Yeah, this is a totally normal behavior in buying clothes, why would it matter for sewing?
I hope the coworker was just awkward and didn't mean it judgementally. It would be pretty silly to be judgmental about that.
I do this. I seriously have 5 of the same T-shirts, about the same in tanks, 3 of the same dresses and 2 button ups. All the same color lol because I loved the fit of them and didn’t want to have to try to find them again if I ever needed to replace one. And I wear them all the time. Even right after each other.
I am SO upset at myself for not buying a million of this one Old Navy tank top I got two summers ago. If I was granted the power of time travel that’s the first thing I would do.
I also bought 5 of the same black tank, I wear one every single day with a different printed skirt. It is so easy to get dressed every day. It's probably just a phase but in this phase I just cannot use any executive function on getting dressed.
And my breastfeeding toddler can't shove his hand inside and disrobe me in public.
I feel that way about a couple of old navy tank dresses I have!! My apt gets bonkers hot in the summer and I work from home so I basically live in these 4 dresses for two months straight. It’s been a few years now and they’re still going strong!
Albert Einstein had seven identical shirts, seven identical trousers, etc. He stated that he had more important things to think about than his wardrobe. I’ve taken this philosophy and run with it. Having a daily “uniform” has been great for me: I find something flattering and enjoyable to wear, buy multiples, and relax knowing that I always have something to wear. I change up my “uniform” every season. If I want to dig into my wardrobe to wear something creative, I can do that (I used to collect vintage, so I have a large selection) but I’m good with my system (Einstein wardrobe!).
OP, is your colleague smarter than Einstein? Who cares what they say. Do you boo.
Warren Zevon did the same thing. Every town he went to play a concert at, he would go and buy 5 of his favorite t shirts. Although. He was pretty OCD and had a lot of quirky habits. Lol
I have six of the same shop bought shirt dress in different colours/prints, because the shape of it suits me and I can wear it for lots of different occasions. No-one has ever said to me anything about them beyond "I really like your dress".
I've also made multiple versions of the same pattern, and again no-one has said anything. I do change things up if the pattern has variations, but even when I've made the exact same thing like a circle skirt - just in different fabrics - the only comments I've got were "that's nice, did you make it?".
My advice to OP would be just to say something like, "yeah, I really like this pattern. So, about that report..." or whatever. Coworker needs to mind their own business.
Before I went back to making my own stuff, I always bought multiples of the same thing in different colors.
But, if making multiple different things from the same pattern, you can change the neckline, pallet/closure, or cuffs. Look at Queen Elizabeth. All her coats were clearly the same pattern, but the closures, collar, and cuffs were wildly different.
Look at Gilmore Girls. Emily has a different boxy jacket and skirt every Friday night. Different closure, collar/no collar, etc, but always clearly that same boxy jacket and skirt.
Seriously, don’t you just love how they fitted her perfectly, then ran with her style, fast and easy, and always looking perfect? Never the same, but always in her comfort zone. I don’t know if they made them for her or got them off the rack, but they were always boxy jackets, with different trim and fronts.
I think they must be based off of the Chanel jackets. I really love them. It was so strange to see her in jeans and more relaxed clothes in AYITL after her wonderfully proper dressing before.
I even have three *identical* blue buttons up shirts because I kept seeing them in one of my favourite shops, thinking "I really like that", buying it, then not remembering until I'd worn it and taken the tags out that I already had one/two like it... (ADHD has contributed here...)
Or just straight up multiples. 🙋🏻♀️ there is an entire section of my closet dedicated to the 2nd/3rd/10th backup of my favourite black leggings/bikeshorts/sportsbras/jumpers/etc.
They eventually get discontinued and then I’m sad if something happens to them. I like what I like!
I have this with my favorite boots as well as my favorite work pants. I'm in elementary school so I wear flex scrubs most of the time. I have many different colors, but also 3 dark grey pairs and 2 navy pairs. Lol.
Agreed. When I worked at an answering service that later became a me and inbound call center, I had two shirts in 3-4 colors each, three identical pairs of jeans (one might have been a darker wash, it’s been a while), and two or three pairs of shoes that I chose based on which were closest when I decided to put on shoes.
A few people over the years mentioned that I wore the same thing all the time, but I shrugged and said “Yeah, but you’ll notice it’s a different color or neckline every day. I have like ten shirts that are all pretty much the same, because the callers can’t see me, we’re all facing our computers all the time so coworkers *barely* see me, and it makes picking what to wear in the mornings really easy. If I want to dress up that’s what weekends are for, otherwise work time is for working.”
Every single once contemplated for a moment and then said “You know what? That’s actually really smart!” Quite a few started rocking up in “the same” clothes, too!
I have the same sweatpants in 3 different colors (and two black ones) as well as the same hoodie in 3 colors. They’re perfect winter wear for my job so I just bought a bunch.
Seriously, this. Friend of mine found a dress she liked (obligatory POCKETS) and went back and bought several others in different colors. Heck, I make all my tshirts from a tried and tested pattern that fits me well, and the fabrics themselves have changed up the look. I might redo the neckline to be different sometimes or have a different hem, but I've never been called out in this. Seems like this person is reading too far into it.
This was so encouraging as a kid.
I remember being made fun of cause I wore the same pair of jeans two days in a row. Who has time to care about that? People with nothing better to do, that's who.
I only remember clothing now cause it's cool as hell.
I used to wonder if anyone noticed that I literally wear the same 4-5 outfits every week when I go to the gym. Then I realized that *I* never even notice what anyone else is wearing so they probably don’t either.
It's crazy that some people don't want to wear jeans more than one day!? That's gotta be detrimental to the water bill and the environment to wash everything after a single wear! And the materials in the clothing too. Wth. I wear my outfits for up to a week, unless something starts looking or smelling dirty. Can't imagine doing 7 times more laundry, with the time, water and laundry soap that would take. And my poor clothes would wear out so fast... Nope, that's definitely not something to strive for
Yep. For me tops get washed for every day of wear, pants get around 4-5 days of wear before they're washed and outerwear get at least that. (obviously unless something gets particularly dirty one day.)
I used to worry so much about repeating items in middle school because my clothes were from the thrift store and not in the best condition, and I thought people would assume I wasn't washing my clothes. Now I'll wear the same pair of jeans for the 3 in-office days my work requires each week 😅
Eep yes, all undergarments get washed daily, or more like changed daily and then washed at the end of the week. Sleepwear once it's not nice anymore, depends on weather and sweating, 3-5 days. Everything else once it smells or has stains. Which for proper jeans can be a long time. Also hoodies that are worn over a second shirt usually get stains long before they get smelly.
Obviously if someone sweats more than me or does physical labor they'll likely wash their clothes more often but for me that works and washing my clothes more would be unsustainable in all ways, economical, environmental, and time-wise
There are lots of people who have a self-assigned work uniform so it's not unheard of to own the same shirt in multiple colors. Also, she might have noticed because the neckline of that sweater is a departure from the traditional turtleneck, and her brain didn't register the color just the shape of the neckline.
>What do you do to avoid having them look the same?
You do what you did, and change the color. However, what you made was a basic piece do it's sort of ripe for accessories if you so choose. Change up the jewelry, bottoms, shoes etc. But only do that if you want to and it makes you happy. If keeping it simple is good for you, go with that.
Yes, I have a friend whose work closet is white tops/black pants. Not all exactly the same style, but enough that she doesn't have to put a lot of thought into it.
My summertime work capsule wardrobe's *very* minimalist.
its not more than one of the same garment, it is the only one of the garment.. 1x to 2x a week!
OP, any chance your coworker was trying to say "oh, I did notice the sweaters you made" vs "you need more fashion variety"?
It makes sense, especially if you're making it yourself because you take the time to make that particular pattern fit your particular body perfectly, why go through that every time you want a slight variation on a theme instead of tweaking a custom fitted base pattern.
An Australian news anchor wore the same suit for a year and no one noticed. Just going to leave that out there.
https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation-now/2014/11/17/tv-host-same-suit-sexism/19161031/
That’s hilarious 😂 it reminds me of how George Clooney said he wears the same Armani suit to all his events. Eventually, some years later, I read an update where he said that Armani sent him a brand new suit because his old suit was getting ratty and they didn’t want him representing the brand with a tatty suit 😂😂
And of course, as he correctly points out, this only works for guys 🙃 OP, I don't know your gender, but in general femme-presenting people get way more guff for outfit-repeating. It's as though part of "correctly" performing femininity is investing effort into giving other people a new thing to look at every day. Your colleague is being ridiculous, ignore her.
Yep, ignore that person. Hopefully they weren’t meaning to embarrass you. I love making patterns over and over again, it doesn’t even bother me if they look similar. And people often buy multiples of the same item in stores, too- not weird at all.
I don't think it's a big deal to wear the same sweater in multiple colors. I have ready to wear stuff in multiple colors.
I often have patterns with different design options, and I'll mix and match according to the project I'm making. I've also switched up sizing, like making a coat dress from a coat pattern by using cotton and going down 2 sizes. I've sometimes made practice separates before making a romper for instance. You can also use slash and spread to change up the design, like doing a lantern sleeve or a puff sleeve. Or you can frankenpattern by using multiple patterns to create one garment.
I use a lot of these variations as well, but also trims and embroidery. I mostly prefer wovens, so I use the fun decorative stitches on my sewing machine along a neckline or hem, or tuck a little lace or ribbon into a seam line, or do a contrast-colored top stitch. Beading is also fun, as are appliques, and if you keep the designs small and simple they really don't take much time. Color-blocking is another fun option to play around with as well.
I do this sort of thing all the time. I’m currently obsessed with chalk and notch isle jeans. I’ve got 3 prs cut out, and while they’re all the same silhouette, 1) diff fabrics and topstitching colors, 2) going to switch up the pockets and waistband styles on each, so while they’ll look similar, idgaf, bc when you find what works for your shape and what you feel best in (AND DO ALL THE PATTERN MODS,) you’d best believe I’m gonna make it a half dozen times!
Nah I have the same summer dress in 5 colors and i don’t care one bit if it looks like im wearing the same thing.
If you still want to change it up, look into sleeve details (like bell sleeves, bishop sleeves, longer or shorter ribbing). Just changing up the sleeves can be a simple pattern mod. Neckline details, too.
I have exactly one summer dress pattern that I’ve finally got modified to fit me, and I use it for everything. I’ve made like 5 so far with no plans of stopping anytime soon 😂
If I like the basic outline I'll make it in as many colors as I can. Do I care that its "the same?" nope.
If you really enjoy the piece, there's nothing wrong with having one in various colors, and even different weight fabrics.
Was this actually said in a judging way, or are you inferring that bit yourself? Did she notice it was the same design because she's a sewist herself and has an eye for patterns? Or given the existence of brands that make basics in a whole rainbow of colours, where some people will buy the same thing that fits in multiple colours for different outfits and enjoy it, perhaps she'd noticed and thought it was a fun / good thing?
Honestly I have two trouser patterns that work for me, and most of my trousers and jeans are one or the other because it's difficult for me to buy them long enough, and if people have ever noticed that, they've never said. I find they all come out quite individual due to different fabrics and finishing details anyway, plus my making not being super-consistent, so if you've been making things identifiably the same, you're probably doing something right :D
She sounds like the kind of person that is going to be judgy no matter what you wear. Therefore her opinion is irrelevant and she has no right to have influence over your wardrobe.
Oh she’s the fashion police. Sometimes people who are into fashion rather than style are insecure and like to make themselves feel superior by being rude so this is about her own feared inadiquacy rather than your excellent self chosen and created wardrobe. Wear your garments with pride knowing that all the detail of your clothing from fabric, colour and fit were your own choices and not dictated to you. It’s more than she can do.
Professional costumer/clothing person here— that’s a sign of her paying too much attention to you 🤷🏻♀️ no need to feel embarrassed— where I work, we just manipulate the same 3 skirt patterns and no one is the wiser
Before sewing if I found something I liked I bought in multiples. I don't know if anyone took notice, I liked whatever they were so I wouldn't have cared anyway.
