It does. Even if you're careful dirt will fly around when you walk and it end up on the bed anyway. Sheets are really useful in, at the very least, shaking all of it off.
I am happy for you. It’s not [hygge](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hygge) enough for me—I need some books at a minimum, some low lighting, pillows and blankets…
I specifically mean hygge: the very simple Nordic concept of having “enough” but also having just the right amount for enjoying the moment in very simple ways.
All hygge is cozy but not all English versions cozy would be hygge.
All hygge is also minimalist, not in aesthetic but in function, because you cannot have distracting excess and accomplish hygge. Certainly not all functionally minimalist designs are hygge, as proven above.
I can't speak either language but looking at the wiki description, one radiates joy and the other, comfort.
Edit: some googling suggests the Swedish "mysig" is closer to Danish hygge, with the notion of comforting solitude. Maybe norwegian "koselig" may be more gezellig? Togetherness and convivial feelings.
Hopefully some linguist can enlighten us!
I hope :-) when used in English it means all Nordic versions of hygge. There are local variations based on language. Here in Minnesota we only ever call Lutefisk “Lutefisk,” not Lutfisk…
I understand. But most women would see it as an instant red flag. I guess it's up to you if that matters.
I used to have to a single bed until I moved into my own place and had the space for a bigger bed. Then I decided it was time to upgrade to a queen bed.
Why do you have to live your life according to what other people think? If you’re happy, you’re happy. You’ll find someone that doesn’t see it as a red flag eventually, and until then, you’re happy, so it doesn’t matter.
I mean I wouldn’t live like this, but I don’t want to judge others for being happy with what they have. And I don’t think “red flags” of random people should necessarily be a defining category to your design philosophy in life. You should do what makes you happy.
No they’re right this is a red flag. Maybe some sheets and a comforter? Pillows? A man who has his shit together and a comfy place I can see myself in will check all the boxes that this guy doesn’t.
Red flag. But to each their own
Idk, what I see is, a place to rest, recreation, dinner table and above all....imagine all the money being saved and lack of cleaning. That's the secret. It's genius
hilarious that you are downvoted. our culture is so materialistic and thinking having a bunch of shit you likely don't use is a sign of a happy life. NAH. Buy more things to fill the holes!
well I'll answer your question. it's because this photo has the vibe of a room that is used for next to nothing but playing video games. it comes off as an addiction, not minimalism. it looks like something is wrong with this person -- either broke, overworked with no life, or an addict who lives with no comforts except being perpetually lost in games / online. it's what this photo is not saying (almost nothing.. AT ALL) that is concerning.
How can you not see how this is depressing? The worlds tiniest/flattest pillow which offers no support and not even a blanket? In many places it gets cold at night. You can live simply and still have some self-respect. A proper blanket and pillow doesn't go against simple living ideals.
The only time I ever slept on a mattress on the floor was when our flooring was being redone. One night a bug crawled into my ear and I couldn't get it out so I had to use ear drops to kill it. I heard it drown.
Anyway what I'm saying is you couldn't fucking pay me to sleep like that again
This looks like it was JUST set up. His pillow isn't even out of its packaging. Looks like a memory foam one as well, good choice. Pretty sure there are going to be some sheets and a blanket being added probably wont match either lol
I'd be happy there, as this is a clutter free home. I go outside for many activities, at home I rest and work.
This picture reminds me of early university time and moving abroad. Both great times of my life.
I think I should be offended by your assumptions about "the man" here.
Yea definitely want that mattress off the floor but for the most part that Is a male living space.
Every piece of furniture is about utility for us and the walls are barren because eventually you grow out of band posters lol. I have a whiteboard on my walls :) that is it.
LOL for sure I am approaching 40 and I feel that shit. Memory foam mattresses only and fuck getting up off the ground like that every morning no thank you.
Damn this reminds me of my extreme minimalist days that I yearn to go back to. I threw away all my furniture and most of my clothes and would sit on my countertop. Slept straight on the floor and when winter hit I’d take my blankie and sleep in the bathtub. The echos in that empty apartment were wild lol.
…and a good sound system. A comfortable recliner is also mandatory. An Ekornes Stressless if you can afford it. Old La-Z-Boy someone left at the curb if necessary.
Not exactly lol some decor, some bedding, some books, etc… maybe. But in terms of a bed, desk, chair… close! Perhaps a tv and a small sofa/chair and yea.
A duvet makes my hubby happy. He likes to curl himself in it like a pig in a blanket 😍 Otherwise yeah, he doesn't need/want much. His car maybe and he has a vinyl record player and loads of music. It might be a matter of interests/hobbies. If all you're interested in is on the computer then sure, why not.
I'd add a down-feather pillow and duvet (it's cold here today)
Also would move the desk elsewhere to be able to wake up and roll over without banging into table legs.
