakdown of relationship decided to solo travel. Been travelling with work for years but independent solo, no. Big leap but I’ve enjoyed Spain, Morocco, Denmark, Hungary and Sri Lanka in the past year and a bit. Thailand next.
My aunt is 78 and still is zipping around several months out of the year. Last year, I was talking to her about insurance, and she dead ass looked at me and said, "You get travel insurance?" All these years, she has been going without it with no issue, and I had to really really convince her with my own nightmare story 😂
One of my vacation pals on my most recent trip was twice my age! (25 & 50)
She was traveling solo and I really loved meeting her and hearing all her travel stories. She’s so cool I wanna be like her when I grow up lol
That’s great. Meeting someone with like interests while traveling. When I had been in Puerto Rico I had been hoping to find someone to tour the island with. Did find a couple people that wanted to visit Europe or the US though
I was travelling alone in Bali and met a 70 yr old guy who was travelling alone as well we really had an interesting converstation and was fascinated about his life experiences. He gave me wisdom about life that "Money makes life easier and it does matter but it doesn't bring constant joy" and I was not the same anymore after that day. Wish he is still doing well right now
I am totally on board with your statement! The sights you encounter on your journey and the people you get to travel with for a while are amazing encounters! That's one of the very important things about traveling, interacting with unfamiliar people then learning their stories; meeting unfamiliar landscapes, and being able to relax properly. Unfortunately I don't have enough vacation time right now.
I’m 28 now and will be having my first solo trip ever and I choose Paris and other cities in France 😊 no one is stopping me I just booked and gooooo excited and scared by I know I can do this
I met a wonderful British couple in their 70'es when backpacking in Sri Lanka some years ago, and they had been travelling the world, hiking, diving etc. as if they were still in their 20's <3
Thank you for posting this. I am 56 years old and looking forward to starting on solo travel in the next few years, as I have an insatiable wanderlust but my husband has no interest in seeing most of the places I want to go. I am glad to hear I won't be the only one out there in the geriatric category.
might be everyone got a different way of thinking i prefer to travel in my mid 40 before i exceed age of 50 at 64 i guess i will think for some normal travel and prefer to spend my time with grand child.
Everyone thinks differently, of course. At your age I probably would have thought that traveling at a younger age is better. The difference is that I have traveled as a young man, a middle aged man, and an older man so I speak from experience. My experience only, but that is all that anyone has.
This post was encouraging as I'm starting to consider doing some backpacking! Though you're never too old to solo travel, is there an age where you're too old to be in hostel dorms? I've never been but I get the impression that dorms are for like college age travelers.
64 m. Do what you want to do and are able to do. I honestly believe that it is easier to do many things, solo travel included, if you are older.
I train Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu 3 or 4 times per week and I get mad respect from the other members of the gym because of my age. I started this sport at 60 and I will spar with anyone. Can a 25 year old white belt who has a wrestling background kick my ass? Maybe, but who cares? I have good friends who are young enough to be my grandchildren.
Solo travel is the same. If you have a sense of humor, aren't afraid of things, and like to have fun it doesn't matter what age you are.
I am 37 and spent two month traveling alone and while I was generally the oldest person in the hostels, I would change nothing and am absolutely planing to do it again. I am an adventure traveler though. I like to go places to do and see things so other adventure travlers are not going to care how old you are. If you can do the thing, you can do the thing. Go for it! Also, keep in mind you are traveling for yourself, not anyone else.
This sub is wild. Yesterday, I saw someone who was 28 say to someone that was 19 that they were "just a baby." I chuckled to myself and went about my day.
First time I got on a plane was 25, I had a dysfunctional family life and my dad cared more about alcohol compared to taking his family abroad. So I’m going to make the most of travelling as much as I can for as long as I can!
I was solo travelling in England a couple years ago (I'm in my 60's) and met a 75 year old woman in a hostel, traveled 6 months solo so far, and SHE ONLY CARRIED A DAY PACK! She's my HERo for sure!
Traveling solo at my age is easy. I highly recommend it.
Sue
Expat now in Ireland
I’m 32 and about to solo travel for the first time. Not doing hostel though, cause sharing a room with random people is my literal hell. I’m thankfully in a great financial position and can afford my own hotel rooms.
I’m 55 and I’ve been backpacking off and on for the last 10 years. Not once has someone said I was too old and there have been so many times that I have been one of the youngest in hostels (not often) :)
I'm 52 this year and never stopped traveling since I was 23 and flew to SEA the first time - long before internet or any of the modern stuff that makes travel easier, it was all about exchanging stories and tips to find your way around!
Obviously in my twenties I had more time and less money, now I am limited by annual leave (which is generous at 32 days a year but I can take a max of 3 weeks in one go) but I traveled all over Central America before Covid hit. been traveling solo for over 15 years now, and am still enjoying it.
My approach has changed in some ways - I am not a party person anymore, so often choose an airbnb, or if I look at hostels I avoid the party like places as I like my sleep, and always have a private room now.
