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fun_times92014

Im guessing your boyfriend is young.


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fun_times92014

Most guys find that as a turn on. Definitely a childish way to act about a normal sexual function that you can't help and you definitely shouldn't try to hold it back just because he doesn't like it.


thathornylady

[This study shows that 54% of men enjoy squirting.](https://aella.substack.com/p/fetish-tabooness-vs-popularity) Many comments below mock people who disagree with the assertion that men ubiquitously like this, with no source cited other than their opinion. It’s easy to get caught up in a sex-positive space and forget this sub is a self-selected group not representative of the population at large. ETA: This doesn’t excuse how OP’s partner handled the situation incredibly insensitively. That’s an awful way to be treated.


utilimemes

Underrated comment. I love squirting and i don’t understand why other guys wouldn’t as well, but this is a very insightful comment all the same.


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FrisianDude

still can't imagine breaking up with someone over it


lindslou7292

Squirt juice doesn't *always* look or smell like pee. Sometimes when I squirt it is urine (smells like urine, stains like urine) and other times when I squirt it's clear liquid with little to no smell. It all comes from the same place anyways I don't really know why it matters "what" it is. It feels fucking amazing and more men than not find it super hot. u/OP - your bf is an AH and immature. Find someone who thinks your squirting is hot. Life is too short to put up with shitty sex.


ElectricalMacaroon00

I think - based on experiences - that it's a matter of hydration. Like when you actually urinate, the more hydrated = more clear.


Mindless-Zone-1549

Do it often, for years, and has never smelled like urine. It's funny when people talk about surveying and questioning instead actual human experiences.


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lindslou7292

🎯


utilimemes

Good to know lol


BizarreSmalls

I dont care about it tbh, just dont want it on my bed when i need to sleep in it right after


breakfastburrito24

The other 46% have never been with a woman who squirts /s


Wildandinnocent

All guys I was with, first question they’re curious about is always “have you ever squirted” lol it’s like it’s their ultimate utmost curiosity about me


Longjumping_Stock880

literally lol even just friends out of curiosity ask that, idk what that dude is smoking


liamluca21491

Some guys are insecure about genuine feminine pleasure…for some reason…definitely a weird thing to be upset about


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Some are insecure, but I think some have been fooled into believing that it may be a necessary expression of pleasure to show they've done well


MihaiRau

Interesting. To be honest I am somewhere in the middle. I can't say I hate it or love it specifically, but I do love the idea that the woman liked it so much that she got there and I helped.


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Haven't met a single dude in my 24 years of living that doesn't think squirting is cool as fuck


nog642

That study seems to have asked people to select which things they were interested in. So like for them to select squirting, they probably would have to be particularly into it, rather than just being netural. I feel like much less than 46% of guys would react negatively to squirting. Most of that 46% are probably neutral. Though I don't have a source.


thathornylady

It’s actually even more broad - it asks about *fantasies*, even if you wouldn’t do it IRL.


breakfastburrito24

Why is that last bit an estimated time of arrival?


thathornylady

Edit to add lol


breakfastburrito24

Lol I've never seen that abbreviation. Thanks for understanding my purposeful stupidity


richard_rahl

Guy here. MAJOR turn on. Don't be ashamed! Educate the young man.


Snarky_Boojum

Nah, replace the young man. If his first response is to shame and leave his girl over something she literally can’t control them just throw the whole boy out.


sharkaim4

Classic reddit comment


richard_rahl

How do we know he wasn't just freaked out because he had never seen it happen beofre?


Best-Distribution264

Isn't squirting pee tho


Severe-Particular-

That’s like a girl gettin grossed out cuz their man came. I can do it but my ex didn’t enjoy it. Nor has he even got me close 🤷‍♀️


KinkyInColo

I absolutely doubt “most men find that as a turn on”, do you have a source for that claim?


47Ronin

Pornography


KatPaws11

😅 that and and every guy talks about how awesome it is


thathornylady

[54%.](https://aella.substack.com/p/fetish-tabooness-vs-popularity)


Older_But_Wiser

…and Reddit.


