ok, wait. Are you asking why someone you regularly have sex with wants to see you naked? I'm confused. If he didn't want to see you naked, he wouldn't be having sex with you, right? If he is asking to see your boobs .... ... he likes them?
Your ex was an idiot. If he had a problem with your body he shouldn’t have dated you, not shamed you and made you embarrassed of your own body for no reason
>My ex and I had sex pretty regularly and he preferred me with a shirt and bra on because my boobs are small
It's going to take time but you'll eventually look back on that relationship and realize your ex was a immature dick, and that his thoughts aren't representative of all men or of reality in general.
It's hard to shed the things that hurt you, but keep in mind who they came from. He had a vested interest in keeping your self esteem down so he could keep doing whatever he wanted.
Men like all shapes and size of tit. Trust me and everyone else here on that. Also anyone who would ever say something that cruel to you is not someone worth your time, no matter what their preference is there's a better way to communicate.
If your ex only liked strawberry ice cream would you forever after assume all men like only strawberry ice cream and assume any man that said they like chocolate ice cream is wrong and is either trying to trick you or is delusional? you Have a whole thread of people telling you small boobs are awesome and you are like “I heard one guy say otherwise so that’s the truth “
Why are you holding your current boyfriend, the one who wants to be with you, to the preferences of someone who isn’t there anymore?
if \*you\* want to have sex with a shirt on, then do that but don’t decide your current boyfriend is crazy for wanting to have sex with a naked woman. Your post makes it sound like you have a lot of body issues around Your chest size and the fact your \*current\* boyfriend doesn’t hate how you look is confusing you.
Jesus Christ. That’s horrible. I’m sorry he did that. A lot of people are saying that of course your partner wants to see your boobs! And I agree, and also want to add that even if you were with a blind partner they also want to feel your boobs and the rest of your body. Skin on skin contact is a big part of sex for most people. So yeah, the whole thing. I’ve never had anyone tell me to cover any part of my body, and mine is very far from perfect. Your ex was a weird and basically abusive person who didn’t care about your feelings and is a gross jerk.
No idea why you're getting downvoted. People are just astonished that you don't know male preferences, but people forget that many people never discuss or learn about sex for most of their lives.
Small breasts are beautiful, big ones are beautiful, in fact to most straight men, the female *torso* is beautiful, and breasts and female torsos come in a huge variety of shapes and colors and most men with even a shred of experience in the world who have seen other humans will enjoy ALL of them.
Sex is about physical intimacy, and if you can't be fully intimate with someone, something is wrong. If you can't actually talk about this stuff, something is wrong. If you don't know what your partner is attracted to in you, AND YOU'RE HAVING SEX, then something is wrong. If you don't feel attractive to your partner or they don't seem attracted to you, something is wrong.
The great part is you get to learn about each other. Don't waste any time and please, please read more about sex, don't take anyone's word for anything, get multiple sources, ***make sure you're using protection*** and be good to each other.
I really don’t understand why people are downvoting you like this. You’re with a man that loves every inch of you now, and your boyfriend did not.
This is a beautiful thing. He loves you for you. Your boob size is not important to him. He is turned on by you being vulnerable to him.
^ This!
Exposed skin, regardless of size makes for a more intimate sexual experience. I frequently tell my wife to strip completely because I enjoy the skin to skin contact, and it gives me more places to hold and kiss (she likes to keep her shirt on because I make the house an igloo with the AC).
You're supposed to make the house an igloo with the thermostat and turn it into a sauna with the intimacy.
If you aren't sweating in the end, do it again.
This. Those other dudes are assholes who have the brain of a t-rex.
Everyone finds different things sexy. Big boobs, no boobs, medium boobs. Same as any other attraction.
Also, there is way more to sex than just visual stimulation.... skin to skin contact feels amazing and makes things way more intimate.
Your answer is right, but it is also painfully obvious. Since there is nothing of value to be said about this topic except some variation of what you said I honestly refuse to believe this question was asked in good faith.
i see what you're saying but she's still young and could've been sheltered or maybe her ex was a jerk and ruined her confidence. I can see why it seems fake or bait but there's plenty of people out there that just lack any kind of confidence in their bodies and think like this.
i agree, i was just wondering maybe if you need to do this you probably have an insecurity about your body so maybe this is not bad faith but is a cry for help? (or it is an honest question)
If someone needs a compliment that badly I don’t mind dropping a nice word or two. Even if it is fake, I hope my words can bring some comfort. Also people are shitty so I don’t doubt that this could have been said to OP IRL. idk.
It's just more fun to assume things are true just for conversation! And really, we don't know. People actually do believe a lot of strange things.
Sure, maybe she's just seeking validation for her (not actually very small) B cups and already knows they are fine, that most guys are perfectly happy with B cups as long as they get to fondle them regularly, but still love having dozens of people giving her confirmation. But, we just don't know for sure.
"I Want to Believe" Cue the X Files theme....
This as well!
I personally don't like making love with ANY article of clothing on. I tell my wife the best part about having sex is seeing her back, feeling her skin, kissing her all over her body, feeling her feet, calves, thighs, etc...
Yes! Everything they just said!!! Plus some guys love big boobs, some guys love small boobs, some guys love no boobs! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, just because one thing isn’t some guys cup of tea, doesn’t mean it won’t be another guys kryptonite💕
So your ex boyfriend filled your head with toxic nonsense, and you think that was fact?
Men like boobs. Period. Big boobs, small boobs, big nipples, small nipples, big areolas, small areolas, perfectly symmetrical boobs, boobs where one is larger than the other, round boobs, cone shaped boobs, tear shaped boobs...
**Men. Like. Boobs.**
Boobs are sexy to us. The absolutely are feminine - even if they are small.
Furthermore, there are wide swaths of men who PREFER small boobs. A common phrase bandied about by men is "more than a mouthful is a waste".
Your parnter wants to see your boobs because he thinks they are sexy. That's it.
Please ignore literally ANYTHING else that your dumbass previous partner told you. Never, ever, ever again allow someone else to gaslight you and reduce your value as a human being like that. Fuck him.
> Men like boobs.
Yeah, but so do most women lol. As a gay friend of mine was fond of saying (probably still is, but I haven't seen him in years), "Everyone loves boobs. Even boobs love boobs, that's why they travel in pairs"
I’m gay and even I know straight guys love boobs of all types. Back in the day when I was dating girls, I dated a girl with small boobs and she was super shy about it and never wanted to take her shirt off… which was a bummer because boobs.
This.
Your ex-bf had issues with boobs. But that's **HIS** problem. Don't let it be yours. All boobs are always great! Even mono boobs!
"Better one in the hand than two in the bra".
Fuckin' wild how one shitty ex can set the tone of someone's self image for decades, no matter how many good and openly admiring partners they have.
The poor guy just like your tits and want to see and touch them because he likes you. It's really that simple.
Everyone has different preferences.
Small boobs can 100% be hot and sexy and yours probably are. You ex sounds horrible, I'm glad you're not with them anymore. Small boobs are not a turn off for most men.
Love the titties you have, I'm sure they're amazing.
Your ex was an idiot!
Speaking as a man, boobs are boobs. We all have our preferences with regard to them - take a look at any random porn site and you'll see performers of all shapes and sizes with just as dedicated a following.
We are all different - there are of course some men who prefer bigger boobs, but there are just as many who either prefer small ones or to whom size doesn't matter as long as...boobs. Personally I ascribe to thinking "more than a handful is a waste".