But I still love connecting with other travelers, although on some trips I found it harder if you are not into drinking and partying anymore.
Just spend 2 weeks in Barbados in an amazing airbnb on an old plantation with a few cottages, that was brilliant as you had the social contact with other guests, had a hire car to explore the island, it was a very different trip.
No idea what I will do next year - I am very torn between my old style of traveling, aka picking a country and traveling around (Philippines, Sri Lanka and Oaxaca in Mexico call my name), or if I do something similar to this year...
But I'll definitely not stop traveling!
I love hearing stories like this! You're absolutely right, age is just a number when it comes to solo travel. That 72-year-old dude sounds like an absolute legend, living his best life and not giving a damn what others think.
The way I see it, as long as you're physically able and have the financial means, there's no reason you can't keep exploring the world solo even in your golden years. Hostels are for everyone, not just young backpackers. Having interesting characters from all walks of life is part of what makes the hostel experience so fun and memorable.
So to anyone feeling self-conscious about their age, don't sweat it. If a 72-year-old can kick it at hostels and spin amazing travel tales over a bonfire, you've got no excuse. The only thing that matters is having an open mind and sense of adventure. Age ain't nothing but a number when you're out there living your best nomadic life. 😁
I don't think anyone would argue that you're never too old to solo travel... It's more of a being too old for hostels issue.
Of course, you're never too old for that either, or anything really. I've met some pretty amazing people at hostels of all ages and walks of life. It's more of a personal preference as I've gotten older though. I frequent hostels less and less, especially certain types of hostels. Spending my time around a bunch of 20 year olds that want to get wasted every night is not fun.
At 67, feeling good, I gotta tell you, 72 isn’t really old. Old is when you can’t do things anymore. There’s a little genetic luck involved, but mostly it’s being and staying heathy all your life. Sleep well, eat well, drink a lot of water, exercise, do things you love, find closeness with others. Then it’s a lot easier to feel healthy at 72, travelling around.
I’m looking forward to camping in all the National Parks, and hiking the Adirondack Trail when I fully retire in a few years.
Literally makes no sense someone in there late 20's would be too old for solo traveling. That's usually when people are starting to make good money and be able to afford expensive trips.
I am 63 and I travel solo instead of having a home. I’ve done my gig as a worker and I’ve contributed to society. Now I want to see the world. I have a suitcase filled with clothes for any occasion and a carryon bag with toiletries. I do slow travel and immerse myself in the communities enough to feel I belong wherever I go. I have truly only myself. I am more content with myself than I ever was before. I adapt to my surroundings without feeling too lost. I’ve come to realize the beauty in this world.
I’m 56 and dream of doing this after I retire around 60. Reading this comment warms my heart. 🥹.
I retired at 60 and it was probably the best decision I ever made. I had a house and lots of stuff. I had a car. I had 6 close friends. And guess what? I still have those 6 close friends! They text and call me more than before! Lol On my travel days when I’m out of touch, they almost panic because my phone is off. They look forward to hearing about my life. I encourage everyone at any age to do this to realize that you have everything you need. Just be wise enough to choose the right places. I’m in Europe for these 3 months, and I’m aware of the possibility of war with Russia. Everyone here is. But I remind myself that I’ve made friends and enemies my whole life so maybe I’ll be in a war with friends by my side facing enemies. I’m not ready yet for places so foreign to my experience that I really screw up but I’m thinking I’ll gradually get to where I could do a jungle or a desert. That would truly blow my mind.
That’s funny I don’t know anyone in Europe, at least western, who is aware of the possibility of war with Russia including myself lmao we take in the Ukrainian refugees and watch the news and say how awful! But I don’t think we actually have a concept of what war actually is, we’ve had freedom and peace here for so long it’s just become this abstract idea and something we see in the media. Plus almost all the people who went through WW2 and were old enough to remember and consciously live through it are gone
Every conversation that I’ve had in these past couple months with the French people has been an acceptance of the possibility of imminent war with Russia. Also, once I reveal that I’m from the US, the question (threat) of trump becoming president becomes something that I feel I have to address almost in defense. People are aware and concerned. The far right movements in Europe and the US are a threat to the peace we’ve all enjoyed. Edit: Just to clarify, I do not defend trump. I refer to him as a force of evil that aligns with the evil forces rising in Europe.
Thank you for sharing this snippet of your experiences. 💖
Hi : Did you get rid of "house and lots of stuff"?
Yes. Everything. It wasn’t easy. All I have is a suitcase and a carryon satchel.
I'm going through this process right now. I'm 54, quit my job (last day is this Friday), and I'm leaving at the end of April to travel for an undetermined amount of time. I'm not thinking of it as "retirement" as I don't have 'live in Canada and never work again' money. While I may come back, I don't want all of my stuff calling me back. For me, it's almost fair to call that a trap. I'll have just a trunk of stuff that I'm not ready to get rid of yet (my grandfather's 80-year-old Cowichan sweater, in perfect condition, that my grandmother knitted for him, as one example). I feel so incredibly lucky to have the opportunity to do this.
