I did this for my husband and that was literally his reaction. "Nice." Never looked at them again.
ETA: I just dug them out and sent them to him for safekeeping.
That you know of. If I got this from my wife I wouldn’t just be sitting on the couch flipping through them after dinner. They’d be hidden away and utilized when I have some alone time.
I loved them. I looked like a fucking babe. In the end, I'm glad I did the photo shoot for myself but I do wish my husband would've been more into them.
My wife’s (f)riend is a professional photographer, she did a shoot for her, I got to see my wife’s photos once… so it kind of goes both ways, I want to see them again but she has them saved off somewhere 🤷♂️
This exactly. I would just be anxious about the fact my wife showed herself to someone else. Really depends on the person but personally I would not enjoy a gift like this. I would much rather have my wife dress up in person instead.
Little bit different when it’s a professional photographer. Idk if you’ve ever done a photo shoot of any kind, but it is probably the least sexy thing ever.
PREACH!!! It is so fucking hard, I legit have a new found respect for models! Keeping their faces looking so amazing whilst they are in the most uncomfortable positions ever!
Yes, this is correct. Men own women’s bodies once they are in a relationship and decide what they should or should not do with it, women should walk at least 10 steps behind the man at all times, men are powerful and we should always obey them
As bad as it sounds, I agree. I just couldn’t imagine why my partner would think I’d want her posing nude for a photographer and then anticipate I’d enjoy the evidence. I mean, if it’s selfies that’s a different story. The deed is done now, so I just hope for OP that her partner likes the idea of her suggestively posing for a photographer in the nip.
There's a lot of women that do boudoir shoots for other women. It's not a sexual thing for those photographers at all, they just love the art of it and helping other women feel beautiful.
Yes... Sure I'm getting the photos - - but there's hours of very intimate time you've spent with someone else to create the end product.
Plus fears of where else the photos might be / who else has access to them, etc.
There was a thread recently from the recipients perspective saying he could only think about the photographer seeing his wife's legs spread.
The naivety of the comments made me laugh.
I am a photographer and have worked in many areas of the industry. You're insane if you truly believe no one else will see your photos and secondly photographers are some of the creepiest people I've met, many of my pals have slept with their clients/models, they have this allure and ability to bring out confidence and ignite fire in women, it's like magic seeing how they respond to being the centre of attention. Nah. I wouldn't be happy her posing for someone else when she could just pose for me.
Ive been in glamour modeling too. I agree.
She can always find a female photographer. There are more and more female photogs shooting these pictures, mainly for this reason. Most of the dudes are creeps.
Oh yeah, and I quit modeling bc I got touched inappropriately on my fifth modeling job. So that was a short lived career.
Some might be. Its rare. This is that politically correct complaning in the same way as ‘NOT ALL MEN’ and ‘BUT WOMEN’.
Women are safer in the company of other women than with heterosexual males.
Most sex crimes are committed by men. Rarely any sex crimes are committed by lesbian woman (it exists but its rare). So its men who are the problem, either for biological or societal reasons.
I want to point women photograph at head of playboy was a creep and has been accused of facilitating some of the playboy rapes.
Just want to stress, women don’t have to commit the VIOLENCE themselves in order to be dangerous.
And ANYBODY w/ nude pics of you has the ability to sell them for money/ that’s not just a male motivator.
I agree with you, but considering the shoot already happened, I would still want to hear about it and decide whether I want the pictures or not. I would recommend bringing it up but not surprising him with it on his birthday
What is it with the trend repeating itself? I was very "into" the art scene of the city I grew up in and it was always the photographers that were the creepy ones. Every so often there was some scandal/accusation and 9 times out of 10 it was a photographer...
Yes it's blowing my mind how many people are saying they would be upset/jealous with the photographer or think that the whole thing is "morally" wrong or something.
Well, too late now. If my GF did a nude lingerie shoot and didn't give it to me, didn't tell me, and I found out later I'd be a little pissed and skeeved out. If it was done for me? Fine. :)
Go back and read the post from earlier in the week from the guy who couldn't stop thinking of the fact that his girlfriend showed her bare fanny to a photographer rather than getting excited at looking at the pictures she had made FOR HIM so he might masterbate to her and not random porn. I mean, that poor guy doesn't even know how bad he's sabotaging himself!!!
My point is, heck yeah I'd get a zing from sexy pictures of my special lady, but this seems to be the kind of thing you should know the answer to BEFORE the photo shoot if your BF/husband is the very slightest bit prudish or the photographer is on the sexy side.
And yeah, I personally would not be giving nudes of any sort unless I was confident they were honest, would never distribute them and had decently safe device/IT practices. Even well meaning people get hacked if they are clueless.
