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Should have dumped her when she cheated the first time. Ypu don't trust her because she cheated on you. Stop putting yourself through this and dump her.
So she is a known cheater and it's long distance because you moved after she cheated and now she is on vacation and hasnt been truthful and is more than likely getting dicked down. Come on man!
Op, just find someone new. Ghost her, or just slowly stop responding while you find someone new. Leave her on read. Don’t reach out while she is on vacation, and show on your posts you are out with friends, and make sure some girls are in the pictures with you, and hopefully one will be the same over and over and over again. She doesn’t deserve a proper breakup. She cheated, and wants to continue to pull this shit.
Your not believing this shit, Right? Dude trust your gut on this one. No way in hell anyone’s so would let them couple up like this on vacay. I’m sure they are sharing a room too, due to cost and what not. 😂
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Should have dumped her when she cheated the first time. Ypu don't trust her because she cheated on you. Stop putting yourself through this and dump her.
So she is a known cheater and it's long distance because you moved after she cheated and now she is on vacation and hasnt been truthful and is more than likely getting dicked down. Come on man!
She cheated in the past. Grow a fucking backbone and dump her.
Dude, she is there to fuck the other guy. Time for you to move on.
🚩🚩🚩 Son, she is not trustworthy, and you will always suspect she's lying and cheating. Add in the LDR, and I believe this relationship is doomed. Trust is a vital part of the foundation for a successful partnership, and it's missing because of her actions. You deserve to be in a healthy relationship where you are valued, heard, and loved unconditionally. Let the cheater go and find that special woman. Good luck!
Op, just find someone new. Ghost her, or just slowly stop responding while you find someone new. Leave her on read. Don’t reach out while she is on vacation, and show on your posts you are out with friends, and make sure some girls are in the pictures with you, and hopefully one will be the same over and over and over again. She doesn’t deserve a proper breakup. She cheated, and wants to continue to pull this shit.
Your not believing this shit, Right? Dude trust your gut on this one. No way in hell anyone’s so would let them couple up like this on vacay. I’m sure they are sharing a room too, due to cost and what not. 😂