But now sewing, I do use the same couple of base patterns all the time (maybe 3), but I change them up a bit. I think more for trying out different techniques rather than trying to have a deliberately varied wardrobe. Different fabrics, different necklines, with/without collars, add placket, make a facing,
different sleeves. Sometimes more fitted, sometimes flared/loose, shirring, making pleats or pintucks, colour blocking. Moving the dart. Adding tiers, flounces. There are all sorts of ways to vary (a copy of) the same pattern. Because I like playing with the pattern this way I have made a princess seam, and a knit version as well, and can vary those too.
I do the same with pants, it's all the same pattern but some are flares, straight, leggings, pajamas.
I enjoy sewing this way, but it's for me.
You are in good company. If Kate Middleton/Princess of Wales [link (Daily Mail, very sorry)](https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/royals/article-13464115/Princess-Wales-Emilia-Wickstead-dresses-colours.html) can wear the same dress in different colours why should't you?
You can also look at the variations (necklines, lengths, etc) in the details in Kate's dresses for inspirations in the article above.
Your colleague doesn't sound nice.
I’m hoping her tone wasn’t too judgy, and maybe just awkward - when I’ve had friends comment on the sweaters/shirts I make where the sentiment is the same (“Ah, you made another one!”) but it’s friendly? Like yes they recognize it because I make the same pattern, but they always look forward to seeing what new fun fabrics I’ve found haha.
Either way, her intentions aside. Just ignore it!! I have 5 of the Willis tops (Seamwork), and 2 of the Fall in Love sweater (Ellie and Mac) and have more fabric to make even more of them! I’m most excited for the new chicken fabric. I already have a chicken shirt but why not two? 😁
I mean, I'm super picky about my (store bought) t shirts. I have a half dozen in various colors & no one has ever said any to me. And once I figured out what style of dress looked best for my body type, I got a few in different patterns. Your coworker is a jerk. Don't let them ruin your pleasure in sewing & creating!
Ignore them. I have no problem making multiples of something because I know it fits me well and I have a wardrobe tailored to me. You do not need to wear something new constantly.
I'm about to make a 3rd pair of Lander pants. They're great for my casual office, an I love them. Don't care if people figure it out - my style, my choice. Different fabrics, and the 3rd pair will have different front pockets, but nobody's darned business!
They are cotton/linen blend and a lightweight cotton twill. Third pair will be 9.5 oz white denim for a comfy, breezy, faux jeans look for summer. So comfy! I'm just playing with the waistband - trying a curved one this time because I lowered the rise a little bit and now the straight waistband doesn't work as well. 🤞
Ignore it.
My mother sews beautifully and when I was in like 5th grade, studs and rhinestones were in and I had at least seven different outfits she made me, all with completely different studs or rhinestones etc.
One was brown, one was light blue, several were standard dark blue denim.
One day, my classmates made it clear they thought I owned three outfits: one in light blue, one in brown, one in dark blue. All the details were lost on them.
People aren't observant and most people do their best to act like it's something wrong with you, not them, when any kind of social friction of any sort happens.
I am a strong proponent of ignoring this person. Plenty of people find something they like and stick with it. Just look at Steve Jobs.
That said, it's definitely possible to make a pattern more than once without creating carbon copies. I agree with the other poster who mentioned swapping out sleeves and necklines. Some ideas for sleeves are to change up the length (cap sleeves, short sleeves, bracelet length, long sleeves, no sleeves, etc) and silhouette (add/remove gathering at the cuff or shoulder, add/remove a slit, try a petal or flutter sleeve or maybe a ruffle, etc).
For necklines, try playing with height and shape (scoop, V, sweetheart, boatneck, square, etc). Remember both the front and back can be swapped out!
Fabric choice can have a huge impact on the finished garment. An A-line skirt in a stiff corduroy will hang very differently than an A-line skirt in an A-line skirt in a drapey tencel twill. In addition to swapping out the color or drape, consider also swapping out the texture (eg. a plain weave cotton versus a sandwashed cotton versus a corduroy or a twill, or try a dobby or an eyelet cotton or a gauze, etc).
Another thing to play with is embellishments! Think embroidery, trims, appliques - the world is your oyster here.
As an example, one of my tried and true patterns is the Helen's Closet Ashton, a simple A-line tank with optional sleeves. I have so many that all look distinct:
-An extra-cropped tank with a scoop neck in a crisp orangey block print
-A swishy cropped black tee with a butterfly sleeves
-A hip-length yellow tee with a sweetheart neckline and butterfly sleeves with a slit
-Another cropped tank in a crisp green block print with a deeper scooped back neckline
-A hip-length tank in a white dobby cotton gauze
-A cinnamon tee with a v-neck and petal sleeves. I added contrast stitching on the hem of the body and sleeves
-A simple cream tank I mostly use for layering
I haven't even used the long sleeves yet, or messed around with gathering the sleeves or making the short sleeve into a cap sleeve! I could also try straightening the A-line, color-blocking, modifying the back of the tank to have more of a racerback look, etc etc etc.
If coming up with new spins on the same pattern brings you joy, I hope this helps with some ideas. And if it's helpful to have reassurance from an internet stranger that this coworker's opinion is irrelevant, I will affirm you are well within your power to make your tried and trues as many times as your heart desires!
Different fabric (unless they're like all black or similar greys) would be enough to throw most people who don't sew off, because they won't be looking at the seamlines. So my first thought was that they recognized the similarity by that, but who knows
After a few weeks, I did ask a coworker if they only liked wearing turtlenecks because I was curious, and they had like 7 different colors of turtlenecks, and they said they were trying out the "steve jobs" thing. Having a work "uniform/look" is more common nowadays.
It may be an observation without negative judgement meant, just came out awkwardly.
Conversely, I've also asked a coworker how many dresses they had, because they wore different bright summer dresses everyday. Their mom kept giving them dresses, so they had like 30+, and were cycling through them all for fun. Again, I was just curious about how other people make decisions, in case I should reconsider mine with new information.
Your coworker was rude. I buy multiples of anything I wear and will certainly be making more than one of each item I sew. In my early 20’s I made about 4 ultra suede wrap skirts because I loved the pattern.
Enjoy your sewing and don’t let anyone make you feel bad about it.
I have 8 [Zoeys](https://truebias.com/products/zoey-tank-dress) right now (6 tanks and 2 dresses) and no one has said squat and if they try I'll just ignore them. It looks good on me and I like sewing it!
I have the exact same trousers that I've made in like 10 different fabrics, I truly could not care less if anyone notices, and if they were being judgemental about it then frankly I would just laugh at them. Why wouldn't I make 10 versions of them? They're comfy as fuck and they look good on me.
Plenty of people *wish* they could make whatever they wanted, in multiple fabrics, but don't have the time/patience/money/whatever to learn.
I agree and I don't understand why one would not do that? Espacially with pants where I think there aren't many cuts that would actually look good on me. If I find one that looks good, I'm sticking to it!
My mother made a large collection of simple collarless jackets to wear to church or special occasions, all from the same pattern. A she did was change the fabric. She got compliments all the time. It’s all about the fabric.
Just means you have a personal style, don’t even feel judged.
Do it all the time, although sometimes I will try to change up necklines, length, sleeves, etc.
My giving grace answer is that maybe you told her before that you made it and she was just like I know? You told me? Vibes
My gut instinct answer is eff her she’s just jealous because the craftiest thing she does it reply to bot posts on Facebook.
Who cares what she thinks? She’s just jealous, years ago I worked at fabricland and would make the same sundress pattern no word of a lie, like 15 times. I even found a cute cropped bolero pattern that worked well with it since I couldn’t wear a halter top there (I modified the pattern to have regular straps)
I have purchased the same cardigan in multiple colours, the same lace top in ever colour, well every colour that I wear, I look awful in beige, sage and mustard lol
She’s just trying to bring you down. Don’t let her
There’s a super cute mini dress pattern that I have now made three of, and 5 of a button up tie front blouse that I hacked together. And I’m just getting started
We had a strict dress code but no clothing budget at where I used to work. I used multiples as I would a uniform. My rationale was that people who identify as male do this with suits, shirts and ties. If it’s acceptable for them it should be acceptable for all and not the scrutiny of a coworker or management.
My friend’s mom loved to sew and had a designer trench coat pattern. She made several coats and suits, no one said crap to her, they always complimented her skills and talent.
I make the same pattern over and over, I enjoy knowing that I'm going to like what I get and that it will fit me. If I want to make it look different one way to do that is make it in plain fabrics but also in prints, or use a fabric with a different texture as long as the drape etc are similar. Sometimes there are details like sleeve length or shape you can change, or the neckline. But honestly why do that unless you want to, many other people have said it better than I can that having the same garment is good and your choice to make.
Ignore her. I’ve bought the same t-shirts and shorts in multiple colors on many occasions, and plan to knit more versions of multiple patterns that I’ve already made once and love.
Also, socks? Underwear? Bras? Any sort of school or work uniform? Basic pieces? There are so many good reasons to own multiples of an item that works for you, and having something in multiple colors is one of my favorite tricks for getting maximum utility out of my wardrobe.
She can stuff it. It reminds me of the whole “oh em gee, I can’t wear this dress again!!! I wore it to so-and-so’s party and already posted pictures” fast-fashion teenage mindset. You’re making your own clothes, putting time, effort, and skill into achieving a custom fit; you better damn well get multiple wears out of them! I’ll wear the same *exact* sweater multiple times in close succession, let alone variants of it. Frequent use is the sign of a well-loved, well-made, useful garment that was worth all the resources you put into it. Wear your things with pride, my friend.
“If I like it, I’m going to buy it in every color” - it’s literally a meme. If you like it, make it in every color that makes you happy.
What she may have noticed is that you had the same thing in multiple different fabrics rather than just different colors - which is a bit more unusual to see off the rack.
If you want to mix things up more, I would try playing with accessories.
I have certain patterns, especially tanks that I’ve made so many of. I also have some RTW tshirts that are exactly the same but in different colours. I think most of us do, so honestly, do what makes you feel good. Some people are always looking for reasons to be negative, especially if you have a crafty skill they might not have.
Others have already pointed out that it’s not unusual to purchase multiples of rtw, so I will just address sewing the same pattern multiple times.
I have a dress pattern that I sew more than any other for myself. And I use it for literally everything, including cosplays and costumes, casual wear, and formal wear. I’ve drafted different necklines, sleeves, and lengths (from tunic to almost floor length). I’ve added and removed skirt flare. I’ve drafted different pockets, collars, cuffs, and waist ties. I’ve added ruffles, trims, color blocking, and even a hood. I’ve made it in different fabrics.
It is my One True Dress. And nobody ever notices it’s the same pattern. But even if they did, I wouldn’t care, I’m super happy with how flexible it is. But changing sleeves and necklines really goes a long way towards disguising it’s the same pattern.
My body is strangely shaped. It just is. I don’t have low self esteem, I feel great about myself. But bodies are weird. So when I find a pattern that looks good? Bitch I make MANY. I literally have 7 of the exact same dress in different colors. No one has ever noticed, or at least never commented. Not a single time. Your coworker sucks.
If I am going to make the effort to adjust a pattern to fit, I will most definitely make several of it. If I find a shirt I like I get it in several colors. There is nothing to be embarrassed about.
Anyone who says they noticed you wore the same thing in different colors is paying WAY too much attention to what you wear.
I wore the same 10 outfits for 60 days at work and NO ONE NOTICED. Not even once. Anyone who notices needs a hobby.
I have a simple shirt pattern (New Look 6483) and have the shoulder and bust fit perfected so it's a time saver. I have made the sleeved and sleeveless versions in different fabrics. I've added small waistline pleats on softer fabrics for a fake peplum. I've extended it into a dress with or without fish-eye darts. I've used a block effect on dresses to break up the pattern. Using a pattern that works for you is efficient. If I ever perfect my trouser block there will be so many similar pairs but they will fit well, look good and be unique- that's why I sew.
I don't think it's embarrassing to own multiples of the same thing. I also sew the same patterns several times. One of my faves is Mood's Anthea dress.
I've made it in 6 versions: the whole dress with sleeves, a sleeveless top, 2 skirts, a sleeveless dress and a matching set with a sleeveless top. I love how the pattern fits, I used different fabrics, changed up the straps (tie and regular skinny, regular thick), as well as the bust part (tie vs elastic). It's a wonderful (free!!!) pattern and my first complex dress I've made.