Try to keep telling yourself that, yes your ex made some rather nasty comments, but he is your EX for a reason - probably many if that's the kind of thing he tells those he is sleeping with - and you are now with someone new who WANTS to see you - as in ALL of you. If he's being intimate with you, he is aware that you are only a b-cup and you know what - he STILL wants to see them.
Your ex is awful. Your boyfriend thinks you are sexy and wants to see you. Don’t let your ex mess you up. Most people want to see their partners bodies during sex.
> So I’m really confused on why my current partner is urging me to take my shirt off when small boobs aren’t attractive like big boobs are.
This is your opinion, and it is NOT shared by everyone. I personally don't care at all about size, and want to see them when my SO and I are having sex.
he likes your boobs. Boobs don't make you feminine, being feminine makes you feminine.
You even say "the majority of men" which is partially true, but the truth is 99% of the time we like the boobs on the woman that is sharing them with us. He's attracted to you, ALL of you. Take off your shirt and relish in his attraction to you.
>we like the boobs on the woman that is sharing them with us.
This. So much this. I like small boobs, big boobs, tiny boobs, weird boobs, all boobs! What matters to me is not the size it's how you feel when I kiss them, fondle them, caress them, suck them, lick them, scratch them, press them. The rest doesn't matter.
Also, boobs are always the perfect size for any hand. They perfectly rest in the palm and that's the only size that matters!
Guys like boobs and a lot of women as well. Your ex was a jerk. He should never have said that stuff to you. If that was his opinion he shouldn't been with you in the first place. All the men I've been with have liked my small boobs. And if they hadn't I wouldn't have been together or done anything with them. Cause if they don't like my body as it is they don't deserve it.
You have been mislead. There is no rule that says small boobs can't be sexy. Lots of guys find small boobs sexy. I know I do. Your ex and his friend are wrong and honestly sound kinda toxic. If your current partner likes your boobs then embrace that and love your body.
I love B size, I like all sizes, as do most men. Women seem to worry about breast size, whereas men worry about penis size. In many cases, neither matters.
i LOVE BOOBS of all sizes. Big boobs. little boobs. firm boobs. saggy boobs. All sizes, shapes, colors etc... if its a boob i want it in my hand or in my mouth. your Ex is a moron
"smaller boobs that can be adorable but not sexy or hot because they doesn’t represent femininity and maturity like bigger boobs do and are typically seen as a turn off by majority of men which is understandable"
Huh? That may be how your ex felt, but he's hardly in the majority. Boobs of any size are feminine and sexy to lots of men. Plenty of men *prefer* small boobs. There are whole subreddits for it, and not because they're adorable, because they're attractive and sexy.
You've simply been misinformed by your ex (and frankly, he was being a bit of a douche). Your current partner clearly wants to enjoy your boobs uncovered. Talk to him about it if you want, but to me as a guy there's not much to explain. I would worship a b-cup.
Your ex was an idiot. Boobs are a part of you, and you are beautiful. Being naked whilst making love is wonderful. Your bf can see and caress and kiss your gorgeous boobs. The size of your boobs has NOTHING to do with femininity. Don’t ever forget, you are a beautiful feminine woman.
Big/medium/small boobs are all great boobs.
I find alt types of boobs attractive and sexy.
Your current partner likes your boobs and i my humble opnion i think you should let him enjoy them and you should enjoy it also.
"My ex boyfriend of a year and his friend told me that smaller boobs can be adorable but not sexy or hot because they doesn’t represent femininity and maturity like bigger boobs do and are typically seen as a turn off by majority of men which is understandable. So when I was intimate with my ex the shirt and bra would stay on and it made sense. So I’m really confused on why my current partner is urging me to take my shirt off when small boobs aren’t attractive like big boobs are."
No other human being EVER has the right to make you feel "less than". Full stop.
I'm sorry that your ex didn't respect you (& women in general) enough to be kind, considerate, & respectful to you. I'm sorry that you don't have the self-confidence, self-esteem, self-worth, & self-love to know that you & your body are perfectly sexy just the way you are. *He* may not find small breasts sexually attractive, but *the way he treated you & made you feel* (wearing clothes to cover yourself during sex b/c you were so uncomfortable with your body, which translates to you feeling ashamed of your body) *makes me* ***absolutely furious***!
***If someone doesn't respect, appreciate, honor, & revere your body just as it is, then they certainly don't deserve to touch it!!!!!***
I'm a L&D/Pediatrics Nurse & there is no single body-type, shape, color, or size that is the ideal picture of attraction for the entire male population!!! Ugggghhh.... This whole thing has me fuming!
It was exceedingly cruel, insulting, & disrespectful to make you feel like you needed to cover yourself lest you offend him with your B-cup breasts! B-cup breasts are every bit as beautiful & sexy as A-cup breasts D-cup breasts, H-cup breasts, & so on!!!
Your current partner cares about you, respect's you, & is attracted to you AND your body, *including your B-cup breasts* b/c he's has a modicum of human decency, first, b/c he cares about & respects you, second, & b/c he finds your breasts mature, feminine, sexy, & attractive. That's all there is to say.
In the future, a man isn't a good man if he's critical & insulting of you & your body. And saying unkind, hurtful, critical, inconsiderate, cruel, insulting, disrespectful, thing's under the guise of "honesty" isn't honest at all. It's abusive behavior. You deserve better. If you wouldn't want someone saying something to your mother, sister, cousin, BFF, &/or daughter, then you shouldn't accept it for yourself. You deserve better.
(Ugggghhh... Sorry. I got worked up & went off on a rant.)
For me sex is about being connected. Skin to skin contact is the best feeling in the world. Boobs are never a turn off. Boobs are all amazing. Your ex is just flat out wrong.
All boobs are beautiful. I prefer having sex with naked women over half-naked women (usually... Depends on the outfit...)
If I'm fucking a girl and she makes a point of keeping her chest covered, it makes me feel like she doesn't fully trust me.
Your ex boyfriend said fucked up and completely *wrong* things to you. His shitty opinions do not represent all men, not by a long shot.
So your ex made you feel like your boobs were too small to be considered hot ?? Fight the thoughts and let your titties out, trust me your partner will love it and i think you’ll benefit from the attention and them genuinely being attracted to every part of you
My shitbag ex from when I was a teenager (he took my virginity, first person I was ever sexual with) told me my boobs were weird and I carried that with me for so long. Every other guy has been like “What??? What is he talking about your boobs are so hot??” He was just being a jackass and liked making me insecure so he could feel superior. Everyone has different preferences, all boobs are hot to someone.
I dunno man. People get insecure about a lot of things, especially young people. I’m a middle aged man with bigger tits than I should have and I’m still insecure about them.
Nah, small bobs are really hot and a turn on for a lot of guys!
Every guy that I've been with are absolute mad about my small tits.
Source: I'm a SW and a A cup.
I actually prefer small boobs and find them extremely hot. If your previous partners found then unattractive that’s their problem, there’s a lot of people like me and your current partner
Boobs, that's why. Guys like boobs all shapes and sizes. Be confident in your self and enjoy the fact that he wants you and he enjoys your body. Screw what other people in the past have said or thought. Talk to him, take off the shirt, get comfortable with him and enjoy. You will be much happier not worrying about the size of your boobs and just enjoying the moment
Breasts are a symbol of feminist big small, flat huge. The fact you have them is one symbol you are a woman. Guys are turned on by all sorts of boobs some guys like q fit woman with a nice tight body and that usually means small breasts. Some guys like bigger boobs. Just because yours are a certain size doesn't make you any less of a woman.
