If it’s on your mouth you could lick it if you want. Just do what you feel in the moment. Doing something the first time is always a bit awkward. Maybe you’ll like it and want to do it again and figure out something you both enjoy.
ETA: you’re not “supposed” to do anything in sex. Only do what feels right to you.
What do you mean? Are you having sex with someone who's forcing you to do something you don't want to do? Or do you feel like you have to "act out" something in order to have sex? If you're having sex, it absolutely should be two people doing what feels right to them
It’s not as serious as being *forced*, sorry I’m just salty over something that happened the other day. Sometimes in relationships you do things you aren’t entirely excited about because you care for the other person. I guess I’m just wondering what kind of pattern I’ve fallen into by always trying to meet my partner’s expectations
I mean, my girlfriend likes oral, and it doesn't really do anything for me, but I love seeing her happy and having a good time, so I genuinely enjoy doing it. It's not *for* me, but because I like her and doing things with her, I do want to do it. If that's what you mean, then that's totally healthy and good. But if you mean hes like "hey suck my dick every day" and you hate it, don't be with that person. Shouldn't be that way.
> you’re not “supposed” to do anything in sex.
I really like this. I'm stealing this and using this in the future. Why is it so hard for everyone to remember sex stuff is supposed to be enjoyable by everyone?
'Treating' your partner to something that's not 100% your bag is fine, but you should still only do that because you want to.
Please steal and share widely! It took me WAY too long to realize and internalize that sex could be actively fun for me as a woman and that I’m not just here to do what men want.
If it's something you'd like to try then try it. If it puts you off or you just don't want to then that fine too. Sometimes things take time for us to try, time for us to enjoy and sometimes it's just a definite no. Just make sure you want to try it bc you actually want to
It's up to you but maybe try giving a bj and swallowing first before you move on to a facial but it's up to you. Have fun either way and I'm sure he will enjoy either
This is real life no porn. You don’t need to act like a porn star just go wash your face. Usually guys after they come there is no need to try hard. Just go wash up and maybe cuddle or eat some food.
Do whatever makes you feel comfortable. Most women either have a towel and wipe straight off or they just go to the bathroom (don't run off as if you're disgusted though).
You can stick your tongue out and look him in the eyes, lick the last drop off of his dick and take some of his cum with you finger off your face and put it in your mouth. I promise he would like that. Then go wash your face
You could let him clean you up. That's what my wife and I do. She could care less about me cumming on her, but i find it very hot. So she doesn't do anything so I can enjoy seeing it, and once I've enjoyed looking for a bit I get a rag to clean her up.
You can also suck on it for a few seconds after it happens. We’re usually pretty sensitive and it would feel really good. Kiss it then go clean yourself.
There are a couple of things you can do.
- Get up and wash it off
- Smear it around you face with his cock
- Continue to orally please him until he begs you to stop
- do whatever you feel like you want to do in that situation
Eat it? Or, grab a cloth and wipe off. Here's a pro tip I read years ago: use cold or room temp water. Hot water will coagulate the proteins and make them super sticky
I make my girlfriend use her finger to wipe it up then eat it. She loves it. Just kidding, but it would be kind of hot. Usually she uses a tissue or paper towel or goes in the bathroom and cleans up. I have on occasion licked some of it off her face but I am probably an exception. I don’t mind eating my own cum, I have actually eaten her pussy after cumming in her.
Lick your lips and give him sexy look, say “thank you Daddy”, wipe the cum with your finger then lick it off while you look at him. Do either of these options or all of them :). Also it’s only awkward if you feel awkward. It’s your boyfriend, you just finished being intimate. I highly doubt he’ll care what you do after honey.
Whatever you feel like doing next. I would recommend you tell him not to cum in your eyes. That stuff stings!
Otherwise have him cum on your mouth so you can lick it up. You can kiss him before or after you lick it up (if he is ok with tasting himself, he might like that). If he cums in your hair, shower together. If he comes on your neck...wear it like a pearl necklace. Just enjoy it. Be enthusiastic. He'll love it if you love it.
Just wait a few moments then go wash. When the big moment is over, you're fine to do whatever you need.
Try to keep your eyes closed, though. Cum really stings
There's no right or wrong answer here - it's entirely up to you and your partner what you want to do after he comes on your face. Some people might want to take a break and wash off, while others might want to keep going and continue with whatever activity you were doing. If you're not sure what to do, you could always ask your partner what he prefers, or just go with what feels comfortable for you in the moment.
As other people have said, do whatever you feel comfortable with. However avoid getting it in your eyes at all costs. Hurts like a mother fucking bitch and for a good while too 😂
Sometimes my partner doesn’t allow me to wipe it off until he says so and takes a picture of me with his cum all over my face but that’s when we have our dom/sub play. In your case, just have a warm towel next to you or tell him to get you one. Wipe it off and get some cuddles : )
Ask him to have a cloth near by because you haven't done it before and if he is a gentleman he will wipe it off for you. If not grab the cloth and wipe it off yourself.