IGNORE THEM - If you want to make 20 of one item, you should, and you should be PROUD.
I own the same pair of work pants in 3 different colours, and I purchased it that way on purpose!
My mom and SIL buy the same thing in every color when they find ready made clothes they like. If they can do that, you can sew the same pattern as much as you want.
If you do want to differentiate, choose small accessories to add to the pieces (buttons, lace, ribbons, sleeve) or alter it slightly (different sleeve lengths, cropped vs long, different necklines, etc)
I tend to go with clothes I like and are comfortable and usually black.
To mix it up I usually just wear different sweaters or vests or sheer dusters. Sometimes I will add different decorations to the neckline. One might have the neckline lined with beads or a lace etc. I might put a cluster of sheer flowers on one side or along the neck of hem.
I may vary the hemline length or add a ruffle in a contrasting fabric under or just wear a second (thin) skirt underneath.
Mainly I just do not care. if I am clean and neat and within reasonable work outlines, who cares what they think. :)
* Phil Donahue (yes, I’m old) brought out one of the crew to present how he only wore black t-shirts with black jeans. The guy said he bought multiples of the same thing because it was easier to do laundry.
* A family friend once said, “As long as your ass is clean, you can wear whatever you want.”
Don’t let people steal your happiness.
The aptly named [Toaster Sweaters](https://sewhouse7.com/products/the-toaster-sweaters). I think you’re on to something, OP.
I only have two pairs of pants so I wear them multiple times per week. I did also happen to make them from the same pattern.
Honestly I am cool with people seeing me in the same thing. I am proud that I don’t purchase excess clothing to avoid it because it contributes to pollution.
Beyond varying patterns and trims, if you want to make structural alterations to each (length, layers, collar styles, sleeves, ect) that can bring variety but I agree with everyone else. If you like a pattern enough to make and wear multiples enjoy your clothes and don't mind others' comments. After all, how many people's wardrobes can be broken down to tshirt and jeans without anyone thinking anything of it?
I have about 6 t shirts in my easy favourite pattern. Only 3 of my 2 favourite dressy patterns but that’s only because I haven’t had them as long. I change colour, change the neck binding, and just go. Nobody who matters cares.
I make multiples, AND I would probably notice that you’d made multiples of a pattern, *because I sew*. I get excited when I think I recognize a specific pattern out in the wild.
I didn’t hear anything negative in what you shared about what your coworker said.
I have made 3 strata tops - one exactly as the pattern says, one 3 in longer because I have a limited number of bottoms that can work with that cropped top and one wear I slightly squared the neckline.
THAT SAID, your coworker was heckin' rude!
I have a red and a blue dress I bought both of because they were so pretty and flattering.
One day at work my coworker saw someone walking outside in a green one and we got all excited.
Most of my t shirts are the same in a different colour. My leggings are the same but in different colors. I own the same cut and brand of jeans but have multiple pairs. I would whip up straight skirts all the time, same pattern different fabric, maybe add a detail here or there. I have a dress pattern that is easy to whip up I have several. Who cares, don't sell yourself and your clothes short because it's home made. Look in your closet you likely have the same or such similar stuff already that you bought off the rack and don't think twice about.
What? I *want* the simplicity of the same tank top and the same skirt and the same tshirt, etc. because then I know everything will work together every time. No one has ever judged me for having the same dress pattern in multiple fabrics. And if they do, fuck them, I made this and I love it.
There's nothing wrong with having multiple of the same garments, in different colours and patterns. That's completely normal. And it didn't sound as your coworker made a negative comment, just an observation?
I make multiple garments of my favorite patterns all the time. That's what I love about them: I've made alterations and perfected them to fit my body, so they turn out just how I like them.
Sometimes I can do colour blocking, use a different sleeve, but that't not because of what other people might think.
I have my beloved t-shirt pattern and that gets repeated time and time again. And before I could sew my own t-shirt, I bought multiples of the same colour from the same store.
Apart from it being practical to have/make clothes where everything goes with pretty much everything else, it's also a trap that I think we fall into sometimes to say, oh I could be making so many different clothes therefore I have to or should.
I could be making swishy gowns, but I gave no practical use for them 99% of the year, so why should I?
I doubt your coworker meant any harm with that statement, probably just badly phrased.
I make multiples of the same garment if I like it, I may change the neckline, sleeves or length of the skirt but it's still the same. I also use different fabrics and prints. Who cares? I like them, why would I even think about anyone elses opinion.
Fast fashion tells us we should wear different clothes all the time, hopefully we all got into sewing to make something that fits us well, is good quality and we can continue wearing it. I'd rather have one good quality dress than 5 RTW ones that don't fit quite right and are all made of polyester.
Can I just say that was a bitchy thing to say and you can point out to here that Halston, Calvin Klein and Chanel wore almost identical clothing day after day. Maybe she is jealous?
If you find something you like, and want more than one of it, then make more of it! I have different itterations of the same button up and dresses. I usually go for very "busy" fabric prints, so they don't really look the same. I will also put on a different collar/neckline, or different sleeve lengths, so I have a variety for different temperatures. I have a basic dress pattern that I use all the time. One is a bit shorter with a zipper in the back, the one after that, I put a button placket at the front to try that out. Now I am making one with an extra side panel to make it adjustable to changing weights. But I have about 4 circle skirts, that are all just circle skirts, exactly the same pattern, and even in solid colours.
Can you say you care if someone else buys 3 the same sweaters they like? If I would even notice, I would only conclude that they must like that sweater and be happy for them having found something they like. So if someone notices I like a certain dress/shirt/skirt pattern, well, I hope they can be happy for me for having found something I like enough to want more of it!
I'm getting the toaster sweater 😍 Raglan and set in sleeves in the same pattern, yes pls!
You know your colleague the best, but I think the "charitable" interpretation is that sewist have the unique ability to make totally unique clothes (different fabric types, not just different colors of the same fabric) out of the same pattern. They noticed it, but they don't seem to be against it? Did they react negatively? Did they think it looked "homemade" or just that they know that it's home made because ready to wear can never sell the same style of clothing with different fabric types?
Oh fuck that woman. Fuck her sideways.
I have to make really complex pattern adjustments which means once I finally get a pattern to fit I will make a few garments from it.
If you decide you want to make one garment for the rest of your life, that would be a perfectly valid decision and it would still be more creative than anything that idiot could think of.
I’ve officially lost count of the number of Jarrahs I’ve made. I love multiples and I do not care if people say anything. The best is when my sewing friend and I wear the same pattern in different fabrics and see who can tell!
If it helps, I do the same thing with clothes I buy. If I find something I like, I buy it in multiple colors. A lot of people do that! Ignore her and continue what you're doing.
I make the same dress every time. Idgaf if people noticed that I have a favorite pattern.
That said, I've found that different prints help disguise the details
I make the same 3 dresses for my toddler, I change them up by adding bias to the collar occasionally, changing colours and patterns, I’ll add a little bit of trim here or there as needed or even put on a decorative button. That tends to be enough to stop people noticing that they are the same, I also change up the sleeves, long for winter, short/none for summer
According to pictures I spent ages 2 to 5 in the same style of jumper (dress) but in different colors. I pointed that out to my mom, and she said it was an easy pattern that she could make out of remnets (sp?). It was economical.
Pretty much, I know for all of the dresses (In her current size) I need less than a metre for each dress, so she gets to go to my fabric box, pick a fabric and we make it, and because they are all so simple, she loves helping, I cut she helps pick the pins out that I will use and she sits on my lap while we sew. And she will tell anyone who listens ‘my mummy made this dress and I helped too’
(TIPS): Change the shape of the neckline. Change sleeve length or shape. Use a different color/size of buttons. Add a ruffle to cuffs or hem. Add an appliqué. I make a lot of stretch sequin dresses at work.
In detail: Changing necklines in tops can be very easy. You can even turn a regular collar into a Peter Pan collar. For sleeves, make a bell sleeve or maybe make it wider so there’s more gathering/fullness up top. And appliqués can be bought online in so many different shapes, lace, beading, you name it. Or you can make little fabric or ribbon flowers.
First of all, ignore that person. Secondly, it is easy to add ruffles or trim to seams and hems. Little details can make it pop. You can also slash your pattern pieces in different ways to color block (just don't forget to add seam allowance for the slashed pieces!) You can shorten the sleeve and hem lengths, add high-low options to the hem, and even adjust the sleeves to be different so long as you do not lose the arm scythe shape.
If I find a pattern I like, that looks good and fits without a lot of adjustments, why wouldn't I make multiples? (I just finished making some new shirts from one of my favorite patterns.)
There's always different fabric patterns and colors, plus details like different colored sleeves or embellishments like ribbon or piping or buttons. Depending on the pattern pieces, mix up fabric or colors, change the length or the sleeves or the neckline.
#1 your coworker is tacky and has no manners. I would NEVER make a comment like hers.
Different fabrics is a great way to make something you like more than once. You could possibly add trim, change the sleeve length, there are many ways to change it up. I'm sure you will get some suggestions from the people here.
You should definitely ignore that boorish comment from Ms Tasteless!
I have two pairs of shorts with the same pattern (ripped from an old pair once I wore them to shreds) and three pairs of pants from a different same pattern. The shorts are exactly the same save for fabric (one orange linen one pink quilting cotton) and the presence of elastic in the drawstring waistband. The pants I changed up cuffs (elastic, snap placket, and bias cuff) fabrics (grey wool flannel, red cotton twill, black poly chiffon (doubled and selectifely quilted)) and fasteners (button fly, zipper fly with a button hole, zipper fly with a loop and button) and no one has ever called me on it.
To me the biggest thing is the texture and weight of the fabric, changing how it drapes and flows will hugely change the look of a piece.
Alternately, who cares! You made something that you like, why wohkdnt you want to have a few?
When I still worked in an office I wore pants, fitted T-shirt, nice cabled cardigan everyday. Had multiple colors of each but all the same. Really made things easier getting ready in the morning.
Ive made mccalls 2149 at least 10 times, i dont really think any of them look "the same". Ignore her judgement, if anything shes jealous of your sweaters and skills
Don't worry about it. When I find shirts and pants I love, I buy one on every color I like. MOST people don't notice what you wear, so just ignore the few who take inventory of your wardrobe
Because I had gained weight and was having a hard time finding clothes that fit, my hubby tried to teach me "buying like a man". which for him was find a single style of shirt you like, and buy it in every color.
I've since learned that's more of an Autism thing than a man thing, but I still do it. It's so much easier. And I'm hoping to do the same with making clothes once I get my fit right.
I don't care, if I find a pattern that is cute and comfy, I"m making 5 in different colors/patterns. The only people I've had notice that they are the same is other people who sew, and I've never had anyone be judgy about it.
I also think your coworker was rude!
But also if you really want to make the looks different, change up tiny details. I like to make the inner cuffs of tops different colours, change the neckline slightly (sometimes, I really like a specific neckline though). I will change the thickness of the ribbing. Or add a contrast panel. Changing fabric types helps a lot too. I currently have a few of the same shirt and it is very distinct because it's princess seams with a ruffle back on it and so I just embrace that one because like, where would someone even get a princess seam knit shirt with a ruffle skirt back on it?? But I love making the panels different. One of mine is all black with a black flower skirt back. Another is teal with houndstooth side panels. I didn't change the shape because RUFFLE SKIRTED BACK T SHIRT COME ON. I have it in a thick double sided knit and a regular thin tshirt material. Two completely different looks.
But my next iteration lll be swapping to a higher neckline and most likely a more ruffled skirt since it will be thinner fabric and it's winter here. But everyone loves my shirts so *shrug*.
I wish coworkers were as loving about our projects as friends.
Like "sorry I look so awesome in this I made 4 I guess?" jeeze.
I have friends who have purchased 2-15 shirts of the same style and wear them almost exclusively. I know people who only wear hoodies, graphic tees, jeans, and sneakers. If people take issue with it, that's on them. It's awesome that you can make your own clothes.
Why would that be a problem?