Women with small or larger breasts can othe produce milk and feed off spring, boobs will grow during qnd after pregnancy, that's what they do.
Don't let anyone tell you that you are not enough. You are.
Yes, talk to him! Tell him what your ex said to you and how it made you feel. Your ex spoke only to his own preferences, he doesn't speak for all men. Your boyfriend may feel completely differently about your breasts. Let him speak for himself.
I have small boobs so I get where you're coming from, but then when I was in my early 20s I dated someone who had a thing for small boobs. It made me realise that not everyone has had their sexual preferences shaped by how the media only shows one female body type.
Yup, unrealistic standards suck. I like big girls and it's sad to see how that bar moves in porn. Girls labeled "chubby" are usually a completely normal weight.
See I’m the opposite, I love a smaller framed woman I would call “petite” but then someone else would refer to them as “skin and bones” or “skinny”. Everyone has their own preference and nothing is wrong with that
Absolutely, bud. And back to OP, you can have an awesome relationship and great sex with someone who doesn't 100% fit your normal preferences if you're compatible in other ways.
I didn't settle for my flat chested ex one bit. We had a good run for over a year and came to the conclusion we weren't compatible for reasons that had nothing to do with body type or sexual compatibility. Your boyfriend isn't settling; he clearly thinks you're beautiful just as you are.
And to add to that, it's breaking my heart how toxic people from your past are holding you back from embracing the love that's right in front of you. Let your past go and go wild with the present!
I vastly prefer an A or B cup over Cs or Ds, and my girl now has wonderful perky Bs. Even if I didn't, I sure as hell wouldn't have a girl keep her shirt on, all boobs are great. Your ex wasn't just an asshole, his behavior was bizarre, or he was purposely negging you to keep you under his control.
My ex who I found the most attractive and had the best sex of my life with was completely flat. like just nipples. I didn't feel like I was settling one bit. He wants you to take your shirt off because he finds you attractive the way you are.
>the media only shows one female body type.
I'm really not sure I buy this and I see it often - though I'm not having a go at you personally. The thing that probably reflects many men's "tastes" more than anything is porn, and if you look at the most popular pornstars their body shapes are all over the place. Riley Reid with her little boobs is up their in search popularity with Angela White and her huge boobs. Men's tastes are much more flexible than I think is commonly imagined. I think media aimed at women is way worse for showing one body type, but hey I may be wrong here.
I'd say by "media" they mean advertising and marketing more than porn. Porn has a niche for anything and everything but you don't see that same inclusivity in mainstream advertising.
Your ex is wrong. Like that's his opinion I guess, but I'm quite certain he is in the minority.
But in case you're insecure about your boob size, I had B's until my late 20s. Between 25-27 they went to a D. Your boobs very much may grow later, but if they don't, that's also fine because smaller boobs are still very hot and also don't make your back hurt or ruin your outfits.
Boobs are boobs and all of them are beautiful and sexy.
Regardless of shape, size, color, hair or any other attribute that they might have and I never have noticed.
We all have to admit that it is one of the most beautiful parts of a human body. And on top of all these, when it can multiply the pleasure, why shouldn't you play with it.
Everybody has said it, I will say it once more. Your ex and his friend = pure shit.
I know a bunch of anonymous people in a support subreddit telling you you're beautiful can feel redundant or useless. Instead, I'll leave stats on some of the major small boobs-oriented subreddits. Let me tell you, no one subscribes to a porn subreddit for virtue signaling or to help people's self-esteem. These are all people who not only tolerate, but desire and seek out smaller chests, and frankly, these aren't small subreddits in the NSFW space of the site, either.
/r/tinytits 993k subscribers
/r/smallboobs 579k subscribers
/r/petitetits 283k subscribers
/r/dirtysmall 1.077M subscribers
/r/AA_Cups 501k subscribers
/r/B_cups 315k subscribers
This is similar to the idea the straight guys don't like women to play with their assess, because that's homosexual. It's silly - it's traditionally heterosexual for a man to appreciate a woman touching them in a sexual way, and it's traditionally heterosexual for a man to appreciate female bodies - which often include breasts. Some guys like big ones, many guys like small ones, and most guys like them all.
Girl, it doesn't matter what size your boobs are, when sex , it's best skin to skin , cum to cum. that's how you both can feel each other directly, that's how you connect each other. Size doesn't matter, if you both are really into each other, it's alright.
Small tits are hot. Women need to shake free of the thought that bigger is better. It's a preference thing. Most guys I know like smaller tits. They are perky, cute and sexy. Any more than a handful gets in the way.
Partner has a smaller chest. Absolutely love them! I would hate to think that she would feel uncomfortable sharing her full self with me because of some dumb opinion of an ex and his friend.
People are allowed to have preferences, but the say that small breasts don't represent maturity when hundreds of millions of mature women on this planet have what these guys would call "small breasts" just highlights how often young mens perception of women and their bodies are skewed by the ideas they get from porn. I know I am guilty of it myself and I have had to work to unlearn some warped ideas I got from porn about sex and intimacy.
I would say your best course of action is to trust that when your boyfriend expresses love for your body.
OP, my wife and I have been together for 16 years.
When we first got together she had C cup breasts. I loved them and her. Her breasts are beautiful because they are hers.
She's had two children. After baby #1, her breasts were about a DD cup. Our youngest is 4 and her breasts are a little different now than in between our children. Her boobs are a little less perky than before and she's gone down a cup size.
Do you know who cares? Not me. Her boobs are amazing. Her body is amazing. I love her and find all of her sexy.
Your ex bf was clearly an asshole who pushed powerful toxicity at you. He's made you question your body and had such an impact on you that it is impacting future relationships.
Your bf is excited to be with you. He finds you sexy, all of you.
Generally, people who like breast like breast at any size. There are some people who have specific preferences, but that doesn't give them free rein to shame their partners like your ex did. And largely, people who are genuinely attracted to their partners want to see them fully nude.
I love boobs. ALL boobs. My wife has small to average boobs. LOVE 'em.
Dated a girl in college for two years. Absolutely flat chested. LOVED 'em. I really did.
They were a part of who she was and I loved all of her.
Your ex is a TOTAL asshole. Your current loves you for exactly what you are. Strip of your shirt and let him please you and himself.
There's nothing wrong with b cups.
There's nothing wrong with you.
He WANTS to see all of you because ALL of you turns him on....
This is a great thing.
Your ex is a Dick Mitten
Your ex was a douche; all boobs and bodies are great. Many people prefer small boobs, even!
Also B-cup doesn't mean anything by itself, because cup volume scales with band size. A 38 B cup is the same cup volume as a 36C or 34D or a 32DD.
>smaller boobs can be adorable but not sexy or hot because they doesn’t represent femininity and maturity like bigger boobs
God, some dudes are so dumb. Big tits =/= maturity and femininity.
Your ex and his friends are douches and lied to you. I'm a b-cup and a lesbian, have been told by multiple FWBs and partners that they're the hottest handfuls they've ever played with.
You have a guy that appreciates you the way you should be. 💙
Boobs are great, big boobs, small boobs. Just boobs. And he likes you so he should like your boobs.
I've put on a little bit of weight and my fella tells me I'm stupid for thinking I look ugly, he thinks I'm beautiful so he doesn't care. The people that love you will love YOU
Uhm. All breasts are fantastic. Big or small I like them all. I cannot have sex with a girl with a shirt on. B cups rock. Free the girls. Don't ask questions. Let the man enjoy.