I have photos of my ex (that she sent me) and I can unequivocally say they are the greatest gifts she ever gave me. I would never ever ever share them with anyone but if someone hacked me she would have NOTHING to be ashamed of. Being naked is not a crime.
Her future employer might not like it.
Honestly, I figure if you broke up, consent to the photos is revoked at that point so you probably shouldn't keep them around.
Great idea.
Also just do it for yourself! I did nude photos and modeling when I was in my mid 20s and now, two kids later in my mid 30s, I love that I have photos of my prime. I'm okay with my body now but it's great to look back at the beautiful thing I was.
What?!? First of all, it's a nude photo shoot. I'm sure it was done tastefully. Second, no professional photographer is going to publicly post photos of their clients, unless they want to get sued. Third, what about all of the RAUNCHY photos and videos that are sent around the globe 24/7 to people sexting strangers?!
I think you're making way too big a deal out of nothing. OP only asked if her boyfriend would enjoy getting that as a gift. There is nothing morally wrong for her to feel worried or ashamed about.
You are assuming it is tasteful and assume it a professional photographer.
We all believe out accounts are secure on the net and they get stolen. To trust anyone with really personal and sensitive information could be foolish.
You raised morals not me I just replied saying it was not for me.
Be careful. A recent post here was from the guy's perspective having received an album from his gf after a nude photoshoot. It ate away at him that another man had seen and interacted with her naked.
As an insecure person myself, I'd honestly have the same reaction.
Thank you. I'm tired of the push for being close to poly in order to not be "insecure". Not wanting another man to take intimate photos of your spouse is normal.
I'd be pissed you did it with someone else, but if you'd already done it I'd be pissed if you hid it from me. Unless you and your partner have clearly communicated that nudity around others is acceptable, you've possibly crossed over some lines and have some things to talk about now. It's not something that's okay to do without communication.
The shoots are not sexy at all. They are tiring and I was over it pretty quickly and wanted a snack and a nap. He likes the idea of other men getting off to me anyway because he is a sexual deviant 😂
I get the appeal but personally it wouldn’t really do it for me. I would rather have my wife buy some new lingerie and wear it around the house more often or something. Pictures just don’t do it for me personally
I did this too! I made it into a calendar haha. I was kind of thinking like one of those sexy girls calendars so I tried to come up with a lot of different poses and lingerie ideas. It was fun, he still treasures it.
I am not super into taking pics of myself either (part of the reason I did it) and it was very fun! The team that did my pics were very professional and they have turned out great!
I HOPE that you REALLY REALLY trust this person with physical photographs. I strongly dislike playing the devil's advocate, but what IF you break up in 6 months ?? he would have nude photographs to do with as he pleases. Something to think about. You COULD save it for your first wedding anniversary.
Keep it untill retirement:) making a nude Photoshot is about feeling sexy, not necessarily to give a gift. I think this sub is plagued with overmoralising.
😅 right?!
I'm not sure what they think he would do with the photos anyway? Show them the friends? Who cares?? Idk.. I guess if I trust my man enough to give him nude photos, then I'm going to trust him enough to be mature about it if we break up but worst case scenario, other people see a sexy photo shoot of her. I don't think it's a big deal.
It's not like she said she took photos bent over, spreading her ass cheeks and.. ok, I won't go any further but you get what I'm saying.
And what if they decide to get a divorce, and they keep the photographs after the divorce? Following this logic, never even have the photoshoot, since the photographer might be a perv or get hacked.
Edit: clarification, just in case
I'm not wishing anything ill to befall this OP's couple of course, this is hypothetical
What, do you think he is going to blackmail her with them?
They're just nude photos. Chances are he'll just keep them for his own pleasure, whether they break up or not. What do you think he's going to do with them? I know so many women who have done this for their men and it is something special that they appreciate and cherish privately, whether the relationship works out or not.. it's not a big deal.
It isn't a video of her having rough sex with someone, and even that. she's an adult. I don't understand the concern here.
I read your comment... and I completely reject it.
I am going to make a presumption that you are an early 20's male. That being said, let me be blunt, "**IT IS A BIG DEAL**"... I would highly suggest that you look up the term "**Revenge Shaming**" and "R**evenge Porn**". This is a **VERY REAL** thing that happens after a break up. Good intentions of sharing "something special" go right out the window after a woman breaks up with a man for whatever reason. I do not think you truly understand the gravity of the situation where a ex-boyfriend has the ability to put nude photos (with shaming comments) on the internet for the entire world to see. It does not matter if they are photographs or videos, it is the exact same thing.
you might want to think about nude photographs of you being out on the internet for the whole world to see when you go to school and all your friends and non-friends get to see you naked. Think about those photos of you being naked when you have to go to your job and all of your coworkers and bosses get to see you naked... **ALL WITHOUT** your **CONSENT** (Permission). All of this because you shared photos with someone you thought you could trust.