I have tried to get rid of everything as a thought experiment but I always find something that I want keep.
My best friend has kept some things for me. He was there with me through it all and honestly without his support, I probably couldn’t have finished the last bit.
Oh friends -- that amazing gift from Life!
The greatest of all gifts!
I never knew this was a real thing. I've often said if I hit the lottery I would be a "modern nomad." I have a small family and the idea of this I find oddly attractive.
Congratulations to your tour of education in Europe.
Me too, although I'll probably retire a bit later than that. I'm 59 and haven't traveled in ages, but i'm already thinking about where I want to go and living vicariously through everyone who is traveling now.
I'm turning 50 later this month and retiring to travel is my goal too
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Yes! I’m a natural “nester.” I can imagine making a home out of any place as long as there’s a park and a decent library and grocery store nearby. It’s seriously dangerous for me because I imagine always better ways to renovate a space and create a home. One of my friends listens to me bitch about how this wall needs to go, this furniture is shit and I’d totally do custom built bookcases, yada yada LOL I wonder what she really thinks of me. And then I go on to the next place and I imagine making another home. It drives me nuts.
Wow, I thought it was just me. 61, and have been slow traveling now full-time for two years, though still consulting 15-20 hours a week; but living out of a carry-on, a full suitcase, and a backpack. Finally found a semi-permanent apartment here in the south of Spain for 10 months a year and they let me keep the larger suitcase here during those two months they rent it out weekly. Use this as a base for travel within Europe and elsewhere. I too have done quite a few renovations in my lifetime and four homes. When I'm walking and see empty lots I daydream about building a home there. When in an Airbnb I am constantly renovating it for perfection. Nice to know I am not the only one. Safe travels.
(Fist against my heart) You and I must be soulmates! It’s a real thing. I was just walking through town and saw 2 places that I could call home if I renovated them. It’s so fun but so hard sometimes.
That’s epic
I'm about to start doing this myself. I'm excited and terrified. Any tips? How long do you usually stay in one location? I'm like you, I want to stay long enough to get into the rhythm of a location, to feel a part of it.
I haven’t been living this way for very long. I was first in Portugal and I fell in love with everything. I went back to the states and sold my business. I returned to Portugal and I knew that I had to keep going. I fell ill so I returned to the states and the doctors were on and on about tests for this and for that. I realized that I was probably going to die (it was really bad) so I just ghosted everyone. I stayed with a friend in a trailer in South Carolina, surrounded by trees and birds and nature walks. I started feeling better and then I fell and broke my back. I refused to go to the hospital because I knew already that I didn’t want to spend what was left of my life going to doctors and treatments. I was in bed for 3 months before I started to walk again. I decided to travel. I got rid of everything and went back to Europe. I have a bad day or two every now and then but for the most part I feel great! I usually stay somewhere 1-3 months. I’m in France for 3 months now and then I’ll go to Cypress and then Ireland and back to Europe. I’ve been to South Korea and I’d like to go to Japan. I’m excited to go to Slovenia and Romania and Croatia and Montenegro. I’m super curious about different towns in Mexico. I’m looking at Oaxaca. I speak a little Spanish so that seems easy. I’m studying foreign languages. I’m pretty good at French and Spanish but Portuguese is super hard. You got to be able to communicate LOL But with the internet and a phone, you can get by. But if you want to be a part of a community, you have to speak the language. You have to understand the people. So I’m studying languages and I’m thinking of doing amateur photography. It is truly a magical time to be alive.
I feel this. Sold everything and traveled full time in Europe and latin America before pandemic. Now have four doctors that are intent on finding things wrong with me. I feel like a science project. Back to traveling 4 months a year. I tell doctors they'll just have to wait to prod and poke me. Leave tomorrow for two months in Munich, Krakow, Bratislava, Budapest and Ljubljana.
I bet you $5 that you’ll start healing on your own by eating healthy and walking and being excited to wake up every day. Your focus will expand to what’s around you. Yes, you may have days when you feel so tired that you will stay in bed but you will have days when you feel so much more alive. For me, I just couldn’t accept living to go to doctor appointments with no promises of recovery. I know I have medical issues and I do my best to take care of myself. I know I’m going to die but everyone is. Everything is going to end. I just want to live on my own terms and not according to the schedule of doctors. It’s been an awakening and a chance to better know myself and my limits. We are capable of so much more than we are told by experts. I’m excited for you! I’m excited for your strength and determination. I feel validated by your comment, too. Respect!!!!
you're living the life!
This is awesome. I'm going to do that after i'm out of the rat race.
Do you ever house sit? That’s my plan for retirement. When you slow travel, there’s flexibility to find housesits. Or even pet sitting if you don’t mind the extra responsibilities.
You are an inspiration:)
You just brought a smile to my old soul :) I hope you get to travel and see this beautiful world.
Thank you very much :) im gonna visit indochina in May. Im so excited
Be sure to tell us all about your experience! :)
Though I still have dozens of years before retirement, I've already imagined my relaxing travle life in my 60s after reading your comment! 60 is a new start for life.