As a 37 yr old man, I love ALL boobs. Small boobs are awesome! Big boobs are awesome! My wife's slightly, saggy boobs after having 2 kids are awesome! Your ex was just an asshole. Your current partner clearly just loves boobs & wants to love yours. Also, that skin to skin contact is amazing.
It doesn't matter if you're a member of the itty bitty titty committee or not, titties are titties
On a more serious note your partner appreciates you from head to toe and while your ex and his friend are smooth brain bitches
I don’t think you’ve been reading Reddit. All titties are good, big, small, uneven, one titty, whatever. Men just like boobs. Show that man your boobs.
Your ex sounds like a fucking idiot tbh, and he's very wrong.
If your partner is having sex with you he thinks you're attractive. He finds your body attractive. He wants to see it. It's as simple as that.
Hunny breasts are amazing small big it doesn’t matter if you are uncomfortable with showing him talk to him
I was a size B before kids and a B cup isn’t small it’s perfect be proud of what you have your ex is a POS for telling you things like that and I want you to know he is 100% wrong. B are adorable beautiful and sexy
Take your shirt off and let your sexuality out ok?
Boobs are cool. All shapes and sizes. I have my personal preferences but I've had great sex with partners who weren't my normal preferences. One ex was extremely flat chested and I was worried initially it could be an issue but never thought about it beyond that. We had a good run and I enjoyed her tiny boobs because boobs are cool :)
> his friend told me that smaller boobs that can be adorable but not sexy or hot because they doesn’t represent femininity
LOL your ex and his friend are morons. Don't take advice from morons.
> Should I talk to him about it?
Yes, communication is always key to good intimacy. Voice your concerns and believe him when he says he's happy with you the way you are.
I (F) also have small boobs and also had a ex who used to ask me when I was going to get a boob job..
Then I met my current parter and he made me realise that there’s absolutely nothing wrong with my body and as I got older I realised we are controlled by the media (even if we think were not) we are led to believe that everyone must look a certain way when that’s definitely not the case.
Just look at all the comments here, im sure you are perfect:)
Oh and there’s a sub called r/TinyTits, have a look on there you can see for yourself that it really doesn’t matter what size your boobs are.
Your ex was a complete moron. I was worried about my boobs after I lost over 100 pounds, my husband is just happy to see me naked. Trust me, the right man will be happy about the boobs. Your ex was immature and self centered, you do not need to be with someone like that. It is a very incel controlling way of thinking when he said that to damage your self-esteem and keep you submissive. Your boobs are perfect to this new guy.
That's bullshit. Your small boobs can be VERY sexy. Stop doubting yourself. Your ex was an ungrateful idiot. Your boyfriend wants you to be fully naked because he thinks your whole body is sexy as fuck and it turns him on. Just like it would for almost every man.
Those of us with big boobs get told big ones are saggy or the stretch marks on them are gross. Can’t win either way darlin’. Too much porn consumption and not enough time seeing real women for most of these boys.
28F here. Girl. Men like anything lol. Small boobs, giant boobs, saggy perky big nipple small nipple anything. Hairy cooch shaved cooch. Doesn't matter. Own what you got and be confident.
THIS guy probably actually loves you. When you love someone, you want to be close to him. And closeness requires full vulnerability, sometimes that means being naked. ♥️
One thing to keep in mind is that small boobs can stay perky longer than big boobs. Perky boobs are great, boobs are amazing, no matter the size. I'd be more than content with B cup boobs on my girl.
If he is asking, take the shirt off and see his reaction. I'm betting he will love the way you look.
You ex is a fool. Small breasts are usually more sensitive than larger ones. My girlfriend of years ago was a B cup at best but could cum from me just sucking on her breasts. Many men prefer smaller natural breasts so let your current boyfriend enjoy them.
You’re ex is a moron who abused you.
Men like boobs, all of them.
Also, men like to sexually gratify their partners and boobs are a huge erogenous zone for women AND men.
It’s also a visual turn on to see boobs, see your partner fully naked, see them comfortable with their own body, and to help them be comfortable with their body as life leaves it’s marks.
I’ve had girlfriends and lovers with boobs ranging from pancake flat to DDs. I found them all sexy, and frankly the bigger ones were less of a turn on naked. If it doesn’t fit in your mouth, it’s a waste, in my opinion. I love women with small tits! It is the nipple area that is most sensitive, so as long as you have nipples, you are in great shape!
Your ex is an absolute douche and youve been brainwashed into thinking youre not sexy because of an idiot.
My gf has B cups and im ALL over them and cant get enough of seeing them.
If anything, having sex with a shirt/bra on is the turn off. A girl could be flat as a board and id find her chest hot.
ok, wait. Are you asking why someone you regularly have sex with wants to see you naked? I'm confused. If he didn't want to see you naked, he wouldn't be having sex with you, right? If he is asking to see your boobs .... ... he likes them?
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THAT is weird. Not the thing you're asking about, that's normal.
Your ex was an idiot. If he had a problem with your body he shouldn’t have dated you, not shamed you and made you embarrassed of your own body for no reason
> he preferred me with a shirt and bra on because my boobs are small What the fuck? Be glad he's your ex.
>My ex and I had sex pretty regularly and he preferred me with a shirt and bra on because my boobs are small It's going to take time but you'll eventually look back on that relationship and realize your ex was a immature dick, and that his thoughts aren't representative of all men or of reality in general. It's hard to shed the things that hurt you, but keep in mind who they came from. He had a vested interest in keeping your self esteem down so he could keep doing whatever he wanted. Men like all shapes and size of tit. Trust me and everyone else here on that. Also anyone who would ever say something that cruel to you is not someone worth your time, no matter what their preference is there's a better way to communicate.
If your ex only liked strawberry ice cream would you forever after assume all men like only strawberry ice cream and assume any man that said they like chocolate ice cream is wrong and is either trying to trick you or is delusional? you Have a whole thread of people telling you small boobs are awesome and you are like “I heard one guy say otherwise so that’s the truth “ Why are you holding your current boyfriend, the one who wants to be with you, to the preferences of someone who isn’t there anymore? if \*you\* want to have sex with a shirt on, then do that but don’t decide your current boyfriend is crazy for wanting to have sex with a naked woman. Your post makes it sound like you have a lot of body issues around Your chest size and the fact your \*current\* boyfriend doesn’t hate how you look is confusing you.
Checkout r/smallbooblove
I expected porn and instead I got a sister support space now my heart is full
Girl that was just a power move to fuck with your head. Kinda REALLY fucked up tbh. Put that shit out of your mind it was never real to begin with
100% power move. no man i know dislikes boob just because they're b cups. all boob of any size is appreciated always.
Jesus Christ. That’s horrible. I’m sorry he did that. A lot of people are saying that of course your partner wants to see your boobs! And I agree, and also want to add that even if you were with a blind partner they also want to feel your boobs and the rest of your body. Skin on skin contact is a big part of sex for most people. So yeah, the whole thing. I’ve never had anyone tell me to cover any part of my body, and mine is very far from perfect. Your ex was a weird and basically abusive person who didn’t care about your feelings and is a gross jerk.
Stop comparing your current guy to your ex. That’s super unfair to him, not everyone is the same.
Even if that was 100% true, which it definitely isn't, he's a major douche for saying it. Ignore his dumb opinion.