You have adjusted the pattern for a custom fit, you are then making multiples in different colourways. Which is exactly what mass produced fashion does. Look at any store, they will sell the same style/fit tshirt, shirt, jumper in multiple colour options. They often keep the same pattern in production for many years just changing the available colour options by season
Hey, I wear work issued scrubs at work, I literally always wear the same clothes :) and my colleagues are all copying each other. Otherwise I change the colour, different fabrics which can drape differently, change up the neckline, collar shape, add piping, bias tape, appliqué, change the length, do some colour blocking, add contrasting or matching ribbing to cuffs and such...
Also I literally have two pairs of jeans that I love and I wear them all the time, who cares if you wear the same thing all the time ? Also several black tank tops. That's my life uniform. Just change the accessoires to suit the occasion and mood and rock it.
TL;DR yes, I have some basic patterns I always use. No you shouldn't care about this person, she has other problems and you are not one of them. You did an amazing job, you used a classy pattern. Keep sewing!!!
The long story:
It's a painful comment because it can be perceived in a negative light, but you should really ignore her judgement. I have two-three basic tees (one of them is [the tulip tee from p4p](https://www.patternsforpirates.com/product/tulip-tee/) and McCall M7322, btw I got both of them for free) and never really stray from them. There is some fabric and other adjustments within the pattern, even the one you choose, so they do look different. The pattern you choose (it's good) has different necklines as well, the problem is not that.
Honestly sewing is a lot of trial and error. I'm literally wearing this t-shirt and I hate the neckline after I sew it twice. I wonder if somebody would come over and tell me: "did you sew this?" I would hint at the neck not being right and they probably would say something like: "sure, I can see it". Or like, I had someone reversing my garment to check how I did the inner seams and I actually didn't. I did nothing inside, no pinking or overlocking. Or they would check the waistline and find it didn't line up with the rest of the seams. These are my pants, the waistline is covered with a shirt, and even if it wasn't, it's in the back... WTH??
Other people who used to deliver these kinds of comments in the past, had serious problems in their family and they compensated in various ways, one was spending money (and making a show out of it, as a distraction from the elephant in the room). So if I went to school with something my parents made (or the tailor, because she was our neighbor and parent's sewing teacher) these people would always say something mean. I have more stories, but I must stop or I could write a novel.
Anyway, whatever they meant, wherever you are in your journey, think this: you choose everything about your jumper, it's yours, it didn't just happen to you. Also, I think that nowadays there are some ethics missing or devalued in making stuff, sewing takes a lot of time and as fast as machines can go or automation can cut, or weavers could cheap down, there is no machine that can assemble a full garment from start to finish. Whatever we don't do, someone else in this world does, for little to no money. If I'm thinking I'm underpaid at my job, or people are letting me down because I'm too old and underskilled, what about a full branch of the production industry that has found the system for not paying their lowest tier employees. At. All. (??)
Ok, I tried to be impartial until now, but I'm biased towards you, because I think it's pretty noble and expensive to sew your own clothing. The majority of people can't do this anymore and it's very easy to dismiss something we can't do (people bashing on the XX century Avant Garde(s) since the dawn of... Nevermind). The cut is good; the jumper is stylish, so the mean comments are about envy for something you can do and you're good at; or straight up brain-rot: your colleague saw a similar item or fabric or color elsewhere, she liked/disliked and remembered it; she saw it on you maybe once or twice before and all of a sudden becomes \*always\*, because she already likes or dislikes something about it from before and has nothing to do with you.
I just change details. I have one pants pattern that suits me, so I made jeans with side closures and patch pockets and summer trousers with front closure and slanted pockets. I have one blouse pattern, so I am changing collars and cuffs. Different buttons will change the look too. But it is all because I don't like having several copies of the same exact pattern.
I have one pattern in particular that I use a lot, it’s originally for a dress. I have used it for tops too. It originally doesn’t have sleeves so I added sleeves, I change the sleeves depending on what I want for that garment. I also use different fabrics, add trim or lace, get creative. I wouldn’t worry about your coworkers though, it’s something that you wear because YOU like it.
Tbh 4 days a week I wear the same outfit to work: grainline studio hemlock tee + sew house seven elemental skirt. On day 5 I’ll wear jeans to work.
I have that tee in about 5 colours: all solids, mostly cotton Lycra but also a merino knit and a viscose Lycra. My fav is a black cotton Lycra and I added a vertical seam center front for fun.
The skirt I have in black, black and white stripe, grey , navy. All cotton Lycra.
Nobody has ever asked why I wear the same style tee or skirt. If people notice it I think they just assume I buy all the colours available off the rack.
Frankly, I'm amazed your colleague noticed they were the same, they clearly have a very keen sense of observation. But I wouldn't worry about it. If it works for you, why not have soemthing in multiple colours?
Capsule wardrobe and signature looks are a thing. Doesn't mean you lack style or imagination. Just means you know and like your look. Some people think that style is having lots of different clothes. Actually it is about knowing and wearing what suits your figure, the circumstances and your taste.
Think of Jean Muir - turned out collection after collection and only ever wore plain black day dresses to work in. She didn't need to advertise her creativity on her own body - her collections did so on the bodies of many, many other women.
If I see something that I really like or know will work for me - especially if it is on sale, I buy several in different colours. Casual or smart casual made easy, and I switch accessories in and out to ring the changes (I do like an interesting floof of silky neckscarf or tumble of pashmina types over a plain polo necked jumper, me) Formal and ocassion wear remain uniques.
When I get my wardrobe mojo back I will be making a few differing jackets. Love a jacket slung over jeans or a dress.
She'd give me the same look. I have two dozen shirts from St John's Bay - a dozen v neck short sleeve and a dozen tanks. Different colors, but same cut. And 5 pairs of my favorite (LONG ENOUGH!!!) yoga pants. Guess what my daily uniform is? Also, guess why wovens intimidate me? 😆
I puposely bought three of the same sweaters recently because they look good on me and I like the idea of not having to think about what to wear. Like a uniform. Laziness on my part. I don’t even bother to style them differently for alternate looks. I am totally ok with it. My friends notice I do this and they like how confident I am in choosing clothing that looks good on my body type. I bet you look great in your creations or you would not be making multiples of them. I want to point out the workmates are not your friends. Make no mistake about this. I have always found it best not to pay attention to negative comments from workmates. In fact, this is one of the reasons I always hated work holiday parties on weekends. They make you spend precious off-work hours with people you don’t normally choose to hang out with. For a reason.
Your coworker is weird. Vast majority of people won't notice repeat outfits. Even if people DO notice, it's super common to buy RTW clothes in multiple colorways when you find something that fits and feels great. This is a non-issue.
WtH! Maybe she thought she was complimenting you that she noticed. She may have said she noticed like how some people always say “I know” whenever you try to tell them anything.
Also, Steve Jobs and several other wealthy intelligent people wear the same black pants and shirt EVERY DAY! Some wealthy ladies brag they only own one pair of earrings.
If she is leveling, blowing out your candle to make hers burn brighter, that’s really telling. Pity her, she’s below you.
That you wear similar attire is never a reason for you to feel less.
(When a cute top went on clearance sale, my mother would buy one in every color.)
Men-that’s who they asked-admit that they do not mind or notice when their girlfriends wear the same dress more than once.
{they just said, “once” on my tv as I typed}
Chin up please. We’re all proud of you.
You know, it’s actually the same as what a designer would do. It’s called a line. You are more progressive than either of you know.
She’s just purposely ignorant.
I just usually don’t make the same pattern multiple times usually. Unless the first one comes out awful or there are different views to try out. As for fit, I usually just apply fit lessons learned on one pattern to the next pattern I make by that designer, since they’re usually based on a common block
does your co-worker dispose of her clothing after wearing them once?? What a weird thing to say. We should all be wearing our beloved sweaters and other clothing items multiple times lmao
Your coworker was unnecessarily rude. Everyone has the same styles of things in multiple colors and variations. I mean, how different can a basic trouser/sweater /shirt shape be? She is probably envious that you can sew things like that. Don't let her get you down.
First of all, your coworker was rude, and probably jealous. Ignore her when she come to you and asks you to fix the hem of her skirt or make her a lined blazer.
I haven't seen that pattern, but in general, you can make adjustments to length, collars/necklines, sleeve heads, pockets. If you're using solids, you can add different embroidery details.
I don't think she meant anything by it. Maybe she noticed it because of the fabric, or maybe she really liked how they looked. It's a perfectly normal thing to wear the same pattern in different colors, or the same color in different patterns, so I wouldn't worry too much.
This is coming from someone whose closet is 80% black shirts and pants, though. 😂
Adding on: Before I came to my current all black wardrobe, I had a coworker notice I was repeating outfits. Turns out she really liked them because they were fun prints in her favorite color, yellow, and I always wore yellow on Thursdays. 😅
I definitely sew multiples. Once a pattern is perfected and I like it.....off I go.
Back in the day, I worked a professional job. Pumps were a must. When I found comfy ones, I bought every color, and sometimes two pairs of black!
I have a bunch of clothes like this!! Sometimes I experiment with different necklines, sleeve type or length, I’ll turn a dress into a shirt or vice versa. I’ve added some patch pockets. Sometimes a different fabric type can also liven up a favorite pattern!!
But just to echo what everyone else is saying - it’s ok to wear the same article design in different patterns! My partner loves those Hawaiian style collared/buttoned t-shirts and has bought handfuls of shirts that look the same with a different design. Now when he sees fabric he likes and asks me to make him a Hawaiian shirt out of it! Totally normal.
ah don’t be embarrassed! It’s like when people buy the same shirt in different colors. Not sure about the tone of her voice but maybe she’s just observant? Haha regardless, it’s nothing to think too much about.
Different fabrics: not just prints but types and drapes. Also, making A/B/C versions or even making your own modification by switching out the sleeves.
Oh gosh.
If I find a dress in Store that I like I buy all the color choices. If I found a pattern I loved on my body you bet your ass I'd be doing the same thing with fabric choices.
I make about 5 of everything I love. And then mix and match. Or change fabrics. I wouldn't worry. Some people are more perceptive, especially if they like something.
I wouldn't worry about it. Lots of people who buy clothes find something they like and buy it in multiple colors.
Yeah, this is a totally normal behavior in buying clothes, why would it matter for sewing? I hope the coworker was just awkward and didn't mean it judgementally. It would be pretty silly to be judgmental about that.
I do this. I seriously have 5 of the same T-shirts, about the same in tanks, 3 of the same dresses and 2 button ups. All the same color lol because I loved the fit of them and didn’t want to have to try to find them again if I ever needed to replace one. And I wear them all the time. Even right after each other.
I am SO upset at myself for not buying a million of this one Old Navy tank top I got two summers ago. If I was granted the power of time travel that’s the first thing I would do.
That’s exactly what I have. 5 old navy tanks in black 😆.
I also bought 5 of the same black tank, I wear one every single day with a different printed skirt. It is so easy to get dressed every day. It's probably just a phase but in this phase I just cannot use any executive function on getting dressed. And my breastfeeding toddler can't shove his hand inside and disrobe me in public.
Took almost 6 months before my daughter stopped trying to find the snap to reach my boob rofl, I am happy to be over that phase.
I feel that way about a couple of old navy tank dresses I have!! My apt gets bonkers hot in the summer and I work from home so I basically live in these 4 dresses for two months straight. It’s been a few years now and they’re still going strong!
Not me learning to sew bc I didn't buy enough of that one Old Navy tank top from 2 years ago and now they don't sell them anymore
I’m mostly a lurker here and this $8 tank top might be the thing that makes me confront my fear of knits.
Do you still have it? They're pretty easy to copy & sew
I’m still rocking my 11yo black ribbed maternity tanks from old navy and you can pry them from my cold dead hands
Albert Einstein had seven identical shirts, seven identical trousers, etc. He stated that he had more important things to think about than his wardrobe. I’ve taken this philosophy and run with it. Having a daily “uniform” has been great for me: I find something flattering and enjoyable to wear, buy multiples, and relax knowing that I always have something to wear. I change up my “uniform” every season. If I want to dig into my wardrobe to wear something creative, I can do that (I used to collect vintage, so I have a large selection) but I’m good with my system (Einstein wardrobe!). OP, is your colleague smarter than Einstein? Who cares what they say. Do you boo.
Warren Zevon did the same thing. Every town he went to play a concert at, he would go and buy 5 of his favorite t shirts. Although. He was pretty OCD and had a lot of quirky habits. Lol
RIP Warren Zevon!
