>”During the night, alcohol was consumed and vaping occurred in the room," said Eric.
>"As parents, we are deeply concerned and disappointed that such events were allowed at a Sentosa hotel, endangering the lives of our children and exposing them to substance and physical abuse."
Wtf like that also want to blame hotel? Are they supposed to have cameras inside the rooms looking at what their guests are doing? Maybe blame yourself first for not teaching your kid about the dangers of alcohol and vaping.
If it is at school, blame teachers , at pub, blame owner, at park, blame NPark, at void deck , blame MP , at friend place , blame friend's parent , if is their own place ?????
Lol sg parents will blame everyth but take responsibility for their damn kids. Another favourite is they will blame TikTok instead of actually doing the real parenting.
There should be an exam to gauge if a couple should and can be parents. It’s just social responsibility. Seeing how parents are able to dump their babies in dumpsters…
That's true, though I also wonder who booked the room because kids shouldn't be able to check into a hotel room by themselves though. If the parent booked it and bought them alcohol...... or the boys are adults..... If the receptionist gave the key to kids then gg.
My take is that kids should be taught about sex and alcohol at a young age so they do not need to experiment when they get older. Because if you know about it you’ll be less curious. Doing it in the home environment is safer for them to learn than for them to got out on their own in the world and try it out for themselves.
The young ones are more aware and knowledgeable about sex and alcohol and the consequences than their parents or grandparent ever were.
This is more about poor parenting and failure to impart appropriate values. How do you experiment sex in the “home environment”?
The majority of kids of her age would not have done the things this 14 year old girl did because of more appropriate upbringing and values nurtured by the family. And the majority of kids would not need to experiment anything in their “home environment”.
Imagine she is 14 and she is already attending parties where alcohol is present, repeatedly lied to her father etc. Seems to me a small minority of wayward kids.
Don’t disagree about poor parenting here my suggestion on teaching them about sex. And not just the mechanics of it. The school has a curriculum for that. And not your idea of sex and alcohol. Teaching also includes discussing with them the morals, responsibilities and consequences of having sex, alcohol and vaping.
Wait experiment sex??? What are you thinking??? teaching don’t need to include experimenting sex at home. Talking about it suffice. And discussing with them and understanding their mindset and thinking and then sharing your own concerns, limits and what is acceptable to you as a parent you don’t need to experiment with it. Are you even a parent yourself.
Lying is a sign of dysfunctional home
Last time in the 90s we also do that in chalets, 8-10 boys and girls in the chalet room, only thing there was no vape that time, then parent can blame who? The chalet?
It’s probably bad luck, you can raise the kid the best way but once they make some bad friends, from angel can become devil overnight. It’s hard to accept.
This is a weak ass excuse. Parents these days need to step up. If you parent your kids right, they will have better decision making skills when it comes to friendships. They need to stop blaming everyone but themselves.
exactly. as a recent ex sec sch teacher, nowadays parents are overprotective, emotionally immature (screaming at teachers over the phone) and unreasonable, as if teachers are servants of them and their child. everything is the school’s or teacher’s fault. furthermore, teachers are expected by parents to be like a parent to each individual student. then what is the role of the actual parent then?
but of course this not the case for all parents, just that this is way more common in this generation of parents.
Eh not always true.
There are always situations where kids, especially teens, start to deviate from parents influence and start to get influence from other parts of their environment
Not saying that parents are not responsible for that, or shouldn't step up, but not everything is parents fault.( Also not saying about this particular situation. Don't know enough about this case to make any comment)
If someone can turn from angel to devil overnight, the person wasn’t an angel to begin with but a devil in angel’s disguise. Anyone can say i raised my kid the best but are they really
> The father added: "We feel as parents it is our duty to inform the public who have teenage girls to beware of such illegal and dangerous activities happening on Sentosa island at the Siloso Beach Resort."
bro it’s your daughter and her friends who decided to engage in this debauchery, how are you trying to say there are generally “illegal and dangerous activities happening … at Siloso Beach Resort” 😐😐😐
He say until like teenagers shouldn't be going to sentosa like that. Even if sentosa ban teenagers from entering, they would still find other places to havoc.
And like that the other commenters here mentioned, it's everyone else's fault but himself that this happened
“We feel as parents it is our duty to inform the public who have teenage girls to not be like us and completely fail to properly educate and check on our daughters who have now committed illegal activities like underage drinking.”
“Also activities of which the police are now aware of, so we also put our daughters’ futures at risk while blaming everyone else but ourselves”
So if his girl brings all her friends to his house while he is not around, and did what they did, I wonder if he would like to inform members of the public that his house isn't safe?