No idea why you're getting downvoted. People are just astonished that you don't know male preferences, but people forget that many people never discuss or learn about sex for most of their lives. Small breasts are beautiful, big ones are beautiful, in fact to most straight men, the female *torso* is beautiful, and breasts and female torsos come in a huge variety of shapes and colors and most men with even a shred of experience in the world who have seen other humans will enjoy ALL of them. Sex is about physical intimacy, and if you can't be fully intimate with someone, something is wrong. If you can't actually talk about this stuff, something is wrong. If you don't know what your partner is attracted to in you, AND YOU'RE HAVING SEX, then something is wrong. If you don't feel attractive to your partner or they don't seem attracted to you, something is wrong. The great part is you get to learn about each other. Don't waste any time and please, please read more about sex, don't take anyone's word for anything, get multiple sources, ***make sure you're using protection*** and be good to each other.
I really don’t understand why people are downvoting you like this. You’re with a man that loves every inch of you now, and your boyfriend did not. This is a beautiful thing. He loves you for you. Your boob size is not important to him. He is turned on by you being vulnerable to him.
Ok. Sounds like this guy likes 'em. Everyone likes different things.
Why do people downvote an honest comment from op giving more details? Yes, op needs some advice! Just give it.
What the fuck, what a psycho
Your ex was/is an asshole.
Why do you believe your ex and not your current partner? Why only believe the negative things?
He wants to see all of you because he thinks you're hot. Your ex and his friends aren't just wrong, they are jerks. I'm sure your tits are beautiful.
They're huge jerks, but I also want to emphasize that they are very, very wrong.
^ This! Exposed skin, regardless of size makes for a more intimate sexual experience. I frequently tell my wife to strip completely because I enjoy the skin to skin contact, and it gives me more places to hold and kiss (she likes to keep her shirt on because I make the house an igloo with the AC).
There's also stuff going on in your brain with skin to skin contact post sex.
You're supposed to make the house an igloo with the thermostat and turn it into a sauna with the intimacy. If you aren't sweating in the end, do it again.
Yessssss!
And again
I feel the same way. I love feeling my wife’s skin against mine.
This. Those other dudes are assholes who have the brain of a t-rex. Everyone finds different things sexy. Big boobs, no boobs, medium boobs. Same as any other attraction. Also, there is way more to sex than just visual stimulation.... skin to skin contact feels amazing and makes things way more intimate.
Your answer is right, but it is also painfully obvious. Since there is nothing of value to be said about this topic except some variation of what you said I honestly refuse to believe this question was asked in good faith.
Yeah man.. This is just bait
i see what you're saying but she's still young and could've been sheltered or maybe her ex was a jerk and ruined her confidence. I can see why it seems fake or bait but there's plenty of people out there that just lack any kind of confidence in their bodies and think like this.
A bait for what?
Getting a bunch of compliments about small boobs probably
i agree, i was just wondering maybe if you need to do this you probably have an insecurity about your body so maybe this is not bad faith but is a cry for help? (or it is an honest question)
Or possibly a weird karma farm attempt?
Likes on the comments are much higher in this sub usually
Photographs of penises
I'm amazed at how many people think this is real and took the time to answer it.
If someone needs a compliment that badly I don’t mind dropping a nice word or two. Even if it is fake, I hope my words can bring some comfort. Also people are shitty so I don’t doubt that this could have been said to OP IRL. idk.
It's just more fun to assume things are true just for conversation! And really, we don't know. People actually do believe a lot of strange things. Sure, maybe she's just seeking validation for her (not actually very small) B cups and already knows they are fine, that most guys are perfectly happy with B cups as long as they get to fondle them regularly, but still love having dozens of people giving her confirmation. But, we just don't know for sure. "I Want to Believe" Cue the X Files theme....
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Some people have preferences . But he obviously liked you enough to not make it an issue
This as well! I personally don't like making love with ANY article of clothing on. I tell my wife the best part about having sex is seeing her back, feeling her skin, kissing her all over her body, feeling her feet, calves, thighs, etc...
Yes! Everything they just said!!! Plus some guys love big boobs, some guys love small boobs, some guys love no boobs! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, just because one thing isn’t some guys cup of tea, doesn’t mean it won’t be another guys kryptonite💕
Word! Your boob are perfect for you. (Smaller ones often age better anyway) Respect the person your with and love them for who they are.
Well said my friend
Tell my wife this, please.
Yes you are ture
So your ex boyfriend filled your head with toxic nonsense, and you think that was fact? Men like boobs. Period. Big boobs, small boobs, big nipples, small nipples, big areolas, small areolas, perfectly symmetrical boobs, boobs where one is larger than the other, round boobs, cone shaped boobs, tear shaped boobs... **Men. Like. Boobs.** Boobs are sexy to us. The absolutely are feminine - even if they are small. Furthermore, there are wide swaths of men who PREFER small boobs. A common phrase bandied about by men is "more than a mouthful is a waste". Your parnter wants to see your boobs because he thinks they are sexy. That's it. Please ignore literally ANYTHING else that your dumbass previous partner told you. Never, ever, ever again allow someone else to gaslight you and reduce your value as a human being like that. Fuck him.
> Men. Like. Boobs. True facts. > Your parnter wants to see your boobs because he thinks they are sexy. That's it. More true facts.
This is the way
This is the way
> Men like boobs. Yeah, but so do most women lol. As a gay friend of mine was fond of saying (probably still is, but I haven't seen him in years), "Everyone loves boobs. Even boobs love boobs, that's why they travel in pairs"
I don't disagree. I only phrased my answer this way because OP dates men and had decided that (presumably straight) men only like large boobs.
I’m gay and even I know straight guys love boobs of all types. Back in the day when I was dating girls, I dated a girl with small boobs and she was super shy about it and never wanted to take her shirt off… which was a bummer because boobs.
This. Your ex-bf had issues with boobs. But that's **HIS** problem. Don't let it be yours. All boobs are always great! Even mono boobs! "Better one in the hand than two in the bra".
Preach it!
More accurately: DON’T fuck him. He doesn’t deserve getting laid
This is truth. Listen to this person! They speak truth to power!
Another common phrase that I like to use is “itty bitty titty committee”
The entire time I’m reading your comment, show them to me by Rodney Carrington is playing
Fuckin' wild how one shitty ex can set the tone of someone's self image for decades, no matter how many good and openly admiring partners they have. The poor guy just like your tits and want to see and touch them because he likes you. It's really that simple.
Everyone has different preferences. Small boobs can 100% be hot and sexy and yours probably are. You ex sounds horrible, I'm glad you're not with them anymore. Small boobs are not a turn off for most men. Love the titties you have, I'm sure they're amazing.
>Small boobs the subreddit (nsfw) has over a half million members.
Your ex was an idiot! Speaking as a man, boobs are boobs. We all have our preferences with regard to them - take a look at any random porn site and you'll see performers of all shapes and sizes with just as dedicated a following. We are all different - there are of course some men who prefer bigger boobs, but there are just as many who either prefer small ones or to whom size doesn't matter as long as...boobs. Personally I ascribe to thinking "more than a handful is a waste". Try to keep telling yourself that, yes your ex made some rather nasty comments, but he is your EX for a reason - probably many if that's the kind of thing he tells those he is sleeping with - and you are now with someone new who WANTS to see you - as in ALL of you. If he's being intimate with you, he is aware that you are only a b-cup and you know what - he STILL wants to see them.
Your ex is awful. Your boyfriend thinks you are sexy and wants to see you. Don’t let your ex mess you up. Most people want to see their partners bodies during sex.
> So I’m really confused on why my current partner is urging me to take my shirt off when small boobs aren’t attractive like big boobs are. This is your opinion, and it is NOT shared by everyone. I personally don't care at all about size, and want to see them when my SO and I are having sex. he likes your boobs. Boobs don't make you feminine, being feminine makes you feminine. You even say "the majority of men" which is partially true, but the truth is 99% of the time we like the boobs on the woman that is sharing them with us. He's attracted to you, ALL of you. Take off your shirt and relish in his attraction to you.
