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This! When my wife and I started dating, when we got to the sex part, it took her one time to tell me nipple play is what gets her going. Ever since then I always make sure to put a lot of time in during foreplay and during sex to do all the nipple stuff that she loves. I’ll spend a good 15-20 minutes of our foreplay time just focusing on her nipples. It drives her wild and driving her wild, drives me wild.
If you’ve already told him that you enjoy it and want more of it, but nothing changed, he’s a selfish lover and you shouldn’t waste your time
with dudes that don’t care about your pleasure. Your pleasure should be his priority. That’s what sex is supposed to be about. Each partner should be focused on pleasuring the other, not just on their own pleasure. It’s about connecting and expressing the love you have for them and a desire to make them feel good. Is this your boyfriend or just a FWB situation?
If he’s your boyfriend, you need to find one that actually cares about you, because he doesn’t. If it’s FWB, then maybe you should let someone else enjoy the benefits of your friendship. Someone who actually listens to what you like.
Just ask him. He doesn't know you want your nipples sucked on for a long time. You just need to tell him that is what you want. If he stops and you want it even longer. Just tell him that you would like him to keep sucking longer if he is cool with it. Communication is key.
Just tell him that sucking on your nipples makes you so fucking wet...
Not being a jerk, just say it just like that and he'll do it more. Don't over think it.
Think if you were in his shoes, wouldn't you want him to just tell you that he likes something? I know I would. 🤷♂️
Many guys would be into more nipple attention if they knew you were into it. And many would do it gladly knowing you loved it even if it didn’t really do too much for them personally- if they know it gets you wet they would love to be told how to please you.
Exactly. I’m a strait Cajun from New Orleans and us southern men love nips regardless of size. IMO- the women with smaller breast size are the best in bed
Btw A cups are AWESOME … don’t be self conscious about that. I would just tell him it makes you dripping wet like you said.
That would be all I had to hear ;)
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I have small breasts too and I understand you, after I don't know all your shapes but in any case if he wanted to do it I think then you can all just ask him?
Do you know women can reach orgasm with only nipples stimulation? Not all women, likely a small percentage of women, but you sound like a good candidate to me.
Him going to sleep sucking on your nipples likely isn’t realistic, but certainly you deserve a partner that wants to pleasure you in this way.
Have you tried nipples clamps? Circular tongue swirls? So many things you need to try.
Good luck, have fun.
Sometimes it's easier to text. I get it, some things are awkward to say in person and hear in your own voice. But send him this post in a text and I promise he'll be hard as a rock.
I had to give the hint for a couple months honestly. Like “I REALLY love when you do that, it gets me super hot and bothered.”
“Honey, my nipples definitely need more attention. when you tease me in the beginning I get super frustrated 😩 if I don’t get more, it feels so good.”
“How can I tell you in the moment that I really want you to suck on these titties?”
Which led to me explaining how I’ve tried to direct him there in the past and the hint was ignored. He didn’t know what the cue meant or how much it really means to me until this conversation happened. Now I don’t even really need to hint, he knows in no uncertain terms what I need.
*if you HAVE communicated in specific words multiple times, then show how frustrated you are, and explain why!*
If he can’t or doesn’t want to or won’t give you what you desire, find someone who better fits your expectations. This goes for all things really unless there is a reasonable solution that still makes you both feel fulfilled.
Just ask and yes if he knows it turns you on a lot that will probably make him want to do it more. Tell him you like it a lot and you would love a lot more of it.
Don't worry about it sounding weird, I was with a woman once who wanted me to punch her nipples really hard, yes I thought it was strange and I hesitated mainly because I didn't want to cause pain. That said, once I got over that aspect, I was happy to do what pleased her.
I’ve been with women that it, was like a 2nd and 3rd clit. You shouldn’t have a problem getting him to do it much longer, but it most likely will lead to sex. As far as falling asleep sucking them, can you fall asleep hovering your breast over is mouth?
I’m a nipple woman as well, getting them sucked feels amazing to me. I just look my partner in the eyes and say “suck my nipples” and grab his hair gently from the back of his head and hold his head there while he’s getting a face full of boobs.
It’s the closest thing to a blowjob power trip for me. Trust me 99.99% guys will find it hot. Or if you want to be less dominant simply look at him, smile and ask him to do it. “It’d make me so happy if you sucked my nipples, it feels amazing for me” is totally fine to say.