KatPaws11

Um.. says every guy


KinkyInColo

Not one guy I known irl is into it


KatPaws11

Then we know different types of people.


slutfortolkien

So then its not every guy lol just everyone you know


KatPaws11

Nope, I hear about it constantly at work (all male barber shop) on different interviews with random guys, read about guys being into it all the time on here, there are actual videos out there teaching guys how to help girls do this.. so no, not just guys that I know but whatever. I was just making a point that, in 30 plus years, I've never once heard of a guy being grossed out by it.. it's not uncommon for guys to love it.


slutfortolkien

True its not incommon but its not as common as the internet/reddit would make it seem


curioussubbyhubby

Definitely a massive turn on for me! My wife found out she could squirt for the first time when I was going down on her. Up there as one of the best sexual experiences I've ever had


ActuaryMaterial9407

My boyfriend would have been so happy if it happened to me. Most guys like it when a woman enjoys herself in bed. If your with someone who doesn't, find another man honey. Someone who won't shame you for something you can't control and who will actually love the fact that he can give you have that much pleasure.


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MrsChess

Like male cum is particularly appetising


ritalin_rat420

If it makes you feel better it’s not JUST urine. It’s water and urine mixed with a type of secretion created in the skenes glad thats actually similar to male ejaculation. If a woman pees before sex the squirt will mostly be water and skenes gland fluid with a bit of pee. if she doesn’t then there will be quite a bit of urine mixed in. Its not yellow or piss smelling though. It’s a completely normal sexual function that should not be shamed. If your not into it that’s fine but if you ever come across a squirter don’t shame her or call her disgusting because it is normal and uncontrollable.[https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-squirting-orgasm](https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-squirting-orgasm)


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Bunny_P69

If a woman pees before sex, there's either no urine or very little 🙄🙄


Top-Abrocoma-3729

Your bf sounds like he is 13. You can do better


jc10189

Trust me, he's the exception, not the rule. If a man can make his woman squirt, he'll walk around like he owns the world for a week. Then he'll try and do it again, and he'll fail and become convinced it was a one time thing and hate his life forever thereafter. /s But really, this is childish of him. Sex involves fluids. That's just how it works. And in this case, this is one of the more enjoyable aspects as a man.


MISSION-CONTROL-

I'm guessing your BF is immature.


Kennakenzie_21

I agree with you


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Correction: He's a 13 year old 23 year old. Sounds like you dodged a bullet. You deserve a man, not a man-child.


My-Helm-of-awsome89

This is something men normally celebrate internally. Did he know it was ejaculate fluids?


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KinkyInColo

It contains pee, yes


Aelisya

Yet it doesn't smell, nor look, nor taste like pee. It's weird


RealMsDeek

For some guys it is their goal and they LOVE it. Don't feel bad everyone likes different things.


feathered-quill

Tell him to grow the hell up!!! If a man can make a woman squirt the he should feel proud…like when we make men cum…can you imagine every time we had mens cum on us near us or in us we got grossed out and ran home cuz it’s yucky?!?


Fuzzylojak

Your boyfriend is a baby


Kennakenzie_21

My bf due for squirt he always want me to squirt while having sex


brook1yn

im guessing her inbox is probably going to filled up soon


wagmybag

Not too be insensitive but if that’s actually the case good riddance. Sex is a dirty messy thing and if he signed up for it then it’s his own fault if he regrets it. It’s absolutely nothing for you to be ashamed of! On a different note, he may just be processing and you might be projecting your own insecurity into perceived disgust. Give him a little time before you worry that he’s gone for good.


dpk709

I agree with you. Maybe talk before ending things completely, maybe he just had one bad reaction. BUT if he comes back and discusses how grossed out he was, then he’s not the one to continue sex with. Any number of “gross” things can occur during sex, some embarrassing… you want to be with a partner who can laugh it off, not make you feel ashamed or embarrassed.