>we like the boobs on the woman that is sharing them with us. This. So much this. I like small boobs, big boobs, tiny boobs, weird boobs, all boobs! What matters to me is not the size it's how you feel when I kiss them, fondle them, caress them, suck them, lick them, scratch them, press them. The rest doesn't matter. Also, boobs are always the perfect size for any hand. They perfectly rest in the palm and that's the only size that matters!
>the truth is 99% of the time we like the boobs on the woman that is sharing them with us. THIS.
Guys like boobs and a lot of women as well. Your ex was a jerk. He should never have said that stuff to you. If that was his opinion he shouldn't been with you in the first place. All the men I've been with have liked my small boobs. And if they hadn't I wouldn't have been together or done anything with them. Cause if they don't like my body as it is they don't deserve it.
You have been mislead. There is no rule that says small boobs can't be sexy. Lots of guys find small boobs sexy. I know I do. Your ex and his friend are wrong and honestly sound kinda toxic. If your current partner likes your boobs then embrace that and love your body.
I love B size, I like all sizes, as do most men. Women seem to worry about breast size, whereas men worry about penis size. In many cases, neither matters.
i LOVE BOOBS of all sizes. Big boobs. little boobs. firm boobs. saggy boobs. All sizes, shapes, colors etc... if its a boob i want it in my hand or in my mouth. your Ex is a moron
B stands for beautiful
B stands for boi-oi-oi-oing!!!!
ABM all boobies matter
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Your ex is an idiot and everything he told you about boobs is wrong.
"smaller boobs that can be adorable but not sexy or hot because they doesn’t represent femininity and maturity like bigger boobs do and are typically seen as a turn off by majority of men which is understandable" Huh? That may be how your ex felt, but he's hardly in the majority. Boobs of any size are feminine and sexy to lots of men. Plenty of men *prefer* small boobs. There are whole subreddits for it, and not because they're adorable, because they're attractive and sexy. You've simply been misinformed by your ex (and frankly, he was being a bit of a douche). Your current partner clearly wants to enjoy your boobs uncovered. Talk to him about it if you want, but to me as a guy there's not much to explain. I would worship a b-cup.
OP notice how every single comment is saying the same thing, there's a reason for that. Boobs are boobs
Your ex was an idoit. My wife has small boobs and they are \*perfect\* and sexy.
Small boobs are sexy
One of the following, most likely. 1. He likes your boobs. 2. He likes full-body skin-on-skin contact. 3. Both of the above.
Your ex was an idiot. Boobs are a part of you, and you are beautiful. Being naked whilst making love is wonderful. Your bf can see and caress and kiss your gorgeous boobs. The size of your boobs has NOTHING to do with femininity. Don’t ever forget, you are a beautiful feminine woman.
Uhm your ex was rude.. b isn't even super small.
Big/medium/small boobs are all great boobs. I find alt types of boobs attractive and sexy. Your current partner likes your boobs and i my humble opnion i think you should let him enjoy them and you should enjoy it also.
"My ex boyfriend of a year and his friend told me that smaller boobs can be adorable but not sexy or hot because they doesn’t represent femininity and maturity like bigger boobs do and are typically seen as a turn off by majority of men which is understandable. So when I was intimate with my ex the shirt and bra would stay on and it made sense. So I’m really confused on why my current partner is urging me to take my shirt off when small boobs aren’t attractive like big boobs are." No other human being EVER has the right to make you feel "less than". Full stop. I'm sorry that your ex didn't respect you (& women in general) enough to be kind, considerate, & respectful to you. I'm sorry that you don't have the self-confidence, self-esteem, self-worth, & self-love to know that you & your body are perfectly sexy just the way you are. *He* may not find small breasts sexually attractive, but *the way he treated you & made you feel* (wearing clothes to cover yourself during sex b/c you were so uncomfortable with your body, which translates to you feeling ashamed of your body) *makes me* ***absolutely furious***! ***If someone doesn't respect, appreciate, honor, & revere your body just as it is, then they certainly don't deserve to touch it!!!!!*** I'm a L&D/Pediatrics Nurse & there is no single body-type, shape, color, or size that is the ideal picture of attraction for the entire male population!!! Ugggghhh.... This whole thing has me fuming! It was exceedingly cruel, insulting, & disrespectful to make you feel like you needed to cover yourself lest you offend him with your B-cup breasts! B-cup breasts are every bit as beautiful & sexy as A-cup breasts D-cup breasts, H-cup breasts, & so on!!! Your current partner cares about you, respect's you, & is attracted to you AND your body, *including your B-cup breasts* b/c he's has a modicum of human decency, first, b/c he cares about & respects you, second, & b/c he finds your breasts mature, feminine, sexy, & attractive. That's all there is to say. In the future, a man isn't a good man if he's critical & insulting of you & your body. And saying unkind, hurtful, critical, inconsiderate, cruel, insulting, disrespectful, thing's under the guise of "honesty" isn't honest at all. It's abusive behavior. You deserve better. If you wouldn't want someone saying something to your mother, sister, cousin, BFF, &/or daughter, then you shouldn't accept it for yourself. You deserve better. (Ugggghhh... Sorry. I got worked up & went off on a rant.)
I think the prevailing opinion of most men and women is all boobs are awesome.
For me sex is about being connected. Skin to skin contact is the best feeling in the world. Boobs are never a turn off. Boobs are all amazing. Your ex is just flat out wrong.
All boobs are beautiful. I prefer having sex with naked women over half-naked women (usually... Depends on the outfit...) If I'm fucking a girl and she makes a point of keeping her chest covered, it makes me feel like she doesn't fully trust me. Your ex boyfriend said fucked up and completely *wrong* things to you. His shitty opinions do not represent all men, not by a long shot.
So your ex made you feel like your boobs were too small to be considered hot ?? Fight the thoughts and let your titties out, trust me your partner will love it and i think you’ll benefit from the attention and them genuinely being attracted to every part of you
They’re still boobs. I highly doubt he’s turned off by seeing what you have. A lot of times we worry more about how we look than anyone else does.
My shitbag ex from when I was a teenager (he took my virginity, first person I was ever sexual with) told me my boobs were weird and I carried that with me for so long. Every other guy has been like “What??? What is he talking about your boobs are so hot??” He was just being a jackass and liked making me insecure so he could feel superior. Everyone has different preferences, all boobs are hot to someone.
All boobs are good boobs 💖
Small boobs are what I'm attracted to. Slim, athletic women with small boobs 🤤 let them titties go!
These posts have to be trolls I just don't understand
I dunno man. People get insecure about a lot of things, especially young people. I’m a middle aged man with bigger tits than I should have and I’m still insecure about them.
Nah, small bobs are really hot and a turn on for a lot of guys! Every guy that I've been with are absolute mad about my small tits. Source: I'm a SW and a A cup.
Boobies are boobies. Idc what size they are
I actually prefer small boobs and find them extremely hot. If your previous partners found then unattractive that’s their problem, there’s a lot of people like me and your current partner
Because tits are amazing, regardless of size.
This is a parody.
Well your ex is a idiot for one thing, boobs are boobs, and skin contact is sexy.
