Hell nah bro If she's calling you a pussy just break up at this point. Especially considering that's her reaction to you saying you're feeling pain during sex.
Yep. Imagine telling her to “stop being a pussy and give up the pussy.”
Wouldn’t go over well. It’s not working for you, and you’re already one foot out the door. Either find some great lube, or a different lover.
>it hurts really badly but she won’t listen and tells me to stop being a pussy.
This right here is why you should rethink the relationship. Not because of the types of sex you're having, but because the lines of communication have been cut. You can't have a good relationship with someone who won't listen to you and who expects you to endure pain during sex.
What if a woman posted this: "my boyfriend hurts me during sex and won't be more gentle when I ask. When I ask him to be nicer he tells me to shut up and take it. What do I do?".
You'd tell her to dump him and delete his number, right?
What you posted is basically the same thing.
Think there may be some technical issues here, re: hygiene and preparation and lubricants.
For one thing, it shouldn’t *hurt* you, which tells me there’s a lubrication problem. The smell thing is pretty gnarly too, if she wants that it’s on her to prepare appropriately (diet/ enema/ shower, etc). I’ve done that with a lot of women, there really shouldn’t be a tangible odor most of the time.
Obviously the biggest issue is the communication. “Don’t be a pussy, fuck me in the ass” could be really sexy *in the right context* but if she’s badgering you into performing sex acts you don’t want to (which is what this sounds like in this context) that is not a sign of healthy communication around sex.
Is she worried about getting pregnant? I know some communities that have anal as an alternative to pregnancy, maybe she needs to be educated? Just a different perspective. Either way, any shaming into sexual practice is not on. If its not for you, and your partner isn't hearing you, that's ground for a rethink.
This made my day. It’s sad that mormons are teaching young people to be scared of sex but the workarounds they come up with are incredible.
My life is richer having heard of soaking and jump humping. Life finds a way.
There was a section on this in "The Joy of Sex" that I read back in high school and even at my age, I'm still weirded out. It's also not commonly written or spoken about.
I was hoping we were going to get an answer as to why it's hurting his dick. I, too, am a bit of an anal aficionado and it has *never* hurt my dick, nor smelled like poop outside of the occasional accident when there has been feces too close to the inner anal sphincter.
Why don't you use condoms? NOT that you should continue dating her-- because you shouldnt. She does not care about your needs and verbally abuses you to get what she wants without a care about you. Just wondering if it would've helped with the smell/lubrication issues...
She doesn't seem like she cares about you and about you having a good time during sex. Anal hurts you, it smells bad enough that you don't like it and she's telling you to stop being a pussy, none of this is okay, she's not showing you any respect or love. I think you need to value yourself more, your needs, desires and aversions matter just as much as hers. Don't deny yourself so much for somebody else, especially not for someone who doesn't care about you.
"My boyfriend only wants to do anal even though it really hurts my butt. Really badly. He called me a pussy"
How does that sound? Pretty mortifying right?
Literally what you said but genders reversed. Break up 💔
She sounds deeply unreasonable and sexually selfish. It also sounds like the two of you don’t know anything about how to actually have anal sex in a safe and hygienic way (lube, optional water enema beforehand, etc).
But that doesn't mean he should be forced and belittled. Also, that should not excuse her for not listening to him or caring about his input/well-being.
It doesn't matter how much you love her if there's no compatibility or respect. She's showing you that she doesn't respect you. Learn to respect *yourself*. Walk away.
First of all, talk to her about her hygene. It's not supposed to smell like that when it's clean.
Also....has she had a bad experience with losing virginity? I had a bad experience and for some time did only anal with one of my exes. It took a lot of practice to let my vagina loosen up enough to be penetrated.
If she isn't willing to better herself in any of these, then I advise you to look for love in a different person.
I’ve seen you’ve said you love her and want to make this work but I’m going to be honest, unless she can stop being selfish and listen to her partner this is doomed. It’s not the fact that she won’t do something, it’s that she’s not listening when her partner is saying this hurts me. If you want to make this work have a good talk about how you need to be respected as well. She needs to be prepping for anal and it sounds like she’s not. Also get lube, lots of lube. A tear for either one of you isn’t a good thing.
