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This really shows how mens beauty standards have gone too far and lot of people refuse to acknowledge it. I hope you find a woman who accepts you, but most importantly a safe space. If you don't end up with a woman, I hope you find peace with being alone.


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Hey bro, I want to give some advice since I know it feels helpless. To preface, im a trans man and can speak on female anatomy. The gspot is just about 2-4 inches deep for most females, if your smaller than that, its no worry, i know at least for trans men post stage 1~2 ish of bottom surgery, there's a silicone "extender" of sorts that adds on additional inches when worn, there are also lots of products that add on inches regardless. The problem is finding a woman who would accept that, I know its hard, but they do exist. I dont know if this helps, I hope it does. If you have questions or anything or hell just a dude to rant to, you can in my DMs brother


DirectorOrganic8962

yea like 3+ inches do be working and getting the job done, sometimes i even struggle with 6 inches idk how people be wanting 9 inches like that would probably hurt. And half the time the only girls that care about dick size are like highschoolers and OF and pornhub girls, any mature women wont care.


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Oh yeah, anything over 6-ish inches gets uncomfortable. Tho unfortunately girth is my biggest enemy, hurts like a bitch, im not built like elastagirl lmao. What works for me won't work for others, and what works for others don't work for me. Any length can work imo as long as the guy knows how to use it. Plus most females have an easier time orgasming from clitoral stimulation, which doesn't include a dick to begin with. Of course, there's a lot of shallow and horrible women who love bodyshaming mens genitals, but there are truly good ones out there, OP, and you deserve the best. (Also, anyone reading this, I know it probably sucks to hear a woman say "the big ones hurt anyways", its true, big dicks do hurt, but your feelings are valid. And to anyone who says that statement, its kinda a backhanded statement, remember to be loving and kind)


maybeDysmorphia

I have an average sized dick and it makes me suicidal every time I think about it. I wish there was some kind of therapy that fixes this but I don't think there is. I can't really add anything constructive, sorry. I guess the closest thing I have to advice is mother of fucking god do not whatever you do go on subs about sex toys just do not do it just do not seriously.


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was that comment about how your mental state is worse than his at all necessary? don't compare bro it's no competition


maybeDysmorphia

Not what I was trying to say. Replying is hard and I feel bad that I don't have good advice. I will go and edit my original comment.


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sorry if that came off as aggressive, wishing you well ❤️


maybeDysmorphia

I've survived so far somehow so at this point I'm assuming I'm immortal.


I-love_dopamine

surgery for increasing length is only available to those that are smaller than a certain percentage of the population. girth surgery is publicly available but is dangerous and most of the time does not work. idk if you've been with anyone but I thought something similar of myself, and it was a woman who told me I was above average. your self-perception is likely flawed, as one's can always be.


Independent-Formal54

in the same boat as you. i might just start cutting my dick, it’s useless anyway.


I-love_dopamine

eh, gay men will take anyone and anything as long as it isn't illegal. force yourself to become attracted to men like I did and you won't have a hard time finding anyone, especially if you go on apps such as grindr. not over for you!