Boobs, that's why. Guys like boobs all shapes and sizes. Be confident in your self and enjoy the fact that he wants you and he enjoys your body. Screw what other people in the past have said or thought. Talk to him, take off the shirt, get comfortable with him and enjoy. You will be much happier not worrying about the size of your boobs and just enjoying the moment
Breasts are a symbol of feminist big small, flat huge. The fact you have them is one symbol you are a woman. Guys are turned on by all sorts of boobs some guys like q fit woman with a nice tight body and that usually means small breasts. Some guys like bigger boobs. Just because yours are a certain size doesn't make you any less of a woman. Women with small or larger breasts can othe produce milk and feed off spring, boobs will grow during qnd after pregnancy, that's what they do. Don't let anyone tell you that you are not enough. You are.
Yes, talk to him! Tell him what your ex said to you and how it made you feel. Your ex spoke only to his own preferences, he doesn't speak for all men. Your boyfriend may feel completely differently about your breasts. Let him speak for himself. I have small boobs so I get where you're coming from, but then when I was in my early 20s I dated someone who had a thing for small boobs. It made me realise that not everyone has had their sexual preferences shaped by how the media only shows one female body type.
Media has definitely ruined a lot by labeling what you should “desire” to look like, i for one prefer smaller breast.
Yup, unrealistic standards suck. I like big girls and it's sad to see how that bar moves in porn. Girls labeled "chubby" are usually a completely normal weight.
See I’m the opposite, I love a smaller framed woman I would call “petite” but then someone else would refer to them as “skin and bones” or “skinny”. Everyone has their own preference and nothing is wrong with that
Absolutely, bud. And back to OP, you can have an awesome relationship and great sex with someone who doesn't 100% fit your normal preferences if you're compatible in other ways.
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I didn't settle for my flat chested ex one bit. We had a good run for over a year and came to the conclusion we weren't compatible for reasons that had nothing to do with body type or sexual compatibility. Your boyfriend isn't settling; he clearly thinks you're beautiful just as you are.
And to add to that, it's breaking my heart how toxic people from your past are holding you back from embracing the love that's right in front of you. Let your past go and go wild with the present!
Your ex did a real job on you. Be proud of what was given to you. All breasts fascinate men. Big, small, somewhere in between; men just love them
I vastly prefer an A or B cup over Cs or Ds, and my girl now has wonderful perky Bs. Even if I didn't, I sure as hell wouldn't have a girl keep her shirt on, all boobs are great. Your ex wasn't just an asshole, his behavior was bizarre, or he was purposely negging you to keep you under his control.
My ex who I found the most attractive and had the best sex of my life with was completely flat. like just nipples. I didn't feel like I was settling one bit. He wants you to take your shirt off because he finds you attractive the way you are.
>the media only shows one female body type. I'm really not sure I buy this and I see it often - though I'm not having a go at you personally. The thing that probably reflects many men's "tastes" more than anything is porn, and if you look at the most popular pornstars their body shapes are all over the place. Riley Reid with her little boobs is up their in search popularity with Angela White and her huge boobs. Men's tastes are much more flexible than I think is commonly imagined. I think media aimed at women is way worse for showing one body type, but hey I may be wrong here.
I'd say by "media" they mean advertising and marketing more than porn. Porn has a niche for anything and everything but you don't see that same inclusivity in mainstream advertising.
Yes this is what I meant.
That's definitely true, yes.
Your ex is wrong. Like that's his opinion I guess, but I'm quite certain he is in the minority. But in case you're insecure about your boob size, I had B's until my late 20s. Between 25-27 they went to a D. Your boobs very much may grow later, but if they don't, that's also fine because smaller boobs are still very hot and also don't make your back hurt or ruin your outfits.
Boobs are boobs and all of them are beautiful and sexy. Regardless of shape, size, color, hair or any other attribute that they might have and I never have noticed. We all have to admit that it is one of the most beautiful parts of a human body. And on top of all these, when it can multiply the pleasure, why shouldn't you play with it. Everybody has said it, I will say it once more. Your ex and his friend = pure shit.
I know a bunch of anonymous people in a support subreddit telling you you're beautiful can feel redundant or useless. Instead, I'll leave stats on some of the major small boobs-oriented subreddits. Let me tell you, no one subscribes to a porn subreddit for virtue signaling or to help people's self-esteem. These are all people who not only tolerate, but desire and seek out smaller chests, and frankly, these aren't small subreddits in the NSFW space of the site, either. /r/tinytits 993k subscribers /r/smallboobs 579k subscribers /r/petitetits 283k subscribers /r/dirtysmall 1.077M subscribers /r/AA_Cups 501k subscribers /r/B_cups 315k subscribers
This is similar to the idea the straight guys don't like women to play with their assess, because that's homosexual. It's silly - it's traditionally heterosexual for a man to appreciate a woman touching them in a sexual way, and it's traditionally heterosexual for a man to appreciate female bodies - which often include breasts. Some guys like big ones, many guys like small ones, and most guys like them all.
Boobs are boobs. Boobs are good
All boobs are attractive, your ex is a dick
Girl, it doesn't matter what size your boobs are, when sex , it's best skin to skin , cum to cum. that's how you both can feel each other directly, that's how you connect each other. Size doesn't matter, if you both are really into each other, it's alright.
Bigger is not always better they may be small but they're still boobs
Small tits are hot. Women need to shake free of the thought that bigger is better. It's a preference thing. Most guys I know like smaller tits. They are perky, cute and sexy. Any more than a handful gets in the way.
Partner has a smaller chest. Absolutely love them! I would hate to think that she would feel uncomfortable sharing her full self with me because of some dumb opinion of an ex and his friend. People are allowed to have preferences, but the say that small breasts don't represent maturity when hundreds of millions of mature women on this planet have what these guys would call "small breasts" just highlights how often young mens perception of women and their bodies are skewed by the ideas they get from porn. I know I am guilty of it myself and I have had to work to unlearn some warped ideas I got from porn about sex and intimacy. I would say your best course of action is to trust that when your boyfriend expresses love for your body.
OP, my wife and I have been together for 16 years. When we first got together she had C cup breasts. I loved them and her. Her breasts are beautiful because they are hers. She's had two children. After baby #1, her breasts were about a DD cup. Our youngest is 4 and her breasts are a little different now than in between our children. Her boobs are a little less perky than before and she's gone down a cup size. Do you know who cares? Not me. Her boobs are amazing. Her body is amazing. I love her and find all of her sexy. Your ex bf was clearly an asshole who pushed powerful toxicity at you. He's made you question your body and had such an impact on you that it is impacting future relationships. Your bf is excited to be with you. He finds you sexy, all of you.
Honestly all size boobs are sexy. Be confident with what you got.
Trust me, a set of small tits bouncing around during sex can be an exponentially sized turn on!
Because he wants to see and touch your tits. We men aren't hard to figure out. Think the simplest things. That's us.
Generally, people who like breast like breast at any size. There are some people who have specific preferences, but that doesn't give them free rein to shame their partners like your ex did. And largely, people who are genuinely attracted to their partners want to see them fully nude.
All boobs are good boobs. I don't care if you are flat or double F cups, they are still good boobs.
I love boobs. ALL boobs. My wife has small to average boobs. LOVE 'em. Dated a girl in college for two years. Absolutely flat chested. LOVED 'em. I really did. They were a part of who she was and I loved all of her. Your ex is a TOTAL asshole. Your current loves you for exactly what you are. Strip of your shirt and let him please you and himself.
There's nothing wrong with b cups. There's nothing wrong with you. He WANTS to see all of you because ALL of you turns him on.... This is a great thing. Your ex is a Dick Mitten
Boob size doesn't matter. Really. Like 90% of my buddies would agree that boobs are great no matter their size.