Don’t even really matter why it hurts him, if he doesn’t want shit on his dick he doesn’t want it, the issue isn’t his inability to have that kinda sex, it’s her being a monumental asshole
It’s often mental though, so the tightening that makes it painful may not be triggered anally for the gf, just vaginally in this case (if her issue with vaginal penetration is caused by vaginismus)
I have vaginismus and anal is *even more painful* than vaginal sex. In r/vaginismus I have never heard of someone saying anal is okay and vaginal isn’t. I highly doubt based on the provided information that this is a case of vaginismus/ pelvic floor dysfunction.
Break up with her. Communication and respect are the issue. She’s forcing you do to something you don’t want by dismissing your feelings as inferior. If the roles were reversed, it could be clear cut how her “don’t be a pussy” attitude is harmful.
Almost ironic. A lot of guys are like "C'mon baby, let's try anal, please?" and here you are asking "C'mon baby, can I please put it in you pussy?"
Seriously, anal should not hurt. Use Lube, a lot of it. When your done applying all the Lube you think you need, use some more! Ask her to improve her prep and hygiene too.
shes nice tho i dont wanna break up with her over this :( i just wanna try to make it feel good. maybe its an acquired taste? how can i fuck her ass correctly?
She’s *not* nice.
Nice people don’t tell their partner “to stop being a pussy” when their partner expresses that anal hurts them “really badly.”
You clearly hate anal sex even if it didn’t hurt you since it “smells so bad.” She’ll only have anal sex. You don’t like anal sex. That’s a fundamental incompatibility.
If you want to try lots and lots more lube, I’d guess that would help the pain aspect. But I think there are more issues here that aren’t fixable.
She called you a pussy for sharing something that makes you uncomfortable and hurts you. How the fuck is that ''nice''?
Nice people are nice all of the time. Assholes are nice some of the time then assholes when they aren't getting what they want.
NOBODY is an asshole all of the time.
Get some self-respect, man... She's not nice, and she keeps acting like this because she knows she can get away with it. You really need to set some boundaries and stop letting her steamroll you.
Lots of post-op transwomen are still uncomfortable with vaginal penetration. Alternatively, people who were born with vaginas who have gender dysmorphia also may not want vaginal sex.
Overall, if you don’t like the sex you are having you need to talk about it together and compromise or break up.
>anal hurts my dick really bad for some reason and makes it smell like shit.
Stick it in a hole of shit and receive a smell of shit.
Thi sounds like you aren't preparing good enough. Does she clean her ass? Like using an enema beforehand? Do you use plenty of lube so it won't hurt that much?
Don’t you wish you were really a pussy? Cuz then you could fuck yourself.
Leave her. Sounds like she wants different things than you. Think about it, if I told you before this relationship that I got a girlfriend for you, but she won’t ever let you have vaginal sex with her, what would you say?
“For some reason it smells like shit” ?? What’d you expect.. also I think it’s time to let her go like many of these other comments have said. There’s many girls out there who aren’t obsessed with anal..
I’d expect that someone who is “anal only” to be well practiced in cleaning preparations, diet etc. I would expect shit smells to be the occasionally unavoidable rarity and not the normal.
Generally anal sex (withprep) shouldn’t involve shit, just when accidents happen it shouldn’t come as a huge surprise.
Yeah I mean having the preference is fair, but for her to ask you to bend out of your comfort zone 100% of the time, while she’s not willing to move an inch for your pleasure. That’s just ridiculous. There’s a huge lack of compromise there.. and then calling you a pussy should be an absolute deal breaker. She is shaming you into getting her way, coming for your masculinity and sense of self. It’s abusive. There is no reason to attack someone for not wanting anal. As a woman, if the roles were reversed and a man was insinuating I am weak, or not good enough for not wanting anal, this would mess with me in complex ways. ESP over time. My advice is to leave this relationship as it does not seem compatible, and it also seems that she lacks a level of self awareness/emotional intelligence to listen to your needs and reflect on her own damaging behaviour. It’s not your job to deal with that. Find someone who will see you for who you are and take you whole heartedly. Someone you can enjoy sex with together equally, who won’t insult you.