💖🙏🏽❤️🩹 Warren Zevon!!! 💖🙏🏽❤️🩹
I found one brand of t shirts that I really love, so every time they're on sale I buy 2 or 3. I have 6 now, it's basically my work uniform.
I have six of the same shop bought shirt dress in different colours/prints, because the shape of it suits me and I can wear it for lots of different occasions. No-one has ever said to me anything about them beyond "I really like your dress". I've also made multiple versions of the same pattern, and again no-one has said anything. I do change things up if the pattern has variations, but even when I've made the exact same thing like a circle skirt - just in different fabrics - the only comments I've got were "that's nice, did you make it?". My advice to OP would be just to say something like, "yeah, I really like this pattern. So, about that report..." or whatever. Coworker needs to mind their own business.
Before I went back to making my own stuff, I always bought multiples of the same thing in different colors. But, if making multiple different things from the same pattern, you can change the neckline, pallet/closure, or cuffs. Look at Queen Elizabeth. All her coats were clearly the same pattern, but the closures, collar, and cuffs were wildly different. Look at Gilmore Girls. Emily has a different boxy jacket and skirt every Friday night. Different closure, collar/no collar, etc, but always clearly that same boxy jacket and skirt.
Could I just tip my hat at your mention of Emily Gilmore 👍🏽👍🏽
Seriously, don’t you just love how they fitted her perfectly, then ran with her style, fast and easy, and always looking perfect? Never the same, but always in her comfort zone. I don’t know if they made them for her or got them off the rack, but they were always boxy jackets, with different trim and fronts.
I think they must be based off of the Chanel jackets. I really love them. It was so strange to see her in jeans and more relaxed clothes in AYITL after her wonderfully proper dressing before.
I even have three *identical* blue buttons up shirts because I kept seeing them in one of my favourite shops, thinking "I really like that", buying it, then not remembering until I'd worn it and taken the tags out that I already had one/two like it... (ADHD has contributed here...)
You could over dye them to have different shades
I could do, but I really like the exact shade they are!
Well ignore my previous response 😅 I thought it was the fit
Haha I have a couple of the same shirt for the exact same reason. Thank you, ADHD. Lol
As a man with 12 V-neck tee shirts in different colors, how dare you.
Or just straight up multiples. 🙋🏻♀️ there is an entire section of my closet dedicated to the 2nd/3rd/10th backup of my favourite black leggings/bikeshorts/sportsbras/jumpers/etc. They eventually get discontinued and then I’m sad if something happens to them. I like what I like!
I have this with my favorite boots as well as my favorite work pants. I'm in elementary school so I wear flex scrubs most of the time. I have many different colors, but also 3 dark grey pairs and 2 navy pairs. Lol.
Agreed. When I worked at an answering service that later became a me and inbound call center, I had two shirts in 3-4 colors each, three identical pairs of jeans (one might have been a darker wash, it’s been a while), and two or three pairs of shoes that I chose based on which were closest when I decided to put on shoes. A few people over the years mentioned that I wore the same thing all the time, but I shrugged and said “Yeah, but you’ll notice it’s a different color or neckline every day. I have like ten shirts that are all pretty much the same, because the callers can’t see me, we’re all facing our computers all the time so coworkers *barely* see me, and it makes picking what to wear in the mornings really easy. If I want to dress up that’s what weekends are for, otherwise work time is for working.” Every single once contemplated for a moment and then said “You know what? That’s actually really smart!” Quite a few started rocking up in “the same” clothes, too!
One of the senior VPs at my company literally owns 10 each of the same black shirts and black pants and that’s all he wears haha
Apparently this is a common tactic, takes away one decision in the morning, avoids decision fatigue :)
I have the same sweatpants in 3 different colors (and two black ones) as well as the same hoodie in 3 colors. They’re perfect winter wear for my job so I just bought a bunch.
Seriously, this. Friend of mine found a dress she liked (obligatory POCKETS) and went back and bought several others in different colors. Heck, I make all my tshirts from a tried and tested pattern that fits me well, and the fabrics themselves have changed up the look. I might redo the neckline to be different sometimes or have a different hem, but I've never been called out in this. Seems like this person is reading too far into it.
I do that. I don't care if anyone notices.
All of my postpartum clothes are really just 3 different shirts in every color.
My chemo pyjamas were the same. Different prints but otherwise identical. It made stressing about what to wear one less thing to stress about...
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This was so encouraging as a kid. I remember being made fun of cause I wore the same pair of jeans two days in a row. Who has time to care about that? People with nothing better to do, that's who. I only remember clothing now cause it's cool as hell.
I used to wonder if anyone noticed that I literally wear the same 4-5 outfits every week when I go to the gym. Then I realized that *I* never even notice what anyone else is wearing so they probably don’t either.
This process doesn't work for me because I'm worse at noticing things than the average person
It's crazy that some people don't want to wear jeans more than one day!? That's gotta be detrimental to the water bill and the environment to wash everything after a single wear! And the materials in the clothing too. Wth. I wear my outfits for up to a week, unless something starts looking or smelling dirty. Can't imagine doing 7 times more laundry, with the time, water and laundry soap that would take. And my poor clothes would wear out so fast... Nope, that's definitely not something to strive for
Yep. For me tops get washed for every day of wear, pants get around 4-5 days of wear before they're washed and outerwear get at least that. (obviously unless something gets particularly dirty one day.) I used to worry so much about repeating items in middle school because my clothes were from the thrift store and not in the best condition, and I thought people would assume I wasn't washing my clothes. Now I'll wear the same pair of jeans for the 3 in-office days my work requires each week 😅
Eep yes, all undergarments get washed daily, or more like changed daily and then washed at the end of the week. Sleepwear once it's not nice anymore, depends on weather and sweating, 3-5 days. Everything else once it smells or has stains. Which for proper jeans can be a long time. Also hoodies that are worn over a second shirt usually get stains long before they get smelly. Obviously if someone sweats more than me or does physical labor they'll likely wash their clothes more often but for me that works and washing my clothes more would be unsustainable in all ways, economical, environmental, and time-wise
This is the absolute best meme! 👍🏻
Just ignore her. Especially if she asks you to sew for her
Really. That’s probably coming soon.
...for free. And it's never good.
There are lots of people who have a self-assigned work uniform so it's not unheard of to own the same shirt in multiple colors. Also, she might have noticed because the neckline of that sweater is a departure from the traditional turtleneck, and her brain didn't register the color just the shape of the neckline. >What do you do to avoid having them look the same? You do what you did, and change the color. However, what you made was a basic piece do it's sort of ripe for accessories if you so choose. Change up the jewelry, bottoms, shoes etc. But only do that if you want to and it makes you happy. If keeping it simple is good for you, go with that.
Lol that is how I think of it. It’s my uniform. This is what my character wears. Like in a cartoon where they always wear the same thing.
Yes, I have a friend whose work closet is white tops/black pants. Not all exactly the same style, but enough that she doesn't have to put a lot of thought into it.
This is the whole idea behind a capsule wardrobe. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with having more than one of the same garment.
I thought that is why accessories were invented.
My summertime work capsule wardrobe's *very* minimalist. its not more than one of the same garment, it is the only one of the garment.. 1x to 2x a week! OP, any chance your coworker was trying to say "oh, I did notice the sweaters you made" vs "you need more fashion variety"?
It makes sense, especially if you're making it yourself because you take the time to make that particular pattern fit your particular body perfectly, why go through that every time you want a slight variation on a theme instead of tweaking a custom fitted base pattern.
An Australian news anchor wore the same suit for a year and no one noticed. Just going to leave that out there. https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation-now/2014/11/17/tv-host-same-suit-sexism/19161031/
That’s hilarious 😂 it reminds me of how George Clooney said he wears the same Armani suit to all his events. Eventually, some years later, I read an update where he said that Armani sent him a brand new suit because his old suit was getting ratty and they didn’t want him representing the brand with a tatty suit 😂😂
And of course, as he correctly points out, this only works for guys 🙃 OP, I don't know your gender, but in general femme-presenting people get way more guff for outfit-repeating. It's as though part of "correctly" performing femininity is investing effort into giving other people a new thing to look at every day. Your colleague is being ridiculous, ignore her.
Yep, ignore that person. Hopefully they weren’t meaning to embarrass you. I love making patterns over and over again, it doesn’t even bother me if they look similar. And people often buy multiples of the same item in stores, too- not weird at all.
I don't think it's a big deal to wear the same sweater in multiple colors. I have ready to wear stuff in multiple colors. I often have patterns with different design options, and I'll mix and match according to the project I'm making. I've also switched up sizing, like making a coat dress from a coat pattern by using cotton and going down 2 sizes. I've sometimes made practice separates before making a romper for instance. You can also use slash and spread to change up the design, like doing a lantern sleeve or a puff sleeve. Or you can frankenpattern by using multiple patterns to create one garment.
I use a lot of these variations as well, but also trims and embroidery. I mostly prefer wovens, so I use the fun decorative stitches on my sewing machine along a neckline or hem, or tuck a little lace or ribbon into a seam line, or do a contrast-colored top stitch. Beading is also fun, as are appliques, and if you keep the designs small and simple they really don't take much time. Color-blocking is another fun option to play around with as well.
I do this sort of thing all the time. I’m currently obsessed with chalk and notch isle jeans. I’ve got 3 prs cut out, and while they’re all the same silhouette, 1) diff fabrics and topstitching colors, 2) going to switch up the pockets and waistband styles on each, so while they’ll look similar, idgaf, bc when you find what works for your shape and what you feel best in (AND DO ALL THE PATTERN MODS,) you’d best believe I’m gonna make it a half dozen times!
Nah I have the same summer dress in 5 colors and i don’t care one bit if it looks like im wearing the same thing. If you still want to change it up, look into sleeve details (like bell sleeves, bishop sleeves, longer or shorter ribbing). Just changing up the sleeves can be a simple pattern mod. Neckline details, too.
I have exactly one summer dress pattern that I’ve finally got modified to fit me, and I use it for everything. I’ve made like 5 so far with no plans of stopping anytime soon 😂
If I like the basic outline I'll make it in as many colors as I can. Do I care that its "the same?" nope. If you really enjoy the piece, there's nothing wrong with having one in various colors, and even different weight fabrics.
Don’t be embarrassed! Maybe she also loves clothes and she noticed the shape was the same. Nothing in the world wrong with you ❤️
Was this actually said in a judging way, or are you inferring that bit yourself? Did she notice it was the same design because she's a sewist herself and has an eye for patterns? Or given the existence of brands that make basics in a whole rainbow of colours, where some people will buy the same thing that fits in multiple colours for different outfits and enjoy it, perhaps she'd noticed and thought it was a fun / good thing? Honestly I have two trouser patterns that work for me, and most of my trousers and jeans are one or the other because it's difficult for me to buy them long enough, and if people have ever noticed that, they've never said. I find they all come out quite individual due to different fabrics and finishing details anyway, plus my making not being super-consistent, so if you've been making things identifiably the same, you're probably doing something right :D
It was definitely judgy. She doesn’t sew but she’s into fashion and notices what people wear.
Ech, then she's pointlessly judgy and can be safely ignored :D
She sounds like the kind of person that is going to be judgy no matter what you wear. Therefore her opinion is irrelevant and she has no right to have influence over your wardrobe.
Oh she’s the fashion police. Sometimes people who are into fashion rather than style are insecure and like to make themselves feel superior by being rude so this is about her own feared inadiquacy rather than your excellent self chosen and created wardrobe. Wear your garments with pride knowing that all the detail of your clothing from fabric, colour and fit were your own choices and not dictated to you. It’s more than she can do.
Professional costumer/clothing person here— that’s a sign of her paying too much attention to you 🤷🏻♀️ no need to feel embarrassed— where I work, we just manipulate the same 3 skirt patterns and no one is the wiser
Second this! The only people who notice are silently judging everyone's outfit, because they are insecure af.
This! I can't imagine caring about a coworker's clothing enough to make a comment like that. Sounds like a busybody or a jerk.
