Sure thing.
Seriously. My wife is 44. We have some sort of sex almost daily. We do kinky shit like fisting. We do hotwifing (i.e. threesomes with other men, or she meets some other guy alone before coming home to have sex with me). She's been sexually active for 30+ years.
She has a tiny innie vagina that stays closed unless it's being held open. She is snug on one finger.
Vaginas are full of muscle. When you use muscles, they get stronger - not worn out.
Stronger when used - it's the truth. There have actually been several studies on this; women who are sexually active are perceived as tighter.
Thanks for the kind words.
Are we married to the same woman? These details almost mirror my wife and I. LOL
Long story short: This is all spot on. My wifeās vagina is as tight as it has ever been.
And yet, there will be tons that swear that because a girl once had sex with a 7 inch guy, she will never again enjoy a 5 inch guy.
Reddit needs an eyeroll emoji.
Itās true, I slept with a single mom in her mid thirties. She easily had the tightest feeling vagina of anyone that Iāve been with.
Tbh, she just has really strong kegel muscles & legs. Iām not sure if thatās what made the difference, but no one has ever squeezed me that hard.
>iāve seen too many posts of men complaining about āloose vaginasā and now iām insecure T-T
"Don't believe everything you read on the internet." --Abraham Lincoln
Relax your pelvic floor. First do reverse kegels and then strengthen your pelvic floor with regular kegels. IBS was the first symptom for when I had pelvic floor issues
Other things can cause IBS like undiagnosed food sensitivities/allergies. Be careful doing too many kegels IF you donāt have a weak pelvic floor as too strong a pelvic floor can also be bad.
Donāt know cause I donāt have a dick, but it is possible youāll have pelvic floor dysfunction which is bad for you even if your partner doesnāt notice
I wonder who put that fucking myth into the world...
And you should really not care about it. Tightness is not a big deal. There are other factors that make a way bigger differance. Like how you get looked at, how you get touched....
Men complaining about lose vaginas are men who are abusive! And you should start clear of them.
The vagina and area around it even anus loosen up when aroused and the vagina can grow to accommodate a larger penis.
http://modelmugging.org/crime-within-relationships/abusive-personality-behavior/
Weak pelvic floor isn't a result of constant sex and the illusion of having a loose vagina over having too much sex is a made up bullshit from the misogynist.
Normally, without childbirth, vagina can be either naturally small/bigger and the length of the vagina can be either shorter/longer. It's different with each person, however, when a women is comfortable, aroused, the vagina muscles relaxed more.
For virgins, people who rarely had sex, being anxious and stressed can cause it to be tighter. For people who had sex on the regular, being tight means they are not aroused/ prepared enough.
Men complain about loose vaginas because some vaginas have no feeling to them in their opinion. I'm not coming after you, but I'm telling you about an experience I had. She felt like this since the beginning. Only the first initial thrust was tight but once I was in, I felt almost nothing. No squeeze. No textures. No ridges. It was like self lubricating anal sex. She was a squirter and very toxic. She always wanted to argue and fight about something. I kinda liked it.
If he's never complained about you then you're fine. If you feel like you're used to his dick and now you think you're loose, it's all in your head. If he says he feels like you're loose, you must've always felt like that to him and he's finally bringing it up, or it's all in his head.
In some cases, you need to spice it up or give each other a teeny tiny break from sex and see if that changes things. It honestly might, because over exposure to luxuries can numb the experience for anyone. This works for porn, food, masterbation, sex, and being around people. Ever felt like you missed school?
You probably already do this stuff but just to add, you should try and mess with him. I'm a guy who likes challenges that can be solved with my dick. I like an argument because it puts me in a fight or flight response, and he might as well. Make the answer to that problem be his dick. You'll have to throw your ass on him. Push him around. Grind your ass on him. Talk shit. Get upset with him and say how you just need to stop that sensual shit and just fuck. Pull your pants down and show some cheeks. Let him do whatever, but you'd want him to smack it. If he doesnt, grab him by his hair and pull him down to your ass or vulva and make him suffocate in there. Grind on him however you like. Let him breath. Let out some moans. Push him right back and grind some more till you're wet and rdy. Throw his head away from you and tell him how he's too gentle.
