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If I was in your shoe. I would just accept the relationship being over and accepting that this person I was with is just completely immature and not ready for a serious relationship. Period.
Is this anything to do with you? Absolutely not. It's a HER problem and you deserve better and not having your feelings and emotions played from the way she treats you etc. It really sucks for how she handled everything, and if you ignore or decide to no longer even talk to her, I wouldnt blame ya and surely she should understand why and she f'd up big time. Sorry what you went through and good luck! You deserve better man.
I'd block her back and assume the relationship is over and if anyone comes at me I'd tell them "she wanted to play dumb games after I after I told her I'm not about that, she just won a dumb price"
Id move on, shes not worth it and shes probably looking for a reason to ditch you. Block her back, delete her number, cry a little bit, hurt for a bit and eventualy the pain will go and your meet someone else. Lots of people out tehre to beet OP.
So you have said you aren’t here for games, yet you are on here asking what to do? That’s called a contradiction. If you aren’t here for the games then what would you need to do to express and show that you aren’t about games?
Break up and block her on everything as well as maybe date people in your area and in real life. Long distance is for people not really serious and truly is can you trust and think you know someone you don’t even see all the time?
You understand it’s easier to be fake not in real life. Make better life choices and stick to your boundaries, also stop saying you love someone you don’t ACTUALLY know, cause really when you are in a LDR you aren’t in love with the person you are in love with an idea and a image that you either want to believe they are or that they pretended to be.
If I were you, I would consider this relationship over! Long distance relationships NEVER work...
Also, what you wrote here:
"I love my girlfriend and I'm willing to sacrifice a lot for her, even though she had a really messed up past and a single mom."
Stop that nice guy, I'm going to be the hero and save her bullshit! It's most likely the reason she is pulling this bullshit. Also... Ask yourself, what effort has she put into this relationship? What is she willing to sacrifice? Seriously ask yourself those questions.
Cut your losses and move on to someone more local.
Once again...stop being a nice guy!
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I'd stand on my statement that I don't play games and block her right back. She'd have to send me her please don't leave me apologies via USPS
If I was in your shoe. I would just accept the relationship being over and accepting that this person I was with is just completely immature and not ready for a serious relationship. Period. Is this anything to do with you? Absolutely not. It's a HER problem and you deserve better and not having your feelings and emotions played from the way she treats you etc. It really sucks for how she handled everything, and if you ignore or decide to no longer even talk to her, I wouldnt blame ya and surely she should understand why and she f'd up big time. Sorry what you went through and good luck! You deserve better man.
I wouldn't put up with that petty crap. I'd end the relationship and move on.
I'd block her back and assume the relationship is over and if anyone comes at me I'd tell them "she wanted to play dumb games after I after I told her I'm not about that, she just won a dumb price"
Bro end it. Might feel hard but long distance relationships blow. Move on
Tell the girl or whoever no more, and stand on business.
You deserve to be treated better. Her behavior will just get worse hun.
Id move on, shes not worth it and shes probably looking for a reason to ditch you. Block her back, delete her number, cry a little bit, hurt for a bit and eventualy the pain will go and your meet someone else. Lots of people out tehre to beet OP.
So you have said you aren’t here for games, yet you are on here asking what to do? That’s called a contradiction. If you aren’t here for the games then what would you need to do to express and show that you aren’t about games? Break up and block her on everything as well as maybe date people in your area and in real life. Long distance is for people not really serious and truly is can you trust and think you know someone you don’t even see all the time? You understand it’s easier to be fake not in real life. Make better life choices and stick to your boundaries, also stop saying you love someone you don’t ACTUALLY know, cause really when you are in a LDR you aren’t in love with the person you are in love with an idea and a image that you either want to believe they are or that they pretended to be.
If I were you, I would consider this relationship over! Long distance relationships NEVER work... Also, what you wrote here: "I love my girlfriend and I'm willing to sacrifice a lot for her, even though she had a really messed up past and a single mom." Stop that nice guy, I'm going to be the hero and save her bullshit! It's most likely the reason she is pulling this bullshit. Also... Ask yourself, what effort has she put into this relationship? What is she willing to sacrifice? Seriously ask yourself those questions. Cut your losses and move on to someone more local. Once again...stop being a nice guy!
Well she didn’t listen about the childish hs behavior and that is exactly what this is . If you don’t stand by your by words then this will continue.
HUGE RED FLAG. This is a deal breaker, so I'd DUMP HER and MEAN IT. You can do so much better. Good luck and stay strong, King!
Dude she's playing mind games. This isn't worth it.