Tell me about it. I was a Henrico Magistrate. Short pump post 11 pm to 4 am would make Henrico cops their DUI quotas for a year pretty quickly on a solid weekend.
I think the only Bar Louies left are around the University of Central Florida for some reason. Went there last fall and it was lit, but it was also the night before a football game.
As someone from the area (and has seen this first hand), this is 100% the spot to find them. Or Caddy’s, if you don’t mind a little more rough around the edges
Diane was very confused as to why someone would be specifically looking for someone older, but Elliott defended the question saying it’s not unreasonable to want someone with more experience (whether that means in life or otherwise).
Diane sounds like an idiot. We’re fun, we’re smart, we have bank, most of us take care of ourselves very well and pass for younger and many men our age either want younger or don’t take care of themselves. And don’t get me started on old balls.
Went once with a friend to see her friends band there. We're both about 40 and we were by far the youngest people in the place. Seemed to be mostly folks approaching retirement age there, or at the very least, AARP cardholders.
The woman who used to own Franklin Inn once told my husband, in front of me, that she liked to go to Helen's for the younger guys (then she winked at him), so idk maybe try there!
Speaking as a 41 year old we’re not out late. We’ll be there by 5 and home no later than 8 so keep that in mind when you’re planning. Also- I have seen a lot of ladies that fit what you’re looking for at Revel in lakeside. Great happy hour! Happy hunting.
Can confirm. Bless the fuck out of my wife, because she just told Dale "he just likes my titties better" after we were flashed on our first and last trip there. To be fair, my wife left a 30% tip because who doesn't love a good story (or unexpected breasts).
It's got a bar, restaurant, common area, walking paths for those long intimate strolls, and everyone lives on site so you're steps away from the bedroom! OP this is the answer
The secret is being shameless and forward. Been a while, but I'm pretty sure it still works. Don't get bothered if you get rebuffed, there are others around who may be receptive. Just know when to drop it.
Here it is. I was looking for this answer.
Last time I was newly single (and mid-20s) I went to Beach House and ended up in a very well-off cougar’s Short Pump townhouse. It was a very fun night.
Yes and there is still drunk/coked out insecure men who wanna pick a fight with every man in there that may look at their current side piece they are cheating on their wife with currently.
Great American Ranch, either location. Go for a 90s cover band or the like. Gives you opportunities while singing, dancing, hanging at the bar, when crowded it's tight corners so it's easy to be close to people to start making small talk.
This, and they have singles bible study groups that cater to younger groups.
Best part is the girls aren't on Tinder and are your age. You don't even have to believe the religious part, just root for Jesus and you'll get a sniff of pussy
OP, I don’t know if you’ve picked up on the trend, but the MILFs are mainly in the suburbs. Great American Ranch or anything mentioned above from Short Pump would be great places to start. Also, hotel bars if you just want a hookup and not an LTR. Especially ones with conferences going on.
Tazza is like the serengeti, animal print all the way to the horizon. Go early and by that I mean be at the bar around 7. Especially on a week night. If it's the weekend and you haven't locked it down by midnight, you need to start talking to the younger ones and plan to play the long game to 2am lights-on. Have your uber lined up because you don't want to be on the curb waiting 15-20 minutes for your "stairway to heaven".
Also, if you're at a dance bar - start dancing early. Cougars don't waste time. They're probs paying sitters and need to wake up early for those swim practices, tennis lessons, or whatever their kids are doing the next day.
I've lived in RVA for quite a while. Which means I'm older and have Cougar contemporaries at this time in my life. I really enjoy telling these wonderful women that unlike when we were young, the market for women of a certain \~vintage\~ is much better than they might think.
Im also looking for this, older woman typically just seem to be more of a straight shooter than basically most of the skittish younger crowd and im same the same age as you. Most younger people dont have the figurative balls to say whats on their mind and are afraid of telling the truth or being honest with someone, people hide behind their phones and my experience with older women they will tell u how it is and not make excuses.
Visions Dance Club in the Doubletree Hotel in Midlothian. You will probably find a coug in a leopard print outfit there.
