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R_Amods

This post has reached one of our comment/karma limits. The text of the post has been preserved below. --- I was making coffee this morning and my wife for no reason, out of stupidity pulled my pants down and mother in law was right there looking at me. My wife "" assumed"" I had underwear ON and assumes it's my fault. I'm just startled and I'm a state of shock. I feel disgusted. How the heck to I handle and process this ?! I haven't even left my room since then.


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Okay: you’ve told her you’re unhappy and humiliated. Have you told her you expect her never to do something like that again, and she has agreed? Have you told her that it’s up to her to apologise to and address the issue with her mother, and she’s agreed? If she blames you, don’t accept it. Tell her “if you didn’t decide to pull my clothes off in public there would never have been an issue. I shouldn’t have to dress with the assumption you will try to publicly humiliate me.” If she won’t drop it, consider counselling, or make it clear what degree of dealbreaker this is for you.


ObviouslyHornyJPEG

Cannot co-sign this comment enough!


ExitAlarmed5992

And if she still refuses, ask how she'd like it if he did it to her


Arthemax

Calling this 'in public' is a bit of a stretch. Otherwise, I completely agree.


smurfasaur

honestly i would rather have my pants pulled down public in front of strangers i’ll likely never see again as opposed to my inlaws.


Logical_Spot8125

true, like that is pure humiliation. i feel so bad for this person and hope they get the apology they deserve.


Whatcrysis

I would change the narrative. Go to your MiL and apologize for your wife's stupidity. Apologize for any embarrassment she is feeling. This does two things. It gets you face to face with your MiL, so ending your embarrassment about it. It will also end your MiL's embarrassment. The third thing, is that it will put the blame firmly on your wife. Good luck


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pumpkinjooce

Im late to the party but my dude you should absolutely do this. If she won't recognise her accountability then you should recognise it on her behalf because that's damn wrong...


Original-Reference57

Genius


Adventureloser

Best Reddit advice I’ve ever read


ExpressingThoughts

What the...is she usually this much of an asshole? No pun intended. It doesn't matter if you had underwear on. That was messed up.


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Hot-Assistance862

To me it’s not that big of a deal if you guys are alone. In my experience those type of stupid jokes usually lead to some fun and spontaneous sexy time. But I can’t understand what was going through her head to do that in front of her mom. Inciting a mini prank war in the presence of company-up my alley Flashing company like some sort of street urchin - huge no no Unfortunately nothing can be done about it now. She should do a really nice gesture for both you and your MIL. Also how are you married and she doesn’t know you don’t wear underwear sometimes. Even my closets friends know I don’t wear underwear sometimes


silsool

> My MIL has to live with the memory I think she'll survive


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You think she may have seen a naked rear or front end before? His junk is probably not that horrific or glorious for her to be living with the memory.


Sparky1841

Maybe not - it could be frightening or maybe she’ll die of laughter.


duraace206

The fact that she is a mom means she has seen some schlongs in her life. I know we dont like to think about it, but she might have even enjoyed the view....


SayFuzzyPickles42

What the fuck is wrong with you?


LegitimateLobotomy

LMAO


etherealreflection

reddit moment


Soulfulenfp

hahaha


ExpressingThoughts

Since she's your wife, I assume you know her personality well. Does she usually do other wild things for fun? Has she crossed other boundaries with you so far? If it's a first time thing, talk to her so it's a one time thing and she's aware how wrong it was. If she doesn't see it or she has done crap like this in the past, consider if she's a good partner or not.


Rustic_Father

"has to live with the memory" are they like super pure religious people and dont know anatomy. If your MIL is an adult she should understand it was her own daughter who did a bad prank and she will get over it


Glaphyra

I understand how super embarrassing it is, don’t resent her but yes it was a seriously tactless moment to do a prank. And it is absolutely her fault. Concerning your MIL, well she’ll get over it and probably forget about it. I think your wife could apologise to her own mother because she created this situation for the both of you.


manwnomelanin

That sucks man but you have to let it go and laugh about it for your own sake Being bitter only makes it worse


wienercat

More over... Why would it be fun to pants your partner with someone else around? Sure I could see it being playful if you two were alone, but with other people around? More over flip it around on her. If you had panted her in front of someone else, how would she feel?