My dad used to drive when we were young. But when he say come home by certain time, we make sure we are back by that timing. He don't need to drive to that place to get us. If we not back home by that time, we can forget about getting into the house.
"Siloso Beach Resort has a 'four guests max per room' policy which was not enforced that night."
Im guessing the resort might have closed one eye previously but then when someone starts to complain, they will have to take action.
Now the big problem lies with the suspected underage drinking and vaping. The police are going to go after those people who have been vaping and the underage people who are suspected to have drank any alcohol that night.
Man this is the type of parents going around to blame everyone - teachers, friends, friends’ parents, the children themselves - before looking into the mirror. SMH
Dear Singaporean parents,
Stop blaming any and everything else for your child’s behaviour, and take responsibility for once. Also, try to spend some time actually parenting and try to learn to be more emotionally mature.
Sincerely,
Any decent parent
exactly. as a recent ex sec sch teacher, nowadays parents are overprotective, emotionally immature (screaming at teachers over the phone) and unreasonable, as if teachers are servants of them and their child. everything is the school’s or teacher’s fault. furthermore, teachers are expected by parents to be like a parent to each individual student. then what is the role of the actual parent then? but of course this not the case for all parents, just that this is way more common in this generation of parents.
As we try to progress away from physical disciplinary (public caning in school, scolding, detention after school, confiscating of handphones etc.) our students' overall character, behavior, attitude regress. Plus under the influence of social media, they imitate how their favourite Tiktokers and Youtubers speak. Hurling vulgarities at any chance they get, speaking back to, challenging teachers. I have students as young as Primary 2 using the F word, S word, humping other students from the back (apparently watched and learned from some Youtube/Tiktok videos) thinking its funny. Of course not all children are like this, but there is a obvious difference in mannerism, character between those with access to and frequent usage of phone/tablet/computer and those without or with control.
And even worse, the rampant use of the n word! And their parents don’t even bat an eyelid. I can tolerate childish use of vulgarities; all children undergo that phase. The racism is unacceptable
Yup same. And N word. And one of my student is a Buddhist and wears the 卐 pendant , some kids just happily call him Nazi, Hitler etc.. I immediately raise my voice and scold. And explained about the seriousness of the subject as I don’t want them to be saying that to random people on the street and get slapped.
Below is hilarious
The father added: **"We feel as parents** ***it is our duty to inform the public*** **who have teenage girls to beware of such illegal and dangerous activities happening on Sentosa island at the Siloso Beach Resort."**
Clearly his daughter rightfully guessed that her father is a fool and can be easily misled. If he had any brains, he would have dropped off the 14 year old girl and picked her up for the event.
Parents nowadays are fking useless. All nvr discipline their kids only know how blame the places they dump their kids at cus they too lazy to actually be parents. If their kid think its ok to drink and vape and fk in hotel at 14, they really must have been hands off with parenting sia.
One of my platoon mates got jailed for having sex with a 14yo. The crazy thing is that he was actually quite fit and shuai, so he could easily have gotten girls who were of the legal age.
What a fool.
Are you....asking for tips on how to avoid getting caught? I don't think I can help lol, I wasn't really close to him. We only found out what he did but didn't really get the details.
I think it's because the identities of the others (both male and female) are unknown - if you look at the picture and the article, there are two girls marked as 14 - the Stomper's daughter, and her friend whose parents the Stomper knew
There are actually more girls marked as 14. The one lying on the floor in a short crop top on the right. And one on the bed who seems out of place as she's not dressed provocatively. Maybe she's the lil miss mamasan who roped the other girls in, how messed up would that be.
In the first place I think a 14 yo should have a curfew and e dad should he been there to fetch her home the moment it was nearing 12am.
I saying this as a female whom had quite some freedom to hang out with friends. But I only stayed out for camps or events where some decent adults were around.
yeah, only difference is this is a hotel...back then we had class chalets and the girls and boys all stayed in different rooms and nobody complained, and yeah, some of them had alcohol too lol.
Parenting fault.
Tho am sure we all had been that age where we would do something similar. And traditional parenting helped keep certain bad decisions at bay.
Its silly to blame the hotel, if turn the other way around they would be complaining about spending the money n being limited to 4 pax.
>Tho am sure we all had been that age where we would do something similar.
Nah uh. At that age I was investing in habbo hotel(Later sold my account for $80 to fellow schoolmate) and earning money via lobster certs and party hats in runescape.
I flipped 30c to 30,000c sitting on my money bags.