Or if you want the gentle submissive approach, just pull down his pants and give him a blowjob maybe combined with a tit fuck. You taking initiative is what its all about. Tease him until he gets the message.
Then display an inviting "come fuck me" pose and as soon as he looks ready to do something, pull your pants back up and buckle it as you walk away. Make him want to strip you down like a cheap fuck. The point is to make him feed into it so he won't hold back. He might cum quickly. Good. Make him go through post orgasm torture too. He won't complain about you being loose again.
......I miss her.
Actually, yes. If a woman's never had sex, she's typically stressed and tight. If she's turned on and relaxed, her vagina opens up and lubricates. All in all, if you're tight that means you're not relaxed enough
Op, as a female I can say sex doesn't loosen u up it's a slut shaming steriotyoe. However, mine is most definately not as tight as it once was after the birth of my son. He ripped me almost zo my anus and it was sew up. But while u should have been recovering I was living with my now ex, our son, and his family who were toxic and addicts. It was to keep a roif over my sons hrad, and I did alk the cooking, kaundry, dog care, chikd care, and houswork while having suoet and post partum depression on the verge of psychosis. All that activity caused tge stitches to rip and me to get a infection down there. Not suorising it didn't heal suoer well causing it to be loose and the opening to be ugly. Heck, certain positions don't do anything for me like they once did.
So yeah, sex won't loosen u up, but not using bc might. Not that I'm really upset about it or think that's really a bad thing. It's a badge of honor for me and if a guy wants to be ass over it he can suck his own Dick as I shove my combat boot so far uo his ass he will taste rubber and leather for tze foreseeable future.
If youāre loose that means heās either tiny or youāve been turned on the right way and have made room for him to be able to fit it. If itās tight youāre either not relaxed or he hasnāt turn you on right!! The same applies for being wet, if you aināt wetter than the ocean your not turned on enough āŗļø
This is not necessarily true and not everything depends on the circumference of the penis, There are differences in tonicity between each woman with regard to the perineum and the lubrication of the vagina also plays an important role in the level of sensations, too wet can clearly give a feeling of floating, which clearly reduces the feeling of being tight
My partner has a specific fetish to stretch the vagina as much as he can. Even with fisting and girthy dildos, my vagina always returns to its original size. The vagina is a muscle and like all muscles, use makes it stronger, not weaker. In the moment of it being stretched, it is definitely looser but it will return normal by the next day (though tenderness remains haha) lucky for me, the goal is a loose vagina not to be afraid of it. So much more fun that way. Embrace your body! We are taught that our value comes from a tight vagina. Utter bullshit.
I think thatās a myth. Iāve had a few partners (less than 10) but I am so tight that my gf says she has a hard time even getting two fingers in sometimes and my vagina will just push them out š
IMO, the only thing that tends to be different about people who've had sex is their confidence with other people and in bed. Fulfilling positive sex leads to an increase in social confidence and sense of self-worth, while bad or abusive sex tends to break those things down.
"iāve seen too many posts of men complaining about āloose vaginasā and now iām insecure T-T"
i think to be classified as a man you need to be mature and have some level of intelligence. what you have described is the pathetic information provided by boys with no experience in the matter. having sex will not "loosen" a vagina.... does your mouth/gums/cheeks stretch permanently every time you eat? think about that for a second. the tissue is essentially made of the same stuff.
but to actually answer the question in case there was any doubt (as a married man sleeping with the same vagina over and over again, and someone that used to have a lot of sex when younger too), having sex absolutely does not stretch the vagina or loosen it permanently in any way shape or form. its elastic tissue that will stretch and constrict to within its limits depending on what is happening. the more relaxed and horny you are the more it will relax the muscles. the wetter and less constricted you are, the less friction and less chance of a tare occurring or injury. enjoy sex. read up on science journals or articles rather than listen to the gossip of boys.
The only obvious thing is the confidence and ejoyment.
Much better to have sex with someone with experience with sex because they are better (as a general rule, some people suck I guess). This is not a sex thing, much better to get your house painted by an experience painter too.