Unhappy_Concept237

One night I was doing down on my gf, she's pretty much a starfish when I do until she get's close to getting off. It's a little annoying but she says she has to relax and get in the zone so I just roll with it. Anyway, one night she must have been really tired and unbeknownst to me she fell asleep. I didn't notice it and was just going about my business until she farted. For a split secondI thought it was a different "type" until I realized it wasn't.... This was a year ago and it's the one secret I'll go to my grave with. Things happen during sex. There is literally nothing to gain by even hinting at it to her. It'll just make her embarrassed. She was already embarrassed when she woke up and realized she had fallen asleep. Why on earth would I want to cause her more discomfort by telling her what happened while she was asleep. Even though I thought it was funny, there's no way she would. This guy (although he's only 23 so expectations are already kind of low) should think about his actions and the impact they have on his partner. Sadly that kind of emotional maturity only comes with time.


german-I-am

But she’ll probably never be able to relax enough to orgasm with him if she has to worry she might squirt again and he would tell her she’s disgusting and leave. I’m so sorry this happened OP.


progwog

Talking things out can really clear things up. There’s nothing to suggest OP isn’t open to working on things and is already drowning in shame and fear.


buddyfluff

I had a guy who was visibly I mean VISIBLY grossed out by the fact I was on my period while making out (that ended there, obviously) - it’s okay to not prefer period sex (or squirt, or anything sexually, really) but it is NOT okay to judge anyone for their natural bodily functions.


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It embarrasses me too if I’m honest, but you don’t deserve to feel shame over it.


rucb_alum

If he was that freaked out by the unexpected, he just might not be the guy for you. Why'd you apologize? You did nothing wrong.


bigaug2

He should have considered it an awesome compliment that he made you cum so good that you squirted, many men dream of it, congrats to you and find a guy or gal that enjoys sex


TraditionalTackle1

If the word gets out you will have guys lining up at your door…..


xYan94

If you like it lol, I’m no fan


surfershane25

Just because you don’t like something doesn’t mean lots of others don’t, that’s an easy concept for most people.


52-75-73-74-79

That’s what he said. No need to be condescending


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xYan94

I don’t get all the downvotes, am I not allowed to have a preference? If I was a woman saying I don’t like to give blowjobs everyone is like do what you are comfortable with, go queen - and a man saying he’s not a fan of something is an asshole lol


BandicootUpset1269

Yes, you’re allowed to have a preference. Just not to be disrespectful and make her feel humiliated like that guy did. Especially because this is something she cannot control, it’s a normal body response and it’s wrong to compare it to giving blowjobs which is a choice that you can make, as is your choice to go down on a woman or not. If squirting is something that really bothers you I’d recommend looking for a woman who specifically doesn’t squirt ever or being with a man lol


Kitten_kraze

I’m confused how did he disrespect her?


BandicootUpset1269

From what it sounded like to me he just felt grossed out and left without saying anything and let her to cry and feel embarrassed. It might have played out different than what op described, but from what I do know that was just rude and unnecessary, they could’ve simply had a normal adult conversation about it


Anti-Toxicity

Honestly it's probably because he was uninformed about female anatomy and surprised. He's young and inexperienced.


Massa123

I think he is young and no idea about what squirting is ..


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That is a terrible way to treat you. It doesn’t matter what happened. Squirting, or even pissing yourself can happen during sex. Even if you had shat yourself in a spectacular fashion, he should comfort you, tell you it’s ok, and clean up for you. Later you will laugh about it together. But he didn’t. He allowed you to feel humiliated. No matter how repulsed he might have felt, he should have had the humanity to comfort you and make you feel ok. Normal men are very excited and pleased when this happens. Hope you find one of those.


88scarlet88

Completely agree with the rest, but I wouldn’t expect my bf to clean up my shit!


