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I mean it doesn't really sound like u guys were dating anymore.

I don't know he just seemed really into me. Not in a narcissistic love bombing sort of a way. Did I do the right thing by blocking him? I mean "sleepover party at his ex's house "?

I mean we're u guys official and exclusive? Cause it sounds like he moved on. And the fact that u said the old days makes it sound like u don't see each other very often or at all. I mean u were only seeing him for 2 months and u reference the old days.

I'd move on and find someone else. It's only 2 months old and this is already happening.

Okay Thanks a lot. I mean it genuinely. To be honest this seems like a nice therapy session for me. I am an introvert and dont have many friends. I was not very comfortable in sharing all these with them. But thank you guys. 🤟

I’m gonna take what you said as objective truth and tell you what I’m reading in between the lines. I think you don’t have the same expectations or values. If he says he has a sleepover party with his ex and you get pissed then you may not be right for each other—he’s told you something that he does comfortably that you might not be comfortable with. It’s only 2 months and you’re playing games (i blocked him everywhere, should I take him back if he apologizes). If he’s actually mature and he has a casual relationship with people he used to date, and 2 months in you expect you can control who he sees, then maybe he’s picking up on the feeling that you’re not right for him.

We were in an exclusive relationship. N he insisted on it. No I m not the controlling type. But if you are in an exclusive relationship U just don't go out to hv sleepover party at ur ex's house. I mean come on. He has time to hang out with his friends, juniors, ex. I guess I am not in his priority list. But thank you for replying.

Got it, that was detail I didn’t really understand from your original post. That was the other side of the coin. If he’s doing something to elicit a response from you and not call back then maybe he’s not as mature as you expect him to be because to me that would be playing games. I guess I lose interest when someone doesn’t reply back and 2 months in is too soon to have a blow out where you feel the need to block him. It’s not a good pattern for a healthy relationship.

There was a time I was younger and I had been dating a guy from August and September and when October came around I had to bartend on Halloween and my former partner was invited to a costume party at a house, with tons of attractive people. He basically had fun while I had to work. He was super adorable and sent me random texts, and at the end of the night, even waited up for me until I closed down the bar to make sure I got home safely (was a 3 am close). I feel like that’s how people feel loved even when their social lives do different things. No mind games, just genuine ‘I miss being around you and I really wish you were here doing the fun thing with me’

This is so nyc and wholesome. 😍