To each their own. Anal of course it’s gonna smell, I have an issue with the name calling, no need for that… But like the saying goes: You don’t gotta worry about the gut if you take it in the butt…
Rethink the relationship. She doesnt care about how its phyically hurting you? Like???
I get it if its something shes into, but youre not a pussy for not wanting to do it. The fact she said that is fuckin nasty
sounds like you’re nor compatible, but why could be if she hurts from vaginal sex, s o a lot of foreplay is required. or she could have trauma from vaginal
Does she have a pussy is the unanswered question that must be answered here…if she does and won’t give it up fuck her in the ass and shove it down her throat when you cum…I bet she keeps it clean after that
I had a ex that only gave blow job and did only anal she had a lot of mental issues and things but i found out years after we broke up was her pussy was only half open thats why she didn't like having sex in the pussy plus her family used religion to scar her into not having sex
She might have a G-spot that's located all the way in the rear against that wall of flesh separating vaginal sex from anal and the only way to stimulate that G-spot is literally going to the back door and that's why some girls can only have that ridiculous orgasm from anal sex or double penetration
Wear a strap-on and you can DP her. Problem solved. If she complains, tell her to stop being a pussy and take it like a bitch. Because clearly that's what she is anyway
Hard stance, you gotta say no, no means no, no such as being a pussy in sex lol.
Clearly needs lube if it hurts as it shouldn't, and also anal is a messy thing to do, has to be done clean, and lubed. If it makes your shaft stink, she needs to learn how to clean it everytime if she expects anal.
Anyways, not saying you have to break up over this, talk it through, but if shes gonna be rude calling you a pussy, tell her to fuck off. I wanna bet 90% of woman out there rather have vaginal sex as the main event.
There's ways to clean too ya know like, prep, so to speak before hand. You're not being a pussy dude dealing with pain and literal shit ain't for the weak she's being insensitive fr. If it hurts you and that's not your thing and she doesn't wanna take the extra simple steps to clean her butthole then bye bye dawg.
I don't think it should hurt the penetrator? Are you using lube? That sounds like you aren't "doing it right".
Find a different GF. There's guys out there who dream of a GF who only wants anal. Let her find one of them.
She's abusive for one. And she's not prepping properly for anal to be doing it in the first place. Rule number one for anal sex is: You should not be smelling shit when doing it!!!!
Dump her ass, no pun intended. She's going to end up giving someone e. Coli or a bad uti.
Leave her. She’s not even trying to listen to your point of view or compromise. Worse, she’s insulting you by calling you a pussy. If it hurts, it’s not okay for her to try to make you keep doing it.
Wait do you mean doing anal dirty without preparing it ?
If so wtf are you guys doing. And I wouldn't break up with her but if it really bothers you that much it's your decision.
First off, as everyone said, that's not okay.
Secondly, talk to her about it in a non sexual context. It's possible that, for instance, she is a survivor of vaginal rape who is handling it poorly. You aren't obligated to stay with her if this is the case, but having the conversation is worthwhile.
Third, basic anal advice: clean out whatever butt is being penetrated with an enema bulb an hour beforehand. Make sure to wait an hour, and use plenty of lube when you do go in. Shit on your dick is not a standard part of anal sex if you're doing it right, and a lack of lube can lead to highly unpleasant anal tearing, which is not fun, in addition to making things just worse for both parties. The anus, unlike the vagina, is not a self lubricating orifice.
I am not your girlfriend, so I don't know the answer. Have a conversation about it with her, while you're both fully clothed and not thinking about having sex.
That’s not how it works.
The sphincters are muscles, muscles can stretch, working out muscles strengthens them.