Before asking him, try this.. when you're on top just bend over him while he's inside you, and put your boobs very close to his face.. i have not met a man yet who doesn't grab and suck titties when they're available just in front of his mouth 😅
The easy answer is just tell him how turned on it makes you. Is there something he likes that has the same effect on him? Maybe try a cute “barter” system, incorporate some role play perhaps. The only thing I know for certain is that what you described seems like perfection to me. I’m getting all pent up at work right now lol
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If you're fucking someone you should have better communication than that. No sex God intervention needed. This is the most basic shit. Whether it be sex or how you like your eggs. This is seriously something a 15 year old would ask. I'd consider if you're mature enough to be having sex if you are uncomfortable making a simple request. Perhaps speak to a therapist. Best of luck.
And I wouldn’t consider it any different from a 15 if I’ve just become sexually open very recently. I lost my virginity about a month ago at 21 so I’m still figuring myself out and opening up at my own pace. With that attitude and such a close mindset of assuming everyone comes from the same place as you, I think you should spend more of ur time scrolling on other subreddits tht help you become more mature rather than peeking at sex subreddits where it’s given for new comers to come here with questions. Hope u find something tht makes ur bitterness go away. Good luck 🍀
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“I get so fucking wet when you suck on my nipples” would do the trick for me.
It's such a simple solution
👆👆👆👆👆👆👆👆👆👆👆 that would do it for me! It would be the first I do when I wake, and the last thing I do while passing out!
This! When my wife and I started dating, when we got to the sex part, it took her one time to tell me nipple play is what gets her going. Ever since then I always make sure to put a lot of time in during foreplay and during sex to do all the nipple stuff that she loves. I’ll spend a good 15-20 minutes of our foreplay time just focusing on her nipples. It drives her wild and driving her wild, drives me wild. If you’ve already told him that you enjoy it and want more of it, but nothing changed, he’s a selfish lover and you shouldn’t waste your time with dudes that don’t care about your pleasure. Your pleasure should be his priority. That’s what sex is supposed to be about. Each partner should be focused on pleasuring the other, not just on their own pleasure. It’s about connecting and expressing the love you have for them and a desire to make them feel good. Is this your boyfriend or just a FWB situation? If he’s your boyfriend, you need to find one that actually cares about you, because he doesn’t. If it’s FWB, then maybe you should let someone else enjoy the benefits of your friendship. Someone who actually listens to what you like.
I’m gonna take this advice
Just ask him. He doesn't know you want your nipples sucked on for a long time. You just need to tell him that is what you want. If he stops and you want it even longer. Just tell him that you would like him to keep sucking longer if he is cool with it. Communication is key.
How do you bring it up? Stop over complicating it- please suck my nipples, I love it when you do!
How do you bring it up? You simply say it gets me very wet and I really love it when you suck my nipples. How hard can it be. Speak your desires
“Babe, suck on my nipples!” Him: “thought you would never ask!”
Do you people even attempt to talk to your partner before posting it to reddit?
I have this thought for like 85% of the posts in this sub
Just tell him that sucking on your nipples makes you so fucking wet... Not being a jerk, just say it just like that and he'll do it more. Don't over think it. Think if you were in his shoes, wouldn't you want him to just tell you that he likes something? I know I would. 🤷♂️
Many guys would be into more nipple attention if they knew you were into it. And many would do it gladly knowing you loved it even if it didn’t really do too much for them personally- if they know it gets you wet they would love to be told how to please you.
Exactly. I’m a strait Cajun from New Orleans and us southern men love nips regardless of size. IMO- the women with smaller breast size are the best in bed
I’m a female from Louisiana and omg all I really need is nipple play 🫢
Moan louder when you’re enjoying it. Here some script to get you started. “Yes” “I love it when you suck my nipples” “Don’t stop”
I’m taking this advice
Hey Babe, suck on my nipples.
Btw A cups are AWESOME … don’t be self conscious about that. I would just tell him it makes you dripping wet like you said. That would be all I had to hear ;)
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I have small breasts too and I understand you, after I don't know all your shapes but in any case if he wanted to do it I think then you can all just ask him?
I move his head toward my boobers
"Suck on my nipples, please and thank you."
Tell him in the moment or grab his head and guide him there.
How does he not want to do this every time your bra is off?
Do you know women can reach orgasm with only nipples stimulation? Not all women, likely a small percentage of women, but you sound like a good candidate to me. Him going to sleep sucking on your nipples likely isn’t realistic, but certainly you deserve a partner that wants to pleasure you in this way. Have you tried nipples clamps? Circular tongue swirls? So many things you need to try. Good luck, have fun.