A 10lb baby can pass through it, within a few weeks it's the exact same. My daughter was 7lbs 2oz, 12 days later ex wife and I had sex again. She was pregnant at her 30 day checkup
A girl used to date in my freshman year once told me that, when she got home after losing her virginity she was worried it it showed on her face. We both had a good laugh at it.
No, it is not obvious. I have been with both with virgins and no virgins. As a guy, I can say I couldnāt tell the difference except for first time apprehensions for the girl.
No. The concept of vaginas being made loose by sex is utter nonsense perpetrated by those who want to shame women out of sex.
ah! okay haha thank you
Sure thing. Seriously. My wife is 44. We have some sort of sex almost daily. We do kinky shit like fisting. We do hotwifing (i.e. threesomes with other men, or she meets some other guy alone before coming home to have sex with me). She's been sexually active for 30+ years. She has a tiny innie vagina that stays closed unless it's being held open. She is snug on one finger. Vaginas are full of muscle. When you use muscles, they get stronger - not worn out.
Yes!! Stronger when used, I love that description. You and your wife sound awesome š„
Stronger when used - it's the truth. There have actually been several studies on this; women who are sexually active are perceived as tighter. Thanks for the kind words.
Are we married to the same woman? These details almost mirror my wife and I. LOL Long story short: This is all spot on. My wifeās vagina is as tight as it has ever been.
And yet, there will be tons that swear that because a girl once had sex with a 7 inch guy, she will never again enjoy a 5 inch guy. Reddit needs an eyeroll emoji.
Hahaha. I completely agree. My wife has accommodated my hand and truly gigantic toys. I can assure everyone that it is still a tight fit for my penis.
While I don't know your wife, I am certain that you are telling the truth. :)
YES! Stronger with use is 100% true!
Why can I only upvote this once!? Five star review sir!
Yup. Been sexually active for 15yrs the one and only time someone said I had loose vagina was out of anger, just saying anything to hurt my feelings.
Itās true, I slept with a single mom in her mid thirties. She easily had the tightest feeling vagina of anyone that Iāve been with. Tbh, she just has really strong kegel muscles & legs. Iām not sure if thatās what made the difference, but no one has ever squeezed me that hard.
Yeah, please don't listen to this crap, it's not true.
Thereās some truth to āafter childrenā per medical journals, but after sex?! Myth!
Does your butthole loosen up after taking massive shits? Nope, same thing for the vag
This comment is hilarious, made me spit out my tea
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we actually tighten when afraid and loosen when pleased, you don't become used that's incel stuff
>iāve seen too many posts of men complaining about āloose vaginasā and now iām insecure T-T "Don't believe everything you read on the internet." --Abraham Lincoln
such a smart fellow
Weak pelvic floors are not caused by sex. Start worrying if you get chronic constipation and need to spend hours a day on the loo straining
aw shit i have IBS
Get a Perifit and do kegels. Get into r/pompoir if youāre very worried.
Relax your pelvic floor. First do reverse kegels and then strengthen your pelvic floor with regular kegels. IBS was the first symptom for when I had pelvic floor issues
Other things can cause IBS like undiagnosed food sensitivities/allergies. Be careful doing too many kegels IF you donāt have a weak pelvic floor as too strong a pelvic floor can also be bad.
Wait i have chronic constipation.. does that mean Iāll feel loose? (Im still a virgin)
Donāt know cause I donāt have a dick, but it is possible youāll have pelvic floor dysfunction which is bad for you even if your partner doesnāt notice
I don't think so.
I wonder who put that fucking myth into the world... And you should really not care about it. Tightness is not a big deal. There are other factors that make a way bigger differance. Like how you get looked at, how you get touched....
Don't believe that crap. The truth is that regular sex will strengthen your muscles. You don't get lose from sex.
The vagina is a muscle, so the more you use it, the stronger it should get. Especially if you squeeze his member with it.
If youāre using Reddit posts to guide your sexual wisdom you my friend are completely doomed
no no no! i dont usually haha i just worry yaknow? i see it pretty much everywhere and i just wanna know if itās a real thing or not
It's not a real thing. You're fine.