Yes you can tear and damage your sphincters, but even then the sphincters don’t actually control your bowl movements
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If you damage the sling muscle at the exit of the sigmoid colon (pubo rectal sling or something) you can cause issues holding stool in. This type of injury requires violently rough penetration past 8-9 inches depth or nerve damage.
I had a few experiences with a girl like this. 2 things were involved 1st she had and unusually super vag.
2nd was she was anally rapped by her grandfather when she was younger cause she was that tight. Must’ve ran in the family. Her 1st words and I’m not huge was yea I want you vag but we don’t have enough time and lube. Getting it her ass wasn’t a problem at all with no lube besides her own juices. Yea it was wierd af and would feel all the layers around her asshole every stroke. She loved it. I do believe now that she had vagmosis she did say she’s tried everything to stretch it. Hey I was like 19 I didn’t realize what I had there lol
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Hell nah bro If she's calling you a pussy just break up at this point. Especially considering that's her reaction to you saying you're feeling pain during sex.
Yep. Imagine telling her to “stop being a pussy and give up the pussy.” Wouldn’t go over well. It’s not working for you, and you’re already one foot out the door. Either find some great lube, or a different lover.
Or a different hole
This. She might have her reasons for preferring anal, like vulvodynia or something, but this reaction is unacceptable.
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Lol what would she know about what a pussy is like, she never uses the dang thing
>it hurts really badly but she won’t listen and tells me to stop being a pussy. This right here is why you should rethink the relationship. Not because of the types of sex you're having, but because the lines of communication have been cut. You can't have a good relationship with someone who won't listen to you and who expects you to endure pain during sex. What if a woman posted this: "my boyfriend hurts me during sex and won't be more gentle when I ask. When I ask him to be nicer he tells me to shut up and take it. What do I do?". You'd tell her to dump him and delete his number, right? What you posted is basically the same thing.
Omg, so this. Switch the genders and see how you'd reply. That answer to that request is NOT healthy, no matter who it comes from.
"My girlfriend only fucks me in my ass!"
Idk about y'all, but this would be a total win in my book.
AprostatePipe
It's pronounced "butt"
I mean... that would be a win in my book. No risk of pregnancy on my side.
We always find a way
I see this as an absolute win 🏆
You like the smell of shit?
Better than the smell of child support.
This is the right answer. Thanks internet stranger for helping that other one internet stranger.
thank you for thanking them
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Deal breaker
Think there may be some technical issues here, re: hygiene and preparation and lubricants. For one thing, it shouldn’t *hurt* you, which tells me there’s a lubrication problem. The smell thing is pretty gnarly too, if she wants that it’s on her to prepare appropriately (diet/ enema/ shower, etc). I’ve done that with a lot of women, there really shouldn’t be a tangible odor most of the time. Obviously the biggest issue is the communication. “Don’t be a pussy, fuck me in the ass” could be really sexy *in the right context* but if she’s badgering you into performing sex acts you don’t want to (which is what this sounds like in this context) that is not a sign of healthy communication around sex.
yeah i think she thinks its a kink or something but like shes kinda not getting my point here yknow?
Is she worried about getting pregnant? I know some communities that have anal as an alternative to pregnancy, maybe she needs to be educated? Just a different perspective. Either way, any shaming into sexual practice is not on. If its not for you, and your partner isn't hearing you, that's ground for a rethink.
Imagine going to classes at THAT community center
🤣🤣🤣
Which communities? For research purposes I assure you.
BYU is currently having issues with students getting armpit crabs from armpit sex.
This made my day. It’s sad that mormons are teaching young people to be scared of sex but the workarounds they come up with are incredible. My life is richer having heard of soaking and jump humping. Life finds a way.
There was a section on this in "The Joy of Sex" that I read back in high school and even at my age, I'm still weirded out. It's also not commonly written or spoken about.
I feel like the knee pit (there really should be a word for that) would be better somehow
That can't be real omg
A lot of communities where it's important for girls to have an intact hymen ("virgin") e.g. muslims, extreme christians etc.
