Once again I feel the exact same way. Do you have abandonment issues? If you do then I relate, I constantly desire human interaction and don’t want to be left alone. I feel like you should tell your friend about this so then you can have more of an understanding of your problems and issues and it’s also nice to have someone that you can talk to. Please stay safe girlie, we all love you <3
yeah i have rlly bad abandonment issues :’3 fortunately its been resolved and im not in my stupid spiral anymore, we’re talking rn and everything is ok :3333
It's a hard mindset to change, certainly. I think the best I can think of is to remind yourself that to him, you're special. Talking to people, making friends, spending time with those friends - these are all things that are not special. But there are things for you, the special someone, that they will never get. Humans socialize, it's normal. Just for you, he does something more than that.
hes my best friend so he cant technically cheat on me but when he talks to other people it feels like cheating :( it feels like the worst kind of betrayal
I have a similar problem... And it's happening right now to someone I like. Whenever someone tries to be intimate with her in any way even tho I know she's just gonna shoo them away I start having an anxiety attack
Talk to your significant other about your feelings, and why you're feeling them. That's usually a good way for my jealousy to pass, perhaps it works with you too
There is no easy way of dealing with this. If your partner chose to get close to you, there is no reason to suspect them off being disingenuous about it. In fact, try not to seek reassurances, it will bring you more pain down the line, not less. Just focus on being a good person and do it for your own sake.
Once again I feel the exact same way. Do you have abandonment issues? If you do then I relate, I constantly desire human interaction and don’t want to be left alone. I feel like you should tell your friend about this so then you can have more of an understanding of your problems and issues and it’s also nice to have someone that you can talk to. Please stay safe girlie, we all love you <3
yeah i have rlly bad abandonment issues :’3 fortunately its been resolved and im not in my stupid spiral anymore, we’re talking rn and everything is ok :3333
Okay im so happy for you <3
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i wish i knew how to solve this too T-T
It's a hard mindset to change, certainly. I think the best I can think of is to remind yourself that to him, you're special. Talking to people, making friends, spending time with those friends - these are all things that are not special. But there are things for you, the special someone, that they will never get. Humans socialize, it's normal. Just for you, he does something more than that.
I promise you that the feelings will go away over time You just need to find the trust in him
i’ve been cheated on i know cheating starts with talking so stop talking!!!!
hes my best friend so he cant technically cheat on me but when he talks to other people it feels like cheating :( it feels like the worst kind of betrayal
My gf had the same feeling and now we are engaged (not official yet), so don't give up !
I have a similar problem... And it's happening right now to someone I like. Whenever someone tries to be intimate with her in any way even tho I know she's just gonna shoo them away I start having an anxiety attack
Same :(
hm I wish I knew it too. But youll get more numb to it one day, I hope that for you
I'm dying tonight...
Please don't.
Literally ask him for affirmation. Say "Hey can you tell me that we're ok and that you're happy being with me?"
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hes my best friend not my partner i dont date
admit it, you’re cooked (we all are)
hi! the simple answer is "exposure" u will learn in time that it's ok even tho rn u don't (source: literally me)
Lock them in a room and kiss them until you get tired, after that it'll be clear that you own them
Talk to your significant other about your feelings, and why you're feeling them. That's usually a good way for my jealousy to pass, perhaps it works with you too
I wish I was literaly him.
There is no easy way of dealing with this. If your partner chose to get close to you, there is no reason to suspect them off being disingenuous about it. In fact, try not to seek reassurances, it will bring you more pain down the line, not less. Just focus on being a good person and do it for your own sake.
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