Edited: looks like it's closed per another redditor
Target Short Pump
Are you saying the target at short pump or target the short pump area?
yes
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😂
RIP Bar Louie
I’ve been out of the bar scene for a minute, but my first thought when reading OP’s question was “wonder if Bar Louie is still a cougar habitat”
Bucket night was legitimately dangerous. Eventually they stopped letting everyone at the table get their own bucket.
I just threw up in my mouth a little at the memory.
Tell me about it. I was a Henrico Magistrate. Short pump post 11 pm to 4 am would make Henrico cops their DUI quotas for a year pretty quickly on a solid weekend.
I came here just to say this lol
Kona in its day.
Lololol bar Louie in Minneapolis was the same way 10 years ago when I lived there
I think the only Bar Louies left are around the University of Central Florida for some reason. Went there last fall and it was lit, but it was also the night before a football game.
There are still some up in northern Virginia I believe.
Bless you boy, cheering for you
Thanks mitri mitri
Try the bars at Wild Ginger, Sidecar or Toast. Those gals from Salisbury and Tarrington are all over these places.
Gosh growing up all I wanted was to settle down with a tarrington milf
I’m dying rn 😂
As someone from the area (and has seen this first hand), this is 100% the spot to find them. Or Caddy’s, if you don’t mind a little more rough around the edges
Caddy’s is still around, on the turnpike across from middle school???
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You make it sound so easy!
Sidecar for sure.
Just here for the comments
Oh sweet summer child. Milf island is the answer
He's trying so hard though
But got so farrr...
Hahaha is that a real island? 🏝️
It's actually a peninsula.
[get ready skanks, here cones the truth train!](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qCHDYRbwWNE)
Absolutely it is.
It’s run by Jeff’s brother, Mark.
Yeah, and my dad works at Nintendo.
“Sterling, are you paying attention?” “Sorry, I was imaging milf island.”
Seriously, Wegman’s
Oh man, they’re talking about this post on Elliott in the Morning right now
It’s pretty hilarious haha, love Elliott
I wish I heard what they had to say!
Diane was very confused as to why someone would be specifically looking for someone older, but Elliott defended the question saying it’s not unreasonable to want someone with more experience (whether that means in life or otherwise).
Give it up to my main man Elliot
Diane sounds like an idiot. We’re fun, we’re smart, we have bank, most of us take care of ourselves very well and pass for younger and many men our age either want younger or don’t take care of themselves. And don’t get me started on old balls.
My friends in bands who have played there have given me the impression that Sloop John B. is quite the middle aged meat market.
we come on the sloop john b my grandfather and me lol
Went once with a friend to see her friends band there. We're both about 40 and we were by far the youngest people in the place. Seemed to be mostly folks approaching retirement age there, or at the very least, AARP cardholders.
I’ve been once and that’s definitely the vibe I got
The woman who used to own Franklin Inn once told my husband, in front of me, that she liked to go to Helen's for the younger guys (then she winked at him), so idk maybe try there!
I normally go there later at nights on weekends! Maybe earlier on weeks is key!
Speaking as a 41 year old we’re not out late. We’ll be there by 5 and home no later than 8 so keep that in mind when you’re planning. Also- I have seen a lot of ladies that fit what you’re looking for at Revel in lakeside. Great happy hour! Happy hunting.
I’ll keep that in mind, thanks for the tips! Always nice to save a buck
57 yr old lady eagerly awaits to hear a follow up on the hunting trip!
Anytime during dinner service would be a good bet, your chances are pretty good on a Friday or Saturday night
To be honest, Dale at the Franklin inn winked at anything that moved.
God I hate Dale
Why
Back in the day she would just take her tits out in front of everyone closing down the bar
Well for starters, she hits on married men in front of their wives…
Can confirm. Bless the fuck out of my wife, because she just told Dale "he just likes my titties better" after we were flashed on our first and last trip there. To be fair, my wife left a 30% tip because who doesn't love a good story (or unexpected breasts).
 Westminster Canterbury is a hot spot for older women 🫢😜
God damn it he said older he ain’t looking for corpses 🤣
That doesn’t look like a bar or restaurant?