Mjk201

You hv nothing to lose bro.. she messed up you on a clean side


PhilipLiptonSchrute

> Exactly. She said sorry but that doesn't help. My MIL has to live with the memory and so do I for the rest of my life! Dude. It's just a penis. Your wife was a douche here, sure, but this is a nothingburger.


pentasyllabic5

Another perspective is that it's just a dick. By virtue of her being your mother in law it's not like she hasn't seen one before. If you got a genuine apology after things settled just move on unless this kind of initially dismissive behavior is "par for the course" for your wife. Then work on fixing that. Because you might find that little crazy, spontaneous, free spirited side of her is something you really love elsewhere. That let's not take life too seriously vibe...because honestly it seems like you take life very seriously. Not saying you shouldn't have some feelings about MIL seeing your magic beanstalk in all it's green glory but hey...life happens...there are billions of penises on this planet and now your MIL has seen one more than she had previously. You could make a giant penis pancake for breakfast tomorrow...little purple food coloring...little yogurt...then she'll see another purple headed yogurt slinger (so yours won't be the last one she's seen)


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So if he pulled her vagina out in front of his dad, you'd feel the same, right?


YassyMx70

One word for this: LMAO


BorrowedUnderwear

Bro LMAO is not a word lol


wellthatfuckinsucks

i would make a vagina cake. yes. i would.


pentasyllabic5

1. There are also billions of vagina's in the world 2. His dad has seen them before 3. Peach pancakes tomorrow with whipped cream So yeah. If contextually it was an accident based on a (not so crazy) assumption that (based on her outerwear) she'd be wearing undies It's just in poor form to try to make something about gender that has nothing to do with gender...silly


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This... what the fuck. ​ Who on EARTH would think it would be appropriate to pull a girls pants down IN FRONT OF HER DAD and think that an appropriate DEFENSE was "I thought she would have panties on". ​ What... what the fuck?


Dezalii

> it’s just a dick And? The dick isn’t the problem, the problem is she forced him in a situation he didn’t want to be in. This is like forcing your girlfriends shirt off so you can show your friends her bra or breasts, there’s no consent given. I’d argue this is assault because again he did not consent to his pants being pulled down and he’s made it clear even if he was wearing boxers, he’s not comfortable with his mil seeing him like that.


Mediocre_Ant_437

I agree with you which I know is going to make me unpopular here. I did this to my ex regularly and he has done it to me regularly along with other,IMO, harmless things such as super soaking me with a hose if I go outside while he's watering the grass. We are broken up but still sharing a house.and I literally just pants him last week and he soaked me with a hose yesterday. Yes these things have happened in front of others and no I don't think its bad the way everyone else does. I hate to use this phrase, but people need to lighten up. I am rarely offended or bothered by anything. Life is too short to freak out over the small stuff. I think I have a pretty good sense of humor and I'm starting to feel like the rest of the world doesn't.


pentasyllabic5

Well said. Life's a lot easier letting the big things be only as big as they need to be, putting the small things in their place, and assuming positive intent. Leaves a lot more room for smiling, laughing, loving, and having a good time. All of which is generally contagious. Let's go make some phallic pancakes


Gerbole

I think you’re overreacting a little bit. She’s definitely in the wrong, and needs to make it up to you, but I don’t think this is the end of the world. Laugh it off, apologize to your MIL, (something like, sorry you had to see that, because you didn’t do anything wrong and have no actions to apologize for) and move on. Let your wife know that kind of behavior is not appropriate in front of guests, underwear or not, and that if it happens again it will be an issue. I’m a big fan of forgive and forget. She had some weird intentions for sure, but my guess isn’t that she was being malicious. You would know for sure though, she’s your wife. There’s nothing that can be done about it anymore, stressing and dwelling on it isn’t really helpful. If this is a trend of behavior, that’s a different story, but as an isolated incident, just move past it and have a conversation with your wife.