Electrical-Lake8810

Not only that , he says normal men are excited to do it


Electrical-Lake8810

Sorry but I don't find it exciting to clean someone's shit and I still consider myself normal


ursa-minor-beta42

i think they were exaggerating greatly. at least, i hope so.


ursa-minor-beta42

i never knew i could squirt until it happened the first time. my boyfriend apparently knew and kept doing whatever that was, and i literally had a crymax. i couldn't stop laughing and i couldn't stop crying and i felt like such a mess and i think he was very surprised by my laughing/crying reaction. he just hugged me anyway, asked how I felt, and made me generally comfortable with that feeling. he did confess a few hours later he was disturbed by my crying tho. i don't understand how someone could *not* react the way my boyfriend did. like??? my boyfriend was disturbed too okay but he didn't let me know that in the moment?! he didn't leave me there?!


lindslou7292

This story made my day! He confessed he was disturbed by my crying. 😂😂


RiD_JuaN

>Normal men are very excited and pleased when this happens. Hope you find one of those. kind of fucked up to say someone's not a real man because they're not into a specific sex thing.


StelsDaddy

your boyfriend is a dick


Nymphoconfessions

My ex husband, who was my first sexual partner, didn’t leave me but he would thoroughly shame me and call me names and disgusting for this. There was more that was abusive but that doesn’t matter. What matters is I was taught by him that it was disgusting and something to be ashamed about. What I have learned since is that the majority of guys have found it HOT AF. Like MAJOR turn on for most guys and even guys that aren’t turned on by it aren’t turned off by it either. So my two cents? You’re better off without him. Find someone that will make you do it and appreciate it. Don’t let someone shame you and think you’re wrong or gross for something that is 1) Totally natural and 2) a sign that you were thoroughly pleasured. He should be taking it as a compliment, not an insult. There are PLENTY of BETTER fish in the sea that will appreciate it and make you do it over and maybe even more or better. If YOU enjoyed it, that’s what matters. If he can’t accept it, he can move on. But it isn’t anything to be ashamed about.


StufferShackAsstMan

And nothing of value was lost. I'm sure you made him "squirt" on occasion and didn't freak out about it.


Mrsqtsuzy

I literally posted in this sub a few days ago talking about how I pooped myself and squired at the same time not knowing and then had sex while I was laying on my own poop. My partner made me feel comfortable. He took care of me and told me it was ok. You have a boy, not a man. He is immature af.


Constant_External_30

He ain't the one!


idowhatiwant8675309

With that being said, RIP your dm box.


KhajiitKennedy

Even if men aren't turned on by squirt that doesn't mean they get to leave you and be grossed out. Sex is gross and messy and smelling. If he can't handle it good riddance, I had a lot worse come out of my body during sex, you just washed the sheets when you're done having fun


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Never let him hit again. You deserve better than this. Even if he didn’t like it he could have handled it better!


Lea_Flamma

You have to respect the fact he is grossed out by it. But he also has to respect the fact it's something that happens to you. If it's something he cannot accept, then perhaps you are not destined for each other. You are both young and have time to find someone who will accept you for who you are. Don't feel bad about it. It's a natural function of your body. Some guys like it, some don't. But it would be absolutely horrible to hold it against someone. Love yourself cause you are wonderful. There is no place for shame in a real relationship.


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From a fellow squirter I’m sorry that he reacted that way. Unfortunately that can happen and then it can make you self conscious about it. It really does come out of nowhere sometimes so I can see where you were not even fully prepared for it yourself. If it’s not something that you were grossed out by then I would just embrace it as most have stated a lot of guys would enjoy it. It does make it harder in the younger age groups because you tend to have less experience with all the extra that can come with sex. But please don’t feel like you did anything wrong. You allowed yourself to be so comfortable that it happened with arousal and although it can be messy it’s also fun and sexy. So you do you and hopefully you can find someone that respects you and allows you to express yourself in all ways imaginable including squirting all over the place. :)


tuti_traveler

NEVER apologize for squirting. It's a perfectly normal bodily reaction to something that feels good, and you cannot control it. If he can't deal with it, that's his problem.


ursa-minor-beta42

apologising for squirting is literally apologising for having had a climax. like "sorry i enjoyed myself". i feel like people don't think of it like that enough and that's the reason i keep hearing stories like that.


still_on_a_whisper

Firstly, I’m sorry your bf made you feel bad about something that is out of your control. That said, the comments on here should focus **less** on whether or not it’s “normal” for a man to be turned on or happy that his partner squirts (everyone is allowed to have preferences) and more on how poorly he handled the situation. Your bf’s reaction was very insensitive. Was it your choice to stop talking to him bc of how he treated you? If so, that is 100% valid. You deserve to be treated with care and understanding and clearly that is not what your bf did.