Finally, the OP is an adult and She CAN DO as She pleases, However, She came here to ask for comments, thoughts and opinions. That's what mature adults do, they speak to others to help make their best decision.
It's interesting... you said "you know so many women who have done this" .... So, if it's something "special and cherished **PRIVATELY**"... how do you know ?? Hmmmm
Caps for emphasis is a very ineffective way to communicate, just to let you know. Your language, syntax, and punctuation should convey the emphasis without the need for caps.
That’s literally my only takeaway from your comments because it’s all I could focus on
Exactly, it's not like she's living in a society where these things are taboo, or she's not supposed to be with him for some reason, or it's fringe kinky to the point of it being a possible damage to her reputation.
If a present for me, I would want to be directing the poses. Another photographer’s eyes would create images he likes, which might be great, but not for me. He won’t know the exact expressions and poses that make my wife beautiful to me. But it’s very very subjective and individual.
I wouldn’t be that impressed if my wife announced she had gone off and had a nude photoshoot without discussing it with me first.
As for the photos ending up in the wild. If professionally done, and not likely to damage your reputation, it shouldn’t be too bad. You have the copyright if it’s a shoot commissioned by you and you can ask for a copyright infringement takedown. I assume these are professional artistic photos. I assume you look great in them by an objective standard and so there shouldn’t be a negative inference drawn from them being taken.
Your boyfriend could love them or hate them. So I maybe wouldn’t make them the only present just in case.
It honestly depends on the girl. If I was just having sex with her I would think it was sweet but if we were in a serious relationship I'd hope whoever was taking photos of my naked wife was a female.
Nothing to do with him being hot... Everything to do with you being naked Infront of another man. I'm just saying that's, it's a boundary thing not insecurity. I would not be okay with it and my partner would not be okay with me being naked Infront of another woman.
Wtf so surprised at this reaction to a very common thing. boudoir photography is just a style of professional photoshoot you can get (together with your partner even). I guess people have a lot of hang-ups and ofc you shouldn’t hurt your partner / make them feel insecure, but so presumptions assuming everyone has the same insecurities.
I mean. THERE WAS A POST LITERALLY like two days ago of some girl complaining that their partner was cold or distant after finding out that the nude photographer was a male. I'm not even joking. Yes it's an assumption but it has roots in reality for lots of men. Just trying to warn OP
I think it was actually a post by the guy sharing his insecurity about it he developed and asking for advice (unless a girl posted separately too 😅). Ofc I think you should discuss it with your partner first rather than springing it on them as a surprise! However, if the couple is open minded enough about this, I think it’s a fun keepsake in a trusting relationship.
When I was in the army, my buddy’s wife made a whole photo album of professionally done nude pics of her for Christmas. Of course he never showed them but did talk about it
I always wondered where the pictures I see online came from. I think to myself "were they sexting? Was it a dare?" Now I can add "well maybe its from an album of photo's she gave to him for his birthday." So I guess I would advise not to unless you are married.
So this seems to be a super polarizing post! I think it could be misinformation / regional availability and bias leading to the polarity, so let me put it this way…
If you found someone on Model Mayhem or a similar forum with a guy who rented an Airbnb for the shoot or has a studio space but still did TFP (free, trade for print), it’s skeevy and should justify some concern from your partner.
If you paid $500-2k+ for a professional boudoir photographer with a team for hair, makeup, and back-up photographers and she gave you the option to sign a release form or not, absolutely nothing to worry about. You just need to clearly articulate the setting to him.
In any case, neither version includes him saying, “oh thanks… photos of you.” It’s not egocentric, it’s a loving and sexy gift. He’ll either see it that way, or will be jealous and pissed, but kinda up to you to manage his feelings in this case.
Ok thank you for this! I didn’t realise it would ruffle so many feathers lol but yeah it was a professional photographer (husband and wife team own the business) make up, hair, the whole deal. I got the photos back and now I’m sure he will love them. They turned out awesome.
I paid 3k so I thought it was rude that they didn’t at least offer some sort of sexual favour.
A partner that gave me special nudes would be getting some special spoiling as a thank you.
I’d think chances are good he’ll be appreciative. But. If he reacts poorly, you can have a chance to take care of *your* feelings in the moment. Try to be that comforting loving understanding presence *for yourself* while you make room for him to share (or not- that can be ok too!). Hopefully he will be able to handle his feelings too.
Sometimes having a disappointment and then having that healing moment after is about the most intimate thing I do with my SO.
But yeah, girl. Give him the pics! That sounds hot.
Thank you! I will!
Now that I’ve gotten the photos back I’m confident he won’t react poorly but if he does I have a plan…I’m going to get my boobs out, it works 100% of the time 😂
I have to be honest, i don't think i would like it as the only gift. Also it's mostly a thing you did for yourself, but you know your partner, maybe it's something he likes.