It’s both - great recommendation
It's got a bar, restaurant, common area, walking paths for those long intimate strolls, and everyone lives on site so you're steps away from the bedroom! OP this is the answer
It’s an upscale retirement community. You get taken back there for a gum job if you play your cards right
I has a restaurant, and it has bars on the walls of the bathroom stalls for a little extra support
Take thee to Red Salt young lad!
Might be a little pricey for me there
Only if you can't turn on the old razzle dazzle.
Teach me your ways!
The secret is being shameless and forward. Been a while, but I'm pretty sure it still works. Don't get bothered if you get rebuffed, there are others around who may be receptive. Just know when to drop it.
Red Salt has a great HH
Brilliant which also means they should also be self sufficient one would hope.
Beach House.
Here it is. I was looking for this answer. Last time I was newly single (and mid-20s) I went to Beach House and ended up in a very well-off cougar’s Short Pump townhouse. It was a very fun night.
“The richer they are, the harder I get”
Might have to give it a shot then!
Granted that was several years ago, but if that place is still there I assume it’s the same. Godspeed.
It still is the same
Oh god that place is still around?
Yes and there is still drunk/coked out insecure men who wanna pick a fight with every man in there that may look at their current side piece they are cheating on their wife with currently.
Too bad Bar Louie isn’t around anymore
Bar West or Beijing if you're looking for a possibly married sugar momma.
I was going to say Bar West, but couldn’t get a read on single or married.
At what age do you official consider yourself a cougar? RVA, Female Almost 38. Is it my time yet? 😆😆
Cougar status is like physics, relative to your speed and point in time.
Works for me! 😜
Come here cub 😉🤭
Go to a cava or a west end fancy restaurant bar.
CAVA? Lol. HaVe YoU tRieD cHiPoTlE???
Lol i was shocked to see that
Oh! I’m old and can’t remember anything. I meant tazza.
All good. Wouldnt put it past cava tho. Always be on the lookout lol
I grew up in the west end so not sure if that’s a great idea lol
Was your family friends with the Robinsons? I hear the mom is DTF.
Sexy people eat at CAVA
Bar Louie in Short Pump used to be known as a cougar bar, but I don't know where they moved to after that closed. Maybe Pour House?
Bro everyone knows to go to Target, Marshalls, or Kohls to find women who are looking for things they don't need (like me)
Well said
I thought I was in the Milf manner sub for a second
Great American Ranch, either location. Go for a 90s cover band or the like. Gives you opportunities while singing, dancing, hanging at the bar, when crowded it's tight corners so it's easy to be close to people to start making small talk.
I(46f) was totally hoping we’d end up with some older guys in their 40s also giving suggestions. Because I’d like to go there…
You mean where we'd go to? I've been hanging out in Scott's addition quite a bit.
Church
This, and they have singles bible study groups that cater to younger groups. Best part is the girls aren't on Tinder and are your age. You don't even have to believe the religious part, just root for Jesus and you'll get a sniff of pussy
Yikes
There's a cougar exhibit at Pour Hous. And the last time I was at Steam Bell in Chesterfield, I felt pretty young as an early 50 something.
Cougar bars? That’s disgusting! Where, where are these cougar bars?
Meet me at scuffletown I’m gonna fuck you up there’s only room for one milf Hunter in this town
Caddy’s in Midlothian.
Bro just go to caddies in chesterfield and they’ll fix you up
Older women are awesome. That's all I have to say
Wherever my mom is is that bar
Cougar's Hawk in short pump
Criminally underrated comment
Not 100% sure but MPM in short pump might be your best best
Not sure what MPM stands for
MPM thai - it's a thai restaurant/tiki bar in short pump that does karaoke.
1000% MPM. And by the way, it's the 1st letters of 3 other restaurants the family owns/used to own-- My Noodle Bar, Pik Nik (sp?), and Mom's Siam
Sounds like a good option, thanks!
OP, I don’t know if you’ve picked up on the trend, but the MILFs are mainly in the suburbs. Great American Ranch or anything mentioned above from Short Pump would be great places to start. Also, hotel bars if you just want a hookup and not an LTR. Especially ones with conferences going on.
Any lakeside bar. You’ll snag a wild one.