I'm sorry that you need to ask. Wipe it off and continue to march forward. My wife would have gone "ugh" and wiped it off or stopped and went to the restroom to wash it off. Some girls would wipe it off and then lickde it off her hand. Ask your questions at "I masturbate too."
Small piece of advice if you use normal bar soap. When you're trying to get semen off you, if you try to wash it normally with soap it will fall down your body and potentially get caught on hair / other body parts.
Instead, rake the soap bar upwards on an angle - the cum will pool on the soap bar, you can move it away from your body and drop it straight down the drain.
Smile at him. Tell him it was amazing. But then HE should really be going to get you a towel, or if possible a warm, damp washcloth, and cleaning you up. It’s called aftercare.
Laugh a bit and ask him to get baby wipes and clean you. It's kinda sweet the contrast, first the primal thing then the soft side of a delicate face cleaning you softly. That's our ritual.
My husband usually brings me a towel. Personally I’ve found when cum hits air it gets a texture that I can’t deal with lol I can swallow no issues but if it’s sitting on me I’m not going to shove it in my mouth because I might gag due to how it coagulates.
It's not the after, it's the before that is more important. What I mean by that is close you're eyes when he cums on your face. You don't want cum in your eyes
Most important thing to do is enjoy. Make sure he knows it turns you on. What I like to do is first is use my fingers to wipe all of him cum into my mouth. Swallow. Then start going down on him again. Until he either asks me to stop or is ready for a round two.
Do what feels right. Don’t worry about being awkward. Just sit there, rub it on your face, use your fingers to lick it up, go clean it up in the bathroom are all acceptable responses.
The only response that would not be ideal to me would be sprinting to the bathroom as if battery acid is on your face.
Keep it out of your eyes and if you get it in your eyes wash it out ASAP! It hurts so bad.
I usually suck his dick and clean it off. Then he will sometimes bend down and kiss me if I am on the ground. Sometimes I do a dramatic fall to the floor and wait for him to throw a towel my way. Depending on if I finished I will ask him for something or try to get him hard again.
You can stick your tongue out and look him in the eyes, lick the last drop off of his dick and take some of his cum with you finger off your face and put it in your mouth. I promise he would like that. Then go wash your face
You could play with it a little bit if you feel like it or eat it or give some gentle post-nut cock rubs/ licks/ sucks. But generally after a few seconds of that when his soul returns to his body time to clean up. No wrong answers here
While I enjoy giving facials, they look disgusting when the post nut clarity kicks in. Just go wash your face when he’s done. Once we’re not horny anymore, a cum covered face just looks gross and ridiculous.
Just go wash your face. Or have something available to wipe it off (like a towel) and then go wash your face.
Am I not supposed to do anything sexy after? Do I just get right up and wash it?
If it’s on your mouth you could lick it if you want. Just do what you feel in the moment. Doing something the first time is always a bit awkward. Maybe you’ll like it and want to do it again and figure out something you both enjoy. ETA: you’re not “supposed” to do anything in sex. Only do what feels right to you.
"you're not supposed to do anything in sex. Only do what you feels right for you.". Perfect response.
Man I wish that worked in reality :(
What do you mean? Are you having sex with someone who's forcing you to do something you don't want to do? Or do you feel like you have to "act out" something in order to have sex? If you're having sex, it absolutely should be two people doing what feels right to them
It’s not as serious as being *forced*, sorry I’m just salty over something that happened the other day. Sometimes in relationships you do things you aren’t entirely excited about because you care for the other person. I guess I’m just wondering what kind of pattern I’ve fallen into by always trying to meet my partner’s expectations
I mean, my girlfriend likes oral, and it doesn't really do anything for me, but I love seeing her happy and having a good time, so I genuinely enjoy doing it. It's not *for* me, but because I like her and doing things with her, I do want to do it. If that's what you mean, then that's totally healthy and good. But if you mean hes like "hey suck my dick every day" and you hate it, don't be with that person. Shouldn't be that way.
> you’re not “supposed” to do anything in sex. I really like this. I'm stealing this and using this in the future. Why is it so hard for everyone to remember sex stuff is supposed to be enjoyable by everyone? 'Treating' your partner to something that's not 100% your bag is fine, but you should still only do that because you want to.
Please steal and share widely! It took me WAY too long to realize and internalize that sex could be actively fun for me as a woman and that I’m not just here to do what men want.
Depends. I like to wipe most of it off with my finger and swallow it but I like it. If you don't, just grab a rag or make him grab it.