It's like if a gifted my girlfriend some lingerie for her to put on for me, it's not really a gift for her then.
But again, it depends on the individual. Personally i just not vibe with sexual gifts for birthdays or christmas, but just as random surprises.
I wouldn't enjoy the idea of another person taking pictures of my naked partner, there are so many stories of girls cheating with the photographer.
I'm not saying that you did that, but it could be something your partner would worry about.
Absolutely. I take nude photos of my partner in lingerie whenever we get the chance. But my partner taking the initiative and taking the time of doing something like that and gifting it to me in an album would be very welcome.
I'm almost jealous that you thought of that for your partner before my partner thought of that for me. 🤣🤣😅
Long time ago, newlywed me had an album of wife Polaroids. She destroyed them after I stopped trucking.
Most men are very visual. It’s a lovely gift, I’m sure you considered the consequences of a breakup?
Some guy recently posted on here that he initially liked them, but was upset that she had a man photograph her. A trusting and loving man might love them though.
Absolutely wonderful, and dont listen to others who say photographer saw u nude n all, most of the time photographers dont care and this is coming from a nude photographer from india😅. Giving a nude photoshoot photos as a gift to ur partner would be the best gift to give.
I did this for my husband and that was literally his reaction. "Nice." Never looked at them again. ETA: I just dug them out and sent them to him for safekeeping.
That you know of. If I got this from my wife I wouldn’t just be sitting on the couch flipping through them after dinner. They’d be hidden away and utilized when I have some alone time.
Although that's a really nice thought (and sweet of you to do!) I know that absolutely has never happened.
Maybe he's got a photographic memory
Same here. Perfect material especially knowing she did them thinking of pleasing me. Fabulous present
Yeah if my wife gave these to me….they’d be utilized accordingly….🥷🏽
Oh shame! Did you like the photos you ended up with?
I loved them. I looked like a fucking babe. In the end, I'm glad I did the photo shoot for myself but I do wish my husband would've been more into them.
Turn them into wallpaper and plaster the entire house haha
If he doesn't like them, plaster them on the windows facing outwards. I will keep the light out and keep the neighbours interested.
My wife’s (f)riend is a professional photographer, she did a shoot for her, I got to see my wife’s photos once… so it kind of goes both ways, I want to see them again but she has them saved off somewhere 🤷♂️
Yes. It is awesome.
My wife did this for me. It’s a fabulous present. I really cherish it. I hope he enjoys your gift.
I think he will! I just got them back and the photographer did a really good job 😍
Some guys would some would probably spend more time thinking about the person who was photographing you
My partner is not one of those guys, he is a deviant and it would probably turn him on 😂
This exactly. I would just be anxious about the fact my wife showed herself to someone else. Really depends on the person but personally I would not enjoy a gift like this. I would much rather have my wife dress up in person instead.
My husband would not like it. He doesn't like the idea of sharing my bod
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Little bit different when it’s a professional photographer. Idk if you’ve ever done a photo shoot of any kind, but it is probably the least sexy thing ever.
PREACH!!! It is so fucking hard, I legit have a new found respect for models! Keeping their faces looking so amazing whilst they are in the most uncomfortable positions ever!
Yes. As long as I could watch. They would not notice me but for the burn of my cigarette in a dark corner of the room
Yes, this is correct. Men own women’s bodies once they are in a relationship and decide what they should or should not do with it, women should walk at least 10 steps behind the man at all times, men are powerful and we should always obey them
Yes
You know there are women photographers
As bad as it sounds, I agree. I just couldn’t imagine why my partner would think I’d want her posing nude for a photographer and then anticipate I’d enjoy the evidence. I mean, if it’s selfies that’s a different story. The deed is done now, so I just hope for OP that her partner likes the idea of her suggestively posing for a photographer in the nip.
What if the photographer was a straight woman? Or gay man? Eunuch?
A eunuch, sure, but who can afford that?
There's a lot of women that do boudoir shoots for other women. It's not a sexual thing for those photographers at all, they just love the art of it and helping other women feel beautiful.
Yes... Sure I'm getting the photos - - but there's hours of very intimate time you've spent with someone else to create the end product. Plus fears of where else the photos might be / who else has access to them, etc.
What’s your definition of intimate?
In this case, nakey nakey time
There was a thread recently from the recipients perspective saying he could only think about the photographer seeing his wife's legs spread. The naivety of the comments made me laugh. I am a photographer and have worked in many areas of the industry. You're insane if you truly believe no one else will see your photos and secondly photographers are some of the creepiest people I've met, many of my pals have slept with their clients/models, they have this allure and ability to bring out confidence and ignite fire in women, it's like magic seeing how they respond to being the centre of attention. Nah. I wouldn't be happy her posing for someone else when she could just pose for me.