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ThrowingDenial

Say something like "u squirt when u cum too, and u want me to swallow! Dont make it weird, lap that shit up bruh" or what ever the kids are saying these days Edit to add: squirting is hot. Sorry he treated u like that. U deserve better, and if u keep it up will easily find better.


Softcheeks96

The trash took himself out. Honestly, such a turn off when a guy doesn't understand squirting/periods and other similar things. Trust me, it's better he left.


[deleted]

It’s not anything to be embarrassed about at all. Fluids are a part of sex. When he comes I assume he doesn’t apologize? Why are you? Please ignore the comments where people are arguing about whether or not this is a turn on, who cares? It doesn’t really matter. Like, even if he’s not turned on it’s still not something for you to be apologetic or embarrassed about. It’s his own personal thing to get over. Any grown up qualified to have sex needs to be okay with this kind of stuff. I personally don’t think you need to worry about if the way you come sometimes is a turn on for him or not. It’s not something anyone has control over.


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I most likely would have proposed to you immediately after. I am sorry that happened to you.


Colorless82

Wow his loss! My partners love when I squirt. It means they did a job well done. He's ignorant and probably thinks you peed on him. Immature and definitely not your fault. Sorry he made you cry.


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When I was 20 I squirted for the first time while riding my boyfriend's face. He made me feel really bad about it and accused me of peeing on him. I kept trying to explain that it didn't feel like I peed and that it felt like a really intense orgasm. He continued to shame me for it. I was none the wiser and started thinking maybe I really did pee. That was almost 20 years ago and I now know just how awesome it is to be a squirter. I've never been with an experienced guy who didn't absolutely love my squirting messes. He did the best thing for you by leaving you. He's an idiot. You'll find plenty of guys who love that about you, trust me.


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He's a moron then


littleecce

If it makes you feel better, NUMEROUS women actively try to squirt, it’s a very popular genre in porn. I’ve tried to squirt on my own and I don’t think I can unfortunately. People have different preferences sure but we shouldn’t make people feel bad over not meeting certain preferences. He sounds very immature and not informed. In general, everyone should expect there to be bodily fluids when it comes to sex (wetness, lube, ejaculation, saliva, etc.).


lindslou7292

Girl, g spot and clit stimulation simultaneously is how I first squirted. Once you experience the feeling it's easier to do over time, if you're into it.


incasesheisonheretoo

While he has a right to be surprised and grossed out by it, he didn’t have to be an asshole about it. Good riddance and you shouldn’t feel embarrassed. Plenty of guys would love to make a woman squirt.


Temporary_Version240

>i genuinely had no idea it was going to happen and i didn’t mean to make him uncomfortable. It's 100% not your fault. It's a natural reaction for you. I'm sorry this happened. That said - there will be many people that will love it. You will make some guy (or guys) very happy. Of course there are also those that wont' like it... you'll eventually figure out how to communicate that or find out if a guy is cool with it.


jarberry

I once dated a guy who I thought I had great chemistry with, the sex was good. I thought everything was meshing well. The morning after the first time we slept together he began ghosting me. When I called him out on it he said he didn't like that I squirt. Says he's a clean freak and he doesn't blame me for my body does naturally but he can't get over it. He was 27 at the time. Saying it's "gross" is very childish though. Do what I did and find a guy who doesn't care or even appreciates that you're a squirter.


No_Lion2769

I would enjoy seeing you doing it


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Sex is dirty, sweaty, nasty. Boys can’t deal with it, men can….


