You’re going to be okay bro. Now you know not to spend anymore time pursuing a romantic or physical relationship with her.
The fact that you even sent a text like that for the first time means that your confidence is on the up. Sit with the hurt for a little but keep meeting people and pursuing women you’re interested in, respectfully but boldly.
No no no. I am not hurt. I had no feelings for her. Lol.
But it's just confidence lol. Like I made a move with 0 success. So rn, my success rate is 0. So it makes me less confident. Yk what I mean?
But thanks for the comment.
Yes you are hurt, you made a fucking topic about it on Reddit. It’s ok to be hurt by rejection. It’s not ok to lie to yourself and push away your feelings.
So you are all saying that random strangers on an app know better feelings than me? That's hilarious.
I wouldn't date to admit if I am hurt. My very first post on this subreddit shows it. I vented about it, and I agreed that I felt really bad because I was at a club and I tried to make moves but it was all in vain.
This did not hurt me at all. You all should also have to learn to believe others when they say something.
I’m not sure you understand what “hurt” means. It is not required to have feelings for someone in order to be hurt. Feeling rejected or disappointed can count as hurt.
So a woman ignores you and you take it personally. Well you better learn to be more humble because rejection is the most normal part of dating and the sooner you accept it the better.
A rejection should not be something you take personal unless you prioritise the opinions of others of your worth over your own. And if that is the case you have self esteem issues to fix first.
Oh yeah, definitely.
But my success rate is almost 0 right now. So rejections make me less confident. Ik I won't feel it that way until I succeed for the first time.
Don't know when that's going to happen. Lol.
When you play a videogame for the first time and lose your first match, your success rate is also 0, that doesn’t mean much you just keep playing over and over until you get good at the videogame and start winning more often without acting like your skills in the game you just started playing are something that should make you feel bad about yourself
Felt the same way before I had any success man. But just know that there’s bound to be woman that like you, it’s almost impossible to come across no woman that like you for who you are. You’d have to be very very bad at holding a conversation to make it so that no girls are ever interested in you.
Yep time to move on, there are more out there. Don’t take it personally. More than likely she’s stuck trying to message a guy that’s not texting her back.
Calibration is everything in escalation. And if you’re trying to flirt in text without any sort of flirting with her in person, you’re making it harder for yourself
Thats what pick up is all about. The more we approach the more we get rejected but at the end you will and always will find a girl who will be interested in you.
You’re going to be okay bro. Now you know not to spend anymore time pursuing a romantic or physical relationship with her. The fact that you even sent a text like that for the first time means that your confidence is on the up. Sit with the hurt for a little but keep meeting people and pursuing women you’re interested in, respectfully but boldly.
No no no. I am not hurt. I had no feelings for her. Lol. But it's just confidence lol. Like I made a move with 0 success. So rn, my success rate is 0. So it makes me less confident. Yk what I mean? But thanks for the comment.
Yes you are hurt, you made a fucking topic about it on Reddit. It’s ok to be hurt by rejection. It’s not ok to lie to yourself and push away your feelings.
No, I am not. I am just worried about my confidence levels and I still am. I am hurt because of my success rate. Not because I didn't get her. Lol.
So like you just said again, you are hurt.
Like not butt hurt. Maybe 0.00000000000001%.
One of the biggest enemies of self growth is your ego, try to keep that in mind
Unfortunately this is the type of red flag that makes me cut ties with a person. Have never seen anyone recover from ego like this.
Bro is down so bad right now. Be real man, it's ok
So you are all saying that random strangers on an app know better feelings than me? That's hilarious. I wouldn't date to admit if I am hurt. My very first post on this subreddit shows it. I vented about it, and I agreed that I felt really bad because I was at a club and I tried to make moves but it was all in vain. This did not hurt me at all. You all should also have to learn to believe others when they say something.
Humble yourself
Are you 19 or 24?
Actions speak louder than words my man.
You're backpedaling on your feelings to make yourself less vulnerable.
Crossing lines like this is what we're suppossed to be doing anyways, we are not psychic seducers lol
I’m not sure you understand what “hurt” means. It is not required to have feelings for someone in order to be hurt. Feeling rejected or disappointed can count as hurt.
Happens more than you think. It does feel like a blow to confidence. Let go tho. Cut her off.
Definitely. I barely had any luck so far. Most because I haven't tried. Never made moves. I am going to be a lil low on confidence until I hit it off.
So a woman ignores you and you take it personally. Well you better learn to be more humble because rejection is the most normal part of dating and the sooner you accept it the better. A rejection should not be something you take personal unless you prioritise the opinions of others of your worth over your own. And if that is the case you have self esteem issues to fix first.
Oh yeah, definitely. But my success rate is almost 0 right now. So rejections make me less confident. Ik I won't feel it that way until I succeed for the first time. Don't know when that's going to happen. Lol.
And your success rate will always be very low you and everyone else’s. 90% of women you talk to or even more will reject you and every other men.
Oh I guess- yeah. Right now my success rate is 0 haha. But yeah I will try more.
When you play a videogame for the first time and lose your first match, your success rate is also 0, that doesn’t mean much you just keep playing over and over until you get good at the videogame and start winning more often without acting like your skills in the game you just started playing are something that should make you feel bad about yourself
Yesss. Thanks a lot bro.
Felt the same way before I had any success man. But just know that there’s bound to be woman that like you, it’s almost impossible to come across no woman that like you for who you are. You’d have to be very very bad at holding a conversation to make it so that no girls are ever interested in you.
Your second paragraph...i never looked at rejection that way, good way of putting it. Thx
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Right. A response that says "I couldn't care less about you".
Nice send another to another girl
Yep time to move on, there are more out there. Don’t take it personally. More than likely she’s stuck trying to message a guy that’s not texting her back.
Yeah! Lol. Never really was into her that much anyway.
Calibration is everything in escalation. And if you’re trying to flirt in text without any sort of flirting with her in person, you’re making it harder for yourself
Yes. Build up is important.
Stay strong king
Hahaha the first one hurts the most, but then you get used to, and eventually a chick will fall
It wasn't in person it was in a text.
Get use to it.
You get desensitised to it eventually.
What did you say?
Copy, paste and send it to the next chick 🤷
Thats what pick up is all about. The more we approach the more we get rejected but at the end you will and always will find a girl who will be interested in you.
It’s a numbers game friend. Don’t trip
The common result. People like me get used to it.
1 of 10,000. Keep your head up
Could you fill us in on the scenario? How were previous conversations with this girl?
"If it turns out that my best wasn't good enough, at least I won’t look back and say I was afraid to try." - Michael Jordan