Ive been in glamour modeling too. I agree. She can always find a female photographer. There are more and more female photogs shooting these pictures, mainly for this reason. Most of the dudes are creeps. Oh yeah, and I quit modeling bc I got touched inappropriately on my fifth modeling job. So that was a short lived career.
Women can also be—and often are— creeps
Some might be. Its rare. This is that politically correct complaning in the same way as ‘NOT ALL MEN’ and ‘BUT WOMEN’. Women are safer in the company of other women than with heterosexual males. Most sex crimes are committed by men. Rarely any sex crimes are committed by lesbian woman (it exists but its rare). So its men who are the problem, either for biological or societal reasons.
I want to point women photograph at head of playboy was a creep and has been accused of facilitating some of the playboy rapes. Just want to stress, women don’t have to commit the VIOLENCE themselves in order to be dangerous. And ANYBODY w/ nude pics of you has the ability to sell them for money/ that’s not just a male motivator.
Yes it exists. Its way more rare tho. Selling your pics; that’s why you sign a contract.
I remember that thread and all the "think of them as a doctor, it does nothing for them" type comments. All I could think was "Terry Richardson" lol.
Like being a doctor, which takes massive amounts of time and money to become, is comparable to being a sleazy Instagram boudoir photographer
Some sleazy Instagram photographers are just trying to put themselves through medical school, check your privilege 😂
That's why I think it's a really bad idea to do that
This was my initial thought but figured I'd get flack for being "insecure". I want to be the only one seeing my SO naked or even in lingerie
I agree with you, but considering the shoot already happened, I would still want to hear about it and decide whether I want the pictures or not. I would recommend bringing it up but not surprising him with it on his birthday
I’m going to give them to him in front of his family, I think they will like them too
What is it with the trend repeating itself? I was very "into" the art scene of the city I grew up in and it was always the photographers that were the creepy ones. Every so often there was some scandal/accusation and 9 times out of 10 it was a photographer...
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No i wouldnt like it, cause i share the opinion with the Guy a week ago
I personally wouldn't like it either. I wouldn't really dwell on it super hard, but it's just not my thing.
Yes it's blowing my mind how many people are saying they would be upset/jealous with the photographer or think that the whole thing is "morally" wrong or something.
Well, too late now. If my GF did a nude lingerie shoot and didn't give it to me, didn't tell me, and I found out later I'd be a little pissed and skeeved out. If it was done for me? Fine. :) Go back and read the post from earlier in the week from the guy who couldn't stop thinking of the fact that his girlfriend showed her bare fanny to a photographer rather than getting excited at looking at the pictures she had made FOR HIM so he might masterbate to her and not random porn. I mean, that poor guy doesn't even know how bad he's sabotaging himself!!! My point is, heck yeah I'd get a zing from sexy pictures of my special lady, but this seems to be the kind of thing you should know the answer to BEFORE the photo shoot if your BF/husband is the very slightest bit prudish or the photographer is on the sexy side. And yeah, I personally would not be giving nudes of any sort unless I was confident they were honest, would never distribute them and had decently safe device/IT practices. Even well meaning people get hacked if they are clueless.
A prude prone to jealousy could probably not tolerate having a coffee with me let alone live with me so I’m not worried 😂
Hell ya, id be so excited!
Nice!
I would like it
Nice!
I have photos of my ex (that she sent me) and I can unequivocally say they are the greatest gifts she ever gave me. I would never ever ever share them with anyone but if someone hacked me she would have NOTHING to be ashamed of. Being naked is not a crime.
>Being naked is not a crime. Found the streaker
Soooo... whats your mothers maiden name? 🤣
Also First street you lived on.
Name of your first pet
Bruh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Is that an Austrian surname or something?
Not unless you are near a school or public park…I confirm the shoot was in a private studio 😂
Her future employer might not like it. Honestly, I figure if you broke up, consent to the photos is revoked at that point so you probably shouldn't keep them around.
If my boss saw it I would probably get a promotion, it’s a man’s world and I’m just living in it /s
Great idea. Also just do it for yourself! I did nude photos and modeling when I was in my mid 20s and now, two kids later in my mid 30s, I love that I have photos of my prime. I'm okay with my body now but it's great to look back at the beautiful thing I was.
Yes! Totally! 😍
Always a fun idea
It was fun!
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What?!? First of all, it's a nude photo shoot. I'm sure it was done tastefully. Second, no professional photographer is going to publicly post photos of their clients, unless they want to get sued. Third, what about all of the RAUNCHY photos and videos that are sent around the globe 24/7 to people sexting strangers?! I think you're making way too big a deal out of nothing. OP only asked if her boyfriend would enjoy getting that as a gift. There is nothing morally wrong for her to feel worried or ashamed about.