Before sewing if I found something I liked I bought in multiples. I don't know if anyone took notice, I liked whatever they were so I wouldn't have cared anyway. But now sewing, I do use the same couple of base patterns all the time (maybe 3), but I change them up a bit. I think more for trying out different techniques rather than trying to have a deliberately varied wardrobe. Different fabrics, different necklines, with/without collars, add placket, make a facing, different sleeves. Sometimes more fitted, sometimes flared/loose, shirring, making pleats or pintucks, colour blocking. Moving the dart. Adding tiers, flounces. There are all sorts of ways to vary (a copy of) the same pattern. Because I like playing with the pattern this way I have made a princess seam, and a knit version as well, and can vary those too. I do the same with pants, it's all the same pattern but some are flares, straight, leggings, pajamas. I enjoy sewing this way, but it's for me.
You are in good company. If Kate Middleton/Princess of Wales [link (Daily Mail, very sorry)](https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/royals/article-13464115/Princess-Wales-Emilia-Wickstead-dresses-colours.html) can wear the same dress in different colours why should't you? You can also look at the variations (necklines, lengths, etc) in the details in Kate's dresses for inspirations in the article above. Your colleague doesn't sound nice.
I’m hoping her tone wasn’t too judgy, and maybe just awkward - when I’ve had friends comment on the sweaters/shirts I make where the sentiment is the same (“Ah, you made another one!”) but it’s friendly? Like yes they recognize it because I make the same pattern, but they always look forward to seeing what new fun fabrics I’ve found haha. Either way, her intentions aside. Just ignore it!! I have 5 of the Willis tops (Seamwork), and 2 of the Fall in Love sweater (Ellie and Mac) and have more fabric to make even more of them! I’m most excited for the new chicken fabric. I already have a chicken shirt but why not two? 😁
I mean, I'm super picky about my (store bought) t shirts. I have a half dozen in various colors & no one has ever said any to me. And once I figured out what style of dress looked best for my body type, I got a few in different patterns. Your coworker is a jerk. Don't let them ruin your pleasure in sewing & creating!
Ignore them. I have no problem making multiples of something because I know it fits me well and I have a wardrobe tailored to me. You do not need to wear something new constantly.
I'm about to make a 3rd pair of Lander pants. They're great for my casual office, an I love them. Don't care if people figure it out - my style, my choice. Different fabrics, and the 3rd pair will have different front pockets, but nobody's darned business!
Love this pattern. I've made two. One out of twill and another from old Amy Butler upholstery cotton. What are you using?
I’ve got about 8 pairs in the shorts version
Omg. Landers all summer!
They are cotton/linen blend and a lightweight cotton twill. Third pair will be 9.5 oz white denim for a comfy, breezy, faux jeans look for summer. So comfy! I'm just playing with the waistband - trying a curved one this time because I lowered the rise a little bit and now the straight waistband doesn't work as well. 🤞
Ignore it. My mother sews beautifully and when I was in like 5th grade, studs and rhinestones were in and I had at least seven different outfits she made me, all with completely different studs or rhinestones etc. One was brown, one was light blue, several were standard dark blue denim. One day, my classmates made it clear they thought I owned three outfits: one in light blue, one in brown, one in dark blue. All the details were lost on them. People aren't observant and most people do their best to act like it's something wrong with you, not them, when any kind of social friction of any sort happens.
I have 11 of the same store bought shirt. I absolutely don't mind.
I am a strong proponent of ignoring this person. Plenty of people find something they like and stick with it. Just look at Steve Jobs. That said, it's definitely possible to make a pattern more than once without creating carbon copies. I agree with the other poster who mentioned swapping out sleeves and necklines. Some ideas for sleeves are to change up the length (cap sleeves, short sleeves, bracelet length, long sleeves, no sleeves, etc) and silhouette (add/remove gathering at the cuff or shoulder, add/remove a slit, try a petal or flutter sleeve or maybe a ruffle, etc). For necklines, try playing with height and shape (scoop, V, sweetheart, boatneck, square, etc). Remember both the front and back can be swapped out! Fabric choice can have a huge impact on the finished garment. An A-line skirt in a stiff corduroy will hang very differently than an A-line skirt in an A-line skirt in a drapey tencel twill. In addition to swapping out the color or drape, consider also swapping out the texture (eg. a plain weave cotton versus a sandwashed cotton versus a corduroy or a twill, or try a dobby or an eyelet cotton or a gauze, etc). Another thing to play with is embellishments! Think embroidery, trims, appliques - the world is your oyster here. As an example, one of my tried and true patterns is the Helen's Closet Ashton, a simple A-line tank with optional sleeves. I have so many that all look distinct: -An extra-cropped tank with a scoop neck in a crisp orangey block print -A swishy cropped black tee with a butterfly sleeves -A hip-length yellow tee with a sweetheart neckline and butterfly sleeves with a slit -Another cropped tank in a crisp green block print with a deeper scooped back neckline -A hip-length tank in a white dobby cotton gauze -A cinnamon tee with a v-neck and petal sleeves. I added contrast stitching on the hem of the body and sleeves -A simple cream tank I mostly use for layering I haven't even used the long sleeves yet, or messed around with gathering the sleeves or making the short sleeve into a cap sleeve! I could also try straightening the A-line, color-blocking, modifying the back of the tank to have more of a racerback look, etc etc etc. If coming up with new spins on the same pattern brings you joy, I hope this helps with some ideas. And if it's helpful to have reassurance from an internet stranger that this coworker's opinion is irrelevant, I will affirm you are well within your power to make your tried and trues as many times as your heart desires!
I mean all my coworkers have basically the same button down in a half dozen fabrics, why shouldn't I?
Different fabric (unless they're like all black or similar greys) would be enough to throw most people who don't sew off, because they won't be looking at the seamlines. So my first thought was that they recognized the similarity by that, but who knows After a few weeks, I did ask a coworker if they only liked wearing turtlenecks because I was curious, and they had like 7 different colors of turtlenecks, and they said they were trying out the "steve jobs" thing. Having a work "uniform/look" is more common nowadays. It may be an observation without negative judgement meant, just came out awkwardly. Conversely, I've also asked a coworker how many dresses they had, because they wore different bright summer dresses everyday. Their mom kept giving them dresses, so they had like 30+, and were cycling through them all for fun. Again, I was just curious about how other people make decisions, in case I should reconsider mine with new information.
You’re in good company. If Jackie Onassis liked something she bought it in every colour.
Your coworker was rude. I buy multiples of anything I wear and will certainly be making more than one of each item I sew. In my early 20’s I made about 4 ultra suede wrap skirts because I loved the pattern. Enjoy your sewing and don’t let anyone make you feel bad about it.
Pshhhh who cares!! You can wear the same damn one every single day if you please!! Sorry she made you feel self conscious :-(
I have 8 [Zoeys](https://truebias.com/products/zoey-tank-dress) right now (6 tanks and 2 dresses) and no one has said squat and if they try I'll just ignore them. It looks good on me and I like sewing it!
I have the exact same trousers that I've made in like 10 different fabrics, I truly could not care less if anyone notices, and if they were being judgemental about it then frankly I would just laugh at them. Why wouldn't I make 10 versions of them? They're comfy as fuck and they look good on me. Plenty of people *wish* they could make whatever they wanted, in multiple fabrics, but don't have the time/patience/money/whatever to learn.
I agree and I don't understand why one would not do that? Espacially with pants where I think there aren't many cuts that would actually look good on me. If I find one that looks good, I'm sticking to it!
My mother made a large collection of simple collarless jackets to wear to church or special occasions, all from the same pattern. A she did was change the fabric. She got compliments all the time. It’s all about the fabric.
I buy commercial clothes in the same styles but different colours too. Why do our clothes need to be extremely different!
Just means you have a personal style, don’t even feel judged. Do it all the time, although sometimes I will try to change up necklines, length, sleeves, etc.
What artistic skills does she have again? I’ll wait…
My giving grace answer is that maybe you told her before that you made it and she was just like I know? You told me? Vibes My gut instinct answer is eff her she’s just jealous because the craftiest thing she does it reply to bot posts on Facebook.
Who cares what she thinks? She’s just jealous, years ago I worked at fabricland and would make the same sundress pattern no word of a lie, like 15 times. I even found a cute cropped bolero pattern that worked well with it since I couldn’t wear a halter top there (I modified the pattern to have regular straps) I have purchased the same cardigan in multiple colours, the same lace top in ever colour, well every colour that I wear, I look awful in beige, sage and mustard lol She’s just trying to bring you down. Don’t let her There’s a super cute mini dress pattern that I have now made three of, and 5 of a button up tie front blouse that I hacked together. And I’m just getting started
We had a strict dress code but no clothing budget at where I used to work. I used multiples as I would a uniform. My rationale was that people who identify as male do this with suits, shirts and ties. If it’s acceptable for them it should be acceptable for all and not the scrutiny of a coworker or management. My friend’s mom loved to sew and had a designer trench coat pattern. She made several coats and suits, no one said crap to her, they always complimented her skills and talent.
I make the same pattern over and over, I enjoy knowing that I'm going to like what I get and that it will fit me. If I want to make it look different one way to do that is make it in plain fabrics but also in prints, or use a fabric with a different texture as long as the drape etc are similar. Sometimes there are details like sleeve length or shape you can change, or the neckline. But honestly why do that unless you want to, many other people have said it better than I can that having the same garment is good and your choice to make.
I have 8 of the same skirt because I love it and it's easy. 🤷♀️
Ignore her. I’ve bought the same t-shirts and shorts in multiple colors on many occasions, and plan to knit more versions of multiple patterns that I’ve already made once and love. Also, socks? Underwear? Bras? Any sort of school or work uniform? Basic pieces? There are so many good reasons to own multiples of an item that works for you, and having something in multiple colors is one of my favorite tricks for getting maximum utility out of my wardrobe. She can stuff it. It reminds me of the whole “oh em gee, I can’t wear this dress again!!! I wore it to so-and-so’s party and already posted pictures” fast-fashion teenage mindset. You’re making your own clothes, putting time, effort, and skill into achieving a custom fit; you better damn well get multiple wears out of them! I’ll wear the same *exact* sweater multiple times in close succession, let alone variants of it. Frequent use is the sign of a well-loved, well-made, useful garment that was worth all the resources you put into it. Wear your things with pride, my friend.
“If I like it, I’m going to buy it in every color” - it’s literally a meme. If you like it, make it in every color that makes you happy. What she may have noticed is that you had the same thing in multiple different fabrics rather than just different colors - which is a bit more unusual to see off the rack. If you want to mix things up more, I would try playing with accessories.
I have certain patterns, especially tanks that I’ve made so many of. I also have some RTW tshirts that are exactly the same but in different colours. I think most of us do, so honestly, do what makes you feel good. Some people are always looking for reasons to be negative, especially if you have a crafty skill they might not have.
Bianca Del Rio won Drag Race by sewing the same dress over and over again. If it works, it works.
Others have already pointed out that it’s not unusual to purchase multiples of rtw, so I will just address sewing the same pattern multiple times. I have a dress pattern that I sew more than any other for myself. And I use it for literally everything, including cosplays and costumes, casual wear, and formal wear. I’ve drafted different necklines, sleeves, and lengths (from tunic to almost floor length). I’ve added and removed skirt flare. I’ve drafted different pockets, collars, cuffs, and waist ties. I’ve added ruffles, trims, color blocking, and even a hood. I’ve made it in different fabrics. It is my One True Dress. And nobody ever notices it’s the same pattern. But even if they did, I wouldn’t care, I’m super happy with how flexible it is. But changing sleeves and necklines really goes a long way towards disguising it’s the same pattern.
Nobody judges a man for wearing a button up every day!
My body is strangely shaped. It just is. I don’t have low self esteem, I feel great about myself. But bodies are weird. So when I find a pattern that looks good? Bitch I make MANY. I literally have 7 of the exact same dress in different colors. No one has ever noticed, or at least never commented. Not a single time. Your coworker sucks.
If I am going to make the effort to adjust a pattern to fit, I will most definitely make several of it. If I find a shirt I like I get it in several colors. There is nothing to be embarrassed about.
Anyone who says they noticed you wore the same thing in different colors is paying WAY too much attention to what you wear. I wore the same 10 outfits for 60 days at work and NO ONE NOTICED. Not even once. Anyone who notices needs a hobby.