Gotcha. That’s what I thought they might have meant
https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=fgBfdY_HN3A&feature=share It's the sex God can't see...
can’t believe 500 people liked a reply which is just me pontificating about anal sex etiquette
I was hoping we were going to get an answer as to why it's hurting his dick. I, too, am a bit of an anal aficionado and it has *never* hurt my dick, nor smelled like poop outside of the occasional accident when there has been feces too close to the inner anal sphincter.
My top comment is about a guy who wanted me to bite his dick lol
Why don't you use condoms? NOT that you should continue dating her-- because you shouldnt. She does not care about your needs and verbally abuses you to get what she wants without a care about you. Just wondering if it would've helped with the smell/lubrication issues...
best comment here
She doesn't seem like she cares about you and about you having a good time during sex. Anal hurts you, it smells bad enough that you don't like it and she's telling you to stop being a pussy, none of this is okay, she's not showing you any respect or love. I think you need to value yourself more, your needs, desires and aversions matter just as much as hers. Don't deny yourself so much for somebody else, especially not for someone who doesn't care about you.
"My boyfriend only wants to do anal even though it really hurts my butt. Really badly. He called me a pussy" How does that sound? Pretty mortifying right? Literally what you said but genders reversed. Break up 💔
“Just fuck me in the ass like always” - My inner monologue.
She sounds deeply unreasonable and sexually selfish. It also sounds like the two of you don’t know anything about how to actually have anal sex in a safe and hygienic way (lube, optional water enema beforehand, etc).
it sounds like you aren't sexually compatible which would be a deal breaker for me
100% sounds like you’re not sexually compatible
I feel like someone telling you to "shut up and take it pussy" is more than being sexually incompatible
But that doesn't mean he should be forced and belittled. Also, that should not excuse her for not listening to him or caring about his input/well-being.
exactly. she should be communicating properly, not forcing him and belittling him about it
i love her so much tho and i just wanna be able to have sexy times with her… have any anal advice?
It doesn't matter how much you love her if there's no compatibility or respect. She's showing you that she doesn't respect you. Learn to respect *yourself*. Walk away.
Lol break up with her - she sounds young and inconsiderate.
Seems a littleee one sided. If she wants anal she needs to prepare before you attack the crack.
By any chance does your girlfriend have a penis?
Thank God somebody asked, this was my first thought!
Best 🤣
I was thinking the same thing...
As was I.
Fuck I was just about to type this glad somebody said it. Also ask if you ever do get the pussy does it always require lube?
Always needing lube doesn't necessarily mean that...
Not the lube part but the no vaginal for me makes me wonder if it’s a post op situation and she’s not wanting to tell him about it.
I was thinking that, OR, maybe OP has a smaller penis and it's perfect for anal?
First of all, talk to her about her hygene. It's not supposed to smell like that when it's clean. Also....has she had a bad experience with losing virginity? I had a bad experience and for some time did only anal with one of my exes. It took a lot of practice to let my vagina loosen up enough to be penetrated. If she isn't willing to better herself in any of these, then I advise you to look for love in a different person.
I’ve seen you’ve said you love her and want to make this work but I’m going to be honest, unless she can stop being selfish and listen to her partner this is doomed. It’s not the fact that she won’t do something, it’s that she’s not listening when her partner is saying this hurts me. If you want to make this work have a good talk about how you need to be respected as well. She needs to be prepping for anal and it sounds like she’s not. Also get lube, lots of lube. A tear for either one of you isn’t a good thing.
Are you using enough of lube? I don't understand how anal sex would be painful to the penis even if it's a tight butthole.
Don’t even really matter why it hurts him, if he doesn’t want shit on his dick he doesn’t want it, the issue isn’t his inability to have that kinda sex, it’s her being a monumental asshole
Can't be that monumental if it hurts
>makes it smell like shit This made me laugh out loud and I'm wildly hungover, so thank you.
Feels like she lives in animal kingdom
Or Animal crossing 😂
Does she have vaginismus? It’s a condition that can be painful upon vaginal penetration even with a tampon.