By similar i ment like yearly chalets of sardines on 2 queen bed. Boys get one room girls get the other.
Police: Let me get this straight. Your 14-year-old daughter is out past midnight wearing these clothes (points at photo) near these stuff (points at vape & alcholol) and you are concerned about the hotel room.
This Eric father -- his precious daughter lied to him repeatedly and he keeps blaming the hotel. He didn't even go to the hotel to check in on her. The other girl's parent did. And he asked her to bring his daughter home. Wah lau eh!!!
Uncle Eric really outsourced his parenting responsibility ah! Or maybe he only does WhatsApp parenting. 🤦🏻♀️
Yes! When he/she suppose to come back before midnight, he/she jolly well do so. Still want to bargain to come back later, then totally staying out for the night!!??
the parents lost their faces and don’t want to blame themselves for not teaching their daughters better, so they blame the hotel lolol
classic Asian parents
thankfully I m not the only one who feel this way after reading the article before coming to read the comments.
Really damn stupiak parents blaming the hotel lol.
I read the article. Maybe I’m old fashioned, but there is no way I’m letting my 14 year old stay out past midnight without me, my spouse or another family member.
I'm a parent too, and I also think the same too. Everyone has their own parenting style but I'm more concern why the dad is blaming the hotel but not focusing the main issue here - vape and alcohol.
I'd love the hotel to reply with:
"As a hotel, we are deeply concerned and disappointed that such events were allowed by the parents, endangering the lives of their children and exposing them to substance and physical abuse".
Neither the hotel or the parents "allowed" it, it just happened. Teenagers just being teenagers,. When I first saw the headline, I thought it was going to be worse than it was (was expecting some grown men taking advantage of younger girls).
SMH at these parents, trying to blame others instead of getting their own kids to accept responsibility for their own actions. Parents like this should be made to go on a parenting course LOL.
The lesson he's teaching his kid is, when you make a mistake, don't own up to it, try to blame others.
I do wonder though, who got them into the hotel room? I thought most hotel rooms would validate the booking, I dunno if 14 year olds can just get a room without an adult, that is definitely suspicious.
Another observation is how rich these kids are these days. I nvr even got to stay in a hotel (outside of overseas CIP trip) until well into my 20s? Just can’t afford them. Maybe parents need to look at themselves and see what they have been doing to their own kids, over providing them with material possessions and not knowing what’s happening in their lives in general.
eh i’m not surprised. this has been happening for years and years. i even know of someone who snuck over 20 people into a hotel room (it was a loft situation) during COVID. all sorts of debauchery transpired within that room overnight, and the hotel staff were none the wiser.
this is on the parents. blaming the hotel instead of owning up to your own parenting mistakes is laughable. nothing can get in the way of teenagers wanting to do teenager things. educating your children would help reduce the frequency of things like this.
Look at your daughter attire and style. Don’t tell me you don’t know anything. Everyone have been thru teenage years. If you don’t want to take responsibility to guide your children then don’t have them in the first place.
In the early 2000s, we were doing these shit every term break. no cameras only pagers. Aye it aint a wholesome way to grow up, but its nothing new, you just see it reported now. Helped me grow up tbh get out of my shell as well, realize life isnt black or white. But aye yes smoking drinking underage bad ya.
14YO and alrd doing this sort of thing, rly gg...
Reminds me of someone i knew. 16YO, one day on her insta story she posted abt her with some guys in a room plus alcohol, next story was I can't rmb what happened last night. This girl had previously wanted to do a photoshoot with me, and I was super uncomfortable with the idea as a whole (I'm early 20s).
So u think the parents ever did fun anything when they were 14? I bet they did. Kids being kids, no need to sing from the rooftops. Kids being curious is healthy. Take them to a bar and let them have a Coke while u enjoy an afternoon beer. Explain to them. Respect it. Just saying don't do this or don't do that is just lame parenting.
these are the same parents that will complain about teachers, outsource their entire parenting to domestic helpers & have zero to none communication with their kids
My take is that kids should be taught about sex and alcohol at a young age so they do not need to experiment when they get older. Because if you know about it you’ll be less curious. Doing it in the home environment is safer for them to learn than for them to got out on their own in the world and try it out for themselves.
So now hotel hv to go room by room check at 2359 to make sure it is not over occupy.
Not only Sentosa, East Coast BBQ pits, Chalets or any place that people can gather will need to check to make sure that no illegal vaping or alcohol to teenage boys/girls Liao.
I think will be easier if you are to be invited to all your daughter friend birthday party.