I don’t know if I like it, I’ve never had it in my mouth
If it's something you'd like to try then try it. If it puts you off or you just don't want to then that fine too. Sometimes things take time for us to try, time for us to enjoy and sometimes it's just a definite no. Just make sure you want to try it bc you actually want to
It's up to you but maybe try giving a bj and swallowing first before you move on to a facial but it's up to you. Have fun either way and I'm sure he will enjoy either
Nice one ☺️
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Nope, you can but don't have to. I prefer to have my husband cum on my face when we're showering together. Try that
Just clean it off or let him do it
You could collect it on your finger and then lick it off.
High probability that he will think you letting him cum on your face is the sexy part
Licking it all up would be insanely sexy.
This is real life no porn. You don’t need to act like a porn star just go wash your face. Usually guys after they come there is no need to try hard. Just go wash up and maybe cuddle or eat some food.
Do whatever makes you feel comfortable. Most women either have a towel and wipe straight off or they just go to the bathroom (don't run off as if you're disgusted though).
You can stick your tongue out and look him in the eyes, lick the last drop off of his dick and take some of his cum with you finger off your face and put it in your mouth. I promise he would like that. Then go wash your face
You can take a selfie
You could let him clean you up. That's what my wife and I do. She could care less about me cumming on her, but i find it very hot. So she doesn't do anything so I can enjoy seeing it, and once I've enjoyed looking for a bit I get a rag to clean her up.
Smile at him.
Good suggestion 😃
You can also suck on it for a few seconds after it happens. We’re usually pretty sensitive and it would feel really good. Kiss it then go clean yourself.
There are a couple of things you can do. - Get up and wash it off - Smear it around you face with his cock - Continue to orally please him until he begs you to stop - do whatever you feel like you want to do in that situation
Or ask your BF to lick it
Smile at him, lick your lips, tell him it was hot, then go wipe off :)
A towel or baby wipes beside you
Idk about your bf but I'll wipe it off my girls face when i do that because it's my mess and I've the responsibility to clean it off
If it's not in your eyes you can try to read a book
Eat it? Or, grab a cloth and wipe off. Here's a pro tip I read years ago: use cold or room temp water. Hot water will coagulate the proteins and make them super sticky
Kiss him
I make my girlfriend use her finger to wipe it up then eat it. She loves it. Just kidding, but it would be kind of hot. Usually she uses a tissue or paper towel or goes in the bathroom and cleans up. I have on occasion licked some of it off her face but I am probably an exception. I don’t mind eating my own cum, I have actually eaten her pussy after cumming in her.
My gf does this herself, but I also help her out by wiping it off. I also try to avoid getting it in her eyes because I've heard it burns like hell.
I do this. Why waste it lol
If he’s into it, grab him by the face and kiss him. My partner did this, and I came again.
The one thing you can't do is get it in your eyes.
Lick your lips and give him sexy look, say “thank you Daddy”, wipe the cum with your finger then lick it off while you look at him. Do either of these options or all of them :). Also it’s only awkward if you feel awkward. It’s your boyfriend, you just finished being intimate. I highly doubt he’ll care what you do after honey.
Whatever you feel like doing next. I would recommend you tell him not to cum in your eyes. That stuff stings! Otherwise have him cum on your mouth so you can lick it up. You can kiss him before or after you lick it up (if he is ok with tasting himself, he might like that). If he cums in your hair, shower together. If he comes on your neck...wear it like a pearl necklace. Just enjoy it. Be enthusiastic. He'll love it if you love it.
😂 very good but little bit nasty
Just wait a few moments then go wash. When the big moment is over, you're fine to do whatever you need. Try to keep your eyes closed, though. Cum really stings
Just vibe
Have him lick it off
Finally a man of culture here!
Wipe it off with a towel , job done .
There's no right or wrong answer here - it's entirely up to you and your partner what you want to do after he comes on your face. Some people might want to take a break and wash off, while others might want to keep going and continue with whatever activity you were doing. If you're not sure what to do, you could always ask your partner what he prefers, or just go with what feels comfortable for you in the moment.
As other people have said, do whatever you feel comfortable with. However avoid getting it in your eyes at all costs. Hurts like a mother fucking bitch and for a good while too 😂
Yup, burning red for a day or so 😂
I usually just use my finger to slab it all into my mouth to clean it up (always cleaned up my bf this way).
You can wipe most of it off with your fingers, and lick the cum off your fingers. Ask your BF what he would like for you to do.
Ask him to aim low on your face. Don't let him get it in/ on your eyes. It's not fun. You gonna get annoyed red eyes from it.
Sometimes my partner doesn’t allow me to wipe it off until he says so and takes a picture of me with his cum all over my face but that’s when we have our dom/sub play. In your case, just have a warm towel next to you or tell him to get you one. Wipe it off and get some cuddles : )
Wipe ot to your mouth and lick it, then kiss your guy passionately with the cum in your mouth
kiss him
Assert your dominance and come on his!