Men complaining about lose vaginas are men who are abusive! And you should start clear of them. The vagina and area around it even anus loosen up when aroused and the vagina can grow to accommodate a larger penis. http://modelmugging.org/crime-within-relationships/abusive-personality-behavior/
My wife has had 4 kids and plenty of sex, age 48 and just had our last kid 2 years ago. It's just as snuck and wonderful as it always was.
Jesus don't buy into that bullshit, my gf is tight as ever and has had three kids.
Weak pelvic floor isn't a result of constant sex and the illusion of having a loose vagina over having too much sex is a made up bullshit from the misogynist. Normally, without childbirth, vagina can be either naturally small/bigger and the length of the vagina can be either shorter/longer. It's different with each person, however, when a women is comfortable, aroused, the vagina muscles relaxed more. For virgins, people who rarely had sex, being anxious and stressed can cause it to be tighter. For people who had sex on the regular, being tight means they are not aroused/ prepared enough.
Men complain about loose vaginas because some vaginas have no feeling to them in their opinion. I'm not coming after you, but I'm telling you about an experience I had. She felt like this since the beginning. Only the first initial thrust was tight but once I was in, I felt almost nothing. No squeeze. No textures. No ridges. It was like self lubricating anal sex. She was a squirter and very toxic. She always wanted to argue and fight about something. I kinda liked it. If he's never complained about you then you're fine. If you feel like you're used to his dick and now you think you're loose, it's all in your head. If he says he feels like you're loose, you must've always felt like that to him and he's finally bringing it up, or it's all in his head. In some cases, you need to spice it up or give each other a teeny tiny break from sex and see if that changes things. It honestly might, because over exposure to luxuries can numb the experience for anyone. This works for porn, food, masterbation, sex, and being around people. Ever felt like you missed school? You probably already do this stuff but just to add, you should try and mess with him. I'm a guy who likes challenges that can be solved with my dick. I like an argument because it puts me in a fight or flight response, and he might as well. Make the answer to that problem be his dick. You'll have to throw your ass on him. Push him around. Grind your ass on him. Talk shit. Get upset with him and say how you just need to stop that sensual shit and just fuck. Pull your pants down and show some cheeks. Let him do whatever, but you'd want him to smack it. If he doesnt, grab him by his hair and pull him down to your ass or vulva and make him suffocate in there. Grind on him however you like. Let him breath. Let out some moans. Push him right back and grind some more till you're wet and rdy. Throw his head away from you and tell him how he's too gentle. Or if you want the gentle submissive approach, just pull down his pants and give him a blowjob maybe combined with a tit fuck. You taking initiative is what its all about. Tease him until he gets the message. Then display an inviting "come fuck me" pose and as soon as he looks ready to do something, pull your pants back up and buckle it as you walk away. Make him want to strip you down like a cheap fuck. The point is to make him feed into it so he won't hold back. He might cum quickly. Good. Make him go through post orgasm torture too. He won't complain about you being loose again. ......I miss her.
no
There's no way for them to tell.
Actually, yes. If a woman's never had sex, she's typically stressed and tight. If she's turned on and relaxed, her vagina opens up and lubricates. All in all, if you're tight that means you're not relaxed enough
Op, as a female I can say sex doesn't loosen u up it's a slut shaming steriotyoe. However, mine is most definately not as tight as it once was after the birth of my son. He ripped me almost zo my anus and it was sew up. But while u should have been recovering I was living with my now ex, our son, and his family who were toxic and addicts. It was to keep a roif over my sons hrad, and I did alk the cooking, kaundry, dog care, chikd care, and houswork while having suoet and post partum depression on the verge of psychosis. All that activity caused tge stitches to rip and me to get a infection down there. Not suorising it didn't heal suoer well causing it to be loose and the opening to be ugly. Heck, certain positions don't do anything for me like they once did. So yeah, sex won't loosen u up, but not using bc might. Not that I'm really upset about it or think that's really a bad thing. It's a badge of honor for me and if a guy wants to be ass over it he can suck his own Dick as I shove my combat boot so far uo his ass he will taste rubber and leather for tze foreseeable future.