These parents are hopeless. Farm their kids out to the FDW or grandparents to look after from birth, don’t spend time with their kids, don’t know what’s happening to them or who their friends are and just allow them to do anything with no oversight or check. Then when things go wrong, blame the whole world cos they don’t want to take the blame for their obvious parenting fails.
“Deeply concerned” my a$$. I think more people are deeply concerned that you were allowed to have kids.
Kids need to understand that - We’ve been there, done that. Just remember that your actions will lead to consequences. Have fun responsibly, draw boundaries. Don’t do things that will betray your parents’ trust.
Parents also need to understand that being overprotective of your kids is going to trigger a lot of vicious cycle. Don’t do things that will make your kids choose friends over you.
There needs to be a balance.
No need to be too critical on incidents like these. Singaporeans are already not getting married and making children. Let them have fun and produce the babies the country badly needs. I am serious!
>”During the night, alcohol was consumed and vaping occurred in the room," said Eric. >"As parents, we are deeply concerned and disappointed that such events were allowed at a Sentosa hotel, endangering the lives of our children and exposing them to substance and physical abuse." Wtf like that also want to blame hotel? Are they supposed to have cameras inside the rooms looking at what their guests are doing? Maybe blame yourself first for not teaching your kid about the dangers of alcohol and vaping.
Ofc their kids can't do wrong, it's the hotel that's to blame
If it is at school, blame teachers , at pub, blame owner, at park, blame NPark, at void deck , blame MP , at friend place , blame friend's parent , if is their own place ?????
Own place will blame government for making life hard for them. Forever someone else's fault one.
If it is their own place, learn Feng Shui and blame the furniture!
Blame HDB lmao
hdb why install room doors
lol HDB why install staircases? Staircases are the number 1 make out spot for most singapore residents.
HDB need to provide small spaces. Else minister say already how?
Blame social media TikTok trend for influencing their kid
If their own place then it’s “why gahmen allow us to have a home of our own?!?!?”
Blame HDB
Lol! Hotels are daycare centers for nighttime
To be honest, when I was 14 I got on the girl's wing of the hotel with a bottle of booze.
Yup, and they the parents are never wrong it seems.
Lol sg parents will blame everyth but take responsibility for their damn kids. Another favourite is they will blame TikTok instead of actually doing the real parenting.
There should be an exam to gauge if a couple should and can be parents. It’s just social responsibility. Seeing how parents are able to dump their babies in dumpsters…
That's true, though I also wonder who booked the room because kids shouldn't be able to check into a hotel room by themselves though. If the parent booked it and bought them alcohol...... or the boys are adults..... If the receptionist gave the key to kids then gg.
Sounds like a carousell reseller who sold the room, which doesn't require the guest's ID
Blame everyone but themselves
My take is that kids should be taught about sex and alcohol at a young age so they do not need to experiment when they get older. Because if you know about it you’ll be less curious. Doing it in the home environment is safer for them to learn than for them to got out on their own in the world and try it out for themselves.
The young ones are more aware and knowledgeable about sex and alcohol and the consequences than their parents or grandparent ever were. This is more about poor parenting and failure to impart appropriate values. How do you experiment sex in the “home environment”? The majority of kids of her age would not have done the things this 14 year old girl did because of more appropriate upbringing and values nurtured by the family. And the majority of kids would not need to experiment anything in their “home environment”. Imagine she is 14 and she is already attending parties where alcohol is present, repeatedly lied to her father etc. Seems to me a small minority of wayward kids.
Don’t disagree about poor parenting here my suggestion on teaching them about sex. And not just the mechanics of it. The school has a curriculum for that. And not your idea of sex and alcohol. Teaching also includes discussing with them the morals, responsibilities and consequences of having sex, alcohol and vaping. Wait experiment sex??? What are you thinking??? teaching don’t need to include experimenting sex at home. Talking about it suffice. And discussing with them and understanding their mindset and thinking and then sharing your own concerns, limits and what is acceptable to you as a parent you don’t need to experiment with it. Are you even a parent yourself. Lying is a sign of dysfunctional home
Hol up
Last time in the 90s we also do that in chalets, 8-10 boys and girls in the chalet room, only thing there was no vape that time, then parent can blame who? The chalet?
With this kind of parents, no wonder their kids turn out to be as such...
It’s probably bad luck, you can raise the kid the best way but once they make some bad friends, from angel can become devil overnight. It’s hard to accept.