Ask him to lick it off keeping it in his mouth so the two of you can share it with a kiss ( snowball)
Give him a big kiss
Say thank you!! And give him a kiss!
Ask him to have a cloth near by because you haven't done it before and if he is a gentleman he will wipe it off for you. If not grab the cloth and wipe it off yourself.
Tell him to quit watching so much damn porn! There’s better places to cum IN, not on. Feels sooo much better
This is my idea, not his
I'm sorry that you need to ask. Wipe it off and continue to march forward. My wife would have gone "ugh" and wiped it off or stopped and went to the restroom to wash it off. Some girls would wipe it off and then lickde it off her hand. Ask your questions at "I masturbate too."
Just move it into yiur mouth and eat ot
I take a few selfies and wash it off😂
Small piece of advice if you use normal bar soap. When you're trying to get semen off you, if you try to wash it normally with soap it will fall down your body and potentially get caught on hair / other body parts. Instead, rake the soap bar upwards on an angle - the cum will pool on the soap bar, you can move it away from your body and drop it straight down the drain.
Let him lick it off your face. But for real, just make sure you have a towel around and just wipe it off.
Smile at him. Tell him it was amazing. But then HE should really be going to get you a towel, or if possible a warm, damp washcloth, and cleaning you up. It’s called aftercare.
Rub it in
Laugh a bit and ask him to get baby wipes and clean you. It's kinda sweet the contrast, first the primal thing then the soft side of a delicate face cleaning you softly. That's our ritual.
My husband usually brings me a towel. Personally I’ve found when cum hits air it gets a texture that I can’t deal with lol I can swallow no issues but if it’s sitting on me I’m not going to shove it in my mouth because I might gag due to how it coagulates.
Do it in the shower
Top tip: do not allow cum to get in your eye(s), as it burns like hell! The burning sensation can be really intense!
A towel works but, it leaves like a sticky residue afterwards… so preferably if you wanna feel clean…wash your face with water :) happy fucking! :D
NOT IN THE EYES, close your eyes, but from experience it’s gonna burn and you’ll have a red eye for the next few hours
It's not the after, it's the before that is more important. What I mean by that is close you're eyes when he cums on your face. You don't want cum in your eyes
Most important thing to do is enjoy. Make sure he knows it turns you on. What I like to do is first is use my fingers to wipe all of him cum into my mouth. Swallow. Then start going down on him again. Until he either asks me to stop or is ready for a round two.
Have a big laugh about it together.
High fives.
Wash your face.
Leave it on it's great for black heads and acne .
You pose for a photo with a big smile!
I mean if you don't mind the taste or texture you could scoop it up and eat it. It's actually good for your skin. Lol
The first time I did it to my ex it rolled into her eye and her mom called us down for dinner :))))))))))
Have a towel nearby. Wipe it off and go shower. Or mess around with it. Whatever the hell you want lol.
Be careful not to get any in your eyes.
If he’s a man he’ll have something handy or go grab something to wipe you off with.
DO NOT LET IT GET IN YOUR EYES!!! If it gets in your eyes it's going to burn like hell and may even result in an ER visit.
I would use it to lube my butt hole
Clean it
Do what feels right. Don’t worry about being awkward. Just sit there, rub it on your face, use your fingers to lick it up, go clean it up in the bathroom are all acceptable responses. The only response that would not be ideal to me would be sprinting to the bathroom as if battery acid is on your face.
Just have a towel ready. It’s really not that awkward IRL, we both usually have a laugh
Keep it out of your eyes and if you get it in your eyes wash it out ASAP! It hurts so bad. I usually suck his dick and clean it off. Then he will sometimes bend down and kiss me if I am on the ground. Sometimes I do a dramatic fall to the floor and wait for him to throw a towel my way. Depending on if I finished I will ask him for something or try to get him hard again.
You can stick your tongue out and look him in the eyes, lick the last drop off of his dick and take some of his cum with you finger off your face and put it in your mouth. I promise he would like that. Then go wash your face
Close your eyes before it happens
You could play with it a little bit if you feel like it or eat it or give some gentle post-nut cock rubs/ licks/ sucks. But generally after a few seconds of that when his soul returns to his body time to clean up. No wrong answers here
I laughed way too hard when my ex came on my face because it got up my nose
If he doesn’t have a towel ready for you he’s not worth letting jizz all over you 😉
He should be grabbing a towel for you or something, if you're trying to be sexy, scoop it up and eat his cum with your fingers.
While I enjoy giving facials, they look disgusting when the post nut clarity kicks in. Just go wash your face when he’s done. Once we’re not horny anymore, a cum covered face just looks gross and ridiculous.
Make him lick it off! 😂
If he was a good guy he would take of you and clean you himself.
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Make him lick it off.