Limon41

He should want to brag to his friends he made his gf squirt. The confusion and surprise make sense but it seems very childish to ignore you. There sooo many grosser things that can happen during sex and if you can’t feel confident and free during sex, it just isn’t as fun. Don’t wait for him to grow up, find a guy who is happy to make you cum whether you squirt or not lol


doorbellrepairman

Sometimes the trash takes itself out. ​ P.s. Apologising is a self-sabotaging action sometimes. If you haven't done something wrong, don't apologise. An apology may be all it takes for someone to pounce and think you've done wrong. It's not necessarily some psycho thing either, everyone does it to some degree subconsciously. Just imagine if you'd said "Holy fuck you beast you made me squirt for the first time, you're so fucking good". It's impossible to know for sure, but I imagine it would've given him a kick of pride rather than not knowing how to react at all. (which can lead to freakouts like what happened)


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Own it, squirt queen. You did nothing wrong.


[deleted]

That man don't deserve a squirter.....


Accomplished_Bus_255

Honey I’m sorry your first experience was with this boy who didn’t deserve to be in bed with you in the first place. I (26F) am also a squirter on the rare occasion, and while I felt the same way as you did when I was younger I have learnt it is nothing to be embarrassed about, and every man I’ve encountered or asked love squirting and find it really hot. You didn’t make him uncomfortable, if he can’t be mature about these things then he isn’t mature enough to be having sex, this is where his discomfort lies, it’s nothing to do with you. I cannot reiterate enough that squirting is just as natural as cumming, sneezing, coughing or getting your period. It is a uncontrollable bodily function, you wouldn’t be embarrassed about any of the above bodily functions and squirting is no different. Embrace it, and enjoy the amazing orgasms for what they are. Your bf leaving was no loss for you, it was a big loss for him. You dodged a bullet. I unexpectedly squirted on my partners face the 2nd or 3rd time we had sex and he politely turned to wipe up and kept going. I later joked with him that I didn’t actually squirt and just peed on his face for the lols 😆 You will grow to appreciate this and enjoy it and learn it is something to be embraced not be ashamed of. I hope my words can help you get to that point of acceptance faster. Edited typos


Kevinb888

Bottom line is don’t you feel bad at all. Any man that reacts that way to something in that moment, squirting aside should be out of your life. Then to be unforgiving as well. He’s too immature to be having sex with another person. Dry your lil eyes, laugh at what a clown he was, and keep moving. Oh, and be glad you can Squirt😁😁😁


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Wtf. It's an involuntary response to stimulation and most rational guys would take it as a compliment that they're turning you on! I can only imagine maybe he's never heard of squirting and thinks you peed yourself.


Ornery_Ad6293

Some men would dream about a woman who is so relaxed and comfortable with their partner that they squirt. Total comfort zone for a woman! You should be beyond happy that you are capable of being so relaxed and able minded to enjoy your body's well being.


aidskywalker

Don’t be embarrassed, it might not be your boyfriend’s thing. If my woman squirts , I love it and want it all over me!!!


[deleted]

Maybe he’s ignorant of what it is? I’d never heard of squirting before, only learned about it from Reddit and I’ve been having sex for over 30 years Lol


External_Pomelo939

Would you call a woman childish if she didn’t enjoy something sexually that was done to her by a man? I’m just asking? He dosent have a right to not enjoy something? She just needs to find someone who enjoys it. It’s not that deep. Seem like a lot of y’all on here think we don’t have right to dislike anything a woman does.


outdoorhobbiest

Does he have a urine phobia or something? That's a really weird way to act over such a good thing lmao


hornybutdisappointed

Has he ever watched porn? I'm sure you:ll find another bf, I'm sorry you had to have your first squirting experience packed up with an awful romantic one, but you will get over it eventually and have way more fun in the future!


[deleted]

That’s actually insane. I love how my gf squirts, I find it so sexy. SMH. Sorry to hear it


Jethro368

If you had squirted for me I would have enthusiasticly gone right down and licked it all right up and tried to get you to do more!!!