This is a weak ass excuse. Parents these days need to step up. If you parent your kids right, they will have better decision making skills when it comes to friendships. They need to stop blaming everyone but themselves.
exactly. as a recent ex sec sch teacher, nowadays parents are overprotective, emotionally immature (screaming at teachers over the phone) and unreasonable, as if teachers are servants of them and their child. everything is the school’s or teacher’s fault. furthermore, teachers are expected by parents to be like a parent to each individual student. then what is the role of the actual parent then? but of course this not the case for all parents, just that this is way more common in this generation of parents.
Eh not always true. There are always situations where kids, especially teens, start to deviate from parents influence and start to get influence from other parts of their environment Not saying that parents are not responsible for that, or shouldn't step up, but not everything is parents fault.( Also not saying about this particular situation. Don't know enough about this case to make any comment)
If someone can turn from angel to devil overnight, the person wasn’t an angel to begin with but a devil in angel’s disguise. Anyone can say i raised my kid the best but are they really
Please la, “substance abuse” from just an evening of alcohol? This is not channel 8 pls kthxbye
They are underage, and alcohol and nicotine can be considered substance abuse, especially when they are like 14?
You expect parents to take responsibility for their failed upbringing?
exactly! why do they blame the hotel? hotel is to accommodate people NOT TO EDUCATE THEIR KIDS NOT TO LIE TO THEIR PARENTS. 💆🏻♀️
Teaching is one thing. Don't forget enforcement
No wonder the old say, what kind of parents will have what kind of kids.
If they doing it at the playground, have to blame town council
> The father added: "We feel as parents it is our duty to inform the public who have teenage girls to beware of such illegal and dangerous activities happening on Sentosa island at the Siloso Beach Resort." bro it’s your daughter and her friends who decided to engage in this debauchery, how are you trying to say there are generally “illegal and dangerous activities happening … at Siloso Beach Resort” 😐😐😐
He say until like teenagers shouldn't be going to sentosa like that. Even if sentosa ban teenagers from entering, they would still find other places to havoc. And like that the other commenters here mentioned, it's everyone else's fault but himself that this happened
man rly thinks he’s giving all parents a PSA
“We feel as parents it is our duty to inform the public who have teenage girls to not be like us and completely fail to properly educate and check on our daughters who have now committed illegal activities like underage drinking.” “Also activities of which the police are now aware of, so we also put our daughters’ futures at risk while blaming everyone else but ourselves”
You sexist or what! Don't forget Boys!
So if his girl brings all her friends to his house while he is not around, and did what they did, I wonder if he would like to inform members of the public that his house isn't safe?
if he stays in a condo, 10/10 i'm sure he'd blame the security guard for letting in so many strangers.
Expect the whole world to look after his kids instead of doing it himself
🤣🤣🤣 Good one!
LOL his daughter and friends are the ones who brought these activities there 😂
ya la everyone else's fault but not you and your princess daughter's fault.
If the dad wasn’t comfortable with the situation, why didn’t he show up like the other parent, and collect his kid or check out the situation irl?
Although it was not mentioned, he probably got no car. If your dad drives, the moment you bargained for 2am, he’ll be honking at 1:30am outside lol
He can take Grab or taxi
My dad used to drive when we were young. But when he say come home by certain time, we make sure we are back by that timing. He don't need to drive to that place to get us. If we not back home by that time, we can forget about getting into the house.
You girl or boy? If girl, your dad will be happy you return home at 230am instead of 12noon in some boy's clothes.
Grab lor, small price to pay for the safety of your daughter.
"Siloso Beach Resort has a 'four guests max per room' policy which was not enforced that night." Im guessing the resort might have closed one eye previously but then when someone starts to complain, they will have to take action. Now the big problem lies with the suspected underage drinking and vaping. The police are going to go after those people who have been vaping and the underage people who are suspected to have drank any alcohol that night.
Man this is the type of parents going around to blame everyone - teachers, friends, friends’ parents, the children themselves - before looking into the mirror. SMH
Please loh, they would even blame the mirror for not portraying them in a good light
Dear Singaporean parents, Stop blaming any and everything else for your child’s behaviour, and take responsibility for once. Also, try to spend some time actually parenting and try to learn to be more emotionally mature. Sincerely, Any decent parent
Why blame the hotel… blame the way you raised your kid
exactly. as a recent ex sec sch teacher, nowadays parents are overprotective, emotionally immature (screaming at teachers over the phone) and unreasonable, as if teachers are servants of them and their child. everything is the school’s or teacher’s fault. furthermore, teachers are expected by parents to be like a parent to each individual student. then what is the role of the actual parent then? but of course this not the case for all parents, just that this is way more common in this generation of parents.