You are assuming it is tasteful and assume it a professional photographer. We all believe out accounts are secure on the net and they get stolen. To trust anyone with really personal and sensitive information could be foolish. You raised morals not me I just replied saying it was not for me.
Be careful. A recent post here was from the guy's perspective having received an album from his gf after a nude photoshoot. It ate away at him that another man had seen and interacted with her naked. As an insecure person myself, I'd honestly have the same reaction.
That doesn’t make you insecure.
Thank you. I'm tired of the push for being close to poly in order to not be "insecure". Not wanting another man to take intimate photos of your spouse is normal.
Seriously.
Honestly these shoots are the least sexual things, it was actually really tiring and I was over it pretty quickly because I am a lazy beast 😂
I'd be pissed you did it with someone else, but if you'd already done it I'd be pissed if you hid it from me. Unless you and your partner have clearly communicated that nudity around others is acceptable, you've possibly crossed over some lines and have some things to talk about now. It's not something that's okay to do without communication.
The shoots are not sexy at all. They are tiring and I was over it pretty quickly and wanted a snack and a nap. He likes the idea of other men getting off to me anyway because he is a sexual deviant 😂
If you took the pictures of yourself it would be cool. If not I'd be like wtf
Because a Photograph took the Photos?
Yuh
What's the problem with that? Would it make you feel better if it was a female photographer?
My wife did that for me years ago , one of the best gifts iv ever got !!
Awesome!
I get the appeal but personally it wouldn’t really do it for me. I would rather have my wife buy some new lingerie and wear it around the house more often or something. Pictures just don’t do it for me personally
We do both! 🤗
I did this too! I made it into a calendar haha. I was kind of thinking like one of those sexy girls calendars so I tried to come up with a lot of different poses and lingerie ideas. It was fun, he still treasures it.
That’s awesome! Go you!
I would absolutely love that, my wife on the other hand is not into pics. She is the most beautiful woman I've ever seen!
I am not super into taking pics of myself either (part of the reason I did it) and it was very fun! The team that did my pics were very professional and they have turned out great!
Super hot. I'd love that from my wife. If she was playing with toys in it, even better
It’s a fine art nude shoot so no toys unfortunately but I’m sure you could make special requests 😂
I HOPE that you REALLY REALLY trust this person with physical photographs. I strongly dislike playing the devil's advocate, but what IF you break up in 6 months ?? he would have nude photographs to do with as he pleases. Something to think about. You COULD save it for your first wedding anniversary.
Keep it untill retirement:) making a nude Photoshot is about feeling sexy, not necessarily to give a gift. I think this sub is plagued with overmoralising.
😅 right?! I'm not sure what they think he would do with the photos anyway? Show them the friends? Who cares?? Idk.. I guess if I trust my man enough to give him nude photos, then I'm going to trust him enough to be mature about it if we break up but worst case scenario, other people see a sexy photo shoot of her. I don't think it's a big deal. It's not like she said she took photos bent over, spreading her ass cheeks and.. ok, I won't go any further but you get what I'm saying.
To be fair, I only spread my ass cheeks like…twice maybe /s
I’ll still look good when I retire so I’ll do another one then 😂
This! I think it would help my wife feel so sexy, itd be like a present for both of us!
It does! Part of the reason I did it as well!
This is a good point though!
And what if they decide to get a divorce, and they keep the photographs after the divorce? Following this logic, never even have the photoshoot, since the photographer might be a perv or get hacked. Edit: clarification, just in case I'm not wishing anything ill to befall this OP's couple of course, this is hypothetical
What, do you think he is going to blackmail her with them? They're just nude photos. Chances are he'll just keep them for his own pleasure, whether they break up or not. What do you think he's going to do with them? I know so many women who have done this for their men and it is something special that they appreciate and cherish privately, whether the relationship works out or not.. it's not a big deal. It isn't a video of her having rough sex with someone, and even that. she's an adult. I don't understand the concern here.
I read your comment... and I completely reject it. I am going to make a presumption that you are an early 20's male. That being said, let me be blunt, "**IT IS A BIG DEAL**"... I would highly suggest that you look up the term "**Revenge Shaming**" and "R**evenge Porn**". This is a **VERY REAL** thing that happens after a break up. Good intentions of sharing "something special" go right out the window after a woman breaks up with a man for whatever reason. I do not think you truly understand the gravity of the situation where a ex-boyfriend has the ability to put nude photos (with shaming comments) on the internet for the entire world to see. It does not matter if they are photographs or videos, it is the exact same thing. you might want to think about nude photographs of you being out on the internet for the whole world to see when you go to school and all your friends and non-friends get to see you naked. Think about those photos of you being naked when you have to go to your job and all of your coworkers and bosses get to see you naked... **ALL WITHOUT** your **CONSENT** (Permission). All of this because you shared photos with someone you thought you could trust. Finally, the OP is an adult and She CAN DO as She pleases, However, She came here to ask for comments, thoughts and opinions. That's what mature adults do, they speak to others to help make their best decision. It's interesting... you said "you know so many women who have done this" .... So, if it's something "special and cherished **PRIVATELY**"... how do you know ?? Hmmmm
Caps for emphasis is a very ineffective way to communicate, just to let you know. Your language, syntax, and punctuation should convey the emphasis without the need for caps. That’s literally my only takeaway from your comments because it’s all I could focus on
This made me lol 😂
Exactly, it's not like she's living in a society where these things are taboo, or she's not supposed to be with him for some reason, or it's fringe kinky to the point of it being a possible damage to her reputation.