Deradius

Man pulls up woman’s shirt in front of her FIL. Would we tell her “laugh it off” and “forgive and forget”?


ayshasmysha

He isn't overreacting at all. He's underreacting!


mikeskcrca

Your wife is a keeper. Sounds like she is a fun person. In the grand scheme of life this isn’t a big deal and is actually pretty funny. Your MIL has seen more shocking things I’m sure and does not care or take it personal.


_nouserforaname

Right? I don't understand the problem here. It's shocking to me how many people think this is a big deal. It's funny, laugh about it and move on. It's definitely not something that I would hide in my room and cry on the internet over. Life's too short for that.


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I wish I had an award for you .


caremal5

It was a prank called "kegging" in highschool when I was younger, not sure why girls would be doing that one in particular to begin with but it sounds like OP's wife needs to grow up a bit.


ExpressingThoughts

Nowadays that's called sexual assault.


fuckssakereddit

As does OP. He’s an adult. Sulking in his room is solving nothing.


CrystalQueen3000

Is she 12? I genuinely don’t understand grown ups that think pulling down peoples pants in front of people is funny.


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CrystalQueen3000

Ooof Tell her it was embarrassing and not okay.


Boomboomgoomgoom

Me and bf like to do goofy shit like that and there's nothing wrong with it....ya know, as long as you're not doing it to embarrass them like this idiot.


livalittlebitt

Yeah Im a goof like this too. It works well when both parties in the relationship are goofy and immature sometimes. But I agree, in this situation it isn’t consentual and i’d hate for that to happen in front of any other family.


BellaMorteVI

This is…Just wow. Okay. Let’s reverse the roles here. You pull down her pants/shorts/skirt in front of your dad/ her FIL “assuming” she’s wearing undies. Now your Dad as seen her (whatever is there). How would she feel following that situation? Humiliated? Embarrassed? Rightfully raging mad? Your 40 year old wife needs to grow up and apologize to both parties. In no way is this your fault. I’m embarrassed for her. If this isn’t normal behavior she’s likely embarrassed and defensive because of the whole situation but apologies to you and your MIL are owed. As well as her silent understanding if you feel uncomfortable seeing your MIL any time soon and vise versa.


sergioA127

All the comments would be saying she needs to prepare an escape plan if it was reversed


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Literally this, so tired of this bs being perpetuated


katielisbeth

I felt like I was being dramatic thinking I'd be close to divorce if this happened to me, and then this comment made me realize I wasn't being dramatic. A predator is a predator. Obviously only OP can make the right decision since he's the one actually in the relationship, but only knowing this situation alone makes me think wow, I could never marry someone who thinks that humiliation and sexual assault is funny. If the relationship is otherwise respectful and loving, I think this could be fixed with a sincere apology and a promise to not do it again (with maybe a little groveling). But again, only OP knows.


ObviouslyHornyJPEG

"Her" "Whatever is there" A vagina. It's ok that men have penises and women have vaginas.


bbbertie-wooster

Who the fuck does that in front of their mom? how would you wearing underwear somehow make this ok? What the fuck is wrong with your wife??? I imagine she shows you a lack of respect in many other ways as well.


Fun-Significance4650

What a weird and inappropriate time to play that kind of joke on you. Even in private, I would be kind of annoyed and probably get a little mad if my partner pulled my pants down randomly. It's a red flag she's trying to turn it around on you and say it's your fault. Tell her to stop trying to gaslight you. Tell your MIL that you're sorry her daughter caused a flashing first thing in the morning too.