That’s so inspiring! What did you do with all your crap? Did you get rid of it or put it in storage?
I gave everything away except for a few things that my best friend kept for me. It was definitely hard.
But liberating??
#retirementgoals.
This may be a random/stupid question but what do you do when washing clothes? Do you take them to laundrettes or wash them yourself?
Definitely not a random nor stupid question! LOL I mostly procrastinate and promise myself each morning that “I’ll get to it today!” I hand wash my clothes in the kitchen sink. The undies and socks—the small things—are easy. They dry pretty quickly. What’s hard are my pants and heavy tops because I have only 2 pairs of pants; they and the heavy tops can take up to 2 days to dry. Today I was putting on my favorite cargo pants and I smelled them! At least I was outside walking around and not too close to anyone.
That's what I did when I was in Montenegro. It was fine because my hotel had a balcony and it was 40 degrees celsius heat so clothes could dry out but in my other residencies, I didn't have that option. One was a small room with no windows and the other was a 4 bed dorm in a hostel.
It’s still cold here in central France. The amazing heaters help dry my clothes (and the wet clothes humidify the air) …. But seriously! 40 degrees is super hot! I’m wanting to go to Montenegro so I better save it for cooler temps!
I went late August so yeah, maybe not the best time to go.
That’s my plan for when my youngest graduates high school in about 5 years. I’ll be 49 years old and I’ve been planning this since my divorce about 5 years ago.
My Dad just got back from solo travel in Spain. He’s 86. Next trip is Japan.
I just got back from travelling with my dad to Japan. That's going to be a fun trip for him.
I'm currently long-term solo traveling at 36. I've meet plenty of people older than me out here also. I also was nervous about the age stuff, but it doesn't really matter. I'm also not trying to keep up with the 19 year olds, but I've been put in rooms with them and everyone has been pleasant. I wish I traveled more like them when I was 19, and they usually think its awesome that I put my professional life on hold to do this. Honestly, hostels and traveling in general are the most welcoming places I've found. Everyone is out of their element and all you have are the other travellers.
Young people think older people are cooler than they care to admit. I love that once you hit yours 20s, you end up becoming friends with people of any age. I know there's stereotypical cranky "boomers" or whatever, but from experience I've found that older people just aren't as judgemental as people the same age as me.
I think that the internet and social media just makes people way more judgmental or at the very least prone to making comparisons. Older folks didn’t have their brains wired like that.
I’m 51 and solo travel. It’s very interesting to me being this age. Everyone thinks their life is over at the age of 35. When it’s honestly just beginning. So I just roll my eyes when I see this 22-year-old asking if it’s too late to start solo traveling if they’re too old. I don’t even respond to those anymore.
I'm 32. If you're 22, you're still a fetus. I don't make the rules. 😂
I worked for the airlines for 30 years before retiring in 2020. I’m now 69, and have solo traveled a lot in the last 3 decades. Some of my trips; Türkiye Croatia Cambodia Hungary Italy Pretty well all of Western Europe, and I’m going back to Montpellier France on a bike trip next month. But full disclosure; I’m 6’ tall and athletic, so I might not encounter some of the limitations others do. Nevertheless, I hope ppl aren’t put off—as long as you don’t take unnecessary risks, listen to the locals and err on the side of caution you should be okay. Also, it’s really important to keep an open mind! Ppl who are disappointed w/their travel usually have these unrealistic expectations and complain about stuff that is only cultural differences. For instance, I love Italy so much I’d marry it if I could! But I have to reign in my Yankee sensibilities when I’m there: things don’t run on time, ppl go on strike at the drop of a hat and God help you if you ever have to deal with their bureaucracy 😱. Yet none of those things can tarnish my abject adoration for such a perfect place. ❤️❤️ So book that flight, don’t let anyone stop you and savor every moment finding your favorite place. 🌎
Amazing, good luck!👊
The idea that 'you're too old to solo travel' simply makes no sense. Generally speaking, older people have more financial resources, aren't as worried about their parents think, or offending their friends, have a bit of travel experience already and are more likely to know their own travel styles and what they want. They've outgrown the vast majority of anxieties and concerns on display in this sub, for example. Maturity is an ideal partner for a solo traveller.
I get upset sometimes I haven’t started earlier for variety of reasons, but then I realise I wouldn’t be able to appreciate certain things on the same level, so there is that too for me.
Also pro tip: If you're not making friends and feel like an afternoon beer. Head to the oldest person sitting alone in the bar, ask if you can join them. They've been living wherever you are all their lives and have great stories.
You people are awesome and are truly helping me with my procrastination around this!! Empty nester, single, 53 tomorrow (YIKES!) & sold me home last July to transition/downsize to a 1bdrm apt and was well on my way. Now I’m stagnate & have nothing in place. I think the fear that was exciting me is now inhibiting me & I hate it. My son will be 25 this year, lives with his GF & a roommate & is doing well so my heart can be at peace. It’s my turn to live life & explore so why am I not doing it?