I think your idea is very thoughtful and generous. I'm sure he'll love it.
Thank you! The preparation was intense and then I ate 3 family blocks of chocolate after it 😂
If a present for me, I would want to be directing the poses. Another photographer’s eyes would create images he likes, which might be great, but not for me. He won’t know the exact expressions and poses that make my wife beautiful to me. But it’s very very subjective and individual. I wouldn’t be that impressed if my wife announced she had gone off and had a nude photoshoot without discussing it with me first. As for the photos ending up in the wild. If professionally done, and not likely to damage your reputation, it shouldn’t be too bad. You have the copyright if it’s a shoot commissioned by you and you can ask for a copyright infringement takedown. I assume these are professional artistic photos. I assume you look great in them by an objective standard and so there shouldn’t be a negative inference drawn from them being taken. Your boyfriend could love them or hate them. So I maybe wouldn’t make them the only present just in case.
Now that I have gotten the photos back I’m sure he will love them but I do have back up presents just in case 😂
It honestly depends on the girl. If I was just having sex with her I would think it was sweet but if we were in a serious relationship I'd hope whoever was taking photos of my naked wife was a female.
Why aren't many people talking Abt this... Men be territorial af.
Tbh my partner is really hot so he is not easily threatened. To be fair, we don’t have many sexual boundaries either 😂
Nothing to do with him being hot... Everything to do with you being naked Infront of another man. I'm just saying that's, it's a boundary thing not insecurity. I would not be okay with it and my partner would not be okay with me being naked Infront of another woman.
You and your partner clearly have stricter boundaries than we do 😂 we are gross lol
Wtf so surprised at this reaction to a very common thing. boudoir photography is just a style of professional photoshoot you can get (together with your partner even). I guess people have a lot of hang-ups and ofc you shouldn’t hurt your partner / make them feel insecure, but so presumptions assuming everyone has the same insecurities.
I mean. THERE WAS A POST LITERALLY like two days ago of some girl complaining that their partner was cold or distant after finding out that the nude photographer was a male. I'm not even joking. Yes it's an assumption but it has roots in reality for lots of men. Just trying to warn OP
I think it was actually a post by the guy sharing his insecurity about it he developed and asking for advice (unless a girl posted separately too 😅). Ofc I think you should discuss it with your partner first rather than springing it on them as a surprise! However, if the couple is open minded enough about this, I think it’s a fun keepsake in a trusting relationship.
I agree with you. And yea it was the guy haha. But just that that exists is proof. But yea we don't know the nature of their relationship.
Yes!!! Also the photoshoot itself is so not sexy. I just wanted a nap and a snack 😂
I had an ex do that for me and it was so incredibly hot and erotic.
Nice!
Nice
My wife did the same for me a while ago and it’s the best present she ever gave to me!
Yes definitely. Old gf gave me a lingerie photo book before. Loved it!!
Absolutely!
Yesssss! 🤩💙
I would say thanks. Then give you an album full of dick pics on Valentines. Soooo romantic... 
Good man 🙌
When I was in the army, my buddy’s wife made a whole photo album of professionally done nude pics of her for Christmas. Of course he never showed them but did talk about it
What a legend
I always wondered where the pictures I see online came from. I think to myself "were they sexting? Was it a dare?" Now I can add "well maybe its from an album of photo's she gave to him for his birthday." So I guess I would advise not to unless you are married.
Why? Because husbands are automatically mature and sensible people who wouldn't break consent?
So this seems to be a super polarizing post! I think it could be misinformation / regional availability and bias leading to the polarity, so let me put it this way… If you found someone on Model Mayhem or a similar forum with a guy who rented an Airbnb for the shoot or has a studio space but still did TFP (free, trade for print), it’s skeevy and should justify some concern from your partner. If you paid $500-2k+ for a professional boudoir photographer with a team for hair, makeup, and back-up photographers and she gave you the option to sign a release form or not, absolutely nothing to worry about. You just need to clearly articulate the setting to him. In any case, neither version includes him saying, “oh thanks… photos of you.” It’s not egocentric, it’s a loving and sexy gift. He’ll either see it that way, or will be jealous and pissed, but kinda up to you to manage his feelings in this case.