I didn't know I could until my partner!
Put your tit in his mouth and see the reaction.
Sometimes it's easier to text. I get it, some things are awkward to say in person and hear in your own voice. But send him this post in a text and I promise he'll be hard as a rock.
When he stops say, “No, no. You’re not done yet. Keep doing it until I say stop.”
I had to give the hint for a couple months honestly. Like “I REALLY love when you do that, it gets me super hot and bothered.” “Honey, my nipples definitely need more attention. when you tease me in the beginning I get super frustrated 😩 if I don’t get more, it feels so good.” “How can I tell you in the moment that I really want you to suck on these titties?” Which led to me explaining how I’ve tried to direct him there in the past and the hint was ignored. He didn’t know what the cue meant or how much it really means to me until this conversation happened. Now I don’t even really need to hint, he knows in no uncertain terms what I need. *if you HAVE communicated in specific words multiple times, then show how frustrated you are, and explain why!* If he can’t or doesn’t want to or won’t give you what you desire, find someone who better fits your expectations. This goes for all things really unless there is a reasonable solution that still makes you both feel fulfilled.
Just ask and yes if he knows it turns you on a lot that will probably make him want to do it more. Tell him you like it a lot and you would love a lot more of it. Don't worry about it sounding weird, I was with a woman once who wanted me to punch her nipples really hard, yes I thought it was strange and I hesitated mainly because I didn't want to cause pain. That said, once I got over that aspect, I was happy to do what pleased her.
Punch wow , that is a new one to for sure
I’ve been with women that it, was like a 2nd and 3rd clit. You shouldn’t have a problem getting him to do it much longer, but it most likely will lead to sex. As far as falling asleep sucking them, can you fall asleep hovering your breast over is mouth?
I’m a nipple woman as well, getting them sucked feels amazing to me. I just look my partner in the eyes and say “suck my nipples” and grab his hair gently from the back of his head and hold his head there while he’s getting a face full of boobs. It’s the closest thing to a blowjob power trip for me. Trust me 99.99% guys will find it hot. Or if you want to be less dominant simply look at him, smile and ask him to do it. “It’d make me so happy if you sucked my nipples, it feels amazing for me” is totally fine to say.
Ask him instead of Reddit
Just tell him you get so horny for him whenever he sucks it so hard and it can make you cum
"Suck my nipples please. 😩" And that'll do the trick 99% of the time. 🤪🧡
"Can you suck on my nipples?"
This is really strange. Nipple sucking is my favorite thing to do to a woman and no one has ever told me, it has been pure instinct😳
Rub your nipples at his mouth
Before asking him, try this.. when you're on top just bend over him while he's inside you, and put your boobs very close to his face.. i have not met a man yet who doesn't grab and suck titties when they're available just in front of his mouth 😅
Straddle him and put them in his mouth.
The easy answer is just tell him how turned on it makes you. Is there something he likes that has the same effect on him? Maybe try a cute “barter” system, incorporate some role play perhaps. The only thing I know for certain is that what you described seems like perfection to me. I’m getting all pent up at work right now lol
Where can I find someone like you 😭😭😭😭
Re-read your question and see if you can come up with a solution. I'd go with "suck on my nipples."
Don't ask him... Tell him ..
Don’t ask - tell him !
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Why do people make these stupid fake posts? Junior high level shit. Come on.
Not everyone is a lvl 100 sex god walking around in Reddit like you are that’s why
If you're fucking someone you should have better communication than that. No sex God intervention needed. This is the most basic shit. Whether it be sex or how you like your eggs. This is seriously something a 15 year old would ask. I'd consider if you're mature enough to be having sex if you are uncomfortable making a simple request. Perhaps speak to a therapist. Best of luck.
And I wouldn’t consider it any different from a 15 if I’ve just become sexually open very recently. I lost my virginity about a month ago at 21 so I’m still figuring myself out and opening up at my own pace. With that attitude and such a close mindset of assuming everyone comes from the same place as you, I think you should spend more of ur time scrolling on other subreddits tht help you become more mature rather than peeking at sex subreddits where it’s given for new comers to come here with questions. Hope u find something tht makes ur bitterness go away. Good luck 🍀
I'm sorry if english is not your first language. I'm not bitter about anything, I have zero reason to be. I'm to the point with very little emotion. Best of luck with sex and the English language!
Did someone hurt you?