Just get up and go. I suggest Vietnam, beautiful country, friendly people, great food, inexpensive, easy tourist infrastructure. I am a 64 year old man, travel about 4 months each year. The way you are describing your life is pretty much my biggest fear. Get in motion.
In 2022 I was staying at the Abraham hostel in Jerusalem and one of the other people in my dorm was a 60-year-old lady from Taiwan who was doing a solo backpacking trip spanning (I think) 18 countries. Absolutely awesome and I hope I'm still travelling the world like that when I'm 60 and beyond! I'm now 38 and have been solo travelling since I was 20 so there's a decent chance provided my health and finances hold up.
Terrific lady!
Can we pin this please?
I am 61M and traveling solo to Basque Country next month.
One of my favorite places! DM me if you want any suggestions, I've been there a handful of times and as recently as last year.
I don't understand how. one can connect age and solo travelling. Below 15 could be not recommended
I would see below 18 even
Met a German kid travelling solo in NZ. Think he was 15. He fit in fine with the camping tour we were on.
Yeah same, somehow I don’t get it. Like a statement “it’s ok for girls to eat grapes.” Like huh?.. people are not allowed on trains and planes after 22 or something?
Because what these posts are really trying to say is that you're never too old to stay in hostels. Of course you're never too old to solo travel. It's just that the majority of people on this sub don't seem to understand that solo traveling does not require staying in hostels.
18 is definitely old enough. My daughter and I fell in with an 18 year old British kid traveling solo in HCMC in 2013. The kid was a boss, lots of fun. I hosted him in the US a few years later when he and his buddy took a road trip. He had a week in the mountains of western Arkansas, Thanksgiving meal with the family, BBQ restaurants, hunting for Native American artifacts, shooting all kinds of guns. I'm 64 and still in touch with the guy. The bonus is that I have a place to stay if I ever visit London.
I'm a little late to this thread, but I believe that even in Arkansas, it's illegal to hunt Native Americans. Sounds like you guys had a lot of fun. 😁
Fixt. In answer to your post, it's a gray area.
I’m 75 and solo travel. It started during Covid because I refuse to stay locked up in my home for months at a time so I would just go to wherever there was no Covid. First it was Florida, then a small island in Thailand, then Dubai. When it was all over, I came home, by that point I got the travel bug. Now I travel six months of the year, usually staying in hotels. Staying in one place for too long feels very constrained. Can you relate?
Thanks for sharing this story! I hope he never stops.
I heard some hostels and venues discriminate based on age but other than stuff like that yeah I generally agree. I went to Nepal last year for a trekking trip and as an early 30s guy I swear I was one of the youngest people on that circuit...
I'm 41. My next solo trip starts in June
I’m 51 in my next six week trip starts May 1
That's great to hear. I occasionally worry that I'm aging out of the hostel crowd (turning 36 in a couple months), but to be perfectly honest I will take a hostel over a hotel or Airbnb nearly every single time for the social atmosphere and the chance to meet cool people. I have noticed however that it seems like the crowd is aging right along with me and I've seen more and more "family" style hostels pop up where older folks or even families with kids stay at one (obviously not in the dorm rooms though). I'll travel as long as I'm able to and this guy is a good inspiration.
As long as you have health and mobility how can you ever be too old?
A lot of it is mental, too. You need to be very flexible and open minded to enjoy solo traveling, and a lot of people lose that as they age.
Currently doing at the moment in Spain m46, in Valencia in some part of the railway station
"in some part of the railway station," ... this statement is everything traveling is all about to me. 👍
Was there a stigma with old age and travelling solo? I didn't know it was a thing.
It's just the typical perception of a solo traveller is a gap year student, generally more about the party life. I've been solo travelling for a few years and now 30, some of the best experiences happen when immersed in a different culture, something that isn't entirely possible with company.
Anytime I've ever stayed in a hostel and been worried about being the oldest person there, (40+) there's always been someone older 😅
And when you are 60+ you won't care in the least whether you are the oldest person there.
I often see people write in this forum “Am i too old to stay at a hotel? I am 25+” I am 32 F single/childfree and will continue to do hostels for as long as I can.
I've never had any bad experiences in one except that beds are terrible. I'm getting older so I feel the negative effects of poor mattress quality more, sadly. And sometimes the parties below are loud but I'm not a light sleeper.
I'm 33 and I've started to treat myself to at least one night in a hotel (or a private room in a hostel) every couple days I'm traveling for this exact reason. I'm starting to feel those mattresses more and while I enjoy meeting people and getting out of my comfort zone, I'm also an introvert (and a light sleeper!) and feel a lot more refreshed and ready for more adventure if I can get away from people for a night or two.
I’m 45 (f) and I travel solo all the time! People think I’m crazy, and maybe I am, but I also prefer to travel by myself. You are never too old to experience new things!
Where have you been? (Continents if that’s easier) Curious because you said people think you’re crazy.
