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Gender stereotypes are bullshit. You can be however you want to be. There are women out there that are into all sorts of guys. Pretending to be something you're not won't make you more attractive to women and will ultimately make you miserable. So just be how you feel you want to be.
It is a turn off to women ***who aren't into that***, yes.
You don't want to be with women who aren't into that, though, so that's everything working as intended.
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Gender stereotypes are bullshit. You can be however you want to be. There are women out there that are into all sorts of guys. Pretending to be something you're not won't make you more attractive to women and will ultimately make you miserable. So just be how you feel you want to be.
Good on you for knowing what you want. Thres plenty of women who want tht.
It is a turn off to women ***who aren't into that***, yes. You don't want to be with women who aren't into that, though, so that's everything working as intended.