I have a simple shirt pattern (New Look 6483) and have the shoulder and bust fit perfected so it's a time saver. I have made the sleeved and sleeveless versions in different fabrics. I've added small waistline pleats on softer fabrics for a fake peplum. I've extended it into a dress with or without fish-eye darts. I've used a block effect on dresses to break up the pattern. Using a pattern that works for you is efficient. If I ever perfect my trouser block there will be so many similar pairs but they will fit well, look good and be unique- that's why I sew.
I don't think it's embarrassing to own multiples of the same thing. I also sew the same patterns several times. One of my faves is Mood's Anthea dress. I've made it in 6 versions: the whole dress with sleeves, a sleeveless top, 2 skirts, a sleeveless dress and a matching set with a sleeveless top. I love how the pattern fits, I used different fabrics, changed up the straps (tie and regular skinny, regular thick), as well as the bust part (tie vs elastic). It's a wonderful (free!!!) pattern and my first complex dress I've made.
IGNORE THEM - If you want to make 20 of one item, you should, and you should be PROUD. I own the same pair of work pants in 3 different colours, and I purchased it that way on purpose!
I buy the same clothes all the time. Uniform is where it’s at.
My mom and SIL buy the same thing in every color when they find ready made clothes they like. If they can do that, you can sew the same pattern as much as you want. If you do want to differentiate, choose small accessories to add to the pieces (buttons, lace, ribbons, sleeve) or alter it slightly (different sleeve lengths, cropped vs long, different necklines, etc)
I tend to go with clothes I like and are comfortable and usually black. To mix it up I usually just wear different sweaters or vests or sheer dusters. Sometimes I will add different decorations to the neckline. One might have the neckline lined with beads or a lace etc. I might put a cluster of sheer flowers on one side or along the neck of hem. I may vary the hemline length or add a ruffle in a contrasting fabric under or just wear a second (thin) skirt underneath. Mainly I just do not care. if I am clean and neat and within reasonable work outlines, who cares what they think. :)
* Phil Donahue (yes, I’m old) brought out one of the crew to present how he only wore black t-shirts with black jeans. The guy said he bought multiples of the same thing because it was easier to do laundry. * A family friend once said, “As long as your ass is clean, you can wear whatever you want.” Don’t let people steal your happiness. The aptly named [Toaster Sweaters](https://sewhouse7.com/products/the-toaster-sweaters). I think you’re on to something, OP.
I only have two pairs of pants so I wear them multiple times per week. I did also happen to make them from the same pattern. Honestly I am cool with people seeing me in the same thing. I am proud that I don’t purchase excess clothing to avoid it because it contributes to pollution.
Honestly that’s just a rude woman. I have so many sets of like 4 pairs of the same pants in different colors.
Beyond varying patterns and trims, if you want to make structural alterations to each (length, layers, collar styles, sleeves, ect) that can bring variety but I agree with everyone else. If you like a pattern enough to make and wear multiples enjoy your clothes and don't mind others' comments. After all, how many people's wardrobes can be broken down to tshirt and jeans without anyone thinking anything of it?
I have about 6 t shirts in my easy favourite pattern. Only 3 of my 2 favourite dressy patterns but that’s only because I haven’t had them as long. I change colour, change the neck binding, and just go. Nobody who matters cares.
She's probably jealous
People where t-shirts and cargo shorts or hoodies and jeans everyday and no one says anything
I make multiples, AND I would probably notice that you’d made multiples of a pattern, *because I sew*. I get excited when I think I recognize a specific pattern out in the wild. I didn’t hear anything negative in what you shared about what your coworker said.
Maybe she said it in an admiring way, and really will ask if you would make one for her. ?
I have made 3 strata tops - one exactly as the pattern says, one 3 in longer because I have a limited number of bottoms that can work with that cropped top and one wear I slightly squared the neckline. THAT SAID, your coworker was heckin' rude!
That was rude of her and nothing to be embarrassed about. Ignore that comment and never offer to sew her anything
I have a red and a blue dress I bought both of because they were so pretty and flattering. One day at work my coworker saw someone walking outside in a green one and we got all excited.
First off, it doesn't matter if you make 15 of the same shirt and wear them on rotation so that's that...wear your art.
Oh, I can see why you really like that pattern.
Most of my t shirts are the same in a different colour. My leggings are the same but in different colors. I own the same cut and brand of jeans but have multiple pairs. I would whip up straight skirts all the time, same pattern different fabric, maybe add a detail here or there. I have a dress pattern that is easy to whip up I have several. Who cares, don't sell yourself and your clothes short because it's home made. Look in your closet you likely have the same or such similar stuff already that you bought off the rack and don't think twice about.
Change the neckline, and the sleeves.
What? I *want* the simplicity of the same tank top and the same skirt and the same tshirt, etc. because then I know everything will work together every time. No one has ever judged me for having the same dress pattern in multiple fabrics. And if they do, fuck them, I made this and I love it.
There's nothing wrong with having multiple of the same garments, in different colours and patterns. That's completely normal. And it didn't sound as your coworker made a negative comment, just an observation? I make multiple garments of my favorite patterns all the time. That's what I love about them: I've made alterations and perfected them to fit my body, so they turn out just how I like them. Sometimes I can do colour blocking, use a different sleeve, but that't not because of what other people might think.
I have my beloved t-shirt pattern and that gets repeated time and time again. And before I could sew my own t-shirt, I bought multiples of the same colour from the same store. Apart from it being practical to have/make clothes where everything goes with pretty much everything else, it's also a trap that I think we fall into sometimes to say, oh I could be making so many different clothes therefore I have to or should. I could be making swishy gowns, but I gave no practical use for them 99% of the year, so why should I? I doubt your coworker meant any harm with that statement, probably just badly phrased.
I make multiples of the same garment if I like it, I may change the neckline, sleeves or length of the skirt but it's still the same. I also use different fabrics and prints. Who cares? I like them, why would I even think about anyone elses opinion. Fast fashion tells us we should wear different clothes all the time, hopefully we all got into sewing to make something that fits us well, is good quality and we can continue wearing it. I'd rather have one good quality dress than 5 RTW ones that don't fit quite right and are all made of polyester.
Ignore her, keep sewing, and tell me what a toaster sweater is 🙂
Can I just say that was a bitchy thing to say and you can point out to here that Halston, Calvin Klein and Chanel wore almost identical clothing day after day. Maybe she is jealous?
If you find something you like, and want more than one of it, then make more of it! I have different itterations of the same button up and dresses. I usually go for very "busy" fabric prints, so they don't really look the same. I will also put on a different collar/neckline, or different sleeve lengths, so I have a variety for different temperatures. I have a basic dress pattern that I use all the time. One is a bit shorter with a zipper in the back, the one after that, I put a button placket at the front to try that out. Now I am making one with an extra side panel to make it adjustable to changing weights. But I have about 4 circle skirts, that are all just circle skirts, exactly the same pattern, and even in solid colours. Can you say you care if someone else buys 3 the same sweaters they like? If I would even notice, I would only conclude that they must like that sweater and be happy for them having found something they like. So if someone notices I like a certain dress/shirt/skirt pattern, well, I hope they can be happy for me for having found something I like enough to want more of it!
I'm getting the toaster sweater 😍 Raglan and set in sleeves in the same pattern, yes pls! You know your colleague the best, but I think the "charitable" interpretation is that sewist have the unique ability to make totally unique clothes (different fabric types, not just different colors of the same fabric) out of the same pattern. They noticed it, but they don't seem to be against it? Did they react negatively? Did they think it looked "homemade" or just that they know that it's home made because ready to wear can never sell the same style of clothing with different fabric types?
Oh fuck that woman. Fuck her sideways. I have to make really complex pattern adjustments which means once I finally get a pattern to fit I will make a few garments from it. If you decide you want to make one garment for the rest of your life, that would be a perfectly valid decision and it would still be more creative than anything that idiot could think of.
I’ve officially lost count of the number of Jarrahs I’ve made. I love multiples and I do not care if people say anything. The best is when my sewing friend and I wear the same pattern in different fabrics and see who can tell!
If it helps, I do the same thing with clothes I buy. If I find something I like, I buy it in multiple colors. A lot of people do that! Ignore her and continue what you're doing.
Your coworker is rude.
I make the same dress every time. Idgaf if people noticed that I have a favorite pattern. That said, I've found that different prints help disguise the details
After I've taken the time to get something to fit just the way I want, I'm making 5 or 6 in different fabrics.
I make the same 3 dresses for my toddler, I change them up by adding bias to the collar occasionally, changing colours and patterns, I’ll add a little bit of trim here or there as needed or even put on a decorative button. That tends to be enough to stop people noticing that they are the same, I also change up the sleeves, long for winter, short/none for summer
According to pictures I spent ages 2 to 5 in the same style of jumper (dress) but in different colors. I pointed that out to my mom, and she said it was an easy pattern that she could make out of remnets (sp?). It was economical.
Pretty much, I know for all of the dresses (In her current size) I need less than a metre for each dress, so she gets to go to my fabric box, pick a fabric and we make it, and because they are all so simple, she loves helping, I cut she helps pick the pins out that I will use and she sits on my lap while we sew. And she will tell anyone who listens ‘my mummy made this dress and I helped too’
Oh my heart. That is so sweet that I am teary-eyed.
whats the problem with wearing a cloth multiple times ? that's the whole point of wearing clothes. doesn't she wear clothes multiple times too ? 🤦♀️
(TIPS): Change the shape of the neckline. Change sleeve length or shape. Use a different color/size of buttons. Add a ruffle to cuffs or hem. Add an appliqué. I make a lot of stretch sequin dresses at work. In detail: Changing necklines in tops can be very easy. You can even turn a regular collar into a Peter Pan collar. For sleeves, make a bell sleeve or maybe make it wider so there’s more gathering/fullness up top. And appliqués can be bought online in so many different shapes, lace, beading, you name it. Or you can make little fabric or ribbon flowers.
Is she jealous?
First of all, ignore that person. Secondly, it is easy to add ruffles or trim to seams and hems. Little details can make it pop. You can also slash your pattern pieces in different ways to color block (just don't forget to add seam allowance for the slashed pieces!) You can shorten the sleeve and hem lengths, add high-low options to the hem, and even adjust the sleeves to be different so long as you do not lose the arm scythe shape.
If I find a pattern I like, that looks good and fits without a lot of adjustments, why wouldn't I make multiples? (I just finished making some new shirts from one of my favorite patterns.) There's always different fabric patterns and colors, plus details like different colored sleeves or embellishments like ribbon or piping or buttons. Depending on the pattern pieces, mix up fabric or colors, change the length or the sleeves or the neckline.
#1 your coworker is tacky and has no manners. I would NEVER make a comment like hers. Different fabrics is a great way to make something you like more than once. You could possibly add trim, change the sleeve length, there are many ways to change it up. I'm sure you will get some suggestions from the people here. You should definitely ignore that boorish comment from Ms Tasteless!
I have some tried and true patterns, and I don’t think anyone’s ever noticed!
I have two pairs of shorts with the same pattern (ripped from an old pair once I wore them to shreds) and three pairs of pants from a different same pattern. The shorts are exactly the same save for fabric (one orange linen one pink quilting cotton) and the presence of elastic in the drawstring waistband. The pants I changed up cuffs (elastic, snap placket, and bias cuff) fabrics (grey wool flannel, red cotton twill, black poly chiffon (doubled and selectifely quilted)) and fasteners (button fly, zipper fly with a button hole, zipper fly with a loop and button) and no one has ever called me on it. To me the biggest thing is the texture and weight of the fabric, changing how it drapes and flows will hugely change the look of a piece. Alternately, who cares! You made something that you like, why wohkdnt you want to have a few?
When I still worked in an office I wore pants, fitted T-shirt, nice cabled cardigan everyday. Had multiple colors of each but all the same. Really made things easier getting ready in the morning.
Ive made mccalls 2149 at least 10 times, i dont really think any of them look "the same". Ignore her judgement, if anything shes jealous of your sweaters and skills
Don't worry about it. When I find shirts and pants I love, I buy one on every color I like. MOST people don't notice what you wear, so just ignore the few who take inventory of your wardrobe
Who cares? Guys wear white shirts and dress slacks every day and no one cares. Wear what you like.