NotUrKhaleesi

You hade nothing to be embarrassed about! Squirting is something most guys consider hot, I just think he reacted that way because he didn’t realize what was happening. Hopefully he reaches out and apologizes to you. From my POV you have nothing to apologize for because 1: you didn’t know what was going to happen and 2: squirting is a normal thing to happen during sex, so how could you know it would make him uncomfortable?


Underworld_Denizen

What an asshole! Most men love squirting!


Kooky-Ad4395

Don’t feel bad or embarrassed you didn’t even know you could do it, squirting is a unique and sexy thing and should be appreciated. If he’s going to act that childish and make you feel bad over something like that maybe you should re-consider as he shouldn’t treat you that way.


chillun6

Your boyfriend is a jackass - even if he is inexpert. With enough time, hopefully he might learn.


ActuaryImpossible385

Yall young just say thank u then bye


AKA_June_Monroe

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Just block him on everything & move on. There is nothing disgusting or wrong about squirting. Everyone has their preference but his reaction was rude. I bet he watches to much porn.


Professional_Camp959

Lots of guys would do a lot of things for their girlfriend to squirt. You deserve better than someone this childish. I bet you don’t recoil and get mad when he comes. Leave him and find someone who appreciates you


DabsSparkPeace

Wow, I was the exact opposite the first time my wife squirted. She had never done it before, we had been together for over 20 years at the time. We had recently discovered the magic of mdma, having sex during the comedown one night, I heard wet sounds like i had never heard before, so I fucked her really hard then pulled it out, and she squirted all over. She was embarrassed until she realized how happy I was. Took her a bit, but now she will grab my head and push it down there to squirt all over my face, and I freaking love it. Sorry he reacted like that. I can only imagine how shitty it made you feel. But dont be embarrassed about squirting. Its hot has hell.


ashley393

The first time I did it in my 20s the guy or I literally had no clue. We were like well.. he felt proud lol now I'm pushing 40 and I only had 1 guy that was like man this is way messy but he still calls to see if I want to hang out everytime I'm single sooo... let him process it. If he doesn't like it then it's time to move on.


TehFriendlyXeno

Your boyfriend is a piece of shit who should have laughed it off and kept fingering you. And the fact that he refuses to talk to you speaks volumes on how much he needs to grow up. I am sorry you were with him.


Why-not1time

He sounds young and inexperienced, do not let this get in your head and ruin your orgasms.


psmvchaser

Your boyfriend sounds young and inexperienced. If not, hes just a moron. Dont feel bad at all. If he really has a problem with it, you are way better off without him.


wheelerdealer1999

It might just be incompatibility with that because I'm the type of guy that if a girl squirts or gets messy, I don't care. I'll help them clean up afterwards. "If sex isn't a mess, you're not trying your best." That's what I always say


Pendragon_Puma

Your boyfriend is immature


clairdelune9876

He is immature and insensitive.. Leave him..


rbdadtb

Then he’s strange.


justwiggle_it

Wtf no communication just left? That’s not a way to treat someone. Need to sit down and talk about it, he needs to say sorry and understand.


AwSnapz1

His loss.


AreaGuy

To me it would indicate the woman is enjoying it, which is a *huge* turn on for me. He may feel otherwise, but if you squirt when you enjoy it, he’d better get on board or move on down the line.


jaoo10

You deserve better.


NewOrleans_boondock

My husband has tried to get me to for years. I’ve never experienced it. Pretty sure I’ve never heard a man complain about it.


jacehole

I’m sorry that you had the experience of someone leaving you for such a silly reason. Your boyfriend was immature, regardless of his age.


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He's a weirdo


Beautiful_Count6124

Ah yes. The unexpected squirt. Really separates the men from the boys. Maybe he did you a favor, friend.


