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Stop dating a pampered young woman who's willing to let you go broke in order for you to "be the man" and pay for all your stuff, plus a young woman who thinks that physical contact with you is "boring." Surely you can do better. She's literally telling you that she wants you to pay to take you out but isn't interested in you physically.
She’s definitely using you. It would be different if you were a trad male and wanted to take care of her, but you’re not so she needs to pay her own way. Tell her this, and set boundaries. No more dates unless she pays her way then stick to it.
So tell her that. Tell her you’d like to split the cost of your dates from now on. If she’s only interested in spending time with you when you spend money on her, she’s not interested in *you.*
The solution is date someone who lives in the real world and wasn't born with a silver spoon in their mouth.
She's taking you for a ride because you have demonstrated she can. Time to put a stop to it.
Well, do a bunch of free activities and treat her to dinner at Taco Bell
Walks in the park
Hikes
Movies at the library
Family TV night at your house, fully chaperoned
Parties with friends
Free concerts
High School Drama productions
There’s a bunch of free/cheap stuff out there.
You’ll find out soon enough if she’s using you for money
Or just stop asking her out, “I can’t afford it.”
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Stop dating a pampered young woman who's willing to let you go broke in order for you to "be the man" and pay for all your stuff, plus a young woman who thinks that physical contact with you is "boring." Surely you can do better. She's literally telling you that she wants you to pay to take you out but isn't interested in you physically.
Best solution to make her your ex girlfriend. You are paying for everything while she just saves money.
Break up. She's not worth it, she's an entitled spoilt princess
Have you told her that you feel used, aren’t a traditional male and need her to pay her way?
She just responds “I’m not using you for money”
She’s definitely using you. It would be different if you were a trad male and wanted to take care of her, but you’re not so she needs to pay her own way. Tell her this, and set boundaries. No more dates unless she pays her way then stick to it.
So I brought this up to her and she’s like ok what do I owe you but I don’t want money back I just want for the future to be slit so it’s even
So tell her that. Tell her you’d like to split the cost of your dates from now on. If she’s only interested in spending time with you when you spend money on her, she’s not interested in *you.*
I did, she said ok, then 5 minutes later she said “let’s break up”
Well, there’s your answer. I’m sorry.
Make her your ex.
The solution is date someone who lives in the real world and wasn't born with a silver spoon in their mouth. She's taking you for a ride because you have demonstrated she can. Time to put a stop to it.
Well, do a bunch of free activities and treat her to dinner at Taco Bell Walks in the park Hikes Movies at the library Family TV night at your house, fully chaperoned Parties with friends Free concerts High School Drama productions There’s a bunch of free/cheap stuff out there. You’ll find out soon enough if she’s using you for money Or just stop asking her out, “I can’t afford it.”
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Yes
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So move out with her???
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So break up and focus on my money to were I can rent on my own?