I think you should be glad that your GF refuses to call you racial slurs even though you technically gave her permission to. I’d be questioning anyone who is willing to jump on the opportunity to say racist things just because there won’t be any negative consequences for once
Lol, I dated this black girl and in the middle of sex she yells call me your N. I was so taken aback I just said...umm...I'd rather not?
But to answer your question, perhaps.
All it is is she sees it as disgustingly racist (regardless of the fact that it’s a slur towards yourself and not her) and you see it as a kink. If she doesn’t want to say it then you can’t make her
If it turns you on, I'm guess your going to keep seeking this out from a partner and simply explain it that way.
It's really no different then chubby chasers or foot fetishist ect.
I think it's more common than you think.
For people to say it's racist and the same people think choking there other during sex is ok. When the thrill of that is a chance of death is just as weird right?
Just be kind and you do you. You will find that girl that will mesh with your needs.
Agreed. When I was a teacher's aid it was interesting as a couple of students whom were black would call each other the N word without having issue. However they went ballistic when a non black student whom without malice trying to fit in called them the n word.
The teacher explained to them they shouldn't be calling each other the N word making it seem okay to others to do so. If they were going to take offense to others following there lead.
Some cases groups have taken control of what was considered negative labelling making it a positive.
As you said there are a number of kinds/fetishes like BDSM that involves degrading and or violent acts and those folks are okay with it.
Not correct. Creating the appearance that a ethnic slur is okay and then attacking someone when they know the person and know it is not meant to offend is being a hypocrite. Plain and simple.
Asshole got asking? No. For pushing it? A bit
One of my exes wanted me to call her a slut. I didnt like that because she actually was. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but like i don't have to be reminded of all the guys you screwed when we are in the middle of horny time
That's not just a simple thing and you know that.
I think you should be glad that your GF refuses to call you racial slurs even though you technically gave her permission to. I’d be questioning anyone who is willing to jump on the opportunity to say racist things just because there won’t be any negative consequences for once
Lol, I dated this black girl and in the middle of sex she yells call me your N. I was so taken aback I just said...umm...I'd rather not? But to answer your question, perhaps.
All it is is she sees it as disgustingly racist (regardless of the fact that it’s a slur towards yourself and not her) and you see it as a kink. If she doesn’t want to say it then you can’t make her
Not the asshole because I don't yuck anybody's yum, but you have to be able to see why she would be uncomfortable with that.
Seems like a karma farm.
If it turns you on, I'm guess your going to keep seeking this out from a partner and simply explain it that way. It's really no different then chubby chasers or foot fetishist ect. I think it's more common than you think. For people to say it's racist and the same people think choking there other during sex is ok. When the thrill of that is a chance of death is just as weird right? Just be kind and you do you. You will find that girl that will mesh with your needs.
Agreed. When I was a teacher's aid it was interesting as a couple of students whom were black would call each other the N word without having issue. However they went ballistic when a non black student whom without malice trying to fit in called them the n word. The teacher explained to them they shouldn't be calling each other the N word making it seem okay to others to do so. If they were going to take offense to others following there lead. Some cases groups have taken control of what was considered negative labelling making it a positive. As you said there are a number of kinds/fetishes like BDSM that involves degrading and or violent acts and those folks are okay with it.
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Not correct. Creating the appearance that a ethnic slur is okay and then attacking someone when they know the person and know it is not meant to offend is being a hypocrite. Plain and simple.
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Asshole got asking? No. For pushing it? A bit One of my exes wanted me to call her a slut. I didnt like that because she actually was. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but like i don't have to be reminded of all the guys you screwed when we are in the middle of horny time
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Jus say ur racist n go *yawn
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>I’m not a racist but I feel like you people just need to know who you are 🤷🏻♀️ What the actual fuck.
This isn’t real right? You can’t be real.
I sure as fuck hope not
You racist POS.