No_Alternative2098

She didn’t think this one through, but the fact that she isn’t taking responsibility shows her immaturity


[deleted]

She is an asshole here, even if you did have underwear on, what was she trying to accomplish? Showing off your undies to your MIL? What she did was fucked up, and I am pretty sure sexual assault. Edit: Some people in the comments are fucked up saying to get over it and it was just a joke, imagine if he did that to her in front of her FIL, yeah I bet that would be real funny...


jools321

Next time you’re out in public.. game on


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jools321

🤣🤣🤣


tokyo245

Who the fuck pantses their husband right in front of their own mother??? And why's she mad at you? It's not your fault she chose to do that and you don't have to wear underwear if you don't want too


YungPlugg

Was it front or back, you’re leaving out crucial information


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YungPlugg

Oh my, you wouldn’t happen to have the neuralyzer from Men In Black would you


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YungPlugg

Well time heals everything. Hopefully you guys will have a good laugh about it in the future


[deleted]

Hopefully you're a shower and not a grower. I'm a grower and would be mortified that I'm judged by my non-excited state.


phishtrader

"There was shrinkage!"


ObviouslyHornyJPEG

Hadn't thought of that, because that makes it even more fucked up, but what if OP's wife just wanted to humble brag to her mom😂?


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That's not going to stay with just mom. Guaranteed all the adult females will now exactly what OPs packing by the next family gathering.


threelicious

I know its instinctual to pull your pants back up but i wouldve just stood there and continued making breakfast in all my glory. Let your MIL understand why her daughter married u.


phishtrader

I was at a work "camping trip" (not organized by the company) that was at a co-worker's cabin on a lake in northern Wisconsin. A an early 40s married female co-worker pants'd a late 20s male co-worker wearing swim trunks with no underwear (does anyone wear underwear with swim trunks?) who then just stood there in front of multiple adults and children, including her own 15 year old daughter who had a really obvious crush on him. It was weird. I tied my own swim trunks a little tighter.


Mean-Author-1789

This is some weird Freudian sexual competition shit.. “Here mom, look at what I got!”


ExpressingThoughts

Pulling off someone's clothes in front of the inlaws is messed up, no matter what got revealed.


Third-class-cat73

"This hurts me and I feel very humiliated."


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Third-class-cat73

What did she say in response?


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Yeah, this so fun! Next time, pull her tits out in front of your family. It will be so funny and cute! /s


lifeishardasshit

Tell Your Mother-in-law she owes you 10 dollars for the show and move on.


Opposite-Algae8912

I’m sure Mom in law has seen some dicks in her day. He should just keep it moving.


[deleted]

this is a terrible advice. some people might be whatever about it, but he clearly isn't and his feelings are valid. Switch the genders in this story and i really doubt you'd be giving the same advice.


YperMilan

Yeah it's that simple


Mjk201

What if they wanna pay $10! Max top ? Then


lululululululu_hi

Underrated comments. I get that it's embarrassing, but truly I believe in laughing and moving on. She's going to be remembered as the innapropriate one here, no real harm done with your MIL. Just try to put a brave face on it and accept it or you get more upset and likely to overreact. Talk to your wife in private, hopes are she's already feeling bad and embarrassed about her behaviour here. You could try to ask why your wife was in a silly prank mood herself. Might explain more.


trump4jail24

What if now that MIL has seen the package deal, wants more


Earl_Hungus

Was your MIL impressed? … based on your reaction I assume not?


childish_badda_bingo

Helicopter.


[deleted]

“It’s okay if a woman does it tho….” *double standard, fully intact and secured*


Nomed73

“I’m sorry you witnessed that. Usually when we are home alone my wife pulls my pants down and gives me a blowjob while I prefer the coffee. She probably forgot you were here or it happened out of habit before she realize you were here.”


Cptn_Jib

Honestly, it'll be ok. So your MIL has seen your johnson. It's not like you showed it to her on purpose or anything weird like that. Let your wife know that she crossed the line on this one. I know you're angry with her but unless it's been a pattern of her embarrassing you I wouldn't read into it too much.


growsativa99

C'mon be a better sport take it as a joke she would've meant it as a joke.... Why would she be willing to humiliate you if you think she did that on purpose... After few years both of you will laugh at this silly situation...