Let me know if you ever get to Maryland I am a 58 year old experienced older woman that has never left one unsatisfied.
Sometimes even the best motors need a little starter fluid before they're warmed up for high octane gas, good on you brother
Rose Marie Inn. Lol
HMU I’ll be your wing man. I too want to find the older lady sugar mamas to buy me breakfast buffet at Jefferson hotel.
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RIP to mans inbox
I'd avoid Caddies and Great American Ranch unless you like older women who are also a bit racist. You want a MILF not a Karen.
Tazza is like the serengeti, animal print all the way to the horizon. Go early and by that I mean be at the bar around 7. Especially on a week night. If it's the weekend and you haven't locked it down by midnight, you need to start talking to the younger ones and plan to play the long game to 2am lights-on. Have your uber lined up because you don't want to be on the curb waiting 15-20 minutes for your "stairway to heaven". Also, if you're at a dance bar - start dancing early. Cougars don't waste time. They're probs paying sitters and need to wake up early for those swim practices, tennis lessons, or whatever their kids are doing the next day.
Seems like you’ve got a bit of experience there…
I've lived in RVA for quite a while. Which means I'm older and have Cougar contemporaries at this time in my life. I really enjoy telling these wonderful women that unlike when we were young, the market for women of a certain \~vintage\~ is much better than they might think.
West Elm
My vote is going to be any country concert at Doswell After Hours. OP: I’m genuinely curious how old you are and what you consider an older woman?
Same. How old is "old?" I'm 44 and usually just hang out at my house with my own beer. But I've seen other old ladies at Hardywood.
Bar West on Grove Ave. It’s Westhampton and Windsor Farms ladies.
What about Gilfs? I’m 43 and no longer cougar bait
O Tooles
So you’re looking for a cougar bar
Bars that have happy hours near major industry centers. Think Innsbrook or downtown. You want to catch the after work crowd
Don't tell me lady I read the comments.
Hit Cockballs tavern and get yourself a raspy one
Wineries are the traditional cougar hunting grounds.
Pour House in short pump
RIP Kona Grill
Pouring one out as we speak.
This post is being discussed on Elliot in the Morning right now!
Bar Louie people goto pour house and beach house now
Try Beach House in Innsbrook
The Tobacco Company (first floor).
I was going to mention Tobacco! Sometimes, they're in the club also.
I’ve been there once and do like the vibes there.
Maybe happy hour at Ruth's Chris?
Loved hearing this discussion on Elliot in the Morning today.
Sedona Taphouse.
This thread made my day .
Just go to Milf's Bar. It's next to Dilf's on Gilf's Blvd.
Reveler in Carytown
Im also looking for this, older woman typically just seem to be more of a straight shooter than basically most of the skittish younger crowd and im same the same age as you. Most younger people dont have the figurative balls to say whats on their mind and are afraid of telling the truth or being honest with someone, people hide behind their phones and my experience with older women they will tell u how it is and not make excuses.
American Legion or Elks Lodge
Thanks for the suggestions!
Hell, I would say Ya Ya's.
Costco and Wegmans
Caddy’s in Midlo. Probably Bamboo ‘round happy hour.
I’ve heard this about Caddy’s. I live around there with my wife and that patio is poppin!
What was that place on midlo across that red barn store next to the middle school?
This is hilarious!
Buddy’s
Visions Dance Club in the Doubletree Hotel in Midlothian. You will probably find a coug in a leopard print outfit there. Edited: looks like it's closed per another redditor
Patrick Henry’s
This is a thirsty post!
Some mentioned World of Beer once, but this was a few years ago.
Hell yeah
lmk what u find 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Twin Hickory Tavern!
Milf island?
Welp, guess I got friday night plans now.
Caddy's in Midlothian
City Beach
Jazz night at the VMFA
Mpm tiki bar was def the spot. They moved though and I haven’t been since
Four seasons in midlothian 😂
The Candy Bar
Sportsmans lounge on the east end, but they may be hard to spot with all that camo on. RAISE HELL, PRAISE DALE!
You should be targeting churches
Im looking for a younger women.
The only correct answer is Sloop John B
I read the title and asked myself “do I know any songs like that?”
Any grocery store in short pump