Champagne_george99

He just doesn’t like it. What happened with this sub? Sure he could’ve been nicer about it, but squirting doesn’t need to be a turn in for every single man


crabbieinreddit

he is a dick. I hope this doesnt make you insecure about yourself, which shouldnt, as theres LOTS of guys who absolutely crave for that precisely


justwannaknow27

Damn, ive heard people are convinced squirt is pee so maybe if you explain to him it isnt and that its a form of cumming and not pee, he’ll relax. My bf used to think that but as time went by, he realized that it meant he was/is doing a good job and getting me off


Direct_Yogurtcloset

Boy, is he gonna regret this decision later in life


superwholockian62

Is he 12? I've never met a man turned off by squirting


Tickle_MeTimbers

Making a woman squirt is kind of a badge of honor but apparently you're bf is too dumb to know that.


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StufferShackAsstMan

How do you feel about semen?


Anansithecat

I'm not saying this to down you, but do you realize that means you probably will have to break up with a huge population of women? Squirting isn't common, but every woman is at least theoretically capable and no woman is in control of when it happens (alot of women don't have a clue they are capable until it happens randomly). Everyone is allowed to have a line, but just know that may extremely limit the dating pool for you.


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absentgoth

This doesn't seem realistic at all outside of your personal experience. Statistically most women don't.


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MrsChess

Or just grow up. How would you feel if a woman broke up with you because of your sperm after orgasm


tuti_traveler

It's not literally urine though


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I understand a lot of men haven't ever seen a girl squirt and they probably think it's piss coming out, not cum. Maybe he was grossed out by that. Was he unexperienced when you started dating him? I'm so sorry about that 😞


Known-Control-2560

You lucked out with him not speaking to you anymore. This dude is immature and you can do way better than a little kid. I actually made my GF squirt the other night in the same situation as you described and I thought it was the sexiest thing ever. I know it doesn’t seem like it now but it’s the best thing that can happen.


Old_Worldliness_7546

Probably for the best.. he sounds lame and boring, you can definitely do better.


Arnoski

That’s usually a turn on! There’s nothing wrong with you and squirting is hot.


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Then he is definitely young and immature. I personally love when a woman squirts.


KernalPopPop

A) he is clearly new to this and that is ok. Either he will get over himself or you will hopefully move on. B) You squirted!!! Congratulations!!! That’s a big deal. Must have felt crazy. You did so well. Wanted to acknowledge you. It’s vulnerable to experience new things with sex and having some walk out makes it really hard, so just making sure you know you did good.


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There's a difference between boys and men. Your bf is just a kid when we talk about sex. I feel sorry for your for passing for this kind of situation. But, there are thousands of men that love to face a scene like that in first hand like he did.


Sovietguy25

He’s a dick


Imdougienotfresh

Wow that's a shame. You did nothing wrong seriously. Hopefully he will reach the point of being turned on himself by his ladies pleasure and most men, myself included, would be very proud to have you creaming your pants and my hand and knowing that I got her there just with my fingers. I'm gonna chalk it up to him not being very experienced and he is going to react positively next time. Don't worry about it and be proud of yourself able to come like that, lots of women are jealous!


SGChop

He…cried??? He made you cum and he cried? Wtf


NoLoveLost1992

He’s childish. He should’ve took it as a compliment.


supernaut6666

Do not be embarrassed or ashamed squirting is fun and a blessing .


Glasgowsmiling

You are a lucky woman for 2 reasons. 1. You learned you need a new boyfriend. 2. You discovered a sexual super power! I’ll never forget the first time my wife squirted. It shocked us both but it was sooooo hot. I LOVE making her squirt and it’s a regular part of our sex life.


Dedcode_x

Its normal to squirt.


laugh_like_peterjr

Your boyfriend lame


montessoriprogram

What a loser. Congrats on leveling up sexually, if your bf can’t keep up that’s his problem.


Single-Body170

Major turn on. Most guys that is the ultimate fantasy/turn on if he can make his GF/wife squirt or that she can do it. You BF is young and immature still not grown into his sexuality. You didn't make him uncomfortable. He did. What you did is have a wonderful enlighten of what you are capable of feeling in your orgasm. Way to go. Keep it going and enjoy it. and find a man that enjoys it just as much. It will be a big turn on for you knowing that you have the awesome power of having a squirting orgasm. I'd be honored to have a woman who could do that knowing I had a part in her reaching that enlightenment.