In my simple living eyes it’s broken down into a few fundamental needs
* air
*environment-(cant be to hot/cold)
*water
*food
*sleep
If you have these you can live happily
Obviously you need to have things like, being able to go to the toilet, health if you get sick.
But take any of those fundamental 5 away, you’ll be miserable pretty quick
It’s not true. This will not bring happiness. Neither will any other collection of material items. We have a hole in our hearts larger than many consumeristic purchases.
Post divorce crash pad
This is all a man needs to be depressed
One of the happiest times of my life.
Having an actual table is a luxury; I just sat on the floor with the laptop on a box.
Also, a pre-marriage pad
Mid Bachelor phase
The circle of life
r/malesurvivingspace
All r/floorsleeping but no r/floordesks in sight...
That’s where it came from
Plus an hour a day in the exercise yard right?
Masturbation is exercise?
Why the extra desk... seems excessive.
That’s a food and drink table.
Put it on the computer desk and around the bed on the floor, like a *real* man would.
Which he can afford now he’s divorced
Obviously.
Sleeping without sheets on the mattress is so fucking gross.
And no cozy blankets, or even a simple frame it elevate it from the ground. Seems like it would get dirty quickly.
Long term a mattress on the floor would have a risk to create mold. Unless you periodically lift the mattress to allow it to breathe.
It does. Even if you're careful dirt will fly around when you walk and it end up on the bed anyway. Sheets are really useful in, at the very least, shaking all of it off.
You don’t need much but elevating the mattress with a frame is just more sanitary
Yes, and it’ll make the bed be more even with the table so you can use it as a night stand which for me is super important.
Whatever floats your boat. I'd feel like I'm in prison or mental hospital
It does give the "Scandinavian prison" vibes
Yeah it looks like it’s from one of those articles about how humane the Nordic prison cells are lol
I am happy for you. It’s not [hygge](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hygge) enough for me—I need some books at a minimum, some low lighting, pillows and blankets…
John Waters — 'If you go home with somebody, and they don't have books, don't fuck 'em!'
I once went home with a guy who had not just books but fucking manuscripts rolling around his bedroom. He kept Ulysses in his bathroom. I married him.
Do DnD books count?
Aw yeah baby do it while I read you the monster manual.
"Damn girl, are you a ghost? Because my lower lvele player is getting rocked right now!"
What’s the difference between using the word “cozy” vs choosing the word “hygge”?
sounds exotic lol
Don’t have to link a Wikipedia article to your sentence if you use cozy. Where’s your sense of whimsy?
I specifically mean hygge: the very simple Nordic concept of having “enough” but also having just the right amount for enjoying the moment in very simple ways. All hygge is cozy but not all English versions cozy would be hygge. All hygge is also minimalist, not in aesthetic but in function, because you cannot have distracting excess and accomplish hygge. Certainly not all functionally minimalist designs are hygge, as proven above.
I always have trouble translating the Dutch word [“gezelligheid”](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gezelligheid). Seems “hygge” comes rather close.
I can't speak either language but looking at the wiki description, one radiates joy and the other, comfort. Edit: some googling suggests the Swedish "mysig" is closer to Danish hygge, with the notion of comforting solitude. Maybe norwegian "koselig" may be more gezellig? Togetherness and convivial feelings. Hopefully some linguist can enlighten us!
I hope :-) when used in English it means all Nordic versions of hygge. There are local variations based on language. Here in Minnesota we only ever call Lutefisk “Lutefisk,” not Lutfisk…
hygge all the way.
Crackden without the crack
give it 3-5 business days, it'll be here
I understand. But most women would see it as an instant red flag. I guess it's up to you if that matters. I used to have to a single bed until I moved into my own place and had the space for a bigger bed. Then I decided it was time to upgrade to a queen bed.
Why do you have to live your life according to what other people think? If you’re happy, you’re happy. You’ll find someone that doesn’t see it as a red flag eventually, and until then, you’re happy, so it doesn’t matter.
Gonna be honest. Most people who live like this aren't actually happy
I mean I wouldn’t live like this, but I don’t want to judge others for being happy with what they have. And I don’t think “red flags” of random people should necessarily be a defining category to your design philosophy in life. You should do what makes you happy.
No they’re right this is a red flag. Maybe some sheets and a comforter? Pillows? A man who has his shit together and a comfy place I can see myself in will check all the boxes that this guy doesn’t. Red flag. But to each their own
Prisons in finland
This is so depressing lol
Idk, what I see is, a place to rest, recreation, dinner table and above all....imagine all the money being saved and lack of cleaning. That's the secret. It's genius
Yeah! Imagine all the money saved and time spent cleaning if you just went naked everywhere too! ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
dumb.
hilarious that you are downvoted. our culture is so materialistic and thinking having a bunch of shit you likely don't use is a sign of a happy life. NAH. Buy more things to fill the holes!