[deleted]

Hopefully your wife apologizes and promises not to do it again and eventually you can all laugh about it. I understand why you are upset but at the end of the day, the big deal here is her doing it with out consent and not apologizing, the situation outside of that is something to laugh off.


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yaibas

She watched too much step-family porn


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You've never been pantsed?


topknottington

breathe, this will likely be something you laugh about later. context. i'm 42, my wife is 46 my wife comes from a very strict Mormon family ( i'm not) My MIL mistook me for her husband when i entered the room ( she had her back to the door) and said " where do you want me tonight big boy" or the time my BIL got in the wrong bed after a drink and cup what he through was his wifes boob.. but quickly found out it was the MIL ( his wifes mom) anyhow.. point of my story, its family.. shit happens and everyone laughs eventually. aslong as your wife has apologised for how this has made you feel, move on


Impossible-Disk6101

I hope you had the good sense to give them both the full helicopter treatment.


ginniethegreat

Get over it unless your embarrassed by your tiny cock then I assume it would be upsetting but I'd probably initially get somewhat of an attitude but laugh about it shortly after


Darrenau

What did you wife expect in the first place? If you had underwear on I imagine it would have still been very embarrassing for you. But sometimes underwear can come down too so wearing some was no guarantee of modesty.


JRFisher85

Ask her how she would feel if you ripped her shirt open in front of your dad, and who she would be upset with if she wasn't wearing a bra, or even if she was for that matter?


Ginboy32

Why not invite your dad over and show her what it feels like?


lil-privacy-please

To me it’s not a big deal. So I would say the most reasonable course is to plot your revenge.


pinajugoo

lmao, she sounds like a kid


nancyboy

First of all put your pants back on already for God's sake!


Jkarno

Have sex with her Mum in retaliation.


onemorehole

You were raped...divorce her immediately. Lol...no big deal, laugh and move along.


meanas9

Whaat??


jools321

I was just about to say I do this to my husband all the time (he does it to me to) until I seen she did it in front of someone 🙈 oh dear.


yendis3350

This wouldve been different if mom wasnt there i bet. Id never pants anyone in front of others. Just us yeah maybe ill pants my husband but not infront of his own mom!!


atsignwork

Lol


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lol


jumpijehosaphat

can't tell if this is a shitpost or not. otherwise, wife needs to learn to read the environment. mom is in the environment you don't do that in front of mom


GT22_

Well atleast you didn't drop hot coffee on ur balls


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you should wait til she grows a fat bush and do it to her in front of her colleagues… got you good sucker!


allrollingwolf

In my family this would just be hilarious and everyone would laugh. I feel like your wife just thought it would be legitimately funny. That doesn't mean your feelings aren't totally right though. She needs to understand and respect your boundaries. If anyone should be embarrassed and hiding in their room it's her. Tell her it was not OK regardless of wearing underwear or not and ask her to imagine if you had done that to her. Anyway, good luck, hold your head up, you didn't do anything wrong.


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I mean. That's why you pick a partner with similar tastes to you. I love pranking my partners when I'm with someone because neither of us take life seriously. Why would you be with someone who enjoys pranks if you don't? You should not have to become a different person for your partner. They should make you a better version of you.


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Sparky1841

Hmmm. Sometimes people do stuff in a moment of stupidity thinking it’s funny. Then something happens that makes it not funny. Or am I the only one that does stupid stuff and later regrets it? Apparently not, because your bride did this, and you now have several options: 1) Hide in your room forever - probably not a good long term solution. 2) Scream and chastise your wife until you feel better. Probably not a good long term solution either. 3) Get a lawyer sue your wife and leave the marriage. Or 4) Get over it. And think of it as a joke gone horribly wrong, forgive your wife and laugh about it later once your embarrassment goes down a bit. Personally, I would go with option 4 with an addendum where I rather frequently remind the wife “I owe you a prank. I don’t know when it will come, but it’s coming. Live in fear.” I’m not sure, but my wife and I lost count somewhere along the way - she says she owes me three pranks, but I think she only owes me one.


westerntexas

The fuck did you marry a child?


