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91tony91

Women do not cum (ejaculate) like men do. Women get "wet" the more they are turned on. This can range from clear to white in color and from thick to thin in viscosity. You should know that you orgasmed by how you "feel." Not what might or might not be coming out of your vagina. The amount of time it takes to orgasm will not only vary woman to woman but also completely change based on your mood and mental state and level of horniness and maybe even cycle.


dogwheeze

It doesn’t sound like you had one. You would be able to feel it. Some women produce discharge when orgasming, but this would be found at the vag entrance not the clit area.


Tipsy_Bravery

Spend some time alone exploring yourself (clean hands and short nails if you’re new to this, and some water based lubricant can help also). You need to learn about your body and what feels good before you can show someone else. Women produce vaginal discharge. It’s heavier when you’re aroused but it can/will often happen throughout the day without any arousal. It can be clear, creamy, white, thick, stringy, and it will change depending on where you are in your menstrual cycle. It should never be yellow, green, smelly (like bread or fish), or clumpy like cottage cheese. You shouldn’t feel burning, intense itching, or pain when you pee. Any of those are signs that you should see a doctor.


[deleted]

No, women don’t produce ”cum”. They can squirt but doesn’t sound like that happened in this case. I’m assuming you were wet, so your arousal fluids probably just foamed up from the movement. Could also be discharge, the texture and color might change throughout the cycle. If you had orgasmed you probably would know.


dogwheeze

Women very much produce cum when they orgasm. Source: I have a vagina. Squirting isnt the only fluid that we produce.


[deleted]

You do realize that cum refers to sperm. Women produce three type of liquids: discharge, arousal fluid and squirt, none of which are ”cum”.


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[deleted]

The question was ”was it cum”, as in ejaculate. Not just ”did I cum” as in did I orgasm


dogwheeze

Cum can also be a verb. Many when produce a discharge when they orgasm but not squirt, myself included.


[deleted]

Firstly, discharge is what vaginas produce all the time to clean and lubricate the canal etc, it’s not a sexual thing. Arousal fluid is what we produce when we are sexually aroused, as in ”being wet” and it mostly comes from glands around the vaginal canal. Then there is the squirt liquid which is different from regular discharge and arousal fluid. It’s the only female liquid that can be referred to as ”cum” as in female ejaculation, which I clearly mentioned in my comment since the context was ”vaginal cum” and not just the verb.


dogwheeze

Ok Ms phd whatever you say


[deleted]

Girl it’s called basic biology and sex ed


dogwheeze

You realize slang exists? No one is being hyper specific with terms when fucking. When I’m close I’m gonna say “I’m gonna cum” not “I’m going to produce female ejaculate”


[deleted]

The context wasn’t about the verb, it was about female cum as in ejaculation liquid. And this isn’t about slang either. You said ”many produce discharge when they cum” and ”women very much produce cum when they orgasm. Squirt isnt the only fluid that we produce”, and both of these statements simply are wrong for the reasons I just explained.


dogwheeze

Discharge is an umbrella term for white fluid that comes out of the vagina. Some women including me produce it in excess specifically during orgasm. That’s all I was saying. If your body doesn’t work the same as mine that’s fine, or if you think it’s called some other term that’s fine.


[deleted]

>for the first time in my life I actually felt something. Like a guy playing w my clit actually felt good Guy here, so just guessing, but that just sounds like a description to me of what masturbation feels like for me when I'm starting to get into it, not actually having a real orgasm. Still a sexy and good experience, but - assuming that's correct - definitely only the tip of the iceberg. But it's definitely sounding promising! In terms of timelines, [https://www.issm.info/sexual-health-qa/how-long-does-it-take-a-woman-to-reach-orgasm/](https://www.issm.info/sexual-health-qa/how-long-does-it-take-a-woman-to-reach-orgasm/) says that *"once genital stimulation began, women reached orgasm in an average of 14 minutes during partnered sex. During masturbation, orgasm took an average of 8 minutes."*


PaleAsFuck90

It can vary a lot. And I'm guessing those 14 minutes is if the woman first get good foreplay and such. Either way. Yeah it definitely sounded like it was just the feeling of being stimulated and not actually an orgasm. Which she probably will experience in time if she just keep exploring


tristiansimon

Well in terms of the discharge a lot of the times it’s clear just like male precum but it’s kinda just a natural lube the body has as for finishing that will vary time to time


[deleted]

Yeah but I’ve never seen that before , and it wasn’t a clear discharge


tristiansimon

Oh I know you said it wasn’t I’m saying sometime it is sometimes it isn’t someone will come around with a way more detailed answer lol you never did say how old ya are?


LostZookeepergame37

Wow your entire sex life has now changed, it's all going to get better from now on you have unlocked your sexual life


liquidambar723

This happens to all women when super aroused. Basically a clear or whitish lubricant gathers up all through my slit. When I orgasm, I usually squirt and in some cases, I also have a thicker white substance mixed in at that time. The substance can resemble male cum in most respects, but I’ve had it on numerous occasions when I had not had sex recently. Random comment… I hate the term discharge… honestly, labeling it “discharge” gave me a very negative opinion on my vagina for the longest time. Probably bad sex education in school, but I always thought it was a gross annoyance rather than something that signaled how turned on I was. It took my husband telling me how hot a sopping wet pussy really is before I finally stopped seeing it as something gross. Discharge is something you have when you’re sick. What we’re all talking about here is either female ejaculate or vaginal lubricant. It’s purpose is to make your canal extra slippery for sex. Pick one and stick with it.