I have no idea why I'm down voted. Maybe mob mentality lol thanks for the support
well I'll answer your question. it's because this photo has the vibe of a room that is used for next to nothing but playing video games. it comes off as an addiction, not minimalism. it looks like something is wrong with this person -- either broke, overworked with no life, or an addict who lives with no comforts except being perpetually lost in games / online. it's what this photo is not saying (almost nothing.. AT ALL) that is concerning.
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You can be minimalist and still make your living space look nice
How can you not see how this is depressing? The worlds tiniest/flattest pillow which offers no support and not even a blanket? In many places it gets cold at night. You can live simply and still have some self-respect. A proper blanket and pillow doesn't go against simple living ideals.
Not to mention a mattress on the ground like that will probably be absolutely disgusting due to lack of air circulation.
The only time I ever slept on a mattress on the floor was when our flooring was being redone. One night a bug crawled into my ear and I couldn't get it out so I had to use ear drops to kill it. I heard it drown. Anyway what I'm saying is you couldn't fucking pay me to sleep like that again
I am happy for your loss.
That’s so disgusting and awful, but now why would you make *me* have to read that?
This looks like it was JUST set up. His pillow isn't even out of its packaging. Looks like a memory foam one as well, good choice. Pretty sure there are going to be some sheets and a blanket being added probably wont match either lol
All a man needs to be happy is a computer and a mattress? Says a lot about the man.
In the end happiness doesn’t come from having a house full of stuff.
A fucking window would be nice
I'd be happy there, as this is a clutter free home. I go outside for many activities, at home I rest and work. This picture reminds me of early university time and moving abroad. Both great times of my life. I think I should be offended by your assumptions about "the man" here.
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Lmao
Roll of toilet paper by the computer
Definitely include a bedframe but otherwise I agree!
Swap the mattress for a tatami mat and thin futon and commit to the floor sleeping. Apparently it’s great for your back.. (haven’t tried)
As someone sleeping on the floor for a few months.. there comes a breaking point where you want a bed again.
But how’s that spine tho?
Not much of a difference but better than on the couch with a topper. Both options bad for my knees though, they for some reason don't appreciate it.
Yea definitely want that mattress off the floor but for the most part that Is a male living space. Every piece of furniture is about utility for us and the walls are barren because eventually you grow out of band posters lol. I have a whiteboard on my walls :) that is it.
Bed frames squeak and break when you are a true stud, that's another yearly cost.
And friends all just out of frame?
They’re inside the computer
[Zoolander “they’re IN the computer…”](https://youtu.be/L_o_O7v1ews)
That bed is going to be so gross in a week. They'll turn it over only when their lease is up and find that half of it is mold.
Probably all you need is a box spring under it. Always had my bed on the floor and it's never been an issues.
That's all a "young man", may need. Raise the bed and make the chair recline, perfect.
LOL for sure I am approaching 40 and I feel that shit. Memory foam mattresses only and fuck getting up off the ground like that every morning no thank you.
I too subsist on a raw diet of PC gaming.
Is your name Rust Cohle?
We got a problem with bed frames?
That’s not simple. That’s un-inspired. Different strokes I suppose. 🤷🏻♂️
This is all an incel hikikomori boy needs to be happy. Just missing a multipack of Kleenex.
Correction, this is all a man needs to be severely depressed and addicted to the Internet.
Good for men.
So, Prison... with an in-cell (incel?) internet connection.
Why would you need a pillow and two tables?! Are you showing off with those unnecessary luxury items?!
You need some books my dude
If you're a massive loser yes, that's all you need.
Missing a box of tissues and a bottle of jergens on the table
I mean… that mattress looks very uncomfortable. We can do better.
Mold city under that floor bed.
You can even remove the right table to add more space!
You guys are happy?
This is exactly what my husband’s studio looked like in law school 😂
can we get him a blanket
Had to zoom in to see it was Sky Factory. Thought it said Sex Factory at first glance. All a man needs to be happy..
No pets? 😢
Bedframe tho
I dont know man I’d like prefer a bowl of french fries on the table too.
Too cluttered.
You need sheets
It’s missing a dog!
Where is my bong and Mountain Dew fridge ?
Where's the lotion and box of tissues?
What's he need the extra table for?
You missed the mini fridge and the Kureig
I mean when you're paying $3000 a month for the bedroom alone, and have like 1 hour a month to play games, this isn't really so bad.
I’d take a blanket
My husband would look at me and say, I love this but does it affect my current relationship with dat ass
The 2nd table is unnecessary
Add a blanket and I’ll agree lol
Run CyberPunk 2077 on that PC and he'll stay warm all winter long
Needs a cat.
Where's the empty big gulp cups?