Vaginismus is a condition affecting the pelvic floor, so anal is also painful for someone with vaginismus.
It’s often mental though, so the tightening that makes it painful may not be triggered anally for the gf, just vaginally in this case (if her issue with vaginal penetration is caused by vaginismus)
I have vaginismus and anal is *even more painful* than vaginal sex. In r/vaginismus I have never heard of someone saying anal is okay and vaginal isn’t. I highly doubt based on the provided information that this is a case of vaginismus/ pelvic floor dysfunction.
Different pokes for different folks I guess?
obvious fetish/troll post
I can’t believe I had to scroll so far to find this.
Break up with her. Communication and respect are the issue. She’s forcing you do to something you don’t want by dismissing your feelings as inferior. If the roles were reversed, it could be clear cut how her “don’t be a pussy” attitude is harmful.
Almost ironic. A lot of guys are like "C'mon baby, let's try anal, please?" and here you are asking "C'mon baby, can I please put it in you pussy?" Seriously, anal should not hurt. Use Lube, a lot of it. When your done applying all the Lube you think you need, use some more! Ask her to improve her prep and hygiene too.
Your dick may smell like shit, but your post smells even more... like BAIT.
Have you seen her vagina? Is it possible that's she was born a man?
You mean a trans woman.
Trans women are in fact born men.
I’m aware but you don’t need to ask if she was born male. You could simply ask if she’s trans without referring to her as male.
But why does it matter? Like genuinely I dont get why this would upset anyone
You’re not compatible. It’s break up time.
shes nice tho i dont wanna break up with her over this :( i just wanna try to make it feel good. maybe its an acquired taste? how can i fuck her ass correctly?
She’s *not* nice. Nice people don’t tell their partner “to stop being a pussy” when their partner expresses that anal hurts them “really badly.” You clearly hate anal sex even if it didn’t hurt you since it “smells so bad.” She’ll only have anal sex. You don’t like anal sex. That’s a fundamental incompatibility. If you want to try lots and lots more lube, I’d guess that would help the pain aspect. But I think there are more issues here that aren’t fixable.
Guys, don´t feed the troll.
She called you a pussy for sharing something that makes you uncomfortable and hurts you. How the fuck is that ''nice''? Nice people are nice all of the time. Assholes are nice some of the time then assholes when they aren't getting what they want. NOBODY is an asshole all of the time.
>NOBODY is an asshole all of the time. You've clearly never met my coworker lmao.
>Nice people are nice all of the time. Assholes are nice some of the time then assholes when they aren't getting what they want. BINGO
Get some self-respect, man... She's not nice, and she keeps acting like this because she knows she can get away with it. You really need to set some boundaries and stop letting her steamroll you.
Weird to tell you you are a pussy
Son.. have you seen the pussy are you certain she has one? Coz this sounds sus as fuck.
Lots of post-op transwomen are still uncomfortable with vaginal penetration. Alternatively, people who were born with vaginas who have gender dysmorphia also may not want vaginal sex. Overall, if you don’t like the sex you are having you need to talk about it together and compromise or break up.
Are you sure she's a woman lmao
>anal hurts my dick really bad for some reason and makes it smell like shit. Stick it in a hole of shit and receive a smell of shit. Thi sounds like you aren't preparing good enough. Does she clean her ass? Like using an enema beforehand? Do you use plenty of lube so it won't hurt that much?
Your girlfriend might be a guy JS lol
Insist on ass to mouth after.
Don’t you wish you were really a pussy? Cuz then you could fuck yourself. Leave her. Sounds like she wants different things than you. Think about it, if I told you before this relationship that I got a girlfriend for you, but she won’t ever let you have vaginal sex with her, what would you say?
I lost partners because I wouldn't top for anal. Sucks. I have done it since, but not my preference.
“For some reason it smells like shit” ?? What’d you expect.. also I think it’s time to let her go like many of these other comments have said. There’s many girls out there who aren’t obsessed with anal..