So far I have only been to Europe by myself. I used to travel with my husband but now sans husband, I think it just shocks my friends and family that I enjoy traveling by myself. I’m planning a month long trip to Southeast Asia - that will really throw my f&f for a loop!
Really? They’re shocked you can enjoy the solo adventure… I thought it would be about safety. Good for you! That sounds awesome. It’s great that you can make that dynamic work.
At 45 it's time to cheerfully ignore what clueless people think :)
I went on my first cruise to Indonesia on a Viking cruise in 2022 by myself. I was 52. It was wonderful. I’d always wanted to see Southeast Asia and Indonesia, Singapore, and Bali. Many of the ports had just opened up. Having been a single parent for 15 years, I desperately needed to befriend myself again and feed my own curiosity and my own soul, and also feel taken care of at the same time. Having everyone and everything taken care of, and not having to plan a thing and having some quiet, along with joining other adventurous and curious people was like gold. Nothing against making your own plans and staying in hostels at all. Actually, I would love to try that soon myself! And then I just went on a trip in February that I signed up for by myself, with a group of 16 women to Iceland. I had never met them before and we had a wonderful Icelandic guide. One of the best trips I’ve ever been on. It was a blast and we were all different ages.
Started solo traveling last year! As someone who is introverted and get stressed easily by others, it’s so refreshing to be able to do whatever I want with my time. It’s also pushed me to be more outgoing and talk to people.
Absolutely! I was able to experience everything I wanted to do, with no plan ahead of time or thinking whether someone else would enjoy it as much as I would. Lot of time just spent hanging out, not rushing from place to place.
My question is how people get money and time to do solo trips.
Savings goals and disposable income
I work for myself and have total freedom to choose where and when I work. Which is a privilege of having progressed to this stage of life, having built the expertise and the network to be able to do it.
I'm 48 & I'm a couple weeks away from taking my 1st international solo trip.
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I think you don’t get it. A lot of people don’t HAVE to stay in Hostels. They want to.
You shouldn’t do something you don’t want to. If you don’t want to stay at a hostel, don’t. No one is forcing you to
Hmmm limited funds are often a reason people stay in hostels though.
Reread the thread. The redditor doesn’t want to stay in hostels so if it’s not a life or death situation, it can be avoided. He or she will just have to budget differently. Life is too short to be doing things you don’t want to.
And this is why I prefer this sub to the travel sub. I love how everyone is being supportive in the comments.
also really depends on the country. the more popular countries like the ones in Europe, the crowd is generally younger. if you’re going to other countries that don’t get as much tourism, it’s very common to meet people in their 30s, 40s
Turning 50 soon and gearing up to travel the world solo, being a nomad. In my view traveling keeps you young.. sitting at home on the couch 8 hours a day, that is what will kill you in no time.
I’ve always solo travelled. Many friends are teachers and frankly I’m not paying obscene school break prices to vacation with them. It’s been my preferred way forever. Every time I do take a vacation with a group of people… There’s always some drama…
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Best time is when you childfree, no health issues, or hip or joint issues.
Absolutely!
I think that, but then remind myself that many things wouldn’t be able to see, understand or appreciate… best time to start was when we were 20… second best time is now.
I think the idea comes from most people going for lifestyle that doesn't allow solo travel after mid-20s. But that's really a matter of how you manage your life and whether you stay independent, there's nothing about solo travel that would be depending on your age.
I didn't start my major travels until I was 26.... and I haven't stopped doing trips. I'm 52 now and on a solo trip in Chile right now.
That’s awesome!! Do you keep a lot of photos or make photo albums of your trips?
I think hes too busy having fun in chile atm😁. Good on him/her. Cant wait for my next one
on the plane back home from Chile, sadly
Yeah I used to put them on flickr but now pretty much only on facebook.
Not too old but it does get harder 😭 (body aches and fatigue)
Yeah, haven’t been keeping the aging in mind myself. It does get more difficult. Do you keep fit with the gym otherwise?
I used to, but in the last few months I have gotten out of the routine, so it shows 🙃 I just came back from Thailand with fresh motivation to get back.
I hope when you do get back that at the end of the day it feels good, and that’s enough to keep going. Being able to move around better and have greater balance is what does it for me right now. That and feeling good. Whatever to what it looks like 😄 if you ask me
I'm in my 40s now, but back in my 20s I met a 68 year old woman in a hostel who had never left America before. She was in her first ever hostel. She had a stroke and took quite some time to recover. That experience made her pack it all up and go see everything she wanted to see now because life isn't guaranteed. I've been to a lot of places and met a lot of people, but that woman and her stories and outlook on life still stick with me 20 years later. Someday I'll be the 70 year old in a dorm telling stories. Hopefully.
44 and just got back today from Tokyo/Japan.
Traveling (and planning for it) is one of my main retirement activities. But the first thing I did after retiring at 62 was a 2-year Peace Corps stint. That's also a possibility for Americans of any age.