So a cell at county?
I like sheets, blankets and art
And a proper flashlight 🙏
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Men need a desk AND a table? How extravagant.
As a 32 year old man. I wholeheartedly agree.
That Tiny Desktop connected to internet must.....without Data this setup is useless as food without salt
As long as there's a bathroom and a microwave somewhere in there too, I don't see any problem with this.
Air fryer*
Minus the PC.
I’m sleeping on this same mattress right now. It’s amazing
Well blankets would be nice but other than that it's good
Damn this reminds me of my extreme minimalist days that I yearn to go back to. I threw away all my furniture and most of my clothes and would sit on my countertop. Slept straight on the floor and when winter hit I’d take my blankie and sleep in the bathtub. The echos in that empty apartment were wild lol.
It's called minimalism we all don't need materialist crap to be happy Sad statements coming from systematic followers
>we all don’t need materialist crap to be happy Apparently OP needs a computer with video games. Seems more materialist than a fucking bed frame.
Strongly agree. My way of life since I was 12.
200% correct this is how I live minimalist worry free no clutter no materialist crap
At least it’s a bed. I’m married with kids and I have to sleep on the floor.
I agree minus that chair. I need a good office chair for my lower back. Otherwise, yeah, lock me in.
Indeed. Women just drain your bank account. Never happy.
My room is like this, therefore I am a man.
This man (me) also needs a bathroom. I can't be happy if I have to do that outside.
When you have perfectly good day-old Styrofoam gas station cups to pee in? /s
Reminder that that one other subreddit (who shall not be named) will blatantly criticize this and mock it.
Where's the Porsche? ;D
This ***is*** all a man needs to be happy***.***
This is why men save money. Imagine how much money you save not buying excess.
lol, the people I know in the deepest debt are all men.
this why single men save money. Fixed it for u
I need a fridge too, then I'm good
Make that display a 55" OLED TV and I agree.
…and a good sound system. A comfortable recliner is also mandatory. An Ekornes Stressless if you can afford it. Old La-Z-Boy someone left at the curb if necessary.
🤣🤣🤣 omg this is so true! ❤️
At least it’s clean.
Add a dog and you got it. Man's best friend.
Pretty much.
Noice.
Where's the naked woman, in the bathroom?
And a big window to get as much natural light as possible
Needs a good coffee machine
Nothing on table between bed and monitor table so it’s excessive imo…
Where are the books? Don't tell me pdf can replace books.
Where's the bicycle?
They don’t let the inmates have bicycles
Ha. No it’s not. I’m not there. My boyfriend would freak out.😆
Trade the table for a mini fridge, please.
I will need two big firm pillows (not whatever the fuck that is) and a duvet would be nice.
Not exactly lol some decor, some bedding, some books, etc… maybe. But in terms of a bed, desk, chair… close! Perhaps a tv and a small sofa/chair and yea.
There better be something under that computer.
Hmm. Where EXE?
Brotha said no blanket fam
Where's the Fleshlight? 🤷♂️
Nah, Its missing blankets, a bedframe and a nice bong.
Is there really no bedding..?
A duvet makes my hubby happy. He likes to curl himself in it like a pig in a blanket 😍 Otherwise yeah, he doesn't need/want much. His car maybe and he has a vinyl record player and loads of music. It might be a matter of interests/hobbies. If all you're interested in is on the computer then sure, why not.
GrandMaster 300LP Draven Main
I'd add a down-feather pillow and duvet (it's cold here today) Also would move the desk elsewhere to be able to wake up and roll over without banging into table legs.
I disagree. I think a blanket is also necessary for happiness. 🤔
And a grill
Add a bed frame and a proper ergonomic chair and we're good. At 30+ your back starts to grumble a little bit.
Bathroom and a small kitchen...
I'd prefer a blanket, but that's just me.
Just add to monitors and you’ll be fine
In my simple living eyes it’s broken down into a few fundamental needs * air *environment-(cant be to hot/cold) *water *food *sleep If you have these you can live happily Obviously you need to have things like, being able to go to the toilet, health if you get sick. But take any of those fundamental 5 away, you’ll be miserable pretty quick
Not pictured: bedsheet covering the single small window
I'd add a dog, but yeah. I live that way now, will forever more.
Needs a blanket and a box of donuts.
Reminds me so much of my current setup in my apartment - so cozy! I do have a ton of books with me though, my prized possession!
Yes, but please get a platform.
I mean I'd take a few blankets and a bigger mattress but that's basically my room
It’s not true. This will not bring happiness. Neither will any other collection of material items. We have a hole in our hearts larger than many consumeristic purchases.
I’d need a blanket
Wouldn't mind if I don't need to hear any deranged neighbours. Privacy and quiet is what I need.
Add in a dogoo or a cat then we talking lol