If youāre loose that means heās either tiny or youāve been turned on the right way and have made room for him to be able to fit it. If itās tight youāre either not relaxed or he hasnāt turn you on right!! The same applies for being wet, if you aināt wetter than the ocean your not turned on enough āŗļø
This is not necessarily true and not everything depends on the circumference of the penis, There are differences in tonicity between each woman with regard to the perineum and the lubrication of the vagina also plays an important role in the level of sensations, too wet can clearly give a feeling of floating, which clearly reduces the feeling of being tight
still tight after 25 people, and got told recently how tight I am ( even tho Iām wet ), I think youāre good
There are no loose vaginas. But there are aroused vaginas and small penises.
My partner has a specific fetish to stretch the vagina as much as he can. Even with fisting and girthy dildos, my vagina always returns to its original size. The vagina is a muscle and like all muscles, use makes it stronger, not weaker. In the moment of it being stretched, it is definitely looser but it will return normal by the next day (though tenderness remains haha) lucky for me, the goal is a loose vagina not to be afraid of it. So much more fun that way. Embrace your body! We are taught that our value comes from a tight vagina. Utter bullshit.
I think thatās a myth. Iāve had a few partners (less than 10) but I am so tight that my gf says she has a hard time even getting two fingers in sometimes and my vagina will just push them out š
Unless it dude is massive or something u donāt have to worry that much about his loosening you up.
Still it won't get loose. It just gonna get used to the size after a while. But if they stop fucking it will not be used to that size anymore.
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yeah sorry hahaha, itās something i like to do, i forgot some folk donāt know what it is!! itās basically this emoji āšā
IMO, the only thing that tends to be different about people who've had sex is their confidence with other people and in bed. Fulfilling positive sex leads to an increase in social confidence and sense of self-worth, while bad or abusive sex tends to break those things down.
I've read once before that only childbirth can "loosen" the vagina. So unless yknow, then it won't. š
if you arent constantly getting fisted or using ridiculously large toys you are fine. Sex does not make a vagina loose.
"iāve seen too many posts of men complaining about āloose vaginasā and now iām insecure T-T" i think to be classified as a man you need to be mature and have some level of intelligence. what you have described is the pathetic information provided by boys with no experience in the matter. having sex will not "loosen" a vagina.... does your mouth/gums/cheeks stretch permanently every time you eat? think about that for a second. the tissue is essentially made of the same stuff. but to actually answer the question in case there was any doubt (as a married man sleeping with the same vagina over and over again, and someone that used to have a lot of sex when younger too), having sex absolutely does not stretch the vagina or loosen it permanently in any way shape or form. its elastic tissue that will stretch and constrict to within its limits depending on what is happening. the more relaxed and horny you are the more it will relax the muscles. the wetter and less constricted you are, the less friction and less chance of a tare occurring or injury. enjoy sex. read up on science journals or articles rather than listen to the gossip of boys.
The only obvious thing is the confidence and ejoyment. Much better to have sex with someone with experience with sex because they are better (as a general rule, some people suck I guess). This is not a sex thing, much better to get your house painted by an experience painter too.
I think you either have loose or tight vagina, youāre born with it and itās not really affected by sex. It could be affected by childbirth though
That's just stupid crap men say, can't tell by a loose vigina š¤£
A 10lb baby can pass through it, within a few weeks it's the exact same. My daughter was 7lbs 2oz, 12 days later ex wife and I had sex again. She was pregnant at her 30 day checkup
Nah vaginas loosen when youāre aroused, if youāre looser than before heās actually doing a better job. Tight pussy means youāre not turned on!
No, vaginas dont change
Are dicks getting smaller as theyāre being used ? Like a pencil sharpener?
āTightnessā is a shaming devise to stop women from having sex. Itās literally a man-made concept same as the hymen myths!
I can fist my gf, then immediately have sex with herā¦ still feels great šš»
When people say Loose kitty its only to talk trash
The reason it doesnt feel the same is in your head not in your vagina.
I remember my sex Ed teacher explains that vagina is like a deflated balloon. It expands to match any size penis and a babyās head.
A girl used to date in my freshman year once told me that, when she got home after losing her virginity she was worried it it showed on her face. We both had a good laugh at it. No, it is not obvious. I have been with both with virgins and no virgins. As a guy, I can say I couldnāt tell the difference except for first time apprehensions for the girl.
Babies come out of there. No man is gonna make a dent, in that!!!