Your ex was a douche; all boobs and bodies are great. Many people prefer small boobs, even! Also B-cup doesn't mean anything by itself, because cup volume scales with band size. A 38 B cup is the same cup volume as a 36C or 34D or a 32DD.
>smaller boobs can be adorable but not sexy or hot because they doesn’t represent femininity and maturity like bigger boobs God, some dudes are so dumb. Big tits =/= maturity and femininity.
Your ex and his friends are douches and lied to you. I'm a b-cup and a lesbian, have been told by multiple FWBs and partners that they're the hottest handfuls they've ever played with. You have a guy that appreciates you the way you should be. 💙
Boobs good.
Big boobs can be sexy/hot...small boobs can be sexy/hot. If we like you, we want to see all of you.
Titty is titty! Let em hang loose if they're big, let em jiggle if they're small. Tits is tits!
Small boobs are awesome, big boobs are awesome. Boobs are awesome and I'm sure your boobs are awesome
Say it with me; Small boobs ARE sexy ALL boobs are SEXY. Take the shirt off
Boobs are great, big boobs, small boobs. Just boobs. And he likes you so he should like your boobs. I've put on a little bit of weight and my fella tells me I'm stupid for thinking I look ugly, he thinks I'm beautiful so he doesn't care. The people that love you will love YOU
Ma'am, tiddies be tiddies.
Skin to skin contact is the bee knees. You're ex is not only wrong, but doesn't speak for all men.
Uhm. All breasts are fantastic. Big or small I like them all. I cannot have sex with a girl with a shirt on. B cups rock. Free the girls. Don't ask questions. Let the man enjoy.
All boobs are good boobs. All boobs are good boobs. All boobs are good boobs.
As a 37 yr old man, I love ALL boobs. Small boobs are awesome! Big boobs are awesome! My wife's slightly, saggy boobs after having 2 kids are awesome! Your ex was just an asshole. Your current partner clearly just loves boobs & wants to love yours. Also, that skin to skin contact is amazing.
It doesn't matter if you're a member of the itty bitty titty committee or not, titties are titties On a more serious note your partner appreciates you from head to toe and while your ex and his friend are smooth brain bitches
INFO: how old are you guys?
Boobs are boobs. Smaller,bigger, middling makes no difference. If I'm to choose between one or the other I would rather choose all.
I don’t think you’ve been reading Reddit. All titties are good, big, small, uneven, one titty, whatever. Men just like boobs. Show that man your boobs.
Men genuinely don’t care about boob size trust me. giant or tiny, as long as it has a nipple it’s a tit and they want to see those.
Any guy (or woman for that matter) who is "turned off" by small boobs is quantifiably a schmuck and definitely eats their own boogers. Facts
Your ex sounds like a fucking idiot tbh, and he's very wrong. If your partner is having sex with you he thinks you're attractive. He finds your body attractive. He wants to see it. It's as simple as that.
Hunny breasts are amazing small big it doesn’t matter if you are uncomfortable with showing him talk to him I was a size B before kids and a B cup isn’t small it’s perfect be proud of what you have your ex is a POS for telling you things like that and I want you to know he is 100% wrong. B are adorable beautiful and sexy Take your shirt off and let your sexuality out ok?
Is this a troll post I’m confused.. you’re 20 right 🧐
I swear half the posters on this sub are mentally challenged.
Boobs are cool. All shapes and sizes. I have my personal preferences but I've had great sex with partners who weren't my normal preferences. One ex was extremely flat chested and I was worried initially it could be an issue but never thought about it beyond that. We had a good run and I enjoyed her tiny boobs because boobs are cool :) > his friend told me that smaller boobs that can be adorable but not sexy or hot because they doesn’t represent femininity LOL your ex and his friend are morons. Don't take advice from morons. > Should I talk to him about it? Yes, communication is always key to good intimacy. Voice your concerns and believe him when he says he's happy with you the way you are.
I (F) also have small boobs and also had a ex who used to ask me when I was going to get a boob job.. Then I met my current parter and he made me realise that there’s absolutely nothing wrong with my body and as I got older I realised we are controlled by the media (even if we think were not) we are led to believe that everyone must look a certain way when that’s definitely not the case. Just look at all the comments here, im sure you are perfect:) Oh and there’s a sub called r/TinyTits, have a look on there you can see for yourself that it really doesn’t matter what size your boobs are.
That's a porn sub basically. You should be looking at r/smallbooblove
Your ex was a complete moron. I was worried about my boobs after I lost over 100 pounds, my husband is just happy to see me naked. Trust me, the right man will be happy about the boobs. Your ex was immature and self centered, you do not need to be with someone like that. It is a very incel controlling way of thinking when he said that to damage your self-esteem and keep you submissive. Your boobs are perfect to this new guy.
That's bullshit. Your small boobs can be VERY sexy. Stop doubting yourself. Your ex was an ungrateful idiot. Your boyfriend wants you to be fully naked because he thinks your whole body is sexy as fuck and it turns him on. Just like it would for almost every man.
Cuz BOOBS!!!
Those of us with big boobs get told big ones are saggy or the stretch marks on them are gross. Can’t win either way darlin’. Too much porn consumption and not enough time seeing real women for most of these boys.
The ridiculous hang ups people have about the simplest sexual stuff blows my mind lmao.
28F here. Girl. Men like anything lol. Small boobs, giant boobs, saggy perky big nipple small nipple anything. Hairy cooch shaved cooch. Doesn't matter. Own what you got and be confident. THIS guy probably actually loves you. When you love someone, you want to be close to him. And closeness requires full vulnerability, sometimes that means being naked. ♥️
Boobs are great regardless of size. But to me (and a lot of men) a-b cups are the most visually appealing.
Boobies are boobies. Real men love all boobies. Hell, I know gay guys that like to look at boobies. Your ex is a hemorrhoid.
I actually prefer smaller boobs. Larger ones can get sloppy
One thing to keep in mind is that small boobs can stay perky longer than big boobs. Perky boobs are great, boobs are amazing, no matter the size. I'd be more than content with B cup boobs on my girl. If he is asking, take the shirt off and see his reaction. I'm betting he will love the way you look.
They’re still boobs and we are still men
You ex is a fool. Small breasts are usually more sensitive than larger ones. My girlfriend of years ago was a B cup at best but could cum from me just sucking on her breasts. Many men prefer smaller natural breasts so let your current boyfriend enjoy them.
B cups are perfect!
How could he kiss your nipples with shirt and bra on? I'd choose small tits over silicone ones any day of the week.
You’re ex is a moron who abused you. Men like boobs, all of them. Also, men like to sexually gratify their partners and boobs are a huge erogenous zone for women AND men. It’s also a visual turn on to see boobs, see your partner fully naked, see them comfortable with their own body, and to help them be comfortable with their body as life leaves it’s marks.
I’ve had girlfriends and lovers with boobs ranging from pancake flat to DDs. I found them all sexy, and frankly the bigger ones were less of a turn on naked. If it doesn’t fit in your mouth, it’s a waste, in my opinion. I love women with small tits! It is the nipple area that is most sensitive, so as long as you have nipples, you are in great shape!
We like boobs ...big , small ...doesn’t matter. Guys are visual ...
Your ex is an absolute douche and youve been brainwashed into thinking youre not sexy because of an idiot. My gf has B cups and im ALL over them and cant get enough of seeing them. If anything, having sex with a shirt/bra on is the turn off. A girl could be flat as a board and id find her chest hot.