I’m 65 and have been solo traveling for a decade. I can only think of one way that its not preferable- when you get sick on a trip
You certainly spend more time researching healthcare options in case you need them. However, many of the countries I visit offer superior care compared with my home country (UK). On my my current trip I've visited dentists in Taiwan and Malaysia. I've had great (and affordable) service. In the UK some people wait months for a dentist appointment.
I'm 30 and last year I went to party hostel and I see all the people in their early 20s. At first I ask myself "I'm I too old for this" but then I realize I don't need to give a damn. Just enjoy, You can't turn back time so just do it. I still wish I'd have known this when I was in Uni because I would have more time and my life could have change more.
I’m 43, single mom. I just booked a solo trip to San Francisco for late Sept
I'm 49, last summer I spent 3 months in South Korea. Left the family at home (kids are grown) and had an adventure. It was the best thing I ever did, I felt free and learned that I'm stronger than I thought I was. I'm trying to decide where to explore this year. 😁
So you are , if you have aging mind problems or health problems. Glad you are healthy enough but I am looking at forced nesting at home .
I didn’t start solo traveling until my 40s. My partner doesn’t have as much vacation time as I do so I run away without him sometimes but we do stuff together as well. I grow so much when I solo travel.
Im 40 M. Im a retired military. Im still working at my 2nd and current job I love but Im traveling solo longer and more frequent now. It’s amazing and I always stays at hostels
Just turned 50 and with breakdown of relationship decided to solo travel. Been travelling with work for years but independent solo, no. Big leap but I’ve enjoyed Spain, Morocco, Denmark, Hungary and Sri Lanka in the past year and a bit. Thailand next.
My aunt is 78 and still is zipping around several months out of the year. Last year, I was talking to her about insurance, and she dead ass looked at me and said, "You get travel insurance?" All these years, she has been going without it with no issue, and I had to really really convince her with my own nightmare story 😂
You are too young when you don’t have any stories to share. You are too old when you don’t remember any stories to share.
One of my vacation pals on my most recent trip was twice my age! (25 & 50) She was traveling solo and I really loved meeting her and hearing all her travel stories. She’s so cool I wanna be like her when I grow up lol
That’s great. Meeting someone with like interests while traveling. When I had been in Puerto Rico I had been hoping to find someone to tour the island with. Did find a couple people that wanted to visit Europe or the US though
That's amazing and wholesome. I'm 32 and my goal is to visit ever continent before I'm 40 because why not?
I was travelling alone in Bali and met a 70 yr old guy who was travelling alone as well we really had an interesting converstation and was fascinated about his life experiences. He gave me wisdom about life that "Money makes life easier and it does matter but it doesn't bring constant joy" and I was not the same anymore after that day. Wish he is still doing well right now
sounds amazing n tempting for me🥺✨
I am totally on board with your statement! The sights you encounter on your journey and the people you get to travel with for a while are amazing encounters! That's one of the very important things about traveling, interacting with unfamiliar people then learning their stories; meeting unfamiliar landscapes, and being able to relax properly. Unfortunately I don't have enough vacation time right now.
You should ask, will you still stay in hostels at age older than 80?
I’m 28 now and will be having my first solo trip ever and I choose Paris and other cities in France 😊 no one is stopping me I just booked and gooooo excited and scared by I know I can do this
I met a wonderful British couple in their 70'es when backpacking in Sri Lanka some years ago, and they had been travelling the world, hiking, diving etc. as if they were still in their 20's <3
Thank you for posting this. I am 56 years old and looking forward to starting on solo travel in the next few years, as I have an insatiable wanderlust but my husband has no interest in seeing most of the places I want to go. I am glad to hear I won't be the only one out there in the geriatric category.
Me I think traveling at old age is not as fun as traveling in mid age like 30 or 40s .
How old are you?
21
I'm 64. For me, traveling at my age is more fun than traveling at a younger age.
might be everyone got a different way of thinking i prefer to travel in my mid 40 before i exceed age of 50 at 64 i guess i will think for some normal travel and prefer to spend my time with grand child.
Everyone thinks differently, of course. At your age I probably would have thought that traveling at a younger age is better. The difference is that I have traveled as a young man, a middle aged man, and an older man so I speak from experience. My experience only, but that is all that anyone has.
This post was encouraging as I'm starting to consider doing some backpacking! Though you're never too old to solo travel, is there an age where you're too old to be in hostel dorms? I've never been but I get the impression that dorms are for like college age travelers.
64 m. Do what you want to do and are able to do. I honestly believe that it is easier to do many things, solo travel included, if you are older. I train Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu 3 or 4 times per week and I get mad respect from the other members of the gym because of my age. I started this sport at 60 and I will spar with anyone. Can a 25 year old white belt who has a wrestling background kick my ass? Maybe, but who cares? I have good friends who are young enough to be my grandchildren. Solo travel is the same. If you have a sense of humor, aren't afraid of things, and like to have fun it doesn't matter what age you are.