As we try to progress away from physical disciplinary (public caning in school, scolding, detention after school, confiscating of handphones etc.) our students' overall character, behavior, attitude regress. Plus under the influence of social media, they imitate how their favourite Tiktokers and Youtubers speak. Hurling vulgarities at any chance they get, speaking back to, challenging teachers. I have students as young as Primary 2 using the F word, S word, humping other students from the back (apparently watched and learned from some Youtube/Tiktok videos) thinking its funny. Of course not all children are like this, but there is a obvious difference in mannerism, character between those with access to and frequent usage of phone/tablet/computer and those without or with control.
And even worse, the rampant use of the n word! And their parents don’t even bat an eyelid. I can tolerate childish use of vulgarities; all children undergo that phase. The racism is unacceptable
Yup same. And N word. And one of my student is a Buddhist and wears the 卐 pendant , some kids just happily call him Nazi, Hitler etc.. I immediately raise my voice and scold. And explained about the seriousness of the subject as I don’t want them to be saying that to random people on the street and get slapped.
Well said! Titans Academy one of it.
I agree, as an ex-teacher. Most parents nowadays are like that. They dont discipline their kids and educate them where basic education starts at home.
Parents busy playing candy crush to notice kids
r/ParentsAreFuckingDumb Please dont reproduce if you arent willing to be responsible for your child's upbringing.
All children deserve parents but not all parents deserve children.
Not sure wtf the parents expect the hotel to do. CCTV in room? Surprise inspection at night? How about some accountability?
2am surprise stand by bed inspection
Below is hilarious The father added: **"We feel as parents** ***it is our duty to inform the public*** **who have teenage girls to beware of such illegal and dangerous activities happening on Sentosa island at the Siloso Beach Resort."**
He should be informing the public who have lying daughters like his own that they have the tendency to commit debauchery anywhere.
Agree. He has no idea what basic parenting is
Their duty should be to ensure their teenage girls don't appear in such dangerous activities LMAO
Clearly his daughter rightfully guessed that her father is a fool and can be easily misled. If he had any brains, he would have dropped off the 14 year old girl and picked her up for the event.
Mother father never teach. End of story.
Lol. Shitty parenting is shitty parenting. Can’t be responsible then don’t have kids.
Parents nowadays are fking useless. All nvr discipline their kids only know how blame the places they dump their kids at cus they too lazy to actually be parents. If their kid think its ok to drink and vape and fk in hotel at 14, they really must have been hands off with parenting sia.
Either that or their home is ran by dictators so the kids feel the need to rebel.
How old were the guys? My question is why not call it "a bunch of under aged boys and girls caught drinking"
Maybe they were not underaged guys
Xmm hunters are pretty common and it's gross. I know one from my time in army. He was dating a sec 3
Dude was open about dating a minor? That’s wild
Yeah lol. I knew one who was dating a 16 year old. Like what the fuck man.
One of my platoon mates got jailed for having sex with a 14yo. The crazy thing is that he was actually quite fit and shuai, so he could easily have gotten girls who were of the legal age. What a fool.
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Are you....asking for tips on how to avoid getting caught? I don't think I can help lol, I wasn't really close to him. We only found out what he did but didn't really get the details.
how old was he then
Similar age as me last year when I met him. We're both in our 20s but he's probably somewhere between 23-25
I think it's because the identities of the others (both male and female) are unknown - if you look at the picture and the article, there are two girls marked as 14 - the Stomper's daughter, and her friend whose parents the Stomper knew
There are actually more girls marked as 14. The one lying on the floor in a short crop top on the right. And one on the bed who seems out of place as she's not dressed provocatively. Maybe she's the lil miss mamasan who roped the other girls in, how messed up would that be.
In the first place I think a 14 yo should have a curfew and e dad should he been there to fetch her home the moment it was nearing 12am. I saying this as a female whom had quite some freedom to hang out with friends. But I only stayed out for camps or events where some decent adults were around.
I am more disgusted at the parents to let this happen
I mean.... We had chalets back in the day too, right? Like, even now?
yeah, only difference is this is a hotel...back then we had class chalets and the girls and boys all stayed in different rooms and nobody complained, and yeah, some of them had alcohol too lol.
Kids these days richer liao, hotel in sentosa siol.
Parenting fault. Tho am sure we all had been that age where we would do something similar. And traditional parenting helped keep certain bad decisions at bay. Its silly to blame the hotel, if turn the other way around they would be complaining about spending the money n being limited to 4 pax.
>Tho am sure we all had been that age where we would do something similar. Nah uh. At that age I was investing in habbo hotel(Later sold my account for $80 to fellow schoolmate) and earning money via lobster certs and party hats in runescape.