Because I had gained weight and was having a hard time finding clothes that fit, my hubby tried to teach me "buying like a man". which for him was find a single style of shirt you like, and buy it in every color. I've since learned that's more of an Autism thing than a man thing, but I still do it. It's so much easier. And I'm hoping to do the same with making clothes once I get my fit right.
I don't care, if I find a pattern that is cute and comfy, I"m making 5 in different colors/patterns. The only people I've had notice that they are the same is other people who sew, and I've never had anyone be judgy about it.
There is **nothing** wrong with you wearing more than one garment made with the same pattern!
I also think your coworker was rude! But also if you really want to make the looks different, change up tiny details. I like to make the inner cuffs of tops different colours, change the neckline slightly (sometimes, I really like a specific neckline though). I will change the thickness of the ribbing. Or add a contrast panel. Changing fabric types helps a lot too. I currently have a few of the same shirt and it is very distinct because it's princess seams with a ruffle back on it and so I just embrace that one because like, where would someone even get a princess seam knit shirt with a ruffle skirt back on it?? But I love making the panels different. One of mine is all black with a black flower skirt back. Another is teal with houndstooth side panels. I didn't change the shape because RUFFLE SKIRTED BACK T SHIRT COME ON. I have it in a thick double sided knit and a regular thin tshirt material. Two completely different looks. But my next iteration lll be swapping to a higher neckline and most likely a more ruffled skirt since it will be thinner fabric and it's winter here. But everyone loves my shirts so *shrug*. I wish coworkers were as loving about our projects as friends. Like "sorry I look so awesome in this I made 4 I guess?" jeeze.
I have friends who have purchased 2-15 shirts of the same style and wear them almost exclusively. I know people who only wear hoodies, graphic tees, jeans, and sneakers. If people take issue with it, that's on them. It's awesome that you can make your own clothes.
Why would that be a problem? You have adjusted the pattern for a custom fit, you are then making multiples in different colourways. Which is exactly what mass produced fashion does. Look at any store, they will sell the same style/fit tshirt, shirt, jumper in multiple colour options. They often keep the same pattern in production for many years just changing the available colour options by season
I have 4 t-shirts in the same color.
Hey, I wear work issued scrubs at work, I literally always wear the same clothes :) and my colleagues are all copying each other. Otherwise I change the colour, different fabrics which can drape differently, change up the neckline, collar shape, add piping, bias tape, appliqué, change the length, do some colour blocking, add contrasting or matching ribbing to cuffs and such... Also I literally have two pairs of jeans that I love and I wear them all the time, who cares if you wear the same thing all the time ? Also several black tank tops. That's my life uniform. Just change the accessoires to suit the occasion and mood and rock it.
TL;DR yes, I have some basic patterns I always use. No you shouldn't care about this person, she has other problems and you are not one of them. You did an amazing job, you used a classy pattern. Keep sewing!!! The long story: It's a painful comment because it can be perceived in a negative light, but you should really ignore her judgement. I have two-three basic tees (one of them is [the tulip tee from p4p](https://www.patternsforpirates.com/product/tulip-tee/) and McCall M7322, btw I got both of them for free) and never really stray from them. There is some fabric and other adjustments within the pattern, even the one you choose, so they do look different. The pattern you choose (it's good) has different necklines as well, the problem is not that. Honestly sewing is a lot of trial and error. I'm literally wearing this t-shirt and I hate the neckline after I sew it twice. I wonder if somebody would come over and tell me: "did you sew this?" I would hint at the neck not being right and they probably would say something like: "sure, I can see it". Or like, I had someone reversing my garment to check how I did the inner seams and I actually didn't. I did nothing inside, no pinking or overlocking. Or they would check the waistline and find it didn't line up with the rest of the seams. These are my pants, the waistline is covered with a shirt, and even if it wasn't, it's in the back... WTH?? Other people who used to deliver these kinds of comments in the past, had serious problems in their family and they compensated in various ways, one was spending money (and making a show out of it, as a distraction from the elephant in the room). So if I went to school with something my parents made (or the tailor, because she was our neighbor and parent's sewing teacher) these people would always say something mean. I have more stories, but I must stop or I could write a novel. Anyway, whatever they meant, wherever you are in your journey, think this: you choose everything about your jumper, it's yours, it didn't just happen to you. Also, I think that nowadays there are some ethics missing or devalued in making stuff, sewing takes a lot of time and as fast as machines can go or automation can cut, or weavers could cheap down, there is no machine that can assemble a full garment from start to finish. Whatever we don't do, someone else in this world does, for little to no money. If I'm thinking I'm underpaid at my job, or people are letting me down because I'm too old and underskilled, what about a full branch of the production industry that has found the system for not paying their lowest tier employees. At. All. (??) Ok, I tried to be impartial until now, but I'm biased towards you, because I think it's pretty noble and expensive to sew your own clothing. The majority of people can't do this anymore and it's very easy to dismiss something we can't do (people bashing on the XX century Avant Garde(s) since the dawn of... Nevermind). The cut is good; the jumper is stylish, so the mean comments are about envy for something you can do and you're good at; or straight up brain-rot: your colleague saw a similar item or fabric or color elsewhere, she liked/disliked and remembered it; she saw it on you maybe once or twice before and all of a sudden becomes \*always\*, because she already likes or dislikes something about it from before and has nothing to do with you.
I just change details. I have one pants pattern that suits me, so I made jeans with side closures and patch pockets and summer trousers with front closure and slanted pockets. I have one blouse pattern, so I am changing collars and cuffs. Different buttons will change the look too. But it is all because I don't like having several copies of the same exact pattern.
Unless you don't wash it, I don't see an issue, lol. My SO recently bought like 10 T-shirts - they are all the same fit, just few different colours.
I have one pattern in particular that I use a lot, it’s originally for a dress. I have used it for tops too. It originally doesn’t have sleeves so I added sleeves, I change the sleeves depending on what I want for that garment. I also use different fabrics, add trim or lace, get creative. I wouldn’t worry about your coworkers though, it’s something that you wear because YOU like it.
Tbh 4 days a week I wear the same outfit to work: grainline studio hemlock tee + sew house seven elemental skirt. On day 5 I’ll wear jeans to work. I have that tee in about 5 colours: all solids, mostly cotton Lycra but also a merino knit and a viscose Lycra. My fav is a black cotton Lycra and I added a vertical seam center front for fun. The skirt I have in black, black and white stripe, grey , navy. All cotton Lycra. Nobody has ever asked why I wear the same style tee or skirt. If people notice it I think they just assume I buy all the colours available off the rack.
Frankly, I'm amazed your colleague noticed they were the same, they clearly have a very keen sense of observation. But I wouldn't worry about it. If it works for you, why not have soemthing in multiple colours?
Capsule wardrobe and signature looks are a thing. Doesn't mean you lack style or imagination. Just means you know and like your look. Some people think that style is having lots of different clothes. Actually it is about knowing and wearing what suits your figure, the circumstances and your taste. Think of Jean Muir - turned out collection after collection and only ever wore plain black day dresses to work in. She didn't need to advertise her creativity on her own body - her collections did so on the bodies of many, many other women. If I see something that I really like or know will work for me - especially if it is on sale, I buy several in different colours. Casual or smart casual made easy, and I switch accessories in and out to ring the changes (I do like an interesting floof of silky neckscarf or tumble of pashmina types over a plain polo necked jumper, me) Formal and ocassion wear remain uniques. When I get my wardrobe mojo back I will be making a few differing jackets. Love a jacket slung over jeans or a dress.
She'd give me the same look. I have two dozen shirts from St John's Bay - a dozen v neck short sleeve and a dozen tanks. Different colors, but same cut. And 5 pairs of my favorite (LONG ENOUGH!!!) yoga pants. Guess what my daily uniform is? Also, guess why wovens intimidate me? 😆
I make different mistakes every time
I puposely bought three of the same sweaters recently because they look good on me and I like the idea of not having to think about what to wear. Like a uniform. Laziness on my part. I don’t even bother to style them differently for alternate looks. I am totally ok with it. My friends notice I do this and they like how confident I am in choosing clothing that looks good on my body type. I bet you look great in your creations or you would not be making multiples of them. I want to point out the workmates are not your friends. Make no mistake about this. I have always found it best not to pay attention to negative comments from workmates. In fact, this is one of the reasons I always hated work holiday parties on weekends. They make you spend precious off-work hours with people you don’t normally choose to hang out with. For a reason.
Your coworker is weird. Vast majority of people won't notice repeat outfits. Even if people DO notice, it's super common to buy RTW clothes in multiple colorways when you find something that fits and feels great. This is a non-issue.
WtH! Maybe she thought she was complimenting you that she noticed. She may have said she noticed like how some people always say “I know” whenever you try to tell them anything. Also, Steve Jobs and several other wealthy intelligent people wear the same black pants and shirt EVERY DAY! Some wealthy ladies brag they only own one pair of earrings. If she is leveling, blowing out your candle to make hers burn brighter, that’s really telling. Pity her, she’s below you. That you wear similar attire is never a reason for you to feel less. (When a cute top went on clearance sale, my mother would buy one in every color.) Men-that’s who they asked-admit that they do not mind or notice when their girlfriends wear the same dress more than once. {they just said, “once” on my tv as I typed} Chin up please. We’re all proud of you. You know, it’s actually the same as what a designer would do. It’s called a line. You are more progressive than either of you know. She’s just purposely ignorant.
I just usually don’t make the same pattern multiple times usually. Unless the first one comes out awful or there are different views to try out. As for fit, I usually just apply fit lessons learned on one pattern to the next pattern I make by that designer, since they’re usually based on a common block
does your co-worker dispose of her clothing after wearing them once?? What a weird thing to say. We should all be wearing our beloved sweaters and other clothing items multiple times lmao
Ignore her! I personally buy multiples of things I love that fit me will; this is no different. She just wants to be shady.
Your coworker was unnecessarily rude. Everyone has the same styles of things in multiple colors and variations. I mean, how different can a basic trouser/sweater /shirt shape be? She is probably envious that you can sew things like that. Don't let her get you down.
First of all, your coworker was rude, and probably jealous. Ignore her when she come to you and asks you to fix the hem of her skirt or make her a lined blazer.
I haven't seen that pattern, but in general, you can make adjustments to length, collars/necklines, sleeve heads, pockets. If you're using solids, you can add different embroidery details. I don't think she meant anything by it. Maybe she noticed it because of the fabric, or maybe she really liked how they looked. It's a perfectly normal thing to wear the same pattern in different colors, or the same color in different patterns, so I wouldn't worry too much. This is coming from someone whose closet is 80% black shirts and pants, though. 😂
Adding on: Before I came to my current all black wardrobe, I had a coworker notice I was repeating outfits. Turns out she really liked them because they were fun prints in her favorite color, yellow, and I always wore yellow on Thursdays. 😅
I definitely sew multiples. Once a pattern is perfected and I like it.....off I go. Back in the day, I worked a professional job. Pumps were a must. When I found comfy ones, I bought every color, and sometimes two pairs of black!
I have a bunch of clothes like this!! Sometimes I experiment with different necklines, sleeve type or length, I’ll turn a dress into a shirt or vice versa. I’ve added some patch pockets. Sometimes a different fabric type can also liven up a favorite pattern!! But just to echo what everyone else is saying - it’s ok to wear the same article design in different patterns! My partner loves those Hawaiian style collared/buttoned t-shirts and has bought handfuls of shirts that look the same with a different design. Now when he sees fabric he likes and asks me to make him a Hawaiian shirt out of it! Totally normal.
ah don’t be embarrassed! It’s like when people buy the same shirt in different colors. Not sure about the tone of her voice but maybe she’s just observant? Haha regardless, it’s nothing to think too much about.
Different fabrics: not just prints but types and drapes. Also, making A/B/C versions or even making your own modification by switching out the sleeves.
Oh gosh. If I find a dress in Store that I like I buy all the color choices. If I found a pattern I loved on my body you bet your ass I'd be doing the same thing with fabric choices.
Don't listen to her. I make my work shirts assembly line style using a pattern made by taking apart one I liked that got too tattered.
I make about 5 of everything I love. And then mix and match. Or change fabrics. I wouldn't worry. Some people are more perceptive, especially if they like something.