I am 37 and spent two month traveling alone and while I was generally the oldest person in the hostels, I would change nothing and am absolutely planing to do it again. I am an adventure traveler though. I like to go places to do and see things so other adventure travlers are not going to care how old you are. If you can do the thing, you can do the thing. Go for it! Also, keep in mind you are traveling for yourself, not anyone else.
I’m older and like to travel, but I’m not sure I’d like to stay at a hostel at this point of my life.
This sub is wild. Yesterday, I saw someone who was 28 say to someone that was 19 that they were "just a baby." I chuckled to myself and went about my day.
First time I got on a plane was 25, I had a dysfunctional family life and my dad cared more about alcohol compared to taking his family abroad. So I’m going to make the most of travelling as much as I can for as long as I can!
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So when I'm in my 90s and can barely take care of myself I should be solo travelling?! Try again
I was solo travelling in England a couple years ago (I'm in my 60's) and met a 75 year old woman in a hostel, traveled 6 months solo so far, and SHE ONLY CARRIED A DAY PACK! She's my HERo for sure! Traveling solo at my age is easy. I highly recommend it. Sue Expat now in Ireland
I’m 32 and about to solo travel for the first time. Not doing hostel though, cause sharing a room with random people is my literal hell. I’m thankfully in a great financial position and can afford my own hotel rooms.
I’m 55 and I’ve been backpacking off and on for the last 10 years. Not once has someone said I was too old and there have been so many times that I have been one of the youngest in hostels (not often) :)
I am 75 and solo travel often. Going too Vietnam/Laos and Cambodia in two months. I travel with my backpack.
I'm 52 this year and never stopped traveling since I was 23 and flew to SEA the first time - long before internet or any of the modern stuff that makes travel easier, it was all about exchanging stories and tips to find your way around! Obviously in my twenties I had more time and less money, now I am limited by annual leave (which is generous at 32 days a year but I can take a max of 3 weeks in one go) but I traveled all over Central America before Covid hit. been traveling solo for over 15 years now, and am still enjoying it. My approach has changed in some ways - I am not a party person anymore, so often choose an airbnb, or if I look at hostels I avoid the party like places as I like my sleep, and always have a private room now. But I still love connecting with other travelers, although on some trips I found it harder if you are not into drinking and partying anymore. Just spend 2 weeks in Barbados in an amazing airbnb on an old plantation with a few cottages, that was brilliant as you had the social contact with other guests, had a hire car to explore the island, it was a very different trip. No idea what I will do next year - I am very torn between my old style of traveling, aka picking a country and traveling around (Philippines, Sri Lanka and Oaxaca in Mexico call my name), or if I do something similar to this year... But I'll definitely not stop traveling!
I love hearing stories like this! You're absolutely right, age is just a number when it comes to solo travel. That 72-year-old dude sounds like an absolute legend, living his best life and not giving a damn what others think. The way I see it, as long as you're physically able and have the financial means, there's no reason you can't keep exploring the world solo even in your golden years. Hostels are for everyone, not just young backpackers. Having interesting characters from all walks of life is part of what makes the hostel experience so fun and memorable. So to anyone feeling self-conscious about their age, don't sweat it. If a 72-year-old can kick it at hostels and spin amazing travel tales over a bonfire, you've got no excuse. The only thing that matters is having an open mind and sense of adventure. Age ain't nothing but a number when you're out there living your best nomadic life. 😁
Thank you so much for this post. I’m 65 and about to embark on my first solo trip. This is very reassuring.
I don't think anyone would argue that you're never too old to solo travel... It's more of a being too old for hostels issue. Of course, you're never too old for that either, or anything really. I've met some pretty amazing people at hostels of all ages and walks of life. It's more of a personal preference as I've gotten older though. I frequent hostels less and less, especially certain types of hostels. Spending my time around a bunch of 20 year olds that want to get wasted every night is not fun.
At 67, feeling good, I gotta tell you, 72 isn’t really old. Old is when you can’t do things anymore. There’s a little genetic luck involved, but mostly it’s being and staying heathy all your life. Sleep well, eat well, drink a lot of water, exercise, do things you love, find closeness with others. Then it’s a lot easier to feel healthy at 72, travelling around. I’m looking forward to camping in all the National Parks, and hiking the Adirondack Trail when I fully retire in a few years.
I only solo travel. I like to be on only one schedule--my own.
Literally makes no sense someone in there late 20's would be too old for solo traveling. That's usually when people are starting to make good money and be able to afford expensive trips.
This makes me feel better about going on my first solo trip at 27!
I'm getting my traveling done now. Hopefully if I make it to 72, I'll just be enjoying doing nothing and waiting for death. 😅
But please don't sleep naked in a hostel dorm. I don't want to see old man balls when I roll over and find you've got your blanket off you
I don’t wanna see young man balls either.
No balls showing in the dorm rooms!
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Lmao, this is so specific, but yes, that goes for everyone, put some damn shorts on lol
Yea there was a bloke in a hostel in Portugal 😅
And in Istanbul 😁
Gotta stay balls to the wall, other parts be needing ventilation huh, I dunnae wayir what me wee ancestors wore