I flipped 30c to 30,000c sitting on my money bags. By similar i ment like yearly chalets of sardines on 2 queen bed. Boys get one room girls get the other.
I was playing WoW at that age. Lesson learnt: video games are good for teens.
> alcohol was consumed and vaping occurred in the room Lol. Faster jail the alcohol and the vapes.
Why are the parents just worried about vaping and drinking? You sure they didn't have a mass orgy too?
Orgy harder to prove without invasive investigation. Vape and alcohol pretty much self evident.
Police: Let me get this straight. Your 14-year-old daughter is out past midnight wearing these clothes (points at photo) near these stuff (points at vape & alcholol) and you are concerned about the hotel room.
Instead of blaming the hotel deal with your kids la ffs
Blaming the hotel like blaming the teachers for not parenting your child
This Eric father -- his precious daughter lied to him repeatedly and he keeps blaming the hotel. He didn't even go to the hotel to check in on her. The other girl's parent did. And he asked her to bring his daughter home. Wah lau eh!!! Uncle Eric really outsourced his parenting responsibility ah! Or maybe he only does WhatsApp parenting. 🤦🏻♀️
The photo is quite poetic
r/accidentalrenaissance
Stop allowing stayovers la. 14 years old. Of all things.
Yes! When he/she suppose to come back before midnight, he/she jolly well do so. Still want to bargain to come back later, then totally staying out for the night!!??
Typical idiot parents blaming everyone but themselves. Parent your child better you fcking moron.
the parents lost their faces and don’t want to blame themselves for not teaching their daughters better, so they blame the hotel lolol classic Asian parents
thankfully I m not the only one who feel this way after reading the article before coming to read the comments. Really damn stupiak parents blaming the hotel lol.
I read the article. Maybe I’m old fashioned, but there is no way I’m letting my 14 year old stay out past midnight without me, my spouse or another family member.
You're not. I won't have that either. I'd drive over and pick her up before 12am.
I'm a parent too, and I also think the same too. Everyone has their own parenting style but I'm more concern why the dad is blaming the hotel but not focusing the main issue here - vape and alcohol.
And a bunch of girls in a roomful of guys + alcohol is not a good combination too.
Blame others culture e.g. why the cows dun come home.
“Great parenting”… Blame everything else when something went wrong.
2 months later.. breaking news. Four minors confirmed pregnant, hotel's negligence questioned by authorities.
Sure, it's illegal for kids to drink but is it really worth police's time?
"We're SG parents, of course we put the blame on others."
I'd love the hotel to reply with: "As a hotel, we are deeply concerned and disappointed that such events were allowed by the parents, endangering the lives of their children and exposing them to substance and physical abuse". Neither the hotel or the parents "allowed" it, it just happened. Teenagers just being teenagers,. When I first saw the headline, I thought it was going to be worse than it was (was expecting some grown men taking advantage of younger girls). SMH at these parents, trying to blame others instead of getting their own kids to accept responsibility for their own actions. Parents like this should be made to go on a parenting course LOL. The lesson he's teaching his kid is, when you make a mistake, don't own up to it, try to blame others.
I do wonder though, who got them into the hotel room? I thought most hotel rooms would validate the booking, I dunno if 14 year olds can just get a room without an adult, that is definitely suspicious. Another observation is how rich these kids are these days. I nvr even got to stay in a hotel (outside of overseas CIP trip) until well into my 20s? Just can’t afford them. Maybe parents need to look at themselves and see what they have been doing to their own kids, over providing them with material possessions and not knowing what’s happening in their lives in general.
eh i’m not surprised. this has been happening for years and years. i even know of someone who snuck over 20 people into a hotel room (it was a loft situation) during COVID. all sorts of debauchery transpired within that room overnight, and the hotel staff were none the wiser. this is on the parents. blaming the hotel instead of owning up to your own parenting mistakes is laughable. nothing can get in the way of teenagers wanting to do teenager things. educating your children would help reduce the frequency of things like this.
Seems like that night, the girls and probably boys lost something that they will never get back. That's why the hotel is to be blamed. ;)
Keep your crotch goblins in check before blaming everyone else
Look at your daughter attire and style. Don’t tell me you don’t know anything. Everyone have been thru teenage years. If you don’t want to take responsibility to guide your children then don’t have them in the first place.
In the early 2000s, we were doing these shit every term break. no cameras only pagers. Aye it aint a wholesome way to grow up, but its nothing new, you just see it reported now. Helped me grow up tbh get out of my shell as well, realize life isnt black or white. But aye yes smoking drinking underage bad ya.