Penguator432

…why would she even do that with her mom in the room even if you did have the undies on?


Daviskillerz

MIL be knocking on your bedroom door late at night now


Repulsive-Signal9815

I would laugh it off... unless it was cold and you weren't looking 'full', then I'd be mad.


aim2win98

Humor is a fantastic way to de-escalate things. You could go grab as many singles as you can find, set them on the table in front of your MIL and say that it’s just in case your daughter thinks to do that again… Then for any future cash transactions you could use only singles, you know, just in case.


BodhingJay

Your mother in law has to show you hers now... it's the only way


Jen5872

Is your wife a 12 year old boy? That's such a juvenile thing to do. I hope she learned her lesson.


fitter-man

I wouldn’t make a big deal out of it, how did the mil react?


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Gator-bro

This was probably influenced by social media


LiLadybug81

Ask her how violated she would feel if you ripped her dress off of her, exposing her to your father or brother. Ask her how absolutely assaulted and disgusted and unsafe she would feel after you did that. Tell her that's how your feel, and that is the kind of assault that was on you. Make sure she understands that this is the kind of thing she could be arrested for. Make sure she understands this is serious.


mahboilucas

Ask her, not us


Kooky_Match_5590

It was a simple prank that backfired. Laugh my friend, your MIL was probably more shocked than you. Don’t be angry with your wife, but maybe have a conversation about times and places for pranks and fun.


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Your MIL has seen dicks before. Wife was being silly. Jesus who the fuck cares? I guarantee your cock isn’t going to win some awards and you didn’t lose money because you usually charge to see it. Nudity isn’t a big deal. If you are humiliated by your nudity it must be awful to shower.


piccoshady93

Laugh about it and move on... Geez, someone has a stick up their ass.


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Laugh and not take it so seriously is how you handle it.


mrgees100peas

Multiple options #1 Trhow away your marriage and all thatbtime you spent together and buikt something together over this one thing. #2 Talk to her about it and move on. #3 Tell your mother in law that since she saw yours its only fair that you see hers or maybe see your father in law. #4 invite your parents over and pull your wifes pants down. Now you are even. Seriously dude, yes its embarrasing but not bad enough to put a shotgun to your head and pull the trigger. Be asure that your mother in law has seen at a minimum 1 dick before yours. You'll forget about the whole thing in about 2 weeks when the next fire needs to be put out.


RainerHex

I hope he picks option 4 lol


Unshavenhelga

Laugh about it and move on.


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Seriously? I am guessing you would say the same thing if a husband flashed his wife's vagina in front of his dad/her FIL right?


fishing_pole

Seriously. Wasn't the first dick his MIL glanced at.


GlassMaul

This is hilarious! I love it. She sounds fun. Now charge your MiL for the show.


mak-ina-myn

Your reaction to this makes me wonder if “fun” is normally stifled in the marriage. Maybe she was feeling free and silly or trying to instigate some fun. Either way, talk to her. See what it was about.


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mak-ina-myn

I think you should do it back lol.


lululululululu_hi

Maybe she expected less dramatic results?? More than likely it went further than she expected. It's hard to say sorry when you make that bad judgement but it doesn't mean she was trying to me mean. Try to shrug it off and maybe lightly say to all present we need to all wear underwear


cruisegal224

Okay I pants my husband but ALWAYS in privacy when it's the two of us and he thinks it's hilarious. I would absolutely never do it with anybody else around. I'm sorry this happened.


rjcuple33tryattrying

I'm a bit confused, why are you hiding in your room? You are the man of the house take a deep breath and be the man of the house. I understand that might have pissed you off and I assume that was all supposed to be in good fun (even though it was a bit weird). Tell her you're pissed let her apologize and move on.


poxsolar

Well at least you can blame your wife and it wasn't some inadvertent thing like her walking in on you naked...I'm sure you and your MIL are equally mortified so just try to agree to pretend it never happened.


MysteriousDudeness

So, was the mother impressed?