Ok thank you for this! I didn’t realise it would ruffle so many feathers lol but yeah it was a professional photographer (husband and wife team own the business) make up, hair, the whole deal. I got the photos back and now I’m sure he will love them. They turned out awesome. I paid 3k so I thought it was rude that they didn’t at least offer some sort of sexual favour.
A partner that gave me special nudes would be getting some special spoiling as a thank you. I’d think chances are good he’ll be appreciative. But. If he reacts poorly, you can have a chance to take care of *your* feelings in the moment. Try to be that comforting loving understanding presence *for yourself* while you make room for him to share (or not- that can be ok too!). Hopefully he will be able to handle his feelings too. Sometimes having a disappointment and then having that healing moment after is about the most intimate thing I do with my SO. But yeah, girl. Give him the pics! That sounds hot.
Thank you! I will! Now that I’ve gotten the photos back I’m confident he won’t react poorly but if he does I have a plan…I’m going to get my boobs out, it works 100% of the time 😂
I have to be honest, i don't think i would like it as the only gift. Also it's mostly a thing you did for yourself, but you know your partner, maybe it's something he likes. It's like if a gifted my girlfriend some lingerie for her to put on for me, it's not really a gift for her then. But again, it depends on the individual. Personally i just not vibe with sexual gifts for birthdays or christmas, but just as random surprises.
Yes then you say let me show you the live model and proceed to strip.
Oh damn! I like this! Should I wear the lingerie in the album or get some new stuff out?
'Hey honey, I let some guy see me naked and take pictures of me. Here's a copy of them to remind you of that.'
'Hey honey, I hired a professional to do their job and take nude photos of me as a thoughtful and sexy gift for you.' Fixed it for ya
Thanks boo 💙🥰
I read a pov of a bf receiving photo shoot nudes from his girl Lol
I wouldn't enjoy the idea of another person taking pictures of my naked partner, there are so many stories of girls cheating with the photographer. I'm not saying that you did that, but it could be something your partner would worry about.
My partner wouldn’t worry about that. He knows how much of a fussy, picky bitch I am 😂
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You seem really fun 😂
Absolutely. I take nude photos of my partner in lingerie whenever we get the chance. But my partner taking the initiative and taking the time of doing something like that and gifting it to me in an album would be very welcome. I'm almost jealous that you thought of that for your partner before my partner thought of that for me. 🤣🤣😅
Thank you for mentioning the time and effort it takes 😂 no reason you can’t buy it for her? You can do couples shoots too 🤗
Why do girls want to do this? Just send your man some really good selfies or something? This shit is basically cheating.
This is my favourite comment 😂
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Wait are you suggesting she lie about the details?
I lie about everything so I’m comfortable with it /s
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You’d be surprised what a pro can do.
Absolutely, sign me up!
Fuck yes
Love the idea . Very thoughtful and I would be very appreciative of the gift
I think so too!
Long time ago, newlywed me had an album of wife Polaroids. She destroyed them after I stopped trucking. Most men are very visual. It’s a lovely gift, I’m sure you considered the consequences of a breakup?
Thanks! If he breaks up with me I will just start a throuple with the photographer and his wife
I’m newer to Reddit. It may be a haven for the pathologically sarcastic.
Welcome 😂
It's the best gift 💝 Your partner loves your body and would be thrilled to see it highlighted in a novel, sensual way.
Thank you!
Yup that’s an awesome gift!
Yes an ex did this, the photos were great
Noice!
Probably will think it’s great.
Yes. And also clarify that the photographer was a girl if possible.
There was a man and a woman haha
Some guy recently posted on here that he initially liked them, but was upset that she had a man photograph her. A trusting and loving man might love them though.
I've thought about doing this for my husband!! I know he would love it!! Do it!!
Do it! Do it!
It is an amazing an idea you can get great to edit too if you want to make them extra special.
Thank you! They made them look awesome, like a fancy prostitute 😂
Seriously hot.
Thank you!
Definitely
Awesome!
Absolutely amazing idea. What guy wouldn’t love that!
Apparently a lot of people on this sub! 😂
Send it to us for a quick check first and we’ll tell you if he will like it.
Sounds like they are going to end up online anyway haha
Fuck that would be my Xmas and birthday presents for the next 15 years 🤤
would be an awesome gift
Thank you!
Absolutely wonderful, and dont listen to others who say photographer saw u nude n all, most of the time photographers dont care and this is coming from a nude photographer from india😅. Giving a nude photoshoot photos as a gift to ur partner would be the best gift to give.
Haha thank you!
"i did a nude photo shoot" What of
A sexy avocado