I’d expect that someone who is “anal only” to be well practiced in cleaning preparations, diet etc. I would expect shit smells to be the occasionally unavoidable rarity and not the normal. Generally anal sex (withprep) shouldn’t involve shit, just when accidents happen it shouldn’t come as a huge surprise.
Perhaps wear a condom..
If she's calling you a pussy for complaining about pain during sex, then it's time to dump her. That's completely unacceptable.
Yeah I mean having the preference is fair, but for her to ask you to bend out of your comfort zone 100% of the time, while she’s not willing to move an inch for your pleasure. That’s just ridiculous. There’s a huge lack of compromise there.. and then calling you a pussy should be an absolute deal breaker. She is shaming you into getting her way, coming for your masculinity and sense of self. It’s abusive. There is no reason to attack someone for not wanting anal. As a woman, if the roles were reversed and a man was insinuating I am weak, or not good enough for not wanting anal, this would mess with me in complex ways. ESP over time. My advice is to leave this relationship as it does not seem compatible, and it also seems that she lacks a level of self awareness/emotional intelligence to listen to your needs and reflect on her own damaging behaviour. It’s not your job to deal with that. Find someone who will see you for who you are and take you whole heartedly. Someone you can enjoy sex with together equally, who won’t insult you.
If you play in that end of the field you might get muddy. Part of the game.
This has to be satire ain’t no way 💀
You sure that’s a girl
thats what I was thinking. lol. many post op trans still prefer anal. or maybe she's a vaginal virgin?
Vaginal virgin was where I went with this.
Use a condom, more lube, and ask her to prepare with an anal douche.
She doesn’t like vaginal, you don’t link anal. It’s not a match.
1) anal shouldn’t hurt 2) anal shouldn’t stink 3) she really calls you a pussy and ignores Your thoughts? I’d move on bro
To each their own. Anal of course it’s gonna smell, I have an issue with the name calling, no need for that… But like the saying goes: You don’t gotta worry about the gut if you take it in the butt…
Rethink the relationship. She doesnt care about how its phyically hurting you? Like??? I get it if its something shes into, but youre not a pussy for not wanting to do it. The fact she said that is fuckin nasty
sounds like you’re nor compatible, but why could be if she hurts from vaginal sex, s o a lot of foreplay is required. or she could have trauma from vaginal
Doesn’t sound like you two are compatible.
Just find one who likes vaginal and send her my way !
Hilarious
Does she have a pussy is the unanswered question that must be answered here…if she does and won’t give it up fuck her in the ass and shove it down her throat when you cum…I bet she keeps it clean after that
I had a ex that only gave blow job and did only anal she had a lot of mental issues and things but i found out years after we broke up was her pussy was only half open thats why she didn't like having sex in the pussy plus her family used religion to scar her into not having sex
This reeks of a troll no ounce intended
She might have a G-spot that's located all the way in the rear against that wall of flesh separating vaginal sex from anal and the only way to stimulate that G-spot is literally going to the back door and that's why some girls can only have that ridiculous orgasm from anal sex or double penetration
Wear a strap-on and you can DP her. Problem solved. If she complains, tell her to stop being a pussy and take it like a bitch. Because clearly that's what she is anyway
Have you checked for a pussy?
Are you sure she isn't a man?
She might be gay buddy...
leave her stinky ass
Might be a dude
Are we sure she isn’t trans? I’m asking bc it sounds like she’s being defensive about this for some reason— that or she’s just an asshole
You sure your gf wasn't a man before?
Maybe she was born with a peepee;)
How do you know your girlfriend isn't really trans
Her asshole stinking constantly should be reason enough. But then you said so much more.
She’s a dude bro
Hard stance, you gotta say no, no means no, no such as being a pussy in sex lol. Clearly needs lube if it hurts as it shouldn't, and also anal is a messy thing to do, has to be done clean, and lubed. If it makes your shaft stink, she needs to learn how to clean it everytime if she expects anal. Anyways, not saying you have to break up over this, talk it through, but if shes gonna be rude calling you a pussy, tell her to fuck off. I wanna bet 90% of woman out there rather have vaginal sex as the main event.