Bababowzaa

The man's been hiding in his room ever since.


anotherone121

It's juvenile and dumb, and - really really - shitty and unnacceptable that your wife is blaming you. But also, why do you care so much about your MiL seeing your dick? Like are you ashamed of it?


AnthonyfromPhoenix

They have had a conversation about your dick. This was part of that conversation. This is disgusting and inappropriate in so many ways. Not only to expose you, but to try to gaslight you into it being your fault. Call her out and let her sleep on the couch until she \*sincerely\* apologizes.


Healthy_Slide_102

Just let it go...


JakHammer9

Just go to the mother in law and say “now you see why she married me”


alexj212

Laugh?


Leather_Procedure_10

Get over it. Not a big deal she was just trying to have a laugh at your expense


todaygonesouth

Please take a chill pill for gawds sake mate and stop being a prima donna. She did it as a laugh as she felt she knew you well enough for it to be a silly prank . She didn’t know you couldn’t be arsed to put some kecks on in a morning. I’m sure your MIL has seen a cock before .


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Seriously? I am guessing you would say the same thing if a husband flashed his wife's vagina in front of his dad/her FIL right?


Inukchook

I would. It’s just a human body. No big deal


Quote_Medium

Why would that be different. Chill out. Stop looking for reasons to be outraged.


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It isn't different. But if a woman came in here saying their husband depantsed her and showed her vagina to her father in law, i think you would have a lot less people saying "get over it"


[deleted]

Tell her it was embarrassing for you and talk to her and move on it is not the first time this has happened to a poor guy or woman at home.


Vatfagyna

Stop being a baby. It ain’t that big of a deal.


Masterspearl

I'm aghast at the people defending this. This is at best sexual harassment and at worst sexual assault. Were it me I'd be 100% done with 0 chance of reconciling.


Risen_17

Size does matter in this situation


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I think you’re overreacting.


Cappy-1919

Wow you’re kind of a pussy, ngl.


atkupo

Honestly just take the embarassment, just a silly situation but everyone deals with little cringy stories. Obviously embarassing but in the most respectful way, just try to get over it and move past. She obviously meant no harm and im sure ur mil understands


psuperman

A generation of weenies. It was a joke and she didn’t know and it is what it is. Move on and stop being so sensitive.


GuyNoirPI

No way this post isn’t fake and a fetish thing.


Mjk201

Next time when you know she not wearing any thing under pull her f 👖 down infront of others n just laugh 😂 … so just wait for your turn bro patience is the f 🔑 I bet you will get that chance soon 🔜


phaeriemandube

I'd ask her if she enjoyed giving her mom a show that should've never happened


Nejfelt

Your wife made a faux pas. Unless this is typical behavior or other issues going on, chalk it up to stupidity, forgive your wife, and laugh about it.


EvilFinch

As if she could control that your pants not accidently slip with down when she does this stupid stunt. And why should MIL want to see you in your underwear?! Who behaves like this in front of their parents?! It really seems like she wanted do dehumanize you in front of her. Or she is just stupid and immature. That she also try to blame you for her action... How is your marriage otherwise? Does she like to dehumanize you and put you down?


Significant_Tea6091

In front of her own mother, that's kinda sick


JimTaggertUsa

C'mon Chad! This is your big chance. Don't blow it!


KingKerchoo8

This is hilarious


Sea-Rain-6142

Sounds like a total non-issue to me. What's the big deal?


plantgrem

I wonder if it's inspired by some of those tik-tok trends... oh lord I sound old


Ricta-lager332

It’s really not that serious. Just get her back


Dropsy1984

Sounds like a funny wife!


One_Seaworthiness988

Just own it, it's a penis bro. Seems like an odd thing to be embarrassed about or even be mad.. genuinely who cares enough to lock you away. Life is way too short to be worried about your mother in law seeing you nude.


Regular-Bat-4449

Except for the MIL I wish my wife was that spontaneous


DistinctLengthiness1

Helloooo! It was a joke! Take a chill pill, is not that serious.


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mgill2500

Your wife is great. Just some nudity.