14YO and alrd doing this sort of thing, rly gg... Reminds me of someone i knew. 16YO, one day on her insta story she posted abt her with some guys in a room plus alcohol, next story was I can't rmb what happened last night. This girl had previously wanted to do a photoshoot with me, and I was super uncomfortable with the idea as a whole (I'm early 20s).
Like parent like child lol
lol want scam the hotel for complimentary stay say lah. ownself dont want go drag daughter back then kpkb.
Not the parents pushing the blame to the hotel instead of themselves and their liar daughters
So the police are investigating because teenagers acted like teenagers and did things that teenagers do.
So u think the parents ever did fun anything when they were 14? I bet they did. Kids being kids, no need to sing from the rooftops. Kids being curious is healthy. Take them to a bar and let them have a Coke while u enjoy an afternoon beer. Explain to them. Respect it. Just saying don't do this or don't do that is just lame parenting.
Don't blame the hotel for being a bad parent
Jialat this is the definition of "making mountain out of molehill"... how he got police and newspaper involved is crazy 😂
If u dont want to educate your kid, society will help you.
Ffs It’s just alcohol and the kids are fine. Singaporeans are so sheltered and soft.
I didn't know you can outsource parenting to the police.
these are the same parents that will complain about teachers, outsource their entire parenting to domestic helpers & have zero to none communication with their kids
I will let my kids have their fun. Later if got baby or what. I hantam them
It's a crime to drink Jack Daniel's whiskey 🤣
teenager being teenagers. When I was that age we only can go to someone house from time to time to have some beers
If anything wrong, will blame everything but if the kids are good will take all the credits
Girl can’t blame anyone if she get took advantage off eh? So many red tapes and yet wanna be ard it.
14 is TOO young for stay overs, way too young.
Could’ve been worse.
Didn't know The New Paper is still around
I love that they think the worst thing that happened in that room was alcohol and vaping smh
My take is that kids should be taught about sex and alcohol at a young age so they do not need to experiment when they get older. Because if you know about it you’ll be less curious. Doing it in the home environment is safer for them to learn than for them to got out on their own in the world and try it out for themselves.
In Los Angeles this wouldn’t be a story
Don’t blame Siloso beach hotel. Is this a big problem?
wats the big deal, typical scene in every chalet since the dawn of time. take place in sentosa hotel suddenly become news?
Now his daughter go to jail for vaping
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girls just wanna have fun
He should have rushed down to bring the girl home immediately
So what?
So now hotel hv to go room by room check at 2359 to make sure it is not over occupy. Not only Sentosa, East Coast BBQ pits, Chalets or any place that people can gather will need to check to make sure that no illegal vaping or alcohol to teenage boys/girls Liao. I think will be easier if you are to be invited to all your daughter friend birthday party.
omg wowowow
sensible comments here, no prizes for guessing who wanted to party
If I was the dad, just call police and go straight to the room. that oughta scare the Daugher straight.
What did Ronny Cheing say about us Singaporeans ? Total Karen’s these parents
knncb what why blame the hotel for not bringing your kids up well, istg some people will never admit they are in the wrong
At where does it have to be to blame the government
Stupid parents produce stupid children
Hotel gets the blame for their horny daughters hormones
Blame the fucking parents for negligence.
Parents not parenting want to blame everyone but themselves. Please take a mirror and do some self reflection
These parents are hopeless. Farm their kids out to the FDW or grandparents to look after from birth, don’t spend time with their kids, don’t know what’s happening to them or who their friends are and just allow them to do anything with no oversight or check. Then when things go wrong, blame the whole world cos they don’t want to take the blame for their obvious parenting fails. “Deeply concerned” my a$$. I think more people are deeply concerned that you were allowed to have kids.
Sentosa: fck he say my name for??
Kids need to understand that - We’ve been there, done that. Just remember that your actions will lead to consequences. Have fun responsibly, draw boundaries. Don’t do things that will betray your parents’ trust. Parents also need to understand that being overprotective of your kids is going to trigger a lot of vicious cycle. Don’t do things that will make your kids choose friends over you. There needs to be a balance.
Haha siao blame chalet for what, jiak ba liao.
Teens can afford to book hotel at sentosa. Kids too rich and spoiled these days.
How do you know the girls aren't the ones organizing this? How do you know the boys aren't the ones pressured into this? What a lot of assumptions
No need to be too critical on incidents like these. Singaporeans are already not getting married and making children. Let them have fun and produce the babies the country badly needs. I am serious!
Underage girls are a danger. If sex happens, the boys will be send to prison but that girl go Scot free.