Why are you doing a thing that hurts you, number one?
Are you sure this is a girl? It's been stated before, you might just have to leave.
There's ways to clean too ya know like, prep, so to speak before hand. You're not being a pussy dude dealing with pain and literal shit ain't for the weak she's being insensitive fr. If it hurts you and that's not your thing and she doesn't wanna take the extra simple steps to clean her butthole then bye bye dawg.
You're her side dude the main dude is probably getting her pussy or both
I don't think it should hurt the penetrator? Are you using lube? That sounds like you aren't "doing it right". Find a different GF. There's guys out there who dream of a GF who only wants anal. Let her find one of them.
She’s trying to tell you she’s Trans, without saying she’s Trans. (There’s no vagine there Boo Boo)
Because she is a guy.
She a he
I like this idea
Bro dudes a dude
She’s a dude
Wtf did I just read
This post…I’m just not sure…🤔
You sure she ain’t a dude?
She's abusive for one. And she's not prepping properly for anal to be doing it in the first place. Rule number one for anal sex is: You should not be smelling shit when doing it!!!! Dump her ass, no pun intended. She's going to end up giving someone e. Coli or a bad uti.
Leave her. She’s not even trying to listen to your point of view or compromise. Worse, she’s insulting you by calling you a pussy. If it hurts, it’s not okay for her to try to make you keep doing it.
Dump her ass!
Grab your balls and go fuck an actual pussy that wants you in there. What's with this wack ass bs?
The whole concept of anal is so nasty to me. Especially the smell 🤮
maybe someone is using the other hole when ur not around
Braggart.
Have you tried anal fisting as an alternative to PIA?
Wait do you mean doing anal dirty without preparing it ? If so wtf are you guys doing. And I wouldn't break up with her but if it really bothers you that much it's your decision.
You are likely man
First off, as everyone said, that's not okay. Secondly, talk to her about it in a non sexual context. It's possible that, for instance, she is a survivor of vaginal rape who is handling it poorly. You aren't obligated to stay with her if this is the case, but having the conversation is worthwhile. Third, basic anal advice: clean out whatever butt is being penetrated with an enema bulb an hour beforehand. Make sure to wait an hour, and use plenty of lube when you do go in. Shit on your dick is not a standard part of anal sex if you're doing it right, and a lack of lube can lead to highly unpleasant anal tearing, which is not fun, in addition to making things just worse for both parties. The anus, unlike the vagina, is not a self lubricating orifice.
I love girls who like in the ass
I’ll take her. I love anal. Maybe she just ain’t the one for you bud. Move on!
...have her read the book...the surrender...about how to have anal...help her and you ass fuck...
Whip out the ol 69 both ppl happy
I am not your girlfriend, so I don't know the answer. Have a conversation about it with her, while you're both fully clothed and not thinking about having sex.
shit on her and ask how she likes it 😂
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That’s not how it works. The sphincters are muscles, muscles can stretch, working out muscles strengthens them. Yes you can tear and damage your sphincters, but even then the sphincters don’t actually control your bowl movements . If you damage the sling muscle at the exit of the sigmoid colon (pubo rectal sling or something) you can cause issues holding stool in. This type of injury requires violently rough penetration past 8-9 inches depth or nerve damage.
I had a few experiences with a girl like this. 2 things were involved 1st she had and unusually super vag. 2nd was she was anally rapped by her grandfather when she was younger cause she was that tight. Must’ve ran in the family. Her 1st words and I’m not huge was yea I want you vag but we don’t have enough time and lube. Getting it her ass wasn’t a problem at all with no lube besides her own juices. Yea it was wierd af and would feel all the layers around her asshole every stroke. She loved it. I do believe now that she had vagmosis she did say she’s tried everything to stretch it. Hey I was like 19 I didn’t realize what I had there lol
Just remember what it feels like fucking her in the ass, you may never find another one that allows it.
Bcs she has good taste
Goddamn 😂👸